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Nikka
03-18-2012, 04:30 PM
mother fucking Hilarious

hwbs
03-18-2012, 04:55 PM
they just want to get to know u better =)

Nikka
03-18-2012, 04:58 PM
they just want to get to know u better =)

been myself a Tranny for over a decade and nobody wants to know u better but a blowjob or fuck or at least look at you for a later wank

the Devil knows better for being old than for being Devilish

the_corner
03-18-2012, 05:14 PM
Well, I would argue that it sucks that nobody wants to get to know you beyond a blowjob or fuck.

On the other hand, getting paid to be "friends" with people, doesn't sound like a bad business :)

KelticForce1349
03-18-2012, 05:27 PM
been myself a Tranny for over a decade and nobody wants to know u better but a blowjob or fuck or at least look at you for a later wank

the Devil knows better for being old than for being Devilish

I don't understand...are you complaining that guys say they want to get to know you when they only want to have sex with you? Or are you saying that there are no men that want relationships with you, only the sex?

I know that I personally would really like to have a happy and loving relationship with a t-girl. I have been upset for several years that I can't find a t-girl that wants that too.

alyssaluxor
03-18-2012, 05:34 PM
I agree with Nikka I also got lots of mesages from guys wanting to make friends but I feel 100% of them not really want to make friends with me, where are they when I need someone to have dinner with, or when i need to go to clinic or when just to shop around or drink together just like usual friends are. They just want to suck cock thats what I feel lol

saifan
03-18-2012, 06:50 PM
I'm so glad that my ts friend didn't have that attitude almost 3 years ago when we met.

lifeisfiction
03-18-2012, 07:28 PM
There are people who would like to make friends, but in reality there is little trust on the internet. Everyone believes some is looking to screw someone.

dezz
03-18-2012, 07:43 PM
it's the internet. everyone is crazy until proven otherwise. and even then they probably still have their habits

buttslinger
03-18-2012, 08:02 PM
I used to date a lot of street prostitutes, and I didn't know how connected they were to each other until I started doing drugs with them at their cribs. During the day, they would visit and trade clothes and little things they picked up on their adventures. And catch up on gossip. Then after they left, I would hear the inside DIRT on them. Not one good Mother in the group. I was also surprised they talked about me, if I was OK, cheap or generous. If a ho really relaxed with me and started being friendly, I got scared.

RallyCola
03-18-2012, 08:21 PM
beyond the internet...most TS girls i know look at men as a $ and not much more.

its funny because pros/escorts bitch about men just wanting them as sex objects...but clearly alot only see themselves as sex objects if they assume all a man wants to do is fuck them.

i have many friends that are ggirls and a few that are regular tgirls. there is no reason why i can't become friends with a pro/escort except that she assumes she knows my intentions and wants me for my $$$ or Rx pad.

LibertyHarkness
03-18-2012, 08:27 PM
i have a couple of male friends/aquantancies that are non sexual on my part ... whether they would like to be more or not i dont know , but it will never get to that point anyway so its all good .

But yeah i get alot of mails from guys or texts asking me to meet up just as freinds not escorts ..it actually anoys me that someone wastes time sending messages like that to a working girl phone number lol i mean shit just send it by email lol

i have chatted to some guys in the wayout before that was ok as i was upfront i wasnot hooking at the time and neither was i looking to have a sexual meet . i was just out to chat with people .. that was ok as the guys talking to me at least could decided to either stay and chat with me or fuck off and try blag some other girl ..

Where i am looking forward to meeting guys is when i start my degree at london film school .. as it will be so nice to actually meet people that have no idea what i do etc ..and jjust chat with people about non sexual things, and common interest things .

Nikka
03-18-2012, 08:31 PM
.and jjust chat with people about non sexual things, and common interest things .

there is not such thing with Men

u can talk about things with females or other trannies

even when guys think you are a female they eventually want to fuck your pussy, no str8 men will want friendship ... gay men do, I have a gay friend is the only male that dontīt want a blowjob from me...

hwbs
03-18-2012, 08:34 PM
it goes both ways...i don't think too much of it ...ill get a call from a girl that i have not heard from in like a year.....we meet up and fuck and ill say see u next year like to relatives u only see on the holidays ...

LibertyHarkness
03-18-2012, 08:35 PM
yeah problem is trannies get on my tits after about 5minutes generally lol and i want to knock them out ..

females are ok but can be abit mad ..

Men can be ok depends on the guy .. if you get a guy that isnt into tgirls thats a winner..

lifeisfiction
03-18-2012, 08:50 PM
When a person believes that men only want sex, then no matter what you can't convince them otherwise. Its like when people say the married people can't be friends. I call BS. I have married female friends that are good friends and I woudn't sleep with them under any circumstance. They are my friends and you don't screw over friends for your own purpose.

buttslinger
03-18-2012, 08:50 PM
Years ago I went on Alt.com as a woman, because at that time, men had to pay to make contacts, and women got everything for free. I was flabberghasted at what PIGS men are! Why would an imaginary little piece of ass like me want to date those obvous, disgusting, clueless children!
I'm not kidding, when sex is involved, men are pigs.

Nicole Dupre
03-18-2012, 08:53 PM
I generally don't want men as friends anyway. I have a few already, which is fine, but I don't care about having more.

Jamie French
03-18-2012, 08:53 PM
Now wait, what about all the friends you had before the transition? I have all those... not a one of them would put there penis anywhere near me but completely depend on me as a genuine friend.

LibertyHarkness
03-18-2012, 08:57 PM
i have only one friend from pre transition .. all my other supposed friends jumped ship :)

Jamie French
03-18-2012, 09:02 PM
Sorry to hear it. What sucky friends.

Protip: Ever want to find out who your real mates are, just switch genders.


i have only one friend from pre transition .. all my other supposed friends jumped ship :)

Nicole Dupre
03-18-2012, 09:08 PM
Now wait, what about all the friends you had before the transition? I have all those... not a one of them would put there penis anywhere near me but completely depend on me as a genuine friend.
You were a hetero CD who was "gay-for-pay" until recently when you started 'mones. Who even knows if you'll stay transitioned. So that's different. You don't exactly count imo, and that's not because I don't like you. It's just a fact. Live your life as a woman 24/7 for a few years and then see if you feel differently about men friends.

Nicole Dupre
03-18-2012, 09:13 PM
You're off topic anyway. I know exactly who she meant; guys who say they "just want to be friends". And I think it's fucking hilarious. lol

Willie Escalade
03-18-2012, 09:27 PM
Kinda sucks most girls believe that. I insider myself friends with some of he girls, and I mean JUST FRIENDS.

Nicole Dupre
03-18-2012, 10:00 PM
Kinda sucks most girls believe that. I insider myself friends with some of he girls, and I mean JUST FRIENDS.
I think that's different. You began by having a working relationship with them. I'm talking about guys who say "let's be friends" who don't really know you; not people who you work with who you later become friends with.

RallyCola
03-18-2012, 10:09 PM
i think there are 2 issues here.

guys that contact a pro/escort and say they want to be friends...if that is the only extent on what we are talking about...are hilarious. these guys (1) might be trying to use a professional avenue to get free sex or (2) are lame for even thinking that will work.

guys that meet a girl/tgirl in any other capacity than a client/escort precondition, should NOT be judged as harshly as some of you are. If a guy hits on you in an environment where there is no way he could know you were a pro, then you should just take it as a compliment. if a guy talks with you cordially, but in a non-aggressive way, and YOU are closed off to any friendly conversation, then its really your bias that is getting in your way of having a friend.

the only thing i can point to that there are many so-called platonic relationships between males and females in the world. if you as a tgirl don't have any str8 male friends, or at least non-gay male friends that don't want to fuck you...its really your fault, not that of the males you meet.

Nicole Dupre
03-18-2012, 11:39 PM
... (2) are lame for even thinking that will work.
I've had clients tell me they want to marry me. :dead:

buttslinger
03-18-2012, 11:58 PM
I've had clients tell me they want to marry me. :dead:

Hold up here, all your dates are saps? Don't you all ever want to find THE ONE?

Nicole Dupre
03-19-2012, 03:19 AM
Hold up here, all your dates are saps? Don't you all ever want to find THE ONE?
What dates? Clients aren't dates. lol Clients are guys who want a short cut to having fun. If someone wants to be a daddy on the other hand, he's welcome to show me some generosity if he really likes me that much. I'm an appreciative person and I enjoy showing my appreciation. Men who want certain things in life know how to get them. If they don't, they might need to think a little harder. ;-)

the_corner
03-19-2012, 03:39 AM
I never approach girls with that "lets be friends" attitude, specially if I know its a working girl.

Still, if I do happen to say "hi" to a girl at a party or something, and she gets into that diva attitude of "you have to pay to say hi"... or "you said hi because you want to fuck me for free".... well... that's a girl I will never hire as a professional.

A message to the girls... if you have no manners while dressed up, I don't expect you to have manners while in the bedroom.

You might get money from other idiots, just not from this idiot.

hwbs
03-19-2012, 04:20 AM
I never approach girls with that "lets be friends" attitude, specially if I know its a working girl.

Still, if I do happen to say "hi" to a girl at a party or something, and she gets into that diva attitude of "you have to pay to say hi"... or "you said hi because you want to fuck me for free".... well... that's a girl I will never hire as a professional.

A message to the girls... if you have no manners while dressed up, I don't expect you to have manners while in the bedroom.

You might get money from other idiots, just not from this idiot.

Spoken like a true pimp =)

maaarc
03-19-2012, 04:22 AM
you girls are mean to the boys who like you :mad::mad::mad:

Ryz
03-19-2012, 04:36 AM
Women who say men only want to have sex; are women who have nothing else to offer than that.

Ryz
03-19-2012, 04:36 AM
you girls are mean to the boys who like you :mad::mad::mad:

Awh how adorable :3

Ryz
03-19-2012, 04:38 AM
You were a hetero CD who was "gay-for-pay" until recently when you started 'mones. Who even knows if you'll stay transitioned. So that's different. You don't exactly count imo, and that's not because I don't like you. It's just a fact. Live your life as a woman 24/7 for a few years and then see if you feel differently about men friends.

This, 110%

Nicole Dupre
03-19-2012, 05:00 AM
you girls are mean to the boys who like you :mad::mad::mad:
I wouldn't date a man who wanted to date an escort. There's nothing mean about it. If you wanted to date me, you'd have to meet me under different circumstances. I don't owe anyone my personal time. You'd have to strike up a conversation with me outside the realm of the sex trade. But good luck finding me because I'm not walking around with a name tag that says "Hi. I'm Nicole Dupre and I'm not working right now." lol When I'm not working, I'm just any other girl you may or may not have a chance with. That's the world of normal dating. You learn how to do that stuff in high school. It's not rocket science.

The guys who want to flirt with escorts are dreaming. The girls at the parties are working the room. It's common sense. There may not be strolls anymore, but when there were you weren't just going to wonder through the middle of one looking for Miss Right. lol Those girls are there to work, not chit chat. You guys can see if we want to chit chat on forums like this. Isn't that good enough? We need to walk around letting everyone know if we're single and available? I NEVER date guys looking for a TS escort. I date guys I meet when I'm just living my life.

buttslinger
03-19-2012, 05:24 AM
Life really is Jr High isn't it?


Why do these young girls fall in love with their pimp, Nicole? What's up with that?

Nicole Dupre
03-19-2012, 05:49 AM
Life really is Jr High isn't it?


Why do these young girls fall in love with their pimp, Nicole? What's up with that?
Trannies don't have pimps in the US. They don't even work for agencies very much.

And dating is dating. I dunno. I didn't date anyone in jr high. I started learning about having sex with men when I was supposed to be in high school. lol Personally, I don't have any real system for meeting guys. I 'm never exactly looking though. The last guy who I really dated I met at the county college when I took a drawing class. Before that, I dated a guy who was an artist. He was a friend of a friend. Another guy who I dated for a while I met when I briefly waited on tables in Ft Lauderdale. He was a friend of my shift manager. I dated another guy who I started tattooing. He was another friend of a friend. We just hit it off.

Every one of them I met by chance. And none of them knew anything about TS porn or escorts.

SFTB
03-19-2012, 06:02 AM
Every one of them I met by chance. And none of them knew anything about TS porn or escorts.

Nicole,
I kinda had the opposite path, since I was involved in adult sites and videos for so long, alot of the girls I met were involved in it. Several girls I first saw as escorts I can consider close friends, a couple are almost like family. One I saw as a client when she was preop, then we ran into each other at The Lodge in NoHo after her surgeries and ended up hitting it off and dating. My ex and I met on Ifriends, and ended up together when I moved to Vegas, she ended up becoming an eros girl paid for her schooling and got out of the biz. I dont know if I even have a point except I wouldnt have had my life I've lived if there hadnt been some exceptions to those rules ya'll are putting out there.

Jamie French
03-19-2012, 06:28 AM
The Human Nostril Flare, it speaks at me yet again.

Frankly, it's quite endearing how you go out of your way to pay me so much attention.


You were a hetero CD who was "gay-for-pay" until recently when you started 'mones. Who even knows if you'll stay transitioned. So that's different. You don't exactly count imo, and that's not because I don't like you. It's just a fact. Live your life as a woman 24/7 for a few years and then see if you feel differently about men friends.

hippifried
03-19-2012, 07:05 AM
...butt butt butt...

Oh cum on now. Don't be so negative. You're just making it harder. We can be pals. We could develop a deep relationship. If you don't want to be my valentine, be my BFF. It's all good because... uh... Well... You know...




Friends don't charge friends for benefits, do they?

Nicole Dupre
03-19-2012, 09:42 AM
The Human Nostril Flare, it speaks at me yet again.

Frankly, it's quite endearing how you go out of your way to pay me so much attention.
You had nothing to contribute to the thread. Wtf do you want from me? You started yammering about your bromances.

Nicole Dupre
03-19-2012, 09:58 AM
The Human Nostril Flare, it speaks at me yet again.

Frankly, it's quite endearing how you go out of your way to pay me so much attention.
Anyway, it's a bit offensive that a hetero CD who started taking hormones a few months ago, whose biggest claim to womanhood is having done porn with makeup on, is chiming in on the nature of relationships between hetero transwomen and men. You've done things like this before, and it's exactly why I don't like you, in addition to you being a racist. You talked about how you thought transsexuals were wasting their money on getting their facial hair removed, and how you thought your escorting money was better spent on recording equipment. You told us that dressing like a woman while escorting was what saved you from having to work at Dominos for the rest of your life.

Look. You're a cocky, obnoxious dude and you're a racist. I don't give a fuck if you make porn or not. Don't expect real transsexuals to kiss your man-ass.

RallyCola
03-19-2012, 01:43 PM
back on topic before this becomes a jamie vs nicole thread again.

the issue here is that too many tgirls just like a good percentage of ggirls think men see them as little more than cum dumpsters OR too many tgirls as well as girls think their shit doesn't stink and have their own head so far up their ass thinking everyone wants to pay to kiss it.

the issue is and always will be the girl's self-definition and judgment of a man's intentions. we are generally clear in what we want either by what we say or how we act. If you as a former man and not a tgirl can't pick up on it because you are too busy in your own little world thinking how you will extract my $$$, that's not my fault. If I as a man put something out there...either my cock in your hand or an offer of friendly conversation, its up to you to decide what to do with it.

SammiValentine
03-19-2012, 01:51 PM
i have only one friend from pre transition .. all my other supposed friends jumped ship :)


same

loveboof
03-19-2012, 02:33 PM
LOL at girls thinking they can charge for my friendship.

RallyCola
03-19-2012, 02:36 PM
that sucks that some of you lost friends because of the transition. can i ask...did they stop calling or hanging out with you...or did you slowly drift away?

i only know one girl both pre and post transition. as she began to transition, we grew closer by her choice. she specifically chose to hang out with a few people that she said were more accepting of her changes. none of common friends were hostile or non-accepting...it was that some didn't really understand it and she shunned them. so...when you say people jumped ship...i have to wonder...again, was the problem solely theirs or are you culpable in anyway for the friendship ending.

TheGeneral
03-19-2012, 03:36 PM
There are few good guys out there.
I find it hard to meet girls who want anything other than what is in my wallet.

Nicole Dupre
03-19-2012, 04:18 PM
I didn't have many non-gay male friends before I transitioned, I suppose because straight men find it hard to be friends with genderfuct fags. lol I still do have one straight male friend from before transitioning, but I've known him since I was 7. So imo that's a rare situation regardless of gender, sexuality, profession, etc.

Btw when I transitioned, I lost gay male friends as well, along with the few straight male friends. But they were happy being drag queens. I was ok doing drag, but the issues ran deeper. For me, doing drag was a pit stop on my gender journey. I never hid how I felt from them, but when it became real they couldn't deal with my male identity no longer existing. People grow apart.

But my parents, who were always supportive, for about 8 months there had a hard time with the concept of permanently losing a son, and with me getting implants and changing my name. They had watched me dress... differently (lol) my entire life. But it's reacting to the finality of the whole thing that people can't predict. My parents had to mourn the loss of their son for over half a year, and then they were ok with it.

rockabilly
03-19-2012, 05:06 PM
Jamie's racist? But she and Daryl did it ... next your gonna tell me Ashley is racist.

Jamie French
03-19-2012, 05:14 PM
Also my drummer and best friend of 15 years is black. Nicole just likes to type things. Everybody has a hobby.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M7vTiOH9u-o


Jamie's racist? But she and Daryl did it ... next your gonna tell me Ashley is racist.

Yeah
03-19-2012, 06:47 PM
I guess you could say it happens with gg's also. Than there are the guys that try to get to know a girl and and to start a relarionship with her then, bam she stuck him in the friendzone because he's a nice guy where he is destine to stay until death or he wises up and moves on. Girls like to keep nice guys in the friendzone because will take her out and usually pay, he'll do things with her other guys won't, and he's always will to hangout. What sucks for this guy stuck in the friendzone is he is doing everthing she wants that usually she has to give up sex to get from some guys and the nice guy is doing it for her just to hang out in the hopes she will on day wake up and stop dating the typica guy and want to have a relationship with him. This rarely ever happens.

buttslinger
03-19-2012, 06:52 PM
I tried hanging at the friends forum, I don't know what they're talking about.
http://friends-forum.com/
Hey, man, I've had lots of friends, they're still all my friends, I just don't see them anymore. If you want an interesting thread, tell us about your family. If I brought a big tittied half-dressed black transsexual to Thanksgiving dinner, Mom would die before the wine was opened. No offense. I understand completely what Nikki says, if she keeps posting, she's a friend of the forum.

Ryz
03-19-2012, 07:02 PM
Jamie's racist? But she and Daryl did it ... next your gonna tell me Ashley is racist.

Porn, hurf durf...

Jamie French
03-19-2012, 07:07 PM
Porn, hurf durf...

Also my drummer and best friend of 15 years is black. Nicole just likes to type things. Everybody has a hobby.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M7vTiOH9u-o

Nicole Dupre
03-19-2012, 07:18 PM
Oh. A token black friend. But Jaime just told me to shut my "spaghetti eating mouth" a few weeks ago, so I'm not impressed. It's not unlike Mel Gibson being "friends" with Danny Glover when they were shooting a film together.

Ryz, wasn't it you that Jamie fabricated the PM from, to cover up the racial slurs directed at you? What was that whole little shitstorm about again, when s/he said s./he was "never coming back" to HungAngels? Oh, the drama,. lol

I have nothing personal against this trans-for-fans Jamie freak. He's just a fucking loser who would still be stuck making pizzas at Domino's if he didn't get a brainstorm to wear lipstick and suck dick for cash. At least that what he told us. I mean, that is NOT a transsexual. Sorry. Sue me for paying attention. :geek:

Nicole Dupre
03-19-2012, 07:24 PM
It would be awesome if he could no longer edit those posts. I'm sure they'd embarrass him and prove what I'm saying once and for all so we could just move on. And the guy signs he emails "James French". I know someone who signed up for his affiliate program and read it myself. "It's a maaaaaaaaaaan, baby!" lol

Nicole Dupre
03-19-2012, 07:32 PM
There are few good guys out there.
I find it hard to meet girls who want anything other than what is in my wallet.
You're right. It is hard to find them when you're looking in the world of the sex trade. lol There are thousands of stealth transsexuals out there but they're not looking for you. They know they're extremely rare and you're not. And they won't want to date you if they think you have a one track brain.

I hate to break this to you, fellas, but the transsexuals who are the most down to earth have had, or plan to have, SRS. So you wouldn't want them anyway. lol

Ryz
03-19-2012, 07:39 PM
Also my drummer and best friend of 15 years is black. Nicole just likes to type things. Everybody has a hobby.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M7vTiOH9u-o
I dunno, you called me a nigger a year ago, and threatened to travel to Canada so you could hang me. Hmm...

Nicole Dupre
03-19-2012, 07:45 PM
I dunno, you called me a nigger a year ago, and threatened to travel to Canada so you could hang me. Hmm...
Exactly. Thank you. I knew it was pretty extreme and I was right.

buttslinger
03-19-2012, 08:02 PM
Anthony 'A.J.' Soprano, Jr.: You have such a low opinion of people?
Tony Soprano: Let me tell you somethin', A.J. I don't care how close you are, in the end your friends are gonna let you down. Family: they're the only ones you can depend on.

Jamie French
03-19-2012, 08:21 PM
Well, that must a been a while back, I don't recall your name... were you acting like a nigger? My drummer hates niggers as well... no one should ever have a problem with the color of someones skin but if you're acting like a nigger... well that speaks directly to your behavior and not your skin tone doesn't it?

And Nicole... you know you aren't even a person, how could anything you say possibly count for anything? Silly cartoon character!


I dunno, you called me a nigger a year ago, and threatened to travel to Canada so you could hang me. Hmm...

Nicole Dupre
03-19-2012, 08:23 PM
Anthony 'A.J.' Soprano, Jr.: You have such a low opinion of people?
Tony Soprano: Let me tell you somethin', A.J. I don't care how close you are, in the end your friends are gonna let you down. Family: they're the only ones you can depend on.
My dad was the same way. He said I'd be able to "count on one hand how many real friends I had" by the time I was his age, and that the rest would just be "acquaintances".

He was Sicilian btw. lol

Nicole Dupre
03-19-2012, 08:24 PM
Well, that must a been a while back, I don't recall your name... were you acting like a nigger? My drummer hates niggers as well... no one should ever have a problem with the color of someones skin but if you're acting like a nigger... well that speaks directly to your behavior and not your skin tone doesn't it?

And Nicole... you know you aren't even a person, how could anything you say possibly count for anything? Silly cartoon character!
Cool story, bro.

I guess anyone who's offended by you using the N word or by being called a "spaghetti eater" isn't a real person. Priceless.

SammiValentine
03-19-2012, 08:25 PM
Blut ist dicker als Wasser

Jamie French
03-19-2012, 08:32 PM
I know, right? That's exactly the point I was trying to make... it's good to see you finally catching up!

Offended by the "N word" - YouTube (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dF1NUposXVQ)


Cool story, bro.

I guess anyone who's offended by you using the N word or by being called a "spaghetti eater" isn't a real person. Priceless.