So its clear that were addicted...

[mac.B]

...to this "transsexualism" and are consumed by it to the point that this is all were about at times. I'm in a struggle now to leave this alone and was curious as to who else is doing the same. I think I know a way...

[phobun]

...to this "transsexualism" and are consumed by it to the point that this is all were about at times. I'm in a struggle now to leave this alone and was curious as to who else is doing the same. I think I know a way...


12 steps and praise jesus on the twelfth

Why do you feel you need to "leave this alone"?

[amberskyi]

see..theres no such thing as tranny chasers.its a myth that us girls made up.guys who think like this are perfectly normal,well adjusted,socially adapted heterosexual males

[Crawler]

One good way is to realize no matter how much you play, ain't no one cares one atom where you live or die.

[theone1982]

...to this "transsexualism" and are consumed by it to the point that this is all were about at times. I'm in a struggle now to leave this alone and was curious as to who else is doing the same. I think I know a way...

I don't "struggle to leave it alone". Why would you struggle to deny yourself something you like? I don't like censorship, or the idea that you lock up your mind because *gasp!* someone might think it's bad.

[fred41]

see..theres no such thing as tranny chasers.its a myth that us girls made up.guys who think like this are perfectly normal,well adjusted,socially adapted heterosexual males


:) I think most of us on this site are "tranny chasers" to some extent or level. Otherwise we wouldn't be here..some guys even go so far as being on gay sites...and then denying any type of "chaser" behavior.

Some are tortured over it (this thread seems that way), some are overly salacious about it (their threads read like they're cumming while they type about cocks) and some are perfectly normal human beings (or just as imperfect as any other human beings).

[Quiet Reflections]

Are you ashamed of liking TS/TG girls?

[phobun]

see..theres no such thing as tranny chasers.its a myth that us girls made up.guys who think like this are perfectly normal,well adjusted,socially adapted heterosexual males


lol.......

[mac.B]

see..theres no such thing as tranny chasers.its a myth that us girls made up.guys who think like this are perfectly normal,well adjusted,socially adapted heterosexual males

I'm not a well adjusted man. I like transsexuals.

[phobun]

Are you ashamed of liking TS/TG girls?


My guess is that the poor guy has been indoctrinated by some sort of biblebeating and it is his conscience that's killing him.

Mac, give up the outdated morality, you have nothing to lose but your chains.

[phobun]

I'm not a well adjusted man. I like transsexuals.


What is wrong with liking transsexuals... or is it that you like dick and transsexuals facilitate that interest?

[mac.B]

The last thing that I wanted to do was to get in to a debate about how right or wrong liking transsexuals is. That is another debate. This was a question for men who found themselves, like me, struggling to leave this lifestyle behind. This tread was intended for a specific group of men. I am curious though of how many transsexuals even ask themselves why they are.

[theone1982]

I'm not a well adjusted man. I like transsexuals.

I think you yourself can only be the judge as to how well-adjusted you are. But I think it's a bad idea to think that you are not well-adjusted because you like transsexuals. You are an adult human who likes other adult humans, what's not well-adjusted about that?

[Birgitta]

see..theres no such thing as tranny chasers.its a myth that us girls made up.guys who think like this are perfectly normal,well adjusted,socially adapted heterosexual males

It is probably a conspiracy of some sorth, a mass psychosis secretly induced by gendertherapists to make us girls believe that heterosexual males like our genitals lol. Probably to make us change our mind about the surgery, that's it, I am sure now.

[phobun]

The last thing that I wanted to do was to get in to a debate about how right or wrong liking transsexuals is. That is another debate. This was a question for men who found themselves, like me, struggling to leave this lifestyle behind. This tread was intended for a specific group of men. I am curious though of how many transsexuals even ask themselves why they are.


Isn't any discussion about "leaving this lifestyle behind" inseparable from the value judgement of whether liking transsexuals is "right" or "wrong"?

If you don't already perceive it as "wrong", why the need to "leave this lifestyle behind"?

Why liken your attraction to TSs to an addiction, something harmful?

[Birgitta]

The last thing that I wanted to do was to get in to a debate about how right or wrong liking transsexuals is. That is another debate. This was a question for men who found themselves, like me, struggling to leave this lifestyle behind. This tread was intended for a specific group of men. I am curious though of how many transsexuals even ask themselves why they are.

I hang around here because its entertaining for me, but in real life, I dont even see other tgirls anymore... my life is pretty normal... somehow LOL
Its not so much a lifestyle for me... its just a fact that I can't leave behind that I am a TS, not as easely as you might be able to :)

[amberskyi]

It is probably a conspiracy of some sorth, a mass psychosis secretly induced by gendertherapists to make us girls believe that heterosexual males like our genitals lol. Probably to make us change our mind about the surgery, that's it, I am sure now.

i love you lol

[mac.B]

I hang around here because its entertaining for me, but in real life, I dont even see other tgirls anymore... my life is pretty normal... somehow LOL
Its not so much a lifestyle for me... its just a fact that I can't leave behind that I am a TS, not as easely as you might be able to :)

Do you ever ask yourself why you feel the way you do?

[mac.B]

Isn't any discussion about "leaving this lifestyle behind" inseparable from the value judgement of whether liking transsexuals is "right" or "wrong"?

If you don't already perceive it as "wrong", why the need to "leave this lifestyle behind"?

Why liken your attraction to TSs to an addiction, something harmful?

Because for many of us it is harmful. It is an addiction. You dont feel afflicted at all?

[phobun]

Do you ever ask yourself why you feel the way you do?


How is her experience as a TS relevant to your situation? Do you ever wonder if you yourself have gender dysphoria?

[Birgitta]

Do you ever ask yourself why you feel the way you do?


Yes I did. Don't anymore. I have asked myself that question for as long as I can remember. From childhood on... and of course in some way I still do.
But I have accepted myself now (more or less), and besides: Tgirls were around in sumerian times and men that loved them too.
So I could just as well marvel about the existence of a butterfly.

[phobun]

Because for many of us it is harmful. It is an addiction. You dont feel afflicted at all?


No. And liking transsexuals is not harmful; it harms no one, including yourself.

Now, you might have sex addiction, and use transsexual porn as a vehicle, but that's another problem.

[Birgitta]

No. And liking transsexuals is not harmful; it harms no one, including yourself.

Now, you might have sex addiction, and use transsexual porn as a vehicle, but that's another problem.

yes.

[theone1982]

Yes I did. Don't anymore. I have asked myself that question for as long as I can remember. From childhood on... and of course in some way I still do.
But I have accepted myself now (more or less), and besides: Tgirls were around in sumerian times and men that loved them too.
So I could just as well marvel about the existence of a butterfly.

I'm a history fan, and I love that statement! Transsexualism is as old as mankind itself, or at least the first civilizations. There were temples in some ancient civilizations where having sex with a TS was a way to get in touch with some of the gods.

[mac.B]

How is her experience as a TS relevant to your situation? Do you ever wonder if you yourself have gender dysphoria?

Her getting to the root of why she identifies as female puts our attraction to transsexuals in to perspective. No, by the way. I'm a man and I identify as such.

[Jericho]

some guys even go so far as being on gay sites...and then denying any type of "chaser" behavior.

I saw who you pointed at then! :dead:

[phobun]

I'm a history fan, and I love that statement! Transsexualism is as old as mankind itself, or at least the first civilizations. There were temples in some ancient civilizations where having sex with a TS was a way to get in touch with some of the gods.


Yes, the importance of transgendered invidividuals in ancient societies predates any religion that persists today.

[mac.B]

I'm a history fan, and I love that statement! Transsexualism is as old as mankind itself, or at least the first civilizations. There were temples in some ancient civilizations where having sex with a TS was a way to get in touch with some of the gods.


They were not transsexuals but were hermaphrodites and were worshiped because they naturally held both male and female qualities and were seen as being complete whereas a man needed a woman for that. It is said that the first humans were this way and over time split in to male and female counterparts.

[phobun]

Her getting to the root of why she identifies as female puts our attraction to transsexuals in to perspective. No, by the way. I'm a man and I identify as such.


What is it that you like about transsexuals?

[mac.B]

What im saying has nothing to do with religion.

[Birgitta]

Her getting to the root of why she identifies as female puts our attraction to transsexuals in to perspective.

lol!
In reality I want to be (even know I am) a normal girl, not a tranny. So the root of my identification seems to have little to do with your "addiction" or love for T-girls.

[phobun]

What im saying has nothing to do with religion.


Oh please our whole society is premised on that BS so your bad feelings must be related to religious morality somehow.

[mac.B]

lol!
In reality I want to be a normal girl, not a tranny. So the root of my identification seems to have little to do with your "addiction" or love for T-girls.

I didnt say "what" I said "why".

[Birgitta]

Oh please our whole society is premised on that BS so your bad feelings must be related to religious morality somehow.

lol!!!!

[mac.B]

Oh please our whole society is premised on that BS so your bad feelings must be related to religious morality somehow.

That has nothing to do with me...

[Birgitta]

I didnt say "what" I said "why".

I dont know why....maybe I am this way because of hormonal changes in the womb, perhaps because of some situation in a past life (if they excist), or because I was assigned to be like this...I dont know.

[phobun]

lol!
In reality I want to be (even know I am) a normal girl, not a tranny. So the root of my identification seems to have little to do with your "addiction" or love for T-girls.


This is what I would tend to think too. Most guys into "this lifestyle" don't want "normal girls", but rather "trannies", because they objectify the girls on the basis of cock; this is repellant to many TSs.

[mac.B]

Well I know why I feel the way that I do. Knowing what I know I want to leave this alone.

[mac.B]

I dont know why....maybe I am this way because of hormonal changes in the womb, perhaps because of some situation in a past life (if they excist), or because I was assigned to be like this...I dont know.

Assigned? By who?

[phobun]

Well I know why I feel the way that I do. Knowing what I know I want to leave this alone.


Well tell us why you feel the way you do? You told us you think it is harmful, but you didn't say why you feel this is harmful.

[Vic]

I'll admit that I am addicted to transsexuals, and tranny porn. I have been since the first time I saw Sulka in the back of a Hustler magazine! Sometimes while watching tranny porn, and seeing a beautiful tranny stroking a rock hard dick is like see a man pleasuring a woman all in on scene; its extermely erotic! As I've said in the past, Tranny porn just keeps on getting better, and better. If you look back to the 80's where many of the Trannys in transition put forth minimal effort for their looks, with maybe a wig, and a few hormones, and that compares nothing to today's Tranny porn! I admit that I love topping trannys, and years ago that type of porn was not as readily available as it is today'. I find it extremely exciting to see feminine trannys that as you guys say, "Rock out with their cocks out"! I hope the improving trend continues, and I hope to enjoy Tranny porn for years to cum! :)

Vic

[phobun]

I dont know why....maybe I am this way because of hormonal changes in the womb, perhaps because of some situation in a past life (if they excist), or because I was assigned to be like this...I dont know.


You seem to be a spiritual person. He says religion has nothing to do with him.

[Birgitta]

Well I know why I feel the way that I do. Knowing what I know I want to leave this alone.

Some guys fall for Tgirls because they were abused as kids...some because their parents were divorced so they want to find a male AND female partner in one, some because they are lying to themselves that they are not gay, some because they want to dress up themselves, there are so many reasons...

But they have nothing to do with Tgirls :)

[mac.B]

Again, I dont want to argue about "why transsexuality is wrong". People are going to feel and believe what they want. This tread was for those who felt the same as I.

[phobun]

Some guys fall for Tgirls because they were abused as kids...some because their parents were divorced so they want to find a male AND female partner in one, some because they are lying to themselves that they are not gay, some because they want to dress up themselves, there are so many reasons...

But they have nothing to do with Tgirls :)


Some are gay?!

[Birgitta]

and seeing a beautiful tranny stroking a rock hard dick is like see a man pleasuring a woman all in on scene; its extermely erotic!
:party:
Or a woman pleasing a man lol.
nice thought ;)

[Birgitta]

Some are gay?!

In the closet, not able to admit it to themselves and using a TS to learn to accept it. I am sure they are out there.

[mac.B]

^That says a lot doesn't it...

[sharkmizzle]

What is it exactly you're "addicted" to? The lifestyle you mention is deliciously vague, if it is ogling transsexual porn that may be one thing, if it is compulsively seeing providers in your area for 'fun' then that certainly could be likened to an addiction. But I think the problem is not so much with transsexuals but yourself, you're quick to ask others why they are that way, have you ever asked yourself why you're the way you are? I guess I just fail to see any negative aspects in which this 'addiction' has affected your life and it seems that you're more uncomfortable in your own skin or with how people may perceive you for being attracted to those with the same reproductive organs as yourself. I think the previous allusions to religion are more to do with the moralistic fabric that constricts free thought, and paints everything in black and white (good / bad).

[OEMEnemyNum1]

I'd say that you should legit try to leave. Then when you're sad, lonely, and bored with yourself you'll be back.

[phobun]

What is it exactly you're "addicted" to? The lifestyle you mention is deliciously vague, if it is ogling transsexual porn that may be one thing, if it is compulsively seeing providers in your area for 'fun' then that certainly could be likened to an addiction. But I think the problem is not so much with transsexuals but yourself, you're quick to ask others why they are that way, have you ever asked yourself why you're the way you are? I guess I just fail to see any negative aspects in which this 'addiction' has affected your life and it seems that you're more uncomfortable in your own skin or with how people may perceive you for being attracted to those with the same reproductive organs as yourself. I think the previous allusions to religion are more to do with the moralistic fabric that constricts free thought, and paints everything in black and white (good / bad).


well said

[phobun]

^That says a lot doesn't it...


Not necessarily about you, unless you're trying to suggest something.

[mac.B]

Homosexual men are attracted to male qualities. Gay men using transsexuals to express there homosexuality is like craving vegetables but purchasing those cherries that come on sundaes.

[Birgitta]

Homosexual men are attracted to male qualities. Gay men using transsexuals to express there homosexuality is like craving vegetables but purchasing those cherries that come on sundaes.

True perhaps...
But unless you share with us the reason why you think you love tgirls...
no one here will be able to understand where you are coming from.

[phobun]

Homosexual men are attracted to male qualities. Gay men using transsexuals to express there homosexuality is like craving vegetables but purchasing those cherries that come on sundaes.


What are you trying to say?

I think the better analogy would be "craving fruits"

Eating a sundae is not shameful if you like the sundae but sort of a waste if you only want the cherry.

[mac.B]

But the point wasnt to convert anyone but was to communicate with like minds.

[mac.B]

What are you trying to say?

I think the better analogy would be "craving fruits"

Eating a sundae is not shameful if you like the sundae but sort of a waste if you only want the cherry.


lol I think you misread. Sundaes had nothing to do with the analogy. I was talking about the cherry.

[nsagent]

see..theres no such thing as tranny chasers.its a myth that us girls made up.guys who think like this are perfectly normal,well adjusted,socially adapted heterosexual males

I don't get this. How can you have a negative view of so called chasers yet a positive view of anyone you choose to date?

[amberskyi]

so just leave nigga.dont bitch or whine about it.log off and never log on again.one less chaser for us to deal with...im not crying bout it

[phobun]

But the point wasnt to convert anyone but was to communicate with like minds.


Mostly, you aren't going to find such minds swimming in the midst of porn here, unless there are some guilty souls lurking in tormented silence. If you want to find people who think this is a harmful addiction, try a forum for recovering homosexuals... those sorts of forums must exist courtesy of the right-wingers and biblebeaters and I'm sure they'd welcome a fellow who thinks liking transsexuals is a "harmful addiction".

[amberskyi]

I don't get this. How can you have a negative view of so called chasers yet a positive view of anyone you choose to date?

because i dont date tranny chasers.i date guys who respect and treat me as a woman regardless of what i put in their mouth ;) lol.
to them im not a fetish,an addiction or a secret to keep under wraps.

[phobun]

I don't get this. How can you have a negative view of so called chasers yet a positive view of anyone you choose to date?


Maybe she doesn't date chasers, genius. A girl like her could attract normal guys who don't have "cocks in frocks" on their radar.

[mac.B]

Mostly, you aren't going to find such minds swimming in the midst of porn here, unless there are some guilty souls lurking in tormented silence.


Ive seen some on here. Ive seen there posts. But maybe this isnt the place. I think youre right about that.

[amberskyi]

Again, I dont want to argue about "why transsexuality is wrong". People are going to feel and believe what they want. This tread was for those who felt the same as I.

thats like going to afgahnistan and complaining about musilms and allah

[phobun]

lol I think you misread. Sundaes had nothing to do with the analogy. I was talking about the cherry.


Wow. Cherry as a metaphor for cock. This forum is so counter-conventional wisdom sometimes.

[mac.B]

to them im not a fetish,an addiction or a secret to keep under wraps.

Sorry to say but to a halfway normal man, you would be...

[mac.B]

Wow. Cherry as a metaphor for cock. This forum is so counter-conventional wisdom sometimes.

Again you misunderstood.

[Birgitta]

because i dont date tranny chasers.i date guys who respect and treat me as a woman regardless of what i put in their mouth ;) lol.

lol!!!



to them im not a fetish,an addiction or a secret to keep under wraps.

Precisely...

[phobun]

Again you misunderstood.


You're so cryptic man. Just tell us what is so "harmful" and why this is an "addiction".

[nsagent]

Ok maybe I missed something. What is a tranny chaser? I thought it was just guys who seek out trannies to date is that wrong?

[Birgitta]

Sorry to say but to a halfway normal man, you would be...

What would you know about normal men lol. You hang around here.

[amberskyi]

Sorry to say but to a halfway normal man, you would be...

sorry too say but ive had two well adjusted boyfriends with jobs and families.been on three social dates this week to public places,
your demons arent everyone elses demons.i hate to burst your bubble

[phobun]

Sorry to say but to a halfway normal man, you would be...


You can't claim to be normal or know what normal is.

[amberskyi]

Ok maybe I missed something. What is a tranny chaser? I thought it was just guys who seek out trannies to date is that wrong?

ive explained this to you before hun

[amberskyi]

Maybe she doesn't date chasers, genius. A girl like her could attract normal guys who don't have "cocks in frocks" on their radar.

lmao @ cocks in frocks

[theone1982]

They were not transsexuals but were hermaphrodites and were worshiped because they naturally held both male and female qualities and were seen as being complete whereas a man needed a woman for that. It is said that the first humans were this way and over time split in to male and female counterparts.

It's difficult to discern whether it was transsexuals or hermaphrodites this far removed from the time period. However, it is clear that the idea of getting in touch with what one feels is their natual gender is not a modern concept. There were Roman emperors who searched out ways to transition to physically be a woman. Gods such as Janus, a god of transitions, were worshipped for their dual nature. And remember, this was all in a time where taking hormones was, obviously, not a option, because they had yet to even be conceptualized.

[mac.B]

You can't claim to be normal or know what normal is.


Wasnt talking about me.

[FreddieGomez]

it can be somewhat depressing

[amberskyi]

it can be somewhat depressing

which is why you get no play

[mac.B]

It's difficult to discern whether it was transsexuals or hermaphrodites this far removed from the time period. However, it is clear that the idea of getting in touch with what one feels is their natual gender is not a modern concept. There were Roman emperors who searched out ways to transition to physically be a woman. Gods such as Janus, a god of transitions, were worshipped for their dual nature. And remember, this was all in a time where taking hormones was, obviously, not a option, because they had yet to even be conceptualized.

You just said there were no transsexuals back then. Gay men crossdress all the time, even then.

[nsagent]

ive explained this to you before hun

Ok then answer this. Am I a chaser if I say I would date you, because I like ts girls thus I look for them, and go out in public with you introduce you to anyone and generally treat you like any GG I've been with. Does that still make someone like me a chaser that you have these negative feelings about?

[mac.B]

...And Janus had nothing to do with androgyny. If anything having a "Janused Principle" loosely translates to being indecisive or dichotomous. He wasnt worshiped for having a dual nature but was worshiped for being a god. They called on him whenever they felt he could be used.

[Birgitta]

...And Janus had nothing to do with androgyny. If anything having a "Janused Principle" loosely translates to being indecisive or dichotomous. He wasnt worshiped for having a dual nature but was worshiped for being a god. They called on him whenever they felt he could be used.

you are projecting your own identity issues on the object of your desire...
You are not alone... but do leave,
coz no Tgirl will be interested in you anyway when you are like this.

[amberskyi]

You just said there were no transsexuals back then. Gay men crossdress all the time, even then.

actually alexander the great had an eunuch as a lover.
also not to mention the hijras in india.

[amberskyi]

Ok then answer this. Am I a chaser if I say I would date you, because I like ts girls thus I look for them, and go out in public with you introduce you to anyone and generally treat you like any GG I've been with. Does that still make someone like me a chaser that you have these negative feelings about?

i would tend to say no based on what you just said.

[mac.B]

actually alexander the great had an eunuch as a lover.
also not to mention the hijras in india.


Oh sorry, you're a eunuch?

[mac.B]

you are projecting your own identity issues on the object of your desire...
You are not alone... but do leave,
coz no Tgirl will be interested in you anyway when you are like this.


I dont understand what you mean.

[nsagent]

i would tend to say no based on what you just said.

Glad you have sense. Someone else on here said I was still just another chaser

[FreddieGomez]

they call us all chasers when they we dont agree with them

[amberskyi]

Oh sorry, you're a eunuch?

in some sense...i am chemically castrated and will physically be removing my balls in the near future.the hijras in india who openly call themselves a third sex or woman are also castrated.they dont take hormones or anything.they just cut their balls off.
alexanders lover Bogoas was reported looking more female then male,being very androgynous in nature.

[FreddieGomez]

in some sense...i am chemically castrated and will physically be removing my balls in the near future.the hijras in india who openly call themselves a third sex or woman are also castrated.they dont take hormones or anything.they just cut their balls off.
alexanders lover Bogoas was reported looking more female then male,being very androgynous in nature.

well a full fledged tranny chaser is turned off by trannies who are castrated or plan to become castrated.

[amberskyi]

Glad you have sense. Someone else on here said I was still just another chaser

take everything with a grain of salt

[amberskyi]

well a full fledged tranny chaser is turned off by trannies who are castrated or plan to become castrated.

those guys are chasers.to them a girl is useless if she cant ejaculate gobs of jizz

[FreddieGomez]

those guys are chasers.to them a girl is useless if she cant ejaculate gobs of jizz

they need to get a crossdresser then

[theone1982]

You just said there were no transsexuals back then. Gay men crossdress all the time, even then.

I never said there were no transsexuals back then. It's clear that there was more going on than gay men crossdressing for many people. The Roman emperor Elagabalus actively sought out doctors who could change his penis into a vagina.

[theone1982]

...And Janus had nothing to do with androgyny. If anything having a "Janused Principle" loosely translates to being indecisive or dichotomous. He wasnt worshiped for having a dual nature but was worshiped for being a god. They called on him whenever they felt he could be used.

That's open to interpretation. It's always difficult to ascertain why people actually worship something. It's clear that Janus represented duality and transition, so I find it difficult to believe that there were not any people who considered themselves to be transsexuals who worshiped Janus because of that fact.

[nonnonnon]

damn this thread's all over the place. we got politics, eunuchs, religion, porn addiction, undercover gays, asskissing and ice cream sundaes

[Tepres]

...to this "transsexualism" and are consumed by it to the point that this is all were about at times. I'm in a struggle now to leave this alone and was curious as to who else is doing the same. I think I know a way...

Don't bother struggling too hard. If it's meant to be, you'll naturally get bored with it like I have. You might still come to this forum for entertainment purposes though...

[dderek123]

see..theres no such thing as tranny chasers.its a myth that us girls made up.guys who think like this are perfectly normal,well adjusted,socially adapted heterosexual males

I see what you did there :iagree:

[dderek123]

If you feel the need to move on because you think of it as just a phase that's fine. If you're not interested anymore why stay in the scene?

But if you feel the need to move on because you are worried about what others well think then you are a dumb-dumb.

[dderek123]

actually alexander the great had an eunuch as a lover.
also not to mention the hijras in india.

The spartans were a bunch of bum pirates as well.

[markyboy21]

With this thread losing your cherry takes on a whole new meaning.

[LittleGuy]

I'm sorry to say I'm addicted to chicken and watermelon.

[Moogleman03]

Because for many of us it is harmful. It is an addiction. You dont feel afflicted at all?

Personally, I don't feel afflicted at all. I am attracted to some TS girls...not ALL of them just because they are TS. Just like I am attracted to some GG, not every single GG that walks past me. Personally, I've never been attracted to a man but I don't see a reason to quantify attraction. Beauty is beauty. I've dated both TS and GG and I don't see the difference. If you care about someone, you care about them...period, end of sentence.

Addiction is usually about doing something that is harmful to yourself and those around you. cigs lead to cancer, drinking destroys lives, we've all seen what drugs do to sitcom stars. Liking TS women isn't harmful in any way unless you are doing it wrong. If you are objectifying them and only like them BECAUSE they are TS and not because they are beautiful, sweet, wonderful PEOPLE, then you're doing it wrong and it makes you feel weird. You think its because they are TS that it feels weird but it's really because you don't see them as women or even people...just objects of lust and desire for your personal perversions.

I've never liked a TS because of their genitalia but I've never disliked them for it either. People are people and you are missing out if you don't get to know someone because of whatever they have or don't have in their panties.

Anyway... that's my two cents.

[amberskyi]

Personally, I don't feel afflicted at all. I am attracted to some TS girls...not ALL of them just because they are TS. Just like I am attracted to some GG, not every single GG that walks past me. Personally, I've never been attracted to a man but I don't see a reason to quantify attraction. Beauty is beauty. I've dated both TS and GG and I don't see the difference. If you care about someone, you care about them...period, end of sentence.

Addiction is usually about doing something that is harmful to yourself and those around you. cigs lead to cancer, drinking destroys lives, we've all seen what drugs do to sitcom stars. Liking TS women isn't harmful in any way unless you are doing it wrong. If you are objectifying them and only like them BECAUSE they are TS and not because they are beautiful, sweet, wonderful PEOPLE, then you're doing it wrong and it makes you feel weird. You think its because they are TS that it feels weird but it's really because you don't see them as women or even people...just objects of lust and desire for your personal perversions.

I've never liked a TS because of their genitalia but I've never disliked them for it either. People are people and you are missing out if you don't get to know someone because of whatever they have or don't have in their panties.

Anyway... that's my two cents.

i *heart* you

[Moogleman03]

i *heart* you

I feel the same way about you, amber! deep heart!

[TJ347]

Mac, I think there are many members of this site who feel, to varying degrees, the same way you do. The overwhelming majority simply come here for the pictures and deal with whatever conflict they experience silently, rather than stir up a hornet's nest with a post similar to yours, if they ever bother to post at all. Perhaps you would do well to follow their example, as this is certainly not the place to address your feelings on this matter.

[dderek123]

Well stated moogle. Good job.

[yodajazz]

...to this "transsexualism" and are consumed by it to the point that this is all were about at times. I'm in a struggle now to leave this alone and was curious as to who else is doing the same. I think I know a way...
I feel you, mac. The most direct advice I can give you is to take one week off to evaluate your self control, over the issue. No computer or, real life t-girl contact. It's the same with anything that may be an addiction. I read three pages, and plan to read the rest.

I had a friend, to whom t-girl porn was just a subset of sexual addiction in general. That means that it makes no difference whether its t-girls, gg's, or whatever that is the problem. It then, would be about what other things you can do with your time and life, outside of sex. I dont know how it is for you, but if gg sex, relieves your issues, then your problem is guilt over the t life. However, I suspect that it is really about the rest of your life, and making more productive use of it.

I personally am an introspective person, and look at myself as to what the t-life is, in relationship to the rest of my life. Sometime I marvel at the fact, that of a random picture of three t-girls, at at party in Brazil, I recoginze one or two the girls, but wouldn't recognize, the face of, my own Congresswoman. On a typical Maury Povich, "Man or Woman show", I know, the names of at least, two of the ususal five. Yet, I still have file all my taxes from from 2007, on. I wonder how many here can relate to that?

I wish you the best on your quest.

[MdR Dave]

If you feel the need to move on because you are worried about what others well think then you are a dumb-dumb.

Dude- dumb-dumb? Harsh! I bet he'd rather someone call him a jackhole!

[Miss Fagina]

they need to get a crossdresser then

Precisely! But most cd/tv's are not into guys unless they'd like to use you as a "prop" in acting out their autogynephilic fantasies. Hmm.. come to think of it, tv's and chasers kind of deserve each other.:ignore:

[CORVETTEDUDE]

I yams what I yams and, that's all that I yam...I'm Popeye the Sailor Man!! Toot! Toot!:banana::banana::banana:

[DL_NL]

You guys are hilarious. Poor, repressed types.

[mac.B]

Theres no repression here. I like transsexuals but I just dont want to anymore. My wanting to be normal again almost reaches the point of desperation.

[amberskyi]

says the man who keeps posting here smh lol

[mac.B]

Tell me about it...

[Jericho]

Damn, some of you fukkers tie yerselves up in knots! :shrug

[theone1982]

Theres no repression here. I like transsexuals but I just dont want to anymore. My wanting to be normal again almost reaches the point of desperation.

There is no such thing as "normal". It's just the bullshit walls that society puts up to keep people from really interacting. 100 years ago it was "normal" for homosexuality to be declared a mental disease. 200 years ago it was "normal" to have slaves.

[mac.B]

Its about whatever context you put it in. Obviously I'm not talking about a societal normality but normality in its purist form.

[theone1982]

Its about whatever context you put it in. Obviously I'm not talking about a societal normality but normality in its purist form.

Normal, as in you being comfortable with yourself?

[mac.B]

Yes like i was before i started smoking, and before the tranny fetish...

[Jericho]

Its about whatever context you put it in. Obviously I'm not talking about a societal normality but normality in its purist form.


Whut? :what

[theone1982]

Yes like i was before i started smoking, and before the tranny fetish...

What specifically makes you feel not normal about liking transsexuals? Does it run your life, would your family disapprove, or do you think other people would not like you if they found out?

[dderek123]

Normality in its purist form?

Normal is a subjective term, I believe. So what's normal for you? That's what matters most.