just venting......

[amberskyi]

i wish i was born a woman.
im so tired of being into a guy just to find out he fucked like 3 or 4 trannies i know.

[FreddieGomez]

ive only fucked one. real talk

[PomonaCA]

Well I haven't fucked 3 or 4 trannies that you know. But I have SUCKED 3 or 4 you know..... feel better? :D

[amberskyi]

ive only fucked one. real talk

lol..

[Mayrah]

Thats a wish we all want to become true :(

And its not nice finding that out from that guy when you like him..

[wendell]

I know it's horrible when you find out someone you really like has slept with people you know but it doesn't mean you can't have a great relationship Amber. At the end of the day we've all shagged other people at least, if they were your friends, you know he has good taste in women. If you genuinely like him don't let that put you off you could be denying yourself something brilliant...indulge yourself instead that's always much better in my experience.

[amberskyi]

Well I haven't fucked 3 or 4 trannies that you know. But I have SUCKED 3 or 4 you know..... feel better? :D

i dont really care how many tgirls a guys been with...its just a huge turn off when i personally know the ts girls hes been with.

[amberskyi]

I know it's horrible when you find out someone you really like has slept with people you know but it doesn't mean you can't have a great relationship Amber. At the end of the day we've all shagged other people at least, if they were your friends, you know he has good taste in women. If you genuinely like him don't let that put you off you could be denying yourself something brilliant...indulge yourself instead that's always much better in my experience.

i never said they were my friends lol...and who said they were great people? i just prefer guys who have limited experience (less drama).

[PomonaCA]

i dont really care how many tgirls a guys been with...its just a huge turn off when i personally know the ts girls hes been with.

You butchered it. I said YOU KNOW them. It was a joke.

[Ryz]

i wish i was born a woman.
im so tired of being into a guy just to find out he fucked like 3 or 4 trannies i know.

Oh jeez

[wendell]

Ah I see, sorry I misunderstood...well fuck that if you're not even friends Amber where does the drama come from? Just go for it.

[FreddieGomez]

i dont believe in fucking several trannies. i'm very picky

[amberskyi]

Oh jeez
whats the problem?

[amberskyi]

Ah I see, sorry I misunderstood...well fuck that if you're not even friends Amber where does the drama come from? Just go for it.

i guess its the way he knows some of these girls. one or two of them were girls he paid.the other one was a just sex thing.while he says im the first girl he wants to get to know on a social/intimate level or whatever im concerned he might be a chaser.

[Ryz]

i dont believe in fucking several trannies. i'm very picky

Man... You only live once

[amberskyi]

i dont believe in fucking several trannies. i'm very picky

yea, okay

[FreddieGomez]

Man... You only live once

dont care. i get enough pussy...trannies on the other hand, are different for me.

[wendell]

I'd cut him a break if I were you Amber. You already like him so he must be pretty okay. If he is a chaser then you'll find out soon enough and can leave him, theres not much to lose and might be loads to gain.

[Ryz]

whats the problem?
Oh nothing miss.

i guess its the way he knows some of these girls. one or two of them were girls he paid.the other one was a just sex thing.while he says im the first girl he wants to get to know on a social/intimate level or whatever im concerned he might be a chaser.

Eh, if the girls you know who he fucked were linebackers in wigs. Only THEN should you be concerned

[hwbs]

you are young it only gets worse from here....most here have no idea how small this community is and how everyone knows everyone practically...

[runningdownthatdream]

i wish i was born a woman.
im so tired of being into a guy just to find out he fucked like 3 or 4 trannies i know.

.....so women who were born women don't get concerned if the guy they're interested in fucks 3 or 4 of their friends who were also born women? If this is true - HALLE-fucking-LUJAH! Now I'm sorry for not screwing the girlfriends of my girlfriends.

[onmyknees]

Yea....I don't think being born a woman is going to stop cheaters from cheatin' baby ! It's a problem as old as civilazation itself. Me personally ?? I'm kinda glad you were born the way you were....look at you now ! I enjoy seeing your pictures ( except that one from seanchi...LOL) ....but that's just me being selfish !

And btw...where's this dude finding all these tranny's ........damn !! LOL

[amberskyi]

.....so women who were born women don't get concerned if the guy they're interested in fucks 3 or 4 of their friends who were also born women? If this is true - HALLE-fucking-LUJAH! Now I'm sorry for not screwing the girlfriends of my girlfriends.

no but this community is smaller so theres more recycling of men i guess.i talked to my sister about this and while she has ran into guys who have dated a friend of hers its never happen to her as frequently as it has happened to me.nor has the guy ever been with more than two girls she knows.

[beandip]

,,,maybe you need to get out more. Hang in different places. Get new interests....

There's probably only a few million people in a 50 mile radius of where you hang......just sayin'

LOL

[runningdownthatdream]

no but this community is smaller so theres more recycling of men i guess.i talked to my sister about this and while she has ran into guys who have dated a friend of hers its never happen to her as frequently as it has happened to me.nor has the guy ever been with more than two girls she knows.

Understand what you're saying although the same could be said if you were a part of any number of other communities. It has to be frustrating though to be surrounded with people who are intimately connected to each other. I don't see how you could get away from that short of moving or expanding your circle of eligible prospects.

[amberskyi]

Understand what you're saying although the same could be said if you were a part of any number of other communities. It has to be frustrating though to be surrounded with people who are intimately connected to each other. I don't see how you could get away from that short of moving or expanding your circle of eligible prospects.

its something that only happens to me with guys i meet off of trans oriented dating sites.hes the last guy ill probably meet off of such a site.

[runningdownthatdream]

its something that only happens to me with guys i meet off of trans oriented dating sites.hes the last guy ill probably meet off of such a site.

That would help - if you're meeting guys who are looking for such a specific type of person (transgender) in a specific location (New York) then chances are they have met other women like yourself in your location.

Good luck finding the right person - it's not easy under any circumstances but I have learned that dating sites won't get it done for me nor will actively seeking. I'm trying a more Zen approach.........

[MizRoxxy]

no but this community is smaller so theres more recycling of men i guess.i talked to my sister about this and while she has ran into guys who have dated a friend of hers its never happen to her as frequently as it has happened to me.nor has the guy ever been with more than two girls she knows.


Its about how you meet these men as well. Lets say i meet a guy off of like hungangels or something like that , of course he is gonna have some background with ts, its to be expected, and they did. But the guys i meet IRL through normal interaction are different , i mean its surprising how many guys are really into ts when its brought to them, well i shouldnt say into ts per se but let me explain the situation im describing. In normal life a guy that has only herd of ts or that is pretty open in general and he see's an attractive girl but doesnt know she is ts and but eventually finds out whether she tells him or he hears from other people, and he still persues something. thats what happens usualy happens with me, so thats why i say it all depends on how you meet these guys bc of course if you meet them in some form of the ts scene they are gonna have some background of it.

[CORVETTEDUDE]

i wish i was born a woman.
im so tired of being into a guy just to find out he fucked like 3 or 4 trannies i know.


Maybe you need to raise your standards....:shrug

[nonnonnon]

or lower them. call me!

[fred41]

And btw...where's this dude finding all these tranny's ........damn !! LOL

Queens, N.Y. Goddammit don't you read...haven't you been keeping up??!!...:):):)

[BellaBellucci]

i never said they were my friends lol...and who said they were great people? i just prefer guys who have limited experience (less drama).

Be careful! That's awfully close to saying, 'I don't like guys who like trannies.' And you know how these boys feel about that expression.

But yeah, I agree 1000%. A chaser today is a chaser tomorrow is a chaser in the grave. Once they get involved in the scene on that level, there's really no more hope for them. :(

~BB~

[amberskyi]

Queens, N.Y. Goddammit don't you read...haven't you been keeping up??!!...:):):)

ugh..i hate queens.im so trying to move

[amberskyi]

Be careful! That's awfully close to saying, 'I don't like guys who like trannies.' And you know how these boys feel about that expression.

But yeah, I agree 1000%. A chaser today is a chaser tomorrow is a chaser in the grave. Once they get involved in the scene on that level, there's really no more hope for them. :(

~BB~

i know right,dont imply that your not into trans oriented guys.theyll come with pitch forks and torches

[amberskyi]

Its about how you meet these men as well. Lets say i meet a guy off of like hungangels or something like that , of course he is gonna have some background with ts, its to be expected, and they did. But the guys i meet IRL through normal interaction are different , i mean its surprising how many guys are really into ts when its brought to them, well i shouldnt say into ts per se but let me explain the situation im describing. In normal life a guy that has only herd of ts or that is pretty open in general and he see's an attractive girl but doesnt know she is ts and but eventually finds out whether she tells him or he hears from other people, and he still persues something. thats what happens usualy happens with me, so thats why i say it all depends on how you meet these guys bc of course if you meet them in some form of the ts scene they are gonna have some background of it.

what you described is how i meet my last ex so i guess ill stick to what works lol

[fred41]

ugh..i hate queens.im so trying to move

It has it's advantages...Sunnyside is nice because it has everything walking distance...L.I.C. has the developing waterfront (which I can't afford right now)...Forest hills was very nice....Forest Hills Gardens is for rich folk.
I would of course prefer Manhattan..but after my divorce...the area I would prefer in Manhattan (or Brooklyn) is unaffordable to me right now.
doesn't really matter anyhow, because when I retire (much as I really do love N.Y.C.) I'll probably leave.

[oak]

So Amber,are you saying you're single now......?:pumped::pumped:

[blckhaze]

Thats the dissadvantage of this world

1) The dating pool is smaller
2) the ts social network is more tightly knit than females (seems like almost very ts knows each other personally or friend of a friend)
3) even after agenuine breakup, guys can still be labelled off and basically outcast.

[Infern0]

Stop sleeping with tossers then.

simples.

[amberskyi]

Stop sleeping with tossers then.

simples.

tossers?

[Infern0]

tossers?

Yeah, Tossers.

find someone decent, look outside of your normal circles would be my advice.

[Birgitta]

Maybe reducing the amount of Tfriends helps :)
lol

[Infern0]

Maybe reducing the amount of Tfriends helps :)
lol

I know Ggirls who have the exact same problem, ITs just that the whole "crowd" sleep with each other, everyone has slept with everyone else at some point, these sort of people might be good friends but are not relationship material.

[wendell]

I don't understand the negative stigma that seems to be attatched to sex on this forum. Amber if i'm misreading what you're saying then I apologise profusely, but it seems you're arguing that this man wouldn't make a decent partner as he's had casual sex with some transgendered women. That's a bit Amish isn't it? If i'm with someone I really like and I ''discover'' [as if one should be ashamed] that they have had multiple partners I wouldn't give a monkey's toss. Similarly if someone I had a great time with didn't want anything to do with me because i'd had plenty of casual sex i'd personally feel I had a lucky escape from an extremely shallow individual.

I'd have thought the best way to judge if this man you like is a ''chaser'' is to get to know him rather than pre judge him by a set, of what I consider puritan ideals. Again if i've misread your position i'm sorry you seem like a nice person Amber but Iyour reasoning fpor leaving a man you like is, I believe, heavily flawed.

[Mayrah]

I don't understand the negative stigma that seems to be attatched to sex on this forum. Amber if i'm misreading what you're saying then I apologise profusely, but it seems you're arguing that this man wouldn't make a decent partner as he's had casual sex with some transgendered women. That's a bit Amish isn't it? If i'm with someone I really like and I ''discover'' [as if one should be ashamed] that they have had multiple partners I wouldn't give a monkey's toss. Similarly if someone I had a great time with didn't want anything to do with me because i'd had plenty of casual sex i'd personally feel I had a lucky escape from an extremely shallow individual.

I'd have thought the best way to judge if this man you like is a ''chaser'' is to get to know him rather than pre judge him by a set, of what I consider puritan ideals. Again if i've misread your position i'm sorry you seem like a nice person Amber but Iyour reasoning fpor leaving a man you like is, I believe, heavily flawed.

Women doesnt like it when a guy has gone down on 4 people they know:)

[wendell]

But they're not even friends Mayrah. I can understand it being awkward when someone you liked has slept with people really close to you...but to throw away a relationship with someone you like becuase they've had sex with people you've met just seems masochistic.

[Mayrah]

But they're not even friends Mayrah. I can understand it being awkward when someone you liked has slept with people really close to you...but to throw away a relationship with someone you like becuase they've had sex with people you've met just seems masochistic.

Not when you have the chance running into these people alot

Its like going hand in hand to the supermarket and you run into the escort he used to go to, 1 and a half week later you decide to go see a movie, again you run into another.. its akward

[wendell]

We just have different opinions there Mayrah. I could understand if I was bumping into people my partner had had a serious relationship with all the time that i'd be put slightly on edge but casual sex? I'm not bothered, they're with me now and i'm not remotely intimidated by the knowledge my lover has had a sexual history.but then I don't get the attraction to virgins so maybe my tastes are simple skewed in that respect.

[Mayrah]

We just have different opinions there Mayrah..

Indeed. Your right thought from the start though, if she isnt gonna try she will never know.

[bte]

i wish i was born a woman.
im so tired of being into a guy just to find out he fucked like 3 or 4 trannies i know.

What if you were born a woman and a guy you was into fuck like 3 or 4 GGs you know.

[Silcc69]

What if you were born a woman and a guy you was into fuck like 3 or 4 GGs you know.

LMAO

Yo Amber why are you neglecting my ass now. :(:(

[amberskyi]

What if you were born a woman and a guy you was into fuck like 3 or 4 GGs you know.

i wouldnt give him the time of day either.
i was just saying based on my experience and the experience of my ts friends this type of thing seems to happen more often with us.usually only with self identifying "ts admirer" or guys actively seeking out ts girls.

[bte]

i wouldnt give him the time of day either.
i was just saying based on my experience and the experience of my ts friends this type of thing seems to happen more often with us.usually only with self identifying "ts admirer" or guys actively seeking out ts girls.

Ah I see what you saying. Due to relatively small community of TS, it is more likely that you will meet a guy that had sex with a TS friend of yours. I see, well that sucks.

[BLKGSXR]

you're all highly mistake if you think this community is small..It isnt...

[BellaBellucci]

you're all highly mistake if you think this community is small..It isnt...

Trans people are everywhere, but the 'community,' consisting of just a fraction of slightly less than 10% of the general population, is most certainly very small.

I'm not 'mistake.' As usual you have no clue what you're talking about.

~BB~

[rockabilly]

The community is like a "6 degrees of separation" thing?

[ed_jaxon]

you're all highly mistake if you think this community is small..It isnt...

you're right

its tiny.

Like a High School with only 50 kids.

[onmyknees]

Be careful! That's awfully close to saying, 'I don't like guys who like trannies.' And you know how these boys feel about that expression.

But yeah, I agree 1000%. A chaser today is a chaser tomorrow is a chaser in the grave. Once they get involved in the scene on that level, there's really no more hope for them. :(

~BB~

I get a kick outta you gurls....really. I wondered how long it was going to be before this dude got a "chaser" tag hung on his ass. Again...the question as to what the difference would be if this happened to a gg has been asked 3 different ways, and remains unanswered. It's not that hard...really it's not. The fact of the matter is.......there is no difference, except the adjective...which in that case he'd be a playa. What's a guy that likes variety to do ? LMAO Sorry Bella.........Fail !!!!!! LOL

[Yvonne183]

I'm just trying to figure this out, cause I confuse easily. lol

If the "T" community is about 10% give or take, then in the US that means that 30 million people are in the "T" community. I don't know the ratio of girls to men would be and I don't know how to include FtM people, but if the ratio is 70-men to 30 girls(cause I see more men than girls here lol), then roughly 20 million are men and 10 million are girls,, I ain't good at math, but I think that's close enough. So out of all these millions of people, one can't find a man who hasn't slept with one of their friends?

PS-I did forget one thing,, some guys might have had sex with many tgirls which would make my numbers all wrong. Ya gotta understand, i am a blonde with pink hair and i confuse easily.

PS-2- Also, I have no friends so this topic wouldn't be a problem for me.

[ed_jaxon]

I always thought that those that were gay, either out or in was the 10% figure.

Either way there are only a few areas of the country that have active party scenes and many of the girls go and visit. Guys too. We become friends, hook up and bam! before you know it you have fucked someone Amber knows.

[rockabilly]

Not me. lol

[sexyasianescorts]

Thats men in general darling its the same from most angles a good man is hard to find x

[BellaBellucci]

I get a kick outta you gurls....really. I wondered how long it was going to be before this dude got a "chaser" tag hung on his ass. Again...the question as to what the difference would be if this happened to a gg has been asked 3 different ways, and remains unanswered. It's not that hard...really it's not. The fact of the matter is.......there is no difference, except the adjective...which in that case he'd be a playa. What's a guy that likes variety to do ? LMAO Sorry Bella.........Fail !!!!!! LOL

I didn't call anyone a chaser. I was speaking rhetorically. I also spent quite a bit of time explaining my definition of a 'chaser' in another thread... one which you've read, so I'm sure you know that.

FAIL yourself! :lol:


I always thought that those that were gay, either out or in was the 10% figure.

Exactly. Transpeople are like 10% of the 10%, and those involved in the so-called community are probably less than half of that. :geek:

~BB~

[FreddieGomez]

i only been with one trannie and she's not on the radar. i'm not one of those dudes who fucks with alot of trannies. i prefer the less popular but still passable types.

[onmyknees]

I didn't call anyone a chaser. I was speaking rhetorically. I also spent quite a bit of time explaining my definition of a 'chaser' in another thread... one which you've read, so I'm sure you know that.

FAIL yourself! :lol:



Exactly. Transpeople are like 10% of the 10%, and those involved in the so-called community are probably less than half of that. :geek:

~BB~


Ah yes...rhetorically speaking...I was just defending chasers !! LOL

Ok maybe it wasn't a total FAIL, but I enjoy saying that to you ...LMAO..

[amberskyi]

I get a kick outta you gurls....really. I wondered how long it was going to be before this dude got a "chaser" tag hung on his ass. Again...the question as to what the difference would be if this happened to a gg has been asked 3 different ways, and remains unanswered. It's not that hard...really it's not. The fact of the matter is.......there is no difference, except the adjective...which in that case he'd be a playa. What's a guy that likes variety to do ? LMAO Sorry Bella.........Fail !!!!!! LOL

the question actually was answered.the fail is your poor comprehension

[fred41]

Folks like Bella, Amber, Hollywood and Ed are exactly right...especially since your talking about the Party, adult business world of girls...extremely small....and after awhile everyone knows who's seeing who and so on. The working girls can be extremely catty too...much more so than GGs outside the "business". There are different cliques too...but information gets sent around extremely fast.

[onmyknees]

the question actually was answered.the fail is your poor comprehension

and your fail is to keep your man from straying !!!!! Nuff said.

[amberskyi]

and your fail is to keep your man from straying !!!!! Nuff said.

theres goes your faulty comprehension skills again.
okay jackass lets break it down:
a)hes not my man
b)he fucked these girls before he meet me.
re-read my original post very slowly so you catch everything,okay buttercup?

ps.
the next time you try to come for someone,come correct

"nuff said" lmao loser

[amberskyi]

Folks like Bella, Amber, Hollywood and Ed are exactly right...especially since your talking about the Party, adult business world of girls...extremely small....and after awhile everyone knows who's seeing who and so on. The working girls can be extremely catty too...much more so than GGs outside the "business". There are different cliques too...but information gets sent around extremely fast.

im actually not that involved in the scene.i try to avoid it as much as possible but like it was stated just being a ts makes me apart of a community whether i like it or not (esp in ny).in our community words spreads really really fast no matter how private i try to be :(

[rockabilly]

Ya better check yourself before you wreck yourself.

Amber wants a nice guy who's not in the scene but is cool w/ her.

[BLKGSXR]

theres goes your faulty comprehension skills again.
okay jackass lets break it down:
a)hes not my man
b)he fucked these girls before he meet me.
re-read my original post very slowly so you catch everything,okay buttercup?

ps.
the next time you try to come for someone,come correct

"nuff said" lmao loser
so if hes not your man and he fucked these girls before he met you why make it such a big deal? does he ask how many guys youve had sex with pleasure or work?

[amberskyi]

so if hes not your man and he fucked these girls before he met you why make it such a big deal? does he ask how many guys youve had sex with pleasure or work?

i can always count on you gsxr...**rolls eyes**
sorry that i prefer to not fuck someone thats fucked a bunch of people i know.i wonder how many of you guys would date a chick whos fucked your crew??
also gsx as you know im working less and less with the goal of leaving the industry all together.its kinda a non issue between us.
thanks for your um...input?

[amberskyi]

Ya better check yourself before you wreck yourself.

Amber wants a nice guy who's not in the scene but is cool w/ her.

lol...:)

[BLKGSXR]

i can always count on you gsxr...**rolls eyes**
sorry that i prefer to not fuck someone thats fucked a bunch of people i know.i wonder how many of you guys would date a chick whos fucked your crew??
also gsx as you know im working less and less with the goal of leaving the industry all together.its kinda a non issue between us.
thanks for your um...input?
do you know them personally or know of them? that what I meant...if you merely know of them you trippen B.

[amberskyi]

do you know them personally or know of them? that what I meant...if you merely know of them you trippen B.

B? im sorry,did i just wonder onto a bad hip hop video? lmao

[BellaBellucci]

B? im sorry,did i just wonder onto a bad hip hop video? lmao

You're sexy when you're mean, especially when you're right. :fuckin:

~BB~

[amberskyi]

You're sexy when you're mean, especially when you're right. :fuckin:

~BB~

**blushing hard**
why does everyone tell me that tho lol.i always try to be the sweet girl next door type but i guess i grew out of it (like someone recently told me).

[dderek123]

i wish i was born a woman.
im so tired of being into a guy just to find out he fucked like 3 or 4 trannies i know.
I imagine that this happens to attractive GGs as well.

[arnie666]

i wish i was born a woman.
im so tired of being into a guy just to find out he fucked like 3 or 4 trannies i know.


Maybe Iam just being rather thick, but if you were born a woman you may well know other women your boyfriend or husband has been with. It can create tension yes but I fail to see how being born a woman would help in this particular situation.

If you mean you don't want a man who has been with other trannies, personally I think that is completely stupid if he treats you how you want to be treated who cares?

I think some trannies need to be more openminded with relationships because this idea of a golden man who is okay with their extra bits and all it entails, let's face it there is far more too a relationship than just fucking them, as well as does not in any way find transexuals attractive is unrealistic.

[amberskyi]

Maybe Iam just being rather thick, but if you were born a woman you may well know other women your boyfriend or husband has been with. It can create tension yes but I fail to see how being born a woman would help in this particular situation.

If you mean you don't want a man who has been with other trannies, personally I think that is completely stupid if he treats you how you want to be treated who cares?

I think some trannies need to be more openminded with relationships because this idea of a golden man who is okay with their extra bits and all it entails, let's face it there is far more too a relationship than just fucking them, as well as does not in any way find transexuals attractive is unrealistic.

please reread the thread...explaining myself over and over again is beyond redundant

[cheez]

Well why not expand your dating pool? A couple of years ago, sunny used to have her parties at a gay club on sunday nights. I didn't want to go to a gay club because I thought it didn't make sense because I wasn't looking for guys.
You could advertise a t-girl bowling sunday (or any other normal, not porn party/stripper type activity), so guys would still know there were going to be t-girls there, but in a normal setting. You might get a different crowd of guys than the ones who show up at the parties.
I know I rarely go to the parties, so maybe a lot of other guys who don't like the scene, don't go either.
All I know is, the parties are conducive for the guys who only want to get laid because you pay and get your dick sucked, guaranteed. That's the atmosphere.
So maybe some of you girls just need to change the game up so you meet a different crew of guys.

[slingblade]

Its about how you meet these men as well. Lets say i meet a guy off of like hungangels or something like that , of course he is gonna have some background with ts, its to be expected, and they did. But the guys i meet IRL through normal interaction are different , i mean its surprising how many guys are really into ts when its brought to them, well i shouldnt say into ts per se but let me explain the situation im describing. In normal life a guy that has only herd of ts or that is pretty open in general and he see's an attractive girl but doesnt know she is ts and but eventually finds out whether she tells him or he hears from other people, and he still persues something. thats what happens usualy happens with me, so thats why i say it all depends on how you meet these guys bc of course if you meet them in some form of the ts scene they are gonna have some background of it.

If a TS is really hot a guy is still going to want to fuck her reguardless if hes never been with a tranny or not. it depends on how the TS looks and you baby guys are still going to want to fuck you reguardless when they find out or any other hot TS theyre still going to want to fuck them because theyre hot women period!!

[slingblade]

i wish i was born a woman.
im so tired of being into a guy just to find out he fucked like 3 or 4 trannies i know.

Guys love trannys when there are more trannys in the world then chances are that you will find more guys who haven't fucked trannys you know. :)