I dont get losers

[Equalizer]

Seriously, i noticed a lot of guys marrying some pretty attrocious chicks, yet at the same time they spend extra money on some premier escotts... wtf is up with that?

[Infern0]

logical explaination is that they can't convince anyone more attractive to marry them, so have to pay for sex with someone pretty.

[Equalizer]

logical explaination is that they can't convince anyone more attractive to marry them, so have to pay for sex with someone pretty.

but why marry in that case? to satisfy some social norm, wtf?

[Infern0]

but why marry in that case? to satisfy some social norm, wtf?

Ah, i see.

well, maybe they love that person, but aren't satisfied with the sexual side, it could be a fulfilling relationship in every other way though.

I'm just taking a stab at it, theres probably guys on here that know more about it.

[Jackal]

Never been married...it could be these guys found someone they are compatible with socially but they are not attractive so they seek escorts or just the old fashion Coolidge effect.

[SirCumsAlot]

I've notice the same deal man. Like alot of these celebrities. I mean, we have some nice celeberty hook up in the past like brad pitt and angelena jolie, Kobe bryant and his fine ass wife imma steal once i move out to la, but if you look at some of these rappers if you know of them, like T.I, DAMN! His wife is miss Piggy! DMX wife was awful to. I can name more but we all get the point. I to dont understand why they merry such hideous wives then go pay for escorts or force some of the models to have sex with them for certain deals and whatnots, but I guess it does have to do with love, respect and support at the end of the day. Lots of the more prettier girls can be very stuck and people dont wanna deal with a stuck up chick 24/7

[PomonaCA]

Sometimes you get a woman in bed. In public she's an impressive specimen, well wrapped and stable. In bed she's a filthy whore and a total turn on. But there's a flipside to that coin.

Sometimes you get a woman in bed. In public she's an impressive specimen, well wrapped and stable. In bed she's beyond prude, she's too constrictive and won't take a facial.

And then sometimes you bed her and you don't like her perfume or she talks during sex.

Other times she's good in the sack but you just see that independent glimmer in her eyes..... the one that says "I'm the Queen and can do without you". In that event, you let her do without you.

[plankton]

Because personality matters and a beautiful mind can make someone more beautiful than ones outer appearance would normally seem. Not to mention one day looks will fade and you'll actually have to talk to your mate and build a life with them. But a person does have urges and wants to try another brand every now and then. Plus even if you have gourmet food prepared everyday you'll eventually want some fast food.

[scroller]

Classically, marriage is a business arrangement and not really a matter of the heart. There can be a lot of economic advantages to marrying someone who is rich, well-connected, can help run a household or a business, etc. Then maybe you've got extra funds to spend on a mistress (or whatever) on the side.

[Prospero]

Ludicrous. Are we talking TS escorts here are just escorts per se? If its the former then the reason for married guys seeing them is obvious. if its the latter perhaps more complicated. It could be that, after a few years of marriage, the sex has become dull - but the emotional ties (ie love for instance) are strong - so the guys seek some excitement without the risk implicit in a real affair. Or maybe the escort will offer something the guy feels he can't get at home - or is afraid to ask for. As for the initial question about why do guys marry women who are "pretty atrocious" maybe that's just your point of view and perhaps, dare I say it, a bit superficial or adolescent.

[MrF]

Being married is quite different from visiting an escort for sex.

An escort is a fantasy, an object of temporary desire. And usually the guy who pays for it either a) couldn't get someone that attractive for free, or b) he is married and needs to keep it a secret, or c) he just wants some quick, no-strings-attached sex. Either way, it costs $$.

The choice of who to marry is different. One guy's "atrocious" might be another guy's "acceptable". In addition, a woman may start off acceptable and then her looks deteriorate over time, e.g. she gets fat. However, other qualilties are important and may compensate for the looks factor: how nice she is, her integrity, her intellectual curiousity, how well she organizes her life, her income, etc.

[DL_NL]

Repeat after me: I'm not superficial, I do think there is something besides looks...

[innocentbychoice]

Looks aren't everything.

[bte]

Isn't paying for sex in general a loser thing to do?

[MrF]

^ It depends on your definition of a loser. I'm sure the escorts have encountered clients who are rich and good-looking, which is not your standard definition of a loser.

[bte]

^ It depends on your definition of a loser. I'm sure the escorts have encountered clients who are rich and good-looking, which is not your standard definition of a loser.

I'm not saying anyone who buys sex is a loser. Its their thing and if they want to do that then they can. But I am just saying that society view is that buying sex is a loser thing to do.

[BigDF]

I'm not saying anyone who buys sex is a loser. Its their thing and if they want to do that then they can. But I am just saying that society view is that buying sex is a loser thing to do.It also depends on the definition of a loser and I'm not sure the OP know what he's talking about in that regard. These definitions are personal opinions and as someone else pointed out beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

BTW, bte, happy to see your signature change.:)

[Prospero]

Society does for sure.. which is why those who pay for sex don't wear a badge proclaiming it... but are furtive or use pseudonyms on sites like this. I pay and am not ashamed but equally don't want family friends and employers to know-

[Merkurie]

People's opinion on who is good looking vary, people often look for things in a wife other than looks. Your idea of a "hot babe" is a skinny slut to someone else. A lot of men want a down to earth, homemaker to be the mother of their children.

Most women are attractive at some point in their lives, few women remain attractive throughout their lives. So she may have been the hottest thing in the mall in 1999 and is a worn out broad today.

Any woman is capable of letting herself become an alcoholic lazy bitch. As any man can allow himself to become an alcoholic, lazy bastard. It goes both ways.

Fat girls with good personalities probably get married easier than the "hot chick" who is a slut bitch.

[bte]

BTW, bte, happy to see your signature change.:)

Yeah me too. I had lost a sig bet to Partlycloudy.

[CORVETTEDUDE]

The chick may be able to suck the chrome off a Peterbilt front bumper...You don't fuckin' know!!!

[MrsKellyPierce]

Why not hot girls marry ugly men all the time - they say more women are making more money than the male now a days. So don't you think this could be a factor. Men marrying for money?

[Equalizer]

People's opinion on who is good looking vary, people often look for things in a wife other than looks. Your idea of a "hot babe" is a skinny slut to someone else. A lot of men want a down to earth, homemaker to be the mother of their children.

Most women are attractive at some point in their lives, few women remain attractive throughout their lives. So she may have been the hottest thing in the mall in 1999 and is a worn out broad today.

Any woman is capable of letting herself become an alcoholic lazy bitch. As any man can allow himself to become an alcoholic, lazy bastard. It goes both ways.

Fat girls with good personalities probably get married easier than the "hot chick" who is a slut bitch.


great post, and i do indeed agree on the point that beauty is fleeting

[BeardedOne]

I only skimmed the thread but I didn't see any mention of the old rule that if you marry an ugly girl she will never leave you. There's even a song/poem about it.

[tsnajwa]

I only skimmed the thread but I didn't see any mention of the old rule that if you marry an ugly girl she will never leave you. There's even a song/poem about it.

sooooo true. although i think at end of the day even those guys who pay for escorts need someone to come home to emotionally

[Quiet Reflections]

I don't get losers either all they do is complain and make observations about people lucky enough to find someone to share their life with while they sit on a computer all day.....single and also paying for sex and internet porn.

YouTube - Jimmy Soul - If You Want To Be Happy (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9NF5XU-k2Vk)

[onmyknees]

Seriously, i noticed a lot of guys marrying some pretty attrocious chicks, yet at the same time they spend extra money on some premier escotts... wtf is up with that?

You sound young dude, so let me break it down for you....people get married for a variety of reasons and sometimes it ain't for love. Yet other times they think it's love but it turns out to be someting else, or nothing at all. There is no more difficult task in life than to be happily married after the fun and games fade. It takes total commitment. There's also a variety of reasons for a dude to see an escort...you can judge it, but until you've been there...your judgement is not well founded. And "losers" would not be a word I'd use to describe someone taking the plunge. That characterization should tell us a lot about you.
Someone you find ...how is it you put it....."attrocious" is someone else's soulmate. I have tremendous respect and admiration for couples who can withstand all the bullshit and remain happily married after years. If you marry for looks alone....that's just where you're going to find yourself after a couple years.......alone.