Seeking advice on finding a girl

[Beauty from Within]

So I am a well-educated, well-traveled, cultured, pretty good-looking (8/10 maybe), athletic (tennis), 25-year-old guy and have trouble finding a girl to spend time with because I like a very disciplined life and do not enjoy the crowded club/bar nonsense. For this reason, I am now considering seeing an escort. Backpage has some and I was wondering about STD risks. There are sometimes one or two girls on that listing who I would spend time with if I did not have to worry at all about STD risk, but that is the major issue. Is it basically not worth it? And if there happens to be anyone here who is interested in meeting/dating I am of course open to that (probably more comfortable than resorting to escorts for the first time).

[Beauty from Within]

Forgot to mention I am in Indianapolis.

[loveboof]

I'm guessing you don't care what she looks like given your name? lol

I can't offer any advice, but I am slightly intrigued as to why your disciplined lifestyle prevents you from meeting girls?

[SirCumsAlot]

well, if you meet a girl, tgirl, person, whoever, from backpage, and ya'll become friends on the personal level, I'm sure she wouldn't mind taking a std test if you ask

[russtafa]

Try thailand they loooove guys with large bank acounts

[Jericho]

I can't offer any advice, but I am slightly intrigued as to why your disciplined lifestyle prevents you from meeting girls?

It's a very liberal prison with internet access! :shrug
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[loveboof]

It's a very liberal prison with internet access! :shrug
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Haha.

[iamdrgonzo]

Seeking advice on finding a girl

Listen to your big head that little head down there knows only one fucking thing.

[Beauty from Within]

Well Indianapolis is not exactly the best place for meeting people, especially if you do not enjoy spending time in clubs or bars. A lot of people here have already settled down with someone. It is also not the most TS friendly or diverse place on the planet. So if you spend your time between education, work, athletics, and meeting people on a strictly friendly basis then there is not much chance for either a relationship or just meeting someone for...you know..

[dafame]

Best advice that I can give you is to try to get out of Indianapolis. You don't have a lot of time or opportunities to meet these girls and it really is something that you have to MAKE HAPPEN because they're not just redily available at you local grocery store, church or bowling alley.

Be prepared to break bread. Like any girl they love a guy who's willing to make their lives easier but even more so with tgirls. If you don't mind dating an escort then find one that you like and drop $200-$300 but don't fuck. Just talk to her and explain that you're looking for something more but are paying her just to have the opportunity to get at her for a min.

Tell her rather than fuck you'd like to take her out and get to know her. 9x's out of 10 she'll agree. This will leave a lasting impression and get your foot in the door.

[mikelpo]

How about "be nice, be yourself" ??

[Paladin]

OK, CAN'T RESIST.

1. get a life, your post screams out L7 or or just plain L

2. take a reality check. 75% of the pics on backpage are fakes and the better looking the pics, the higher the percentage. You are correct in worrying about STDs

You want to meet tgs - find a tg friendly bar - but then most of the t-girls there are probably 'working girls' so you are back to square 1.

As stated, you may be better off getting to one of the coasts NY, LA, SF, MIA, etc... but these places are expensive to live in...

good luck.

[Dino Velvet]

If you meet a girl as an escort it might be better to keep her as one. I ran into a problem with one who tried getting too cozy with me eventually trying to stop me from paying. I didn't like this at all and dropped her.

[theone1982]

Some of the instructions on Backpage are pretty funny too. Some of them make it sound like you are two spies exchanging national secrets. "Look straight ahead when you are walking to the door, knock 3 times, wait 30 seconds and then knock twice. When you come in, sit down ask how I'm enjoying the weather today, and then excuse yourself to go to the restroom, set the money down in a non-descript envelope, wait in the restroom for 2 minutes and then come back in.":)

[StlyeMeCunty]

So I am a well-educated, well-traveled, cultured, pretty good-looking (8/10 maybe), athletic (tennis), 25-year-old guy and have trouble finding a girl to spend time with because I like a very disciplined life and do not enjoy the crowded club/bar nonsense. For this reason, I am now considering seeing an escort. Backpage has some and I was wondering about STD risks. There are sometimes one or two girls on that listing who I would spend time with if I did not have to worry at all about STD risk, but that is the major issue. Is it basically not worth it? And if there happens to be anyone here who is interested in meeting/dating I am of course open to that (probably more comfortable than resorting to escorts for the first time).

Hey Hun! I am actually originally from the Fort Wayne area, about 2 hours north of you as I am sure you know. The good news is that there are plenty of girls in Indianapolis. While I was there I remember some of the girls would come up to Fort Wayne who were escorts for the clients or various other reasons. I guess it really depends on what you want. There are some escorts there with good and there also nice girls who don't escort also. :)

[Helvis2012]

Hit the party scene.