How do I find a TS girlfriend in San Diego?

[inSD]

I really like looking at very feminine Transsexuals and I've had a couple of experiences in Vegas that I enjoyed. I'm actually considering trying to date one but I don't know how to meet them. I'm not comfortable using a dating site and I don't feel gay so I don't really want to hang out at gay clubs and I rarely go out to straight clubs anymore either. I think I might like having a TS GF that was very fem, pretty, and passable for dating and maybe a LTR but I never see them anywhere.

If anyone has advice where I should go in San Diego to meet one of these lovely ladies please tell me.

Thanks!

btw, I'm 38yo 6'1" 200lbs. decent looking white guy
and sorry if this is the wrong place to post this.

[SunshyneMonroe]

Go on backpage and pay for one :)

[inSD]

Aren't there any girls that aren't for sale though?

[SunshyneMonroe]

Aren't there any girls that aren't for sale though?

Hot?.....no :)

[lifeisfiction]

Your best bet is to take a large empty box and prop it up with a stick while having the open ended part of the box facing down. You get a Tiffiany's diamond necklace (because women love diamonds) place around the stick, so when the necklace is pulled away the box will fall, holding the person there till you are able to inspect the box. You will probably get a few ggs, but you will certainly get a tg after a few attempts.

Sorry for busting your chops, I am sure you will find some good information here. I would suggest checking out the personals. It might be able to assist your search in finding someone. I wish you the best.

[inSD]

Fair enough, I appreciate the honesty. you're hot, would you not ever have a monogamous LTR?

[bulldog]

Finding a woman that is interested in a monogamous LTR on here is NOT going to happen my friend, hit the bars up where they frequent, but keep in mind not to get your hopes up.

[gurkhabeast]

sorry to say but i do agree w/ everyone here. i live in san diego myself had many experiences here in san diego. some i payed for and some i have not. the personals are your best bet. craiglist is good for looking for tgurls and redbox.com is also a good site. and by the way tgurls are everywhere in san diego, you just have to pay more attention. you'll be suprised. and treat tgurls w/ respect and like the ladies they are. i hope that helps.

[mac.B]

I really like looking at very feminine Transsexuals and I've had a couple of experiences in Vegas that I enjoyed. I'm actually considering trying to date one but I don't know how to meet them. I'm not comfortable using a dating site and I don't feel gay so I don't really want to hang out at gay clubs and I rarely go out to straight clubs anymore either. I think I might like having a TS GF that was very fem, pretty, and passable for dating and maybe a LTR but I never see them anywhere.

If anyone has advice where I should go in San Diego to meet one of these lovely ladies please tell me.

Thanks!

btw, I'm 38yo 6'1" 200lbs. decent looking white guy
and sorry if this is the wrong place to post this.

findashemalelover.com

[Stealthnacho]

I've had one in Hawaii but I'm a pretty good looking straight guy, and never had a ts at the time I met her. That's kind of like a badge they wear, a lot of girls are looking to get a straight guy who wants them because they are a hot chick and not because they are a freak with tits and a cock. Looking specifically for a tgirl is a turn off for some reason. Also if you are looking for monogamous good luck. Many, not all but many tgirls are constantly seeking validation once they have yours they needs someone elses.
Anyways, share them ;)
It's fun, and it's one of those freaky things that are usually off the table with GG's, that tgirls enjoy so you should take advantage of the freaky fun nature of that.
Anyway best of luck.

[Richctdude]

you what have to find a club in san diego im sure someone on here knows one..

[Willie Escalade]

you what have to find a club in san diego im sure someone on here knows one..
SRO Bar

[BigBlackMan]

Sorry bro you're not going to have sex with a hot ts for free. THAT WILL NEVER HAPPEN! They don't date or have relationships without cash involved.

[maaarc]

there are no FREE girlfriends be they genetic or transgendered.
that said, I checked Google Earths new TS girlfriend locator and there seems to be hottie near PETCO park right now!!! they'll even send her a text message with your failbook profile stating your interest - go for it :)

[TSMichelleAustin]

Just a piece of advice for all! Girls who are stealth and live normal lives that would want a bf dont frequent gay clubs or ts events. A lot of times they might be standing next to you in line at grocery store. It kills me how people go crazy over not finding a ts. Most ts who live normal lives that are not in porn or escorting dont want people to know they are a ts. And then all the others you gotta pay for or good luck on CL like someone suggested. You never know what your going to get. Most freebies are CDs if thats your thing!

[Dino Velvet]

Don't give up hope. There's gotta be some ladies out there looking for a nice fella.

[BLKGSXR]

Just a piece of advice for all! Girls who are stealth and live normal lives that would want a bf dont frequent gay clubs or ts events. A lot of times they might be standing next to you in line at grocery store. It kills me how people go crazy over not finding a ts. Most ts who live normal lives that are not in porn or escorting dont want people to know they are a ts. And then all the others you gotta pay for or good luck on CL like someone suggested. You never know what your going to get. Most freebies are CDs if thats your thing!
and I can tell which are and arent...this skill I picked up over the years! Lol...Being said im kinna laying low myself! ahh I hope I dont get clocked Lol jk jk
to the Op.- most girls are there for your wallet just hire an hour wife nuff said!

[hwbs]

I had a gf out there in sd and I did meet quite a bit of ts girls out there on my visits .....usually getting dragged to some drag shows and also sro ......there are a lot of ts but to put it lightly its a more mature ts community out there for what I have seen over the years....

[Wendy Summers]

I'll probably be considered a traitor to the cause, but my advice is okcupid.

When I was dating before I got into Adult Entertainment, I had a stealth ad on there. Part of the reason I used the website was their match questions. They have a slew of TS/ TG/ Gender related questions which are frequently answered by everyone not just TSs and their admirers. I could determine whether someone was Ts friendly or not by reading their answers and I didn't need to out myself to sift through guys. I typically waited until the second date or so to make sure there was chemistry before outing myself.

And it does work for the guys... one of our Hung Angels posters dated me through okc LOL.... so there's hope for you.

[inSD]

Good advice, Sounds like the baggage was an issue at least with who you were with. If I happen across a winner I won't let on that I think she's TG. Too bad that this world isn't more accepting of all Gs creatures.


I've had one in Hawaii but I'm a pretty good looking straight guy, and never had a ts at the time I met her. That's kind of like a badge they wear, a lot of girls are looking to get a straight guy who wants them because they are a hot chick and not because they are a freak with tits and a cock. Looking specifically for a tgirl is a turn off for some reason. Also if you are looking for monogamous good luck. Many, not all but many tgirls are constantly seeking validation once they have yours they needs someone elses.
Anyways, share them ;)
It's fun, and it's one of those freaky things that are usually off the table with GG's, that tgirls enjoy so you should take advantage of the freaky fun nature of that.
Anyway best of luck.

[inSD]

Not sure why that's treasonous but thanks I'll take a look at okcupid. The CL ads look pretty questionable and I'm not into CDs at all, plus I don't want a disease ;) I'm also not looking for just a quick hook-up or casual encounter. I'd like to meet a higher caliber person who would be concerned about letting it all hang out on CL. NPI


I'll probably be considered a traitor to the cause, but my advice is okcupid.

When I was dating before I got into Adult Entertainment, I had a stealth ad on there. Part of the reason I used the website was their match questions. They have a slew of TS/ TG/ Gender related questions which are frequently answered by everyone not just TSs and their admirers. I could determine whether someone was Ts friendly or not by reading their answers and I didn't need to out myself to sift through guys. I typically waited until the second date or so to make sure there was chemistry before outing myself.

And it does work for the guys... one of our Hung Angels posters dated me through okc LOL.... so there's hope for you.

[inSD]

I heard SRO but my point is I want to find a girl that doesn't have to go to a known spot. If I saw a really cute TG at the market or whatever I'd talk to her. I just never see them in real life. I saw a really hot girl at waterfront once years ago but it before I was ready and once I saw one at the gym but I wasn't that into her, too ripped.

[inSD]

Well maybe, but I can't imagine that just because someone is TG it means they are looking to make a quick buck. BTW, there's usually a dead giveaway that a girl is TG so I don't think you have some special skill other than being observant. on the other hand if I was surprised I'd be exstatic!


and I can tell which are and arent...this skill I picked up over the years! Lol...Being said im kinna laying low myself! ahh I hope I dont get clocked Lol jk jk
to the Op.- most girls are there for your wallet just hire an hour wife nuff said!

[inSD]

Was at the game the other day. Didn't see her. Thanks for the photoshop hack but I wouldn't quit your day job.



there are no FREE girlfriends be they genetic or transgendered.
that said, I checked Google Earths new TS girlfriend locator and there seems to be hottie near PETCO park right now!!! they'll even send her a text message with your failbook profile stating your interest - go for it :)

[inSD]

Exactly, that's what makes it even better the fact that she passes and it's just our secret. not into CDs or CL ads and risky behavior. Like I said I'm into super feminine women that just happen to have something extra. I actually find them more feminine than a lot of GGs because they are aware of what makes women fem even more than GGs.


Just a piece of advice for all! Girls who are stealth and live normal lives that would want a bf dont frequent gay clubs or ts events. A lot of times they might be standing next to you in line at grocery store. It kills me how people go crazy over not finding a ts. Most ts who live normal lives that are not in porn or escorting dont want people to know they are a ts. And then all the others you gotta pay for or good luck on CL like someone suggested. You never know what your going to get. Most freebies are CDs if thats your thing!

[TSMichelleAustin]

Exactly, that's what makes it even better the fact that she passes and it's just our secret. not into CDs or CL ads and risky behavior. Like I said I'm into super feminine women that just happen to have something extra. I actually find them more feminine than a lot of GGs because they are aware of what makes women fem even more than GGs.

Like i said good luck! Most of those girls are planning to cut their dicks off too! I lived the life in Chicago years before I went into porn. I actually found my husband when I wasnt looking. He wasnt into ts or a chaser. We have now been together 4yrs. Sometimes people come into ur life when ur not looking. Seems u want it so bad u will never find the girl! Stop looking she might fall right into your lap!

[archineer]

I really like looking at very feminine Transsexuals and I've had a couple of experiences in Vegas that I enjoyed. I'm actually considering trying to date one but I don't know how to meet them. I'm not comfortable using a dating site and I don't feel gay so I don't really want to hang out at gay clubs and I rarely go out to straight clubs anymore either. I think I might like having a TS GF that was very fem, pretty, and passable for dating and maybe a LTR but I never see them anywhere.

If anyone has advice where I should go in San Diego to meet one of these lovely ladies please tell me.

Thanks!

btw, I'm 38yo 6'1" 200lbs. decent looking white guy
and sorry if this is the wrong place to post this.

What others have said about ts' loving money is largely true, but be patient - there are decent ts out there too who want an LTR. The problem is they're most likely taken (in my experience). Trannies are either:

1. Not passable
2. On the game
3. Married/engaged

Edit: Also in my case - too tall! (I'm 5'8") :D Why are most of the really beautiful passable TS' pushing 6" in heels?

[archineer]

Like i said good luck! Most of those girls are planning to cut their dicks off too! I lived the life in Chicago years before I went into porn. I actually found my husband when I wasnt looking. He wasnt into ts or a chaser. We have now been together 4yrs. Sometimes people come into ur life when ur not looking. Seems u want it so bad u will never find the girl! Stop looking she might fall right into your lap!


Its 50/50 I reckon at least amongst asians. All of the girls i've met are either already post op, Only want SRS when they're like 50 or don't want it at all.

[bluesoul]

btw, I'm 38yo 6'1" 200lbs. decent looking white guy
and sorry if this is the wrong place to post this.

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[bluesoul]

Why are most of the really beautiful passable TS' pushing 6" in heels?

a great question. also, have you noticed trannies cannot get pregnant? i mean, what's up with that?

[bluesoul]

I really like looking at very feminine Transsexuals and I've had a couple of experiences in Vegas that I enjoyed. I'm actually considering trying to date one but I don't know how to meet them. I'm not comfortable using a dating site and I don't feel gay so I don't really want to hang out at gay clubs and I rarely go out to straight clubs anymore either. I think I might like having a TS GF that was very fem, pretty, and passable for dating and maybe a LTR but I never see them anywhere.

If anyone has advice where I should go in San Diego to meet one of these lovely ladies please tell me.

Thanks!

btw, I'm 38yo 6'1" 200lbs. decent looking white guy
and sorry if this is the wrong place to post this.

you know i just thought of something that can help you. have you ever seen those people that stand on the roadside holding up a sign saying something like "LOCAL STORE CLOSING 50% OFF" sometimes they do tricks with these signs or wave at cars to get their attention- or they're dressed up in a costume etc.

consider making your own sign with directed towards potential transsexual girlfriends. be sure to put everything you already mentioned in your original post- "very fem, pretty, and passable for dating". i've never myself seen it done before so it could be one of those unique things that catches some special girls eye you know what i mean?

[archineer]

a great question. also, have you noticed trannies cannot get pregnant? i mean, what's up with that?
LOL. What I mean is there are loads of ts under say 5'4" but a disproportionate number of the hot ones seem to be very tall.