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Jersey77Curious
01-29-2012, 04:24 AM
Okay, as I'm reading some of these posts and all.... looks like most of the Tgirls are getting paid for there services. I'm wondering: Is there anyone dating or has a real relationship with a Tgirl. Or if any Tgirl has a person in there life? Why I'm asking, is because I'm not looking for the "one Night Stand $$$". I looking for regular TG to date (if there are any).

Second question: Has any one been successful on the TG-Dating sites? I'm not looking for CD'ers.

Thanks for your reply....

BeardedOne
01-29-2012, 04:41 AM
Okay, as I'm reading some of these posts and all.... looks like most of the Tgirls are getting paid for there services. I'm wondering: Is there anyone dating or has a real relationship with a Tgirl. Or if any Tgirl has a person in there life? Why I'm asking, is because I'm not looking for the "one Night Stand $$$". I looking for regular TG to date (if there are any).

Second question: Has any one been successful on the TG-Dating sites? I'm not looking for CD'ers.

Thanks for your reply....

In this realm, it is relative.

I've met and dated some of the gurls from this site and they have all (=EVERY ONE=) been terrific companions and, in some special cases, longtime friends.

To be clear, I have long been rather broken as far as an emotional, long term relationship is concerned. That's not to say that I don't have the desire for one, just that I don't see that ever happening for me. I see the commercial relationship (Escorts) as being both an express =AND= a safe route for me in the usual social circles. So far, for me, that has satisfied and every gurl that I've been with, =EVERY ONE=, has been a treasured experience.

I do have a couple of favorites with whom I try to spend more quality time, as my budget and their schedule permits. One has even expressed that, under different circumstances, we might be 'an item'.

True, many/most of the gurls on this site are pros, but they are also human beings and shit/fate happens. Some have SOs while others do not. Some are divas while others are shy and reserved. I am a member of one site where one of the posters and one of the gurls met in person and eventually got married (Poor bastard/gurl).

Hang out, chat, trade notes, and be yourself. Who knows? You may be surprised.

tao1kiku
01-29-2012, 06:22 AM
It does happen. I'm involved with someone who is lovely, intelligent, has a career, very carig and loving and actually wants a long term relationship. Be patient and definitely, be yourself.

MdR Dave
01-29-2012, 07:20 AM
Good luck.

Ineeda SM
01-29-2012, 07:39 AM
Okay, as I'm reading some of these posts and all.... looks like most of the Tgirls are getting paid for there services. I'm wondering: Is there anyone dating or has a real relationship with a Tgirl. Or if any Tgirl has a person in there life? Why I'm asking, is because I'm not looking for the "one Night Stand $$$". I looking for regular TG to date (if there are any). Thanks for your reply....

There are a lot of TS ladies out there, that lead normal lives with regular jobs, and have never been in the adult business. The trouble is in finding them. They aren't selling themselves, so don't have anything to advertise.

You can try dating sites, but I never trusted them. They lie a lot. I have met and dated a few TS, but by chance meetings at work or through a friend.

The sweet little TS girl I am dating now used to be on this forum, but she was never in the adult business nor wanted to be. She was only here to try and make a few new friends. But that didn't work out very well because of some ignorant assholes. But she did find me here and we are in love. I may even marry her.

They are around, but good luck finding one that isn't selling you something.

LovinThaTSLadiez
01-29-2012, 11:38 AM
I too am looking to meet a nice TS lady for a girlfriend, but I live in North Florida. TS ladies, hit me up!!!!

jerseyboy72
01-29-2012, 01:11 PM
Okay, as I'm reading some of these posts and all.... looks like most of the Tgirls are getting paid for there services. I'm wondering: Is there anyone dating or has a real relationship with a Tgirl. Or if any Tgirl has a person in there life? Why I'm asking, is because I'm not looking for the "one Night Stand $$$". I looking for regular TG to date (if there are any).

Second question: Has any one been successful on the TG-Dating sites? I'm not looking for CD'ers.

Thanks for your reply.... I have dated tgirls for over 4 years now and I am dating a beautiful and intelligent transwoman right now. I would tell you to join transgenderdate.com. Just like you I wanted a real relationship with a Tgirl. It will be hard to find but there plenty of beautiful girls out there looking for the real thing also.

And if your a good looking guy with a good personality you should find her. Good Luck.

tsnajwa
01-29-2012, 02:49 PM
I am in a committed relationship and I've never escorted or worked in the adult industry girls like us are out there we're just a little more difficult to find.

Kevin Dong
01-29-2012, 03:25 PM
It's absolutely possible I see it all the time. Sarah Von D, Maiden heaven, Alyssa, Danika, Jizelle, Dita are some of the girls I have known to be involved with guys long term. It's Possible :)

ditadior
01-29-2012, 04:02 PM
It's absolutely possible I see it all the time. Sarah Von D, Maiden heaven, Alyssa, Danika, Jizelle, Dita are some of the girls I have known to be involved with guys long term. It's Possible :)

yes your right.
people think that just because we are transsexual doesnt mean that we dončt want a relationship , someonebody to love or partner.

even being a escort you all would be suprised how many times a week i get asked for a date or want to get to know me.

i like the manly men, muscle , dominance, big cock.
but dont want to touch my cock, see it or think about it.

im not single right now. im dating a guy in toronto with open relationship and another in montreal. so i cant take on a third.

TSLoverUK999
01-29-2012, 05:20 PM
I don't understand why your blowing it up to be something it's not, it's dating, it's the same whether it's guy & gg, guy & tg, guy & guy or girl & girl.

Ts dating sites help because it is a small community spread across the world. You can tell within a few minutes of chat if the girl is just looking for a client or a date.

Can't hate the tg girls for what they do, in a world full of people that have little respect for them & their desire for a career, it's understandable they turn to the sex industry & use their assets to please those who admirer them. Doesn't mean they can't fall in love, it's just not what society deems as conventional.......but who cares what soceity thinks, society is made up of idiots who believe in all sorts of weird crap.

Just keep trying.

PapiBear
01-29-2012, 05:31 PM
Hey, good luck. She's out there for you. Find someone you enjoy spending time with -- you know, coversation, not just friction. It will help you enjoy her company as you both get older.

Also, do a real soul check here: are you totally cool introducing her to your friends, your family? T-girls are some of the most courageous, unstoppable, and incredible people. If you can proudly bring her home to mom & dad, then go for it.

MdR Dave
01-29-2012, 07:34 PM
. . .who cares what society thinks, society is made up of idiots who believe in all sorts of weird crap.

True.

Jersey77Curious
01-30-2012, 04:52 AM
Wow, A lot of replies..... and things to think about.

To all, thanks for the in-site...

acdaddy69
01-30-2012, 05:26 AM
yes your right.
people think that just because we are transsexual doesnt mean that we dončt want a relationship , someonebody to love or partner.

even being a escort you all would be suprised how many times a week i get asked for a date or want to get to know me.

i like the manly men, muscle , dominance, big cock.
but dont want to touch my cock, see it or think about it.

im not single right now. im dating a guy in toronto with open relationship and another in montreal. so i cant take on a third.

dita, i could be the 3rd guys...how can apply? I even speak a little french..well more like understand it than speak it...merci

ditadior
01-30-2012, 07:18 AM
dita, i could be the 3rd guys...how can apply? I even speak a little french..well more like understand it than speak it...merci

what do you look like?
email me a picture dita.tsexual@gmail.com
or dita@tsditadior.com

hefzfavebunii
01-30-2012, 07:25 AM
I don't understand why your blowing it up to be something it's not, it's dating, it's the same whether it's guy & gg, guy & tg, guy & guy or girl & girl.

Ts dating sites help because it is a small community spread across the world. You can tell within a few minutes of chat if the girl is just looking for a client or a date.

Can't hate the tg girls for what they do, in a world full of people that have little respect for them & their desire for a career, it's understandable they turn to the sex industry & use their assets to please those who admirer them. Doesn't mean they can't fall in love, it's just not what society deems as conventional.......but who cares what soceity thinks, society is made up of idiots who believe in all sorts of weird crap.

Just keep trying.

Amen! Loved what you and papibear said. I love seeing men who understand, and appreciate us instead of demean and put us down! Bravo

acdaddy69
01-30-2012, 08:28 AM
what do you look like?
email me a picture dita.tsexual@gmail.com
or dita@tsditadior.com

dita check your mail...

TaylorX
01-30-2012, 09:18 AM
I am an escort and I dont find it all that difficult to be in a relationship. When you're involved with that special person, you learn to set boundaries, separation between business and relationship, and on top of all of that it definitely involves a HUGE AMOUNT of trust. Being open and honest and up-front with one another is key when developing a relationship with someone. Lets be real in saying that we all know that escorting is SHORT-TERM, not a career path. This is the way that I make money for the time being. Its just the way it is, and for those that want a relationship or have tried to have a relationship with me have been open about my way of living. I keep business and my heart at opposite ends of my being.

ditadior
01-30-2012, 11:34 AM
dita check your mail...

OMFG! How big is your cock?
You are gorgeous baby. Come see me in Canada.

acdaddy69
01-30-2012, 06:04 PM
OMFG! How big is your cock?
You are gorgeous baby. Come see me in Canada.

Thanks babe...its 10 inches, hope that dont scare you away lol...and for those of you wondering, no I did not send her a dick pick....I always wanted to go to canada...maybe in the summer...dita, you could always come n visit me?

south09
01-31-2012, 07:24 AM
I had a dalliance with a TS woman. I wish it were more current affairs and less history, but that's life sometimes.

ditadior
02-04-2012, 08:00 AM
Thanks babe...its 10 inches, hope that dont scare you away lol...and for those of you wondering, no I did not send her a dick pick....I always wanted to go to canada...maybe in the summer...dita, you could always come n visit me?

if you come to canada you know my number just give me a call.

carl essex
02-04-2012, 12:48 PM
i have been in a relationship with a TS now for 2 years. not every TS is in porn or escorting. but just get out in the club and bars that are either trans or trans friendly and just treat the girls like you would a normal girl. chat them up, buy a drink dinner etc and see what happens. you might get 10 that dont click but then suddenly like with GG you will find one that is your match and thats it - happiness!!!!!!! stay off the dating site get out in the real world