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www.tglovers.com
12-28-2010, 11:27 PM
Is it ever ok?
YouTube - Sex as a weapon - Using sex as a means of power and control. (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6rQ3WjAemv8)

dopearope
12-28-2010, 11:28 PM
dump her and find a new girl. not difficult is it?

Silcc69
12-28-2010, 11:40 PM
UGh no sexy shirt this time girl!

lovesall
12-29-2010, 06:47 PM
There is always more fish in the pond....

Davida
12-29-2010, 08:31 PM
i'm only aloud sex on the weekends.

www.tglovers.com
12-29-2010, 08:37 PM
UGh no sexy shirt this time girl!
No sexy shirt! Got tired of hearing the guys say it was a distraction or that my message was diluted by my attire. Hopefully by covering up...I won't have to continuously defend my wardrobe.

BigDF
12-29-2010, 08:56 PM
I personally do not think you should withhold sex from your partner as a means of emotional manipulation or control. This applies to both men and women, but I know of guys who have done this to their wives and girlfriends. This can really damage a relationship, sometimes beyond repair.

My wife and I have been married for nearly 22 years and the last time we had sex was roughly around our tenth wedding anniversary. At first I thought the reason she was denying me was because I did something to annoy her (sex as a weapon, as we're talking about) but I finally realized it is an emotional issue with her dating back to when she was a kid. She's been trying to work it out ever since and I have managed to stay faithful to her, even though I use sites like these to look at beautiful women and fantasize about being with them.

I see a lot of bullshit answers about things on here, mainly from guys who are talking out of their asses. Whatever. Sex is a means of expressing your love for your partner in a physical manner, but it is not the only means of expressing love. Would you withhold your love from your partner as way of controlling them?

russtafa
12-30-2010, 01:18 AM
Thats why hookers make money

Helvis2012
12-30-2010, 01:19 AM
It happens.....

spankrod
12-30-2010, 04:31 AM
Nothing a little "Surprise! Buttsecks!" can't get around.

hippifried
12-30-2010, 04:34 AM
If sex is a weapon, it ain't much of a partnership.