Why I hate the word "Discrete"

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YouTube - Why I hate the word "Discrete" (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hm2oCJiMrGs)

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You're using the wrong word. "Discreet" is what you mean.

[GroobySteven]

Discreet is spelled D I S C R E E T in the context you are using it.

Discrete has a completely different meaning.
http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/discrete

I don't disagree with what you are saying but how about a little less patronising before you refer to yourself as a "cerebral" diva ... er, or deeva ?

[GroobySteven]

You're using the wrong word. "Discreet" is what you mean.

If you listen to it she chastises those who spell it as discreet, even though discrete is a different word.

I think this would classify as a large, FAIL! :ignore:

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Unreal.

[BellaBellucci]

Discreet is spelled D I S C R E E T in the context you are using it.

Discrete has a completely different meaning.
http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/discrete

I don't disagree with what you are saying but how about a little less patronising before you refer to yourself as a "cerebral" diva ... er, or deeva ?

Spelling aside, why do you hate transsexuals who want to present more than just sex so much? Because thinking people are a threat to those who thrive on ignorance, i.e. you?

~BB~

[GroobySteven]

Spelling aside, why do you hate transsexuals who want to present more than just sex so much? Because thinking people are a threat to those who thrive on ignorance, i.e. you?

~BB~

I don't at all, I agree completely with what she is saying but she's fairly patronizing to those who have spelled it wrong (or right).

I just loath you and you thrive on ignorance and hate anyway, so it all balances out.

[bte]

Don't know if anyone mentioned this or not, but I think Seanchai and Bella should do a scene together. Just saying.

[GrimFusion]

It annoys me when people of incredibly average intelligence learn a few big words and overuse them without understanding their meaning or context. Having a large vocabulary and pointlessly putting it to use is the same as showing off.

If there's one constant theme in all of this chick's videos it's that she's trying too damn hard to pass herself off as an intellect despite having narrow-minded opinions. She tries to sound authoritative but often misses the point entirely all while seeming completely naive of other people's opinion no matter how valid or logically dismissive.

Honestly, I don't understand where she's coming from on the "first-timer" issue. There are a gaggle of reasons why a guy would tell an escort it's his first time. It's not too far fetched to assume a dude might rather use the words "first-timer" than describe himself as a virgin. It doesn't require a degree in transgender awareness and a past of TG debauchery to slip and admit he'd rather take it slow. There are other reasons; for instance, let's just say the dude assumes he's going to get topped and isn't real used to it... the first-timer tag helps keep everything mellow. Likewise, a guy who isn't super confident about his performance might call himself a first-timer as a get-out-of-jail-free card. Even if approached from a negative perspective and the guy is flat lying just to get a little special treatment, who cares? It's not the end of the world or a sign you'll be coming out of a session with a black eye. Why bitch about it?

"Discreet" is a word that bothers me, too. There aren't any good reasons to need to be discreet about your sexual endeavors. Even if a dude needs to keep things on the down-low from his wife and family at home, while the motivation makes sense, he shouldn't be out pluggin' fannies in the first place. Then again, monogamy is practically dead anyway. Is it really fair or honest to play like it's a taboo deal when 60% of men in marriages in America end up cheating on their wives? It's a common deal now-a-days. If CerebralDiva wants to stay clear of guys like that, she should stay out of escorting. If that's not an option, she'd be losing half of her clientele by avoiding married men who want to keep things quiet. If she isn't an escort, why the hell does she have an opinion on men who want to keep things hush-hush when she has the clear option of avoiding them? Some girls around here don't have that option and Cerebral needs to stop preaching about shit she has no involvement in.

[BellaBellucci]

I don't at all, I agree completely with what she is saying but she's fairly patronizing to those who have spelled it wrong (or right).

I just loath you and you thrive on ignorance and hate anyway, so it all balances out.

How do I thrive on ignorance? I'm the one that's pro-trans. You're the one that's pro-exploitation. *smh*

And as usual, you can't think of anything to say that I haven't said first. Projection much?

~BB~

[bte]

It annoys me when people of incredibly average intelligence learn a few big words and overuse them without understanding their meaning or context. Having a large vocabulary and pointlessly putting it to use is the same as showing off.

If there's one constant theme in all of this chick's videos it's that she's trying too damn hard to pass herself off as an intellect despite having narrow-minded opinions. She tries to sound authoritative but often misses the point entirely all while seeming completely naive of other people's opinion no matter how valid or logically dismissive.

Honestly, I don't understand where she's coming from on the "first-timer" issue. There are a gaggle of reasons why a guy would tell an escort it's his first time. It's not too far fetched to assume a dude might rather use the words "first-timer" than describe himself as a virgin. It doesn't require a degree in transgender awareness and a past of TG debauchery to slip and admit he'd rather take it slow. There are other reasons; for instance, let's just say the dude assumes he's going to get topped and isn't real used to it... the first-timer tag helps keep everything mellow. Likewise, a guy who isn't super confident about his performance might call himself a first-timer as a get-out-of-jail-free card. Even if approached from a negative perspective and the guy is flat lying just to get a little special treatment, who cares? It's not the end of the world or a sign you'll be coming out of a session with a black eye. Why bitch about it?

"Discreet" is a word that bothers me, too. There aren't any good reasons to need to be discreet about your sexual endeavors. Even if a dude needs to keep things on the down-low from his wife and family at home, while the motivation makes sense, he shouldn't be out pluggin' fannies in the first place. Then again, monogamy is practically dead anyway. Is it really fair or honest to play like it's a taboo deal when 60% of men in marriages in America end up cheating on their wives? It's a common deal now-a-days. If CerebralDiva wants to stay clear of guys like that, she should stay out of escorting. If that's not an option, she'd be losing half of her clientele by avoiding married men who want to keep things quiet. If she isn't an escort, why the hell does she have an opinion on men who want to keep things hush-hush when she has the clear option of avoiding them? Some girls around here don't have that option and Cerebral needs to stop preaching about shit she has no involvement in.

Good point

[GrimFusion]

Don't know if anyone mentioned this or not, but I think Seanchai and Bella should do a scene together. Just saying.


Seconded. Maybe it'd help to clear the air a bit and we wouldn't have to constantly put up with them bickering at each other in every third thread anymore.

[GroobySteven]

Seconded. Maybe it'd help to clear the air a bit and we wouldn't have to constantly put up with them bickering at each other in every third thread anymore.


YouTube - Ending Of The Good, The Bad And The Ugly (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-1FnScXXr6Q)

[Kevin Dong]

I personally am of the opinion that Bella has a huge secret crush on seanchai and the constant attacks are the only way she knows how to get his attention. I think its nothing short of adorable.

[MrF]

I think the thread originator makes a lot of good points and often raises good, thought-provoking questions on the forum. In my opinion she did get the spelling wrong and it seems funny she insisted on the wrong spelling as others pointed out. And if we're wrong I'm sure she's strong enough to come back in the thread and argue about it.

However ... it's a minor point. The major points were good. I would think that transwomen could simply reject the guys who treat them as a "dirty little secret" but from what little I know about the scene this disrespectful behaviour is so prevalent that it's hard to avoid.

BTW, a good spell checker and dictionary is Google. Type in the word (even slightly wrong) and you get the correct spelling and a short reminder of the meaning. I need to use it all the time because I'm a bad speller.

[Silcc69]

Do I have to put this on here AGAIN!

http://stuffwhitepeoplelike.com/2008/05/12/99-grammar/

[amberskyi]

when it comes to clients not only condone but encourage discretion.what most clients dont realize is that i expect it to work both ways.just like you would prefer that your private life remain private so would i.that means if you see me out or about dont come up to me and say hi.
now as far as my personal life i dont socialize with guys who want to be "discreet",we all know that just a nicer way to say closeted or on the low.i work to damn hard not only on my physical appearance but learning to accept myself as well.