Dating a Transsexual in Public

[babewonder]

Dating a Transsexual in Public http://www.blogtalkradio.com/mistresssoleli/2011/07/19/transsexuals-and-relationships-part-2

[Willie Escalade]

When I used to hit the mall with Victoria di Prada, more than once she was recognized...she even signed an autograph.

[Jericho]

Faggots!
Grow some skin, get used to it! :shrug

[Bobzz]

Hey Ms. Soleli, not a bad piece at all. A couple of questions/ helpful suggestions. It seems that the majority of TS women in Philadelphia seem to only come out at night, why is that? Is that a "passing/ clocking" issue? I wouldn't be ashamed to approach a TS and compliment her on her looks (although, it could be weird approaching any woman on the street with ... "hey, you look great" could be considered kinda creepy). I also have no problem being seen in public with a TS in a social setting, but since I'm married it'd have to be really "social" and not like we're on a date. I think that your idea of greater acceptance of TS women by straight women would also go a long way in lowering the stigma of straight guys dating TS women is also right on. On the suggestion side (which you're free to ignore), try to modulate your mic a bit (cut down on the treble gain), it may take some of the "helium effect" off of your voice and try to avoid "anywhooo" as a segue or pause. Otherwise I enjoyed the segment a lot.

[buckjohnson]

When I used to hit the mall with Victoria di Prada, more than once she was recognized...she even signed an autograph.

This does not sound likely. Who walks down malls anymore, and what kind of man just strolls down the mall, and then writes about it. And having a name like Escalade sounds like some projection

[Jericho]

This does not sound likely. Who walks down malls anymore, and what kind of man just strolls down the mall, and then writes about it. And having a name like Escalade sounds like some projection


I think Willie's proved his bone fides on more occasions than we can count.
Why you attacking him, Buck?

[buckjohnson]

I think it is a little unmanly to stroll around a mall. Then too write about it like it was proud moment in his life. Now if he said, in public, he posted someone under the rim, or put the grip on a baller, I am ok . But to post taking a stroll in a mall, that sounds like something my female would do, which is why I called him out.

[amberskyi]

I think it is a little unmanly to stroll around a mall. Then too write about it like it was proud moment in his life. Now if he said, in public, he posted someone under the rim, or put the grip on a baller, I am ok . But to post taking a stroll in a mall, that sounds like something my female would do, which is why I called him out.

lmaooo this is too stupid for words

[buckjohnson]

Am I st.upid for ? the legit reason any man would post about taking stroll down a mall with a person I never heard of. My basketball referances were a little silly. Once I walked down a mall in Det. with Anita Baker. With my sister who had some kind of connection with her. No big deal, all I remember of it was Ms. Baker was wearing curlers in her hair. Now that is a silly story, non-relevant, but on point about about Bigg Black and Cubed posting about stroll in mall. The thread is about dating, not a sissy walk trough a stupid mall

[Jericho]

someone under the rim, or put the grip on a baller,

I'm sorry, I'm British, I have know idea what that means!

I believe very little of what I hear on here, and less of what I see, but when Willie talks, I listen. :shrug

Sorry Willie, ya big petrol guzzling driving fukker, hope I haven't embarrassed ya! :ignore:

[amberskyi]

Am I stupid for ? the legit reason any man would post about taking stroll down a mall with a person I never heard of. My basketball r

some men are secure enough in their masculinity to do whatever they want to do....while others who arent make lame comments about what their doing:geek:

[MdR Dave]

. . . sounds like some projection


I think it is a little unmanly to stroll around a mall. . .which is why I called him out.

You've never gone to a mall? Never taken your girl somewhere that she wanted to go? Ridiculous. I go to malls for the convenience if multiple options for one item, and one-stop shopping for multiple items.

And you miss the point- out in a crowded, public place with a girl who was "recognized". And I'm willing to bet that if she asked him to do it again the next day he would have done it.

"Projection"? LMAO! Willie is a baller! The girls in LA love him.

Also a gentleman- I asked him not to take my pic one night and he was cool about it. Didn't give me $hit, wasn't offended. A class act.

I'm willing to bet Willie is the only guy here who's not gonna call you out on these statements. Forgive the vulgarity, and these aren't phrases I personally use, but as the song goes: real gangsta ass niggas don't flex nuts, 'cause real gangsta ass niggas know they got 'em.

[suttonporksword]

i have been out on dates with transexual girls and never had an issue, maybe i am ignorant, dont care...or maybe they were just gorgeous!!

[buckjohnson]

So lets see if I got this right. BBC IS A GANGSTA...for taking pics at a club. And classy for not taking someones pics?Hmm...My kids like a rapper name Gucci Mane. You do not have to be a pysch major to understand the unresolved issues in creating a name like that. Likewise, naming yourself after a BBC gas guzzelers that needs filled up all the time with petro....need I say more.

[buckjohnson]

To answer the orig poster, no I would not date a TS in public, for many reasons.

[TSPornFan]

This does not sound likely. Who walks down malls anymore, and what kind of man just strolls down the mall, and then writes about it. And having a name like Escalade sounds like some projection

I walk and shop in malls with friends. :)

[tsdvdman]

So lets see if I got this right. BBC IS A GANGSTA...for taking pics at a club. And classy for not taking someones pics?Hmm...My kids like a rapper name Gucci Mane. You do not have to be a pysch major to understand the unresolved issues in creating a name like that. Likewise, naming yourself after a BBC gas guzzelers that needs filled up all the time with petro....need I say more.
Sounds like you got some serious JEALOUSY issues. First it was about the stroll in the mall,,now it's about Cadillacs, names, BBC, Ganstas and pics. Get a grip...you letting this brotha rent space on your head. And he don't give a fuck about you. Keep doin your thang out there Willie!!!

[MdR Dave]

So lets see if I got this right. BBC IS A GANGSTA...for taking pics at a club. And classy for not taking someones pics?Hmm...My kids like a rapper name Gucci Mane. You do not have to be a pysch major to understand the unresolved issues in creating a name like that. Likewise, naming yourself after a BBC gas guzzelers that needs filled up all the time with petro....need I say more.

Again, missed the point. He could have called me out, made fun of me, but didn't.

Amateur psychology is pointless. And amateur. But let's apply your reasoning to your screen name Buck (tough guy American name) Johnson (slang for penis).

Got a tiny, ineffective weenie? Your use of "BBC" is telling.

And he doesn't just take pics, from what I can tell. It seems he lives the life.

What do you do, sporadic troll?

[Jericho]

Amateur psychology is pointless. And amateur. But let's apply your reasoning to your screen name Buck (tough guy American name) Johnson (slang for penis).

Got a tiny, ineffective weenie? Your use of "BBC" is telling.

FUCK...I HOPE NOT!
I've got two niecies who call me Uncke Buck. They think they're taking the piss after Watching the film!

[Deimos]

Are you retarded? Lol buying shit at a mall doesn't demasculinize you or what ever. There are all sorts of people who go to the mall just to look at shit they can't afford. Fuck, I used to be a huge mallrat.

[MdR Dave]

FUCK...I HOPE NOT!
I've got two niecies who call me Uncke Buck. They think they're taking the piss after Watching the film!

Not many opportunities for British Broadcasting jokes!

Your nieces think you're kind, good hearted and funny. But maybe get steamed veggies instead of chips at the restaurant?

[Prospero]

I've been out on dates with many TS girls - to restaurants, movies, walks in the park, the zoo, art galleries and more... no problems ever. No embarassment. Nowt. One girl, met online and never properly seen before, was totally unconvincing. Went for dinner with her in a fashionable restaurant. No awkwardness. No feeling of discomfort. And maybe this is cool London but no weird looks from waiters or other diners.

[maaarc]

usually its the other way around for me - it's the women who have issues about being seen in public with me. I've gotten quite a few paper cuts from all the paper bags I've had to wear on my head.:(:(:(

[Prospero]

usually its the other way around for me - it's the women who have issues about being seen in public with me. I've gotten quite a few paper cuts from all the paper bags I've had to wear on my head.:(:(:(

lol.......

[sharkmizzle]

And having a name like Escalade sounds like some projection

LOL for some reason this struck me as both absurd and funny. What exactly is it 'some projection' of?

[Yvonne183]

usually its the other way around for me - it's the women who have issues about being seen in public with me. I've gotten quite a few paper cuts from all the paper bags I've had to wear on my head.:(:(:(

Ha ha, I'm not laughing at you Maaarc, just the bag thing was kinda funny. I went out with some guys who's faces could make paint on a wall peel, yet they didn't want to be seen with me in public, this sort of goes on what Maaarc was saying.


I never go to Malls,, Goths don't do malls.

PS-When I mean out in public I mean in crowded areas, they mostly wanted to go to a club and then home.

[TSLoverUK999]

uuuuuuuurrrrrrrrrggggggghhhhh acompanying a TS in public NEVER, you out of your mind ! :whistle: lol

Issue = Secret !

[ed_jaxon]

Obviously he has never seen Willie and his Player stroll.

But on the real though having hung with Willie on several occasions, he is one of the coolest, most humble dudes you will ever meet.

[maaarc]

Ha ha, I'm not laughing at you Maaarc, just the bag thing was kinda funny. I went out with some guys who's faces could make paint on a wall peel, yet they didn't want to be seen with me in public, this sort of goes on what Maaarc was saying.


I never go to Malls,, Goths don't do malls.

PS-When I mean out in public I mean in crowded areas, they mostly wanted to go to a club and then home.

I'm glad you enjoyed it Yvonne :) and you absolutely should be laughing at me.
I do it all the time :party: have a great day pretty lady

[MrsKellyPierce]

Some of the posters in this thread are wierd lol

I've been recognized plenty of times in public...bars..malls..restaurants...bathrooms lmao

A lesbian recognized me in a bathroom lol

[Willie Escalade]

Deleted; see below

[Jericho]

Not many opportunities for British Broadcasting jokes!

Your nieces think you're kind, good hearted and funny. But maybe get steamed veggies instead of chips at the restaurant?

Damn, I was hoping it was more to do with the fact I was liable to lock their boyfriends in the trunk of the piece of shit I drive and play golf with them afterwards! :shrug

[Willie Escalade]

Am I st.upid for ? the legit reason any man would post about taking stroll down a mall with a person I never heard of. My basketball referances were a little silly. Once I walked down a mall in Det. with Anita Baker. With my sister who had some kind of connection with her. No big deal, all I remember of it was Ms. Baker was wearing curlers in her hair. Now that is a silly story, non-relevant, but on point about about Bigg Black and Cubed posting about stroll in mall. The thread is about dating, not a sissy walk trough a stupid mall
The question was about "Dating A Transsexual in Public". Obviously the mall is the public, so OBVIOUSLY I don't have a problem with it.

And Google Victoria di Prada if you've never heard of her.

As for "taking a stroll in a mall" and it sounding "like something my female would do", duh! If you're with your female and she wants to go to the mall, what's the problem with that? In a relationship, you do what it takes to make your other half happy...even if it means going to Wal-Mart or taking her to the doctor. If it makes you happy, we also went to the Pike in Long Beach, to the Grove near Hollywood, and to the SMC studios together. Why? Because I'm not ashamed to be seen with a transsexual in public (and being called out about it). If that's sissified, then so be it.

When I see the girls at Adultcon in a couple of weeks, unlike most blokes who are scared to go up to them in front of a "mainstream" crowd, I'll walk right up to them and so some form of affection because we're FRIENDS...and I've gained that friendship with a lot of girls because I treat them like any other girl I meet...with respect.

Maybe after the convention we'll hit the Glendale Galleria...or is that being bitch-made as well?

Finally, I chose my username because I like Cadillac Escalades. William just sounded cool with it. I'm also not afraid to have my picture posted in this forum...

[BLKGSXR]

To answer the orig poster, no I would not date a TS in public, for many reasons.Because youre afraid she will be clocked? you just blacklisted yourself as a chaser sir.
On the fact you attacked my boy Willie Esco, shows you are jealous sir, Dont get me wrong I make fun of him all the time for the shit he says but im allowed to as a friend...you well you make yourself look like a tool.
Truth of the matter is Willie is one badass down to earth dude, and will stay that way...girls love him niggas wish to be him hate him or love him you will respect the game B. Because if you seen half the girls me and him hang with on a friendly level you wouldnt know what to do, no not just ts GG's yessir!
Edit-you think his name is weird thats your opinion but what does Buck johnson signify? we use these names as aliases People know me as JIX aka blkgsxr, just saying B you shown that you act a bit kiddish just man up be cool and think before posting.

[buckjohnson]

I do not know BBC , never been a jealous type cat. I just cant see myself strolling down a mall with a female and then randomly posting about it, off-topic, on a thread.

That said, I am off on my bike ride in this horrible heat/ humidity. If I survive, I will post my reasons for lack of public love for females when I come back. If I don't make it back, all my love and treasures go to AT!!!

[russtafa]

i hate shopping i only go straight to the computer games shop or book shop fuck the rest of the shops my lady can go shopping by her self or with her pals.As the Anti nowhere league song goes "i hate people i hate the fucking lot"

[Colin92660]

I have been on several dates with transgendered girls. Movies, dinner date, nightclub, etc. Each has been a positive and sexy experience. I would say that you need to be aware of your surrounding. If you live in a rural conservative town and you are out with a girl that can't pass you are likely going to have some unwanted negative attention. Out in a place like LA or NY should't be a problem. Just lots of fun.

[Prospero]

Colin is right... out in the boondocks or the English shires you might get some raised eyebrows or worst. But fuck em I say...

[dderek123]

i HAD A PRETTY AWKWARD SITUATION THAT HAPPENED A COUPLE OF YEARS AGO. i MET A YOUNG LADYBOY (NOT MY CURRENT PARTNER) WHO WAS STUDYING AT A UNIVERSITY CLOSE TO MY APARTMENT BUILDING. Sorry for the CAPS. She was young and sensitive and seemed to be a decent person. All of which is rare in Bangkok. Most ladyboys here are mercenary and hard as nails.

For our second date we went out to Siam Paragon which is one of the busiest and most high-so malls in Bangkok. Well turns out that was a bad idea. We went to get some lunch at one of the restaurants and while we were eating our meal so many people were pointing and staring at us. There were tourists from all over Europe and Asia just giggling at the site of my date. She picked up on it really quick and it really upset her. She asked to go home but instead we went and saw a movie to cool off. I felt so sorry for her I thought she almost cried. It didn't really bother me at all except I could see that it was affecting her.

The day after I tried calling her but there was no answer. I kept trying for several days and still no answer. I don't think she was in to me all that much coupled with the negative experience on our date she was just avoiding me. Too bad but she was in her first year of uni so I think she was focused on bigger and better things.

[Deimos]

Goths don't do malls.

This is only recently true. Hot Topic killed the mall goth era.

[Yvonne183]

This is only recently true. Hot Topic killed the mall goth era.

Ha,, I think Hot Topic has harmed goth in general.

Did someone mention The Anti Nowhere League? I saw them way back in 1980 with UK Subs as the second band.

I did have some guys go to concerts with me and those guys didn't care what other people thought of us as a couple,, we'd also go out to all night diner places,, those guys were cool. Where did those type of guys go too?

[Deimos]

Ha,, I think Hot Topic has harmed goth in general.

Did someone mention The Anti Nowhere League? I saw them way back in 1980 with UK Subs as the second band.

I did have some guys go to concerts with me and those guys didn't care what other people thought of us as a couple,, we'd also go out to all night diner places,, those guys were cool. Where did those type of guys go too?

Yeah pretty much... it was nice to have a store I could buy a Switchblade Symphony shirt at... those days ended in about 2005 I'd say. It's a trendy mainstream store now and that irritates me. I can't find an Inti anywhere either...

[baller1987]

1. goths are hot

2. The second tgirl i've ever been with, I picked up at her place and took to bw3s. It was mutually understood that i was new to this and I didn't want her to shout her gender off the rooftops. Anyway thats what she did once we got to the bar. She actually got the waitress to grab her boobs, so she could see how real they felt. (I now know she was nervous at the time, cause she liked me - no excuse though)

Anyway i told her i was offended (mostly about having someone other than me grabbing her boobs on date one). So then she felt bad, but she respected me more, because I wasn't afraid to tell her what i was feeling. For a second I almost took her home.

But then I told myself "Self what the fuck are you doing. you got a hot ass bitty right in front of you that you like, just get over being uncomfortable." So thats what I did. We ended up going bar hopping, and having fun. It wasn't weird at all anymore after I made the mental switch to not caring. (She was still wild, but I was now enjoying it) It also helped for her to know that I did have some insecurity about the whole deal.

I'm very happy I guzzeled a beer and threw away the insecurities. The beer did help. I would like to think I don't need any beer to be comfortable now.

[buckjohnson]

I would have a hard time because of the hormonal issue. The few I know are emotionally charged, extremely jealous, can just as easily say f--k you as say hello, and will brawl in w/ o notification or justification. I know GG who on certain day of the month are just a pain in the ass. Similarity, dealing with many pregnant woman, both professionally and personally has taught me a lot, about high drama and high tensions.

Now in day to day settings, fine. And maybe if I was younger. But right now I am cool.

[Stavros]

A more general question: why do people often assume that two people walking through a mall or high street or at dinner or going to a movie are in a relationship or even romantically interested in each other? I have been out with a colleague from work, for example, I have been to dinner with a female friend who is just a friend, and I have been out with people who were much younger than me, and at least one person who is in his 70s (and thereby older than me) -I have also been out with transexuals of various degrees of maturity be it the movies, shopping, sightseeing tourist attractions and so on. I don't care what other people think, but I do wonder why people sometimes automatically assume things from appearances.

[Birgitta]

I would have a hard time because of the hormonal issue. The few I know are emotionally charged, extremely jealous, can just as easily say f--k you as say hello, and will brawl in w/ o notification or justification. I know GG who on certain day of the month are just a pain in the ass. Similarity, dealing with many pregnant woman, both professionally and personally has taught me a lot, about high drama and high tensions.

Now in day to day settings, fine. And maybe if I was younger. But right now I am cool.

Hahaha !
We can be cute and lovely too Buck !

[buckjohnson]

Cute and lovely, fine and mellow, but hormonal rage on the side. Def not ready for a prime time stroll in the mall. Might also run into in gangsta photog who might be classy enough not to take my picture.

[MdR Dave]

Cute and lovely, fine and mellow, but hormonal rage on the side. Def not ready for a prime time stroll in the mall. Might also run into in gangsta photog who might be classy enough not to take my picture.

So, you're intentionally obtuse?

Great.

[MdR Dave]

So, you're intentionally obtuse?

Great.

Also look up "metaphor" while you're at it.

[StlyeMeCunty]

Hmmmm, this thread is interesting. I agree with the men who have mentioned that in a larger metropolitan area, people aren't really going to care about what you look like if you keep to yourself. But I don't know if they notice less. I always would think that I would get clocked more in a town like NYC, than the place I was born. I do wanna say that I think its sad when a man won't take you into public, because I have had that happen to me many times. It does make you question your ability to pass at first, but now I don't pay them any mind. You just learn that some men will eventually progress to the point of really dating trans women , and others will always only fuck around with them.

[Prospero]

I'd date you if i were in whatever US city you're in Stiye... indoors and outdoors theatre, bars, clubs, restaruants, the whole shebang... cept i suspect I'm old enough to be our dad.

[tsparisangelline]

I'd never walk with a white man in public!

[FreddieGomez]

I'd never walk with a white man in public!

but you'd walk with a convicted felon

[tsparisangelline]

but you'd walk with a convicted felon

Your point?

[SpoogeMonkey]

but you'd walk with a convicted felon

This might just be me, but at first glance I thought this said 'evicted melon'... I googled it and got nothing. Shame...

[buckjohnson]

I would have problems in some social situations with any female as it would not be conducive to my mental health. Though a few years ago I was on a public stroll with my favorite female, and a few people commented on how much in love we looked and how happy we looked together. If I remember correctly, we both were playing hooky from work, we both were cheating on our spouses, and we just had some some funky hotel sex.

That said, we were in love and was not afraid to display that love in public. I could do that with a with a TS or GG and def with Angelina Torres.

[Norma]

I heart<3 Paris, and I'm glad she's back.

[Prospero]

Why wouldn't you walk out in public with a white man, Paris?

[MdR Dave]

Why wouldn't you walk out in public with a white man, Paris?

I think she was taking the piss.

Nice "Rolling Thunder" era profile pic, btw.

[robertlouis]

Colin is right... out in the boondocks or the English shires you might get some raised eyebrows or worst. But fuck em I say...

I live in the "English shires" as you put it, Prospero. I haven't been out locally with a tgirl because they are like the proverbial hen's teeth hereabouts.

But that kind of behaviour doesn't just start with tgirls. A couple of years ago I had an African American female friend from the music biz staying with me, fairly well known on the East Coast acoustic scene in the US, but with next to no profile over here, so it wasn't as if people were recognising her from elsewhere when we went out together to a local restaurant.

We weren't and have never been an item, just people who dig each other's music and have become really good friends, so it was doubly embarrassing to get looks, stares, and stage-whispered asides about the fact that a very pretty black girl and a white guy were having dinner together and that sex surely had to be involved. I took particular exception to one guy's remark and challenged him to take it back. There was a bit of a scene, although no violence, but the manager asked the two of us to leave, which we did, although I told them to fly for the bill.

She cried all the way home. I haven't been back and have made sure that everyone I know won't either.

Bless her, she wrote a very powerful song about it and it's on her latest album!

But the experience means that I would definitely think twice about squiring a tgirl in public locally, simply because I would never again subject anyone I'm with to the risk of that kind of disgusting humiliation.

[mcaextreme69]

I have a Transgendered Girlfriend. I consider her to be 100% female. I hang out with her all the time. Don't think twice about it. She's my pride and joy.

[russtafa]

i could not give a flying fuck what people think of my girl

[carl essex]

bottom line is that it is 2 human beings who want to be together. if its friends, love, sex so what. we are entitled to be with who we want when we want.

[JenYoungTS]

If you're ashamed to be out in public with your partner you shouldn't be with them. You have to fight for what you believe in.

[Willie Escalade]

i could not give a flying fuck what people think of my girl


bottom line is that it is 2 human beings who want to be together. if its friends, love, sex so what. we are entitled to be with who we want when we want.


If you're ashamed to be out in public with your partner you shouldn't be with them. You have to fight for what you believe in.
EXACTLY!

If she's happy and I'm happy, then fuck the rest.

[Prospero]

If you're ashamed to be out in public with your partner you shouldn't be with them. You have to fight for what you believe in.


Too fucking right... all the positive post re-inforce what i believe an practice.

[tsnajwa]

I've never been on a date where they guy was awkward, didn't introduce me if he ran into a friend or was ashamed to be seen with me in public.. I have been the one thats ashamed to be seen with a date before, but I think it's the whole seriousness of a date and a guy opening doors for me it's gets to be a little too much.


If I remember correctly, we both were playing hooky from work, we both were cheating on our spouses, and we just had some some funky hotel sex.
That said, we were in love and was not afraid to display that love in public.



omg.. :puke

[gaysian71]

Ok so this might be a dumb question, but how do you go on a date without going in public?

[MdR Dave]

Ok so this might be a dumb question, but how do you go on a date without going in public?

Please change your avatar.

[OmarZ]

Some of the posters in this thread are wierd lol

I've been recognized plenty of times in public...bars..malls..restaurants...bathrooms lmao

A lesbian recognized me in a bathroom lol

Which brings me to the point that the whole lotta mess of people are looking at TS stuff, than they are willing to admit

[hwbs]

Its not really that big a deal when u aren't just going out for ass...I go on dates in like nyc and boston...but same goes from my city....stop being a pussy and not worry what the guys next to u think...

[Jericho]

If you're ashamed to be out in public with your partner you shouldn't be with them.

^^That^^ :shrug
Except, I'd change shouldn't be with them to don't deserve them.

[CaliBoy951]

If she is completely passable, what's the issue?

[Nashvegas]

If she is completely passable, what's the issue?

No issue. Some dudes, ok lots of dudes just care about image over anything else and worry what their friends, family or strangers even are going to say about them.

[giovanni_hotel]

Um, most self described str8 dudes hate being called 'gay', 'faggot', 'cocksucker', etc.
But if you date a transgendered lady socially, I would think you gotta be prepared for that to happen.
The question is, how do you deal with it??

If the girl you're with doesn't get shook by the names, neither can you.
Ironically all the dudes on this forum wanna fuck/suck tgirls yet still keep their 'man' card. First step is to ACT like a man.

[Jericho]

The question is, how do you deal with it?


Man the fuck up and deal with it! :shrug

[Kayden Harley]

I'd rather be remain single than date a man who can't handle dating me publicly.

Ladies, whether you're pasable or not, you're far too important to be reduced to just "his little secret".

[Jericho]

I'd rather be remain single than date a man who can't handle dating me publicly.

Ladies, whether you're pasable or not, you're far too important to be reduced to just "his little secret".

or far too often, "his dirty little secret".

Anyone who thinks like that, fuck 'em, they don't deserve you. :shrug

[Kayden Harley]

or far too often, "his dirty little secret".

Anyone who thinks like that, fuck 'em, they don't deserve you. :shrug

:iagree:

It really bothers me to see some girls settle for that type of situation.

[NaughtyJane]

Yeah 2nd that... I'm attracted to assertive masculinity, in men anyway... So some timid pussy boy does not end up on my dance card. How good could the sex be with a 'fraidy cat, self loathing, weirdo ?

I just tell those guys to go hire an escort, the world is filled with lovely girls paid to keep your secret. Order off the menu and have a great time.

Pretenders song.... "not me baby, I'm too precious, fuck off!".

My attitude about dating in a nutshell. Girls like me don't go through all this crap to facilitate some jerk's closet.

[mbf]

That's one of the biggest mysteries in tranny land ever, the "oh I could never date u in public" phobia.

I used to get quite a kick outta taking out TS's to whatever places, knowing most if not all the peeps around us wouldn't know of the hottie's plumbing. Now, that I live the life of a hermit socially speaking I live off memories. Booo hooo

[scap1030]

can anyone help me, i got a date plan for around the 17th september, this is my first date, so i dont really knnow what to do, where to bring her , im really nervous about it,,i know we will get along well but still,
-should i bring a gift, what if i say some not one purpus,thats im not suppose to say, i want it to work so bad, she fits me ,perfecly
SO PLEASE,,,,,,,,,,,,
I REALLY NEED SOME ADVISE ,TIPS SUGESTION, WHATEVER AS LONG AS IT HELPS
ANY WOMEN HERE,,,,,,???????PLEASE,

[mbf]

can anyone help me, i got a date plan for around the 17th september, this is my first date, so i dont really knnow what to do, where to bring her , im really nervous about it,,i know we will get along well but still,
-should i bring a gift, what if i say some not one purpus,thats im not suppose to say, i want it to work so bad, she fits me ,perfecly
SO PLEASE,,,,,,,,,,,,
I REALLY NEED SOME ADVISE ,TIPS SUGESTION, WHATEVER AS LONG AS IT HELPS
ANY WOMEN HERE,,,,,,???????PLEASE,

Well shower, put on a nice after shave, buy a box of chocolates, take her to dinner and then to a movie ...... At least that'S what old folx over 30 (like me) used to do, dunno what the youngsters r up to these days though....

[BigDF]

Well shower, put on a nice after shave, buy a box of chocolates, take her to dinner and then to a movie ...... At least that'S what old folx over 30 (like me) used to do, dunno what the youngsters r up to these days though....I agree, except I'd change the chocolates to flowers for a first date.

[scap1030]

i though about movies but we wont be able to talk there the chocolate or flower may look a little cheezzy i wiil some that will surprise her

[partlycloudy]

can anyone help me, i got a date plan for around the 17th september, this is my first date, so i dont really knnow what to do, where to bring her , im really nervous about it,,i know we will get along well but still,
-should i bring a gift, what if i say some not one purpus,thats im not suppose to say, i want it to work so bad, she fits me ,perfecly
SO PLEASE,,,,,,,,,,,,
I REALLY NEED SOME ADVISE ,TIPS SUGESTION, WHATEVER AS LONG AS IT HELPS
ANY WOMEN HERE,,,,,,???????PLEASE,
tell her it's your first time . . .

she'll understand.