Are Black Men Better Lovers?

[BOLO]

A remarkable essay by a woman who prefers black men to white. Do African-American men have a knack for combining maschismo, sexuality and gallantry that white guys don't?

Black men have something white guys don't have anymore: confidence in their masculinity, their sexuality. They clearly know they're men. White men appear to be waiting for the latest sociological research study to let them know if they are men or not. Yet black men are gentlemen, something else white men no longer are. They make me feel like a woman, both respected and desired.

I don't feel a need to have an opinion about another's sexuality, especially if it brings them joy.

But since I returned to the American South and live in a racially mixed neighborhood it really has struck me how readily and gracefully black men and women flirt with one another in public.



http://www.nypress.com/18/49/news&columns/SusanCrainBakos.cfm

[Legend]

Is this a joke?

[NickTheQuick]

Black men have something white guys don't have anymore: confidence in their masculinity, their sexuality. They clearly know they're men. White men appear to be waiting for the latest sociological research study to let them know if they are men or not. Yet black men are gentlemen, something else white men no longer are.



Huh? I'm just gonna say she sounds retarded.

PS I think she was on the Jerry Springer episode titled "I Hate My Own Race".

[Quinn]

Greatest post of all time.... One post I never anticipate seeing:

Are Asian men better lovers?

-Quinn

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

Is this a joke?

LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

[MoonAndStar]

But since I returned to the American South and live in a racially mixed neighborhood it really has struck me how readily and gracefully black men and women flirt with one another in public.

HAHAHHHHHAAAAAHAHAHAHAHAH...... LMAOOOOO

this shit is killing me..... WHAT!!!!!??????

the person who wrote this really needs to get laid!!!

[seanj]

lol...i think it safe to say that theres good and bad lovers of all ethnic backgrounds...but some people like to speak in stereotypes and generalities.

[DamionXXX]

Я Люблю Вас Ulyana, я Люблю только Вас ... теперь и для остальной части моей жизни.

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

We need to get a representative of each nationality in a room with the woman of your choice (fellas) and see who she says is the best fuck

thats the only way to ever settle this

*** actually that has its faults also, some dude in the room will say he's having an off day or something ***

[The American Nightmare]

Am I the only one alarmed by the fact that she's slept with enough men to create what she feels to be an adequate statistical sample?

God damn slut.

[BlackAdder]

If i was a black man reading this bullshit, man would i be insulted.....


"Black men are happy to get the babe they couldn't have when she was twentysomething and fertile."


Shes nothing but a cock whore, straight up.....

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

LOL. :roll: Clearly its a matter of one's personal opinion and not a consensus majority of women.

I mean, I think its completely preposterous to assume that race plays any importance or significance on the matter. Its not within one's race that makes one a better lovers but its the amount of time and skills one can gain over time that makes a person a "better and skillful lover".

This article is utterly "RETARDED" if you ask me. :evil:

Now who's up for a skillfull BJ? J/k LOL. :lol: :wink:

~Kisses.

HTG

[rickca78]

1. Native american men have the largest cocks
2. Greek men are the best lovers



...signed

Tonto Poppadapolous

[cheribaum]

Ive only been assaulted by black men. So I'll disagree

[Legend]

Ive only been assaulted by black men. So I'll disagree

Are you serious?

[DamionXXX]

Я Люблю Вас Ulyana, я Люблю только Вас ... теперь и для остальной части моей жизни.

[cheribaum]

yes!!! one incedent was just recently while I visited San Diego. Halloween weekend. And these were guys I trusted. Not just random acts

[Legend]

Ive only been assaulted by black men. So I'll disagree

Im gonna go out on a limb here and just say it... Ive known TSgirls for some time now and many have had bad experiences with black clients... Holly has been robbed twice and beaten up by the first guy, who she ended up using a stun gun on, both men were black and she hasnt had any issues with any other clients... now she simply refuses to see anyone who calls her and strts the conversation with " Whats up boo, how u doing girl "

She politley told a black caller that she couldnt see him just yesterday and he called back threatening to find her hotel and rob her.

I dont think black people are any worse that any other race, after two 6 month tours in Iraq I learned that every race has a pretty equal race of good and bad people. every black soldier under my command was solid and would have followed me anywhere in combat and drug me out of harm if I was injured...

since the majority of escort clients are middle aged white buisness men that are mostly too timid to ever get violent with a girl many many many TS escorts only see old white guys... I can name at least 20 right off the top of my head...

Now Holly will occasionally see a black client, normally they are regulars or guys who come off sounding white over the phone and when they arrive at her door they are usually in a jacket and tie on the way home from work. If he is wearing timberlands and street clothes or in any way appears thuggish, most girls will not see them.

I dont think Cherri was being racist, I am sure if you get assaulted or robbed by someone that you will tend to avoid similar types of people... thats human nature...

I believe she was being serious...

Im glad she is not giving up on them all together, there was a post a while stating she doesnt dude black guys period glad you cleared that up. Their have been so many girls on here complaining about black guys robbing them(im not being racist) Thugs are a problem though everywhere,they would rob their own mother.

[Legend]

yes!!! one incedent was just recently while I visited San Diego. Halloween weekend. And these were guys I trusted. Not just random acts

Sorry to hear that happen to you.

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

It sucks that a situation like that took place, doesn't matter what the race of the idiot was, I am really sincere in my hopes that you can get over it..........

I just hope that this does not lead towards a thread of bashing due to ignorance when it started it out...............well actually this whole thread is ignorant with the exception of cheri's statement which made it even more serious..........

Anyone from any race can be a good lover; for example one thing I've discovered after seeing various 15 second ts mpeg sites is that there are Asians out there packing (LOLLLLLLLLLL)

the skills of knowing how to fuck aren't solely mastered by one race, but mastered by individuals of this small ass rock we call earth...............

[Realgirls4me]

Are Black Men Better Lovers?

What male fool in here worth his salt is going to say, Yes, yes they are.


... What a stupid question. What next, are Latin men more macho and fiery ? Can white men dance, et all ?

[chefmike]

Well, all I know is that Eskimo men do build better igloos...

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

Anyone from any race can be a good lover;

the skills of knowing how to fuck aren't solely mastered by one race, but mastered by individuals of this small ass rock we call earth...............

Amen to that Johnnie WBL. Exactly what I said previously above..err page. LOL. :wink:

~Kisses.

HTG

[Deepdarkfucker]

All I know is that for the most part...being a good lover/fucker is an individual thang!

But I do love to fuck... :D

[Perverted Monk]

But they do make better running backs :P

[lahabra1976]

I don't know, but I heard is that black men like to fuck a lot

[rick_932]

If i was a black man reading this bullshit, man would i be insulted.....

"Black men are happy to get the babe they couldn't have when she was twentysomething and fertile."


Shes nothing but a cock whore, straight up.....

i am. shes just adding to the stereotype that all black men are sex crazy and would only be attracted to a girl of a different race because of her skin color. the shit's disgustin. what man, of any race, doesnt like having sex?

smh @ this shit here:

We look at one another and exchange a visible frisson of sexual energy in the lingering glances. And our attraction is based first on race. We are not those couples who "happen to fall in love" with someone of a different race or more purposefully come together but out of some greater sense of interracial understanding and respect.

[rick_932]

I don't know, but I heard is that black men like to fuck a lot

what man doesnt? regardless of race?

[WendyWilliams]

I LOVE black men so I am not being racist at all, however I have to agree with Cheri and Holly both my bad experiences were with black gentleman.

Once in NYC I was robbed and once in Detroit I had a guy keep showing up at my hotel who got VERY frisky and thank god for mace otherwise not sure what would have happen,,,,I had to leave immediately because of the scene he made.

Do I think ALL black men are like that, nope however it does make my phone selection highly different.............If you call me talking slang or being crude I will say "no thankyou" and hang up............If you show up and start trying to hussle me you are asked to leave.

In my 3 years of escorting I have NEVER had any other race attempt to rob or get physical with me.

Like Damion said I can name you 20 girls who dont accept black gentleman as calls.

I think this is why you see so many black gentleman who are sincere good businessmen or clients get so disappointed or aggreviated because of this stigma.


As far as lovers Ive had some wonderful lovers from every race.

[rick_932]

wendy, glad to see that you dont judge all on the actions of a few. wish there were more out there like you

[cheribaum]

It was very hard to overcome, It ruined my whole West Coast tour. I was scheduled to shoot for various websites including HOTWENDYWILLIAMS.com and Wendy was who I confided in when It happened since I was not going to be stopping in LA after all. She understood and was very supportive since she too had experienced similar experiences.

I have met very nice, gentle black men that really know how to "lay down the pipe" and cater to every transsexual need. I continue to see black men and always will. My site is part interracial and Im not ashamed of it, One of my best clients is black and he has never gotten physical or tried to hustle my rate lower.

In both cases it seemed more about humiliation than anything else and I was nothing but a worthless slut so "THEY WERE GOING TO TKE IT FOR FREE"
Basically I had to comply or be visciously raped and In order to stay sane in a situation like that I complied and at least made them think "safety" first and managed to not get into any immediate danger. In both cases I feel I had bad judgement. I've learned to just go w/ my first instinct and not risk it.

[Hugh Jarrod]

I agree with JohnnyWalker, Wendy, and Cheri a person's love making or sexual skills are not based on race. They're based in and on themselves. Meaning a good lover is a good lover, and a good sex partner is a good sex partner.

[Adam_Thompson]

now there is some grade A bullshit...
Yet black men are gentlemen, something else white men no longer are

I have just as much dick as any black man, and dont need any help with my masculinity either... and I always treat whoever I am with with respect and compassion...and I am as white as wonder bread

now after being amrried and divorced I can tell you that women will tend to emasculate a man after a while, they just kinda wear him down... one day she is with him while he gets a new tatoo and a few years later he is wearing a members only jacket walking around a beanie baby expo because thats thier new hobby...

A black dude, stereotypical or not isnt going out like that, he is going to be a man and get his respect... women simply dont like men thay can walk over... a woman may tell you she wants a vunerable guy who can cry and show his emotions.... BULLSHIT they want to be with a man that loves them, but demands his respect and isnt going to give up being a man...

this prolly has alot more to do with the topic than the notion that a balck guy has some kind of special innate ability to please women. i suppose it boils down to the fact ( and this is my oppinion only ) that a black guy is less likley to let a woman put him in a sweater vest and have him watching terms of endearment and carrying around a baby in a papoose sack than a white guy... because once you do all that you might as well get a sex change...

LMAO...so true

[Adam_Thompson]

I had a white chick slap me, about 23 white people call me nigger, and been in about 4 racial fights. Maybe I should not talk to white people?
I mean I've had so many bad experiences with them.

[Adam_Thompson]

Ive only been assaulted by black men. So I'll disagree

Im gonna go out on a limb here and just say it... Ive known TSgirls for some time now and many have had bad experiences with black clients... Holly has been robbed twice and beaten up by the first guy, who she ended up using a stun gun on, both men were black and she hasnt had any issues with any other clients... now she simply refuses to see anyone who calls her and strts the conversation with " Whats up boo, how u doing girl "

She politley told a black caller that she couldnt see him just yesterday and he called back threatening to find her hotel and rob her.

I dont think black people are any worse that any other race, after two 6 month tours in Iraq I learned that every race has a pretty equal race of good and bad people. every black soldier under my command was solid and would have followed me anywhere in combat and drug me out of harm if I was injured...

since the majority of escort clients are middle aged white buisness men that are mostly too timid to ever get violent with a girl many many many TS escorts only see old white guys... I can name at least 20 right off the top of my head...

Now Holly will occasionally see a black client, normally they are regulars or guys who come off sounding white over the phone and when they arrive at her door they are usually in a jacket and tie on the way home from work. If he is wearing timberlands and street clothes or in any way appears thuggish, most girls will not see them.

I dont think Cherri was being racist, I am sure if you get assaulted or robbed by someone that you will tend to avoid similar types of people... thats human nature...

I believe she was being serious...


so is it the age or race..I mean middle aged married white guys and young black "thugs". Are young white guys the same as young black dudes or are older middle aged black men "dangerous" too?
I mean I'm a young black dude and I don't know many brothers that get with hookers, but I have plenty of white buddies who openly do.

[Daebo]

White people be scary i swear.

[Adam_Thompson]

White people be scary i swear.

Yeah they sho be scary boss (does coon shuffle)

[WendyWilliams]

LOL I swear people cant have a intelligent debate without some idiot to come along.

For your information MANY of my clients are young to middle aged black professional males and thugs.........just because they arent screaming it from rooftops doesnt mean it isnt happening.

Both of the men who I had problems with where in late twenties early 30s.

And I said in my statement that I, speaking only from me had no problems with any other race physically..............Only problems Ive had with other "young" guys white, itallian, etcc are showing up thinking their good looks would get them a freebie, LOL

[Quinn]

White people be scary i swear.

U b illin. Das whack, yo.

-Quinn

[Daebo]

Adam it sound like they want a "RACE WAR".

[Adam_Thompson]

LOL I swear people cant have a intelligent debate without some idiot to come along.

For your information MANY of my clients are young to middle aged black professional males and thugs.........just because they arent screaming it from rooftops doesnt mean it isnt happening.

Both of the men who I had problems with where in late twenties early 30s.

And I said in my statement that I, speaking only from me had no problems with any other race physically..............Only problems Ive had with other "young" guys white, itallian, etcc are showing up thinking their good looks would get them a freebie, LOL

I'm sorry
but is it a intelligent or 'an' intelligent ?

Really I was wondering if older black men rob and beat up hookers? I mean I can understand some young thug black or white doing this. I just can't picture one of my uncles doing something like this. I don't knock you girls for avoiding thugs altogether, but OTHER girls associating black men kinda gets to me. I've known many fucked up racist white people, yet I treat everyone the same. But for you I guess it's business. I definitely wouldn't want to visit a hooker that lives in the hood or is smoking bud and sounding like female thug. I'd be worried the bitch would try to rob ME! or at least steal my wallet.

[lahabra1976]

Guys don't forget that there are two kind of black people, Black people and ... (I won't say the word)

[Adam_Thompson]

you're still one of my favorites Wendy. You have that look to you. That "I love brothas" look.

[brickcitybrother]

Am I the only one alarmed by the fact that she's slept with enough men to create what she feels to be an adequate statistical sample?

God damn slut.

Now that's an astute observation.

[brickcitybrother]

Now who's up for a skillfull BJ? J/k LOL. :lol: :wink:

~Kisses.

HTG


Ummmm.... That's a great X-mas idea. lol

[cheribaum]

I dont know if anyone has said that they decided to completly stay away from black people because of their bad experiences. I have had more young white types come and treat me just the same as middle aged white men because to be honest black clients are very rare. I have had several nice middle aged black males treat me exceptionally well. I've never had any young black men show up. The one black male I mention in my above posts was also middle aged. Again If you sound thug I dont get involved EVEN IF YOU ARE WHITE, BLACK OR LATINO. Its irrelevant but my genetic sister is married to a black man and race doesnt play any part in mine our relationship. He's a good guy! Also it wasnt until I moved to the MidWest when I had actual white friends because in San Antonio, TX. the majority is black and hispanic so being white appearing, I would get a lot of shit for being WHITE if you can believe that!!!! I cant justify why it has only been black males that I have encountered problems with. Not to mention the beautiful scar of a high heel on my once flawless forehead I recieved from a black prostitute pimp who accused me of taking her money from the streets.....oi vey!!!

[popperluv]

Guys don't forget that there are two kind of black people, Black people and ... (I won't say the word)


ChrisRock said it best.


This tread is bound to get ugly someone should lock it or delete it.

[ezed]

A remarkable essay by a woman who prefers black men to white. Do African-American men have a knack for combining maschismo, sexuality and gallantry that white guys don't?

Black men have something white guys don't have anymore: confidence in their masculinity, their sexuality. They clearly know they're men. White men appear to be waiting for the latest sociological research study to let them know if they are men or not. Yet black men are gentlemen, something else white men no longer are. They make me feel like a woman, both respected and desired.

I don't feel a need to have an opinion about another's sexuality, especially if it brings them joy.

But since I returned to the American South and live in a racially mixed neighborhood it really has struck me how readily and gracefully black men and women flirt with one another in public.



http://www.nypress.com/18/49/news&columns/SusanCrainBakos.cfm

Obviously, this girl hasn't met the midget irishman from Nantucket. They said his cock was so long he could suck it! He said with a grin, as he pulled it again ..... unfortunately he never finished, he lost his grip and it snapped back and whacked him in the forehead, knocking him out. :?

But the girls loved him, they'd pick him up, twirl him around and insert him here and there! He'd always smile and let out a mischievous "AARRRHHH!" when entering a warm hole. Last I heard, he was working for Santa as a mischievous elf satisfying all the girls who were Naughty AND Nice! He goes by "DICK THE ELF".

It's a true story, ask anyone on Nantucket! :!:

[Hugh Jarrod]

Dam Mormons! Oh sorry wrong thread.