Benevolent Sexism

[sunairco]

Ok guys new word and concept you need to learn in today's world. If you hold a door open for a lady, open her car door, let her in first before you, attempt to pay the bill, or anything chivalrous, the Feminists now call that Benevolent Sexism. According to them and the women they had keeping a diary of these little, innocuous things that men do constantly remind them of their subservience even though men think it's a proper thing to do. Worse yet, the men will insist on doing things such as shielding women from harms way or something unpleasant such as changing a tire or for g-d's sake even insisting on driving on long trips. They find that demeaning even though you consider it the proper and gentlemanly thing to do. Women are now to correct you when you try to be nice and open the door for themselves by curtly telling you they can do it themselves. Oh yes, when you're expected to set up their computer on their desk, they feel demeaned for that and resent it as well. Apparently men setting up and attempting to help fix or resolve a computer problem appears to be an issue with a lot of women.

This new Feminist study and recommendations should work very well at the check out when they're expected to produce their own credit card or remove the spider from the bathtub.

[trish]

In case of emergency, you better damn well save the Tgirls and children first.

[Ineeda SM]

A true feminist does not count the chivalrous actions of a man. They are still women and like being treated like a lady. Being a true feminist is serving a cause of equality for women in society...ie...equal pay for equal work,..... women's rights in general.

Opening a car door, or offering to pay for dinner does not directly represent a demeaning action to a lady. It is simply what a gentleman does out of consideration and respect for the woman because he wants to, not because he has to.

Those feminist who complain about men opening doors or treating them like women, are confused about their own gender, and just being a pain in the ass.

[CORVETTEDUDE]

Hello everybody! My name is Corvettedude and I'm a Benevolent Sexist.

[Yvonne183]

I can remove a spider from my bathtub, I even collect spiders,, it's drunken men that I have a difficult time removing from my bathtub. But there is always a gentlemen around to open the door for me when I toss the drunk out.

[Ineeda SM]

I can remove a spider from my bathtub, I even collect spiders,, it's drunken men that I have a difficult time removing from my bathtub. But there is always a gentlemen around to open the door for me when I toss the drunk out.

LMFAO You kill me, zombiegirl.

[robertlouis]

LMFAO You kill me, zombiegirl.

Me too. You ought to be a national treasure, Yvonne. I'd like to adopt you as such for that status here in the UK.

[Helvis2012]

Yeah.....

[loveboof]

Yeah that does suck. A woman once had a go at me when I held a door open for her, so I shut it in her face and walked off.

I was only being polite - and she was obviously a bitch. Mostly tho women seem appreciative if I help them with a heavy bag down the tube, or take one end of a pram etc.

[robertlouis]

Yeah that does suck. A woman once had a go at me when I held a door open for her, so I shut it in her face and walked off.

I was only being polite - and she was obviously a bitch. Mostly tho women seem appreciative if I help them with a heavy bag down the tube, or take one end of a pram etc.

And then there are of course the cretins who seem to take pleasure in leaving women in a predicament to their own devices on the basis that if they're all feminists they can do it themselves. Like everything else, it's a two-sided coin.

It can of course also be overdone. Choosing for a woman in a restaurant is either cloying or sexist. Neither way is good.

I was brought up to follow the example of my father, who was a courteous gentleman and a real gentle man as well. I don't do it to impress, it's simply civilised behaviour.

[Yvonne183]

Me too. You ought to be a national treasure, Yvonne. I'd like to adopt you as such for that status here in the UK.

I accept only if I can be the queen.


PS-There you go Robert,, I'll be the straight man in your next post,, wow, lots of innuendo stuff to use here.


Ps2- Hi I-Need-A

PS3-Helvis's pic kinda scares me.

[BellaBellucci]

A true feminist does not count the chivalrous actions of a man. They are still women and like being treated like a lady. Being a true feminist is serving a cause of equality for women in society...ie...equal pay for equal work,..... women's rights in general.

Opening a car door, or offering to pay for dinner does not directly represent a demeaning action to a lady. It is simply what a gentleman does out of consideration and respect for the woman because he wants to, not because he has to.

Those feminist who complain about men opening doors or treating them like women, are confused about their own gender, and just being a pain in the ass.

Totally. People seriously need to stop labeling shit. :lol:

~BB~

[Helvis2012]

I accept only if I can be the queen.


PS3-Helvis's pic kinda scares me.



That's ironic...your, Highness.

[robertlouis]

Totally. People seriously need to stop labeling shit. :lol:

~BB~

Hey girl, this is HA, remember??? :whistle:

More labels than a walmart.....

[aprilian]

Fuck em! Sometimes I open the door for mu guy friends too.

Just me I guess

[BellaBellucci]

Hey girl, this is HA, remember??? :whistle:

More labels than a walmart.....

Yeah, but this label didn't come from HA. It came from those psychotic femi-nazi's. I consider myself a feminist, but sometimes groups of GG's just take things too far. That's estrogen for you.

I will say this though: if a man is a 'benevolent sexist' after the first couple of days, there's a much higher chance that he has a malevolent 'control and protect' side that most women, me included, don't like.


Fuck em! Sometimes I open the door for mu guy friends too.

Just me I guess

Fag! :lol:



j/k!

~BB~

[nonnonnon]

lol
http://28.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lj3u7yznSF1qcs9oto1_500.jpg

[robertlouis]

Yeah, but this label didn't come from HA. It came from those psychotic femi-nazi's. I consider myself a feminist, but sometimes groups of GG's just take things too far. That's estrogen for you.



Fag! :lol:



j/k!

~BB~



Ooh, I'll come over there and scratch your eyes out!

As for the oestrogen, nice change from the usual torrents of over-protesting testosterone, don'cha think?

[BellaBellucci]

Ooh, I'll come over there and scratch your eyes out!

As for the oestrogen, nice change from the usual torrents of over-protesting testosterone, don'cha think?

Both sexes are fucked. Transsexuals shall inherit the Earth.

~BB~

[robertlouis]

Both sexes are fucked. Transsexuals shall inherit the Earth.

~BB~

Which will, at least, make inroads into the overpopulation issue.

There's the slogan gurls - Tgirls for a greener planet!

[Birgitta]

Ok guys new word and concept you need to learn in today's world. If you hold a door open for a lady, open her car door, let her in first before you, attempt to pay the bill, or anything chivalrous, the Feminists now call that Benevolent Sexism. According to them and the women they had keeping a diary of these little, innocuous things that men do constantly remind them of their subservience even though men think it's a proper thing to do. Worse yet, the men will insist on doing things such as shielding women from harms way or something unpleasant such as changing a tire or for g-d's sake even insisting on driving on long trips. They find that demeaning even though you consider it the proper and gentlemanly thing to do. Women are now to correct you when you try to be nice and open the door for themselves by curtly telling you they can do it themselves. Oh yes, when you're expected to set up their computer on their desk, they feel demeaned for that and resent it as well. Apparently men setting up and attempting to help fix or resolve a computer problem appears to be an issue with a lot of women.

This new Feminist study and recommendations should work very well at the check out when they're expected to produce their own credit card or remove the spider from the bathtub.

Do those men still excist ? I thought feminism ruined them and turned them into powerbttms...
?

[BellaBellucci]

Do those men still excist ? I thought feminism ruined them and turned them into powerbttms...
?

Hold up! I don't want a powerbottom or a man anywhere near my tech! :lol:

~BB~

[robertlouis]

Do those men still excist ? I thought feminism ruined them and turned them into powerbttms...
?

Yes Birgitta. There are still one or two who know how to behave and prefer to top. ;)

[Birgitta]

Yes Birgitta. There are still one or two who know how to behave and prefer to top. ;)

Names and adresses please, we shall have to put them into quarantine inmediately before they become extinct !

[Jericho]

Proper gentleman, me.
If a chicky's wearing heels, I'll always let her walk upstairs first.
If she trips and falls, she'll land on me and break her fall.
Watching her arse cheeks bob up and down has nothing to do with it.
Tell people that and they won't believe you! :shrug

[robertlouis]

Proper gentleman, me.
If a chicky's wearing heels, I'll always let her walk upstairs first.
If she trips and falls, she'll land on me and break her fall.
Watching her arse cheeks bob up and down has nothing to do with it.
Tell people that and they won't believe you! :shrug

Ah, Jericho, welcome.

"A verray parfit gentil knycht"

You don't often get Chaucer on here, do you?

[Jericho]

"A verray parfit gentil knycht"
You don't often get Chaucer on here, do you?

Hardly surprising.
Everytime he showed up, the spelling Nazis gave him a hard time!:shrug

[robertlouis]

Hardly surprising.
Everytime he showed up, the spelling Nazis gave him a hard time!:shrug

I used to be able to recite the Prologue in Middle English - and this was in Scotland.

I went to a very strange school.

[Jericho]

I used to be able to recite the Prologue in Middle English - and this was in Scotland.

I went to a very strange school.

Yah...We guessed! :whistle:

:lol: I'm sorry, I tried to resist it, but... :lol:

[robertlouis]

Yah...We guessed! :whistle:

:lol: I'm sorry, I tried to resist it, but... :lol:

Sheep-shagging Welsh twat! :mad:

Sorry, I've descended to insults now, but it could be fun. Over to you chum.

[Jericho]

Sheep-shagging Welsh twat! :mad:

Sorry, I've descended to insults now, but it could be fun. Over to you chum.


Away, ya ginger, hairy legged, frock wearing, haggis basher!
(I think that's covered most of them, hasn't it) :dancing:

[robertlouis]

Away, ya ginger, hairy legged, frock wearing, haggis basher!
(I think that's covered most of them, hasn't it) :dancing:

It's all true apart from the ginger bit.

Just share a wee joke with you, told to me by a Welsh chum a few years back.


Q: Why do Scotsmen wear the kilt?


A: So that the sheep can't hear the zip......


Touche, as they say. :dancing:

[Jericho]

Q: Why do Scotsmen wear the kilt?
A: So that the sheep can't hear the zip....



Hmmmm, that could also explain the concentration of hairy transvestites (inverted commas), around Cardiff and Swansea...It's just a cover!

Prepares to get a hit put on him by the Taffia! :ignore:

[robertlouis]

Hmmmm, that could also explain the concentration of hairy transvestites (inverted commas), around Cardiff and Swansea...It's just a cover!

Prepares to get a hit put on him by the Taffia! :ignore:

I know it's an old one, but our transpondian friends might not have seen it.

A WELSH LEISURE CENTRE

[Jericho]

I know it's an old one, but our transpondian friends might not have seen it.

A WELSH LEISURE CENTRE

Yes, but behind the glamour....

[robertlouis]

Yes, but behind the glamour....


Good pic of you though.....

[Jericho]

Good pic of you though.....

I'm thinking i wouldn't be spending so much time on here if it was.
Not with that tongue! :whistle:

[StlyeMeCunty]

Ok guys new word and concept you need to learn in today's world. If you hold a door open for a lady, open her car door, let her in first before you, attempt to pay the bill, or anything chivalrous, the Feminists now call that Benevolent Sexism. According to them and the women they had keeping a diary of these little, innocuous things that men do constantly remind them of their subservience even though men think it's a proper thing to do. Worse yet, the men will insist on doing things such as shielding women from harms way or something unpleasant such as changing a tire or for g-d's sake even insisting on driving on long trips. They find that demeaning even though you consider it the proper and gentlemanly thing to do. Women are now to correct you when you try to be nice and open the door for themselves by curtly telling you they can do it themselves. Oh yes, when you're expected to set up their computer on their desk, they feel demeaned for that and resent it as well. Apparently men setting up and attempting to help fix or resolve a computer problem appears to be an issue with a lot of women.

This new Feminist study and recommendations should work very well at the check out when they're expected to produce their own credit card or remove the spider from the bathtub.



What men still do this, and where can i meet them! SHIT these feminist crusaders know some nice men!!!!!! JEALOUS MUCH! :(

[robertlouis]

What men still do this, and where can i meet them! SHIT these feminist crusaders know some nice men!!!!!! JEALOUS MUCH! :(

It's a shame for you that we're all in the UK lol. :dancing:

[StlyeMeCunty]

It's a shame for you that we're all in the UK lol. :dancing:

URGHHHHHHHHH! I swear sometimes it seems like you need a European man for all that chivalry and kindness! Then again men are men and they all have the ability to be dicks! AHAH! :wiggle:

[Jericho]

URGHHHHHHHHH! I swear sometimes it seems like you need a European man for all that chivalry and kindness! Then again men are men and they all have the ability to be dicks! AHAH! :wiggle:

Yeah, but European dicks...we're polite about it! :whistle:

[robertlouis]

URGHHHHHHHHH! I swear sometimes it seems like you need a European man for all that chivalry and kindness! Then again men are men and they all have the ability to be dicks! AHAH! :wiggle:

Except the powerbottoms, but you'll find that out for yourself, no doubt. :dancing:

[Ineeda SM]

Ps2- Hi I-Need-A

You are the first to get that. Most do not realize that my user name is not a name (Ineeda), but a statement. (I need a SM) That's my zombiegirl.

[robertlouis]

You are the first to get that. Most do not realize that my user name is not a name (Ineeda), but a statement. (I need a SM) That's my zombiegirl.

She's worryingly bright for someone who's supposedly dead.

We're all done for if they're all like her next time around.

Can somebody over there warn George Romero please?

[Birgitta]

What men still do this, and where can i meet them! SHIT these feminist crusaders know some nice men!!!!!! JEALOUS MUCH! :(

A man like that is simply irresistable...but would i trust him if he knows exactly how to push my buttons, or would i just stop caring about that and enjoy the ride ? Lol

[Birgitta]

But i probably will feel embarassed when i am treated this well...lol

[Prospero]

I used to have a pretty radical feminist friend who said she would slam the door in the face of any guy who held it open for her - because he was singling her out for special treatment as a woman. Hmmmm... holding the door open for anyone is politeness IMHO and what she did was just plain rudeness. Note i used the past tense in my opening sentence.

[dgs925]

I don't open the door for anybody, and truly don't understand this practice. If you've got two free hands, do it yourself.

[CORVETTEDUDE]

Stop chuckin' my wood!!!:yayo::hide-1::whistle:

[Birgitta]

I don't open the door for anybody, and truly don't understa

nd this practice. If you've got two free hands, do it yourself.

Its called foreplay :p

[dgs925]

Its called foreplay :p

I can see that point. If I wanted to fuck somebody, it would therefore be in my best interest to hold the door open for them. Otherwise, they can use their own arms.

[DL_NL]

I don't like slamming doors in anyone's face, man or woman. And yes, I'm the idiot who tends to be polite to ladies. I'm an old-fashioned dude.

[Birgitta]

I don't like slamming doors in anyone's face, man or woman. And yes, I'm the idiot who tends to be polite to ladies. I'm an old-fashioned dude.

And with the right girl i guess it will be very rewarding coz she will want to treat you right also...when a guy knows how to make a girl feel feminine and respected, she will respect his masculinity also...(but most guys here want us girls to appreciate their femininity, be honest guys, most of you dont like the traditional male role, not coz its old fashioned, but coz you dig tgirls for your own special preferences)

But nowadays it all seems old fashioned, like romance as well :)
Porn is great just like kinky sex but without love its not enjoyed half as much...

In my opinion with love..
Thats where life's adventures really start...
Anything else is amateurish lol

Love is the real drug, the hardest and most intense trip...and only for the brave hearted...

[Birgitta]

I used to have a pretty radical feminist friend who said she would slam the door in the face of any guy who held it open for her - because he was singling her out for special treatment as a woman. Hmmmm... holding the door open for anyone is politeness IMHO and what she did was just plain rudeness. Note i used the past tense in my opening sentence.

That cover of erica jong's book about witches is very beautifull and erotic...
I used to stare at it ocassionally as a teenager...

Hey come to think of it...even as a ts i am traditional coz i accept the priestess/witch identity/function with all my heart....

[robertlouis]

I can see that point. If I wanted to fuck somebody, it would therefore be in my best interest to hold the door open for them. Otherwise, they can use their own arms.

You're not really into altruism, are you lol?

[robertlouis]

And with the right girl i guess it will be very rewarding coz she will want to treat you right also...when a guy knows how to make a girl feel feminine and respected, she will respect his masculinity also...(but most guys here want us girls to appreciate their femininity, be honest guys, most of you dont like the traditional male role, not coz its old fashioned, but coz you dig tgirls for your own special preferences)

But nowadays it all seems old fashioned, like romance as well :)
Porn is great just like kinky sex but without love its not enjoyed half as much...

In my opinion with love..
Thats where life's adventures really start...
Anything else is amateurish lol

Love is the real drug, the hardest and most intense trip...and only for the brave hearted...

But you don't hold doors open for women just because they're pretty or you want to get into bed with them. It's for people who actually need the help - pregnant women, women with children, old women, old men for that matter. It's more than courtesy, it's practical help and it should be second nature. smh

Judging by some of the responses here we seem to be living in an entirely self-interested world.

[dgs925]

You're not really into altruism, are you lol?

It isn't about altruism, it's a fucking door. You aren't making the world a better place by holding the door open for someone. You aren't alleviating suffering by doing so. It takes close to zero effort to open it yourself, so why get annoyed when you have to do so.

If someone is walking behind me, and they are going in the same door as me, I will swing the door out so they can catch it themselves. But if they are walking so far behind me that I would have to stop walking and stand there holding the door, I'll just let it close and they can open it themselves - I'm not going to stop making forward progress.

Like I said, if their hands are full (or if they are old or crippled) I'll gladly get the door. But if not, why do it? I get annoyed when people stand there holding the door for me.

[CORVETTEDUDE]

Yesterday....Just fuckin' yesterday, I went to hold a door for what I thought was a lady (turns out she was just a fuckin' cunt), she gave me shit for it so....I slammed it in her face!!! You don't want to accept courtesy...at least be nice about it or.....


FUCK YOU!!!

[Ineeda SM]

It isn't about altruism, it's a fucking door. You aren't making the world a better place by holding the door open for someone. You aren't alleviating suffering by doing so. It takes close to zero effort to open it yourself, so why get annoyed when you have to do so.

If someone is walking behind me, and they are going in the same door as me, I will swing the door out so they can catch it themselves. But if they are walking so far behind me that I would have to stop walking and stand there holding the door, I'll just let it close and they can open it themselves - I'm not going to stop making forward progress.

Like I said, if their hands are full (or if they are old or crippled) I'll gladly get the door. But if not, why do it? I get annoyed when people stand there holding the door for me.

Ahhh but it DOES make the world a better place. It makes people feel good to be treated nicely, and they are more likely to spread it around. That's the differences with some guys and why they don't get respect from women. Like I said in my last post. We open a door because we want to, not because we have to. A nice guy will open the door, or hold one open out of sheer kindness and respect for the lady. It's just common courtesy. That's what decent people do.

If you only care about yourself and have no respect for a lady, how can you have any respect at all? Kindness and respect is earned. If you don't give it, you won't get it. I have always treated people the way they treat me, and I think people in general feel the same way. But if you start by treating a woman like an inanimate object, she will see you as the same or worse. And rightfully so. First impressions are not forgotten.

[robertlouis]

I get annoyed when people stand there holding the door for me.


Oh, so you're one of these militant feminists.....

[BellaBellucci]

Judging by some of the responses here we seem to be living in an entirely self-interested world.

It's the L.A. smug cloud. It's getting into the jet stream and spreading across the country.

http://southparkstudios.mtvnimages.com/shared/downloads/images/season-10/1002/1002_2-smug-alert.jpg

~BB~

[robertlouis]

It's the L.A. smug cloud. It's getting into the jet stream and spreading across the country.


~BB~

So like everything else it will be hitting our shores before too long....