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Vicki Richter
02-03-2006, 06:21 AM
After speaking with a TS counterpart today. I have decided to turn over a new leaf and focus on the positive elements of the TS society. I freely admit that certain events have caused me to become a bit jaded of most other girls, but at the end of the day, we're all just living the life we didn't really have a choice but to live. I think I come across as elitist, snobby, etc... all good reasons for other girls to stay away from me. I'm really not THAT bad in real life.

That said:

First, there is nothing wrong with escorting. Yes I make comments about it now and then, but I don't really feel that way. Fucking for money on camera isn't any better than fucking for money anywhere else. It shouldn't be illegal. I have actually said that before. I wish it was regulated as it would be safer for the girls and the guys, but on the whole, it is a fine career. I do wish more of the girls would be smarter with their money. Shopping is good and fun, but consider that escorting is a fleeting career. Save or invest OK? Goto school of some kind. Get surgeries, but understand that it can be addicting. It is really easy for girls to get hooked into the, "I'm still young" mentallity and blow all their money on this and that.

Don't take yourself, or anything people say about you too seriously. Even though we dislike each other, Allanah and I both hurt each other's feelings at times on here. She can deny it, but shitty comments hurt no matter how high up you are on the food chain. I've always said that one nasty comment takes away 100 positive ones. However, as long as you are happy with yourself, others won't get you down. TS girls only have to be at peace with themselves, the rest is a bonus.

Live your dreams. Don't get down if there are bumps along the way. Surgery is hard, but recommended. If you look at before and after of myself, Allanah, and Jennifer Paris, you will see that surgery is an amazing blessing. I am not saying I'm beautiful like them, but it has definitely changed my life for the better. I owe my being accepted in day to day life to surgery and I hold my own at the clubs. 8)

If you do get silicone, make sure you go to a reputable person. Girls get hurt all the time by going to fly by night TS pumpers trying to make a quick buck. Yes silicone can look good, but be careful, and know what you are doing because it is nearly impossible to remove. I know several girls who wish they could take at least some of it back.

If you have any opportunity to start really young, and you are convinced of what you are, then consider that every day you don't change your life you will regret later. Hormones have the greatest impact the younger you are. Despite the hate that can happen in our society, living your life as a woman (if you are so inclined) can be a wonderful thing.

Oh, and don't do drugs (even though many of them should be legal too). And yes, I am proudly pro-God, but also pro-abortion, and pro a lot of things that theorhetically aren't Christian.

Vicki

Hugh Jarrod
02-03-2006, 06:23 AM
I'm proud of you sweetie.

Quinn
02-03-2006, 06:36 AM
A nice post.

-Quinn

Felicia Katt
02-03-2006, 06:42 AM
A nice post.

-Quinn

agreed.

FK

Jasadin
02-03-2006, 06:44 AM
:claps

GroobySteven
02-03-2006, 08:18 AM
:?:

chefmike
02-03-2006, 08:23 AM
:roll: :smh :lies

italianmanxxx2000
02-03-2006, 08:39 AM
Nicely worded post hun.

Vicki Richter
02-03-2006, 10:42 AM
:roll: :smh :lies

Oh ye of little faith...

AllanahStarrNYC
02-03-2006, 12:09 PM
you know what- if she can bury the hatchet- i'll say i can too, and we will try to coexist on here by civil towards each other and staying out of each others way , despite our dislike of each other


we dont have to be friends, but we dont have to be killing ourselves to out do each other with insults either

i'll stick to it if you can

Hugh Jarrod
02-03-2006, 12:58 PM
*sniffle* I'm sooooo happy now *sniffle*

romeo
02-03-2006, 01:33 PM
Peace :?: :fc
Nice post Vicki...all my respect to u


*sniffle* I'm sooooo happy now *sniffle*
:lol: :lol: :lol:

Ecstatic
02-03-2006, 03:33 PM
The power of positive posting. ;)

tgirl in platform heels
02-03-2006, 03:51 PM
if allanah and vicki can reside on these boards without no longer being enemies then maybe there's hope too for lasting peace in israel and palestine?!

:wink:

redhead
02-03-2006, 05:21 PM
Hi Vicki, Very thoughtful insight into your inner self. It just proves that this whole TS "thing" is not all about sex and tranny chasers. Thanks for the sharing.

BlackAdder
02-03-2006, 07:42 PM
Best post ive seen Vicki!! cheers!

Vicki Richter
02-03-2006, 08:01 PM
Thanks all and thanks Allanah.

Aedan
02-03-2006, 09:22 PM
Clever girl Vicki!! Allanah...beauty in and outside...

BeardedOne
02-03-2006, 09:38 PM
What a lovely post. :claps

I hope it sticks, as the advice is good (Not just for T-gurls, but for general purposes as well).

And we all want whirled peas...er...world peace. :wink: Having our little piece of it here on HA is certainly a good start.

Hatchet burying is good ("Not in your pointy litlle head" - Foghorn Leghorn) and highly encouraged.

Having not been a good week for posties in CA or gay men in New Bedford, MA, it's nice to see some positive notes for a change.

Thanks for the post, Vicki, and the positive response, Allanah (And all).

Vicki Richter
02-03-2006, 09:54 PM
You know... I think other TS here (and yes you guys too) could be more vocal with advice for young and new TS, or even existing established girls. There are guys like Seanchai who have met thousands of girls who could clearly give supportive advice. There are guys in here who could offer financial management. I think a challenge a lot of escorts have is building credit and such because of how they make their money. I've seen some TS build side businesses ans such which is one way.

Anyway, that is all I really wanted to say here and I do appreciate the fact that people received it positively. Primarily because when I do things like this, it just makes me more negative when my motives are sincere and yet questioned as superficial.

V

BeardedOne
02-03-2006, 10:17 PM
I think other TS here (and yes you guys too) could be more vocal with advice for young and new TS, or even existing established girls.

Good point, and a bonus is that such threads can get a discussion going among those giving the advice. A bit of brainstorming (With a common goal) can be good for all involved.


There are guys in here who could offer financial management. I think a challenge a lot of escorts have is building credit and such because of how they make their money. I've seen some TS build side businesses ans such which is one way.

Escorts or not, there are people out there whose shoe size is bigger than their FICO score (How banks, etc. judge your credit worthiness). As a sideline (Not my "real" job) I do small business management consulting wherein I help analyze and organize the numbers for small businesses and individuals. It's a sort of savant talent of mine (Coming from a guy that once lived in his car and worked up to home-ownership and AAA credit). If someone pings me for advice I'm more than happy to have a Q & A with them via e-mail. Note that I am not cheap, but I'm damned easy. :wink:

I've also noticed, through passing posts on the boards, that there are a number of folx here that are savvy enough to give advice in such areas. Best advice, from the start, know your advisor and make informed (But not directed or coerced) decisions.

joyboy123
02-04-2006, 01:23 AM
if allanah and vicki can reside on these boards without no longer being enemies then maybe there's hope too for lasting peace in israel and palestine?!

:wink:

I think so.
Season 3 of Nip/Tuck is over, Vicki and Allanah, will no longer be arguing, it looks like i'm going to have to focus on myself and get a life.

Change is good.

BeardedOne
02-04-2006, 01:28 AM
Season 3 of Nip/Tuck is over, Vicki and Allanah, will no longer be arguing, it looks like i'm going to have to focus on myself and get a life.

Three :?:

Three :?: :!: :?:

Damn! :shock: I only just finished Season 2. Gawd! Wotta ending! Famke Jansen....*Drool*! Bonus points! :claps

Uh...Where were we? :lol:

specialk
02-04-2006, 01:47 AM
Well it's sure nice to see the old peace pipe getting stoked once again! It's about time, as the dagger tossing is only fun for us on the sidelines for so long. Vickie, I give you a lot of credit for stepping forward and taking the initiative, plus the advice for other girls is well founded too.

By the way.....any chance there will be a film in the future starring Vickie and Allanah? A guy can dream can't he 8)

Canucklehead
02-04-2006, 01:54 AM
I hope that the truce lasts, but if it doesn't, can I spank the one who breaks the truce???
I'm sure it would be better than spankin' the monkey.

Hugh Jarrod
02-04-2006, 06:17 AM
if allanah and vicki can reside on these boards without no longer being enemies then maybe there's hope too for lasting peace in israel and palestine?!

:wink:

Actually I lived in that part of the world for a while, they're gonna be fucked for sometime.

Dino Velvet
02-04-2006, 06:28 AM
I am not a real regular around here and am not in the know about a lot of the happenings. What was the cause of the beef between Allanah and Vicki anyway and how did the fire keep burning and how long has this been going on? Don't they live on opposite ends of the country?

hwbs
02-04-2006, 07:58 AM
glad u2 buried the hatchet.... :peanutbutter

specialk
02-04-2006, 02:36 PM
Dino said:



I am not a real regular around here and am not in the know about a lot of the happenings. What was the cause of the beef between Allanah and Vicki anyway and how did the fire keep burning and how long has this been going on? Don't they live on opposite ends of the country?"


Please don't even ask....it would be like putting out the fire with a gas can!!![/color]

ARMANIXXX
02-04-2006, 07:26 PM
Yeah.....streetwalking does indeed make a "fine career".


:lol:

BeardedOne
02-04-2006, 09:25 PM
Please don't even ask....it would be like putting out the fire with a gas can!!!

Just think US/USSR, years of strife and distrust for no real reason, everybody shook hands and made up ( :grouphug ) and now I'm wearing a Mokba Metpo (Moscow Metro) t-shirt. :D


Yeah.....streetwalking does indeed make a "fine career".

Whatever pays the bills. Could just as well have been repo-gurls, process servers, or worse: tort attorneys. :wink:

phxguy
04-09-2006, 11:36 PM
Yeah.....streetwalking does indeed make a "fine career".


:lol:

There's a big difference between streetwalking and escorting.

Edmund
04-10-2006, 07:05 PM
Yeah.....streetwalking does indeed make a "fine career".


:lol:

There's a big difference between streetwalking and escorting.

Whoa. Night of the living thread, here.

Deepdarkfucker
04-10-2006, 07:25 PM
Vikki & Allanah - hmmm sounds like a hell of a date! I am in!!!