girlfriend just asked me for threesome - help

[priceywicey]

Hi all, i'm really on here trying to find out a bit of info. My girlfriend has recently said to me that she wants a threesome with a shemale. she said she wants to watch me get fucked in the arse and then get it herself.
The reason i am here is that i dont really know much about all this scene. WHen she asked me i admit i was shocked but then i got turned on at the thoght so had a bit of a look around online, also asked a mate of mine who has openly admit he likes trannys and he told me to try this site so i am using his computer now doing that.
Some help - first of all, has anyone ever done anything like this before and if so should i go for it or just try to convince her to do it herself?
Would i need to hire an escort (have sent a few emails off already asking) or is there a connect site i can go to or is there a place in london we can both go to to meet transgendered people?
main question is, and please dont think im an idiot for asking as i say i really dont know about all this - does it hurt?
ANy help would be greatly appreciated as if i go through with this i have been promsied a threesome and i get to find the girl.
cheers lads

[Kevin Dong]

Thats awesome bro sounds like you hit the jackpot. Got no advice for you though. Good luck with it!

[priceywicey]

thanks. if it happens, will let anyone interested know. just need to clerar up a point. my mrs has said that if i go ahead with a shemale threesome she will have a boy girl girl one and i can find the girl so thats what ive got resting on this. also, as i said, when she told me abot it i did turn me on.
i just dont know enough about it all though

[bulldog]

Experiment with toys if you are asking if it hurts......dont just go for the gold without first working your way up to it


One word though, cleanliness!

Be very clean back, front, top and bottom if you do go through such a thing, if your wife does anal, ask her how she cleans herself back there and go from there


Best of luck

[joeym75ld]

Sounds pretty hot, except for the getting fucked in the ass part.
It would be hot to watch the shemale fuck your girl.

[kaiser1one]

Nothing wrong with gettin butt pillaged. Long as its consenual anyways.

[Dino Velvet]

If you care about the girl do not have a threesome. Do that kind of stuff when you're single.

[shemalefetish3000]

Have her play with some toys with you first - or try them yourself. It would be a good prelude with her in any event.

[Infern0]

My question is DO YOU want to bottom?

If you don't, tell her to fuck off, I don't bottom and if someone asked me to, I'd tell them to fuck right off, unless it was a long term partner, and maybe i'd do it for an aniversarry or something, but thats a pretty big if.

If you don't mind doing it, by all means, go crazy, but don't just let it happen because your being asked to, you cant take that kind of thing back.

[Boardwalkempire]

If you like being fucked go for it!


Me personally I like to do the fucking so it wouldn't work for me, but I would be down with a 3some.

Depending on what type of relationship you have with your gf it could hurt or help your relation with you girl.

[priceywicey]

thanks guys. really honestly do appreciate the help.
i have been with my mrs for almost 4 years and i reckon she is the one for me. i do love her. she's never mentioned anything about transgendered people before but i guess she may have been apprehensive, wondering what i would think and being scared.
Im not worried really about the damage psychologically it could do to us as we are both made for each other and she says that all the time. we have a really health sex life and keep it fresh all the time but when we got talking recently about fantasies she brought it up. I feel that as she could open up to me and we are in love i should support her and actually go for it too as it sounds like good fun
As i say i knew nothing about this really except for my mate who told me a while back he likes ts women but have had a look online now and to me it does look different but i would not worry at all about thinking i was gay - 1 - some of the women are fucking fit as hell - 2 - i dont get the horn from men one bit.
i have never been fucked or even thought about it before. must admit it would not be my choice by my mrs seems and she does so much for me, not jus sexually, that i would agree. just wondering really if it hurts, if it can do any damage or if it will pop in my brain at 2.32am in cold sweats.
again, i truly do appreciate all the help so far and no mocking as it is helpping me form an opinion based on more than just an initial response

[dreamon]

be careful though- threesomes can often mess with relationships. Make sure you pay more attention to her than the other person.

[MdR Dave]

If you care about the girl do not have a threesome. Do that kind of stuff when you're single.

Ladies and gentlemen, your "Voice of Reason"- the inestimable Dino Velvet.

Shemale, female- you're asking for trouble. Rare is the partner who can handle the breach of intimacy.

[lovesall]

Please be careful for many relationships go in the other direction most of the time when events like this happens, so please think it through carefully and tread lightly. Now for the advice of taking it in the arse, well first get yourself cleaned on the inside and ask her to show you how it is done if she cleans herself out. Next experiment with fingers from her and then small toys to medium size ones. You really don't want shock value at this point so work at it and when your arse is ready you will be able to take it up there if you wish. Really you are living one of my life long dreams I would love to watch a TS do a girl and then join in. GOOD LUCK!!!!

[south ov da border]

Be careful. That's all I can say. Eros.com your city to find somebody if you need a source...

[jaydubb]

I thnk you should break up with her immediately. Send me her name and phone number so I can talk some sense into her. ;-)

[rufusmaxwell]

You've gotta be real careful with this one, it could easily go bad in a heartbeat but it could also be a great thing for your relationship. With that being said I'd say go for it!

[innocentbychoice]

If she wants it and you want it, that's great. As long as you both know how far you're gonna go and are ok with it, things will be fine you just have to talk.

I think that sharing and living fantasies with the one you love and want to spend your life with is the best thing to do, I mean, who else to enjoy that "hidden" side of you and viceversa?

Go for it and practise with her fingers first, before you try to get a dick up your ass.

[Chris in LA]

When I first saw this, I was thinking, "what a cool ass fuckin gf he has to let him do this!" I would luv to meet a gg who would be down to play with a ts with me, thats like a fuckin dream of mine, lol

But after i read that you have been with her for 4 yrs and plan to be with her, i would keep it as just a fantasy....unless you two have experimented in 3 sums b4? My personal belief is that if you care and have feeling for someone, don't ever fuck it up with your lustful desires to fulfill a fantasy...

[Equalizer]

Hi all, i'm really on here trying to find out a bit of info. My girlfriend has recently said to me that she wants a threesome with a shemale. she said she wants to watch me get fucked in the arse and then get it herself.
The reason i am here is that i dont really know much about all this scene. WHen she asked me i admit i was shocked but then i got turned on at the thoght so had a bit of a look around online, also asked a mate of mine who has openly admit he likes trannys and he told me to try this site so i am using his computer now doing that.
Some help - first of all, has anyone ever done anything like this before and if so should i go for it or just try to convince her to do it herself?
Would i need to hire an escort (have sent a few emails off already asking) or is there a connect site i can go to or is there a place in london we can both go to to meet transgendered people?
main question is, and please dont think im an idiot for asking as i say i really dont know about all this - does it hurt?
ANy help would be greatly appreciated as if i go through with this i have been promsied a threesome and i get to find the girl.
cheers lads

you really want to get ass fucked, like a little faggot bitch, in front of the mother of your children?