Why does TS Jess hate Tranny Clubs so much?

[LAtoNY]

(just kidding - I don't really want to start a whole new thread on this):)

[LAtoNY]

...actually TS Jess and I have a little bit in common. I'm hetero but don't really go to hetero clubs -- I prefer tranny clubs.

What a mixed up world!!

[SEXY TS JESS]

Re: Club Shine or Cobra??
Originally Posted by SEXY TS JESS
Straight clubs..... What transwoman wants to go to a "gay" club... For my woman brain.. On my "off the clock" mind... I would perfer a straight club.. Usually where rihanna, chris brown, the game and so on and so on are at... Im there when im in l.a......... Tranny clubs.... I would not even bother.. Unless its for a gurlfriend or a good cause. Then ill show support.. But on myyyyy personal time... Kick rocks lol.. But cobra is ur best bet..... Is michael on here? I met him there b 4.... Hes a local and all over the blktgirls forums..

Please keep in mind... We have female brains... And im not judging the tranny clubs.. Not my speed
Hmmm. OK. Well, "transwomen" DO go to tranny clubs...or they wouldn't BE called tranny clubs.



Hmmm. OK. Well, "transwomen" DO go to tranny clubs...or they wouldn't BE called tranny clubs.

I get that you want everyone to know that "YOU" wouldn't be caught dead in a tranny club. And that's fine. At least you provided me a reply and I appreciate that! Thanks.

IS THIS THE SAME PERSON THAT MADE A "THREAD" ABOUT ME SAYING WHY DO I "HATE" GOING TO "TRANNY CLUBS" ? HATE IS SUCH A HARSH WORD. FROM MY REPLY ABOVE.... I DONT GET HATE. I HAVE BEEN TO TRANNY CLUBS B 4 ONLY IN GOOD CAUSES OR BENIFITS FOR SUPPORT. WHAT PART OF "OFF THE CLOCK AND IN MY PERSONAL LIFE" I DONT WANT TO SPEND MY TIME DEALING WITH THE FOLLOWING TYPE OF SITUATIONS "AT A CLUB"

1. MEN WHO SAY OHH YOU LOOK BETTER IN PERSON THAN ONLINE
2. TELL ME HOW GORGEOUS I AM...THEN 2 SECONDS LATER HES TALKING TO "TV ANNA BELLE HOLE PUNCHER" TELLING THEM THE SAME THING ^^^ ABOVE
3. MEN WHO COME UP TO ME ASKING HOW MUCH I "CHARGE"
4. MEN WHO "THINK THERE "ATTRACTIVE" OR "CUTE/SEXY" THINKING IT WILL GET ME TO LEAVE THE CLUB WITH THEM. "KNOWINGLY" IM AN ESCORT THINKING THEY WILL GET ONE FOR THE RECORD.
5. SEEING GURLS COME AND GO THROUGHOUT THE NIGHT (TRICKING IN THE CLUB)
6. SEEING STREET WALKERS "PARKING LOT PIMP" OUTSIDE THE CLUB.
7. DEALING WITH (FOR THE MOST PART) UNATTRACTIVE OLD MEN CHASING IN THE CLUB
8. THE GRAND FINALE ... DEALING WITH A MAN WHO I KNOW OF DEAL WITH A PERSON I KNOW OF PERSONALLY THAT IS STI/HIV INFECTED AND COME AND ATTEMPT TO TALK TO ME. THATS NONE OF MY BUSINESS WHAT THEY DID/DO. I JUST DONT WANT TO HAVE ANY PARTS. <<TOUCHY SUBJECT.

9. A LOT OF THE PEOPLE IN THE INDUSTRY AND LIFESTYLE ARE DISGUSTING. WHERE "MONEY HAS triumphant MORALITY TO A LOT OF DEGREES. SOME LESS SOME MORE SOME NOT ENOUGH.

NOW LA2NY... THIS IS ALL MY OPINION. THIS IS WHAT I CHOOSE "NOT" TO DEAL WITH WHEN IM JUST TRYING TO HAVE A GOOD TIME "OFF THE CLOCK" IN MY "PERSONAL" LIFE. DO YOU UNDERSTAND NOW? SO DONT USE MY NAME WITH ANYTHING ASSOCIATED WITH THE WORD "HATE" THANKS.

[Nicole Dupre]

Re: Club Shine or Cobra??
Originally Posted by SEXY TS JESS
Straight clubs..... What transwoman wants to go to a "gay" club... For my woman brain.. On my "off the clock" mind... I would perfer a straight club.. Usually where rihanna, chris brown, the game and so on and so on are at... Im there when im in l.a......... Tranny clubs.... I would not even bother.. Unless its for a gurlfriend or a good cause. Then ill show support.. But on myyyyy personal time... Kick rocks lol.. But cobra is ur best bet..... Is michael on here? I met him there b 4.... Hes a local and all over the blktgirls forums..

Please keep in mind... We have female brains... And im not judging the tranny clubs.. Not my speed
Hmmm. OK. Well, "transwomen" DO go to tranny clubs...or they wouldn't BE called tranny clubs.




IS THIS THE SAME PERSON THAT MADE A "THREAD" ABOUT ME SAYING WHY DO I "HATE" GOING TO "TRANNY CLUBS" ? HATE IS SUCH A HARSH WORD. FROM MY REPLY ABOVE.... I DONT GET HATE. I HAVE BEEN TO TRANNY CLUBS B 4 ONLY IN GOOD CAUSES OR BENIFITS FOR SUPPORT. WHAT PART OF "OFF THE CLOCK AND IN MY PERSONAL LIFE" I DONT WANT TO SPEND MY TIME DEALING WITH THE FOLLOWING TYPE OF SITUATIONS "AT A CLUB"

1. MEN WHO SAY OHH YOU LOOK BETTER IN PERSON THAN ONLINE
2. TELL ME HOW GORGEOUS I AM...THEN 2 SECONDS LATER HES TALKING TO "TV ANNA BELLE HOLE PUNCHER" TELLING THEM THE SAME THING ^^^ ABOVE
3. MEN WHO COME UP TO ME ASKING HOW MUCH I "CHARGE"
4. MEN WHO "THINK THERE "ATTRACTIVE" OR "CUTE/SEXY" THINKING IT WILL GET ME TO LEAVE THE CLUB WITH THEM. "KNOWINGLY" IM AN ESCORT THINKING THEY WILL GET ONE FOR THE RECORD.
5. SEEING GURLS COME AND GO THROUGHOUT THE NIGHT (TRICKING IN THE CLUB)
6. SEEING STREET WALKERS "PARKING LOT PIMP" OUTSIDE THE CLUB.
7. DEALING WITH (FOR THE MOST PART) UNATTRACTIVE OLD MEN CHASING IN THE CLUB
8. THE GRAND FINALE ... DEALING WITH A MAN WHO I KNOW OF DEAL WITH A PERSON I KNOW OF PERSONALLY THAT IS STI/HIV INFECTED AND COME AND ATTEMPT TO TALK TO ME. THATS NONE OF MY BUSINESS WHAT THEY DID/DO. I JUST DONT WANT TO HAVE ANY PARTS. <<TOUCHY SUBJECT.

9. A LOT OF THE PEOPLE IN THE INDUSTRY AND LIFESTYLE ARE DISGUSTING. WHERE "MONEY HAS triumphant MORALITY TO A LOT OF DEGREES. SOME LESS SOME MORE SOME NOT ENOUGH.

NOW LA2NY... THIS IS ALL MY OPINION. THIS IS WHAT I CHOOSE "NOT" TO DEAL WITH WHEN IM JUST TRYING TO HAVE A GOOD TIME "OFF THE CLOCK" IN MY "PERSONAL" LIFE. DO YOU UNDERSTAND NOW? SO DONT USE MY NAME WITH ANYTHING ASSOCIATED WITH THE WORD "HATE" THANKS.
Thank you. Co-sign. They suck. If that's what girls call "going out for a night of fun", they're either full of shit or very desperate. The only reason to bother with them is $. Otherwise, going to a TS club is like going to a circus tent with the word "freak" written across your forehead. Basically, they're indoor strolls.

[SEXY TS JESS]

thank you. Co-sign. They suck. If that's what girls call "going out for a night of fun", they're either full of shit or very desperate. The only reason to bother with them is $. Otherwise, going to a ts club is like going to a circus tent with the word "freak" written across your forehead. Basically, they're indoor strolls.

amen !! Lls its the truth

calls my gurl amber rose... Put me on the list for 1+3
now thats a night of fun !!

[bulge]

Are there any tranny clubs even gay bars where the girls hang in south florida miami ft lauderdale area?

[LibertyHarkness]

i get asked this abit as well ..where do i go out etc ..

if i go out your most likely to see me in a pub or a slug n lettuce bar etc .. or one of riverside bars in kingston/richmond..

I am not really into any clubs period ..be it straight/gay/Tranny ..i do on rare occassion visit a tranny club with friends etc .. maybe once a year .. Personally i just like to have non sexual normal conversations with people when out..which i find hard in a tranny club ... Wayout CLub for example i just want to fight people within 15min of entering :)

[LibertyHarkness]

not sure what clubs are like in usa as i only went to one last month

[italianamerican25]

Re: Club Shine or Cobra??
Originally Posted by SEXY TS JESS
Straight clubs..... What transwoman wants to go to a "gay" club... For my woman brain.. On my "off the clock" mind... I would perfer a straight club.. Usually where rihanna, chris brown, the game and so on and so on are at... Im there when im in l.a......... Tranny clubs.... I would not even bother.. Unless its for a gurlfriend or a good cause. Then ill show support.. But on myyyyy personal time... Kick rocks lol.. But cobra is ur best bet..... Is michael on here? I met him there b 4.... Hes a local and all over the blktgirls forums..

Please keep in mind... We have female brains... And im not judging the tranny clubs.. Not my speed
Hmmm. OK. Well, "transwomen" DO go to tranny clubs...or they wouldn't BE called tranny clubs.




IS THIS THE SAME PERSON THAT MADE A "THREAD" ABOUT ME SAYING WHY DO I "HATE" GOING TO "TRANNY CLUBS" ? HATE IS SUCH A HARSH WORD. FROM MY REPLY ABOVE.... I DONT GET HATE. I HAVE BEEN TO TRANNY CLUBS B 4 ONLY IN GOOD CAUSES OR BENIFITS FOR SUPPORT. WHAT PART OF "OFF THE CLOCK AND IN MY PERSONAL LIFE" I DONT WANT TO SPEND MY TIME DEALING WITH THE FOLLOWING TYPE OF SITUATIONS "AT A CLUB"

1. MEN WHO SAY OHH YOU LOOK BETTER IN PERSON THAN ONLINE
2. TELL ME HOW GORGEOUS I AM...THEN 2 SECONDS LATER HES TALKING TO "TV ANNA BELLE HOLE PUNCHER" TELLING THEM THE SAME THING ^^^ ABOVE
3. MEN WHO COME UP TO ME ASKING HOW MUCH I "CHARGE"
4. MEN WHO "THINK THERE "ATTRACTIVE" OR "CUTE/SEXY" THINKING IT WILL GET ME TO LEAVE THE CLUB WITH THEM. "KNOWINGLY" IM AN ESCORT THINKING THEY WILL GET ONE FOR THE RECORD.
5. SEEING GURLS COME AND GO THROUGHOUT THE NIGHT (TRICKING IN THE CLUB)
6. SEEING STREET WALKERS "PARKING LOT PIMP" OUTSIDE THE CLUB.
7. DEALING WITH (FOR THE MOST PART) UNATTRACTIVE OLD MEN CHASING IN THE CLUB
8. THE GRAND FINALE ... DEALING WITH A MAN WHO I KNOW OF DEAL WITH A PERSON I KNOW OF PERSONALLY THAT IS STI/HIV INFECTED AND COME AND ATTEMPT TO TALK TO ME. THATS NONE OF MY BUSINESS WHAT THEY DID/DO. I JUST DONT WANT TO HAVE ANY PARTS. <<TOUCHY SUBJECT.

9. A LOT OF THE PEOPLE IN THE INDUSTRY AND LIFESTYLE ARE DISGUSTING. WHERE "MONEY HAS triumphant MORALITY TO A LOT OF DEGREES. SOME LESS SOME MORE SOME NOT ENOUGH.

NOW LA2NY... THIS IS ALL MY OPINION. THIS IS WHAT I CHOOSE "NOT" TO DEAL WITH WHEN IM JUST TRYING TO HAVE A GOOD TIME "OFF THE CLOCK" IN MY "PERSONAL" LIFE. DO YOU UNDERSTAND NOW? SO DONT USE MY NAME WITH ANYTHING ASSOCIATED WITH THE WORD "HATE" THANKS.


I can totally respect that... that's for sure.

[SEXY TS JESS]

i can totally respect that... That's for sure.

thanks

[Nicole Dupre]

Just to clarify, those parties are great in the sense of supply and demand. For guys who've never even knowingly met a transsexual, they finally have their opportunity. Anything else agreed upon between two consenting adults is a private matter. Therefore those guys may even get laid. And the girls, as much as it doesn't fill that void for me, have some sense of community I suppose.

Personally I prefer mixed clubs, like what goes on at Club Voodoo on Sunday nights in Fort Lauderdale, and drag events because they negate the blatant meat market atmosphere.

But for a girl who just wants to enjoy her stealth existence, and doesn't need the validation of coins for sex, the parties are counterproductive. Making coins is great, but there's a life outside of that world. And any girl who limits herself to only socializing as a provider is robbing herself of an integral part of her womanhood. :2cent

Peace out on this topic, motherfuckers. :)

[SEXY TS JESS]

just to clarify, those parties are great in the sense of supply and demand. For guys who've never even knowingly met a transsexual, they finally have their opportunity. Anything else agreed upon between two consenting adults is a private matter. Therefore those guys may even get laid. And the girls, as much as it doesn't fill that void for me, have some sense of community i suppose.

Personally i prefer mixed clubs, like what goes on at club voodoo on sunday nights in fort lauderdale, and drag events because they negate the blatant meat market atmosphere.

But for a girl who just wants to enjoy her stealth existence, and doesn't need the validation of coins for sex, the parties are counterproductive. Making coins is great, but there's a life outside of that world. And any girl who limits herself to only socializing as a provider is robbing herself of an integral part of her womanhood. :2cent

peace out on this topic, motherfuckers. :)


xoxox well said muahhh

[TSMichelleAustin]

Yea I never go to TS Clubs or parties unless I am hosting or getting paid to be there. I did go to Blue Moon often but that was because I was helping and MCing. But in my normal life I never go out to clubs, and if I do its rare. I dont like to drink a lot and I hate loud music. Now that I am in Vegas I like to go to the bar, have a martini and set and play black jack! LOL

Tons of people ask do you go to LV Lounge? And I say fuck NO! They are not paying me to be there, I dont need to go see a bunch of CDs in wigs or girls working. I rather be out enjoying a cocktail where I am not getting pushed on to give freebies!

[SEXY TS JESS]

yea i never go to ts clubs or parties unless i am hosting or getting paid to be there. I did go to blue moon often but that was because i was helping and mcing. But in my normal life i never go out to clubs, and if i do its rare. I dont like to drink a lot and i hate loud music. Now that i am in vegas i like to go to the bar, have a martini and set and play black jack! Lol

tons of people ask do you go to lv lounge? And i say fuck no! They are not paying me to be there, i dont need to go see a bunch of cds in wigs or girls working. I rather be out enjoying a cocktail where i am not getting pushed on to give freebies!

xoxoxox muahhhhh !!

[TSMichelleAustin]

A lot of guys dont understand that most of us girls even in sex industry live pretty normal lives outside out our work. We dont want to be associated with that lifestyle or life. The other week was at Aria with my gay friend and his sugardaddy, having a blast out eating and gambling... guys were talking to me, hitting on me, etc. No clue I was trans. I just like to go out and have fun where the focus isnt on what I have between my legs! I love my lowkey life! Guys wanna see me they can call and pay! I had a guy the next day call and said he seen me out and tried to get a freebie off my ad. I was like no sir, you are calling my ad it cost!

[SEXY TS JESS]

a lot of guys dont understand that most of us girls even in sex industry live pretty normal lives outside out our work. We dont want to be associated with that lifestyle or life. The other week was at aria with my gay friend and his sugardaddy, having a blast out eating and gambling... Guys were talking to me, hitting on me, etc. No clue i was trans. I just like to go out and have fun where the focus isnt on what i have between my legs! I love my lowkey life! Guys wanna see me they can call and pay! I had a guy the next day call and said he seen me out and tried to get a freebie off my ad. I was like no sir, you are calling my ad it cost!

ma, they think that we dont have "personal" lives. Thats what it is.. You know i tell em.... They have all these opinions and dumb logics to make what they do with us make sense in there heads then go back to their "normal" lives after they nut.... Well i do the same toooooooo lol funnnnny lls

[Tran Fan]

I'm not really into TS clubs either, the only one that I would go to is Secret Lounge because it is all TS women and guys who are into them, not a mixed crowd. If I'm looking for a TS girl, I want to hit a spot where I know I can find them. If you are looking to party and hit a spot where TS girls like to party and dance, then Pacha is the place on Saturday nights. Hot girls are out to have a good time but they definitely don't want to chill with some middle aged tranny chaser dude. Young in shape guys can get some play

[Nicole Dupre]

I'm not really into TS clubs either, the only one that I would go to is Secret Lounge because it is all TS women and guys who are into them, not a mixed crowd. If I'm looking for a TS girl, I want to hit a spot where I know I can find them. If you are looking to party and hit a spot where TS girls like to party and dance, then Pacha is the place on Saturday nights. Hot girls are out to have a good time but they definitely don't want to chill with some middle aged tranny chaser dude. Young in shape guys can get some play
That's what I like; a place where you're actually interacting the same way straight guys and GGs do in straight clubs. If I wanted to work, I'd have an ad placed, stayed at home, and web surfed with my phone next to me.

If I'm going out to have fun, I don't want to be "on call". To me, that's like being on a stroll. I'd rather take my chances in a straight bar, and whisper in a guy's ear, "My cootch is an outie...". I'm not scared to do things like that. I've hooked up with guys doing things like that. lol

They called those events in NY a "strip club", but I knew they wouldn't be. They're just another kind of party. There are no real transsexual gentlemen's clubs like there are GG ones. Places like Flashdancer's in Manhattan with transsexuals don't exist. Places where mobsters and biker types hire the talent are the real deal. When you have transsexuals and queens running the show, even if the head bitch in charge is a lovely person, you're still going to have to deal with shady queens. Who needs it?

[Chuck]

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[SEXY TS JESS]

i'm not really into ts clubs either, the only one that i would go to is secret lounge because it is all ts women and guys who are into them, not a mixed crowd. If i'm looking for a ts girl, i want to hit a spot where i know i can find them. If you are looking to party and hit a spot where ts girls like to party and dance, then pacha is the place on saturday nights. Hot girls are out to have a good time but they definitely don't want to chill with some middle aged tranny chaser dude. Young in shape guys can get some play

agreed.. But even still i go there and i have a freakin blasttttt with my gurls.. And then the cuties are still clients.. It just happened to me b for i left the usa..

Client calls my phone.. Says can i take u to pacha tonight... Noooooo but you can book an appointment... Then we can go... Like wtf lol lol lol lolz

[SEXY TS JESS]

that's what i like; a place where you're actually interacting the same way straight guys and ggs do in straight clubs. If i wanted to work, i'd have an ad placed, stayed at home, and web surfed with my phone next to me.

If i'm going out to have fun, i don't want to be "on call". To me, that's like being on a stroll. I'd rather take my chances in a straight bar, and whisper in a guy's ear, "my cootch is an outie...". I'm not scared to do things like that. I've hooked up with guys doing things like that. Lol

they called those events in ny a "strip club", but i knew they wouldn't be. They're just another kind of party. There are no real transsexual gentlemen's clubs like there are gg ones. Places like flashdancer's in manhattan with transsexuals don't exist. Places where mobsters and biker types hire the talent are the real deal. When you have transsexuals and queens running the show, even if the head bitch in charge is a lovely person, you're still going to have to deal with shady queens. Who needs it?

agreeeeeeeeeee's !!! Now, this topic was intended for me.. And i think we really answered the questions and informed the ts admirers adequately.... So yall need to stop looking for ts clubs and go to regular club.. Or keep it online set up ur appointments with the ones u like.. Then offer to go to the club .. I think thts the best bet.. Put your money where your mouth issssssss lol

[alyssaluxor]

I always got asked by guys what clubs I go and where are the TS clubs

The truth is i rarely go to clubs maybe once in a year lol! And If i go to club I go to straight club not in a TS club.

Just for the info, in Asia theres not really too much TS clubs because TS girls here doesnt need and like to go to them. Why not just go to straight club and hunt for yummy hot straight guys who will treat you like a girl and not into TS chasers lol

[SEXY TS JESS]

i always got asked by guys what clubs i go and where are the ts clubs

the truth is i rarely go to clubs maybe once in a year lol! And if i go to club i go to straight club not in a ts club.

Just for the info, in asia theres not really too much ts clubs because ts girls here doesnt need and like to go to them. Why not just go to straight club and hunt for yummy hot straight guys who will treat you like a girl and not into ts chasers lol

u r fuckin gorgeous!!!!!!!!!!!!!! And u said it best i could not agree more.

[alyssaluxor]

u r fuckin gorgeous!!!!!!!!!!!!!! And u said it best i could not agree more.

girl I would look like your personal assistant when im beside you, youre stunning!

[giovanni_hotel]

Another personal fantasy has been group shat on!!!

Thanx a lot.

So, are there 'clues' you're dealing with a TS who's burnt??(infected)
Besides being symptomatic??

That shit had slipped my mind as a concern for a while.

[hwbs]

There is nothing wrong with ts clubs imo...I wouldn't take my gf cause I have learned enough by now that its never a good time for me cause of the unneeded attention......but I also hate str8 clubs in general...my last gf lived in boston and its truly a swordfight type town.... even if the guys didn't know she was ts u get plenty of run in with a bunch of drunk dudes trying to score......nyc totally different cause the women tend to outnumber the men and never really had any issues going out @ night @ str8 places....

[LibertyHarkness]

i agree with that about our real lives off cam/escorting etc ..

me i am very quiet person and keep my private life just that ...i dont feel a need to go out and broadcast i am a TS ...if i am asked then i am honest and answer ...

I have been in places where guys have danced with me, well if you can call my attempt at dancing actually dancing :) and they have got abit touchy feely and i ahve had to tell them .. generally they either fuck off, make a weird comment or just carry on regardless.

I have also diffused situations with guys that got abit larey about it at first, but once explaining to them what a TS is what a CD is etc ..they can actually be quite cool about it ..

They big gripe i have with ts places is simply that most (not all) but most of the men presume as i am a TS in TS place that i want to get fucked at end of night ..

[LAtoNY]

Wow. Such a paradox.

I understand the comments...and can appreciate the feeling. Really.

But it seems to me, in one way, that avoiding TS Clubs puts both parties at a disadvantage (Party 1 being the normal well adjusted TS who just wants to meet a nice guy, and Party 2 being a normal well adjusted guy who just wants to have a nice time w/ a TS, not necessarily culminating in wild sex).

I consider myself a well adjusted successful guy and I travel pretty much for a living. When I'm in a new state or country, I like to seek out the places to meet TS girls. Not because I'm "looking for freebies", but because it would be fun to have a few drinks and hang out. If, by chance, it leads to sex -- then so be it, right?? I mean, when guys go to a straight club looking for women, that sometimes leads to sex as well. Does that mean they're "looking for freebies?" That's a bit of backward thinking.

At least when a TS goes to a TS club, it's filled w/ guys who like TS women. If a TS goes to a straight club, the probability that you'll meet a great guy who is looking for a TS is, predictably, very low.

Listen, like I said, I get it. I joke around on this forum just because that's my personality. But I understand there are issues that you girls face that we will never understand.

...so...where are we all going tonight??:)

[LibertyHarkness]

tonight i am going to the bowling disco :) imma big girl now so i can have a cup of beer and smash some skittles and have a little flutter on the fruit machines :)

[Nicole Dupre]

Wow. Such a paradox.

I understand the comments...and can appreciate the feeling. Really.

But it seems to me, in one way, that avoiding TS Clubs puts both parties at a disadvantage (Party 1 being the normal well adjusted TS who just wants to meet a nice guy, and Party 2 being a normal well adjusted guy who just wants to have a nice time w/ a TS, not necessarily culminating in wild sex).

I consider myself a well adjusted successful guy and I travel pretty much for a living. When I'm in a new state or country, I like to seek out the places to meet TS girls. Not because I'm "looking for freebies", but because it would be fun to have a few drinks and hang out. If, by chance, it leads to sex -- then so be it, right?? I mean, when guys go to a straight club looking for women, that sometimes leads to sex as well. Does that mean they're "looking for freebies?" That's a bit of backward thinking.

At least when a TS goes to a TS club, it's filled w/ guys who like TS women. If a TS goes to a straight club, the probability that you'll meet a great guy who is looking for a TS is, predictably, very low.

Listen, like I said, I get it. I joke around on this forum just because that's my personality. But I understand there are issues that you girls face that we will never understand.

...so...where are we all going tonight??:)
That's ridiculous. It's a meat market. The parties are shamelessly promoted as porn and stripper events. You'd have to be pretty cluess to not understand what the atmosphere of such a thing is geared towards. If you wanted a real date, you have other options. If getting laid is your goal, bring donation money. Otherwise, you'll seem like the guy who goes to a pizza place 5 minutes before they close, who asks if they have any slices that they're just going to toss in the garbage. Or like the guy who hits on the drunkest girl in a straight bar. Good luck with that, big spender. Lol

[SEXY TS JESS]

that's ridiculous. It's a meat market. The parties are shamelessly promoted as porn and stripper events. You'd have to be pretty cluess to not understand what the atmosphere of such a thing is geared towards. If you wanted a real date, you have other options. If getting laid is your goal, bring donation money. Otherwise, you'll seem like the guy who goes to a pizza place 5 minutes before they close, who asks if they have any slices that they're just going to toss in the garbage. Or like the guy who hits on the drunkest girl in a straight bar. Good luck with that, big spender. Lol

bytch u betta tell em mrs. Dupre !!!!! When we going to ki ki and get lunch lol

[SEXY TS JESS]

one more p.o.v.

How can men "expect" to go just have a good time and "not" expect to have sex or just "chill" with ts.. WHEN most of the PARTIES are hosted or have PORN affiliated stars.. just a thought that ran through my minds.. then the MARKETING scheme is on PORN based sites.... sooooooooo ... yeah lol

[SammiValentine]

Wow. Such a paradox.

I understand the comments...and can appreciate the feeling. Really.

But it seems to me, in one way, that avoiding TS Clubs puts both parties at a disadvantage (Party 1 being the normal well adjusted TS who just wants to meet a nice guy, and Party 2 being a normal well adjusted guy who just wants to have a nice time w/ a TS, not necessarily culminating in wild sex).

I consider myself a well adjusted successful guy and I travel pretty much for a living. When I'm in a new state or country, I like to seek out the places to meet TS girls. Not because I'm "looking for freebies", but because it would be fun to have a few drinks and hang out. If, by chance, it leads to sex -- then so be it, right?? I mean, when guys go to a straight club looking for women, that sometimes leads to sex as well. Does that mean they're "looking for freebies?" That's a bit of backward thinking.

At least when a TS goes to a TS club, it's filled w/ guys who like TS women. If a TS goes to a straight club, the probability that you'll meet a great guy who is looking for a TS is, predictably, very low.

Listen, like I said, I get it. I joke around on this forum just because that's my personality. But I understand there are issues that you girls face that we will never understand.

...so...where are we all going tonight??:)

like i said, staying in :D

[FreddieGomez]

kinda glad i dont go to tranny parties now

[LAtoNY]

...which brings me to the even more interesting paradox. Genetic girl hookers don't have such a searing hate for the guys who pay for their services -- it's funny that a certain "subset" of trannies display this bizarre hatred (I think it's a rather small subset to be fair - perhaps limited to the T Girls sitting at home beating off to gay porn and posting on HA all night).:jerkoff

Hmmm, anyway - I'm off to meet some "normal" TS girls!!

Enjoy the night!

[TSMichelleAustin]

Even in past when I would go to the gay club with my ts gfs we would get hit on by tranny chasers wanting to fuck. And we never went out for that, we went out for drinks and to party! I think what you dont understand LAtoNY most guys into TS that go to those party only want to fuck and go back to their wives and gfs. its a fantasy not a life they would ever live. I met my husband at a transgendered convention and no he wasnt their as a typical tranny chaser you see at those things setting in the lobby hoping to get action with one of us ladies. He was the entertainment and I happened to hit on him. I didnt think I had a chance, he was a str8 man hired to do his job. Just like many times in a str8 club 9 times out of 10 if I told a guy I was trans they still were intrigued and still set and chatted to me. Even a few times I had flings in my younger days! So it is possible for us girls to go to regular places that normal people frequent and meet genuine nice guys that aren't chasing us for a fantasy!

[amberskyi]

what i really dont understand is why guys dont get that we desire/have normal social interactions outside of the industry.
we cant breath,sleep and eat sex/porn.the girls that do are the ones that get burned out and turn to drugs and other things to cope.
after a long day/week of dealing with clients the last place i want to spend my down time is a venue full of client types and other sex workers.everyone knows what the ts clubs are about.the girls go there to work and little else.
last year i actually went to a ny hungangels meet up at one of the ts clubs.i made the mistake of thinking that i could go there hang out,have a few drinks,meet some of the guys and rock out in typical amber fashion.booyyyyy was i wrong.it was nothing but a meat market.the girls walking around trying to score tricks "hi daddy...wanna buy me a drink" and the few guys off the forum staring at me like i was surreal.dont get me wrong there is a time and place for everything but when i just want to hang the last place you will find me at is a ts venue.

[Nicole Dupre]

...which brings me to the even more interesting paradox. Genetic girl hookers don't have such a searing hate for the guys who pay for their services -- it's funny that a certain "subset" of trannies display this bizarre hatred (I think it's a rather small subset to be fair - perhaps limited to the T Girls sitting at home beating off to gay porn and posting on HA all night).:jerkoff

Hmmm, anyway - I'm off to meet some "normal" TS girls!!

Enjoy the night!
You're "off" to be a text book example of a tranny chaser. Who are you bullshitting here? lol

We're just being honest. You're the one with the word "hate" in your brain. You started a troll thread and now you're just pissed that we all see right through you. None of the girls on this thread seem like haters to me. Maybe to you they do because you're all pissed that your mythical "hooker with a heart of gold" doesn't exist and never will. lol

Newsflash: no one's giving away what you want at those parties unless they have low self esteem and you're taking advantage of them. Don't piss on our backs and tell us it's raining. Thanks.

[SEXY TS JESS]

...which brings me to the even more interesting paradox. Genetic girl hookers don't have such a searing hate for the guys who pay for their services -- it's funny that a certain "subset" of trannies display this bizarre hatred (I think it's a rather small subset to be fair - perhaps limited to the T Girls sitting at home beating off to gay porn and posting on HA all night).:jerkoff

Hmmm, anyway - I'm off to meet some "normal" TS girls!!

Enjoy the night!

when did being a ts become normal?

[SEXY TS JESS]

what i really dont understand is why guys dont get that we desire/have normal social interactions outside of the industry.
we cant breath,sleep and eat sex/porn.the girls that do are the ones that get burned out and turn to drugs and other things to cope.
after a long day/week of dealing with clients the last place i want to spend my down time is a venue full of client types and other sex workers.everyone knows what the ts clubs are about.the girls go there to work and little else.
last year i actually went to a ny hungangels meet up at one of the ts clubs.i made the mistake of thinking that i could go there hang out,have a few drinks,meet some of the guys and rock out in typical amber fashion.booyyyyy was i wrong.it was nothing but a meat market.the girls walking around trying to score tricks "hi daddy...wanna buy me a drink" and the few guys off the forum staring at me like i was surreal.dont get me wrong there is a time and place for everything but when i just want to hang the last place you will find me at is a ts venue.

gurl, WE are their TOYS.. and they think we have nothing better to do than SIT and WAIT for them or be there ON CALL.... but yet OUTSIDE of this forum/sites/or escorting... they GO BACK to there "normal" lives.... chile boo !! i would not be going to no dam TS club... ughhhh it makes my hair stand up.

[Nicole Dupre]

when did being a ts become normal?
Obviously he's an expert on "hookers". He should be proud. lol

He's been on this forum for 8 years and he supposedly goes to the parties just to have a chat and a drink. Uhhhh yeah. Sure. lol

[dafame]

Who cares why

[BigBlackMan]

I also wonder why men think they're going to get freebies with passive ts because of their looks. If you don't have the cash, you won't get the ass.

[Nicole Dupre]

I also wonder why men think they're going to get freebies with passive ts because of their looks. If you don't have the cash, you won't get the ass.
If men want to approach a transsexual like any other girl, talk to her, maybe date her, etc, they shouldn't go looking among the ones doing porn and escorting. You'd have to be seriously stupid if you did. Go on a TS dating site maybe, if that's what you wanted. But it's not our problem to find the guys looking for us. We're a lot more rare and hard to find than most guys want to accept. That's just reality. We provide you guys with short cuts to get in our panties and see us, but we ask for a donation. Otherwise, you have to deal with fate, just like any other guy going through life who's looking for a woman to be with. It's not rocket science, and we're not making it personal. You don't take it personally that a gourmet chef isn't letting you follow him home from the restaurant and cooking you a free dinner. So don't take it personally that we provide you guys with an opportunity as professionals, to let you sample what we're cooking. :)

[LAtoNY]

You're "off" to be a text book example of a tranny chaser. Who are you bullshitting here? lol

We're just being honest. You're the one with the word "hate" in your brain. You started a troll thread and now you're just pissed that we all see right through you. None of the girls on this thread seem like haters to me. Maybe to you they do because you're all pissed that your mythical "hooker with a heart of gold" doesn't exist and never will. lol

Newsflash: no one's giving away what you want at those parties unless they have low self esteem and you're taking advantage of them. Don't piss on our backs and tell us it's raining. Thanks.

Wow. You're truly a wingnut! Your last couple of posts seem to suggest that I'm looking for freebies -- that's not the case...at all. I also had to laugh at your comment that "I'm pissed that you see right through me." What??? I don't even know what you're talking about. Seriously.

The only thing I liked about your post was the pissing on the back line. That's hilarious.

Anyway, you've got some issues. Hope you're able to work through them!

[Nicole Dupre]

Wow. You're truly a wingnut! Your last couple of posts seem to suggest that I'm looking for freebies -- that's not the case...at all. I also had to laugh at your comment that "I'm pissed that you see right through me." What??? I don't even know what you're talking about. Seriously.

The only thing I liked about your post was the pissing on the back line. That's hilarious.

Anyway, you've got some issues. Hope you're able to work through them!
W/e, stud muffin.

[GrimFusion]

Re: Club Shine or Cobra??
Originally Posted by SEXY TS JESS
Straight clubs..... What transwoman wants to go to a "gay" club... For my woman brain.. On my "off the clock" mind... I would perfer a straight club.. Usually where rihanna, chris brown, the game and so on and so on are at... Im there when im in l.a......... Tranny clubs.... I would not even bother.. Unless its for a gurlfriend or a good cause. Then ill show support.. But on myyyyy personal time... Kick rocks lol.. But cobra is ur best bet..... Is michael on here? I met him there b 4.... Hes a local and all over the blktgirls forums..

Please keep in mind... We have female brains... And im not judging the tranny clubs.. Not my speed
Hmmm. OK. Well, "transwomen" DO go to tranny clubs...or they wouldn't BE called tranny clubs.




IS THIS THE SAME PERSON THAT MADE A "THREAD" ABOUT ME SAYING WHY DO I "HATE" GOING TO "TRANNY CLUBS" ? HATE IS SUCH A HARSH WORD. FROM MY REPLY ABOVE.... I DONT GET HATE. I HAVE BEEN TO TRANNY CLUBS B 4 ONLY IN GOOD CAUSES OR BENIFITS FOR SUPPORT. WHAT PART OF "OFF THE CLOCK AND IN MY PERSONAL LIFE" I DONT WANT TO SPEND MY TIME DEALING WITH THE FOLLOWING TYPE OF SITUATIONS "AT A CLUB"

1. MEN WHO SAY OHH YOU LOOK BETTER IN PERSON THAN ONLINE
2. TELL ME HOW GORGEOUS I AM...THEN 2 SECONDS LATER HES TALKING TO "TV ANNA BELLE HOLE PUNCHER" TELLING THEM THE SAME THING ^^^ ABOVE
3. MEN WHO COME UP TO ME ASKING HOW MUCH I "CHARGE"
4. MEN WHO "THINK THERE "ATTRACTIVE" OR "CUTE/SEXY" THINKING IT WILL GET ME TO LEAVE THE CLUB WITH THEM. "KNOWINGLY" IM AN ESCORT THINKING THEY WILL GET ONE FOR THE RECORD.
5. SEEING GURLS COME AND GO THROUGHOUT THE NIGHT (TRICKING IN THE CLUB)
6. SEEING STREET WALKERS "PARKING LOT PIMP" OUTSIDE THE CLUB.
7. DEALING WITH (FOR THE MOST PART) UNATTRACTIVE OLD MEN CHASING IN THE CLUB
8. THE GRAND FINALE ... DEALING WITH A MAN WHO I KNOW OF DEAL WITH A PERSON I KNOW OF PERSONALLY THAT IS STI/HIV INFECTED AND COME AND ATTEMPT TO TALK TO ME. THATS NONE OF MY BUSINESS WHAT THEY DID/DO. I JUST DONT WANT TO HAVE ANY PARTS. <<TOUCHY SUBJECT.

9. A LOT OF THE PEOPLE IN THE INDUSTRY AND LIFESTYLE ARE DISGUSTING. WHERE "MONEY HAS triumphant MORALITY TO A LOT OF DEGREES. SOME LESS SOME MORE SOME NOT ENOUGH.

NOW LA2NY... THIS IS ALL MY OPINION. THIS IS WHAT I CHOOSE "NOT" TO DEAL WITH WHEN IM JUST TRYING TO HAVE A GOOD TIME "OFF THE CLOCK" IN MY "PERSONAL" LIFE. DO YOU UNDERSTAND NOW? SO DONT USE MY NAME WITH ANYTHING ASSOCIATED WITH THE WORD "HATE" THANKS.

You yell too much, but what you're sayin' makes sense. At straight clubs, a dude can't just walk up to most of the GG's in the place and assume they're on-the-clock escorts and available for business. We usually have to do a little more than drop a compliment, flash some cash, and leave +1. In other words, dudes go to straight clubs assuming there's a chance of failure.

At a gay club, "straight" dude's shouldn't assume anything with a dress on is an escort, but it's usually true for the majority of TG/TV/TS peeps there. Some of them may be off-the-clock, but most aren't and the imposed guarantee of hooking up brings around a never ending supply of really shiesty guys.

There are normal dudes that go to gay clubs. They're called "gay men"; and I'm not trying to say that every straight dude who walks into a gay club looking for a tranny is immoral, filthy, nasty, etc. There are still decent guys who pop in for conversation and a good time, but are they the majority? Not likely.

Just be glad you make what you need to get by without having to resort to dealing with seedy dudes at gay clubs. Not every chick out there has that option.

[Nicole Dupre]

You yell too much, but what you're sayin' makes sense. At straight clubs, a dude can't just walk up to most of the GG's in the place and assume they're on-the-clock escorts and available for business. We usually have to do a little more than drop a compliment, flash some cash, and leave +1. In other words, dudes go to straight clubs assuming there's a chance of failure.

At a gay club, "straight" dude's shouldn't assume anything with a dress on is an escort, but it's usually true for the majority of TG/TV/TS peeps there. Some of them may be off-the-clock, but most aren't and the imposed guarantee of hooking up brings around a never ending supply of really shiesty guys.

There are normal dudes that go to gay clubs. They're called "gay men"; and I'm not trying to say that every straight dude who walks into a gay club looking for a tranny is immoral, filthy, nasty, etc. There are still decent guys who pop in for conversation and a good time, but are they the majority? Not likely.

Just be glad you make what you need to get by without having to resort to dealing with seedy dudes at gay clubs. Not every chick out there has that option.
Not all gay clubs are so seedy. lol Actually, I've hooked up with a couple of guys attending drag shows in mostly "gay clubs". TBH I like that better because they have less expectations to simply get laid. I like that. A place like the Voodoo Lounge in Ft Lauderdale has a decent drag show, and it attracts all kinds of people. They have a few gay male nights, a few lesbian nights, and a drag show once a week. And the drag night has LOTS of GGs and transsexuals. People go just to dance, believe it or not. lol Some people just like to go out and get their freak on.

[GrimFusion]

what i really dont understand is why guys dont get that we desire/have normal social interactions outside of the industry.
we cant breath,sleep and eat sex/porn.the girls that do are the ones that get burned out and turn to drugs and other things to cope.

Most guys get that, but it doesn't concern us. That probably makes me sound like a huge dick head, but it's true. I mean, guys aren't going to step up and say "Hey, I'm interested; but since it's your "off" day, I'll just keep a hold of this $600 and hope you're available the next time my wife/girlfriend steps out".

...and there's those fools who think that so long as they're money is good, the only two acceptable answers are "let's go" and "sure, but later". It's not just escorting. I'm an entrepreneur with set business hours and I've had a few problems with customers calling me up on my advertised days off and expecting or demanding repair. I'm not saying "I know what it's like". I don't, but euphemistically, it's about the same idea. It's fucking aggravating when people assume that because THEY have the time and money, "no, I'm busy" is an unacceptable answer.

[GrimFusion]

Not all gay clubs are so seedy. lol Actually, I've hooked up with a couple of guys attending drag shows in mostly "gay clubs". TBH I like that better because they have less expectations to simply get laid. I like that. A place like the Voodoo Lounge in Ft Lauderdale has a decent drag show, and it attracts all kinds of people. They have a few gay male nights, a few lesbian nights, and a drag show once a week. And the drag night has LOTS of GGs and transsexuals. People go just to dance, believe it or not. lol Some people just like to go out and get their freak on.

Hey, good to see you around ya' bat-shit crazy hag. Heh.

I'm not trying to say that every straight dude who walks into a gay club looking for a tranny is immoral, filthy, nasty, etc. There are still decent guys who pop in for conversation and a good time, but are they the majority? Not likely.

What were you saying, now? The Voodoo Lounge sounds pretty chill and unusually laid-back. About four years ago before I was in a relationship, I checked out a few of the clubs around Portland, but they absolutely weren't chill at all. Maybe I'm weird, but I get annoyed when the same chick comes up to me a second time and propositions because she's way too fucked up on bad drugs to recall asking me previously. That's not attractive. That was a while ago, so things could have changed; but I'm not looking anymore.

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[BigBlackMan]

I've never spent a dime on women at a straight club. So what do you do if you find a ts in a straight club?

[GrimFusion]

I've never spent a dime on women at a straight club. So what do you do if you find a ts in a straight club?

Walk up and say "hi" or go find some trim.

[Nicole Dupre]

Hey, good to see you around ya' bat-shit crazy hag. Heh.

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Oh shut up, you damn pot head. lol

[BigBlackMan]

Walk up and say "hi" or go find some trim.

So do y'all ladies "work" straight clubs too?

[SEXY TS JESS]

Most guys get that, but it doesn't concern us. That probably makes me sound like a huge dick head, but it's true. I mean, guys aren't going to step up and say "Hey, I'm interested; but since it's your "off" day, I'll just keep a hold of this $600 and hope you're available the next time my wife/girlfriend steps out".

...and there's those fools who think that so long as they're money is good, the only two acceptable answers are "let's go" and "sure, but later". It's not just escorting. I'm an entrepreneur with set business hours and I've had a few problems with customers calling me up on my advertised days off and expecting or demanding repair. I'm not saying "I know what it's like". I don't, but euphemistically, it's about the same idea. It's fucking aggravating when people assume that because THEY have the time and money, "no, I'm busy" is an unacceptable answer.


im in luv with u already... marriage? lol lol:joke:

[SEXY TS JESS]

So do y'all ladies "work" straight clubs too?

DEPENDS on the SITUATION...

When im in the USA usually CLUBBING in NYC, DC, MIAMI, LA... NO im just there to P-A-R-T-Y and im usually WITH a bunch of my GORGEOUS TS gurlfriends and we simply just GETTING attention from the "straight acting" men... It makes us feel good.

BUT

If he turns out to be FOOLERY or an AZZ or to SAY OHHHHHH hey Jess you look BETTER than your pics or SOME B.S. I say THANK YOU... Then it turns into a SIMPLE Slip of a business card and WALKS away.... IN a "STRAIGHT CLUB" mind you...

BUT if he a sweetheart and handles himself AS A GENTLEMAN... Ill give him some chit chat time... Then see where it goes.. BUT it takes A LOT to GAIN & HOLD my attention...

[tsdvdman]

Not meaning to change the subject but this is Complete and Utter HAWTNESS!! You CAN'T get mad at the dudes that be slobberin all over you. Question is...your girl ts too?...:Bowdown:

[SEXY TS JESS]

Not meaning to change the subject but this is Complete and Utter HAWTNESS!! You CAN'T get mad at the dudes that be slobberin all over you. Question is...your girl ts too?...:Bowdown:

Im not at liberty to discuss if she is a ts or a gg. Shes from the DC/VA area. Shes my wonderful mentor. She is 33 years of age. She has a PHD.. She's Currently working with Michelle Obama on a NEW Healthcare Reform for treatment of TS WOMEN... Who EVERYONE in the DC area knows her as Dr. Ayanna!

[tsdvdman]

Im not at liberty to discuss if she is a ts or a gg. Shes from the DC/VA area. Shes my wonderful mentor. She is 33 years of age. She has a PHD.. She's Currently working with Michelle Obama on a NEW Healthcare Reform for treatment of TS WOMEN... Who EVERYONE in the DC area knows her as Dr. Ayanna!
Credentials assets physicalities and all she seems my kinda girl ts or gg..:)

[SEXY TS JESS]

Credentials assets physicalities and all she seems my kinda girl ts or gg..:)

EXACTLY... SOOO im on the SAME road to success BE NO FOOL !!

Hopefully I DONT have the same problem she's has (having brains n beauty and LEGAL money)

IS A LOT when trying to talking to... example: ( Dr. JESS) its Intimidating to A LOT of men ... then add in IM A TRAANNNYYY lawd Chances look P-R-E-T-T-Y SLIM!

[buttslinger]

I didn't know DC had any tranny clubs. The closest I've found was a manly looking stripper at Louies the Rogue.