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BellaBellucci
01-06-2011, 01:43 AM
Seriously, what's the deal with the guys who come to this forum to learn about transsexuals and then almost immediately try to act like they know who we are and what we need better than we do? If you came here to learn, then learn. If after you've learned, you want to add something constructive, please do so. But if you came here to lecture, please leave.

You're all entitled to your opinions, but some of you guys are really out of control and disrespectful when you simply disagree with us. I hate to break it to you all: but we know more about being transsexual than you do, so not only are the overreactions out of line, so is the reasoning.

I know the girls give it as good as they get often times, but can you blame them? You can never understand unless you've walked a mile in their shoes, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't try... and most of you don't.

I say 'live and let die,' so go ahead and rationalize your attractions and your anger all you like, but I think it's time a lot of you take a long, hard look in the mirror and ask yourself if you abuse the girls because it makes you feel better about yourself.

~BB~

tsparisangelline
01-06-2011, 02:02 AM
Lol, thats why I dont fuck with ts admirers.

WAY TO MUCH DRAMA!

hapboy
01-06-2011, 02:11 AM
Seriously, what's the deal with the guys who come to this forum to learn about transsexuals and then almost immediately try to act like they know who we are and what we need better than we do? If you came here to learn, then learn. If after you've learned, you want to add something constructive, please do so. But if you came here to lecture, please leave.

You're all entitled to your opinions, but some of you guys are really out of control and disrespectful when you simply disagree with us. I hate to break it to you all: but we know more about being transsexual than you do, so not only are the overreactions out of line, so is the reasoning.

I know the girls give it as good as they get often times, but can you blame them? You can never understand unless you've walked a mile in their shoes, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't try... and most of you don't.

II say 'live and let die,' so go ahead and rationalize your attractions and your anger all you like, but I think it's time a lot of you take a long, hard look in the mirror and ask yourself if you abuse the girls because it makes you feel better about yourself.

~BB~

I am fairly new to HA but I agree with you 100%.

Far too much hating and sniping going on . A bit of respect goes a long way !

BellaBellucci
01-06-2011, 02:13 AM
I am fairly new to HA but I agree with you 100%.

Far too much hating and sniping going on . A bit of respect goes a long way !

Thanks. Say no to:

http://media.codblackopsnews.com/attachments/2/303/Poor-Fellow.png

~BB~

Ryz
01-06-2011, 02:40 AM
Lol, thats why I dont fuck with ts admirers.

WAY TO MUCH DRAMA!

http://img412.imageshack.us/img412/3415/1294234795450.jpg

onmyknees
01-06-2011, 02:44 AM
Seriously, what's the deal with the guys who come to this forum to learn about transsexuals and then almost immediately try to act like they know who we are and what we need better than we do? If you came here to learn, then learn. If after you've learned, you want to add something constructive, please do so. But if you came here to lecture, please leave.

You're all entitled to your opinions, but some of you guys are really out of control and disrespectful when you simply disagree with us. I hate to break it to you all: but we know more about being transsexual than you do, so not only are the overreactions out of line, so is the reasoning.

I know the girls give it as good as they get often times, but can you blame them? You can never understand unless you've walked a mile in their shoes, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't try... and most of you don't.

I say 'live and let die,' so go ahead and rationalize your attractions and your anger all you like, but I think it's time a lot of you take a long, hard look in the mirror and ask yourself if you abuse the girls because it makes you feel better about yourself.

~BB~

Got any new material Bella ?? Cause this routine is getting old. Self Pity doesn't become you.

Oh and that whole respect thing??? That works both ways baby.

Surely there are dudes on here that are quick to turn ugly...I won't deny that. But by in large, the girls you're talking about give as good as they get, so what's the problem? You want to be treated equally...don't you? Don't piss on my leg, and chances are I won't piss on yours ! Suddenly you're not happy with the tone on here?? That's Kinda like the fireman who turns arsonist so he can extinguish the fire !!!!!

I like you Bella...but you're as capable of starting a shitfest as anyone on here, and many times do. You have strong opinions, and you state them freely. So do others. It's irrelevent if you think they're wrong, that's why they're opinions.

I've observed there are girls on here that almost never get negative shit hurled thier way. Maybe that's because they don't become involved in some of the more contraversial posts, or engage in namecalling, ( faggot, power bottom, crossdresser,etc) or maybe it's just thier personality, or thier maturity. The point is...the expierence is not the same for them, as it seems to be for you........Hmmmmmmmmm.


If you point is to lower the volume I agree, but that may be like trying to put a 4 alarm fire out with a garden hose.

Teydyn
01-06-2011, 02:44 AM
WAY TO MUCH DRAMA!
Sure thats not your fault? :whistle:

onmyknees
01-06-2011, 02:47 AM
Lol, thats why I dont fuck with ts admirers.

WAY TO MUCH DRAMA!

Thanks for the input snooky !

tsparisangelline
01-06-2011, 02:48 AM
http://img412.imageshack.us/img412/3415/1294234795450.jpg

http://i.ytimg.com/vi/p0eHzG8YNsg/0.jpg

BellaBellucci
01-06-2011, 02:49 AM
I've observed there are girls on here that almost never get negative shit hurled thier way. Maybe that's because they don't become involved in some of the more contraversial posts, or engage in namecalling, ( faggot, power bottom, crossdresser,etc) or maybe it's just thier personality, or thier maturity. The point is...the expierence is not the same for them, as it seems to be for you........Hmmmmmmmmm.

Name calling isn't productive. Debate and discussion is, and I live with the consequences of my threads and statements without losing a wink of sleep over them. This isn't a slam thread. I just think the guys need to tone it down. This two-way street is essentially caused by a birth defect that we must bear, not you, so a little more understanding is in order.

~BB~

PS: Where the hell do you get 'self pity' out of this thread? I'm not even speaking for me. I'm like a tank around here. You can say anything about me or to me and it bounces right off! :lol:

tsparisangelline
01-06-2011, 02:49 AM
Sure thats not your fault? :whistle:

I am not the one coming to a site and claiming I know more about a group of people than they do.


Thanks for the input snooky !

Of course Ha's cum bucket.

MrsKellyPierce
01-06-2011, 02:54 AM
Well said! It somehow makes them feel better about themselves! Classic psychology! I pity most of them.

MrsKellyPierce
01-06-2011, 02:55 AM
Got any new material Bella ?? Cause this routine is getting old. Self Pity doesn't become you.

Oh and that whole respect thing??? That works both ways baby.

Surely there are dudes on here that are quick to turn ugly...I won't deny that. But by in large, the girls you're talking about give as good as they get, so what's the problem? You want to be treated equally...don't you? Don't piss on my leg, and chances are I won't piss on yours ! Suddenly you're not happy with the tone on here?? That's Kinda like the fireman who turns arsonist so he can extinguish the fire !!!!!

I like you Bella...but you're as capable of starting a shitfest as anyone on here, and many times do. You have strong opinions, and you state them freely. So do others. It's irrelevent if you think they're wrong, that's why they're opinions.

I've observed there are girls on here that almost never get negative shit hurled thier way. Maybe that's because they don't become involved in some of the more contraversial posts, or engage in namecalling, ( faggot, power bottom, crossdresser,etc) or maybe it's just thier personality, or thier maturity. The point is...the expierence is not the same for them, as it seems to be for you........Hmmmmmmmmm.


If you point is to lower the volume I agree, but that may be like trying to put a 4 alarm fire out with a garden hose. Isn't it cute how you show up in every thread to demean........

BellaBellucci
01-06-2011, 02:56 AM
Isn't it cute how you show up in every thread to demean........

Yeah, I don't get that. He's always been so sweet to me until now.

~BB~

MrsKellyPierce
01-06-2011, 03:02 AM
Yeah, I don't get that. He's always been so sweet to me until now.

~BB~
It's because you are breaking down his exterior of "straightness" men find themselves straight as long as there is some type of female quality about the person. Whether it be long hair with a wig, make-up, girl clothing....as long as there is some kind of female attribute in their delusional world it's straight sex. Because they are only attracted, because they have a female wig on or female clothing. At least they see themselves as straight. Even Daryl when he sleeps with crossdressers consider's it not gay, because he is a top. So in his mind he isn't par-taking in anything homophobic.

For some of the men on here...I could dress my dog up in a wig and clothes..and they would fuck that. Then find nothing wrong with it. It's hilarious to me. It's why I pity them.

Jericho
01-06-2011, 03:08 AM
For some of the men on here...I could dress my dog up in a wig and clothes..and they would fuck that.

Heyyyyyyyyyyyy...Don't forget the lipstick...I've got some standards! :hide-1:

MrsKellyPierce
01-06-2011, 03:10 AM
Heyyyyyyyyyyyy...Don't forget the lipstick...I've got some standards! :hide-1:
Okay I will make sure it's red :dancing::)

Jericho
01-06-2011, 03:21 AM
Okay I will make sure it's red :dancing::)

Be a dear, make it scarlet! :jerkoff

onmyknees
01-06-2011, 03:27 AM
Isn't it cute how you show up in every thread to demean........

Take a few moments ( if of course you're interested in accuracy ...ha ha ) and look at the posts where I went off on someone. They're few and far in between. It's never about thier physical appearence, or who they choose to fuck or not fuck, or thier race, or what they call themselves or what group they're in. It's almost never personal unless they hurl personal insults my way, and I NEVER initiate it. It's never adhominum..I'm a counter puncher with a long memory, but with luv in my heart !!!!!!!!

There's 2 people on HA I've crossed swords with , and I'll bet they both show up on this thread !! LOL

goku
01-06-2011, 03:30 AM
It's because you are breaking down his exterior of "straightness" men find themselves straight as long as there is some type of female quality about the person. Whether it be long hair with a wig, make-up, girl clothing....as long as there is some kind of female attribute in their delusional world it's straight sex. Because they are only attracted, because they have a female wig on or female clothing. At least they see themselves as straight. Even Daryl when he sleeps with crossdressers consider's it not gay, because he is a top. So in his mind he isn't par-taking in anything homophobic.

For some of the men on here...I could dress my dog up in a wig and clothes..and they would fuck that. Then find nothing wrong with it. It's hilarious to me. It's why I pity them.


No....


A lot of guys come on here with good intentions until one of the girls corners them, and gets ugly. Eventually, they begin to fight back. Not everyone comes on here starting shit.

Most of you know I have been as nice as can be to most. However, there are a couple people that I just won't tolerate running their mouth to me. That has nothing to do with a fear of sexual orientation, as much as it does me just tiring of their bullshit.

fred41
01-06-2011, 03:30 AM
The biggest drama queens always complain the most about the drama...

...Confucius said that...so it's definitely true ....look it up.

MrsKellyPierce
01-06-2011, 03:35 AM
I'm sorry I have to cam...I will respond later.

south ov da border
01-06-2011, 03:42 AM
I respect all of you as ladies and individuals. I am here to learn and share. I barely can walk a mile in my shoes much less anyone else. No hate from me. Sexuality and gender identity are issues I try to understad more every day, because I do think that it is unfair to be judged by anyone based on their wants and preferences. Just my .02...

rockabilly
01-06-2011, 03:52 AM
Reading is fundamental.

Learning about transwomen here is better than learning about them on Maury or Springer.

The bickering and demeaning comments do get annoying and lest i forget the eternal debate of " Am i gay , are you gay , do these pants make my butt look gay? " will forever go on and on and on.

Who cares really ?
It's the internet not a tribunal.
Just look at the pretty girls pics , chat w/ them and treat them w/ respect.

onmyknees
01-06-2011, 03:56 AM
No....


A lot of guys come on here with good intentions until one of the girls corners them, and gets ugly. Eventually, they begin to fight back. Not everyone comes on here starting shit.

Most of you know I have been as nice as can be to most. However, there are a couple people that I just won't tolerate running their mouth to me. That has nothing to do with a fear of sexual orientation, as much as it does me just tiring of their bullshit.

Thank You...My sentiments exactly.....I was a puppy dog when I came here, awed by all of these gurls, and still am ( save a select few)

Having said that , and because Bella's larger point is a good one, and I enjoy most of my time in here..I'm going to chill....maybe not be so quick to respond to barbs...until someone pokes a stick in my eye.

Peace

fred41
01-06-2011, 04:00 AM
" Am i gay , are you gay , do these pants make my butt look gay? "

I know you like them, but it's like I told you "Stop wearing those goddamn toreador pants you like so much...they do make your ass look gay....


....and kinda lumpy".

rockabilly
01-06-2011, 04:02 AM
How rude. lol

BellaBellucci
01-06-2011, 04:50 AM
Thank You...My sentiments exactly.....I was a puppy dog when I came here, awed by all of these gurls, and still am ( save a select few)

Having said that , and because Bella's larger point is a good one, and I enjoy most of my time in here..I'm going to chill....maybe not be so quick to respond to barbs...until someone pokes a stick in my eye.

Peace

Thank you. Peace to you too. :)

~BB~

trish
01-06-2011, 05:02 AM
Seriously, what's the deal with the guys who come to this forum to learn...Stop! Stop there. Right there. See it? That's where I think you went wrong, Bella. I believe the guys are here for something else entirely.

CORVETTEDUDE
01-06-2011, 05:05 AM
Seriously, what's the deal with the guys who come to this forum to learn about transsexuals and then almost immediately try to act like they know who we are and what we need better than we do? If you came here to learn, then learn. If after you've learned, you want to add something constructive, please do so. But if you came here to lecture, please leave.

You're all entitled to your opinions, but some of you guys are really out of control and disrespectful when you simply disagree with us. I hate to break it to you all: but we know more about being transsexual than you do, so not only are the overreactions out of line, so is the reasoning.

I know the girls give it as good as they get often times, but can you blame them? You can never understand unless you've walked a mile in their shoes, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't try... and most of you don't.

I say 'live and let die,' so go ahead and rationalize your attractions and your anger all you like, but I think it's time a lot of you take a long, hard look in the mirror and ask yourself if you abuse the girls because it makes you feel better about yourself.

~BB~

Bella, I appreciate your summary, and I hope I'm viewed as and individual that both supports and admires the community. I don't pretend to understand everything you ladies go through ("walk a mile in my shoes") but, I can empathise and be open enough to believe that there is enough room for everyone on the boat. Admittedly many of us (men) do not represent ourselves well. They say ingorance is bliss but, I believe knowledge is power. I love you ladies...each and every one, even those I have had problems with in the past. Be who you are, I applaud and support you for it! Ohhhh-Rah!

BellaBellucci
01-06-2011, 05:10 AM
Stop! Stop there. Right there. See it? That's where I think you went wrong, Bella. I believe the guys are here for something else entirely.

Seriously! And really, that's fine too, but at least they could be honest about why they're here if that's the reason and stop pretending that using this board for free porn is the same thing as learning and contributing to it. Just talking shit to 'put a bitch in her place' is no contribution, and I think we have quite a bit more of that than we need here! :geek:

~BB~

bridgetbbyxo
01-06-2011, 05:14 AM
It's funny how the chaser feel as though i should feel privileged that they want to fuck me.

This is an example:

i really wouldnt mind seeing your sometime and fucking you

I've received countless Pm's like this from guys on this board since joining a few years ago.
Their mentality just disgusts me. Absolutely no respect for me as a woman. Let alone respecting me enough as a human.

gmannyc
01-06-2011, 05:30 AM
I love the posts on this board-I've read so much thoughtful and thought provoking commentary that shatters the simple preconceptions about the transgendered world that one (myself included) might have if their only exposure to it is through porn or the occasional casual encounter with a provider. I agree with you Bella-I'm trying to learn...and there is MUCH to learn.

Ryz
01-06-2011, 05:34 AM
It's funny how the chaser feel as though i should feel privileged that they want to fuck me.

This is an example:


I've received countless Pm's like this from guys on this board since joining a few years ago.
Their mentality just disgusts me. Absolutely no respect for me as a woman. Let alone respecting me enough as a human.
I respect you booboo :)

TsVanessa69
01-06-2011, 05:39 AM
Lol, thats why I dont fuck with ts admirers.

WAY TO MUCH DRAMA!
Same here.
I'll stick to puerto Rican men and their bullshit

MdR Dave
01-06-2011, 06:49 AM
Bella-

Maybe a new sticky or subsection is in order?

I'm new here, but I am trying to become "active".

Trying to give my opinion where I think it might be appropriate or appreciated, asking a few questions within threads, and while I have received decent replies from a few considerate guys (and the normal smack talk you'd expect) I don't think I've gotten a reply from a single girl.

Wanna be my first?

MdR Dave
01-06-2011, 06:53 AM
That sounds whiny so let me add:


NO HOMO!

PomonaCA
01-06-2011, 06:54 AM
http://www.zgeek.com/forum/gallery/files/1/1/3/0/5/care_from_the_giveafuck_bay.jpg

BellaBellucci
01-06-2011, 06:58 AM
Bella-

Maybe a new sticky or subsection is in order?

I'm new here, but I am trying to become "active".

Trying to give my opinion where I think it might be appropriate or appreciated, asking a few questions within threads, and while I have received decent replies from a few considerate guys (and the normal smack talk you'd expect) I don't think I've gotten a reply from a single girl.

Wanna be my first?

Your first what?! :lol:

~BB~

sdman
01-06-2011, 07:44 AM
It's funny how the chaser feel as though i should feel privileged that they want to fuck me.

This is an example:


I've received countless Pm's like this from guys on this board since joining a few years ago.
Their mentality just disgusts me. Absolutely no respect for me as a woman. Let alone respecting me enough as a human.

I cant beleive you just posted a pm on here. I sent you another pm dumb bitch!

MdR Dave
01-06-2011, 08:27 AM
Your first what?! :lol:

~BB~

Darn editing- you could've had it with the "f*ing and dancing" smiley.

I don't know how to dance!

Thanks for your efforts to help knit a community out of these threads_- I know I can't be the only one who appreciates it.

Nothing but love, baby girl.

audifan
01-06-2011, 08:42 AM
Seriously, what's the deal with the guys who come to this forum to learn about transsexuals and then almost immediately try to act like they know who we are and what we need better than we do? If you came here to learn, then learn. If after you've learned, you want to add something constructive, please do so. But if you came here to lecture, please leave.

You're all entitled to your opinions, but some of you guys are really out of control and disrespectful when you simply disagree with us. I hate to break it to you all: but we know more about being transsexual than you do, so not only are the overreactions out of line, so is the reasoning.

I know the girls give it as good as they get often times, but can you blame them? You can never understand unless you've walked a mile in their shoes, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't try... and most of you don't.

I say 'live and let die,' so go ahead and rationalize your attractions and your anger all you like, but I think it's time a lot of you take a long, hard look in the mirror and ask yourself if you abuse the girls because it makes you feel better about yourself.

~BB~

Good post Bella! :iagree: :)

BigDF
01-06-2011, 08:56 AM
I respect all of you as ladies and individuals. I am here to learn and share. I barely can walk a mile in my shoes much less anyone else. No hate from me. Sexuality and gender identity are issues I try to understad more every day, because I do think that it is unfair to be judged by anyone based on their wants and preferences. Just my .02...:iagree::iagree::iagree:

BigDF
01-06-2011, 09:02 AM
I cant beleive you just posted a pm on here. I sent you another pm dumb bitch!You must like the taste of your own feet:footinmouth

CaliBoy951
01-06-2011, 09:53 AM
Ummm, errrrr...perhaps a group hug is in store?

GrimFusion
01-06-2011, 10:14 AM
I don't really get who's actually being talked about here.

BigDF
01-06-2011, 10:30 AM
Ummm, errrrr...perhaps a group hug is in store?

:grouphug

MdR Dave
01-06-2011, 05:13 PM
Ummm, errrrr...perhaps a group hug is in store?

SFR! (Smile for real- my 'LOL'- I'm much too serious for that!)

But I call outside- not sure I trust some of you behind me!

Good morning to all.

cheez
01-06-2011, 05:34 PM
Guys are jerks- since when is that a surprise at all?
Guys want to get laid without commitment- since when is that a surprise at all?
Guys don't want to be called gay- since when is that a surprise at all?
Ask any genetic girl from the age of 15 - 95 and they know all these things, yet it seems to be a mystery on this board.
I just find the judgment is silly. Ask GGs- guys try to fuck them without wanting to know them all the time. I don't think that male shallowness is endemic to their relationships with t-girls but rather a certain set of men who are sex addicts that keep chasing the next high.
Because so many of the girls are porn stars and escorts with videos and pictures of them online, this board is going to get more of the people who watch these videos, right? Doesn't that just make sense- porn stars are going to attract who like porn?
And I'm sorry but the reasoning here just throws me sometimes- for example- let's say out of a thousand sexual experiences you've had a total of four with a couple of TSs and TVs, does that make you "gayer" than a guy who dates ONLY TS who live as women but lets them pack his fudge and treat him like a prison bitch who just got traded for a pack of smokes (but its cool because he knows you're a woman even as you've got an erect several inch penis currently raiding his colon) ?
I mean it just seems silly and arbitrary to make these distinctions, yet I can't find a thread where a girl doesn't do it.
If you want to have your own definitions of conduct and activity, other people will want them too.
There just seems to be a noticeable lack of live and let live on this board...

hotnphx
01-06-2011, 05:41 PM
LOL Same old Stuff ,different HA day ....Gotta love it ....

MrsKellyPierce
01-06-2011, 06:17 PM
Take a few moments ( if of course you're interested in accuracy ...ha ha ) and look at the posts where I went off on someone. They're few and far in between. It's never about thier physical appearence, or who they choose to fuck or not fuck, or thier race, or what they call themselves or what group they're in. It's almost never personal unless they hurl personal insults my way, and I NEVER initiate it. It's never adhominum..I'm a counter puncher with a long memory, but with luv in my heart !!!!!!!!

There's 2 people on HA I've crossed swords with , and I'll bet they both show up on this thread !! LOL


No....


A lot of guys come on here with good intentions until one of the girls corners them, and gets ugly. Eventually, they begin to fight back. Not everyone comes on here starting shit.

Most of you know I have been as nice as can be to most. However, there are a couple people that I just won't tolerate running their mouth to me. That has nothing to do with a fear of sexual orientation, as much as it does me just tiring of their bullshit.


Guys are jerks- since when is that a surprise at all?
Guys want to get laid without commitment- since when is that a surprise at all?
Guys don't want to be called gay- since when is that a surprise at all?
Ask any genetic girl from the age of 15 - 95 and they know all these things, yet it seems to be a mystery on this board.
I just find the judgment is silly. Ask GGs- guys try to fuck them without wanting to know them all the time. I don't think that male shallowness is endemic to their relationships with t-girls but rather a certain set of men who are sex addicts that keep chasing the next high.
Because so many of the girls are porn stars and escorts with videos and pictures of them online, this board is going to get more of the people who watch these videos, right? Doesn't that just make sense- porn stars are going to attract who like porn?
And I'm sorry but the reasoning here just throws me sometimes- for example- let's say out of a thousand sexual experiences you've had a total of four with a couple of TSs and TVs, does that make you "gayer" than a guy who dates ONLY TS who live as women but lets them pack his fudge and treat him like a prison bitch who just got traded for a pack of smokes (but its cool because he knows you're a woman even as you've got an erect several inch penis currently raiding his colon) ?
I mean it just seems silly and arbitrary to make these distinctions, yet I can't find a thread where a girl doesn't do it.
If you want to have your own definitions of conduct and activity, other people will want them too.
There just seems to be a noticeable lack of live and let live on this board...But pornstars/escorts are hard to get unless you are flaunting money in their direction.....Never understood men who think pornstars/escorts are easy.

BellaBellucci
01-06-2011, 06:26 PM
Darn editing- you could've had it with the "f*ing and dancing" smiley.

I don't know how to dance!

Thanks for your efforts to help knit a community out of these threads_- I know I can't be the only one who appreciates it.

Nothing but love, baby girl.

Oh, you mean...

:fuckin::dancing:

;)


I don't really get who's actually being talked about here.

That's kind of the point. I'm not going to name names because the guilty parties know who they are and I don't want anyone else to get butt-hurt. I just want everyone to stop terrorizing some of the girls here.

~BB~

cheez
01-06-2011, 07:12 PM
But pornstars/escorts are hard to get unless you are flaunting money in their direction.....Never understood men who think pornstars/escorts are easy.

but we live in a different age now- people get a false sense of intimacy based on their online conversations- I believe I read in a recent sex survey that people who start online chat relationships are 50% more likely to have sex on their first meeting (should they actually meet). Simply because there's a feeling that you already "know" the person.
I think that's part of what comes into play as well at least on the fan's side of things.

amberskyi
01-07-2011, 12:42 AM
but we live in a different age now- people get a false sense of intimacy based on their online conversations- I believe I read in a recent sex survey that people who start online chat relationships are 50% more likely to have sex on their first meeting (should they actually meet). Simply because there's a feeling that you already "know" the person.
I think that's part of what comes into play as well at least on the fan's side of things.

i think you touched on something here

Jolt711ml
01-07-2011, 12:48 AM
Who cares what these niggas say!

GrimFusion
01-07-2011, 01:27 AM
but we live in a different age now- people get a false sense of intimacy based on their online conversations- I believe I read in a recent sex survey that people who start online chat relationships are 50% more likely to have sex on their first meeting (should they actually meet). Simply because there's a feeling that you already "know" the person.
I think that's part of what comes into play as well at least on the fan's side of things.

That's one reason why I don't go out of my way to meet people from the internet. The net isn't an excuse to skip the "getting to know you" or "are you a psycho?" phase.

dogsandcats
01-07-2011, 01:34 AM
i think you touched on something here

that's what she said :dancing:

But yeah he is right. Also, the anonymity of the internet does help people relax and get their guard down quicker.

Saffron
01-07-2011, 01:34 AM
...are morons. Enough said.

rockabilly
01-07-2011, 01:38 AM
...are morons. Enough said.

Rilly ... u thynk so? :confused:

BellaBellucci
01-07-2011, 01:41 AM
...are morons. Enough said.

Ouch. So not helpful. :(

~BB~

dogsandcats
01-07-2011, 01:43 AM
Thanks. Say no to:

http://media.codblackopsnews.com/attachments/2/303/Poor-Fellow.png

~BB~

No to campers?

I agree! I FUCKING HATE CAMPERS!:mad:

onmyknees
01-07-2011, 01:46 AM
...are morons. Enough said.

That's a pisser !

BellaBellucci
01-07-2011, 02:06 AM
No to campers?

I agree! I FUCKING HATE CAMPERS!:mad:

No, snipers silly! :lol:

But I hate them too.


That's a pisser !

OMG... is that... OMG! YES IT IS! IT'S A PUSSY! GTFO! :lol:

~BB~

GrimFusion
01-07-2011, 02:37 AM
...are morons. Enough said.

Incorrect.

renoned
01-07-2011, 03:14 AM
...are morons. Enough said.
Ya know Amy I have tried to like you, but you seem to hate all us guys.
I just don't think you should lump all of us into the same moron category.
Some guys are fuck heads, some are whiners, some are ignorant, some are ass holes, and some are just plain stupid.
Now me I'm an asshat and should not be confused with these other guys thank you very much:geek:
I mean Ashley

BellaBellucci
01-07-2011, 05:36 AM
Ya know Amy I have tried to like you, but you seem to hate all us guys.
I just don't think you should lump all of us into the same moron category.
Some guys are fuck heads, some are whiners, some are ignorant, some are ass holes, and some are just plain stupid.
Now me I'm an asshat and should not be confused with these other guys thank you very much:geek:

Well, you did get her name wrong. It kind of shows that you don't pay very close attention. Just sayin'.

Her name is Ashley, not Amy.

~BB~

renoned
01-07-2011, 05:43 AM
Well, you did get her name wrong. It kind of shows that you don't pay very close attention. Just sayin'.

Her name is Ashley, not Amy.

~BB~

:geek:I knew that:geek:
:geek:See I told ya:geek:

dderek123
01-07-2011, 02:40 PM
A lot of us are figuring things out as we go along. There have been a few times where I typed up a new thread but thought twice about hitting the 'submit' button.

bte
01-07-2011, 07:00 PM
Almost every guy here has a faux psychology degree on transsexualism despite never meeting transsexuals at all or only meeting through financial transaction.

rockabilly
01-07-2011, 09:03 PM
Almost every guy here has a faux psychology degree on transsexualism despite never meeting transsexuals at all or only meeting through financial transaction.

lol yeah "Phd" does not mean "Pretty Huge Dick".

I don't see why some people think you need to treat them any differently than a gg.

A little respect goes a long way.

Jericho
01-08-2011, 12:21 AM
I don't see why some people think you need to treat them any differently than a gg.


Precisely.
Assume they're batshit crazy and you can't go wrong! :shrug

BigDF
01-08-2011, 12:43 AM
lol yeah "Phd" does not mean "Pretty Huge Dick".

I don't see why some people think you need to treat them any differently than a gg.

A little respect goes a long way.

:iagree:

MrsKellyPierce
01-08-2011, 12:49 AM
wish they had more cock to suck...they should suck each others :)

onmyknees
01-08-2011, 01:35 AM
wish they had more cock to suck...they should suck each others :)


who's they??

dderek123
01-08-2011, 03:30 AM
Almost every guy here has a faux psychology degree on transsexualism despite never meeting transsexuals at all or only meeting through financial transaction.

That's what I think about most of the guys here as well. All of this is just a porno fantasy for them. It's strange that they would want to be psychologist specializing in transsexualism in their porno fantasy though :confused:

BellaBellucci
11-07-2011, 08:08 PM
*bump*

~BB~

dderek123
11-07-2011, 08:27 PM
Seriously, what's the deal with the guys who come to this forum to learn about transsexuals and then almost immediately try to act like they know who we are and what we need better than we do? If you came here to learn, then learn. If after you've learned, you want to add something constructive, please do so. But if you came here to lecture, please leave.

You're all entitled to your opinions, but some of you guys are really out of control and disrespectful when you simply disagree with us. I hate to break it to you all: but we know more about being transsexual than you do, so not only are the overreactions out of line, so is the reasoning.

I know the girls give it as good as they get often times, but can you blame them? You can never understand unless you've walked a mile in their shoes, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't try... and most of you don't.


I say 'live and let die,' so go ahead and rationalize your attractions and your anger all you like, but I think it's time a lot of you take a long, hard look in the mirror and ask yourself if you abuse the girls because it makes you feel better about yourself.

~BB~

Awesome OP. *Slow clap*

TBH there has been many times where I typed up a scathing response, harsh criticism, enlightening anecdote and before I clicked submit I just closed the tab. I thought about how it could actually be beneficial to anyone else. Would anybody care or notice? How would/could it be valued? And so I only have over 1000 posts over 4 years.

Like when someone posts a picture of a very hot TS. Many chime in to the thread and say "That gurl is so HoT!!". But who would care to no if I find someone attractive if I blurt it out anonymously? That wouldn't change how others felt about the picture. Would it? I imagine few would notice. I imagine sometimes this happens just to bump a thread though.




http://www.myfacewhen.net/uploads/159-face-palm-2.jpg
Just realised I posted nearly the same thing on the previous page. Oh the irony! I should go to bed soon.


It would be cool if HA had a streamlined upvoting and downvoting system like reddit. That site seems to have the least amount of knuckleheads receiving the least amount of attention possible. If you post something redundant or ridiculous you get downvoted to oblivion and your post will be hidden far far from the front page.

That system has its flaws but it seems to have worked well over there.

loveboof
11-07-2011, 09:08 PM
TBH there has been many times where I typed up a scathing response, harsh criticism, enlightening anecdote and before I clicked submit I just closed the tab. I thought about how it could actually be beneficial to anyone else. Would anybody care or notice? How would/could it be valued? And so I only have over 1000 posts over 4 years.

Like when someone posts a picture of a very hot TS. Many chime in to the thread and say "That gurl is so HoT!!". But who would care to no if I find someone attractive if I blurt it out anonymously? That wouldn't change how others felt about the picture. Would it? I imagine few would notice. I imagine sometimes this happens just to bump a thread though.


I know exactly what you mean. There have been a few occassions were I have written out full messages, and then just closed it because - 'who cares'.

And I only say someone's hot if I genuinely believe it too.

That said, we could all probably filter out half of our posts without losing anything valuable lol.

CORVETTEDUDE
11-07-2011, 09:22 PM
Most of my posts are stabs at humor and trash, with consistent appreciation for the ladies gracing these threads and member/friends. I believe the ladies know I stand in support of their existence, delimna and struggle for recognition. Some of them, I believe, seek world domination and for that very reason I will continue to suck up. Besides, almost without exception, I like everyone here.

bte
11-07-2011, 09:25 PM
Most guys (about 99.35%) opinions on this site are meaningless. Even my opinion is meaningless right now.

BellaBellucci
11-07-2011, 09:26 PM
Most of my posts are stabs at humor and trash, with consistent appreciation for the ladies gracing these threads and member/friends. I believe the ladies know I stand in support of their existence, delimna and struggle for recognition. Some of them, I believe, seek world domination and for that very reason I will continue to suck up. Besides, almost without exception, I like everyone here.


Pinky and The Brain Intro - YouTube (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iJPFSNu_QNs)

~BB~

CORVETTEDUDE
11-07-2011, 09:30 PM
Pinky and The Brain Intro - YouTube (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iJPFSNu_QNs)

~BB~


Frickin' Outstanding!!! Only you, Bella, only you!!!:Bowdown::rock2

BellaBellucci
11-07-2011, 09:33 PM
Only you, Bella, only you!!!:Bowdown::rock2

Brain is my idol. Well, he, Gregory House, Jean-Luc Picard, Katherine Janeway, and Samantha Carter actually share the honor. :geek: *geekgasm*

~BB~

CORVETTEDUDE
11-07-2011, 09:36 PM
"It gives whole new meaning to the term 'my own woman."

And, that Dear, you certainly are!!!:Bowdown:

miner
11-08-2011, 05:45 PM
Bella, Colonel Weed (no joke) from the 1939 movie Gunga Din is another great character and someone to admire.