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Beauty from Within
09-07-2011, 02:46 AM
I'm pretty young (25) and have had 4 girlfriends. I have never been with a TS but would really like to meet one and I'm open to the possibility of a relationship or just meeting casually. However, I am very pure in that I have not had many sexual partners and I want to remain completely free of STDs (what a nightmare that would be). It seems like my only choice is an escort like one might find on Backpage or eros, but I imagine they have sex with LOTS of people.

Is it possible to meet an escort without any worry of STDs? Or a TS who is not an escort? It's something I have wanted for several years now but I don't know how I will ever find something like that.

GroobySteven
09-07-2011, 03:01 AM
Is it possible to meet an escort without any worry of STDs? Or a TS who is not an escort? It's something I have wanted for several years now but I don't know how I will ever find something like that.

ANYBODY can have an STD. Female, male or transgender. Working girl/escort or a girl you meet at the local bar or is in your college class.
ANYBODY.

You have to decide the level of personal risk you are going to take with any partner you have sexual contact with from kissing and heavy petting, to full oral or penetration. If you take the obvious steps of wearing condoms, avoiding taking fluids into your body, ensuring you have no open sores or cuts and the person you are with also has none, using good soap and sanitizer and hot water, before and after as well as mouth wash then you are minimizing your chances of contracting an STD.

betts
09-07-2011, 03:05 AM
Nope.

Silcc69
09-07-2011, 03:08 AM
Go here friend

http://www.hungangels.com/vboard/showthread.php?t=59370

Beauty from Within
09-07-2011, 03:10 AM
Thanks for your reply. I understand how easy it is to contract STDs as I come from a family of physicians, and that is my main problem. I want very intimate sex -- it would mean exchanging bodily fluids. I understand the whole thing where "anyone" can have an STD but I come from a place in society where people don't have double-digit sexual partners and virtually no one has any kind of worry about that. So if I go from those types of girls to talking about escorts who have contact with hundreds of people (a lot of them probably very seedy/low types of people) then that kind of sex becomes an issue.

I'm hoping to find a TS (either an escort or just a TS) that is definitely clean. Unfortunately, I need that certainty.

Finance has never been an issue but what is an issue is finding someone who can meet this one request.

Jericho
09-07-2011, 03:22 AM
I'm hoping to find a TS (either an escort or just a TS) that is definitely clean. Unfortunately, I need that certainty.

Wot a cock.
Get the fuck over ya self!

SirCumsAlot
09-07-2011, 03:29 AM
HAHA oh wow... just go online and pick ya self up a escort. Youll be happy afterwards. No use crying about it here. I doubt any tgirl here gonna pm u their std results. I been with tons of tgirls and I'm still clean thankfully, so just go out and enjoy yourself while youre still young

Mz.Brownsugah
09-07-2011, 03:34 AM
You may think your pure, but if you had unprotected sex with any of your girlfriends than you pretty much been with all their past partners. If you're having sex then get tested and wrap it up no matter whom your patner is.

Beauty from Within
09-07-2011, 03:40 AM
You may think your pure, but if you had unprotected sex with any of your girlfriends than you pretty much been with all their past partners. If you're having sex then get tested and wrap it up no matter whom your patner is.

I have actually never had unprotected sex with anyone.

Oral sex without a condom on but anything else with condom on.

This is basically what I am looking for.

partlycloudy
09-07-2011, 03:45 AM
do you ever get cold sores in your mouth?


:?:

AmyDaly
09-07-2011, 03:50 AM
You can always find one of the top TS Porn performers who get tested every month and ask to see a test

Beauty from Within
09-07-2011, 03:51 AM
do you ever get cold sores in your mouth?


:?:

Not that I have ever noticed. I am actually not worried about getting those mild cold sores from a person because that is relatively common. Parents often give them to their children without even noticing. The severe herpes, however, is a concern (like whole lips sore).

Look I apologize if this was a really stupid post. I am not "innocent" (pretty dirty fantasies) but I am 100% clean, have a bright future, and I really want to meet someone and not have my life ruined. I have a lot to offer as well.

Thanks.

Beauty from Within
09-07-2011, 03:53 AM
You can always find one of the top TS Porn performers who get tested every month and ask to see a test

That would certainly be nice. I would not even know where to be able to contact one of them even to meet me, much less ask for a test.

If it was a legitimate porn performer, however, I would feel a lot more safe than an escort from backpage (that is something I really do not want to do).

If I meet a TS I can basically know whether or not I would feel safe, or whether I would want a test first. Some I would feel safe enough to trust, those are like the really famous ones obviously.

AmyDaly
09-07-2011, 03:57 AM
That would certainly be nice. I would not even know where to be able to contact one of them even to meet me, much less ask for a test.

If it was a legitimate porn performer, however, I would feel a lot more safe than an escort from backpage (that is something I really do not want to do).

If I meet a TS I can basically know whether or not I would feel safe, or whether I would want a test first. Some I would feel safe enough to trust, those are like the really famous ones obviously.

I would suspect eros would be a good start. Just be very polite when asking for a test because I don't think people normally ask and some of these girls can be bitches lol :wiggle:

Silcc69
09-07-2011, 04:06 AM
I would suspect eros would be a good start. Just be very polite when asking for a test because I don't think people normally ask and some of these girls can be bitches lol :wiggle:

You should be his first I mean you're a pretty levelheaded lady.

AmyDaly
09-07-2011, 04:08 AM
You should be his first I mean you're a pretty levelheaded lady.

I don't escort : )

Helvis2012
09-07-2011, 04:13 AM
Find a girlfriend.

Beauty from Within
09-07-2011, 04:29 AM
I don't escort : )

Well this is the issue. If I met someone who is an established person (like a porn performer) and well-known, I would not feel too much need to ask for a test. Escorts seem very risky. In addition, if I just met a TS girl in everyday life, got to know her, that would also not necessarily warrant a test for me. That would be the same as meeting any girl. If there is a trust there then I would have no problem. Of course, that comes through conversation and spending time with each other first, getting to know each other.

Anyway, thanks for your replies and I again apologize because it looks like some people are annoyed by my post. I really appreciate hearing from Ms. Daly and the others who were less annoyed by it.

Silcc69
09-07-2011, 04:38 AM
I don't escort : )

That's right you don't well so now what?

Helvis2012
09-07-2011, 04:46 AM
Keep it simple. Just have safe sex until you find someone you actually know. Then you can rethink the decision.

MdR Dave
09-07-2011, 04:52 AM
Keep it simple. Just have safe sex until you find someone you actually know. Then you can rethink the decision.
This is a good policy regardless who your partner is or what they do for a living.

Manage your risk and take a good look at your expectations.

GroobySteven
09-07-2011, 05:13 AM
If you come from a "family of physicians", I would have assumed some intelligence in your genes, so what the fuck happened?

You want to have unprotected sex, with a sex worker and you aren't willing to compromise.

Get the fuck out of here - you're a troll with an agenda.

Beauty from Within
09-07-2011, 05:37 AM
If you come from a "family of physicians", I would have assumed some intelligence in your genes, so what the fuck happened?

You want to have unprotected sex, with a sex worker and you aren't willing to compromise.

Get the fuck out of here - you're a troll with an agenda.

Uh, what? What agenda would I possibly have?

I never said I wanted to have unprotected sex with a sex worker. I am not talking about bareback here, more about oral stuff. I also am not looking for a seedy escort. I clearly stated that.

I gotta say there are some really angry people on this forum. I say "thank you" and receive "get the fuck out of here."

partlycloudy
09-07-2011, 05:45 AM
i don't know if this is a troll or what but if you want to keep your 100% purity then stick to your hand. it's almost a guarantee that a professional has/had genital herpes/warts. (does the porn industry even screen for that?)

Helvis2012
09-07-2011, 05:45 AM
You shouldn't be so surprised.

Beauty from Within
09-07-2011, 05:52 AM
i don't know if this is a troll or what but if you want to keep your 100% purity then stick to your hand. it's almost a guarantee that a professional has/had genital herpes/warts. (does the porn industry even screen for that?)

Ok so I know that me using that word "purity" makes me sound a certain way and I did not mean it like that. I just wanted to be clear that I have not had many partners and so I would not like to suddenly ruin my life by getting some serious STD. At the same time I would like to meet a TS and there is little option to do so outside of escorts it seems. Does that sort of make sense?

Anyway, I wish I could just delete this whole thread now.

I'll shut up now.

partlycloudy
09-07-2011, 06:30 AM
don't sweat it. everybody's just telling you in their own way that there's risk involved. if you're only really worried about serious std's, then do everything covered with no exchanging of bodily fluids and keep your fingers crossed.

:fc

AmyDaly
09-07-2011, 06:39 AM
i don't know if this is a troll or what but if you want to keep your 100% purity then stick to your hand. it's almost a guarantee that a professional has/had genital herpes/warts. (does the porn industry even screen for that?)

I can confirm that this is 100% false. I have worked with and seen a lot of girls and male talent in the ts side of the industry and have never once seen anything questionable or a bad test besides maybe some cold sores, but 50% of the us population gets cold sores, so...

I just posted a new youtube video with my feelings on ts performers and our rep with disease spread in the industry(which is total bs)
http://www.youtube.com/user/AmyDalyTS

Thats not to say that I am sure some directors have seen a few nasty things, but I personally have never seen or heard of any stds going around

fred41
09-07-2011, 06:46 AM
Not that I have ever noticed. I am actually not worried about getting those mild cold sores from a person because that is relatively common. Parents often give them to their children without even noticing. The severe herpes, however, is a concern (like whole lips sore).

Look I apologize if this was a really stupid post. I am not "innocent" (pretty dirty fantasies) but I am 100% clean, have a bright future, and I really want to meet someone and not have my life ruined. I have a lot to offer as well.

Thanks.


Those "mild" cold sores parents give to their kids on their mouth is herpes simplex one (that's why so many people have it)...that can easily be spread to another persons genitals if they don't already have the same virus.

There's no such thing as "the severe herpes". Some people just get stronger outbreaks than others.

partlycloudy
09-07-2011, 09:50 AM
I can confirm that this is 100% false. I have worked with and seen a lot of girls and male talent in the ts side of the industry and have never once seen anything questionable or a bad test besides maybe some cold sores, but 50% of the us population gets cold sores, so...

I just posted a new youtube video with my feelings on ts performers and our rep with disease spread in the industry(which is total bs)
http://www.youtube.com/user/AmyDalyTS

Thats not to say that I am sure some directors have seen a few nasty things, but I personally have never seen or heard of any stds going around
my mistake. i thought it was a given that porn people have/had genital herpes/warts. i don't think anyone is a big enough asshole to try and work with a visible outbreak. they probably just wait til it clears up before going back to work.

Mz.Brownsugah
09-07-2011, 11:04 AM
16% of american have herpes and the law of averages applies to porn stars and escorts as well as the general population. Sex with anyone is always going to be a gamble. If you're scared then do your best to minimize that risk or don't have sex at all.

http://www.cdc.gov/std/herpes/STDFact-herpes.htm

smoothdude
09-07-2011, 11:55 AM
As long as you use condoms you should be ok.

Bear in mind that it's easy for a cum covered finger to end up in the wrong place during sex, especially in a dark environment, so keep an eye on things.

If an escort or someone you suspect has had a lot of sexual partners, says its ok to have sex without a condom, and that they have been tested etc......then definataly question the situation and make the wise choice.

Play safe

Prospero
09-07-2011, 04:15 PM
Well you aren't going to find an escort who'll "exchange bodily fluids" with you - and if you did then run a mile.

Best bet is to meet a girl in a club in time honoured fashion. and if it gets serious with her then both go get tested. After that if it all comes out clean and you are an item and definitely not seeing anyone else - - well bareback to your hearts content if that's your desire.
But there is always a risk. You gotta be sure you can trust each other.

mealticket
09-07-2011, 06:11 PM
go raw or go home...jkin, if ur really worried about getting an std, stick to just using ur hand and porn, anyone can have an std, that is why u both get tested before bangin

traLika
09-07-2011, 06:16 PM
Ahhhhhhh... just use a fekkin' condom! :shrug