Would you have a relationship with a TS girl?

[dav367]

Hi all,

I know this has been discussed a bit in the past from various persepctives but I guess I just wanted to share my thoughts and see if others can relate.

I started becoming attracted to TS girls several years ago, I'm not sure but possibly the intrigue started after There's Something About Miriam was on television. I then started watching TS porn and have been hooked ever since.

I must admit at first it all felt so wrong, I didn't really have much worry about being gay or anything as it is feminity that I am attracted to. I'm not really in to guys. I found out a couple of my friends had watched TS porn as well but the tone of any converstaion was always jokey. I would mention that I would have sex with a TS girl and they might agree but I don't think they take it literally. AND although I've said this, I definitely wouldn't have wanted them to know I had done it. (which I have now :-)

So over the years I've pretty much kept it all secretive and felt I would never want to have a relationship with a TS girl because I really was scared about what my friends and family might think.

However, recently I think this has all changed. I use a regular dating site and have seen a couple of attractive TS girls and I think I would be happy to date them. Whether they would date me or not is a different story of course. I still don't think I'd want anyone to know but if it became a relationship I'd be happy to tell people. Plus I'm not so scared about people finding out any more.

Basically I want a lovely and fun girlfriend I am attracted to and think her gender situation is pretty irrelevant.

I think from reading through this forum for a short time there is a good mix of guys who are open and public about there attraction to TS girls and perhaps some who are truly secretive about it. Both I think are okay providing it's not causing you any internal stress.

What about you? How do you feel about dating a TS girl? And I do mean actual dating with a view to a relationship.

Would love to know everyones thoughts. :D

[giovanni_hotel]

Not being a jerk and it's cool to hear your own personal experience, but if you search HA you'll find most guys have already discussed this to death. Literally.

[dav367]

I know mate I did say this at the start and I did read some of the older threads.

If no one fancies a fresh discussion then I'm sure it will be off the page soon.

[BraveHeartz]

So you've not been with a TS girl before, but would start a relationship with one based on a terrible exploitative TV show and a porn fetish?

[dav367]

So you've not been with a TS girl before, but would start a relationship with one based on a terrible exploitative TV show and a porn fetish?

I have had sex with a TS girl but never been in a relationship with one.

The point is I don't really treat TS girls any different from genuine girls. Attraction isn't a choice.

Also the only reason I mentioned the show with Miriam is because it showed me that a TS girl can be truly beautiful.

[Heather Moorland]

I think I will add a question to this tread; Would you have a relationship with a TS girl that is post op? I mean a TS girl that doesn't have a penis?

[dav367]

I think I will add a question to this tread; Would you have a relationship with a TS girl that is post op? I mean a TS girl that doesn't have a penis?

I would yes. For me, what I've said above applies to pre op or post op.

[Dino Velvet]

I tried actually dating my first TS Girl this year. It didn't work out but the problems I had from her were the same as I got from GGs. She was nice but we weren't compatible. I did my "Go out to the store for a quart of milk and loaf of bread" routine and never came back.

[dreamon]

made it into this thread before it blew up

[Brumtown]

Most things have been discussed to death on here, but there are a lot of new members on here who would like to share their thoughts and are new to this. It's so patronising when people who have been members for many years moan about how topics have been discussed before. This guy wants to share his thoughts, if your not interested jog on to the next thread, but there are others at the same stage who will interested. It's not all about one thread about each topic!

[giovanni_hotel]

Most things have been discussed to death on here, but there are a lot of new members on here who would like to share their thoughts and are new to this. It's so patronising when people who have been members for many years moan about how topics have been discussed before. This guy wants to share his thoughts, if your not interested jog on to the next thread, but there are others at the same stage who will interested. It's not all about one thread about each topic!

LOL!!

Good points, Mr. Less-Than-50-Posts!!!:Bowdown:

I wasn't trying to be patronizing, seriously, but there must be at least 10 threads at least on this topic.

I know there are new members all the time and what seems old to some is new to others, but what I was suggesting is that he 'bump' a previous thread with his new post instead of starting a brand new one.

[dreamon]

Most things have been discussed to death on here, but there are a lot of new members on here who would like to share their thoughts and are new to this. It's so patronising when people who have been members for many years moan about how topics have been discussed before. This guy wants to share his thoughts, if your not interested jog on to the next thread, but there are others at the same stage who will interested. It's not all about one thread about each topic!
It's more about the fact that these conversations never end well. They turn into trollfests with everyone flaming the shit out of each other.

[Lover]

Not being a jerk and it's cool to hear your own personal experience, but if you search HA you'll find most guys have already discussed this to death. Literally.

YouTube - ‪Mad TV: Literally a Parade‬‏ (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RAIww1VRY7Y)

[EyeCumInPiece]

Im torn by this one....the only thing that would stop me from saying yes is the fact that id like to have children one day.....without adopting. If i did meet the girl of my dreams and she happened to be trans then it would be hard for me to say no. I guess in my case...time will tell.

[mikelpo]

Yes fucking yes stop the fucking press! If she's hot she's fucking hot! Fuck the future, kids whatever! If your happy then who gives a flying fuck?! Tell you what let's start a gay vs am I aren't I poll! Fucking had enough! If you don't like tgirls fuck off somewhere else?!

[Yeah]

I can't say i would or wouldn't have a relationship with tgirl yet. I haven't had sex with one yet. One step at a time.

[Deimos]

My simple answer, yes. As long as it meant we were happy, I wouldn't care what anyone thought...

[Jericho]

Fuck no...They're all nuts!!!:hide-1:

[King_Krollen]

Yeah, I would.
Someone brought up earlier about dating a post-op tgirl... I might sound like a hypocrite by saying this, but if I wanted to date someone with a... 'innie' instead of an 'outtie', I'd date a ggirl. However if there was a spark, anything could happen.

In closing if my description offends anyone that was not my intention. I was just trying to input a little humor into my post.

[Birgitta]

Fuck no...They're all nuts!!!:hide-1:

Lol! Just the one's that date you lol

[Jericho]

Lol! Just the one's that date you lol

Try as I might, I can't dispute that! :shrug
So, my dove, shall we say a late supper? :dancing:

[BellaBellucci]

'innie' instead of an 'outtie'

I use that expression too, but it seems pretty rare. I find it to be the most discreet way to describe my 'predic(k)ament.'

Welcome to the forum.

~BB~

[Prospero]

Yes - why not

[Edwoodwoodwood]

If my personal circumstances were different then yes I don't see why not.

Out of all the TS escorts that I have met there is only one that would fulfill that role but I would find it pretty hard to have a relationship if she carried on escorting as jealously & sentiments would get in the way.

Never met (not knowingly) a TS other than an escort but have to assume that there good ones & bad ones just with every other sex. The fact if or not she has got a cock I believe could become irrelevant if you are talking 'relationships'.

[Prospero]

Indeed love and beauty l and personality and all the myriad factors which shape up when you get involved are what matter... not the presence or lack of something between her thighs

and note the question was about a TS - not an escort.

If i lived in the Netherlands I'd aspire to date Birgitta f'instance (not that she'd have me in all likelihood)

[Birgitta]

Try as I might, I can't dispute that! :shrug
So, my dove, shall we say a late supper? :dancing:

Hihi

[Birgitta]

Indeed love and beauty l and personality and all the myriad factors which shape up when you get involved are what matter... not the presence or lack of something between her thighs

and note the question was about a TS - not an escort.

If i lived in the Netherlands I'd aspire to date Birgitta f'instance (not that she'd have me in all likelihood)

Thats interesting ! I was thinking i made myself immensely unpopular with using this board as a punching ball for my frustration, or perhaps it was more like watching horrormovies to overcome fear lol !

Im not single ...
But im sure we would have fun prospero, probably platonic though lol
I bet you are a funny intelligent guy..

Still you know, the t world is a small world lol
When i still had contact with tgirlfriends it was not uncommen
That we all would know the same men from the internet...

I have no contact with tgirls now and i love it !!!! But the idea i am dating someone that was with some of the girls i know before, does not appeal me !
Sorth of turns me off lol !
I will not want to know about it hehe

But the archive here is full of reviews of your experiences lol

Lol....

[Prospero]

yep ... i'm soiled aren't i.... oh god

[Miss Aeryn]

OMG yes!! Love is genderless :)

[King_Krollen]

I use that expression too, but it seems pretty rare. I find it to be the most discreet way to describe my 'predic(k)ament.'

Welcome to the forum.

~BB~

Well... I guess my only 'excuse' is that I'm a bit more in touch with my inner 'fifth grader'. lol
And thanks for the welcome.

[suttonporksword]

i think i am getting into one at the moment

[iamdrgonzo]

Yes






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[Birgitta]

yep ... i'm soiled aren't i.... oh god

on the other hand being experienced is much better then inexperienced..right?
And at least i know the girls survived a date with you lol !

[Clind]

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[Clind]

Most things have been discussed to death on here, but there are a lot of new members on here who would like to share their thoughts and are new to this. It's so patronising when people who have been members for many years moan about how topics have been discussed before. This guy wants to share his thoughts, if your not interested jog on to the next thread, but there are others at the same stage who will interested. It's not all about one thread about each topic!

:claps:claps:claps:smoking

[BellaBellucci]

Well... I guess my only 'excuse' is that I'm a bit more in touch with my inner 'fifth grader'. lol
And thanks for the welcome.

OH NO!!!

http://www.clevelandleader.com/files/chris-hansen.jpg

~BB~

[robertlouis]

I think I will add a question to this tread; Would you have a relationship with a TS girl that is post op? I mean a TS girl that doesn't have a penis?

Yes, and I have had one.

[dav367]

Thanks for the feedback everyone. It seems most of us would have a relationship with a TS girl which is pretty cool!


i think i am getting into one at the moment

Hope it goes well! :D

[DL_NL]

Have done so in the past, would do so again but I'm not actively pursuing any kind of relationship currently.

[LibertyHarkness]

i would .. as long as they can cook

[robertlouis]

i would .. as long as they can cook

You're a shemale chauvinist sow, Harkness. :dancing:

[HIM999]

if i had a girl like morgan bailey for a girlfriend i would be proud to show her off

[King_Krollen]

OH NO!!!

http://www.clevelandleader.com/files/chris-hansen.jpg

~BB~

LMAO... I don't think he's much of a threat in this case. That'd be like a new twist on the movie Minority Report.

[mealticket]

I have been attracted to TS since i was young, was difficult to sort out my feelings...but after dating genetic girls my whole high school and college life, I started dating transsexuals when I was 22 after thinking about doing it for awhile, by the time I was 26 I had been in three steady relationships of 6 months or more, one being almost 2 years....all three experiences were very different, first girl seemed to not be able to connect emotionally and soon it just got awkward cuz we couldn't relate, the second girl was sweet but got too attached way too fast, the last girl who i dated for almost two years was difficult to deal with because she was a huge flirt and cheated on me and I ended it after that...so not good experiences. I have a long term genetic girlfriend now, and I still have attractions to transsexuals. I wonder if I am attracted more to transsexuals than genetic girls and if maybe i should be with a transsexual....but for now I will stay with my current gf.