Anybody else struggle with this Tgirl thing?

[The Magic One]

I didnt real get into it until I turned 18 and that was by accidentally running across someone elses search history. I found I couldnt resist tgirls for some strange reason. I grew up without ever thinking a gay thought and am guilty of wrongly beating up and bashing gays when I was younger.

Now every now and then I look at myself like what are you doing looking at dicks? Your not gay! So I'll lay off of the tgirl stuff for about a month at a time, but then I'll end up coming right back for a fix like a dope fiend. I think Im gonna give in and accept my feelings eventually, but right now this is hard on me. I was wondering if anybody else goes through similar feeling over this subject.

[2pert4ya]

I didnt real get into it until I turned 18 and that was by accidentally running across someone elses search history. I found I couldnt resist tgirls for some strange reason. I grew up without ever thinking a gay thought and am guilty of wrongly beating up and bashing gays when I was younger.

Now every now and then I look at myself like what are you doing looking at dicks? Your not gay! So I'll lay off of the tgirl stuff for about a month at a time, but then I'll end up coming right back for a fix like a dope fiend. I think Im gonna give in and accept my feelings eventually, but right now this is hard on me. I was wondering if anybody else goes through similar feeling over this subject.

i feel you cuz i had the same thing i never ever like dude at all ever, then one day when i was like in the 10th grade i saw a pic of a transexual and i was hook'd. i still dont like guys at all not sexy nope but i love females and tg's i tried to just mess with gg but i tend to go back to tg's and gg at the same time. i get mad love from both but you aint alone

[partlycloudy]

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[2pert4ya]

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thats the funniest shit ever what the fuck!!!

[The Magic One]

I didnt real get into it until I turned 18 and that was by accidentally running across someone elses search history. I found I couldnt resist tgirls for some strange reason. I grew up without ever thinking a gay thought and am guilty of wrongly beating up and bashing gays when I was younger.

Now every now and then I look at myself like what are you doing looking at dicks? Your not gay! So I'll lay off of the tgirl stuff for about a month at a time, but then I'll end up coming right back for a fix like a dope fiend. I think Im gonna give in and accept my feelings eventually, but right now this is hard on me. I was wondering if anybody else goes through similar feeling over this subject.

i feel you cuz i had the same thing i never ever like dude at all ever, then one day when i was like in the 10th grade i saw a pic of a transexual and i was hook'd. i still dont like guys at all not sexy nope but i love females and tg's i tried to just mess with gg but i tend to go back to tg's and gg at the same time. i get mad love from both but you aint aloneIt's good to know a nigga aint alone in the world. Thanks cuz

[The Magic One]

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Thats a funny lookin black dude.

[DC]

I used to think exactly like you, then I thought what the fuck am I worrying about, this is what I like so who gives a fuck. I like GGs and TGs and have never looked at another male in a sexual way whatsoever.
Things are not always black or white, sometimes there are shade of grey..

DC

[brickcitybrother]

I'll co-sign. I stopped worrying about it when I realized I treat these 'gurls' just like other 'girls' in and out of bed.

[A_Thug_Fessional]

I didnt real get into it until I turned 18 and that was by accidentally running across someone elses search history. I found I couldnt resist tgirls for some strange reason. I grew up without ever thinking a gay thought and am guilty of wrongly beating up and bashing gays when I was younger.

Now every now and then I look at myself like what are you doing looking at dicks? Your not gay! So I'll lay off of the tgirl stuff for about a month at a time, but then I'll end up coming right back for a fix like a dope fiend. I think Im gonna give in and accept my feelings eventually, but right now this is hard on me. I was wondering if anybody else goes through similar feeling over this subject.


Everyday bruh.
I grew up as the guy in school all the shorties jocked. Another mans dick nevvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvver crossed my mind. I was on pussy 24/7. Sometimes I sit and think how in the fuck did this get stuck on my mind? It doesn't really bother me though. It is what it is and I accept it now. The thing that used to bother me the most though is the fact that my pops was a preacher and well, you know the whole going to hell in a handbasket with 666 on my forehead for laying with 'another man' thing kinda blew my mind...

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

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I want to applaud cloudy for making the BEST fucking response post all day.................. fucking CLASSICS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

to answer the original question, bruh you're good, relax

like I said in an earlier posts you are who YOU are, bottom line is you like WOMEN...................

[Quinn]

I don’t worry about it at all. Seriously, I sleep with transsexuals and women, but not with men. Does that make me strait, bi, gay, or something else? Who cares. If sleeping with men actually turned me on, I would do it and still not care about any of this. The fact is that I am the same man regardless of whom I choose to fuck. From my perspective, defining yourself by your sexual preference, much less turning it into an entire “lifestyle,” is a mark of insecurity and self-loathing. Define yourself by something that’s important because this isn’t.

-Quinn

[Ecstatic]

Well said, Quinn.

[4DegreesWarmer]

Definitely...

Anytime something such as a sexual preference can manage to define you as a person, I'd say your world is rather small.

As for struggling with tg attraction, I think everyone goes through that phase...some heavier than others. The typical "fuck this insanity, I need to stop" and you'll go on some warped spring cleaning like binge and delete every piece of tg porn you have. You feel purged and "clean," then a few weeks later you're back into old habits(And pissed you got rid of everything, haha). In the end you like what you like...you have to accept yourself as is. The worst feeling in the world is justifying your thoughts and feelings to yourself...once you realize this isn't a big issue, you'll probably feel less stressed.

[scipio]

I don’t worry about it at all. Seriously, I sleep with transsexuals and women, but not with men. Does that make me strait, bi, gay, or something else? Who cares. If sleeping with men actually turned me on, I would do it and still not care about any of this. The fact is that I am the same man regardless of whom I choose to fuck. From my perspective, defining yourself by your sexual preference, much less turning it into an entire “lifestyle,” is a mark of insecurity and self-loathing. Define yourself by something that’s important because this isn’t.

-Quinn

Amen.

[Hugh Jarrod]

Not to be a dick or anything (maybe a smart ass) but if you do a search with phrases like "Is it gay" "Is it straight" "I'm I gay" "Is it gay to like transsexuals" or similar phrases, you'll find this topic. Which gets posted about 2 - 4 times a month or so.

[NYCe]

This is probably the most posted topic on this forum, but from doing outreach work its probably the most asked question.

There's basically no support system in place for males attracted to transsexuals. They're thrown to the wayside and expected to figure things out for themselves. I estimate that at least a handful of guys have committed suicide because of this (no proof of this but trust me on this). Its a heavy cross to bear especially if your not prepared to deal with it.

While doing outreach work at a program here in NYC, I remember looking at some sent emails from the person who I replaced. Anytime a guy wrote in on this topic he was directed to the nearest tranny bar (nowbar, edelweiss, etc). There was absolutely no support system or network in place for males attracted to transgendered women.

[DJ_Asia]

Many good views here...

Been into TS since I was 14 or so..hated myself for it for about 18 years..Finally I just realized that me liking TS wasnt a bad thing,and wasnt hurting anybody by doing it,except for myself and the self loathing I was putting myself through.

Now I make my living shooting pics and vids w/ TS girls and have had many beautiful girlfriends,and gotten to know many on a very good friendship level.

Most of us go through it,but like I said in a nother post...

Relax and enjoy what you enjoy.

DJ Asia

[dajuicy]

yea....no doubt in my mind, there are many many of us out there, and for those that have "issues", which a lotof us do, there is no place, cause we are, a widely misunderstood group of dudes, thats for sure...even among ourselves, tops/bottoms, there seems to be a wide gulf in understanding, and thats why, this little place, ha is for me damn important, even when its just a bunch of bull flying, i check in almost daily to see what the dilio is....i find it refreshing to note, that some of the younger guys, seem more at ease with the situation and more comfortable with who they are. im older and more in the closet than that....i find, at work, hangin with the fellas, most hetero guys think anything related to shemales is "strictly for fags"....kinda thing...but when i kinda invite them to take a walk on the "wild side"..they are excitably curious, and also kinda afraid they might like it...ha....

[DJ_Asia]

thats because most men are at least curious,some much more than just curious about TS girls,but will never admit it.
The guys who yell "Fag" the loudest are the ones who will go for it if given the chance.

I have had much contact with alot of the girls in the community,and it seems some of the girls esp. when they were younger enjoyed going out to straight clubs,picking up on men,and not divulging the "surprise"until they were alone and in private.
3 girls told me about this,but im sure that many more have done it.One of the girls was a very well known american porn girl,and the other 2 were unknowns,but pretty and quite passable.Between the 3 they claimed to have had close to 2,000 encounters like this(yeah....2,000!). Out of 2,000 guys who thought they were hooking up with a GG,and then realized that the girl was slinging cock....only 1....ONE guy got up and left w/o any further contact when he saw cock instead of vagina.

I have told this story before and im always met with skepticism,but I have no reason to doubt the girls stories..each was told to me individually and was told w/o any type of bragging or bravado.

If these numbers are correct,then the conclusion I draw is that if a guy thinks he wont get caught,and has the chance....he will hook up w/ a TS...and then the next day at the office call anybody who likes TS's a "Fag"

DJ Asia

[hwbs]

my friends have seen the maury type shows and stuff and they confided they would hook up if given the chance .... btw , they are big fans of vanity and danielle foxx....hmmmnow i know what to get them for christmas :whoa

[supaflyy22]

I can relate......I can't count the number of times I asked myself what the hell is wrong with you. I'm just attracted to the femiminity of these lady and the extra package just adds to the mystique......but you def. ain't alone man. I thought I was about to go through another one of my cycles where I leave all this stuff alone for a while but I was surfing yestertday and found this site.......and it's free!!!!.....so I guess I'm back at it.

[lahabra1976]

I don't know, when I found out I liked tgirls, I pretty much accepted it right away

My question is what is it that makes a guy feel shameful about liking tgirls? The fact that he might be gay? Like dick? Confused between women and tgirls and feeling he has to choose (almost like the gault a bisexual might feel I guess)?

[Grimey]

Hey I feel ya. I first got hooked when I saw the Vanessa Del Rio movie that had the TS in it. From that day on I've been watching TS movies, going to the Powerexchange in San Fran, and was seeing a TS every Friday night before work. Don't get me wrong I love wome, but its something about a T-girl that got a brother sprung.

[drock]

I didnt real get into it until I turned 18 and that was by accidentally running across someone elses search history. I found I couldnt resist tgirls for some strange reason. I grew up without ever thinking a gay thought and am guilty of wrongly beating up and bashing gays when I was younger.

Now every now and then I look at myself like what are you doing looking at dicks? Your not gay! So I'll lay off of the tgirl stuff for about a month at a time, but then I'll end up coming right back for a fix like a dope fiend. I think Im gonna give in and accept my feelings eventually, but right now this is hard on me. I was wondering if anybody else goes through similar feeling over this subject.

i feel you cuz i had the same thing i never ever like dude at all ever, then one day when i was like in the 10th grade i saw a pic of a transexual and i was hook'd. i still dont like guys at all not sexy nope but i love females and tg's i tried to just mess with gg but i tend to go back to tg's and gg at the same time. i get mad love from both but you aint aloneIt's good to know a nigga aint alone in the world. Thanks cuz


Good thread bro, and I know exactly what you're talking about and sometimes I ponder some of the same dayum questions myself.

[kyle20360]

I didnt real get into it until I turned 18 and that was by accidentally running across someone elses search history. I found I couldnt resist tgirls for some strange reason. I grew up without ever thinking a gay thought and am guilty of wrongly beating up and bashing gays when I was younger.

Now every now and then I look at myself like what are you doing looking at dicks? Your not gay! So I'll lay off of the tgirl stuff for about a month at a time, but then I'll end up coming right back for a fix like a dope fiend. I think Im gonna give in and accept my feelings eventually, but right now this is hard on me. I was wondering if anybody else goes through similar feeling over this subject.

i felt the same way until i red the response

thanx

[BOATER]

I think the majority of us struggled with it at some point. I actually felt like I was going to throw up after my first experience. I was new to it and she tried to have me perform oral. I was sick that I would even think of doing that. After that I swore myself, never again. But then everytime I saw a pic of the Allanah Starr, I said "there can't be anything wrong with being attracted to her". ANd there absolutely isn't.
So in time I excepted that I am attracted to fem TS girls and there is nothing wrong with it.
There was a time that I only dated latin woman. I got over that also. I now find myself attracted to girl of all ethnicities. And at some point have dated al types of girls, literally.
Bottom line is I love womenly figures, curves, beauty, emotion and though process. So I'm my opinion most of the TS girls I have met are all this. So they are women to me.
The dick makes it just amazing that they are so beautiful and have something extra. But to me it doesn't add or take away from my attraction. I still love pussy. But I asos love a great ass.

[suchgreatheights]

Just a thought.
Would you guys like twinks? Or like emo style kinda gay boys?

[The Magic One]

Just a thought.
Would you guys like twinks? Or like emo style kinda gay boys?

Being attracted to Transsexuals is difficult and hard to accept enough. That would just be going overboard.

[suchgreatheights]

hmmm cos I wonder sometimes really whats the diff... Alot of emo type gay boys or twinks sometimes look so girly. A number of TS were gay boys as well before transition...

I get the feeling sometimes the attraction is not really simply feminine beauty in the strict sense but more to the attraction of knowing that a male can appear so feminine? I'm not sure if its correct (maybe thats why preop is preferred over postop?).

These are some random examples of I mentioned above floating around myspace... these are not like pre puberscent guys but rather 20 or 19ish kind of ages.

[The Magic One]

Nah I like big titties and thick asses. Thats on some Michael Jackson, Macualey Culkin, pedophile shit right there.