Sexual skills.............................

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

Aniyah & I were talking the other night about sexual skills, and we both laughed because we are in agreement that there is alot more to fucking than having an enormous 3rd leg..........................

so I thought it might be an interesting thread to start and see what other folks had to say about sexual skills............ who knows you might learn something

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

know what's sad, I have YET!!!!!!!!!!!!! to find a tgirl that has those types of handjob skills............... you figured tgirls would be the best handjob specialist in existance.

[BlackAdder]

okay..thats a first....Ive never heard "whacking off" and "open flame" in the same sentence before.....Excuse me whilst i go put on my flame-retardent underwear.....


And there certainly more to it then having a big dick. It can be quite uncomfortable for one, but then again theres guys that like to be slammed like there riding a horse so wtf do i know......

But the dick isnt the first thing im looking for thats for sure.

[sexxxylexi]

know what's sad, I have YET!!!!!!!!!!!!! to find a tgirl that has those types of handjob skills............... you figured tgirls would be the best handjob specialist in existance.

Think about by the time a tgirl goes to give u a hand job she is bored with it from jurking herself off all the time :lol:

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

know what's sad, I have YET!!!!!!!!!!!!! to find a tgirl that has those types of handjob skills............... you figured tgirls would be the best handjob specialist in existance.

Think about by the time a tgirl goes to give u a hand job she is bored with it from jurking herself off all the time :lol:

point taken

[sexxxylexi]

know what's sad, I have YET!!!!!!!!!!!!! to find a tgirl that has those types of handjob skills............... you figured tgirls would be the best handjob specialist in existance.

Think about by the time a tgirl goes to give u a hand job she is bored with it from jurking herself off all the time :lol:

point taken

Besides who needs a good hand job when u can get a good blow job? :twisted:

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

Besides who needs a good hand job when u can get a good blow job? :twisted:

well.........................lol
if it fits

[mbf]

Think about by the time a tgirl goes to give u a hand job she is bored with it from jurking herself off all the time :lol:

awww poor lexi

u need a helping hand with that???

[sexxxylexi]

Besides who needs a good hand job when u can get a good blow job? :twisted:

well.........................lol
if it fits

if it fits eh? sounds like to me u have been with some lazy tgirls bad hand jobs and no blow jobs cause it cant fit :shock:

[sexxxylexi]

Think about by the time a tgirl goes to give u a hand job she is bored with it from jurking herself off all the time :lol:

awww poor lexi

u need a helping hand with that???

LMAO how about a few extra hands hell why not throw a mouth in there :lol: jk

[BOATER]

Know how to work/move/rotate your hips is an important skill. I had a girl that looked so unbelieveably good, but sucked a riding. Always out of rhythym, I really had to coach her movement by holding her hips.
But the same ges to us guys, knowing how to hit angles and spots is more important that having a huge monster. But you have to still have a desent size to work angles.
Good tongue action is good too. Knowing how to use different force and speed at the right time. Soft and gentle when situation fits to hard and fast.

Damn, I wanna demonstrate on Lexi. lol

[sexxxylexi]

Know how to work/move/rotate your hips is an important skill. I had a girl that looked so unbelieveably good, but sucked a riding. Always out of rhythym, I really had to coach her movement by holding her hips.
But the same ges to us guys, knowing how to hit angles and spots is more important that having a huge monster. But you have to still have a desent size to work angles.
Good tongue action is good too. Knowing how to use different force and speed at the right time. Soft and gentle when situation fits to hard and fast.

Damn, I wanna demonstrate on Lexi. lol

lol oh do u now?

[mbf]

Think about by the time a tgirl goes to give u a hand job she is bored with it from jurking herself off all the time :lol:

awww poor lexi

u need a helping hand with that???

LMAO how about a few extra hands hell why not throw a mouth in there :lol: jk

well lexi i can very well see me givin u good oral advice too. many of my friends say i am a loudmouth :lol:

[BOATER]

Know how to work/move/rotate your hips is an important skill. I had a girl that looked so unbelieveably good, but sucked a riding. Always out of rhythym, I really had to coach her movement by holding her hips.
But the same ges to us guys, knowing how to hit angles and spots is more important that having a huge monster. But you have to still have a desent size to work angles.
Good tongue action is good too. Knowing how to use different force and speed at the right time. Soft and gentle when situation fits to hard and fast.

Damn, I wanna demonstrate on Lexi. lol

lol oh do u now?

Do I? Would I? Most definetly, I just browsed your site. And swing. My demontrating tools are ready. Lets show the class a few tricks. lol :wink:

[Quinn]

I used to date a girl in Thornaby whose handjob skills bordered on the miraculous.

When I was 19, I dated a Jewish girl who was like the female Houdini of handjobs. Seriously, they were so good, after a while, I didn't even want to fuck her anymore. I've never run into another woman that could even come close as far as that one particular skill is concerned.

-Quinn

[hwbs]

i see its choppy weather out in the open ocean , lmao

[BeardedOne]

I learned at an early age that 'licking the alphabet' could make you lots of friends. :o

Of course, this works pretty well on a GG as letters like 'H' cover the sides rather well and 'I' goes right up the garden path. :D

And 'W' or 'M', well crikeys! :shock:

I've never tried this with a T-girl, though. Would the same letters work? Perhaps Cyrillic? Arabic?

Chineeeeese :?:

Heh. :twisted:

[tsluver247]

Sexual skills is more than a big penis. It is about connecting on an intimate level for some. It is all about being fuck right for some. Everyone is different, your sexual skills maybe great on someone and horrible on another person. The fun part is finding out and explore what your partner likes. Personally, I think to make it memoriable. I try to set the mood with a combination of music (sound), candlelit dinner (sight & taste), potpourri (smell), and foreplay with good sex (touch). You have to pre-heat the oven before you stick the meat in. I try to hit the five senses to make the event memoriable as possible, but how someone reacts or preceives the event differs from person to person. As far as sex, I look deep into their eyes from time to time, breathe in their ear, talk dirty to some, and try to hard or softly touching (based on the person) each of her erogenous zones (her lips, her ears, her neck, her scalp, her breasts/nipples, her gentalia (last part), her back, her fingers/toes, her ass, and her perineum).

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

You have to pre-heat the oven before you stick the meat in.

best line in this thread so far........................lol

[ANIYAH]

Know how to work/move/rotate your hips is an important skill. I had a girl that looked so unbelieveably good, but sucked a riding. Always out of rhythym, I really had to coach her movement by holding her hips.
But the same ges to us guys, knowing how to hit angles and spots is more important that having a huge monster. But you have to still have a desent size to work angles.
Good tongue action is good too. Knowing how to use different force and speed at the right time. Soft and gentle when situation fits to hard and fast.

So well explained ...I cosign


Sexual skills is more than a big penis. It is about connecting on an intimate level for some. It is all about being fuck right for some. Everyone
is different, your sexual skills maybe great on someone and horrible on another person. The fun part is finding out and explore what your partner likes. Personally, I think to make it memoriable. I try to set the mood with a combination of music (sound), candlelit dinner (sight & taste), potpourri (smell), and foreplay with good sex (touch). You have to pre-heat the oven before you stick the meat in. I try to hit the five senses to make the event memoriable as possible, but how someone reacts or preceives the event differs from person to person. As far as sex, I look deep into their eyes from time to time, breathe in their ear, talk dirty to some, and try to hard or softly touching (based on the person) each of her erogenous zones (her lips, her ears, her neck, her scalp, her breasts/nipples, her gentalia (last part), her back, her fingers/toes, her ass, and her perineum).

Now with this I would like to ask the difference between fucking and making love ???

I feel there a difference between a good Fuck ,and Good love making
Someone can Fuck u one time in life and that best sex u ever had or the worse ....I think all that deep into eyes candlelite dinner is more lovemaking ...In the convo with me and JWL we where not to refering to making love ...I think we where refering to straight out fucking .... 8)

My defination of Sexual Skill is a Man who stroke is on point ....Imma size queen so a big one is always a plus ....I like to be fucked hard for long periods of time ....I love that smacking sound ....Skills is if a man can fuck me and make me cum on my self with me touching myself ....There has only been one man in my life who could attempt this ....Dam i miss him :oops: Skill is when a Man fuck u so hard u Tremble after wards and dont even wanna move ...Skill is when a man can just throw u in diffent positions without his dick livng u once ...Thats some good stuff right there 8) ...Dam i need some sex now ....Lol
The receiver needs skills as well "Take it like champ" throw it back with the right force and rhythm ....When your riding it and on topu must use the right force or the guy can feel like a medicine ball is being droped on his chest ....I think a skillful blowjob is not a sloppy one but a wet one ....and ofcoasre NO TEETH ...DAM I HATE THAT !!!!!.Great rhythm and i alway like to moan while i do it ...I think the sensation from the moan on the penis makes guys go nuts 8)

[blckhaze]

You have to pre-heat the oven before you stick the meat in.

best line in this thread so far........................lol

best line on whole board

[canihavu]

know what's sad, I have YET!!!!!!!!!!!!! to find a tgirl that has those types of handjob skills............... you figured tgirls would be the best handjob specialist in existance.

Think about by the time a tgirl goes to give u a hand job she is bored with it from jurking herself off all the time :lol:

point taken

Besides who needs a good hand job when u can get a good blow job? :twisted:

Personally, I like to get 'em both. :lol: There is a Go Go bar in Irvington where the girls would give hand-jobs to guys while they sat at the bar. Some of those girls skills were AMAZING!!!

[canihavu]

Think about by the time a tgirl goes to give u a hand job she is bored with it from jurking herself off all the time :lol:

awww poor lexi

u need a helping hand with that???

LMAO how about a few extra hands hell why not throw a mouth in there :lol: jk

Lexi it sounds like you have an oral fixation... :D

[canihavu]

Know how to work/move/rotate your hips is an important skill. I had a girl that looked so unbelieveably good, but sucked a riding. Always out of rhythym, I really had to coach her movement by holding her hips.
But the same ges to us guys, knowing how to hit angles and spots is more important that having a huge monster. But you have to still have a desent size to work angles.
Good tongue action is good too. Knowing how to use different force and speed at the right time. Soft and gentle when situation fits to hard and fast.

So well explained ...I cosign


Sexual skills is more than a big penis. It is about connecting on an intimate level for some. It is all about being fuck right for some. Everyone
is different, your sexual skills maybe great on someone and horrible on another person. The fun part is finding out and explore what your partner likes. Personally, I think to make it memoriable. I try to set the mood with a combination of music (sound), candlelit dinner (sight & taste), potpourri (smell), and foreplay with good sex (touch). You have to pre-heat the oven before you stick the meat in. I try to hit the five senses to make the event memoriable as possible, but how someone reacts or preceives the event differs from person to person. As far as sex, I look deep into their eyes from time to time, breathe in their ear, talk dirty to some, and try to hard or softly touching (based on the person) each of her erogenous zones (her lips, her ears, her neck, her scalp, her breasts/nipples, her gentalia (last part), her back, her fingers/toes, her ass, and her perineum).

Now with this I would like to ask the difference between fucking and making love ???

I feel there a difference between a good Fuck ,and Good love making
Someone can Fuck u one time in life and that best sex u ever had or the worse ....I think all that deep into eyes candlelite dinner is more lovemaking ...In the convo with me and JWL we where not to refering to making love ...I think we where refering to straight out fucking .... 8)

My defination of Sexual Skill is a Man who stroke is on point ....Imma size queen so a big one is always a plus ....I like to be fucked hard for long periods of time ....I love that smacking sound ....Skills is if a man can fuck me and make me cum on my self with me touching myself ....There has only been one man in my life who could attempt this ....Dam i miss him :oops: Skill is when a Man fuck u so hard u Tremble after wards and dont even wanna move ...Skill is when a man can just throw u in diffent positions without his dick livng u once ...Thats some good stuff right there 8) ...Dam i need some sex now ....Lol
The receiver needs skills as well "Take it like champ" throw it back with the right force and rhythm ....When your riding it and on topu must use the right force or the guy can feel like a medicine ball is being droped on his chest ....I think a skillful blowjob is not a sloppy one but a wet one ....and ofcoasre NO TEETH ...DAM I HATE THAT !!!!!.Great rhythm and i alway like to moan while i do it ...I think the sensation from the moan on the penis makes guys go nuts 8)

Damn girl you should have your own advice column or something. That was on point...

[ANIYAH]

Link below 8)

[canihavu]

Link below 8)

I'm gonna check it out right now... 8)

[Ecstatic]

Point on, both tsluver and Aniyah. And great points about the motion of the receiver as well as the top, Aniyah. As a versatile guy (depending on the girl I'm with), I know this both ways around: when I'm top, I love a girl who is responsive and knows how to move with me, and when I'm bottom I give it back the same way. Passively laying there and receiving or topping a girl who simply lays there is nowhere. It's like the old blues song: "Some men ride you like your back ain't got no bone / I want a man to ride me like his backbone was my own."

The two most gifted TG partners I've known are quite different in style and bring different skills to the bedroom, but both are very hot and both subtle and extreme by turns. One, a latina, is very versatile, so we tend to switch positions several times during lovemaking. She's a big girl (7.5" honest inches, and thick--always pushes my upper limit when I'm bottom with her) and knows how to use it, but she has endless energy and can make love for hours. She'll take me several different ways, and I'll return the favor. And she has cum with me at least a half dozen times (fully functional, indeed).

The other girl is Thai; yes, Venus, who lives in NYC. I swear she knows ancient secret Thai lovemaking skills like I've never seen, from the way she runs her fingernails over my body (turning me into a quivering mass of hyperstimulated sensation) to multiple different positions, some of which I never thought I could get into, like sitting facing one another with her inside me, then us both laying back without coming out. Or rolling from one position to another and keeping the motion going.

But it's also about mood and lighting and easing into it with gentle touching and conversation: preheating the oven, a great image. And easing out as well, taking time afterwards to just lie and cuddle and quietly talk before moving on to whatever is next.

[tsluver247]

Aniyah, don't get me wrong I know the difference between making love and fucking. IMHO, either case you have to set the environment to the person. Some people get off on public sex or dungeon scenery. Talk dirty gets some people off. Wet sloppy blow jobs get some people off. Which reminds me I need to see Danielle Foxx. :wink: :lol: Some people like it rough. Some people like it slow. It is important to look for hints based on your conversation with the person you want to fuck. It is important to ask questions that may probe into a person's mind on what they like, e.g. what is your favorite movie (romantic movies), what books do you like to read (romantic novels), etc.

There is something called NLP Neuro Linguistic Programming. It is important to understand it to learn how to get people to remember you. Give them the fuck of their life by getting into their mind. Give them something to remember you by. For instance, I give them a Snickers bar after sex and tell them Snickers really satisfies you. Believe they will remember you every time they see a Snickers commercial. Why do you think Snickers is my nickname? :wink: :lol:

Knowing the erogenous zones are important. Probe the prostate and / or G-Spot / Clit are important too. My 6" girth doesn't hurt either. Love swings (http://www.toyssexshop.com/products/bms550LS.htm) are nice.

[tsluver247]

NLP: How many people think of an ex when they hear a song? I play music CD of Michael Buble, Bryan Adams, Enrique Iglesias, Mana, Isaac Hayes, Barry White, Luther Vandross, etc. for a reason. Tying memories of the things I do or say to songs or other things, e.g. Snickers, helps making the experiences memoriable. Just don't get your balls jammed in your zipper. Franks and beans! :wink: :lol: Who has a sexier voice? Barry White or Screech from Save by the Bell? Talking in a lower pinch helps. Looking lost in their eyes helps. Saying sweet (or dirty) things, writing poems, reading poems all help. I went to a strip club a while back and a stripper that I have not seen in over two years still remembered me and my name. Think of all the clients she sees over a year, yet he still remembers me. NLP works. Tie up someone and blindfold them, softly touch them with your fingers or a feather, breathe on parts of their body, focus on every part of their body except for the gentalia, then make them beg to touch them there. They will remember sex like that. If they like it fast, then make them beg to bang them fast. Tease them, but not too long.

[4DegreesWarmer]

Cool, another NLP freak :D

My dad basically introduced me to it. He's really big on it...he's naturally a salesman and over the years he's gotten more into the psychology of it all. I try to do it...though I think it come naturally...I like creating "inside" things for people whom I like to remember me by.

Though, it sucks when you're on the receiving end of it sometimes...specific dates, a plethora of songs, movie lines, phrases, and gestures all remind me of one person. In short you people should research NLP.

[slinky]

NLP: How many people think of an ex when they hear a song? .

You know, you're right! I am totally reminded about one of my ex's every time one of her videos comes on MTV.

[tsluver247]

NLP: How many people think of an ex when they hear a song? .

You know, you're right! I am totally reminded about one of my ex's every time one of her videos comes on MTV.

Oops I did it again! :wink: :lol:

[sheyum]

heh cavinaugh
wheres THAT club---in irvington NY??
do tell....

[canihavu]

heh cavinaugh
wheres THAT club---in irvington NY??
do tell....

Its in Irvington, NJ. Actually there were two of them. One is called Vic's on Stuvesant. They have been busted a few times so I don't know if they have become more strick lately and the other place was on 18th Ave - the name of that place escapes me at the moment...

[slinky]

All in Irvington:

Vic's
Town Tap (closed?)
Champagne Room

plus Bottom's Up, where have "Vip" (hahahaha) rooms.

[lahabra1976]

Always remember boys, the g-spot is 1.5-2.0 inches inside on the front wall of the vagina and the clitoris is also very sensitive

Remember these two things and you will never go wrong. Trust me ;) You go boy!!!

[slinky]

Keep in mind that the funny-looking/hurtin' boys do not inspire us. We just might be thinking, "This awkward bastard deserves a little disappointment tonight too. And I sure do hope he never calls me again. I'd better tooth him a time or two for a little insurance."

Yet, saying out loud, "Oh! I'm sorry, sweetie! Please forgive me! I guess I'm just a spaz." ;)

I have to say that I think this is a bad attitude. If you don't want a customer (and I'm assuming that's what you're talking about here), just don't take his $ and send him on his way. But to give bad service on purpose.... well. it's what gets all teh bad stuff happening to everyone. That guy you toothed on purpose last week stood some other girl up this week because "they are all heartless bitches", etc. I'n not going to go and pull any "Kharma" BS, but what anyone does in the biz can have effects on what happens to everyone in the biz.

[Thor57]

http://freempegs.aebn.net/shemale_0027_4.mpg


yes, very

[dj4monie]

Males have like stimulation of the prostate, its not only G-spot in women.

TS' can't squirt, GG's can or can learn how too.

That is why I question without "bragging" who's better at blow-jobs -

Gay Men, Trangendered Women or Genetic Women?

Since the porn industry can make something like this possible, why npt have a who gives the best blowjob based on blind testing? Without voice recontion (sp?) or visual contact you won't be bias.

Something worth doing just for some sort of answer if a bad one.

[GrimFusion]

Males have like stimulation of the prostate, its not only G-spot in women.

TS' can't squirt, GG's can or can learn how too.

That is why I question without "bragging" who's better at blow-jobs -

Gay Men, Trangendered Women or Genetic Women?

Since the porn industry can make something like this possible, why npt have a who gives the best blowjob based on blind testing? Without voice recontion (sp?) or visual contact you won't be bias.

Something worth doing just for some sort of answer if a bad one.

I suppose you'd volunteer yourself as the blind-folded test subject, right?

[slinky]

Ahhh. But did I say this was a an escort/trick scenario? Because I do believe the customer should get what they paid for.

Well, then I don't get the scenario. If he's gross, why are you with him to begin with?

[slinky]

Males have like stimulation of the prostate, its not only G-spot in women.

And it's surprising how few people (TS, GG or M) know how to do it right. One time I taught a girl how to do it so she could go home and do it to her man. At first he was like "Damn, girl, that was geat", but it quickly turned into "Hey, where did you learn how to do that?".

[canihavu]

All in Irvington:

Vic's
Town Tap (closed?)
Champagne Room

plus Bottom's Up, where have "Vip" (hahahaha) rooms.

I never knew you could get hand jobs at the Champange Room. I have gotten some very intimate lap dances there though... 8)

[slinky]

First of all, there isn't a club in the Tri-state area which has private rooms where you can't get a HJ.

Second of all, I've fucked girls at the CR sitting on barstools. (Vic's, too)

[canihavu]

First of all, there isn't a club in the Tri-state area which has private rooms where you can't get a HJ.

Second of all, I've fucked girls at the CR sitting on barstools. (Vic's, too)

I'm just saying that Vic's and Town Tap are known for hand jobs at the bar. (That's I loved going to Vic's, lol) I was probably standing right next to you when you were fucking at Vic's one day, lol

[slinky]

Don't you wish there were some Tranny Bars like that?

God, I miss the Fair Theater.

[canihavu]

Don't you wish there were some Tranny Bars like that?

God, I miss the Fair Theater.

Show World (while not a bar per se) did have some wild shit going back in the day...


And whenever I am in need of a good HJ or BJ, I have a trnny friend in Irvington I call...

[slinky]

Don't you wish there were some Tranny Bars like that?

God, I miss the Fair Theater.

Show World (while not a bar per se) did have some wild shit going back in the day...


And whenever I am in need of a good HJ or BJ, I have a trnny friend in Irvington I call...



Not just Show World (when they moved the Tranny section to the basement), but even more so there was a place on the North Side of the Deuce which had a circular peep stage and then a dozen or so one on one booths, which was ever better than SW.

[dj4monie]

Males have like stimulation of the prostate, its not only G-spot in women.

TS' can't squirt, GG's can or can learn how too.

That is why I question without "bragging" who's better at blow-jobs -

Gay Men, Trangendered Women or Genetic Women?

Since the porn industry can make something like this possible, why npt have a who gives the best blowjob based on blind testing? Without voice recontion (sp?) or visual contact you won't be bias.

Something worth doing just for some sort of answer if a bad one.

I suppose you'd volunteer yourself as the blind-folded test subject, right?

You wanted to get started in porn...

Buy a Prosumer Camcorder

Setup a set

Buy some web space

Get some content

I'm sure if you offered $100-200 for a simple BJ im sure you could find a few so-called "expert" dick suckers.

Charge $10 to see the site and $15 to sell the DVD.

You could actually make a series out of it -

There I just gave you an idea that could make alot of money if done right.

[dj4monie]

Don't you wish there were some Tranny Bars like that?

God, I miss the Fair Theater.

You can't be serious...

The talent level as fallen flat in hetro strip clubs...

Honestly if you really want to get your TG jollies, save your money and get a plan ticket to Brasil, Thailand or Manilla. Plenty of choose from, more TG friendly than here for sure and its CHEAP.

[canihavu]

Don't you wish there were some Tranny Bars like that?

God, I miss the Fair Theater.

Show World (while not a bar per se) did have some wild shit going back in the day...


And whenever I am in need of a good HJ or BJ, I have a trnny friend in Irvington I call...



Not just Show World (when they moved the Tranny section to the basement), but even more so there was a place on the North Side of the Deuce which had a circular peep stage and then a dozen or so one on one booths, which was ever better than SW.


I know the place you mean. Had the .25 movies on the 1st floor and the girls upstairs. They had a girl who worked there named Sapphire. Nice light skinned chick with a great ass and VERY thick dick. I wanted to marry that girl, lol.