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FreddieGomez
02-04-2011, 05:30 AM
That you used to date and get jealous when u see them talkin to somebody else? this is why i hate fb.....i still talk to her and wanna be friends but i dont wanna see her in a relationship wit somebody else....i feel really helpless and angry.....

AlternateName
02-04-2011, 05:32 AM
yea i know how that feels i have a similar situation

nonnonnon
02-04-2011, 05:37 AM
when they post pictures like this :mad:

goliath_91710
02-04-2011, 05:37 AM
You sound just like that other guy who just made the thread about falling in love with an escort!

But anyway, as far as your post goes, yeah. I don't like feeling jealous though. It's one of those whack feelings like anger, fear or frustration. I try to make the jealous feeling go away by thinking, "as long as she's happy..." y'know?

FreddieGomez
02-04-2011, 05:40 AM
You sound just like that other guy who just made the thread about falling in love with an escort!

But anyway, as far as your post goes, yeah. I don't like feeling jealous though. It's one of those whack feelings like anger, fear or frustration. I try to make the jealous feeling go away by thinking, "as long as she's happy..." y'know?

but she aint an escort! and i happened to see a post from her sayin "sign" then i clicked on it and it says she's in a relationship wit this other dude and he like "bae we still on for tomorrow night" i'm like ima punch this dude in the neck.....im about to take her off my fb

goliath_91710
02-04-2011, 05:40 AM
when they post pictures like this :mad:

Yeah. That shit would SUCK!

AlternateName
02-04-2011, 05:41 AM
my last serious relationship i had lasted about 5 yrs and this girl was my idea of a perfect girl physically, she was 5 feet tall, 90 lbs, dark curly hair, beautiful big round eyes and amazing soft beautiful skin and beautiful feet. When i first met her she was so into me and at first she chased me down and stalked me and i resisted at first because im an idiot and was afraid to get into a relationship but i fell for her hard in return. Anyway, eventually she broke up with me and still till this day i can't face her or want to see her, i fear running into her even after 3 years of not seeing or talking to her because i just can't handle the thought of another guy enjoying that heavenly beauty that i was lucky enough to enjoy for those amazing years. Its very juvenile of me to feel that way, very selfish of me also, but i still love her and i dont think i will ever stop.

FreddieGomez
02-04-2011, 05:42 AM
YouTube - Jamie Foxx - Fall For Your Type ft. Drake (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m9fUYcxP1UA&feature=related)

goliath_91710
02-04-2011, 05:42 AM
but she aint an escort! and i happened to see a post from her sayin "sign" then i clicked on it and it says she's in a relationship wit this other dude and he like "bae we still on for tomorrow night" i'm like ima punch this dude in the neck.....im about to take her off my fb

And I've NEVER gotten mad at the other guy. That shit doesn't make sense at all! I mean, you liked her, right? How are you gonna get mad at some guy for feeling the same way as you do?

bridgetbbyxo
02-04-2011, 05:47 AM
but she aint an escort! and i happened to see a post from her sayin "sign" then i clicked on it and it says she's in a relationship wit this other dude and he like "bae we still on for tomorrow night" i'm like ima punch this dude in the neck.....im about to take her off my fb

you should just delete her freddie, i remember one of my ex's i was really hung up on, we would still email each other for months after we broke up, then he told me he was dating someone and it was going really well i came across his facebook one day and saw pics of him and it kinda made that sick feeling in my stomach seeing him with another girl when i that should have been me... i blocked his profile so i wouldn't see it anymore and have that sad feeling... Now i dont even think of him really like that anymore... I guess out of sight out of mind...so its better to not see it and move on because they obviously have... just my opinion

amberskyi
02-04-2011, 05:48 AM
thats my fav song at the moment

FreddieGomez
02-04-2011, 05:55 AM
you should just delete her freddie, i remember one of my ex's i was really hung up on, we would still email each other for months after we broke up, then he told me he was dating someone and it was going really well i came across his facebook one day and saw pics of him and it kinda made that sick feeling in my stomach seeing him with another girl when i that should have been me... i blocked his profile so i wouldn't see it anymore and have that sad feeling... Now i dont even think of him really like that anymore... I guess out of sight out of mind...so its better to not see it and move on because they obviously have... just my opinion

i guess....but i dont want to take her off....i need to see what's goin on in her life....she is the only girl i've ever truly loved....but i dont feel like gettin into it here...i dont even understand anyways, i mean i wanna be wit other girls sometimes but she is the only one i LOVE..i dont love those other girls like i love her!

FreddieGomez
02-04-2011, 05:57 AM
my last serious relationship i had lasted about 5 yrs and this girl was my idea of a perfect girl physically, she was 5 feet tall, 90 lbs, dark curly hair, beautiful big round eyes and amazing soft beautiful skin and beautiful feet. When i first met her she was so into me and at first she chased me down and stalked me and i resisted at first because im an idiot and was afraid to get into a relationship but i fell for her hard in return. Anyway, eventually she broke up with me and still till this day i can't face her or want to see her, i fear running into her even after 3 years of not seeing or talking to her because i just can't handle the thought of another guy enjoying that heavenly beauty that i was lucky enough to enjoy for those amazing years. Its very juvenile of me to feel that way, very selfish of me also, but i still love her and i dont think i will ever stop.

yeah i can relate.....

AlternateName
02-04-2011, 06:06 AM
well, we're still relatively young, so all we can hope for is another girl like the ones we're talking about in here to come along, even i can admit that as much as i cannot get that girl out of my mind and long for her, even i can admit that she is replaceable given enough time goes by and another girl comes along and blindsides your heart like the way this girl did to me years ago.

bridgetbbyxo
02-04-2011, 06:09 AM
i guess....but i dont want to take her off....i need to see what's goin on in her life....she is the only girl i've ever truly loved....but i dont feel like gettin into it here...i dont even understand anyways, i mean i wanna be wit other girls sometimes but she is the only one i LOVE..i dont love those other girls like i love her!


its understandable it always happens with someone you trully love

Silcc69
02-04-2011, 06:13 AM
I want to see what this chic looks liek Freddie.........

nonnonnon
02-04-2011, 06:38 AM
I want to see what this chic looks liek Freddie.........

keep in mind it's not just a girl's looks that can hang you up :geek: some girls know exactly what to say and shit

AlternateName
02-04-2011, 06:41 AM
holy shit, she is incredible.

loren
02-04-2011, 06:48 AM
Back in September, I was violated. It wasn't exactly rape; I told him no BB and he agreed, but as he was close to cumming he took of the condom and pumped his load inside me.

A guy:oops: I knew heoped me though. He was with me for the first and then the second test. And we went out for dinner a few times. He sat and listened to everything I'd have to say. Then we went to a Halloween party at the house of a friend of his. We had some great sex and then went back to his place for some more:fuckin:. Then back in November, before he had to go out of town for buisness, he said that he wanted to be my BF.

When he got back in December, he said that I was a mistake and that he didn't want to have anything to do with me.:heartbroken::sadcry

Then the other day, he shot me an email wanting to take me out to dinner some time.:shrug

nonnonnon
02-04-2011, 06:51 AM
Back in September, I was violated. It wasn't exactly rape; I told him no BB and he agreed, but as he was close to cumming he took of the condom and pumped his load inside me.

A guy:oops: I knew heoped me though. He was with me for the first and then the second test. And we went out for dinner a few times. He sat and listened to everything I'd have to say. Then we went to a Halloween party at the house of a friend of his. We had some great sex and then went back to his place for some more:fuckin:. Then back in November, before he had to go out of town for buisness, he said that he wanted to be my BF.

When he got back in December, he said that I was a mistake and that he didn't want to have anything to do with me.:heartbroken::sadcry

Then the other day, he shot me an email wanting to take me out to dinner some time.:shrug
sounds confusing

innocentbychoice
02-04-2011, 07:06 AM
Been there done that.

You guys want to know what's worse than Facebook?? TWITTER!!!!!!!!!!!! Cuz if you block that person from your facebook, there's no way you can see the profile, you would have to log in from another account.

But when it comes to twitter, when you block someone they can't see you but you can see their pofiles. And if you know their usernames, you just have to type twitter.com/username and unless their tweets are private (and most people's aren't) you can see the whole thing without even logging in. I found my ex's twitter the other day without even trying to. Ugh.

And before any smartass say "just don't go to their profiles" even when you dont want to, curiosity gets the best of you especially when you care about the other person.

amberskyi
02-04-2011, 07:36 AM
I have a simple rule, when a relationship ends, it is over...I don't keep in contact with them at all and as much as you like to see what's going on in their life, by no means can you ever be friends with them, especially on Facebook!!!

Exes should never be friends, unless there is a really special situation, because one of them is always going to still have feelings for the other...

i just deaded the guy i went on the date with yesterday because i found out he still talks with his ex

arnie666
02-04-2011, 07:46 AM
When I was at university I was dating this stunning girl who I really really liked. We got quite serious, until in the end I was invited to spend the weekend at her parents house. I say house, they lived in a huge mansion, with a lot of land. Her parents were shocked to say the least to meet their daughters new boyfriend (An english, but worse than that a cockney wideboy, who was a part time police officer, who's aspirations after getting his degree was to join full time and not even join on the graduate promotion scheme as he wanted to be a thief taker not some penpusher) ,they were scottish, father was some big nob banker and mother didn't work.

Heard my dad was in the army,not an officer but a senior nco and mother was a teacher.I didn't like his attitude over that so I copped an attitude with him. So anyway, her father didn't speak to me the whole visit,mum was nice though. It was at that point I realised how different we both were really, but it was her father who really put pressure on her to dump me. Her father apparently stopped speaking to her , and in the end we broke up. Still have feelings for her, she works as a journalist for a mainstream scottish newspaper. Often look at her facebook even though I am engaged to someone else.

And when I saw photos of the guy she is dating I want to rip his head off.

AlternateName
02-04-2011, 08:31 AM
i just deaded the guy i went on the date with yesterday because i found out he still talks with his ex

Amber, i don't think thats fair to that guy who went on a date with, i don't think you should be so hastey with that. You don't know that you might be on the verge of something that is awesome with that guy and you're sabotaging it because of that fact.

AlternateName
02-04-2011, 08:40 AM
i only say this because, a few months ago, i actually had the balls to ask out a local girl in my city who i had been crushing on for a while, a beautiful gorgeous small petite ts from Columbia, and so she and i began dating for a few short weeks and everything was going great, she was very into me, or so it seemed, and i was into her. Then one day a friend of mine, another girl whom i have no interest in romantically nor have i ever thought about sleeping with, she invited me to her show she was doing, so i showed up to say hello real quick and have a beer then leave, then i saw the girl i was dating was already there, and she saw me there and without even asking me or talking to me decided she was not ever going to speak to me again, and that was it. It's too bad because things were going so well with us. So my point is, communication will give you a better understanding and higher ground to decide these things. I could have made that move on her and set things straight but i decided if that was the way she handled things then maybe i was better off. You sounded very happy about this guy from what i read, so based on that, i feel like he deserves at least a moment to explain himself. In other words, don't make the same mistakes i made, or rather, she made?

stimpy17
02-04-2011, 08:46 AM
Yes.

amberskyi
02-04-2011, 08:57 AM
Amber, i don't think thats fair to that guy who went on a date with, i don't think you should be so hastey with that. You don't know that you might be on the verge of something that is awesome with that guy and you're sabotaging it because of that fact.

yea we talked it out and he made some very valid points about my short comings too.i think we're just going to call it even lol

AlternateName
02-04-2011, 09:02 AM
oh ok, well at least you had communication about it between the two of you, and whatever those points were is between the two of you, sorry that it didn't work out though, reading how happy you were about it reminded me of my situation with said girl, i always want things like that to work out for people like that. I read a book once called "The Alchemist" and it dealt with how people sabotage themselves of happiness and the things they want and desire because subliminally they feel they don't deserve it. I try to work on that within myself and make things happen for me, and so i also want other people to have the same

TsJennifer
02-04-2011, 09:38 AM
That you used to date and get jealous when u see them talkin to somebody else? this is why i hate fb.....i still talk to her and wanna be friends but i dont wanna see her in a relationship wit somebody else....i feel really helpless and angry.....

I know just how you feel. It takes time and it will pass. Trust me. I often look back and think to my self what the fuck was I thinking. But hey love is blind...lol

Jennifer Paris

amberskyi
02-04-2011, 09:53 AM
oh ok, well at least you had communication about it between the two of you, and whatever those points were is between the two of you, sorry that it didn't work out though, reading how happy you were about it reminded me of my situation with said girl, i always want things like that to work out for people like that. I read a book once called "The Alchemist" and it dealt with how people sabotage themselves of happiness and the things they want and desire because subliminally they feel they don't deserve it. I try to work on that within myself and make things happen for me, and so i also want other people to have the same

when i said "call it even" i meant that we're going to continue to talk to eachother.i think that some times i let my lifestyle and experience in the industry get the better of me.im still trying to learn that balance between being smart about men and being jaded.its not like he was dis honest about the fact he talked to his ex.plus its way to early for me to be tripping over stuff like that.

innocentbychoice
02-04-2011, 04:03 PM
oh ok, well at least you had communication about it between the two of you, and whatever those points were is between the two of you, sorry that it didn't work out though, reading how happy you were about it reminded me of my situation with said girl, i always want things like that to work out for people like that. I read a book once called "The Alchemist" and it dealt with how people sabotage themselves of happiness and the things they want and desire because subliminally they feel they don't deserve it. I try to work on that within myself and make things happen for me, and so i also want other people to have the same

I read that book as well.

And as you said, communication is the key to any relationship. So from what you posted before, I think that the Colombian girl (yes, if she's from the country Colombia, it is spelled with an O) was too quick to judge you, but at the same time seems like you didn't even make an effort to clear things up, which might make you look like you had no interest in her at all.

Yeah maybe she shouldn't have judged you so quickly but who knows what she's been through, and when someone is trying to protect themselves any suspicious situation is terrible. So it would've been nice for you to reach her and clear things up. What Amber posted is a perfect example of this, her first reaction was to walk away but they talked and she realized she was too quick to judge. You should talk to your girl.

FreddieGomez
02-04-2011, 06:06 PM
thanks everybody...it's nice to know i aint the only one who has felt this way...i guess i'm feelin better today because i don't feel as upset....but she did post somethin like "i hate when i try to reach out and u don't bother to respond" i believe that was for me....why should i respond if u got a new man? ....

lisaparadise
02-04-2011, 07:43 PM
thanks everybody...it's nice to know i aint the only one who has felt this way...i guess i'm feelin better today because i don't feel as upset....but she did post somethin like "i hate when i try to reach out and u don't bother to respond" i believe that was for me....why should i respond if u got a new man? ....maybe she really loves you but isnt ready to committ to a relationship and she may feel like you will break her heart,if you really do love her and you want a future someday then stay in touch and be her best friend ya it hurts but it just may very well be worth it in the end now if you cant see yourself ever settling down with her then do the right thing and let her go.

mikelpo
02-04-2011, 09:01 PM
Good to see I'm not the only one!!

OEMEnemyNum1
02-04-2011, 09:02 PM
I still get a little bit jealous when I drive by and see another guys car parked at my ex-girlfriends grave.

bte
02-04-2011, 09:05 PM
That you used to date and get jealous when u see them talkin to somebody else? this is why i hate fb.....i still talk to her and wanna be friends but i dont wanna see her in a relationship wit somebody else....i feel really helpless and angry.....

Yeah man, something like that happened to me. I broke up with a girl but still had feelings for her. She was on my Myspace and Facebook, but I had to delete it and break contact with her.

AlternateName
02-04-2011, 09:34 PM
I read that book as well.

And as you said, communication is the key to any relationship. So from what you posted before, I think that the Colombian girl (yes, if she's from the country Colombia, it is spelled with an O) was too quick to judge you, but at the same time seems like you didn't even make an effort to clear things up, which might make you look like you had no interest in her at all.

Yeah maybe she shouldn't have judged you so quickly but who knows what she's been through, and when someone is trying to protect themselves any suspicious situation is terrible. So it would've been nice for you to reach her and clear things up. What Amber posted is a perfect example of this, her first reaction was to walk away but they talked and she realized she was too quick to judge. You should talk to your girl.

i thought about it, actually i spared everyone more details of that situation because i didnt want to sabotage the OP's subject, but i will add that this girl i am speaking of in my post though, we were dating briefly, i was taking her out for dinner and hanging out with her, taking her to the movies and she seemed really sweet and very into me during that period but she did keep asking me if i was gay. I was honestly answering her no. It turns out she was one of those type of girls who wanted a straight guy but because she was a ts, she automatically was suspicious of the motives of why a guy like me was interested in her, like a catch-22 situation. I told her i am not gay and that i asked her out because i honestly thought she was so beautiful, more so than 95% of the genetic women i see hanging around so why question it? But the thing was, i have lots of friends, some are gay, some of them are the girls who do shows, and in that case when she saw me there, she just probably assumed i was lying that whole time, guilt by association or something. So she ignored me the rest of the night, and the next day i texted her hey lets get together and go out, no reply from her at all which was strange because she would always respond right away. So, i waited a few days, playing it cool then sent her another text asking her if she'd like to grab some dinner together,,,nothing. Thats when i gave up and said i ain't chasing this girl down for this, fuck this. It's too bad though, because really she is my type of girl, small, 5' 2" petite, and drop dead gorgeous and all 100% bottom, and i am her type of guy, masculine alpha male 100% top type, so its really a shame. I'd like to say oh well her loss, but i can't say that because she is such a hot chic that there will be many more guys like me who are probably lining up right now for her. hahahaha. Actually, that ain't funny,,,

sorry about the long winded post though.

tatsu1
02-04-2011, 09:49 PM
I have a black girlfriend whom I love with all my heart and would do ANYTHING for. I fuck this asian chick on the side because her pussy is REAL and she can really take my quite above average dick. I fuck this thin blond chick because she's fun. Basically I suck at relationships...


You're not alone Fred... I still love an ex (jamiacan and chinese = BEYOND beautiful) who is religious. I don't believe in god, but if we ended up back together I may have to rethink that position. She's the only woman whom can make me nervous...

dreamon
02-04-2011, 09:58 PM
That you used to date and get jealous when u see them talkin to somebody else? this is why i hate fb.....i still talk to her and wanna be friends but i dont wanna see her in a relationship wit somebody else....i feel really helpless and angry.....

yes... I deleted her from my friends list... but I still want to be with her :/

Foreskin
02-04-2011, 10:19 PM
Haven't really read the entire thread but just want to remind the OP, there are literally millions of humans wondering this earth that top whoever it is your obsessing over. I mean how many cocks, anus, and pussy exist in this world .... think about it .... I swear there is someone who will gladly, willingly put that person to shame and make you wonder what the fuck is wrong with you.

Live life like the next hour is the end cause it could be, or all I got to say to you is R.I.P.

AlwaysAda
02-04-2011, 11:44 PM
wait till she fucks your brother...

FreddieGomez
02-04-2011, 11:58 PM
wait till she fucks your brother...

my brother isnt as hot as i am...i'm the only one that is half black.... lol

amberskyi
02-05-2011, 12:04 AM
my brother isnt as hot as i am...i'm the only one that is half black.... lol

so you think being mixed makes you hotter?? smh

FreddieGomez
02-05-2011, 12:05 AM
so you think being mixed makes you hotter?? smh

yeah it does....if u saw my brother you'd see why....lol...

BLKGSXR
02-05-2011, 12:06 AM
@Ed_Jaxon theirs the Decent ass-shot you were waiting for...

tatsu1
02-05-2011, 01:24 AM
yeah it does....if u saw my brother you'd see why....lol...

I know you aren't the smartest dude but I gave you a pass because you seem genuine and have heart. Something a lot of people lack. But this comment and the one before it puts you in the retarded category. Jesús....

FreddieGomez
02-05-2011, 01:27 AM
I know you aren't the smartest dude but I gave you a pass because you seem genuine and have heart. Something a lot of people lack. But this comment and the one before it puts you in the retarded category. Jesús....

i'm just sayin...he's my brother but he dont look as good as i do...even when we were growin up all the girls would be callin the house for me...i love him to death but he dont got it like me...

amberskyi
02-05-2011, 01:40 AM
i'm just sayin...he's my brother but he dont look as good as i do...even when we were growin up all the girls would be callin the house for me...i love him to death but he dont got it like me...

got it like what?? because to be honest im really not that impressed by you.i hate a cocky nigga like nothing else

FreddieGomez
02-05-2011, 01:41 AM
got it like what?? because to be honest im really not that impressed by you.i hate a cocky nigga like nothing else

that's ok...because alot of other chicks are.....

amberskyi
02-05-2011, 01:48 AM
that's ok...because alot of other chicks are.....

and there you go with the cockiness again.dude are you ever just a normal,decent guy??you talk all this shit about how ts woman are vain,have egos and are shallow but yet you exhibit alot of the same traits.
im tall,lightskin,smooth and soft all over with a big butt(lol) but you dont see me walking around like im gods gift to men.

FreddieGomez
02-05-2011, 01:52 AM
and there you go with the cockiness again.dude are you ever just a normal,decent guy??you talk all this shit about how ts woman are vain,have egos and are shallow but yet you exhibit alot of the same traits.
im tall,lightskin,smooth and soft all over with a big butt(lol) but you dont see me walking around like im gods gift to men.

well

onmyknees
02-05-2011, 02:55 AM
and there you go with the cockiness again.dude are you ever just a normal,decent guy??you talk all this shit about how ts woman are vain,have egos and are shallow but yet you exhibit alot of the same traits.
im tall,lightskin,smooth and soft all over with a big butt(lol) but you dont see me walking around like im gods gift to men.

I read this dudes posts and think....WTF ..does he think that macho shit works on anybody but impressionable high school sophmores??

I think the dude just doesn't know how to tell Amber he's head over heels for her...so he talks shit. Because the flip side of that is unthinkable to him...what would they all say if they found out? The girl friend, the street corner possee, the Asian co-worker, the chick he likes at work. He'd be shunned....what's a chaser to do ????????? ......LMAO !!

FreddieGomez
02-05-2011, 03:17 AM
I read this dudes posts and think....WTF ..does he think that macho shit works on anybody but impressionable high school sophmores??

I think the dude just doesn't know how to tell Amber he's head over heels for her...so he talks shit. Because the flip side of that is unthinkable to him...what would they all say if they found out? The girl friend, the street corner possee, the Asian co-worker, the chick he likes at work. He'd be shunned....what's a chaser to do ????????? ......LMAO !!

trust me yo...dont worry about amber......

amberskyi
02-05-2011, 03:47 AM
I read this dudes posts and think....WTF ..does he think that macho shit works on anybody but impressionable high school sophmores??

I think the dude just doesn't know how to tell Amber he's head over heels for her...so he talks shit. Because the flip side of that is unthinkable to him...what would they all say if they found out? The girl friend, the street corner possee, the Asian co-worker, the chick he likes at work. He'd be shunned....what's a chaser to do ????????? ......LMAO !!

its unfortunate when people feel like they cant be themselves.we shouldnt make fun of them for it.
ive never really had to deal with a guy im dating or a boyfriend being ridiculed for being with me tho.im not sure if people didnt know or just didnt care but when im with guys we look and are treated just like any other couple.if it did happen i think i couldnt help but feel embarrassed or akward a bit

mikelpo
02-05-2011, 03:58 AM
I'm myself Amber I think your awesome

Willie Escalade
02-05-2011, 05:14 AM
yea i know how that feels i have a similar situation
Was in that situation as well...felt really bad until we talked it out. Now I hardly ever think about her. Hanging around gals like Aubrey and Katrina helps as well. :dancing:

innocentbychoice
02-06-2011, 03:59 PM
i thought about it, actually i spared everyone more details of that situation because i didnt want to sabotage the OP's subject, but i will add that this girl i am speaking of in my post though, we were dating briefly, i was taking her out for dinner and hanging out with her, taking her to the movies and she seemed really sweet and very into me during that period but she did keep asking me if i was gay. I was honestly answering her no. It turns out she was one of those type of girls who wanted a straight guy but because she was a ts, she automatically was suspicious of the motives of why a guy like me was interested in her, like a catch-22 situation. I told her i am not gay and that i asked her out because i honestly thought she was so beautiful, more so than 95% of the genetic women i see hanging around so why question it? But the thing was, i have lots of friends, some are gay, some of them are the girls who do shows, and in that case when she saw me there, she just probably assumed i was lying that whole time, guilt by association or something. So she ignored me the rest of the night, and the next day i texted her hey lets get together and go out, no reply from her at all which was strange because she would always respond right away. So, i waited a few days, playing it cool then sent her another text asking her if she'd like to grab some dinner together,,,nothing. Thats when i gave up and said i ain't chasing this girl down for this, fuck this. It's too bad though, because really she is my type of girl, small, 5' 2" petite, and drop dead gorgeous and all 100% bottom, and i am her type of guy, masculine alpha male 100% top type, so its really a shame. I'd like to say oh well her loss, but i can't say that because she is such a hot chic that there will be many more guys like me who are probably lining up right now for her. hahahaha. Actually, that ain't funny,,,

sorry about the long winded post though.

Well I'm glad to know that at least you tried.



I have a black girlfriend whom I love with all my heart and would do ANYTHING for. I fuck this asian chick on the side because her pussy is REAL and she can really take my quite above average dick. I fuck this thin blond chick because she's fun. Basically I suck at relationships...

You're a keeper lol ;).

amberskyi
02-06-2011, 05:05 PM
I'm myself Amber I think your awesome

thanks hun

FreddieGomez
02-06-2011, 06:25 PM
its unfortunate when people feel like they cant be themselves.we shouldnt make fun of them for it.
ive never really had to deal with a guy im dating or a boyfriend being ridiculed for being with me tho.im not sure if people didnt know or just didnt care but when im with guys we look and are treated just like any other couple.if it did happen i think i couldnt help but feel embarrassed or akward a bit

i carry extra baggage, i have a young son and if i came out sayin i was dating a trannie his momma would start some shit....i dont need or want my son turnin on me because her bullshit, he's still young and impressionable....she would talk mad shit out of revenge.....

leckery5
02-07-2011, 03:51 AM
Punt her. If you have feelings for her you have to treat it like an addiction. Cut her off one day at time until the feelings are a mere memory.

spankrod
02-07-2011, 04:13 AM
'Bout sums up this thread, perfectly.

YouTube - Strange Days (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WDuB01UDYXY)

Helvis2012
02-07-2011, 04:17 AM
Try to forget her. You're only driving yourself crazy.

FreddieGomez
02-07-2011, 04:44 AM
the chick is crazy....she says she's in a relationship with this other dude but texted me and asks if i want to meet up with her thursday night?....smh....

leckery
02-07-2011, 06:39 AM
the chick is crazy....she says she's in a relationship with this other dude but texted me and asks if i want to meet up with her thursday night?....smh....

I've experienced this. Do you want to be someone's plan B. If someone is still into you they don't act this way. Also, the ironic thing is that she will respect you more and might reignite her passion if you just pick up and leave. But you have to pick up and leave without trying to reignite her passion. You have to be doing it for yourself because you think too highly of yourself to be someone's security blanket.

FreddieGomez
02-09-2011, 01:36 AM
I think i'm over this chick now....i was upset when i realized she got a new man but now i don't care and i'm happy for her....sometimes i get sentimental and wanna be in a relationship but then i go back to not caring and like being single...right now i like being single....all these chicks....there's too damn many....lol

onmyknees
02-09-2011, 01:38 AM
I think i'm over this chick now....i was upset when i realized she got a new man but now i don't care and i'm happy for her....sometimes i get sentimental and wanna be in a relationship but then i go back to not caring and like being single...right now i like being single....all these chicks....there's too damn many....lol

Yea...I hear ya. Besides you know what they say being second ? LOL

FreddieGomez
02-09-2011, 01:39 AM
Yea...I hear ya. Besides you know what they say being second ? LOL

i was first....that dude is 2nd....she just misses my dick....she wanna meet me thursday to fuck even tho she got another man....smh

Jericho
02-09-2011, 01:44 AM
Phew...What ho, crisis over, then!

FreddieGomez
02-09-2011, 01:44 AM
Phew...What ho, crisis over, then!

yeah on to da next one.....

onmyknees
02-09-2011, 01:50 AM
i was first....that dude is 2nd....she just misses my dick....she wanna meet me thursday to fuck even tho she got another man....smh

yea...but last week when you were missin' her...the other dude was takin' care of that shit. Had you met her like you wanted....well... you figure it out !!! LOL

FreddieGomez
02-09-2011, 02:05 AM
yea...but last week when you were missin' her...the other dude was takin' care of that shit. Had you met her like you wanted....well... you figure it out !!! LOL

she is my son's mama.....lol.....

FreddieGomez
02-09-2011, 03:07 AM
She put that's she's single 40 minutes ago and keeps trying to get back with me....smh

nonnonnon
02-09-2011, 03:12 AM
do it

FreddieGomez
02-09-2011, 03:13 AM
do it

why? so we can play this game over and over again?

nonnonnon
02-09-2011, 03:18 AM
is it your kid's mom? you're probably gonna be seeing her for a long time ya know?

FreddieGomez
02-09-2011, 03:25 AM
is it your kid's mom? you're probably gonna be seeing her for a long time ya know?

she plays games.....i already gave her another chance....

amberskyi
02-09-2011, 03:39 AM
super happy i cant get pregnant

FreddieGomez
02-09-2011, 03:40 AM
super happy i cant get pregnant

stop lyin

amberskyi
02-09-2011, 03:45 AM
stop lyin
i wouldnt want to be tied to some nigga i might not like for the rest of my life

FreddieGomez
02-09-2011, 04:17 AM
i wouldnt want to be tied to some nigga i might not like for the rest of my life

u learn to deal with the situation for the sake of the kid...but we aint tied to each other....