Virgin At 23.......

[bj_boy]

Yep.

My pic shows that I have a nice body....that was me at 20......im good looking...very good sized cock (if i do say so myself)..good with girls....

However, it all falls down when it gets to the point where I have to take things further I run away. Its been over 3.5 years since I even kissed a girl.

Anyone else been through anything like this??

[LibertyHarkness]

what you need is a stuntcock to handle those tricky moments for you :)

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Its all about confidence baby :) but your a mere pup so lots of years to learn yet .

[bj_boy]

what you need is a stuntcock to handle those tricky moments for you :)

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Its all about confidence baby :) but your a mere pup so lots of years to learn yet .

lol........

think its one of those things.....because its been so long....it gets built up......

i have considered seeing an escort.....but just dont really want to as I could get girls if i wasnt such a pussy! lol

even had to turn down some AMAZING ts girls.....

:(

[LibertyHarkness]

then your not ready for a casual sex encounter .. not everyone likes casual sex you know ..i dont have casual sex .... hence i am celibate outside of porn lol

[bj_boy]

then your not ready for a casual sex encounter .. not everyone likes casual sex you know ..i dont have casual sex .... hence i am celibate outside of porn lol

Really?? Guess the stereotypical view about girls in porn is incorrect again.

Let me know when u decide to live otherwise and we can see if you theories about me are true!

[LibertyHarkness]

casual sex has no purpose to me, been and done it , got the tshirt ... i am alot older than you as well :)

[Jericho]

casual sex has no purpose to me, been and done it , got the tshirt ... i am alot older than you as well :)

Don't destroy his illusions, you old bat! :hide-1:

[nonnonnon]

I don't believe ya

[Equalizer]

Yep.

My pic shows that I have a nice body....that was me at 20......im good looking...very good sized cock (if i do say so myself)..good with girls....

However, it all falls down when it gets to the point where I have to take things further I run away. Its been over 3.5 years since I even kissed a girl.

Anyone else been through anything like this??

Go to eros, call a really hot bitch you find there, and be done with it... :fuckin:

you will pay more for a regular girlfriend, and have much less fun...

[Infern0]

The problem for you is that it's become a "problem" if that makes sense.

It doesn't have to be, i'ts nothing to be ashamed of.

My advice is to find a nice, caring girl to lose your virginity to, not one of these escorts.

you can only lose it one time, lose it to someone who matters to you, and you matter to, bud.

[Equalizer]

The problem for you is that it's become a "problem" if that makes sense.

It doesn't have to be, i'ts nothing to be ashamed of.

My advice is to find a nice, caring girl to lose your virginity to, not one of these escorts.

you can only lose it one time, lose it to someone who matters to you, and you matter to, bud.

He needs to break ice, and lets be honest, most girls arent nice and caring, but look at their interest...

so its better witha provider, becaouse shes at least honest, emotionally.

[Equalizer]

lol........

but just dont really want to as I could get girls if i wasnt such a pussy! lol

:(

go to an escort, becaouse its no strings attached, so you dont need to be afraid of the relationship shit

[Yvonne183]

Yep.

My pic shows that I have a nice body....that was me at 20......im good looking...very good sized cock (if i do say so myself)..good with girls....

However, it all falls down when it gets to the point where I have to take things further I run away. Its been over 3.5 years since I even kissed a girl.

Anyone else been through anything like this??

I am similar, I haven't kissed a girl in over ten years.

I also say go to an escort, then at least one of ya's will know how to do it.

Well,, then again, doing it with someone you love does sound like the things movies are made of.

Don't mind me,, I don't always think straight,,,,,,lol,, I said straight,,,,

[MrF]

Inferno0's advice was pretty good.

When I was your age I also went through some long dry spells and it was more a function of not wanting to be with someone unless I really cared about that person. No sex without love, for me, at that time.

From that point onwards I evolved in various ways, sowed my wild oats for awhile, and emerged unscathed. Now I'm fairly calm.

In retrospect, I liked myself better when I was young, so the best advice is to stay the way you are and find a nice girl. Perhaps tell her you are a virgin. Open dialog and honesty.

[rockabilly]

Virgin at 23 ?

I got that record beat.

You'll get all sorts of advice here , see an escort / find a nice girl you care about blah blah ... just do what feels right for you.

[Infern0]

If you go to an escort to lose your virginity you will regret it for your whole life

well, probably not, but i wouldnt do it personally.

you just need to get out and start talking to people.

[Equalizer]

If you go to an escort to lose your virginity you will regret it for your whole life

well, probably not, but i wouldnt do it personally.

you just need to get out and start talking to people.

losing virginity to some drunk fat bitch sucks

losing it to a great looking tranny is not bad...:jerkoff

[LibertyHarkness]

just goto springbreak ....problem solved ..

[bj_boy]

losing virginity to some drunk fat bitch sucks

losing it to a great looking tranny is not bad...:jerkoff

haha.....it would be a hot female escort I would use tho.....at first......

[Super_dave]

Like they say in 40 year old Virgin, don't put the pussy on a pedestal! Girls like to fuck just as much as guys do. There is every kind of girl out there from the ones who won't put out unless they're married to the ones out looking for a casual fuck. Definitely be upfront about being a virgin though, some chick might think it's cute and wanna 'help you out'...

[Jackal]

losing it to a great looking tranny is not bad...:jerkoff


That's what I did

[Equalizer]

haha.....it would be a hot female escort I would use tho.....at first......

Well, fucking tranny ass feels better than pussy, btw.

[Quiet Reflections]

Being a virgin at 23 isn't that bad but I would watch the advice you get from people online. Remember that its your life nobody else has to live it.

[Equalizer]

you re just not ready . i lost my virginity at 22. it will get your turn soon or later..fishii

wow, thats suprising.

[BigDF]

The problem for you is that it's become a "problem" if that makes sense.

It doesn't have to be, i'ts nothing to be ashamed of.

My advice is to find a nice, caring girl to lose your virginity to, not one of these escorts.

you can only lose it one time, lose it to someone who matters to you, and you matter to, bud.Excellent advice, bud. I've had this problem most of my life and I'm going to suggest you see a doctor and find out if you have some sort of medical problem. In my case it was because I don't produce enough testosterone on my own, which can lead to other problems down the road, because in addition to the sexual stuff, testosterone apparently controls how much calcium gets to your bones.

BTW, you can discount 90% of what other guys are telling you about their sexual prowess: it's bullshit. Sex stories are like fishing stories, most of the time they're fantasies about the one that got away. I got married the first time when I was 21 and we were together for six months before I actually came inside her. Don't worry so much about getting laid, instead try to find someone that you like to spend time with and take it from there. Things will work out in their own time.

Good luck to you.

[Equalizer]

Excellent advice, bud. I've had this problem most of my life and I'm going to suggest you see a doctor and find out if you have some sort of medical problem. In my case it was because I don't produce enough testosterone on my own, which can lead to other problems down the road, because in addition to the sexual stuff, testosterone apparently controls how much calcium gets to your bones.

BTW, you can discount 90% of what other guys are telling you about their sexual prowess: it's bullshit. Sex stories are like fishing stories, most of the time they're fantasies about the one that got away. I got married the first time when I was 21 and we were together for six months before I actually came inside her. Don't worry so much about getting laid, instead try to find someone that you like to spend time with and take it from there. Things will work out in their own time.

Good luck to you.

With $$$$$ fantasy becomes reality...

[lisaparadise]

then your not ready for a casual sex encounter .. not everyone likes casual sex you know ..i dont have casual sex .... hence i am celibate outside of porn lolya me too ive never had sex outside of work without the money factor i doubt id have any fun to be honest.

[amberskyi]

i probably shoulda cared more about my virginity...oh well
i have a friend who lost hers while escorting.saddest thing ever.you know she's now all types of crazy lol

[Equalizer]

Yep.

My pic shows that I have a nice body....that was me at 20......im good looking...very good sized cock (if i do say so myself)..good with girls....

However, it all falls down when it gets to the point where I have to take things further I run away. Its been over 3.5 years since I even kissed a girl.

Anyone else been through anything like this??

do this buddy, take a glass of two of some fine brandy, call a hot shemale bitch from eros... tell her your problem


and she will cure ya

[Infern0]

Oh and heres another tip.

Don't wank for a month.

By the two week mark i'm pretty sure you will have found someone to blow your load in/on

[bulldog]

24 and in the same boat, I am at least good with the girls socially, but when it comes to getting intimate, talking about relationships, etc... I just dont seem to have the luck/skill required to even initiate such things, much less deal with them.


And I hate the people that say, hey your time will come, yea? You in the same boat watching the hourglass? Every day I get a little bit more anxious. And no I wont pay for an escort, no offense ladies (and gents if your on the board) I refuse to be someone's meal ticket, I want her to be there because she wants to be there, to be there because she wants me and only me, not my wallet. If she cant do that, I refuse to even consider taking it further.

I keep telling myself my time will come, yet I look around at all the couples that come into my workplace, holding hands, laughing kissing, making each other smile and I long for it.


Been single for 8 years and counting now, never french kissed a girl or gone any further than kissing, so I really do know your pain. Only time will tell whats in store though I guess

[Jackal]

OP, bulldog, why not try online dating? There are plenty of sites for guys to contact ggs and/or transwomen in their area. You can see her profile, tell her about yourself through your profile, send an email, maybe set up a date....a lot less intimidating for the inexperienced than barhopping and hoping to get lucky with digits. Give it a shot ;)

[Quiet Reflections]

Girls don't fuck guys that sit online and feel sorry for themselves. Fortune Favors The Bold. If you don't go out and make it happen then it won't.

[Klinghoffer 660C]

Get a pet and fuck it.

[sowhat234]

getting laid is overrated especially in our society right now. I think bulldog has the gist of what im saying. Try to be funny and witty to get them going.

[rockabilly]

yes at what point of my life i was afraid of sex.. but life change people..i only been in the ts scene for 5 years ..fishiiii:geek::fuckin:

Now she's insatiable! :fuckin:

[fred41]

.............soooooooooooooo for the guys on here that are virgins, but refuse to pay for it....what's the limit on waiting ? If you don't get laid by 30, 40 50...or 60..then will you blow the dust off your wallets and pay?...lol.

[rockabilly]

.............soooooooooooooo for the guys on here that are virgins, but refuse to pay for it....what's the limit on waiting ? If you don't get laid by 30, 40 50...or 60..then will you blow the dust off your wallets and pay?...lol.

At 60 they'd have to blow dust off more than their wallet. lol

[nonnonnon]

too many cooties out there

[phobun]

Yep.

My pic shows that I have a nice body....that was me at 20......im good looking...very good sized cock (if i do say so myself)..good with girls....

However, it all falls down when it gets to the point where I have to take things further I run away. Its been over 3.5 years since I even kissed a girl.

Anyone else been through anything like this??


This is not normal. Either you're trans yourself and don't feel comfortable in your own skin, or you haven't found the right guy yet.

[Equalizer]

yes at what point of my life i was afraid of sex.. but life change people..i only been in the ts scene for 5 years ..fishiiii:geek::fuckin:

i guess u lived as a boy then?

[phobun]

24 and in the same boat, I am at least good with the girls socially, but when it comes to getting intimate, talking about relationships, etc... I just dont seem to have the luck/skill required to even initiate such things, much less deal with them.


And I hate the people that say, hey your time will come, yea? You in the same boat watching the hourglass? Every day I get a little bit more anxious. And no I wont pay for an escort, no offense ladies (and gents if your on the board) I refuse to be someone's meal ticket, I want her to be there because she wants to be there, to be there because she wants me and only me, not my wallet. If she cant do that, I refuse to even consider taking it further.

I keep telling myself my time will come, yet I look around at all the couples that come into my workplace, holding hands, laughing kissing, making each other smile and I long for it.


Been single for 8 years and counting now, never french kissed a girl or gone any further than kissing, so I really do know your pain. Only time will tell whats in store though I guess


Something is wrong.

[bulldog]

Something is wrong.



Because you dont approve of my waiting for it to happen? or you just dont understand because its not happening to you?

[phobun]

Because you dont approve of my waiting for it to happen? or you just dont understand because its not happening to you?


I'm not putting you down, I'm just thinking there is some other variable... maybe it's just that if you were in a more urban area with hot looking ladies things would be different.

[rockabilly]

Virginity is making a big comeback.

Nothing wrong w/ wanting your first time to be w/ the right girl.

[rockabilly]

It does seem like a double standard though.

If a girl stays a virgin and waits for either marriage or the right guy she's praised for it but if a guy does it then there's something wrong w/ him. :shrug

[Ryz]

har har