Query: Do the majority of TS ultimately plan on making the full transition?

[StinkyPete1000]

I've heard a number of girls say that they are saving up to complete their transition. So I was wondering if most girls felt the same way or if there were a lot of girls who preferred to leave some things unchanged.

[RallyCola]

in my experiences, while a handful are quite content to be non-op...most that I have met always want to be the "complete" woman they feel they are and would like to eventually get the GRS.

[nonnonnon]

nope

[robertlouis]

Nobody knows, and it would be wrong to draw conclusions based on girls who escort or do porn as they are far outnumbered by girls who go quietly about their own transition and live relatively ordinary lives.

[Nikka]

yes if u pay for it

[Nicole Dupre]

I do. Or I want to meet the sugar daddy who can distract with real estate, bank accounts, and a life worth trading it for.

[Gillian]

I suppose the amount of feminising surgery will depend on when hormones began, but just how much are you looking at (in US$) for SRS and related procedures, in very round numbers?

[Nicole Dupre]

I suppose the amount of feminising surgery will depend on when hormones began, but just how much are you looking at (in US$) for SRS and related procedures, in very round numbers?
In the US, about 50K altogether.

[kellyh]

My shit packed up and moved to Fla. 9 months after starting my e.As soon as I get the 16 grand its gone for good.

[Nicole Dupre]

My shit packed up and moved to Fla. 9 months after starting my e.As soon as I get the 16 grand its gone for good.
16K? Where? Brazil?

[Nicole Dupre]

I think maybe Reed in Miami costs about 40K between both surgeries. I mean, you'd want pussy lips, no? Not just a hole. lol And then you have all the other little expenses. And Reed's not even that good.

Actually Danielle's pussy looks great, and I bet she paid at least 20K altogether in Thailand.

I just assume if I want an American vagina, I'll need at least 35K just to even be in the ballpark. And then there's aftercare expenses and some money to live on for a few months as you heal. I'm not eating Ramen noodles and having the cable shut off just to have a vagina. lol

[Brandi Boots]

you will get tons of different answers to this question.....

my answer is no. I have too much fukin fun being who I am right now.

[kellyh]

Oh wow I heard Reed was alot less and Bowers starts at 17,000 and then more for the labiaplasty.I'm just recently starting to look at costs.Yeah Danielle's pussy is fucking gold.

[iago_delgado]

In the US, about 50K altogether.
Holly Woodlawn, reputedly, set off with $1,500 of the boyfriend's money (for SRS) in 1966, found out there was a waiting list of at least a year, so blew the money on other things.

[StinkyPete1000]

yes if u pay for it
Haha...well played, my dear. Well played indeed.

[LibertyHarkness]

its about £12k in pounds for supporn , but as nicole said . then its your living costs for months after that oyu need to take in account . so what ever your rent, bils etc all needs to be added ..

so if lets say your surgery was $25k dollars for srs .. you will be looking at another $10/15k for living costs after while you cant work etc ....

But again costs vary o where you go .. myself i would be going to Dr Supporn in Thailand .

[StinkyPete1000]

Follow-up question: if u want the surgery, do u find it strange that guys like you the way you are? Obviously, you should do what makes you happy. That's not the point. I'm curious as to whether girls find it strange that guys like them partly due to a characteristic that they would prefer to change.

For example, a girl has brown eyes and tons of guys like her because she has brown eyes. But all she wants to do is change her eye color to blue. Would she find it strange that guys like her for her brown eyes? What would she think of guys that liked her for a characteristic she was dying to change?

Am I making sense? Do girls ever think about this?

Feel free to punch me in the face if I'm making no sense.

[Nicole Dupre]

Maybe 17K for pt 1 w/ Reed.

[LibertyHarkness]

i dont find it strange that guys like me as i have a cock ...but on the other hand i know thats pretty much the motivational aspect of why they like me ...

While it is posslble to meet guys that say dont know you are ts initially and foind out and still carry on being interested as they like you for you.. but i find them types of people are few and farbetween ....

The question i would ask is if a guy was in a LTR with a pre op TS would her going post op change the dynamic of the relationship .. as she is still the same perosn, the same peronslity just with different mechanics below from what she previously had ..or would the cold reality hit in that they really only cared for the penis aspect ..as once post op she is no different to any ofther genetic girl .

[StinkyPete1000]

i dont find it strange that guys like me as i have a cock ...but on the other hand i know thats pretty much the motivational aspect of why they like me ...

While it is posslble to meet guys that say dont know you are ts initially and foind out and still carry on being interested as they like you for you.. but i find them types of people are few and farbetween ....

The question i would ask is if a guy was in a LTR with a pre op TS would her going post op change the dynamic of the relationship .. as she is still the same perosn, the same peronslity just with different mechanics below from what she previously had ..or would the cold reality hit in that they really only cared for the penis aspect ..as once post op she is no different to any ofther genetic girl .
Good question. To be honest I think the surgery would make a difference. However, that doesn't mean that her cock was the ONLY reason I liked her. But I'd be crazy to say that physical attractiveness is not an important aspect of any healthy relationship.

It works both ways for me. If I was dating a GG and I came home and she had a cock it would be a turn off because I was attracted to her the way she was. I know guy have threads about girls they wish had cocks but at least for me, if I find you physically attractive from the beginning then there's nothing that needs to be changed.

A guys isn't necessarily shallow because he wouldn't be attracted to you post-op anymore than a TS would be shallow for finding a guy less attractive for having the same surgery.

[Gillian]

$50k is about what I thought, particularly when you include the other expenses. A lot of money to put aside.

As far as the OP's question is concerned, how many girls are content to live en femme but never have surgery?

[nonnonnon]

getting srs to have the matching parts isn't quite the same as a gg growing a dick :confused:

[deangamble1967]

Yes- without doubt the majority i.e those of all ages between 16-60 who have nothing to do with porn will have full srs, not all I know, but the majority.

I agree with Libby, I have been to chonburi twice, once with my longterm partner for her srs and then when she went back for a revision at the same time her niece went for srs!

The result with suporn is excellent. The total cost including accommodation flights etc is about £14k, dont know where 50k comes from, she was off of work for 2 more months but on full pay so no loss there. The revision was free although again we had to pay for flights and accommodation - oh and Chonburi is a shithole, with all of the beautiful places there are in Thailand I am amazed that he still work from Chonburi, he does have a nice beach house though that all of his patients get to visit.

Anyway should just have answered with a yes, can tell I'm bored as I very rarely post.

[qwerty94]

Nobody knows, and it would be wrong to draw conclusions based on girls who escort or do porn as they are far outnumbered by girls who go quietly about their own transition and live relatively ordinary lives.

AMEN. Clearly I can't wait to be post op(see my signature). I was fortunate enough to have parents to be able to afford/willing to pay for my surgeries. If it weren't for them, I dont know where I would be or what I would be doing

[Nicole Dupre]

I'm getting it eventually, but it won't be for a couple years. Too many other things are going on right now.

[flabbybody]

Nobody knows, and it would be wrong to draw conclusions based on girls who escort or do porn as they are far outnumbered by girls who go quietly about their own transition and live relatively ordinary lives.
most of the working girls I know want SRS at some point down the road.
and they have a deep down resentment towards the men who pay them for the part of their body that they want to get rid of

[giovanni_hotel]

How many girls are considering leaving their genitalia as is, or are neutral about it??

And what's the point of the OP's question anyway??

We've had enough 'Magic Pussy Faerie' threads already.

[StinkyPete1000]

getting srs to have the matching parts isn't quite the same as a gg growing a dick :confused:
I know. It was simply a hypothetical

[StinkyPete1000]

most of the working girls I know want SRS at some point down the road.
and they have a deep down resentment towards the men who pay them for the part of their body that they want to get rid of
Interesting

[StinkyPete1000]

How many girls are considering leaving their genitalia as is, or are neutral about it??

And what's the point of the OP's question anyway??

We've had enough 'Magic Pussy Faerie' threads already.
I had no idea I'd written a post about the "magic pussy faerie." I was simply asking a question. And I suppose the point was to get an answer to said question.

[giovanni_hotel]

Next time look up the definition of 'preop'.
SMH.

[StinkyPete1000]

Next time look up the definition of 'preop'.
SMH.
To be honest I'm not even sure how looking up that definition would help answer a personal question that might be different for some. If you don't like the question you are free to find another "magic pussy faerie" thread and drop more gems of wisdom if you'd like. Otherwise, if you're not going to be productive why keep posting?

I know what a preop is and what a post-op is. The question was how many wanted to make the transition and how they felt about guys who liked them for the very thing they wanted to change about themselves. If that's too complicated you can always continue to look up knew words in the dictionary. Perhaps one day even "smh" will make its way in there.

What's funny is you asked a similar question in your post. You asked how many girls were considering leaving their genitalia as is or were neutral about. I'd actually like to hear people's answer on that. It's a good question. I would guess that the POINT of your question was to get an answer, right? Well now you know why I asked my question.

[onmyknees]

they have a deep down resentment towards the men who pay them for the part of their body that they want to get rid of

Well working Ladies....can we get an amen, or does Flabby overstate the case?

While I don't expect a morning after phone call to chat about
niceties, I don't particularily relish being loathed either.

[giovanni_hotel]

You're a new poster, Stinky. I find your line of questioning personally suspect. That's all.

Why would I even pose that question to a tgirl - when do you plan if at all to get SRS?? What's the point?? Some plan to do it. Some don't.

There. I answered the question for you in statistical detail, and I'm just some random dude posting on a tranny pornboard.

Most of the ladies on here hate cockhounds, in it for the dick.
The question is all at once simpleminded, stupid and irrelevant.

BTW, what is your 'preference', OP??

Post- or pre-?

And if a TG hates you because you touched her dick or put it in your mouth, how does that make YOU feel??

Round and round.....!

Get off of it already.

[KittyPride]

I wont do srs...i dont think i ever will...
Im not too bothered with it....and been used to it so long...dont look forward to having to get used to a completely different situation and sexuality...
Also being non op makes it easier for me to accept im a ts...post op i might get lost between having to identify myself as female and will be more bothered with being a ts...
Im ok with myself now...i never thought initially this would happen, at first i thought...i dont like to get touched there so the most logical thing is to change it...
But fortunately i know now that you can still have sex and enjoy yourself despite of that...and i even became more comfortable with experimenting...am not bothered anymore and enjoy myself..
A lucky development and im happy with who and what i am now

Its true though i think most girls i know eventually underwent srs...even those who were against it initially...

Im sure...for like 90% that i will remain this...i like and respect the boy part in me...and it does not make me feel less feminine...

[FreddieGomez]

i am talking to this one tranny and she said before she didnt want the surgery but now she does because she prefers straight men and anal sex is a turn off so she wants a puzzy to get fucked.

[Nicole Dupre]

Please.

[Nicole Dupre]

I wont do srs...i dont think i ever will...
Im not too bothered with it....and been used to it so long...dont look forward to having to get used to a completely different situation and sexuality...
Also being non op makes it easier for me to accept im a ts...post op i might get lost between having to identify myself as female and will be more bothered with being a ts...
Im ok with myself now...i never thought initially this would happen, at first i thought...i dont like to get touched there so the most logical thing is to change it...
But fortunately i know now that you can still have sex and enjoy yourself despite of that...and i even became more comfortable with experimenting...am not bothered anymore and enjoy myself..
A lucky development and im happy with who and what i am now

Its true though i think most girls i know eventually underwent srs...even those who were against it initially...

Im sure...for like 90% that i will remain this...i like and respect the boy part in me...and it does not make me feel less feminine...
Stop babbling, dude. Put a tampon in your mouth and stfu. Thanks. Buh bye.

[LovinThaTSLadiez]

Good question. To be honest I think the surgery would make a difference. However, that doesn't mean that her cock was the ONLY reason I liked her. But I'd be crazy to say that physical attractiveness is not an important aspect of any healthy relationship.

It works both ways for me. If I was dating a GG and I came home and she had a cock it would be a turn off because I was attracted to her the way she was. I know guy have threads about girls they wish had cocks but at least for me, if I find you physically attractive from the beginning then there's nothing that needs to be changed.

A guys isn't necessarily shallow because he wouldn't be attracted to you post-op anymore than a TS would be shallow for finding a guy less attractive for having the same surgery.

Well said. That is EXACTLY how I feel.

[KittyPride]

Stop babbling, dude. Put a tampon in your mouth and stfu. Thanks. Buh bye.

Thanks for loving a gay guy like me lol

[Nicole Dupre]

Thanks for loving a gay guy like me lolGo away, and I promise I'll always cherish you and your fascinating world view from afar. I'll even subscribe to your comic book. Ciao, She-Hulk.

[StinkyPete1000]

You're a new poster, Stinky. I find your line of questioning personally suspect. That's all.

Why would I even pose that question to a tgirl - when do you plan if at all to get SRS?? What's the point?? Some plan to do it. Some don't.

There. I answered the question for you in statistical detail, and I'm just some random dude posting on a tranny pornboard.

Most of the ladies on here hate cockhounds, in it for the dick.
The question is all at once simpleminded, stupid and irrelevant.

BTW, what is your 'preference', OP??

Post- or pre-?

And if a TG hates you because you touched her dick or put it in your mouth, how does that make YOU feel??

Round and round.....!

Get off of it already.
I only hope that once I reach your level of posting-greatness I too will have the power to enter an otherwise interesting conversation and provide absolutely nothing. I guess because I'm not a "5 star poster" I have less of a right to ask questions. Please let me know when the hazing is over.

Read the question (I assume you can do that). I'm not asking when. I'm asking "if." trust me the difference is not that subtle. Also it's obvious some plan to do it and some don't. Your powers of deduction of amazing. Again, the wasn't the question either. And yes you are some dude posting, as am I so if you don't like what I'm posting find somewhere else to post. The only thing I find "suspect" is why you have such a problem with my question.

Ok. Last post. The last thing I want to do is engage in an online battle with a guy that finds my line of questioning "suspect" (although I'm not sure why) because I'm a "new poster." wear your 5 star poster varsity jacket with pride my friend. I'm done.

[MacShreach]

I only hope that once I reach your level of posting-greatness I too will have the power to enter an otherwise interesting conversation and provide absolutely nothing. I guess because I'm not a "5 star poster" I have less of a right to ask questions. Please let me know when the hazing is over.

Read the question (I assume you can do that). I'm not asking when. I'm asking "if." trust me the difference is not that subtle. Also it's obvious some plan to do it and some don't. Your powers of deduction of amazing. Again, the wasn't the question either. And yes you are some dude posting, as am I so if you don't like what I'm posting find somewhere else to post. The only thing I find "suspect" is why you have such a problem with my question.

Ok. Last post. The last thing I want to do is engage in an online battle with a guy that finds my line of questioning "suspect" (although I'm not sure why) because I'm a "new poster." wear your 5 star poster varsity jacket with pride my friend. I'm done.

I think, given that a fair number of the responses have been from women, and the general tone has been pretty decent, your question has been well received. I do think it's ground that has been covered before here, but most things have, after all. My opinion, I don't see what was the issue with the question--anyone who is sensitive about it, um, doesn't have to reply.

[Nicole Dupre]

I'm not offended by the question. If I as going to take offense regularly here, I wouldn't be able to read very much. Something has to be pretty offensive at this point to offend me here. The first time I ever came to HA, I wanted to barf at the crossdressing weirdos, the sexual retardation, the shitty attitudes, and just about everything else. Now I just accept the fact that at least half the guys here are brain dead closet cases. A few people cross the line by saying intolerable things, but no one will do anything about it anyway. They'll ban me for posting a damn pic of Crimson Raider before they'll ban some volatile asshole who threatens me for no reason. HA sucks. Get used to it.

[amberskyi]

most girls actually end up fully transitioning at one point or another...this really isnt the place to ask though.porn and escorting isnt exactly an accurate representation of trans women.
i think girls in the industry are less likely too or wait longer because its our bread winner you know

[Silcc69]

most girls actually end up fully transitioning at one point or another...this really isnt the place to ask though.porn and escorting isnt exactly an accurate representation of trans women.
i think girls in the industry are less likely too or wait longer because its our bread winner you know

What up Amber did u enjoy your stay in Nashville?

[amberskyi]

What up Amber did u enjoy your stay in Nashville?

yea it was cool...i can never get over being in the bible belt tho lol

[Silcc69]

yea it was cool...i can never get over being in the bible belt tho lol

LOL did u get my message though?

[amberskyi]

LOL did u get my message though?

.....no

[Silcc69]

.....no

Hmm i left one one ur VM do you not get on aim anymore?

[StinkyPete1000]

most girls actually end up fully transitioning at one point or another...this really isnt the place to ask though.porn and escorting isnt exactly an accurate representation of trans women.
i think girls in the industry are less likely too or wait longer because its our bread winner you know
Point well taken. Thanks.

[amberskyi]

Hmm i left one one ur VM do you not get on aim anymore?

not really...lifes to busy for me right now to sit around and chat lol

[postopadmirer]

most of the working girls I know want SRS at some point down the road.
and they have a deep down resentment towards the men who pay them for the part of their body that they want to get rid of

This gets my vote

[postopadmirer]

I had no idea I'd written a post about the "magic pussy faerie." I was simply asking a question. And I suppose the point was to get an answer to said question.



I get the point of your question. Yes it might have been asked before by the crowd here changes so the opinions might also. Besides I don't think it has been asked in quite that way before. I was interested in the thread and once I get caught op, I'll add my answer too.

For me the biggest surprise was Nicole's answer.

[postopadmirer]

I wont do srs...i dont think i ever will...
Im not too bothered with it....and been used to it so long...dont look forward to having to get used to a completely different situation and sexuality...
Also being non op makes it easier for me to accept im a ts...post op i might get lost between having to identify myself as female and will be more bothered with being a ts...
Im ok with myself now...i never thought initially this would happen, at first i thought...i dont like to get touched there so the most logical thing is to change it...
But fortunately i know now that you can still have sex and enjoy yourself despite of that...and i even became more comfortable with experimenting...am not bothered anymore and enjoy myself..
A lucky development and im happy with who and what i am now

Its true though i think most girls i know eventually underwent srs...even those who were against it initially...

Im sure...for like 90% that i will remain this...i like and respect the boy part in me...and it does not make me feel less feminine...

Kitty you are really something. Liked you before, now even more. Thanks for expressing your feelings so well. I can really relate. Love the avatar too.

[KittyPride]

Kitty you are really something. Liked you before, now even more. Thanks for expressing your feelings so well. I can really relate. Love the avatar too.

Thank you.
My intuition told me you are a guy that cares about who we are and a guy that is respectfull.
So thanks for the compliment...
xxx

[postopadmirer]

Thank you.
My intuition told me you are a guy that cares about who we are and a guy that is respectfull.
So thanks for the compliment...
xxx

Thanks!!!It's easy, you girls inspire me.
I know the road you travel can not be easy (Wish I was brave enough to take it).


Later
POA