is it OK not to vote on a potential Daryl ban?

[MdR Dave]

So, being new and trying not to piss anyone off, I face a dilemma: vote on the Daryl ban or not?

I don't know much about him, have only a month's exposure to the back and forth between he and those he has angered, and I sure as heck can't know the whole story or what goes on offline.

I have nothing but love. Yet I see the whole situation as a threat to this community and that bothers me ( though I'm not really a part off it yet.). And even Jesus is coming back with a sword in his hand the next time around- forget turning the other cheek, it will be a "slay them where they stand and f*ck them where they fall" kind of thing. ( Not being religious, I'm not even Christian- it's just a metaphor.)

There is the free speech, "it's only the internet" thing to balance against the potential real world issues and the fact that without the girls none of us would be here- do we really want HA diminished in any way?

So I ask the following: do you think it's OK not to vote one way or the other? Judging by the poll numbers a lot of folks are abstaining

[runround04]

Give it another week, you'll wanna vote, I promise.

To ban- He's kind of annoying and has a big mouth

To keep-He's kind of annoying and has a big mouth

Its up to you my friend, and remember, this is the internet, this shit matters!!

[BellaBellucci]

You do realize that the mods make their decisions independent of our polls, right? :geek:

~BB~

[MdR Dave]

You do realize that the mods make their decisions independent of our polls, right? :geek:

~BB~



Counting on it. Why would it be any different than the government?

And the preferred term is 'nerd'.

[MdR Dave]

There just isn't a smiley for nerd- the 'geek' smiley should have a chicken hanging out of his mouth.

Yep, nerd. No denying it now!

Off to bite the heads off of chickens at the local boardwalk- not even CLOSE to the worst thing Venice has seen!

[bladex76]

i like daryl he is a joke and sometimes funny he is a legend on his own mind what is funny about him is what he thinks and does hey we all need somebody to make us laugh without worrry about someday shotting us

[BigDF]

i like daryl he is a joke and sometimes funny he is a legend on his own mind what is funny about him is what he thinks and does hey we all need somebody to make us laugh without worrry about someday shotting usThe ban is based on his behavior towards certain individuals as opposed to his general BS. If you look through some of the last few weeks worth of posts you will find where he has been trying very hard to convince someone who obviously is not interested into having sexual relations with him. Now we find he has followed her from here to other places on the net and is continuing to harass her. That is an unacceptable escalation of his behavior and we should not stand for it. This is not funny stuff and to treat it as such is dangerous. This situation is getting out of hand and we should not allow such a person to continue to harass our ladies on here.

I did not come here to interact with a bunch of guys; I've done that enough in my life. I'm here for the ladies and interesting conversations with them. I've seen enough crap on here from ignorant guys like Daryl and some of the others. I would not ban Daryl for anything he has said on here, but I will not stand for him to go outside of here and harass any of our ladies.

[bridgetbbyxo]

Stfu newbie, nobody cares what you have to say.

[BigDF]

Stfu newbie, nobody cares what you have to say.You talkin' to me, Mousy?

[Ryz]

Having him banned from here isn't gonna stop him from being on their you tube channels and such.

[tsdvdman]

The ban is based on his behavior towards certain individuals as opposed to his general BS. If you look through some of the last few weeks worth of posts you will find where he has been trying very hard to convince someone who obviously is not interested into having sexual relations with him. Now we find he has followed her from here to other places on the net and is continuing to harass her. That is an unacceptable escalation of his behavior and we should not stand for it. This is not funny stuff and to treat it as such is dangerous. This situation is getting out of hand and we should not allow such a person to continue to harass our ladies on here.

I did not come here to interact with a bunch of guys; I've done that enough in my life. I'm here for the ladies and interesting conversations with them. I've seen enough crap on here from ignorant guys like Daryl and some of the others. I would not ban Daryl for anything he has said on here, but I will not stand for him to go outside of here and harass any of our ladies.
Dude you have way too much time on your hands. You sound more like the type that would stalk and harass than Daryl. "Our ladies". Please! They don't give a fuck about you..

[hwbs]

Freedom of speech does not apply here....the site is privately owned and is a privilige and not a right to post here.....and what people post on youtube has nothing to do with us...

[rockabilly]

Stfu newbie, nobody cares what you have to say.

http://www.gifbin.com/bin/1237977238_pineapple-express-laughing.gif

[TsVanessa69]

Freedom of speech does not apply here....the site is privately owned and is a privilige and not a right to post here.....and what people post on youtube has nothing to do with us...
Now thats what I like to hear!

[TSLexiWade]

This thread kinda makes me wonder - why can't you make your own independent decisions? Do you ask for input when it comes to voting for the president? I mean, I'm almost certain that most people these days are able to make an educated decision based on facts & evidence on their own - but, did you seriously ask for opinions on this matter?


Just my two cents...

[BigDF]

Dude you have way too much time on your hands. You sound more like the type that would stalk and harass than Daryl. "Our ladies". Please! They don't give a fuck about you..Yeah, I do have a lot of time on my hands, but it beats going to the casinos. Apparently so do you.

[flabbybody]

This thread kinda makes me wonder - why can't you make your own independent decisions? Do you ask for input when it comes to voting for the president? I mean, I'm almost certain that most people these days are able to make an educated decision based on facts & evidence on their own - but, did you seriously ask for opinions on this matter?


Just my two cents...

what's also sad is that the person in question craves attention like a child, and then continues to get it heaped on him even after he's gone.

[TsVanessa69]

what's also sad is that the person in question craves attention like a child, and then continues to get it heaped on him even after he's gone.
But the bottom line here is he is gone???

[Silcc69]

Freedom of speech does not apply here....the site is privately owned and is a privilige and not a right to post here.....and what people post on youtube has nothing to do with us...

IDK why people cant figure that out.

[rockabilly]

But the bottom line here is he is gone???

http://www.documentingreality.com/forum/customavatars/avatar8903_15.gif

[MrsKellyPierce]

ummmmmmmmmmmm ok

[dopearope]

either way you're a lame

[MdR Dave]

Lame? Probably true but probably not for the reasons you may ascribe. I ask questions to know what you think- I know my mind, believe me. And I know where my thoughts lie in the Daryl question. I wasn't asking me.

I will be considerate about wasting space and time. Even as a "newbie" I am aware of the dangers of speaking out- virtual though they may be- but I'm pretty good at doing what I want to do. I understand my irrelevance to you and yet. . .I still want to know things. It's a fire that can't be quenched or smothered.

Nice to see someone use the phrase "our girls" even if seemed to be to the exclusion of me.


I love you guys.

[BigDF]

Lame? Probably true but probably not for the reasons you may ascribe. I ask questions to know what you think- I know my mind, believe me. And I know where my thoughts lie in the Daryl question. I wasn't asking me.

I will be considerate about wasting space and time. Even as a "newbie" I am aware of the dangers of speaking out- virtual though they may be- but I'm pretty good at doing what I want to do. I understand my irrelevance to you and yet. . .I still want to know things. It's a fire that can't be quenched or smothered.

Nice to see someone use the phrase "our girls" even if seemed to be to the exclusion of me.


I love you guys.That would be me and I did not mean it to exclude you. I have to admit that I thought you were a guy, obviously a stupid assumption on my part and I sincerely apologize for that.

I've often referred to our ladies which is how I think of all of the women on here. Another person has chided me for that saying "they don't give a fuck about you." That's fine, they don't have to care about me if they don't want to. I decide who I care about and for. And there are some really awesome ladies on here.

As for your question, my opinion continues to be that this is our forum, even if it technically belongs to the owners, all of us provide content and there should be consequences for our actions on here. There are rules about our behavior and if someone crosses the line, then action needs to be taken. Of course the actions taken are the exclusive domain of the moderators. Although it appears action was taken, I'm not entirely sure it had anything to do with the issue debated in the original thread.

You have as much right as anyone else on here to ask questions and start threads. If you didn't you wouldn't have been able to start this thread. And while there is some risk in speaking out, there is much more in keeping silent when you think something is wrong. That can be very bad for your own mental health, M'lady.

Have a pleasant day

Dave

[addicted]

dumb poast

[BigDF]

dumb poastKind of the pot calling the kettle black, don't you think?