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secone
04-02-2011, 05:06 PM
Hi ive always been fascinated with shemales and lately ive been really interested in recieving anal I have a few questions.

How should I go about preparing to recieve anal?

I think the only way im going to meet a shemale is by getting an escort however is there a way to make sure that when I do meet someone that I can take their cock without it being too painful?


Hav any of you had bad experiances with trying recieving?

Does it make masterbation more fun?


Thanks in advance

CORVETTEDUDE
04-02-2011, 05:10 PM
Be careful what you ask for on here.....:shrug

alyssaluxor
04-02-2011, 05:17 PM
ok ill not comment on this one most guys here would usually say i make fun of the powerbottoms lol ;)

LittleGuy
04-02-2011, 05:41 PM
Hi ive always been fascinated with shemales and lately ive been really interested in recieving anal I have a few questions.

How should I go about preparing to recieve anal?

I think the only way im going to meet a shemale is by getting an escort however is there a way to make sure that when I do meet someone that I can take their cock without it being too painful?


Hav any of you had bad experiances with trying recieving?

Does it make masterbation more fun?


Thanks in advance

Ask ChrisinLA

He's been taking cock for years

PomonaCA
04-02-2011, 05:52 PM
Why is it that assholes always say "Thanks in advance". That's fucking stupid.

You're a faggot! Thanks in advance!

Dino Velvet
04-02-2011, 05:54 PM
Don't forget to set the mood with the right music.

http://www.coverdude.com/covers/judy-garland-over-the-rainbow-the-very-best-of-2010-front-cover-38448.jpg

CORVETTEDUDE
04-02-2011, 06:00 PM
See....I told you!!!

PomonaCA
04-02-2011, 07:06 PM
Don't forget to set the mood with the right music.

http://www.coverdude.com/covers/judy-garland-over-the-rainbow-the-very-best-of-2010-front-cover-38448.jpg


Oh you bad boy. Kinky kinky

Scuderia77
04-02-2011, 07:21 PM
Toy with your own asshole first before letting someone fuck you!

Prospero
04-02-2011, 09:44 PM
Hey secone... where are u at ? us or UK or elsewhere... if UK can offer some praxticl advice but as scuder says maybe play around a bit first on your own?

markyboy21
04-02-2011, 10:10 PM
Play with yourself first and make sure you use plenty of lube. You could also use poppers and analeze when your ready for your first time, and read the reviews and choose an active escort with a small cock and work your way up to a larger one. Don't take a chance with one of the time wasters or clock watchers as you'll want to cherish the memory. You could ask Prospero for advice when you have a list of the ones you fancy, as I think he is the most reliable for advice on here.

msbhaven
04-02-2011, 10:21 PM
Sigh, I will take pity on you and give you a straight answer. Most of the guys that have told me they wanted anal couldn't handle it anyway. Most of them couldn't even handle a finger in their ass for Christ sake!

First you need to start small. Your index finger is plenty big enough to start with and even that isn't going to be comfortable at first. Finger your ass often enough and you will eventually get used to it, and can move on to using two fingers at a time. You could get a toy the size of one or two fingers as well, but I recommend your fingers because it will teach you another valuable lesson, which is to wash your ass before attempting to receive anal. Think about it, if your ass is so polluted you don't want to put your finger in it why would anybody want to put their cock in it? Once you are comfortable with at least two fingers go ahead and get yourself a normal sized dildo or vibrator and practice with that awhile. Suction cup models that can be mounted are great since they allow you to better control your penetration rate and amount. Once you are comfortable fucking yourself or riding a normal size dildo you are ready for the real thing. Don't go looking for a girl with a 12 inch cock right off the bat btw. Try to find somebody with an average sized cock for your first experience.

The second thing which I haven't mentioned yet is LUBE. You need it, you need lots of it, and you had better get it. If you feel like you have lubed enough, then add more. You can never have too much lube on your ass or what's being put in to it. Think about how incredibly wet pussy can get, that's what you want your ass to feel like from a lubrication stand point. As a matter of fact before I get fucked I still finger my ass mostly as a way to make sure I have plenty of lube in it. If you are still having trouble there are two different specialty lube products you can try. The first is Anal Ease which slightly numbs the nerve endings if you are hyper sensitive. I swear by this stuff!!! The second is a relaxer lubricant that helps your anal muscles relax and stretch. Never tried that one but it's a good idea for big cock IMO. For my regular lube I like good old KY jelly. It's safe for use with condoms, washes off easily but doesn't dry up too fast, it's fairly cheap, and it can often be reactivated with nothing more then a little spit if it does get too dry.

Remember the sphincter is a muscle, and like any other muscle it needs to be stretched before you exercise it. You wouldn't try to play hoops with Koby Bryant without loosening up first would you? Same thing applies to taking cock up the ass. Somebody should create a yoga stretching for anal sex workout if you ask me.

Hope this helps.

Ashlee

Dino Velvet
04-02-2011, 11:10 PM
Sigh, I will take pity on you and give you a straight answer. Most of the guys that have told me they wanted anal couldn't handle it anyway. Most of them couldn't even handle a finger in their ass for Christ sake!

First you need to start small. Your index finger is plenty big enough to start with and even that isn't going to be comfortable at first. Finger your ass often enough and you will eventually get used to it, and can move on to using two fingers at a time. You could get a toy the size of one or two fingers as well, but I recommend your fingers because it will teach you another valuable lesson, which is to wash your ass before attempting to receive anal. Think about it, if your ass is so polluted you don't want to put your finger in it why would anybody want to put their cock in it? Once you are comfortable with at least two fingers go ahead and get yourself a normal sized dildo or vibrator and practice with that awhile. Suction cup models that can be mounted are great since they allow you to better control your penetration rate and amount. Once you are comfortable fucking yourself or riding a normal size dildo you are ready for the real thing. Don't go looking for a girl with a 12 inch cock right off the bat btw. Try to find somebody with an average sized cock for your first experience.

The second thing which I haven't mentioned yet is LUBE. You need it, you need lots of it, and you had better get it. If you feel like you have lubed enough, then add more. You can never have too much lube on your ass or what's being put in to it. Think about how incredibly wet pussy can get, that's what you want your ass to feel like from a lubrication stand point. As a matter of fact before I get fucked I still finger my ass mostly as a way to make sure I have plenty of lube in it. If you are still having trouble there are two different specialty lube products you can try. The first is Anal Ease which slightly numbs the nerve endings if you are hyper sensitive. I swear by this stuff!!! The second is a relaxer lubricant that helps your anal muscles relax and stretch. Never tried that one but it's a good idea for big cock IMO. For my regular lube I like good old KY jelly. It's safe for use with condoms, washes off easily but doesn't dry up too fast, it's fairly cheap, and it can often be reactivated with nothing more then a little spit if it does get too dry.

Remember the sphincter is a muscle, and like any other muscle it needs to be stretched before you exercise it. You wouldn't try to play hoops with Koby Bryant without loosening up first would you? Same thing applies to taking cock up the ass. Somebody should create a yoga stretching for anal sex workout if you ask me.

Hope this helps.

Ashlee

Geez Ashlee, even your educational posts are sexy. Come here and sit on my lap and let me stroke your hair and nibble on your neck.

Quiet Reflections
04-02-2011, 11:20 PM
take a shit and then get an enema, I don't know about the girls but I hate getting a shitty dick. I'm sure whoever you get to fuck you will appreciate it.

rockabilly
04-02-2011, 11:59 PM
Be sure to keep the receipt , or you could re-gift the anal to someone else.

Dino Velvet
04-03-2011, 12:15 AM
Be sure to keep the receipt , or you could re-gift the anal to someone else.

You can always give the Buttsex Gift Certificate to a crazy aunt instead of the usual Fruit Cake for Christmas.

rockabilly
04-03-2011, 12:22 AM
The gift that keeps on giving and receiving.

theone1982
04-03-2011, 02:22 AM
Bend over, hold your knees, and think of Christmas.:)

Dino Velvet
04-03-2011, 02:27 AM
Bend over, hold your knees, and think of Christmas.:)

I guess thinking about baseball is only if your topping.

theone1982
04-03-2011, 02:29 AM
I guess thinking about baseball is only if your topping.

You are correct sir!:)

Dino Velvet
04-03-2011, 02:52 AM
I wanna hear more from Ashlee about anal sex. She knows not to drop the soap around me. Her ass is delicious. I know. Saw it on the internet.

jamesedwards
04-03-2011, 06:55 AM
Hi ive always been fascinated with shemales and lately ive been really interested in recieving anal I have a few questions.

How should I go about preparing to recieve anal?

I think the only way im going to meet a shemale is by getting an escort however is there a way to make sure that when I do meet someone that I can take their cock without it being too painful?


Hav any of you had bad experiances with trying recieving?

Does it make masterbation more fun?


Thanks in advance

If you wanna get into anal for real, start off with your finger, the middle one and do it half way, then use the whole finger. Use baby oil or edible oil as lube and do this for about a week until you can take your whole finger, jack off when you do this also and finger pop yourself. when you can take all the finger and it feels good automatically you're going to be intrigued to go bigger. Get a but plug next and use that then a realistic cock. Once you can take that you should be able to take cock easy. Do it everyday to stretch the ass and you should be fine. Get to the point you can take an 8 inch realistic cock all the way in your ass past your prostate gland.

I had a Tgirl with 10 inches pounding my ass while I jacked my dick, I bust a nut so hard I almost blacked out that shit felt so good and so much cum came out I couldn't believe it. She knew how to hit against my GSpot and it felt good. Rightnow I can take 13 inches and going for 15 :)

REmemer it's a process and you will get it because you want it. It feels so good when a Tgirl is pounding your and her pelvic is smakcing up against your ass cheeks that shit is the bommmmmmmmmmmmmmb!

Prospero
04-03-2011, 08:32 AM
"Rightnow I can take 13 inches and going for 15..." ROFL

Really... and where in the world do you meet a Tgirl that endowed. or we talking interspecies bonding here. Or a police truncheon?

theone1982
04-03-2011, 08:40 AM
15 inches?! You're going to spear your colon!

nonnonnon
04-03-2011, 08:53 AM
so does topping do damage? when you say stretching...

GrimFusion
04-03-2011, 08:58 AM
so does topping do damage? when you say stretching...

Well, yeah... it can. If you're not careful about it, or you're just a damn size queen, you can lose control of your bowels or stretch to the point that scar tissue forms and your butthole never shrinks quite back to normal.

Nivek
04-03-2011, 09:04 AM
IMO either you like receiving anal or u don't, and yes YOU should toy with your own hole before ANYONE else. Use a finger n move from there. There are so many nerve endings in your butt, and you don't wanna TEAR it. Use lube don't be stingy or it's quite literally YOUR ASS. Have fun!

theone1982
04-03-2011, 09:08 AM
Well, yeah... it can. If you're not careful about it, or you're just a damn size queen, you can lose control of your bowels or stretch to the point that scar tissue forms and your butthole never shrinks quite back to normal.

Wasn't there a famous Cuban drug dealer named Scaranus?:)

DianeTV
04-03-2011, 11:27 AM
Might want to look into buying a douche or an enema kit as well.

rockabilly
04-03-2011, 05:58 PM
Anal sex tis better to give than receive.


http://www.dailyprobe.com/arcs/021902/asm1.jpg

nosferatus666
04-03-2011, 07:59 PM
The Journey to being a submissive bottom , ha , ha , ha ...many contributors here ha ha ha ha ha

william.howl
04-03-2011, 08:10 PM
What I find odd is that you have never played with your ass. You want to be fucked by a shemale, but you have never fingered yourself or bought a dildo...? Very odd.

msbhaven
04-03-2011, 08:49 PM
William believe me it is NOT uncommon at all for men to want anal without ever having done anything by themselves. I even had one fool tell me that playing with his own ass was just too "gay" (but somehow a girl with a cock fucking him isn't?!?). Mostly it's about fantasy for guys like this. Receiving anal sex requires a pretty big commitment, and a fair amount of effort. The rewards of good anal sex can be quite worth all the work however.

Rockabilly I beg to differ baby. I would rather receive then give any day of the year (especially if a guy is involved).

Dino, you need to stop, I've been so horny and hungry for a good fucking lately that I can feel my butt twitch when I watch porn these days! Ahhh two Saturdays in a row I've come home from the clubs so horny I would have fucked just about anybody that was freshly washed and ready!

william.howl
04-03-2011, 11:25 PM
msbhaven, I think you are right.

rockabilly
04-03-2011, 11:41 PM
And i'd rather give instead of receive. *sigh*

Dino Velvet
04-03-2011, 11:46 PM
Dino, you need to stop, I've been so horny and hungry for a good fucking lately that I can feel my butt twitch when I watch porn these days! Ahhh two Saturdays in a row I've come home from the clubs so horny I would have fucked just about anybody that was freshly washed and ready!

Ashlee, it's not exactly a secret that I dig you. Bring your pretty self out to West Coast time. I'm sick of flirting and I wanna fuck too. I'm always ready but I'll work on the washing part.

nonnonnon
04-04-2011, 12:47 AM
I even had one fool tell me that playing with his own ass was just too "gay" (but somehow a girl with a cock fucking him isn't?!?).

yeah that's how I feel haha :wiggle:

msbhaven
04-04-2011, 07:18 AM
Ashlee, it's not exactly a secret that I dig you. Bring your pretty self out to West Coast time. I'm sick of flirting and I wanna fuck too. I'm always ready but I'll work on the washing part.

Too steal a quote from Cuba Gooding Jr..........


"SHOW ME THE MONEY BABY!!!!"

Plane tickets, and hotel rooms and food all cost money, and that don't even account for the bills I already have to find a way to pay here! LOL

Dino Velvet
04-04-2011, 07:30 AM
Too steal a quote from Cuba Gooding Jr..........


"SHOW ME THE MONEY BABY!!!!"

Plane tickets, and hotel rooms and food all cost money, and that don't even account for the bills I already have to find a way to pay here! LOL

Free sex though, yeah?

Brandi Boots
04-04-2011, 02:29 PM
See, all it takes is one "anal sex" thread and then there is a cock and an ass wanting to meet. (Cheerleader voice) Goooooo, Hung Angels!

phobun
04-04-2011, 06:29 PM
See, all it takes is one "anal sex" thread and then there is a cock and an ass wanting to meet. (Cheerleader voice) Goooooo, Hung Angels!


This thread is gross.

msbhaven
04-04-2011, 07:54 PM
I decided to make this topic my weekly blog topic. I just see questions about this SOOO many times, and there is just SOOO much ignorance about it. Click the link in my sig if you want to read my full thoughts on the subject.

Ashlee

rockabilly
04-05-2011, 02:27 AM
This thread is gross.

Stop having a shitty attitude all the time Phobun.

Skunch
04-05-2011, 02:43 AM
How do you receive anal?

The same way you get to Carnegie Hall...

Practice.

Helvis2012
04-05-2011, 03:36 AM
How do you receive anal?

The same way you get to Carnegie Hall...

Practice.


Hilarious! :)

Helvis2012
04-05-2011, 03:43 AM
"Get the butter."

theone1982
04-05-2011, 03:44 AM
"Get the butter."

Lol! What movie is that? Brando, say it ain't so!:)

Helvis2012
04-05-2011, 03:46 AM
Lol! What movie is that? Brando, say it ain't so!:)


The Last Tango in Paris. Sick flick.

theone1982
04-05-2011, 03:48 AM
The Last Tango in Paris. Sick flick.

Ah, isn't that movie where he says the line "Go ahead and smile you cunt!"? That line is sampled in a lot of songs.

Helvis2012
04-05-2011, 03:52 AM
Ah, isn't that movie where he says the line "Go ahead and smile you cunt!"? That line is sampled in a lot of songs.


Yeah, it's a wild film about two people who have anonymous sex.