So how many of you guys would actually start a relationship with a Tgirl?

[Birgitta]

So how many of you guys would actually start a relationship with a Tgirl?

A Is it only a fantasy, only cybersex and porn?

or

B Would you date them, but not be seen in public with her.

C Would you only be seen in public with her, if no one would be able to notice that she is a TS? And want her to not tell anyone?

D Would you openly date a TS, be proud of her, tell your friends and family and not bothered at all if someone might think you are gay etc?

Can someone post this again and make a poll?
Somehow it did not work lol

[yidarmy]

A. NO
B. I would gladly be seen in public with her
C. I'm not bothered by what others think, who feels it knows it

I'm not at all tech savy, sorry.

you're rather stunning yourself dear

[Mayrah]

D.:)

[Birgitta]

It is not me in the picture but Marianne Faithfull!

and I posted it again...
so people can reply and remain more anonymous about it

please delete this thread mods?

love
Birgit

[Quiet Reflections]

D. fuck someones opinion.

[effigyc]

This topic comes up all most as much as the am i gay and who is/who isn't a chaser topics

[bte]

This topic comes up all most as much as the am i gay and who is/who isn't a chaser topics

I agree. I thought there was already a discussion about this some months ago.

[Birgitta]

there are like 10000000000000000000 of topics about sucking Tgirl cock and taking it up the ass...

soowww perhaps this is on MY mind... as I am a T girl you know...
so what if there was a topic two months ago...

There was trannyporn two months ago as well :geek:

Please visit other thread... I managed to turn this into a poll :party:

[Birgitta]

http://www.hungangels.com/vboard/showthread.php?t=55470

for the ones that want to remain anonymous

[bighicknyc]

How about a poll as to how many T-girls would actually start a relationship with us

[CORVETTEDUDE]

I'm still waitin' for one of you fine ladies to sweep me off my feet and "Be My Baby!" :Bowdown::praying::Bowdown::praying:

[blckhaze]

Id say 1 outta 5 guys do want or develop the want to be in a relationship
Personally im on relationship #3 with a transwoman and so far so good

[Birgitta]

How about a poll as to how many T-girls would actually start a relationship with us

depends on what you mean with us.
I have `powerbottomallergy`, but if you are just a normal-regular guy and not a TV, slave or macho that wants to be my girl in bed, I dont see why not... lol

so that about excludes like 99% of this forum probably lol

[amberskyi]

i think most guys lie on threads like these any way.its easy to say yes anonymously online but its very different when you have to deal with the social pressures that come with dating ts girls.MEN who can actually rise to the occasion are few and far inbetween.

[bte]

I picked D, because I have been in relationships with TS men and women. Although never told my family that they were T, because the TS that I have been with didn't want that information to be known.

[MdR Dave]

so what if there was a topic two months ago...

There was trannyporn two months ago as well :geek:
:

Good point, and the responses (some) bear repeating. I learn something new almost every time I read them.

I'm not "into" TS and I don't check porn.

But my girlfriend is TS. We go to the TS clubs in town, but also to the movies, to my favorite restaurants, all the places I would go with any other girl.

I joined this site after I met her, to try understand her and to see if I could figure out what was IP with me. (I've only dated GGs and never had any gay experiences. )

But though I do learn from what everyone else says here, the most impprtant things I've learned have come right from her mouth.

I'm lucky to have met her, regardless what it "means" or how long we make it.

[Birgitta]

i think most guys lie on threads like these any way.its easy to say yes anonymously online but its very different when you have to deal with the social pressures that come with dating ts girls.MEN who can actually rise to the occasion are few and far inbetween.

Hi Amber, yes I know.
Maybe a better poll would have been,
Would you date a guy who keeps the fact that you are a TS a secret?

[Birgitta]

Good point, and the responses (some) bear repeating. I learn something new almost every time I read them.

I'm not "into" TS and I don't check porn.

But my girlfriend is TS. We go to the TS clubs in town, but also to the movies, to my favorite restaurants, all the places I would go with any other girl.

I joined this site after I met her, to try understand her and to see if I could figure out what was IP with me. (I've only dated GGs and never had any gay experiences. )

But though I do learn from what everyone else says here, the most impprtant things I've learned have come right from her mouth.

I'm lucky to have met her, regardless what it "means" or how long we make it.


Cool Dave!
You are probably one of the best guys a T girl can wish for herself!

[amberskyi]

Hi Amber, yes I know.
Maybe a better poll would have been,
Would you date a guy who keeps the fact that you are a TS a secret?

im not sure if i would want a guy who felt the need to tell everyone im a ts but i sure as hell dont date guys that keep ME a secret

[FreddieGomez]

it may be too much drama to deal with

shit having a relationship with a genetic chick is too much drama, i dont see how this would be any different.

[Birgitta]

im not sure if i would want a guy who felt the need to tell everyone im a ts but i sure as hell dont date guys that keep ME a secret

Not even when you are really really deep and madly in love with him?

lol!

[amberskyi]

Not even when you are really really deep and madly in love with him?

lol!

i would never let it get that far.im the type of girl that believes in dating and a first date doesnt mean meeting me at mine or his house lol

[Birgitta]

i would never let it get that far.im the type of girl that believes in dating and a first date doesnt mean meeting me at mine or his house lol


clever girl! xxxx

[amberskyi]

clever girl! xxxx

gotta have some kinda standards lol

[Prospero]

D - if she is the sort of gir I would go out with in every other way, I have no issues with her gender. i LOVE T girls and have had relationships with several - openly.

[theone1982]

I have had a few before. No big deal, it's not like I was assigned a scarlet letter and stoned by the locals.:) One of the best relationships I've ever had actually, was with a TS. Not sure if it was because she was a TS, because we had a lot of the same likes and dislikes, so it was more of a mutual connection. Just like any relationship though, sometimes with TSs and GGs it was more about sex than sharing a life together, but I wouldn't not have a relationship with someone I liked, and who liked me, just because she was a TS.

[Jake4]

My girlfriend is TS. I am very proud of her and we go everywhere together. Yes, I do hold her hand in public and show affection to her in front of others. Neither of us goes around telling anyone that she is trans, but as her voice is still somewhat deep then I suppose it's possible for people to notice that she is trans.

[rockabilly]

I'd do it.

I mean if i love her then why not begin a relationship?

And i have no qualms about PDA , When i love a girl i go all in w/ my heart and i wouldn't notice or care what anyone thinks or says.

[dderek123]

I am currently in a relationship with a Tgirl. Go me!

[theone1982]

I am currently in a relationship with a Tgirl. Go me!

Right on!

[alpha2117]

I've had long term relationships with girls. It can be difficult depending on the situation. When i was young the girl I was with was working and that just screwed it up because even though we had enough money for her not to do it and live a normal comfortable life she still wanted more to spend on other luxuries and couldn't quite get that I wasn't okay with that. I'm not talking surgery I'm talking designer shoes etc. It ended up tearing us apart because I simply wasn't okay with her working long term especially since she was more than capable of getting a good straight job.

I'm not looking down on girls who work but long term it's not a good lifestyle and any man who is okay with his g/f living that life doesn't really love her in my opinion. If you love someone then them sleeping with someone else hurts too much.

In another case she was very happy to be a student /part time normal job worker but she was only here whilst she was doing a course and once that ended so did her visa meaning she had to leave and return home and then try to get another visa to come back to work here. Once she returned home for that 6 months everything kind of drifted apart and she got a great job in her homeland so it became obvious we were heading in other directions. That was life getting in the way.

Same thing happens with GG's so relationship issues aren't TS specific. About 1/2 of all marriges end in divorce so very few of us ever actually find long term happiness.

I'm kinda depressed now typing that.

[Jericho]

About 1/2 of all marriges end in divorce so very few of us ever actually find long term happiness.


Stay single, get drunk...Long Term Happiness! :shrug

[Paulistano]

I've had long term relationships with girls. It can be difficult depending on the situation. When i was young the girl I was with was working and that just screwed it up because even though we had enough money for her not to do it and live a normal comfortable life she still wanted more to spend on other luxuries and couldn't quite get that I wasn't okay with that. I'm not talking surgery I'm talking designer shoes etc. It ended up tearing us apart because I simply wasn't okay with her working long term especially since she was more than capable of getting a good straight job.

I'm not looking down on girls who work but long term it's not a good lifestyle and any man who is okay with his g/f living that life doesn't really love her in my opinion. If you love someone then them sleeping with someone else hurts too much.

In another case she was very happy to be a student /part time normal job worker but she was only here whilst she was doing a course and once that ended so did her visa meaning she had to leave and return home and then try to get another visa to come back to work here. Once she returned home for that 6 months everything kind of drifted apart and she got a great job in her homeland so it became obvious we were heading in other directions. That was life getting in the way.

Same thing happens with GG's so relationship issues aren't TS specific. About 1/2 of all marriges end in divorce so very few of us ever actually find long term happiness.

I'm kinda depressed now typing that.


If I type my 5 stories from last 5 Tgf I had, I'll kill myself!!!
:praying::praying::praying:



Stay single, get drunk...Long Term Happiness! :shrug

VERY GOOD!!! I'm doing that for a year now!!! Feel much better.
:party::party::party:

[theone1982]

If I type my 5 stories from last 5 Tgf I had, I'll kill myself!!!
:praying::praying::praying:




VERY GOOD!!! I'm doing that for a year now!!! Feel much better.
:party::party::party:

Paulistano, I certainly wouldn't want you to kill yourself, but I would love to hear those stories! I bet you could write a book about those experiences and it would be an awesome read!

[Willie Escalade]

Been there...done that...would do it again...

[Paulistano]

Paulistano, I certainly wouldn't want you to kill yourself, but I would love to hear those stories! I bet you could write a book about those experiences and it would be an awesome read!

“Once upon a time… a crazy man living a crazy life, assuming his FIVE TS long term relationships to the world, during 6 long years!... Honey moon in Ibiza, couple meetings, fancy places, internet photos everywhere, parties, shopping, so many trips, huge money waste, his house turned into a brothel… blindness… many friends lost… family disappointment… a career almost destroyed…”

Memories of 5 cases:

1.) Dead;
2.) Internal of a drug rehab clinic;
3.) Tried to commit suicide in Europe… still trying to find herself;
4.) Completely drugged all the time in Europe. Will die soon;
5.) Disappeared.

No man… I won’t write this book, it would be too tragic…

Another drink, please!
:party::party::party:

[theone1982]

“Once upon a time… a crazy man living a crazy life, assuming his FIVE TS long term relationships to the world, during 6 long years!... Honey moon in Ibiza, couple meetings, fancy places, internet photos everywhere, parties, shopping, so many trips, huge money waste, his house turned into a brothel… blindness… many friends lost… family disappointment… a career almost destroyed…”

Memories of 5 cases:

1.) Dead;
2.) Internal of a drug rehab clinic;
3.) Tried to commit suicide in Europe… still trying to find herself;
4.) Completely drugged all the time in Europe. Will die soon;
5.) Disappeared.

No man… I won’t write this book, it would be too tragic…

Another drink, please!
:party::party::party:

Wow, I think I need a drink after hearing that too!

[InsideScoop]

Every time I try, it just ends bad. The girls freak out over the everything and it doesn't help that I'm very secure and laid back. But I would still do it!

[south09]

So how many of you guys would actually start a relationship with a Tgirl?

A Is it only a fantasy, only cybersex and porn?

or

B Would you date them, but not be seen in public with her.

C Would you only be seen in public with her, if no one would be able to notice that she is a TS? And want her to not tell anyone?

D Would you openly date a TS, be proud of her, tell your friends and family and not bothered at all if someone might think you are gay etc?

Can someone post this again and make a poll?
Somehow it did not work lol

D-minus. As in, D, minus some of that stuff.

Far as I'm concerned, a TS woman is a woman, no need to bring her around the family or crew like "yeah, this is my girl, oh and y'all should know that she's got a penis"

[dderek123]

D-minus. As in, D, minus some of that stuff.

Far as I'm concerned, a TS woman is a woman, no need to bring her around the family or crew like "yeah, this is my girl, oh and y'all should know that she's got a penis"
Yeah but they are going to figure it out eventually. If you keep bringing her out. So ya gotta be cool wit dat. At least that's what I think option D is actually implying. C'mon, nobody talks about each other's dicks at family events.

[south09]

Yeah but they are going to figure it out eventually. If you keep bringing her out. So ya gotta be cool wit dat. At least that's what I think option D is actually implying. C'mon, nobody talks about each other's dicks at family events.

That's not an absolute truth, but I see what you mean

[dderek123]

Yeah I guess some families talk about dicks a lot when they are together.

[theone1982]

Yeah I guess some families talk about dicks a lot when they are together.

That comes up at my family get togethers all the time. "So which one of you ladies has a penis?":)

[dderek123]

Lol. I wonder which sister has bigger balls? Hmmmmm ...

[south09]

Yeah I guess some families talk about dicks a lot when they are together.

...I meant the "they'll figure out eventually" part

[Birgitta]

Far as I'm concerned, a TS woman is a woman, no need to bring her around the family or crew like "yeah, this is my girl, oh and y'all should know that she's got a penis"


You know that is a dilemma, because I would not want family or friends to think I lied or kept secret what I am. And of course I mean, me being a TS. What is in my pants only concerns me and the bf.

[Birgitta]

that comes up at my family get togethers all the time. "so which one of you ladies has a penis?":)

lol!

[Prospero]

theone1982 got it right. GSOH. Getting along with family etc is a question of liking the person... so for instance my sister who is gay found, at first, hostility from her partners family, especially the older members. But as they got to know her that dropped away. Now they are all friends. I'd hope the same would be true of a partnership with a transgendered girl or man (yes why shouldn't a girl have a relationship with a transgendered woman to male - something that hardly ever gets discussed in this forum).
Birgitta if that's you in your avatar (and not a picture of marianne faithful circa 1966) then I'd fall for you and not give a damn what family and friends thought about your gender at birth.

[dderek123]

...I meant the "they'll figure out eventually" part
Ahh I see what you mean. No it isn't an absolute truth but if you care about Tgirlfriend and you don't hide her away people (maybe not everyone in the whole world) eventually will find out. Either that or someone will start a rumor or something. That's something that needs to be dealt with and how one handles the situation is an important milestone in the relationship.

[Birgitta]

theone1982 got it right. GSOH. Getting along with family etc is a question of liking the person... so for instance my sister who is gay found, at first, hostility from her partners family, especially the older members. But as they got to know her that dropped away. Now they are all friends. I'd hope the same would be true of a partnership with a transgendered girl or man (yes why shouldn't a girl have a relationship with a transgendered woman to male - something that hardly ever gets discussed in this forum).
Birgitta if that's you in your avatar (and not a picture of marianne faithful circa 1966) then I'd fall for you and not give a damn what family and friends thought about your gender at birth.

Its Marianne :) And If I was a man, Id fall for her too ;) lol
I dont like it when my pictures are over the internet..want to keep a low profile..

[dderek123]

Here is probably the worst-case scenario for a relationship with a TS. He says he was used (obviously!) and she claims that he pushed her away with his behavior (trouble adjusting to the life of being open about being a trans lover).

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1375710/Transsexual-wife-dumped-husband-got-visa-defends-actions.html#ixzz1JIdHr9pi

'He was ignoring me, it's horrible when a man you love treats you like that': Malaysian transsexual wife hits back at why she left caretaker husband after he paid £12,000 for visa

By Claire Ellicott (http://www.dailymail.co.uk/home/search.html?s=y&authornamef=Claire+Ellicott)
Last updated at 11:08 AM on 12th April 2011



Comments (102) (http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1375710/Transsexual-wife-dumped-husband-got-visa-defends-actions.html#comments)
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A transsexual who walked out on her British husband two weeks after he helped her win the right to stay in this country has explained her decision to leave.
Malaysian-born Fatine Young – who was born Mohammed Fazdil Min Bahari – spoke out after her husband Ian told yesterday how the couple split after he spent £12,000 on helping win the visa battle.
Fatine, 38, has defended her actions, saying she made major sacrifices to move to the UK and live with the school caretaker, who she claims eventually pushed her away with his behaviour.



http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2011/04/12/article-1375710-0B95D9E800000578-63_634x419.jpg Ian Young with Fatine: He says he tried to kill himself



Fatine said: 'In the end he was totally ignoring me. It's horrible when the man you love treats you like that. I've sacrificed my life because of him.'

Mr Young admitted he had not treated her as well as he could have done.

The night before she left, Fatine said the couple had a 'massive argument', with her husband storming out of the house they shared in Pear Tree, leaving her alone.

More...



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'He left me without any money,' she said.

Mr Young previously told how he was hounded out of jobs at three Derby schools by angry parents because of his love for Fatine, who was born a man.

The saga left the 32-year-old jobless and homeless, and at one stage he tried to take his own life by downing a bottle of pills.

http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2011/04/12/article-1375710-0B95D9FC00000578-509_306x423.jpg
http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2011/04/12/article-1375710-0B93E3B000000578-312_306x423.jpg

Wedding day: The couple in 2009 when they married, left, and Fatine, right, whom Mr Young did not realise had been born a man


Mr Young met Fatine while working in Malaysia as a security guard. The couple first started chatting in a coffee shop but he did not realise Fatine, who was born Mohammed Fazdil Min Bahari, was a transsexual.

After she told him, the relationship continued. Mr Young had previously had an eight-year relationship with a woman but then became homosexual.
Fatine moved to Derby and the couple tied the knot in a civil ceremony at Derby Register Office in 2009.
http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2011/04/12/article-1375710-0B93E35600000578-692_306x404.jpg Ian Young said his life is in ruins after he spent £12,000 to get his Malaysian wife Fatine a visa - only for her to leave him immediately after it was granted

They fought for a visa for Fatine after a request was initially turned down by the Home Office, saying she could be jailed if she returned to Malaysia, because Fatine has not had sex-change surgery and homosexuality was illegal there.
To support her visa case, Fatine included in her application death threats made against her on an internet site in Malaysia.

Both said how in love they were.

But life became difficult after Mr Young left a number of schools following complaints from parents who disapproved of his lifestyle.

Mr Young said yesterday: 'I feel like a fool.

'It was supposed to be the happiest time of my life. Now she won't speak to me and she won't get a divorce.'
Fatine admitted she had been ignoring her husband's repeated telephone calls as she did not want to talk to him.

But she said there was little chance of reconciliation and she would agree to his requests for a divorce. She said the matter was in the hands of her solicitor.

'How could we get back together when my husband has said a lot of bad things about me?' she said.

'I want to move on with my life.

'I'm living with a friend, who has given me a place to stay and I'm trying my hardest to find work. I loved Ian not just for a visa. I had no friends, no family over here - I was totally dependent on him.'
Mr Young said: ‘Fatine went off to live with friends in Blackpool and that didn’t work out because they got fed up with her not getting work there,’ he said.

‘She thought she could crack it as a showgirl and got refused, so now she is in Manchester claiming benefits.’
He added: ‘Our relationship was okay, but it was always filled with worry about visas, not just about getting them, but where we were getting the money from.

‘We had applied five times in total and the cost was thousands. I was a caretaker in a small school earning £640 a month.’ He said his mother even lent them £2,000 to help out.

Mr Young, who is now staying with friends, said of the relationship: ‘Being a straight man, I did have a few concerns. But I couldn’t ignore how I felt.

‘I admit that I did neglect Fatine when I was depressed. I just wanted her to tell me we could get through it together but she wasn’t interested.

‘I’m trying to start my own business. I’m still in debt, but I’m moving on and getting back on my feet.’

http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2011/04/12/article-1375710-0B944FF800000578-688_634x408.jpg Mr Young was forced to leave schools, including St Chad's Infants in Derby, after complaints from parents who disapproved of his lifestyle

[Paulistano]

Here is probably the worst-case scenario for a relationship with a TS. He says he was used (obviously!) and she claims that he pushed her away with his behavior (trouble adjusting to the life of being open about being a trans lover).
A transsexual who walked out on her British husband two weeks after he helped her win the right to stay in this country has explained her decision to leave.
Malaysian-born Fatine Young – who was born Mohammed Fazdil Min Bahari – spoke out after her husband Ian told yesterday how the couple split after he spent £12,000 on helping win the visa battle.

Very similar to one of my stories!

Differences:

1.) Instead of VISA – I paid for her plastic surgeries;
2.) Instead of US$ 19,200 (£12,000 ) – I’ve spent about US$ 28,100
3.) I have also paid more than US$ 3,000 for her school in 6 months.

Waiter… another Johnnie Walker Red Label please!!!
:party::party::party:

[LittleGuy]

Did anybody post the awww geez not this shit again picture?

[Prospero]

And Paulistano - are you saying you have wasted your money? Is your lady still with you? Are you a happy couple or are you saying that all ladyboys are cheats and swindlers. Not very clear from your posting.

[phobun]

The couple first started chatting in a coffee shop but he did not realise Fatine, who was born Mohammed Fazdil Min Bahari, was a transsexual.

Yeah right


After she told him, the relationship continued. Mr Young had previously had an eight-year relationship with a woman but then became homosexual.

Oh my. Why would he go whining to Fleet Street with all this personal information? What a loser.

[phobun]

“Once upon a time… a crazy man living a crazy life, assuming his FIVE TS long term relationships to the world, during 6 long years!... Honey moon in Ibiza, couple meetings, fancy places, internet photos everywhere, parties, shopping, so many trips, huge money waste, his house turned into a brothel… blindness… many friends lost… family disappointment… a career almost destroyed…”

Memories of 5 cases:

1.) Dead;
2.) Internal of a drug rehab clinic;
3.) Tried to commit suicide in Europe… still trying to find herself;
4.) Completely drugged all the time in Europe. Will die soon;
5.) Disappeared.

No man… I won’t write this book, it would be too tragic…

Another drink, please!
:party::party::party:


This is sad. Are you the type of guy who tries to save girls from themselves?

[phobun]

i think most guys lie on threads like these any way.its easy to say yes anonymously online but its very different when you have to deal with the social pressures that come with dating ts girls.MEN who can actually rise to the occasion are few and far inbetween.


Pretty much. There is a lot of internet bravado and BS that goes on here.

[raquel1]

I would love to date allanah starr gia darling or kourtney wales i love them so much

[archineer]

Been there done it. Not been burned for a visa yet though.

[Paulistano]

And Paulistano - are you saying you have wasted your money? Is your lady still with you? Are you a happy couple or are you saying that all ladyboys are cheats and swindlers. Not very clear from your posting.

It was her plan: She would come to live with me just coz she wanted me to pay for her surgeries. She said she loved me every single day! Surgeries, school, tattoos, clothes, pharmacy, shoes, beauty salon (almost every day), restaurants (she doesn’t cook), etc., everything by my own. Only her close friends knew her sordid plan. As soon as she got recovered from surgeries she would go back to her country.

I can consider myself a lucky guy, coz it could be much worse! One day she forgot her notebook “turned on” and went to shower. I took a pen drive and downloaded all her MSN historic folder. BINGO! Everything was there! And much more… she was booking dates with her ex-clients for the next 2 months! And she was doing strip shows online for money when I wasn’t at home, and deposits were been done in her mother’s bank account!!!... That was a disgusting story! Miserable liar went back to her country a little earlier… (thanks God). I’ve wasted a lot of cash, but this is not a problem; if you work you make it again. But I’ve lost my dignity. It has no price for it.

You give the best you have to the person you love, and you got cheated in exchange. It can happen with GGs also? Yes it can! But… if she was a GG, I would be drinking my scotch with friends now, and not alone. Most of my friends just turned their backs to me after they discovered I was living with a transsexual escort. Being clearer: They accepted the fact my gf was a transsexual, but when they realized she was a prostitute… they will never forgive me, coz I brought an escort to their homes and families.

Prostitution is really not accepted between our hypocrite society. And I don’t forgive cheaters and liars.

(Sorry for my bad English. I’m doing my best)

[Kevin Dong]

Did anybody post the awww geez not this shit again picture?

here you go buddy

[Chris in LA]

It was her plan: She would come to live with me just coz she wanted me to pay for her surgeries. She said she loved me every single day! Surgeries, school, tattoos, clothes, pharmacy, shoes, beauty salon (almost every day), restaurants (she doesn’t cook), etc., everything by my own. Only her close friends knew her sordid plan. As soon as she got recovered from surgeries she would go back to her country.

I can consider myself a lucky guy, coz it could be much worse! One day she forgot her notebook “turned on” and went to shower. I took a pen drive and downloaded all her MSN historic folder. BINGO! Everything was there! And much more… she was booking dates with her ex-clients for the next 2 months! And she was doing strip shows online for money when I wasn’t at home, and deposits were been done in her mother’s bank account!!!... That was a disgusting story! Miserable liar went back to her country a little earlier… (thanks God). I’ve wasted a lot of cash, but this is not a problem; if you work you make it again. But I’ve lost my dignity. It has no price for it.

You give the best you have to the person you love, and you got cheated in exchange. It can happen with GGs also? Yes it can! But… if she was a GG, I would be drinking my scotch with friends now, and not alone. Most of my friends just turned their backs to me after they discovered I was living with a transsexual escort. Being clearer: They accepted the fact my gf was a transsexual, but when they realized she was a prostitute… they will never forgive me, coz I brought an escort to their homes and families.

Prostitution is really not accepted between our hypocrite society. And I don’t forgive cheaters and liars.

(Sorry for my bad English. I’m doing my best)

Wow, you went thru a lot. can we at least see some pics of her? after all, you spent a lot of money on her ass, lets take a look and see how she looked after you bank rolled her.

[Birgitta]

It was her plan: She would come to live with me just coz she wanted me to pay for her surgeries. She said she loved me every single day! Surgeries, school, tattoos, clothes, pharmacy, shoes, beauty salon (almost every day), restaurants (she doesn’t cook), etc., everything by my own. Only her close friends knew her sordid plan. As soon as she got recovered from surgeries she would go back to her country.

I can consider myself a lucky guy, coz it could be much worse! One day she forgot her notebook “turned on” and went to shower. I took a pen drive and downloaded all her MSN historic folder. BINGO! Everything was there! And much more… she was booking dates with her ex-clients for the next 2 months! And she was doing strip shows online for money when I wasn’t at home, and deposits were been done in her mother’s bank account!!!... That was a disgusting story! Miserable liar went back to her country a little earlier… (thanks God). I’ve wasted a lot of cash, but this is not a problem; if you work you make it again. But I’ve lost my dignity. It has no price for it.

You give the best you have to the person you love, and you got cheated in exchange. It can happen with GGs also? Yes it can! But… if she was a GG, I would be drinking my scotch with friends now, and not alone. Most of my friends just turned their backs to me after they discovered I was living with a transsexual escort. Being clearer: They accepted the fact my gf was a transsexual, but when they realized she was a prostitute… they will never forgive me, coz I brought an escort to their homes and families.

Prostitution is really not accepted between our hypocrite society. And I don’t forgive cheaters and liars.

(Sorry for my bad English. I’m doing my best)

sorry to hear that this happened to you Paul!
Im glad I dont understand how one can play with someone's love like that...

[Chris in LA]

i'm in a relationship with a ts now, so absolutely is the answer!

[Jericho]

'He was ignoring me, it's horrible when a man you love treats you like that'


Tell the truth, it's cuz he was a ginger, init! :hide-1:

[Tepres]

here you go buddy

Thanks.

[CaliBoy951]

So how many of you guys would actually start a relationship with a Tgirl?

A Is it only a fantasy, only cybersex and porn?

or

B Would you date them, but not be seen in public with her.

C Would you only be seen in public with her, if no one would be able to notice that she is a TS? And want her to not tell anyone?

D Would you openly date a TS, be proud of her, tell your friends and family and not bothered at all if someone might think you are gay etc?

Can someone post this again and make a poll?
Somehow it did not work lol

A. Not a fantasy at all, and didn't know until I had feelings.

B. I went everywhere with her...

C. I don't live my life worried about what others might or might not say/think. And yes, we did tell a few of our close friends.

D.Openly date, yes. But run around and tell others...the answer has to be NO, why "stir the pot" if you don't need to.

I personally see beauty as beauty, and if there is something going on down there then we find ways to still make it work. But I personally could careless as long as their looks match their personality.

Hope that makes sense?

[runrundingoboy]

Hmmmmm...

I have a few TS friends already, and we occasionally hang out in public places- movies, restaurants, etc. And I just don't think anything of it, to be honest. So...

A- Not only a fantasy, no. I am attracted to the feminine. Could have a relationship with a Tgirl as easily as a GG.

B- Date, be seen in public, I don't see the problem there. Possibly because I am attracted to more passable girls in the first place.

C- Telling anyone about her DNA is up to her. If I love/care for her, I don't care what anyone else thinks about it.

D- I'm not a crusader, so the answer here is the same as for C. If she wants to proclaim her status as a Tgirl, then that's fine with me. If she prefers to fly under the radar, that's cool, too. I figure she has a lot more to deal with in that arena than I do, so let her make the call.

[nicebrn]

I'm now on my fourth relationship in five years with a TS girl. The first settled into a friendship, the next two can be basically be summed up as an "educational experience," and the current one has been going very well for about a year now. Yes, we're out in public just like any other couple. (Having dated some not very passable girls in the past, I've never been bothered by that anyway.) Most people have no idea, and I feel it's her place to correct them if they ask, not mine. My family knows and has decided to just "agree to disagree."

[Stealthnacho]

C. I've been out and about with an insanely hot girl in Hawaii. I thought there was no way in hell anyone would know. She hadnt told me herself yet and I had no clue. The elevator doors in Dave and Busters open up, and theres a shitload of girls. The look on their faces made me start to suspect. Later on we watch Rent in the theater, and she goes on about how she admires the TS character for living out loud despite the consequences... I drop her off, we make out in the car a bit, and she rushes off. I think I get it now, but I'm so curious, how could she be this smokin hot of a woman? Anyway, she calls me back, and that night I am having some of the best sex of my life.

Moral of the story is, it was kind of heartbreaking to remember the look on her face when the girls in the elevator did their catty bullshit. It's not something I'd want to deal with every day. I have had a date in SF show me around and we had a great time, nobody even looked twice. That place is exceptional though.

[nolimitsmale]

I have been in a couple of relationships with a TS since my divorce 5 years ago. It has been an educational experience in many ways. I have come to respect TS very much as they face an uphill challenge in our society from the time they decide to transition and face the world so to speak. Very few manage to break through the homophobic barriers that is placed against them in terms of finding a career and to be accepted as the female they wish to be.
Most are consigned to the sex, entertainment and beauty/hairdressing industry in which being able to form trusting relationships is normally the first casualty due to the way they are treated.
So my answer to the question askesd is YES, I would love to have a relationship with a TS and YES, I would hold my head high and be proud to have her by my side.

[Deimos]

It really depends on my mood. I love TS but I love pussy too lol.

[traLika]

So how many of you guys would actually start a relationship with a Tgirl?

A Is it only a fantasy, only cybersex and porn?

or

B Would you date them, but not be seen in public with her.

C Would you only be seen in public with her, if no one would be able to notice that she is a TS? And want her to not tell anyone?

D Would you openly date a TS, be proud of her, tell your friends and family and not bothered at all if someone might think you are gay etc?



D, but with caution… I would openly date her, and start by telling close friends who I trust and take it from there...

[buckjohnson]

I am in love with a sweet thing

[robertlouis]

I am in love with a sweet thing

Good for you.

If we loved each other I wouldn't give a damn about the rest of the world.