How can we be better clients?

[naughtyadmirer]

I would be very intersted to hear from any escorts on their opinion of how they like a business meeting to go with a client. What are your hope, expectations, ect. I realise many things are obvious, you want us to be clean, punctual, discrete. Beyond that what makes a good client for you (given that most of us are not going to be able to turn into George Cluny or Brad Pitt)? The reason I think it would be useful for us a clients to know is that the happier you are with us as clients the better your performance is likely to be and the more we will get back as clients.
I know some things are individual, but in general do you girls like topping or being topped or both? Is kissing an enjoyable experience for you or is it something you dread, what makes the encounter fun for you (beyond the cash)? Do you want the guy to bring flowers or does that just attract attention? Is a bottle of wine better? Is tipping routine? should it be? Does it work like a resaurant where 10% is fair service, 15% good and anything more for anything more?

[Brandi Boots]

Bring more money! dunno? ;)

small gifts/trinkets/flowers are nice. Polite is big. Knowing what the hell is going on is helpful :)

[Nicole Dupre]

Go to the "etiquette" section of my escort site and you'll see a number of tips that might help.

http://nicoledupree.rare-courtesan.com/

[SammiValentine]

Could read adverts. Thatd be good. :)

[mrtrebus]

Bring more money! dunno? ;)

small gifts/trinkets/flowers are nice.
Gifts?!? We are paying for a service. I wouldn't give a car mechanic a gift just pay him. Same with escorts.

[Nicole Dupre]

Gifts?!? We are paying for a service. I wouldn't give a car mechanic a gift just pay him. Same with escorts.
*smfh

[alyssaluxor]

Go to the "etiquette" section of my escort site and you'll see a number of tips that might help.

http://nicoledupree.rare-courtesan.com/

Very nice tips girl thanks for sharing :)

[buttslinger]

Drink. ....Drink heavily

[thx1138]

Give the gurl your credit card. Just make sure it's not maxed out.

[MdR Dave]

Gifts?!? We are paying for a service. I wouldn't give a car mechanic a gift just pay him. Same with escorts.
Develop a good relationship with your mechanic and he'll tell you your drive belt needs replaced- BEFORE it shreds and leaves you stranded in East Bumfuck at 3am.

Draw your own parallel for escorts.

[BluegrassCat]

Go to the "etiquette" section of my escort site and you'll see a number of tips that might help.

http://nicoledupree.rare-courtesan.com/


Wow, very informative. I would have had no idea and (actually expected the opposite) about the first physical contact and bringing condoms.

[fred41]

Gifts?!? We are paying for a service. I wouldn't give a car mechanic a gift just pay him. Same with escorts.

Most people I know (including myself) will tip a car mechanic also.

[buttslinger]

Most people I know (including myself) will tip a car mechanic also.

I guess in NYC thou shalt covet an honest mechanic!

[lenscriminal]

Shower before getting there and not being a douche?

[naughtyadmirer]

Gifts?!? We are paying for a service. I wouldn't give a car mechanic a gift just pay him. Same with escorts.

I understand your point, however the point of the question was not to open a negotiation into what we were prepared to do or not do as clients, it was much more one sided, I want to know what service providers would like us to do, that way if I do meet a girl who is absolutely amazing I will be in a better position to know how to try and foster a good working relationship with her for the future.
In the hope that our next meeting will be even more special, to me if not her.
So if one of the service providers suggests that 15% at the end of our last encounter is going to pay dividends, I'm going to listen. That is not to say everyone will get a 15% tip, just that if I do like a girl I'll seriously think about making that investment in the anticipation of future encounters.

[FreddieGomez]

i don't really think most tranny escorts give a fuck about their tricks......

[onmyknees]

I would be very intersted to hear from any escorts on their opinion of how they like a business meeting to go with a client. What are your hope, expectations, ect. I realise many things are obvious, you want us to be clean, punctual, discrete. Beyond that what makes a good client for you (given that most of us are not going to be able to turn into George Cluny or Brad Pitt)? The reason I think it would be useful for us a clients to know is that the happier you are with us as clients the better your performance is likely to be and the more we will get back as clients.
I know some things are individual, but in general do you girls like topping or being topped or both? Is kissing an enjoyable experience for you or is it something you dread, what makes the encounter fun for you (beyond the cash)? Do you want the guy to bring flowers or does that just attract attention? Is a bottle of wine better? Is tipping routine? should it be? Does it work like a resaurant where 10% is fair service, 15% good and anything more for anything more?



I guess I understand the intent of the question, but that's kinda like asking....how can I be a better citizen? I guess I just suppose everyone should already have a pretty well defined idea on how to do that, but maybe the ladies will separate me from that notion. I didn't read ND's tips, but I'm sure they're helpful..
I think no matter what endeavor you undertake in life if you bring courtesy, cleanliness, respect, a measure of generosity and posses some communications skills...you'll be "well served".

[naughtyadmirer]

I share your frustration, but I am left asking myself is that a product of my actions or her attitudes. So my question is trying to ensure that any detachment or indifference I feel is not due to a lack of attention to detail on my part. I agree some girls will not care what ever I do, however I hope there are some who appreciate my efforts and respond accordingly.

[tsdvdman]

The only thing that matters is the green. The more green you're willing to fork over along with how fast they can get you to blow a load to shuffle you out...the better client you are for them.

[naughtyadmirer]

I guess I understand the intent of the question, but that's kinda like asking....how can I be a better citizen? I guess I just suppose everyone should already have a pretty well defined idea on how to do that, but maybe the ladies will separate me from that notion. I didn't read ND's tips, but I'm sure they're helpful..
I think no matter what endeavor you undertake in life if you bring courtesy, cleanliness, respect, a measure of generosity and posses some communications skills...you'll be "well served".

I completely agree with everything you have just said. However as a service provider there must be some services which are less agreeable than others, such as French kissing, regardless of how polite/generous/courteous/respectful or generous a client might be, which is less appealing than others and equally there must be some things you are really more keen to do.

[naughtyadmirer]

that may be true, but would be quite sad, and perhaps it is an inescapable truth. I could understand it if it were true. I am not blessed with amazing looks. I am unskilled in the bedroom with anyone other than genetic females. I am almost 40. So the idea that a stunningly gorgeous 25 year old might be more interested in my wallet than the contents of my boxers is no surprise. However I believe I can still improve my game, and hope that might be reflected in an improved service.

[Dino Velvet]

This goes for Hookers and Johns both.

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[DarylWashington]

i don't really think most tranny escorts give a fuck about their tricks......

Yup, that's what they tell me when they're off the clock giving it up to me for free in the morning.

[Nicole Dupre]

You get EXACTLY what you give me. If you sound ghetto, I'll tell you, "You're ghetto. Go find a girl who's ghetto." You try to play me, I'll play you far worse. If you're... ok, I'll treat you... ok. If you're a real gentlemen, I'll treat you like one. I honestly don't give a damn.

[onmyknees]

The only thing that matters is the green. The more green you're willing to fork over along with how fast they can get you to blow a load to shuffle you out...the better client you are for them.

There's some truth to that, but the same could be said for restaurants and used car salesman......or any business for that matter. As soon as they can get you out the door, they're on to the next. But as a consumer, you have to know that. They're not there to hear your life story. If I feel rushed at a restaurant after having dinner.........I'll never go back. I find most girls pretty cool, but I'm selective, and I don't mind if they are either.

[BLKGSXR]

If you're a client they dont want to be your friend, give them the money fuck and get out who gives a fuck what they prefer youre getting what you paid for right?? supply and demand mates but thats the way I look at it....

[deewaits]

Go to the "etiquette" section of my escort site and you'll see a number of tips that might help.

http://nicoledupree.rare-courtesan.com/

Thanks, Nicole. But for the newbies on this board, how do people negotiate what will occur before the visit. I mean, I'm interested in topping/not interested in being a bottom and I would want to kiss. If I call but we don't talk about sex at all and then I show up and what I want isn't an option with the escort then I have wasted everyone's time and money. What's the standard etiquette for asking these kinds of questions?

[Ryz]

Who fucking cares.

[SammiValentine]

that may be true, but would be quite sad, and perhaps it is an inescapable truth. I could understand it if it were true. I am not blessed with amazing looks. I am unskilled in the bedroom with anyone other than genetic females. I am almost 40. So the idea that a stunningly gorgeous 25 year old might be more interested in my wallet than the contents of my boxers is no surprise. However I believe I can still improve my game, and hope that might be reflected in an improved service.

like i said before your in the UK, so ignore these american responses as great as they are they are mostly based on this " cat and mouse bullshit game" cos escorting is illegal in most states over there.. (or all states?? shrug)

however! god save our queen! you my friend appear to be british, english, whatever, its legal to escort, we can word our adverts accordingly. Sooo read the advert, majority of adverts say if the girl is offering a top/bottom/versatilie service- you go with a girl who claims to offer what you are looking for- after that the god bless you my child. That pretty much answers the poll. :)

If my advert says i bottom and then someone turns up wanting to bottom... guess how he can be a better client...;-)

[Domino Lover]

This is the dumbest topic on this page. How can we be better clients? What clowns? I'm not down with escorts but if you are paying for a service they should give you what you want. I can't believe these suckers. Get some self esteem and meet a girl. Or if your paying you should get what YOU expect not what they prefer. Suckers

[Nicole Dupre]

Ultimately you get what you pay for in life, always.

[Nicole Dupre]

But by all means, if all escorts are the same, all the review sites should come down right now. What's there to read about if we just want you to blow a load and split asap? Fuck it. You guys are all such geniuses. Go back and count all of your coins that got from being so fucking smart in life.

[buttslinger]

Hey now....
On the one hand, no fucking way do I give a friend 300 bucks for a fuck.
On the other hand, after getting to know the escorts on this site, even the bitchy ones, I would be MUCH more comfortable seeing them in person for the FUN, cause God knows I've spent tens of thousands of dollars for FUN.