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FreddieGomez
05-05-2011, 05:45 PM
i been hearin alot about this in the news....and was wondering since i've never been one to bully others, but when i was growing up i did get bullied. nothing serious, just harassin comments and shit....i went to a predominately latino school and i was one of the few dudes who was mixed with black so i got peeps talkin shit about my nose and my hair texture bein different..but in a way i think it backfired because it made all the chicks love me. but i never bullied anyone....not even the gay dudes peeps would constantly clown on. i kept to myself in school even tho i got all the hot chicks all the dudes who used to hate on me didnt get...lol....

south ov da border
05-05-2011, 07:03 PM
yea I got bullied, but I did at home too, so I got to a point where I didn't care. But sometimes it meant having to fight. I never wanted to hurt anyone, so I often ended them quick, or just said you won. Eventually those bullies were nice to me...

Prospero
05-05-2011, 07:13 PM
Isn't bullying a reality of most children's lives? Someone bullies them and, unless they are little saints, they bully someone else? Isn't it the degree and nature of the bullying that is important. I used to get beaten up by a gang at school for working too hard - being what in the UK they call a swat. Finally I had enough and squared up to the biggest guy. Beat him in a fair fight and the rest of the gang left me alone. These day I'd probably get stabbed or shot.
And in turn I would occasionally hit one of the most stupid boys in the school. Just hit on the head with a paper and the like. But I still feel hugely ashamed of that now. If I met him I'd apologise and buy him a drink. But it was a long time ago.

MrsKellyPierce
05-05-2011, 07:19 PM
I've been bullied and bullied in my past.

I've been bullied more online than anywhere...but I can just turn the computer off lol

LibertyHarkness
05-05-2011, 07:21 PM
i got bullied once ,, then my brother dealt with it ....then i bullied a few nerds ...and then got a good hiding for it .. so i never did it again .

Prospero
05-05-2011, 07:22 PM
law of the jungle

iamdrgonzo
05-05-2011, 07:27 PM
law of the jungle

Couldn't have typed it better myself.

That Darwin was a real son of a bitch.

Prospero
05-05-2011, 07:28 PM
I'd have pulled his stupid beard - and stomped on his snails
yeah!

TsVanessa69
05-05-2011, 07:34 PM
i been hearin alot about this in the news....and was wondering since i've never been one to bully others, but when i was growing up i did get bullied. nothing serious, just harassin comments and shit....i went to a predominately latino school and i was one of the few dudes who was mixed with black so i got peeps talkin shit about my nose and my hair texture bein different..but in a way i think it backfired because it made all the chicks love me. but i never bullied anyone....not even the gay dudes peeps would constantly clown on. i kept to myself in school even tho i got all the hot chicks all the dudes who used to hate on me didnt get...lol....
Lol at the lies. Me and my big cheeks are laughing at this bullshit. and if you got hot chicks, then you must not have known what to do with them, cuz hot chicks don't like asswipes.

TsVanessa69
05-05-2011, 07:38 PM
I been bullied and most of the time it backfires. People will bully you when they think they have control over you.
Im a tranny, I'mma always be a tranny and nothing is wrong or will ever change about that. I accepted this at an early age. High school was fun, cuz I already knew the game. I wwas friends with the better looking females, cuz well, I'm the tranny. Dudes didnt fuck with me cuz they wanted the hot chicks I hung around with. But like Kelly said, people bully me on the internet, cuz well thats what bitchasses do.

FreddieGomez
05-05-2011, 07:40 PM
but u bully others online yourself...so that's a hypocritical statement.

TsVanessa69
05-05-2011, 07:44 PM
but u bully others online yourself...so that's a hypocritical statement.
How could an old ass ugly tranny with big cheeks be a bully?
You making this thread was hyprocrytical. As would the un passable and big shouldered trannys would agree with me.

BTW: guys who get hott chicks get hott trannys.
they also don't talk mad shit about peoples looks to make them feel better about themselves..
Thats how we know you didn't get hott chicks ever.
Unless you cut the pics out and pasted them in your locker and said, one day when I become a real man, I might have a shot at a hott chick, LOL

OEMEnemyNum1
05-05-2011, 08:09 PM
I was bullied really young for being the smallest kid in the school. About the time I hit high school I had put on enough of a facade of arrogance, craziness, and a tech junky that I had a few people convinced I was a serial killer. When people thought I would kill their sister and their dog they just decided to leave me alone.

TsVanessa69
05-05-2011, 08:12 PM
I've been bullied and bullied in my past.

I've been bullied more online than anywhere...but I can just turn the computer off lol
The online bulling is funny. like Keepingitreal from here. He was supposed to be beating my ass when I got to NYC. I was there 9 days, shopping, working in clubs, looking at apartments. Never saw him! People who cyber bully are more funny than anything.

nonnonnon
05-05-2011, 08:19 PM
I feel bad about doing it now

LittleGuy
05-05-2011, 09:07 PM
Tsvannesa is just mad Freddie won't fuck her.

Let it go already

TsVanessa69
05-05-2011, 09:39 PM
Tsvannesa is just mad Freddie won't fuck her.

Let it go already
Why would me of all people be mad over a piece of dick?
I turn down alot of dick and alot of pussy.
I have boy toys who accept the fact they are freaks like me, and we freak well together.
I never focus on what I don't want when I have more than I actually want.
There wuld be no room for him and I don't carry around dead weight.
But maybe you can take him.

iamdrgonzo
05-05-2011, 10:12 PM
The online bulling is funny. like Keepingitreal from here. He was supposed to be beating my ass when I got to NYC. I was there 9 days, shopping, working in clubs, looking at apartments. Never saw him! People who cyber bully are more funny than anything.


Bingo

rockabilly
05-05-2011, 10:15 PM
Bullied back in the day , never was a bully though because i knew it sucked getting bullied.

Quiet Reflections
05-06-2011, 12:59 AM
I don't know if I was a bully but I grew up around some rough kids so being mean, fighting, teasing and getting teased was the norm. We were just kids being kids I think a lot of parents are over sensitive and forget the stuff they did when they were younger and as a result raise some pussy ass children. That said there is still no excuse for some of the things that are done to the kids out there but I also think adults need to remember that sometimes its just kids being kids. A child calling a fellow 12 year old a bitch, fag,etc.., or even fighting a guy because his/her friends don't like him is just what young people do. Its not excusable, just normal.

onmyknees
05-06-2011, 01:40 AM
Yea....I was a motha fucker....probably lots of kids worst nitemare. Not proud of it now, but I'm not going to lie about it either. I don't think I ever got physical with someone who wouldn't or couln't defend themselves...that would not be in keeping with what I learned in Sunday School ! LMAO..I think that's why now I probably overcompensate and look out for those who can't really protect themselves. I don't even like people raising thier voices at pets now. One grows up and realizes the error of ones ways.
As far as the the geeks I fucked with getting the girls....I can't recall that ever happening. Unfortunately then as now...adolescence can be a difficult time.

Quiet Reflections
05-06-2011, 01:56 AM
Isn't bullying a reality of most children's lives? Someone bullies them and, unless they are little saints, they bully someone else? Isn't it the degree and nature of the bullying that is important. I used to get beaten up by a gang at school for working too hard - being what in the UK they call a swat. Finally I had enough and squared up to the biggest guy. Beat him in a fair fight and the rest of the gang left me alone. These day I'd probably get stabbed or shot.
And in turn I would occasionally hit one of the most stupid boys in the school. Just hit on the head with a paper and the like. But I still feel hugely ashamed of that now. If I met him I'd apologise and buy him a drink. But it was a long time ago.
that's a big problem these days too. Kids don't know how to use their words and as a last resort their hand. I like many of you, I was taught to defend myself at a very young age. I was also taught pussies used weapons and/or couldn't/wouldn't fight unless they were in a group. I imagine some of the over reaction to bullies these days comes from the fact that the world as a whole has come to rely on weapons and violence to solve their problems instead of our brains and home training.

robertlouis
05-06-2011, 02:09 AM
Workplace bullying goes on a lot too, and companies are just as bad at dealing with it as schools are, especially if the bully is someone in authority.

BigDF
05-06-2011, 02:15 AM
I was bullied throughout my school years, even though I was much bigger than most of the kids my age. I was always worried about hurting someone in a fight so I tended to pull my punches. About a month before I graduated high school one of the other victims decided to take his shot at bullying me and by then I had lost patience with it and punched him. By the end of that day nobody tried bullying me again. I don't think I ever bullied anyone, although my wife gets on me a lot for being too gruff with some of my friends and acquaintances.

bte
05-06-2011, 03:07 AM
I got bullied. The only thing that helped was toughen up and learn to fight. Don't get bully now, but if I see anyone getting bullied then I usually try to defend the person getting bullied. Like I was driving to the store one day and I saw some teenagers bullying this teenager. I stopped the car and got out of the car and confronted them. They stopped harassing the kid too. Basically told the kid that if he doesn't do anything then they just keep doing it and doing it again.

kittyKaiti
05-06-2011, 04:18 AM
I was tormented and bullied on multiple levels throughout my time in school and even in the neighborhood. From verbal abuse to threats of physical violence and no matter how many times I went to my parents or the school officials or the police, it wouldn't stop until I upped the anty and pulled weapons on bitches and set every bully in their place. I was never bothered again. They came to my house with baseball bats one day so I pulled a knife. They were too scared too come after me anymore that they got their friends to come after me instead. So I pulled a gun and never heard from a single person ever again. Suicide is not the answer. (Justifiable) Homicide is.

robertlouis
05-06-2011, 04:21 AM
I was tormented and bullied on multiple levels throughout my time in school and even in the neighborhood. From verbal abuse to threats of physical violence and no matter how many times I went to my parents or the school officials or the police, it wouldn't stop until I upped the anty and pulled weapons on bitches and set every bully in their place. I was never bothered again. They came to my house with baseball bats one day so I pulled a knife. They were too scared too come after me anymore that they got their friends to come after me instead. So I pulled a gun and never heard from a single person ever again. Suicide is not the answer. (Justifiable) Homicide is.

Jeez Kaiti, that's sad.

LittleGuy
05-06-2011, 04:52 AM
I was tormented and bullied on multiple levels throughout my time in school and even in the neighborhood. From verbal abuse to threats of physical violence and no matter how many times I went to my parents or the school officials or the police, it wouldn't stop until I upped the anty and pulled weapons on bitches and set every bully in their place. I was never bothered again. They came to my house with baseball bats one day so I pulled a knife. They were too scared too come after me anymore that they got their friends to come after me instead. So I pulled a gun and never heard from a single person ever again. Suicide is not the answer. (Justifiable) Homicide is.

This happened in the US?

kittyKaiti
05-06-2011, 04:56 AM
This happened in the US?

Yes, I live in New York.

LittleGuy
05-06-2011, 04:57 AM
Why would me of all people be mad over a piece of dick?
I turn down alot of dick and alot of pussy.
I have boy toys who accept the fact they are freaks like me, and we freak well together.
I never focus on what I don't want when I have more than I actually want.
There wuld be no room for him and I don't carry around dead weight.
But maybe you can take him.

Would you turn down my dick?

onmyknees
05-06-2011, 04:58 AM
This happened in the US?

Well it might not be obvious at times......Newburh is still in NY, which is still in the US,

LittleGuy
05-06-2011, 04:58 AM
Yes, I live in New York.

Wow that's terrible

LittleGuy
05-06-2011, 05:02 AM
Well it might not be obvious at times......Newburh is still in NY, which is still in the US,

:fu: okay pussy

onmyknees
05-06-2011, 05:12 AM
:fu: okay pussy


LMAO.. you're bound to reveal yourself as the fool you are at some point in almost every thread. But I like your consistancy !

Quiet Reflections
05-06-2011, 05:40 AM
This happened in the US?
It happens all over this country. Its terrible but in this day and age knowing how to wield a knife and aim a gun is a necessity

innocentbychoice
05-06-2011, 08:22 AM
I got bullied, lookin back it was just the regular stuff, nothing out of the ordinary until my senior year; I was miserable that year, I was struggling with my sexuality, my parents' divorce, was confused and a bit depressed and on top of that I had to deal with one motherfucker who bullied me; he called me names and made fun of me in front of others because I was gay. The ironic thing is, a few years later I found out that back then in our senior year, he was messing around with a guy from his gym.

Birgitta
05-06-2011, 09:05 AM
I don't know if I was a bully but I grew up around some rough kids so being mean, fighting, teasing and getting teased was the norm. We were just kids being kids I think a lot of parents are over sensitive and forget the stuff they did when they were younger and as a result raise some pussy ass children. That said there is still no excuse for some of the things that are done to the kids out there but I also think adults need to remember that sometimes its just kids being kids. A child calling a fellow 12 year old a bitch, fag,etc.., or even fighting a guy because his/her friends don't like him is just what young people do. Its not excusable, just normal.

No they are kids that arent raised right in a school system that fails. Its not just kids. Kids are not innocent. And you have no idea that a lot of kids suffer life long damage for being bullied. And who is going to pay for that damage?

Jericho
05-06-2011, 09:12 AM
I was always the class clown, i was never bullied, but, to my my shame, i did verbally bully other people.
If I could go back, i'd still my tongue for some of the things i said

Quiet Reflections
05-06-2011, 09:32 AM
No they are kids that arent raised right in a school system that fails. Its not just kids. Kids are not innocent. And you have no idea that a lot of kids suffer life long damage for being bullied. And who is going to pay for that damage?
I actually do have an Idea of how damaging mental and physical abuse can be as I have spent a small fortune on my own psychiatrists. I wish it was the other kids that bullied me. You are right that kids aren't raised right these days, are very far from innocent and schools suck these days but being bullied has been around forever in every country, race and social class and while it is wrong and inexcusable it is still a normal part of growing up. Mean shitty people were still around when the schools systems were "good"(whenever that was). Since the dawn of time people have been put through the ringer by their peers. it sucks but it makes us stronger people and (hopefully)teaches us how to stand up for ourselves.

Quiet Reflections
05-06-2011, 09:34 AM
No they are kids that arent raised right in a school system that fails. Its not just kids. Kids are not innocent. And you have no idea that a lot of kids suffer life long damage for being bullied. And who is going to pay for that damage?
society pays. it sucks and we shouldn't have to but it will never change.

dderek123
05-06-2011, 09:42 AM
Growing up I was always bigger than everyone else. And in high school I played rugby and football which was rough as hell. Other than that I kept to myself and treated others with respect and kindness. Word travels fast in a small town, so not many would try to mess with me.

innocentbychoice
05-06-2011, 06:38 PM
You are right that kids aren't raised right these days, are very far from innocent and schools suck these days but being bullied has been around forever in every country, race and social class and while it is wrong and inexcusable it is still a normal part of growing up.

To some extent, yes kids will always be bullies, they just don't know better and kids can be real idiots sometimes. But the are types or levels of bullying, making fun of someone in a light way is what I would call "acceptable" but humilliating and abusing someone (verbally or physically) on a daily basis should NEVER be acceptable; parents and schools need to teach children to be tolerant from an early age.

TsVanessa69
05-06-2011, 06:48 PM
Would you turn down my dick?
Pobably. See I really don't have any intrest in more dick at the moment.
But if the price is right my intrest will be peaked.
I have 2 very exceptional pieces of dick I enjoy and I doubt you could even come close in size, looks or skill

Silcc69
05-06-2011, 07:04 PM
I dont know why Vanessa came here and attacked Freddie I would've love to have seen the war they had on bgc. Anyways I was never really bullied much cept a lnog ass time about in elementary school. But then I was good after that most of the time.

nonnonnon
05-06-2011, 07:36 PM
The ironic thing is, a few years later I found out that back then in our senior year, he was messing around with a guy from his gym.

I think the lgbt kids put a curse on me lol

TsVanessa69
05-06-2011, 08:27 PM
I dont know why Vanessa came here and attacked Freddie I would've love to have seen the war they had on bgc. Anyways I was never really bullied much cept a lnog ass time about in elementary school. But then I was good after that most of the time.
Oh girl please
you on freddys nuts like a typical faggot.
I don't have wars with anybody
At this point in my life I have learned that there are 2 types of people in my life, those worth my time and those not. I focus on those worth my time.
The ones paying me.
If a dude is not paying me, I'm really not intersted in shit he or she or a he-she has to say.

Quiet Reflections
05-06-2011, 08:32 PM
To some extent, yes kids will always be bullies, they just don't know better and kids can be real idiots sometimes. But the are types or levels of bullying, making fun of someone in a light way is what I would call "acceptable" but humilliating and abusing someone (verbally or physically) on a daily basis should NEVER be acceptable; parents and schools need to teach children to be tolerant from an early age.
I totally agree with you. It is however a shame we live in a world that will never see that change.

LittleGuy
05-06-2011, 09:02 PM
LMAO.. you're bound to reveal yourself as the fool you are at some point in almost every thread. But I like your consistancy !

Just because her profile says Newburh Ny doesn't mean she went to school in that area you fucking cock sucker.

LittleGuy
05-06-2011, 09:05 PM
Pobably. See I really don't have any intrest in more dick at the moment.
But if the price is right my intrest will be peaked.
I have 2 very exceptional pieces of dick I enjoy and I doubt you could even come close in size, looks or skill

I'm confused

Why does my dick size, looks, or skill matter if you make people pay?

philipsfrog
05-06-2011, 09:25 PM
Back when was in school I used to get bullied everyday.

MdR Dave
05-07-2011, 12:21 AM
I'm confused

Why does my dick size, looks, or skill matter if you make people pay?

I'll take "dickless, skill-less, tactless trolls" for $100, Alex.

LittleGuy
05-07-2011, 02:18 AM
I'll take "dickless, skill-less, tactless trolls" for $100, Alex.

Hey onmyknees

MdR Dave
05-07-2011, 02:27 AM
Hey onmyknees
OMK? Omg! Do you think I'm onmyknees or are you calling for backup?

onmyknees
05-07-2011, 02:35 AM
Just because her profile says Newburh Ny doesn't mean she went to school in that area you fucking cock sucker.


you're like the character Sal in Dog Day Afternoon when Pacino asks him what country he wants to go to..he thinks for a moment and replies...."Wyoming"...LMAO

YouTube - Dog Day Afternoon Trailer (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CF1rtd8_pxA)

Maybe that's what I'll refer to you from now on........Sal.

Ya know anyone else I'd cut some slack but you don't give that courtsey to anyone else so why should you expect it in return ?

Jackal
05-07-2011, 04:53 AM
Who is the woman in your avatar?

johnnieev
05-10-2011, 02:02 PM
Myself, I was bullied throughout high school due to I ran track (distance races) and cross-country.

Growing up near Pittsburgh, PA, real men/boys played football, basketball, baseball and wrestled. "Real wimpy BOYS" ran cross-country and distance races. When the jock boys were out driving and see me running down the road, they would drive on the side trying to spray gravel at me, buzz REAL close by me with their cars, hit puddles so water and/or mud would spray onto me, etc. I would walk the halls of high school and be stared at by them with very dirty looks. The girls that hung out with them (the "jockettes") wouldn't give me the time of day.

Meanwhile, the "greasers" (guys who worked on cars and the women/girls who hung up with them) treated me with a lot of respect. They would scream out of their cars, "Keep going, Johnniee!", or "Hey, Johnniee!" (with a big wave of the hand), or other nice things. And the ladies always treated me well and talked to me like a normal person (like I was).

I so appreciated those greasers who helped me when I was out on the roads trying to be a better runner......

Jericho
05-10-2011, 02:46 PM
you're like the character Sal in Dog Day Afternoon when Pacino asks him what country he wants to go to..he thinks for a moment and replies...."Wyoming"...LMAO

YouTube - Dog Day Afternoon Trailer (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CF1rtd8_pxA)

Maybe that's what I'll refer to you from now on........Sal.

Ya know anyone else I'd cut some slack but you don't give that courtsey to anyone else so why should you expect it in return ?

Six Degrees to Liz Eden.
Funny where random things lead! :shrug

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robertlouis
05-10-2011, 02:51 PM
you're like the character Sal in Dog Day Afternoon when Pacino asks him what country he wants to go to..he thinks for a moment and replies...."Wyoming"...LMAO



Fine film and an early demonstration of Pacino's versatility.

Anyone else side with me that the 70s were just about the best ever decade for Hollywood, or at the very least the last time that the major studios took risks?

Prospero
05-10-2011, 03:19 PM
The 70s were the last GOOD decade for Hollywood - but the 40s were darn fine too (bar all those dumb war films)

Silcc69
05-14-2011, 05:50 PM
Oh girl please
you on freddys nuts like a typical faggot.
I don't have wars with anybody
At this point in my life I have learned that there are 2 types of people in my life, those worth my time and those not. I focus on those worth my time.
The ones paying me.
If a dude is not paying me, I'm really not intersted in shit he or she or a he-she has to say.

You don't have wars yet you argue with half the people on here ok i'm trying to see the logic in that .

Birgitta
05-14-2011, 09:12 PM
There are two kinds of people, my kind of people and assholes, its rather obvious which category you fit into, have a nice day!
Quote john waters lol