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confront
12-26-2003, 12:17 AM
Or have you kept it a secret?

I'm currently not in any kind of releationship and since I have become more and more interested in Tgirls I haven't really been in any kind of serious relationship. Although know someday in the future I know I will be and hopefully it's with someone I know is open enough to not flip out.

However, as I think of that I wonder about how I could possibly bring this up.

Anyone have any tips or horror stories about this they'd like to share?

bofnyc
12-26-2003, 03:20 AM
Unless your girlfriend is going to be into threesomes or is cool with you fooling around with t-girls on the side, there really is no point in telling her. My girlfriend knows and it's not like I can tell her how hot I think a certain t-girl is. She doesn't want to hear it. It's just like with regular girls. She's been cool enough to go to a few tranny bars with me but having her know about it has not really added anything to our relationship.

Basically, she knows how gorgeous t-girls can be and she knows they have something that she can't offer, so it's intimidating for her. As it probably would be for most girls.

twowaybro
12-26-2003, 08:45 AM
For me the T-Girl thing is my own little private obsession/perversion. Mostly fantasy but i must b honest and state that the desire to act it out has become increasingly strong. The more i c such beautiful TS specimens such as Jennifer, Sheeba, Shacora, Lucero etc., the stronger the desire becomes. The idea of sharing this with my mate though is out of the question as she is not open 2 such things. She would b out of the door in a heartbeat if this were 2 b discovered. And other than lacking that added bonus shemale "clit", she is too fine and too much of a woman to risk losing. So this remains a secret aspect of my persona but a very invigorating one.

popperluv
12-26-2003, 03:35 PM
Most women would be intimidated. There is no way they can compete with a tranny cause they dont have the equipment. Im sure there some women out there who woudnt mind.
Keep it on the down low and play safe!

jerry
12-27-2003, 01:21 AM
If my wife found out she would be out of the door. period. She is a beautiful ggirl, nearly 25 years younger than me. I couldn't bear to lose her. I started fantasizing about tgirls about 2 years ago. I haven't been with one yet, but I have decided to make my fantasy a reality. I'm in the UK where we don't have many tgirls. I'm going to take a short break in NY and try to hook with some of the fine black tgirls you have over there like Love or Kim. Maybe Mega could help me hook up with them.

popperluv
12-30-2003, 03:27 PM
Most 19 yr old girls are open to new experiences but an older women or anyone with a serious relationship is not going to be as lucky as you.

popperluv
12-30-2003, 08:26 PM
I still find it hard to belive that your girl would have no problem knowing you suck TGirls cocks.

d
12-31-2003, 05:28 AM
Want real problems? Tell your tgirl girlfriend you like another tgirl. Shit, let one of your regular tgirl escorts find out you went to another escort. All women are crazy.

Vic
12-31-2003, 05:45 AM
I can't say that all women are the same, and I find that each woman that I have met has been unique. With that said, I exposed my wife to my interest in T-girls via playing a video of T-girls during our sexual encouters. Granted she was freaked out, but she accepted it, watched the video, and the sex continued. There were no hardcore questions about what turned my on, or why I was watching the videos. So as I said there are exceptions to each rule.