A question for some of the guys

[BigDF]

I know I've asked this one before, but I really want to know just what's going on with some of you guys. I'm talking about the ones who keep spouting all the negative shit about some of the ladies posting on here. Yeah, I know it's the internet and all that, but,seriously?

I just got done replying to smoothdude who is about as smooth as a grinding wheel, stating that someone is the ugliest tranny in porn. You don't like how someone looks, hey that's your business, but there's no need to insult the lady in question.

I'm wondering about guys who do this kind of thing because it seems like they don't even like T-girls. If that's the case, why are you on here? Just curious.:geek:

[LovinThaTSLadiez]

Set them straight, BigDF. There is no room for useless insults here.

[BraveHeartz]

They're trolls. It's crazy how many of them there are here, but I just ignore them. I can't quite figure if they hate TS's or if they're just self loathing and hate themselves.

[onmyknees]

I know I've asked this one before, but I really want to know just what's going on with some of you guys. I'm talking about the ones who keep spouting all the negative shit about some of the ladies posting on here. Yeah, I know it's the internet and all that, but,seriously?

I just got done replying to smoothdude who is about as smooth as a grinding wheel, stating that someone is the ugliest tranny in porn. You don't like how someone looks, hey that's your business, but there's no need to insult the lady in question.

I'm wondering about guys who do this kind of thing because it seems like they don't even like T-girls. If that's the case, why are you on here? Just curious.:geek:


Nice try Big D...but you're wasting your time. Not gonna happen. As long as squirrels can remain secret, they'll use that anonymity to judge others harshly to masque their own shortcomings. But don't reserve your contempt just for the dudes....it's both guys and gurls. TS hatin' on TV's , dudes hatin' on gurls that don't measure up to their fantasies....and on it goes.
Hit the flush handle bro cause that's where this load of shit is headed unless people can exhibit some self discipline, and respect.

[flabbybody]

I know I've asked this one before, but I really want to know just what's going on with some of you guys. I'm talking about the ones who keep spouting all the negative shit about some of the ladies posting on here. Yeah, I know it's the internet and all that, but,seriously?

I just got done replying to smoothdude who is about as smooth as a grinding wheel, stating that someone is the ugliest tranny in porn. You don't like how someone looks, hey that's your business, but there's no need to insult the lady in question.

I'm wondering about guys who do this kind of thing because it seems like they don't even like T-girls. If that's the case, why are you on here? Just curious.:geek:
I've been hearing for years how the moderation here has been laxed and even nonexistent but that comment got the screen name a permanent deletion.
And my apologies to the person it was directed towards, who contributes a great deal of quality content from her site

[justafreak]

different strokes for different folks

[joshmac33322]

I'm with you guys...even more so that it's anti bully month, let's stop this bs.

[robertlouis]

I know I've asked this one before, but I really want to know just what's going on with some of you guys. I'm talking about the ones who keep spouting all the negative shit about some of the ladies posting on here. Yeah, I know it's the internet and all that, but,seriously?

I just got done replying to smoothdude who is about as smooth as a grinding wheel, stating that someone is the ugliest tranny in porn. You don't like how someone looks, hey that's your business, but there's no need to insult the lady in question.

I'm wondering about guys who do this kind of thing because it seems like they don't even like T-girls. If that's the case, why are you on here? Just curious.:geek:

:iagree: Well said Dave. I'm aware from pm's that a lot of the girls, including those who aren't targeted, find it upsetting and enough to consider their continuing attendance here. Some have been driven away because of it.

Best rule has to be that if you wouldn't say it openly to someone's face, don't post it here.

[MdR Dave]

I know I've asked this one before, but I really want to know just what's going on with some of you guys. I'm talking about the ones who keep spouting all the negative shit about some of the ladies posting on here. Yeah, I know it's the internet and all that, but,seriously?

I just got done replying to smoothdude who is about as smooth as a grinding wheel, stating that someone is the ugliest tranny in porn. You don't like how someone looks, hey that's your business, but there's no need to insult the lady in question.

I'm wondering about guys who do this kind of thing because it seems like they don't even like T-girls. If that's the case, why are you on here? Just curious.:geek:

When one of the nicest, and least confrontational, guys on the board asks "what the fuck are you thinking?" it adds a little extra power to the question.

I hope people actually think about it, BigDF. Thanks.

[giovanni_hotel]

Suck it up. We're home alone without adult supervision.
Apparently social retards are into trannies too.

[robertlouis]

Suck it up. We're home alone without adult supervision.
Apparently social retards are into trannies too.

Sadly all too true, Giovanni. :(

[MdR Dave]

Suck it up. We're home alone without adult supervision.
Apparently social retards are into trannies too.

LOL! Good point, and widely acknowledged. Problem is, the worst of us are driving the girls away.

[FistFuk]

Now some of you new guys wanna start fighting trolls. . .

Heh.

I think it's great, if you can actually do it. It's not that difficult. First lesson: If a person posts in ALL CAPS or uses exclamation points constantly, don't even ask questions, just kill 'em (in a virtual sense, of course).

That's an easy one.

;)

[robertlouis]

Now some of you new guys wanna start fighting trolls. . .

Heh.

I think it's great, if you can actually do it. It's not that difficult. First lesson: If a person posts in ALL CAPS or uses exclamation points constantly, don't even ask questions, just kill 'em (in a virtual sense, of course).

That's an easy one.

;)

Don't forget the ones who insist on using fancy fonts all the time and oversize their posts.

[FistFuk]

Font fancification is under study at the Honda Institute of Troll Killing (Hit-K), but it does not yet require a shoot-to-kill.

The handbook is being revised, though, so just watch those fonts for now.

[canihavu]

I know I've asked this one before, but I really want to know just what's going on with some of you guys. I'm talking about the ones who keep spouting all the negative shit about some of the ladies posting on here. Yeah, I know it's the internet and all that, but,seriously?

I just got done replying to smoothdude who is about as smooth as a grinding wheel, stating that someone is the ugliest tranny in porn. You don't like how someone looks, hey that's your business, but there's no need to insult the lady in question.

I'm wondering about guys who do this kind of thing because it seems like they don't even like T-girls. If that's the case, why are you on here? Just curious.:geek:


This is one of the reasons I dont post around these parts like I used to.

[FistFuk]

What was one of the reasons you posted here to begin with?

[canihavu]

What was one of the reasons you posted here to begin with?


Conversation was different. Folks were able to post pics from just about any site. There were more ladies who posted.

[FistFuk]

Don't give me that shit. The forum should change to prevent it sliding back into "dumbfucks posting about their weird repressed nonsense". I'm sure there are other forums for that.

End of discussion.

[robertlouis]

Don't give me that shit. The forum should change to prevent it sliding back into "dumbfucks posting about their weird repressed nonsense". I'm sure there are other forums for that.

End of discussion.

Too late. While you've been away that's moved up to 50%+ of all posts. There's a new outburst of Am I Gay? at least twice a week.

[FistFuk]

It actually use to be worse.

[Silcc69]

Damn I missed out today.

[Nivek]

If you think someone is ugly that's one thing, but to go out of your way to blatantly name the person is just cruel, grow the fuck up already I'm sure ALL of us learned this in preschool maybe some babies just need to be reminded what they already learned many years ago.

[loveboof]

As long as squirrels can remain secret, they'll use that anonymity to judge others harshly to masque their own shortcomings

Wow. I had no idea squirrels had such a complicated psyche!

And what kind of shortcomings do they worry about - tail too bushy? lol

[MdR Dave]

I only know one secret squirrel, but he's on the right team-

[Pelheckitt]

As bad as some of what people say is and the attacks are sometimes personal this is basically an open forum. If someones rants are censored where does the line become drawn? Speaking out against a company? The goverment? The Pope? Im half joking but really what is the stopping point? One of the things that make this board intresting to non chasers, is the banter and open discussions on subjects. Normally if someone is ranting and bad mouthing someone it is an immediate indication of their intelligence level and becomes aparent to the group. Let it be.

Also the name calling comes from both sides of the aisle.

[MdR Dave]

Based on what the mods have ignored and what they've axed it seems simple: don't fuck with the girls, don't fuck with the girls, and don't fuck with the girls.


Also, don't fuck with the girls.

We know what acceptable behavior is, the line between discourse and being a dick, etc.

[Prospero]

:iagree::iagree::iagree:
I know I've asked this one before, but I really want to know just what's going on with some of you guys. I'm talking about the ones who keep spouting all the negative shit about some of the ladies posting on here. Yeah, I know it's the internet and all that, but,seriously?

I just got done replying to smoothdude who is about as smooth as a grinding wheel, stating that someone is the ugliest tranny in porn. You don't like how someone looks, hey that's your business, but there's no need to insult the lady in question.

I'm wondering about guys who do this kind of thing because it seems like they don't even like T-girls. If that's the case, why are you on here? Just curious.:geek:

There is just so much hate here. The arguments in the political section are one thing, but bile directed for no reason other than someone has a face you don't find appealing is just unacceptable. I'm glad to see that the moderators banned this person (though they might re-emerge in another form - seems to happen). Well said BigDF.

[rockabilly]

Some people just don't have respect or tact.

[dderek123]

http://iwinyoulose.files.wordpress.com/2009/06/troll.jpg?w=230&h=238

Let's hope they're trolls. Some might even get a laugh out of that.

Otherwise they would be on a quest to align the entire universe with their values, beliefs and preferences. Which is fucking childish high-school bullshit.

[BigDF]

As bad as some of what people say is and the attacks are sometimes personal this is basically an open forum. If someones rants are censored where does the line become drawn? Speaking out against a company? The goverment? The Pope? Im half joking but really what is the stopping point? One of the things that make this board intresting to non chasers, is the banter and open discussions on subjects. Normally if someone is ranting and bad mouthing someone it is an immediate indication of their intelligence level and becomes aparent to the group. Let it be.

Also the name calling comes from both sides of the aisle.Hey, I'm all for free speech and open discussions, and a lot of the banter is fun. But some of what is said is really mean-spirited and hurtful to others, especially the ladies. Apparently the line has been drawn and the situation I described in my original post has been resolved. Actually if you look at the rules for postings, direct personal attacks are out of bounds. And what exactly is a non-chaser? I thought this forum is for t-girls and people who like t-girls.:)

[Nicole Dupre]

As bad as some of what people say is and the attacks are sometimes personal this is basically an open forum. If someones rants are censored where does the line become drawn? Speaking out against a company? The goverment? The Pope? Im half joking but really what is the stopping point? One of the things that make this board intresting to non chasers, is the banter and open discussions on subjects. Normally if someone is ranting and bad mouthing someone it is an immediate indication of their intelligence level and becomes aparent to the group. Let it be.

Also the name calling comes from both sides of the aisle.
Pffffft. How dare you chime in? You have no respect, so you have no 'side of an aisle'. You only came here to defend your BF's honor anyway. Oh, and btw, "he" wants to be Vicki Richter, if you haven't picked up on it yet. He should change his name to "Pink Raider".

Homo.

[slingblade]

I know I've asked this one before, but I really want to know just what's going on with some of you guys. I'm talking about the ones who keep spouting all the negative shit about some of the ladies posting on here. Yeah, I know it's the internet and all that, but,seriously?

I just got done replying to smoothdude who is about as smooth as a grinding wheel, stating that someone is the ugliest tranny in porn. You don't like how someone looks, hey that's your business, but there's no need to insult the lady in question.

I'm wondering about guys who do this kind of thing because it seems like they don't even like T-girls. If that's the case, why are you on here? Just curious.:geek:

LOL there is no need for that kind of stuff. I have lots of disagreements but there is no need to put down TS with that kind of stuff!

[SirCumsAlot]

meh get over it, it's the internet. If you gonna post pics online and/or try to get into the entertainment biz, better be tough enough to be able to handle all types of feedbacks...

[giovanni_hotel]

As far as decorum and general respect for other members, this is THE worst forum I've ever been on surfing the interwebz.

You can be pissed off at someone without personally insulting/attacking them.
A good rule of thumb is 'attack the post, not the poster'.
But this gets all kinds of fucked up when the original post IS an attack on another poster.

You can talk about anything and anyone IMO without crossing the line into junior HS name-calling.

People can say it doesn't matter and everyone should be allowed to talk and say whatever they want, but it's also the reason HA probably has more one time visitors who refuse to come back because they're afraid of being gang-raped by the mob that routinely posts here.

Not everyone has a default combat mode when they logon to their PC.

On top of all the typical bullshit, going after girls IMO should be a 30 day ban, if not permanent. Because of the nature of the forum it serves no one's purposes for admirers/chasers to run off the ladies.

Same fucked up broken record, same stupid dance.

If there weren't a healthy dose of hott chicks who still manage to post from time to time on HA, I'd be out.

I didn't come here to trade pics and read reviews of providers all the time.

[bte]

As far as decorum and general respect for other members, this is THE worst forum I've ever been on surfing the interwebz.


You should go to the Underground or UFC forums. They were worst than HA at one point.

[Nicole Dupre]

You should go to the Underground or UFC forums. They were worst than HA at one point.
Tattooing forums are worse than this place ever was. Female tattooists threaten to stab each other, guys threaten to firebomb other guy's tattoo shops, etc. And they just might do it too. lol And the guys are often real bikers; Hells Angels, Pagans, Bandidos, Outlaws, Satans Slaves, Gypsy Jokers, Mongols, Rock Machine, etc, etc. And they won't offer that info either. You may be accidentally telling a Hells Angel to fuck off, and not even realize it. And THAT could be dangerous. lol

[dderek123]

You should go to the Underground or UFC forums. They were worst than HA at one point.

Sherdog forums were like the TROLL OLYMPICS until people got sick of it. Remember donny and how he met BJ Penn at the airport.

UG is consistently trollish though.

[jerseyboy72]

If you gonna post pics online and/or try to get into the entertainment biz, better be tough enough to be able to handle all types of feedbacks...

Agreed.

[onmyknees]

As far as decorum and general respect for other members, this is THE worst forum I've ever been on surfing the interwebz.

You can be pissed off at someone without personally insulting/attacking them.
A good rule of thumb is 'attack the post, not the poster'.
But this gets all kinds of fucked up when the original post IS an attack on another poster.

You can talk about anything and anyone IMO without crossing the line into junior HS name-calling.

People can say it doesn't matter and everyone should be allowed to talk and say whatever they want, but it's also the reason HA probably has more one time visitors who refuse to come back because they're afraid of being gang-raped by the mob that routinely posts here.

Not everyone has a default combat mode when they logon to their PC.

On top of all the typical bullshit, going after girls IMO should be a 30 day ban, if not permanent. Because of the nature of the forum it serves no one's purposes for admirers/chasers to run off the ladies.

Same fucked up broken record, same stupid dance.

If there weren't a healthy dose of hott chicks who still manage to post from time to time on HA, I'd be out.

I didn't come here to trade pics and read reviews of providers all the time.

"On top of all the typical bullshit, going after girls IMO should be a 30 day ban, if not permanent. Because of the nature of the forum it serves no one's purposes for admirers/chasers to run off the ladies."

I didn't say moderating this mess was easy, but your solution won't work either. What happens when 2 gurls get into a cat fight ( witness the Paris and the Youbitches quarrel last week. Do you then ban both of them...or just one....if so which one? And some gurls are just harder than others....hard meaning they give as good as they get...
I've given up thinking that folks might exhibit some self discipline and mutual respect. And how do you reconcile the fact that the most popular thread on here is the amateur TV one....yet most of those folks never post on the GD board for obvious reasons.

[Dino Velvet]

I screw with everyone but leave the girls alone. Even when they are hostile towards me I ignore instead of retaliate.

[justafreak]

I screw with everyone but leave the girls alone. Even when they are hostile towards me I ignore instead of retaliate.


totally agree. no need for confrontations with girls if i don't like a chick i just ignore her, its what I would do IRL.

[Dino Velvet]

i don't like a chick i just ignore her

Yep. If they really did you wrong ignoring them is worse than yelling at them. When you yell you acknowledge that they exist. That's a definite no-no.

[FistFuk]

This thread has taken a turn for the worse.

Guys luv girls because girls take the effort to be beautiful, and that should be appreciated.

I wake up, shave my head and brush my teeth, not really a great deal of work involved, so I'm very appreciative towards a pretty girl to come home to after work. It's not complicated.

[onmyknees]

This thread has taken a turn for the worse.

Guys luv girls because girls take the effort to be beautiful, and that should be appreciated.

I wake up, shave my head and brush my teeth, not really a great deal of work involved, so I'm very appreciative towards a pretty girl to come home to after work. It's not complicated.

I don't agree. Any thread that can go 5 pages without a blowout of some sort is not all that bad. There's been some disagreement, but it's hasn't turned ugly....but there's still time ! lol

[FistFuk]

You've already been put on the dipshit list. Why keep posting?

[BigDF]

I don't agree. Any thread that can go 5 pages without a blowout of some sort is not all that bad. There's been some disagreement, but it's hasn't turned ugly....but there's still time ! lol


You've already been put on the dipshit list. Why keep posting?Well, let's see now. We have OMK making a nice coherent comment vs FF's reply. And then there is me, right in the middle. If I gotta choose, I'll join OMK on FF's dipshit list. Why keep posting? Because, except for my need to validate newbies (I was once one myself) there are some awesome ladies on here that I love to shower compliments on.:dancing: