why do some tranny act overly feminine?

[FreddieGomez]

and what i mean by this is it's usually the same way fem gay dudes act...i never see a hot genetic chick flipping her hair around 20 times every 5 minutes or walking like they're a model and just other things....it's like genetic women dont do that so why are they?

[FreddBoxx]

cause TGirls take it to the EXTREME!

[FreddieGomez]

cause TGirls take it to the EXTREME!

that will get them clocked. i see videos of them and it's like why u actin like an exaggerated version of a woman? just saying

[TJ347]

This was covered in the "Natural Beauty" thread.

[killkenny]

not all "trannies" act feminine buck angel for a start, n lets face it you would expect mtf transsexuals to act feminine considering they trying to express the woman inside them on the outside.....

[onmyknees]

Freddie...I know you've never seen a living breathing white person, but now I'm convinced you've never met a T lady. What's next?? A question about Indians always drunk on fire water?? LMAO

[FreddieGomez]

Freddie...I know you've never seen a living breathing white person, but now I'm convinced you've never met a T lady. What's next?? A question about Indians always drunk on fire water?? LMAO

so hi to my dick

[MrsKellyPierce]

Why do all your threads start about hate...

MISERABLE!

[BellaBellucci]

Why do all your threads start about hate...

MISERABLE!

While that may be true, he does have a point. :geek:

~BB~

[LittleGuy]

Why do all your threads start about hate...

MISERABLE!

Can you answer the question to this thread?

[fred41]

One of the theories about Transsexuals that continue to act like drag Queens ...or overly flamboyant gay men...is that they are really gay men who got breasts.

..but another theory that seems to hold a lot of water, is that there are some transsexuals who are so used to hanging out with the gay men (and continue to hang out with gay men as opposed to the straight world and real women)...that their idea of how women should act is skewed by their gay friends...and how flamboyant gay men act.

[MrsKellyPierce]

Can you answer the question to this thread?
Because many girls are just beginning in the transition..they are still uncomfortable in their skin.

That's why you see so many catty girls when it comes to transsexuals. They are insecure, unhappy, and looking for acceptance.

Plus a lot of them started as gay men, and it's hard for them to break that habit/talk.

Some girls have only lived as a female a year or two. Give them time to make their way in life and figure out who they are.

So many transsexuals that transition don't get the proper guidance, care, and needs they deserve.

Many self-medicate and never even see a counselor.

And a small percentage of transsexuals are just gay men that got tits to make an extra buck too - Keep that in mind.

[Silcc69]

Because many girls are just beginning in the transition..they are still uncomfortable in their skin.

That's why you see so many catty girls when it comes to transsexuals. They are insecure, unhappy, and looking for acceptance.

Plus a lot of them started as gay men, and it's hard for them to break that habit/talk.

Some girls have only lived as a female a year or two. Give them time to make their way in life and figure out who they are.

So many transsexuals that transition don't get the proper guidance, care, and needs they deserve.

Many self-medicate and never even see a counselor.

And a small percentage of transsexuals are just gay men that got tits to make an extra buck too - Keep that in mind.

You should teach that as a class at a college.

[MrsKellyPierce]

You should teach that as a class at a college.
That's what I tried to do when I did activism at colleges etc

I try to do that now on my radio show.

It's part of the reason so many transsexuals want to be "stars" or seek attention.

They want acceptance and value. They need to be told they are beautiful etc.

Transsexuals are vain creatures, because we focus so much on our outer beauty.

[onmyknees]

so hi to my dick

I think you meant "say" not "so" Freddie....but what'a a little gramatical issue to a guy who thinks white women like to be used and abused by his black friends.

Hey somebody's gotta correct and confront you on all your posts, and it might as well be me.

You should write a book about all your inane, sterotypical
societal observations. I'm sure it would be a big hit there in Bed Sty !

[BellaBellucci]

It's part of the reason so many transsexuals want to be "stars" or seek attention.

They want acceptance and value. They need to be told they are beautiful etc.

... or sometimes, just sometimes, we just like to make money. :dancing:

~BB~

[theone1982]

That's what I tried to do when I did activism at colleges etc

I try to do that now on my radio show.

It's part of the reason so many transsexuals want to be "stars" or seek attention.

They want acceptance and value. They need to be told they are beautiful etc.

Transsexuals are vain creatures, because we focus so much on our outer beauty.

That's cool that you were involved in activism at colleges. We had a similar sort of program at the college I went to and it was really fascinating. I also think it helped people to come in contact with someone who was transsexual, both people who wanted to start to transition and people who just didn't understand the idea of transsexualism at all.

[CaptainPlanet]

dude has a point, i think it has more to do with insecurity. Doesn't go for the girls i have seen in Straight clubs, but definitely applies to the ones in TS clubs and the ones you see on the regular in the street. Its the easiest way to spot a TS, over trying!

[LibertyHarkness]

i notice that to freddie , alot of the london girls are abit OTT with mannerisms etc ...what i have noted though is this .. you know the exagerated hand movements, smacking lips, oh darlings etc what i call "i am a laydeee" syndrome :) not that it actually bothers me as people are free to be/who they please.

when i asked a number of girls about pre-transition all of them were Gay Males and had the more flamboyant/OTT at times mannerisms ...and the girls i have come across that were straight/bi before transtion tended to be more subdued .. now i dont know how this pans out globally this is just my observations thus far in my interactions with other transsexuals..

bear in mind i do my best to avoid transsexuals most of the time like the plague in my own life .so i dont really goto tranny bars/clubs etc unless i really have to for a reason..

[Prospero]

"bear in mind i do my best to avoid transsexuals most of the time like the plague in my own life .so i dont really goto tranny bars/clubs etc unless i really have to for a reason.."

Why is this Liberty?

[nonnonnon]

that's what I like about ts /shrug

[BellaBellucci]

"bear in mind i do my best to avoid transsexuals most of the time like the plague in my own life .so i dont really goto tranny bars/clubs etc unless i really have to for a reason.."

Why is this Liberty?

If you have to ask, you'll never know. :lol:

~BB~

[LittleGuy]

If you have to ask, you'll never know. :lol:

~BB~

Jealous?

[BellaBellucci]

Jealous?

Totally!

Wait. Of what?! :lol:

~BB~

[LittleGuy]

Totally!

Wait. Of what?! :lol:

~BB~

Of other girls

[bte]

Despite what people may think about Freddie, he does pose interesting questions from time to time. I knew a TS who I had known ever since we was kids and she was just a gay boy. When she transition, she started being overly feminine. The hair flips, the overly attempt at walking like a female, and etc.. it was annoying.

[BellaBellucci]

Of other girls

Yeah. I'm actually a bit confused by what you mean by that. Maybe you'd like to tell me more about my feelings since you seem to think you understand them so well. :dancing:

~BB~

[Dino Velvet]

I don't have much experience with TS girls but I've enjoyed the femininity of the ones I've had company with. They weren't over the top or seemingly trying to act like someone they don't fully understand. I guess I've been fortunate.

[natina]

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[hwbs]

Ur just real miserable dude.....I give u credit for not selling drugs..ur not in a position to really be judging someonelike this when u assist someone that folds linens for a living.

[Bobzz]

It would seem that acting overly feminine is a compensation mechanism. Perhaps it serves to draw attention away from the fact that they may not be entirely passable or convincing in appearance, or is intended as an expression of their own "vision" of what it means to be a woman. Either way, it's creepy. I have not, by the way, run into any transsexual women who display these hyperfeminine mannerisms who are considered passable, but that is my personal experience. I could be misinformed or suffer from a limited sampling.

[Birgitta]

because first you have to be a girl before you can become a feminist...
and may I now ask YOU why you act overly masculine?:dancing::slimer

[theone1982]

because first you have to be a girl before you can become a feminist...
and I might as well ask you too, why do you act overly masculine?

Lol!:iagree::iagree::iagree:

[Birgitta]

Lol!:iagree::iagree::iagree:

hihihihi

[Dino Velvet]

Many American girls, mainly White GGs that I've seen, are so competitive with men in our society that they stop being as feminine. The femininity of TSs I've been with has been a real breath of fresh air and I really like it.

[BellaBellucci]

Many American girls, mainly White GGs that I've seen, are so competitive with men in our society that they stop being as feminine. The femininity of TSs I've been with has been a real breath of fresh air and I really like it.

What's wrong with being both competitive and feminine other than most men not liking to be challenged? That's what I try to do at least. That argument always sounds like a male insecurity to me, not a female problem. :geek:

~BB~

[LibertyHarkness]

reason i tend to avoid tranny places, and other ts alot is simply I have no time for the drama with most of the girls... and as for clubs well it gots boring after 10minutes of having pervy people trying it on with you all the time etc ..

My hangouts are just normal standard winebars, rock pubs, pool table bars etc ...and as most of my friends are straight genetic girls we goto generic places where i can have conversations with people that dont anoy me pretty much lol

But dont get me wrong i have a few TS friends that i socialise with ..

[Dino Velvet]

What's wrong with being both competitive and feminine other than most men not liking to be challenged? That's what I try to do at least. That argument always sounds like a male insecurity to me, not a female problem. :geek:

~BB~

Nothing except when they stop acting like women and almost start walking and talking like a man. I have no problem with a powerful woman who still knows how to act like a lady.

[BellaBellucci]

Nothing except when they stop acting like women and almost start walking and talking like a man. I have no problem with a powerful woman who still knows how to act like a lady.

Great answer. Luvz it! xoxo

~BB~

[Quiet Reflections]

Many American girls, mainly White GGs that I've seen, are so competitive with men in our society that they stop being as feminine. The femininity of TSs I've been with has been a real breath of fresh air and I really like it.
tough competitive girls are hot. I dig a chick that can give a run for my money in anything

[BellaBellucci]

tough competitive girls are hot. I dig a chick that can give a run for my money in anything

Hi! I'm Bella. I believe we've met. :fuckin:

~BB~

[russtafa]

i love the girls that act overly feminine, it's so cute and sexy

[LittleGuy]

Yeah. I'm actually a bit confused by what you mean by that. Maybe you'd like to tell me more about my feelings since you seem to think you understand them so well. :dancing:

~BB~

What is the reason you avoid other ts? Jealous? What is it?

[LittleGuy]

reason i tend to avoid tranny places, and other ts alot is simply I have no time for the drama with most of the girls... and as for clubs well it gots boring after 10minutes of having pervy people trying it on with you all the time etc ..

My hangouts are just normal standard winebars, rock pubs, pool table bars etc ...and as most of my friends are straight genetic girls we goto generic places where i can have conversations with people that dont anoy me pretty much lol

But dont get me wrong i have a few TS friends that i socialise with ..

Thanks for your answer. Nevermind Bella

[BellaBellucci]

What is the reason you avoid other ts? Jealous? What is it?

I don't understand how you guys have come to the conclusion that everything a transsexual does or doesn't do is rooted in jealousy. To answer your question though, I just find I have very little in common with most of the girls I'm meeting. Are you done trying to make something out of nothing now? :geek:

I don't even know what I would be jealous of. But hey, at least you amuse me. :lol:

~BB~

[MrsKellyPierce]

I don't really hang out with ts girls..cause it's like surgery talk 24/7 or bags this or this is that..or this girl is more feminine than this one..or this girl is ugly girl..or umm it's like hatorade 24/7

Drama Drama Drama

And yep that's pretty much why almost every single one of my friends are genetic girls....

[BellaBellucci]

I don't really hang out with ts girls..cause it's like surgery talk 24/7 or bags this or this is that..or this girl is more feminine than this one..or this girl is ugly girl..or umm it's like hatorade 24/7

Drama Drama Drama

And yep that's pretty much why almost every single one of my friends are genetic girls....

Because of course GG's never act like that. :rolleyes: :lol:

~BB~

[MrsKellyPierce]

Because of course GG's never act like that. :rolleyes: :lol:

~BB~
Not really..ggs talk about guy problems most of the time and how they want to get some dick or how they are crushing on a guy..most of their talk contains MEN lol

Or they complain about their jobs..that's another one..or weight...or how ugly their hair is..

[BellaBellucci]

Not really..ggs talk about guy problems most of the time and how they want to get some dick or how they are crushing on a guy..most of their talk contains MEN lol

Or they complain about their jobs..that's another one..or weight...or how ugly their hair is..

I think maybe I'm seeing the world through the L.A. lens then. Nevermind. :lol:

~BB~

[theone1982]

You forgot about complaining about men always leaving the toilet seat up.:)

[Dino Velvet]

Not really..ggs talk about guy problems most of the time and how they want to get some dick or how they are crushing on a guy..most of their talk contains MEN lol

Or they complain about their jobs..that's another one..or weight...or how ugly their hair is..

I was a manager of a large sports bar. The front of the house employees were mostly women/GGs. I was Big Daddy and they would always come to me while I was eating my lunch to bad mouth another waitress. These broads were plenty hostile towards each other.

[gotchagood]

and what i mean by this is it's usually the same way fem gay dudes act...i never see a hot genetic chick flipping her hair around 20 times every 5 minutes or walking like they're a model and just other things....it's like genetic women dont do that so why are they?
That's part of what's wrong with gg's today, they don't do it "enough"!!!

[robertlouis]

What's "overly feminine" anyway? I like girls to be as fem as possible with an absence of any overtly male behaviour.

[theone1982]

I'd rather they act overly fem, then like Chris Farley here.:)
YouTube - Chris Farley - French Fries (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9YfvBbxE1vU)

[robertlouis]

I'd rather they act overly fem, then like Chris Farley here.:)
YouTube - Chris Farley - French Fries (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9YfvBbxE1vU)


Which of the three is you lol?

[theone1982]

Which of the three is you lol?

Lol! Um...none of the above!:)

[alyssaluxor]

ive met and hang out with some TS girls who act like these and i try to avoid them as much as i can. they seem to crave for attention so much and very obvious and clockable.

[Birgitta]

I don't really hang out with ts girls..cause it's like surgery talk 24/7 or bags this or this is that..or this girl is more feminine than this one..or this girl is ugly girl..or umm it's like hatorade 24/7

Drama Drama Drama

And yep that's pretty much why almost every single one of my friends are genetic girls....

Beeing around t-girls IRL makes it hard for me to enjoy life... I like hanging around here because the boys are here too, and I am interested in what they think or how they feel about Tgirls. But in real life, I dont want to talk much about transgender issues with other Tgirls, it make's me feel sad most of the time. Just small talk and having fun is ok... but the deep stuff, no.

[Prospero]

You Birgitta have a beautiful mind.

[Birgitta]

ive met and hang out with some TS girls who act like these and i try to avoid them as much as i can. they seem to crave for attention so much and very obvious and clockable.


I dont mind them, often I find them very funny and witty.

[Birgitta]

You Birgitta have a beautiful mind.

You too sweety !!

[Birgitta]

These broads were plenty hostile towards each other.



When I first told my mom I was going to live my life as a girl/woman, she asked me: "So, you want to be a woman?"
To which I replied: "No I dont even like them" lol
She inmediately told me that this was very feminine, looool! :D

[Prospero]

I thought I'd offer my thoughts on this subject. First I'm generally against generalisations!.

Lots of the TV and TS girls I've met do not put on an exaggerated feminine stance. The TS girls, in particular, are often simply like girls. Period. In a crowd they are unobtrusive.

But some TVs on the other hand I think buy into the drag queen scene a bit - with all the exaggerated stereotypes that involves... the campiness, the bitchy humour etc. Its a sort of club.

And girls who work in the sex business - well some of them exaggerate because they believe (or know) that is what a lot of clients want from them.

[serial138]

I would ask where they act like that first. I dated a girl that was only the flamboyant "drag queen" type around gay men or other places that catered to LGBT crowds or were known to be friendly to them, but you put her in a "straight" club and she blended in perfectly and was much more muted. She was still herself, but without the hair flipping, sashaying through the place, model strut. Maybe TS women are just social chameleons and adapt to their surroundings?