T-girl or strap-on

[steve731]

Hi,

I'd really love to be fucked by a t-girl. I'm lucky enough that my wife has used a strap-on on me a few times when she is in the mood, but that is not very often at all. She has kindly said that she is happy for me to pay someone to get this service, as she knows it is something I really crave.

This is great, but my concern is over safety. Even if a t-girl wears a condom I just don't think I'm happy with the STI risks for myself and therefore more importantly my wife.

However, there are a few safer options that I think could be good:
1) See a dominatrix and get fucked with a strap-on.
2) See a gg escort and get fucked with a strap-on
3) See a t-girl and get fucked between my legs.

Now, my dream session would be something along the lines of the way Yasmin Lee fucks guys on the TSSeduction site: Very dominant, sexual, dirty talk, some kissing, etc.

The problem with (1) is that I think most mistresses would have a style where it is more about punishment than sexual domination. I also, want the illusion (or in a dream world the reality) that the they were enjoying fucking me.

For (2), I don't know whether there really are any escorts out there that really know what they are doing with a strap-on, and can fuck in a really dominant way?

I like the idea of 3, having a dildo slide between my legs feels fantastic so a cock should be even better, but of course I wouldn't be getting penetrated properly (but I'm not sure this is a problem).

I wanted to ask if anyone has tried all of these and has any opinion about how they compare? Any views on safety? Is there anyone you'd recommend for 1, 2 or 3 (South East UK)? Any other opinions about any of this?

I appreciate this is a t-girl forum so people are probably going to be pro third option.

Thanks in advance for any opinions or advice!

[0utrageousss]

Go to the gay neighborhood and let a man fuck you, it's free!

[Devilboy]

You're in a lose, lose situation. If you're looking to get banged by a TG girl, a chic with a strap on isn't even close IMO. Let me say that I have never been fucked by either, BUT if you are looking to get dominated sexually I don't see a GG with a strap on fitting the bill. Then if you see a TG girl and have her rub your legs with her tool....?......what the hell is that? How is that getting dominated?

IMO you either need to trust a condom, or keep this a fantasy.

[Prospero]

Devilboy is right in his final remark.
Dildos or strap-ons v the real thing?. Well I have had all of these - and IMHO the real thing is incomparable. Dildos and strap-ons, even if good quality, don't have the give that a real cock does. I used to have escorts use a dildo but it usually hurt. I won't let one near me now. If that is what you want (which i don't think it is) then go that route. But I think you want the sensuality of the real thing. Another advantage of a real cock is that its owner can feel how you feel to an extent. So she can go hard or slow etc. You will get a greater sense of whether she is enjoying it or not.
Re safety.. well that is an issue. I've been enjoying myself this way for more than 20 years and (huge touching of wood here) never-ever had a condom break on me in active or passive mode So the additional gamble is - if it did might you get infected. MOST escorts take good care of their health with regular check-ups. So pick a sane and safe girl - and try.

[callahac]

Go to the gay neighborhood and let a man fuck you, it's free!


Very true!

[LibertyHarkness]

condom up , pick an escort that gets tested, maybe works in porn etc and there fore needs testing to minimise any risks.. but ultimately its very hard to break some of the anal condoms..