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IndyCloset
12-14-2010, 05:03 AM
Hello ah,

my name is indy and since the year is coming to a close i thought i'd post an "ask a tranny chaser" thread for open minded, unbias people who'd wish to pick the brain of a man who lives to chase ts women.

Here's a few example questions i've been asked in the past so feel free to ask more if you like....

question: Aren't tranny chasers as you call yourself just a bunch of downlow f***ggots who will f*ck any nigga with a wig and still have the nerve to call himself straight?
Anonymous~

ans: Well that's like saying all blacks or all asians look alike. To me "down low men" are married and/or single men who pretend to be straight while secretly having sexual relations with other men, cross dresser or transvestites. True transsexuals are none of the above. They are women who feel that they are trapped in a males body. So if i support and stand by this persons belief that she is indeed a female then how does that make me dl...?
*note: The term "tranny chaser" is a negative term used in the trans community the same as a skirt chaser would be. I don't live of to the name but i personally love a challenge.

question: How the hell can you call yourself a real man when you've got to resort to f***king trannies? All this p***y out here and your talking to dudes with wigs!??? Naw dawg you lost lmao!
Anonymous~

ans: If "sidney star" sign of the future of transsexual women, then how the hell have i lost anything? I'm attracted to the female form no matter what's between her legs. For me it's more a question of what's between her ears that keeps me around. Besides there are thousands of different plants and animals on this planet that change sex (asexual). And with modern medicine excelling as it has, for humans it's only a matter of time.

question:yo f*ck this gay sh*t! If a muthaf*cka has or was born with a d*ck then it's a dude! And if you willingly f*ck with one then your a homo!!! Plain and simple!
Anonymous~

ans:okay....this was more of a comment then it is a question. But since the average nigga doesn't read anyway, how could they know or fully comprehend anything about nature or the human anatomy. So those who have actually reached 10th grade education should be aware that the human penis is homologous to the clitoris so it's more like comparing oranges to grapefruit then it is comparing apples with oranges being that there are more similarities with the two sex organs then there are differences. That being said i personally am not attracted to the "male form" but if a chick who favors beyonce' just happens to have a extra long clit under that freak'em dress, well..... *kanye shrugs*


question: You dl sissies are so full of sh*t, if you're such a straight man, then why not show your pictures?
Anonymous~

ans: ......first of all homey, i only show my picture to "women" that i am interested in. And since i have no desire to meet anyone here, it's pretty much a dead issue, i just read the forums, laugh and keep it moving.

However in reality, since my very first date with a ts just happen to be a double date with one of my best friends and his wife, it's safe to say i don't have to hide anything from the people who matter. Ya digg?


next question please....?

Ryz
12-14-2010, 05:21 AM
do you also go by the name youngdeniro?

IndyCloset
12-14-2010, 05:47 AM
do you also go by the name youngdeniro?
Ans:Why of course. Greatness comes in many names.

goku
12-14-2010, 05:50 AM
Ans:Why of course. Greatness comes in many names.


Deniro, you could have made your presence known. You are much quieter here.

Ryz
12-14-2010, 05:57 AM
Why do you always refer to yourself in third person all the time?

Ryz
12-14-2010, 05:57 AM
Oh, and why are you a powerbottom

nonnonnon
12-14-2010, 06:00 AM
will being trans attracted ever lose its stigma?

IndyCloset
12-14-2010, 06:01 AM
Oh, and why are you a powerbottom

I'm actually a verse Top and thats because the male g-spot doesn't have a "Power Button"

blckhaze
12-14-2010, 06:02 AM
lol @ this thread
While i will never tage myself a chaser, much respect to deniro for trying to it out like we do with the n word


ps LMAO @ ryz

blckhaze
12-14-2010, 06:03 AM
will being trans attracted ever lose its stigma?



same day when being a tranny does

IndyCloset
12-14-2010, 06:06 AM
will being trans attracted ever lose its stigma?

I've been chasin strong for 8 years and haven't caught my second wind yet.

So for me it's unlikely!

IndyCloset
12-14-2010, 06:20 AM
Deniro, you could have made your presence known. You are much quieter here.

Sometimes Deniro wants to break loose but a certain sensitive CD has Admin/mod ties. So before you know it. Your out the door not even knowing what you did.

So I limit my time here until the head Admin decides to return one of my messages.

phobun
12-14-2010, 06:30 AM
a certain sensitive CD has Admin/mod ties.


Name names and show the courage of your convictions, otherwise you sound like a whiny wussy.

Odelay
12-14-2010, 06:36 AM
Do you spook easily after a good ride? Any rushes to the clinic to see if you picked up anything on your last romp?

IndyCloset
12-14-2010, 06:54 AM
Name names and show the courage of your convictions, otherwise you sound like a whiny wussy.

So you're the neighborhood asshole...

Take a seat in Daryls lap while the adults talk jr!

The real issue isn't the CD, it's the overzealous mods who ban with no warning so if I knew who the "head" Admin was I'm sure this minor infraction could be resovled.

IndyCloset
12-14-2010, 07:05 AM
Do you spook easily after a good ride? Any rushes to the clinic to see if you picked up anything on your last romp?

Do I "spook" easy....?

Alright here's the first problem, Dudes with female default pictures. Dear I say that things get confussing in a transsexual forum....

MrF
12-14-2010, 07:15 AM
It's interesting to know what makes a chaser tick.

My question: Do you ever fall in love or have a spiritual connection with the girls you chase ? Are you loyal to any girl ? (And I'm assuming you're not faithful, but loyalty is different from faithfulness.)

phobun
12-14-2010, 07:17 AM
So you're the neighborhood asshole...

Take a seat in Daryls lap while the adults talk jr!

The real issue isn't the CD, it's the overzealous mods who ban with no warning so if I knew who the "head" Admin was I'm sure this minor infraction could be resovled.


You keep your lips zipped and your dick tucked while prancing around carefully out of fear of getting banned? You have no balls.

audifan
12-14-2010, 09:21 AM
Hey Indy,

Thanks for putting up your views on the forum. Hope you get some good questions.

My questions are...

1. Can you explain why you label yourself a "tranny chaser" when in your OP you imply you're indifferent between girls with pussies and girls with penises? Surely that's a description of a "skirt chaser" in a target-rich environment?

2. What's your view on the issue that those girls who consider themselves "pre-op" (as compared to "non-op") will likely regard their "she-male" form as a transitional phase - so they don't want a guy who's attracted to that form when their goal is to ditch it asap? So they just want a straight guy to love them as a woman; but a truly "straight" guy wouldn't love them in their "she-male" phase so they're in a catch-22 until after full SRS?

Thanks,

audifan

IndyCloset
12-14-2010, 02:50 PM
It's interesting to know what makes a chaser tick.

My question: Do you ever fall in love or have a spiritual connection with the girls you chase ? Are you loyal to any girl ? (And I'm assuming you're not faithful, but loyalty is different from faithfulness.)

ANS:Yes two special TS women come to mind. One who passed away and one who moved away. With the one who passed I still find it dificult to travel near the place we use to hang out at. The other still comes to town from time to time but doesn't reach out to me (fall out) but never the less I still miss them both.

dderek123
12-14-2010, 03:07 PM
You keep your lips zipped and your dick tucked while prancing around carefully out of fear of getting banned? You have no balls.
http://media.ebaumsworld.com/picture/mikeyp/Forum.jpg

IndyCloset
12-14-2010, 05:29 PM
You keep your lips zipped and your dick tucked while prancing around carefully out of fear of getting banned? You have no balls.

Hmm.....a grown man interested in Indy's balls on this site...?
No surprise there.

SMH at clowns bringing tennis racquets to a chess match.

I've been antagonized by those far more creative.

Next question please....?

Ryz
12-14-2010, 05:36 PM
Why do you always refer to yourself in third person all the time?

This^

IndyCloset
12-14-2010, 08:33 PM
Why do you always refer to yourself in third person all the time?

ANS:Only "Deniro" does that rediculous crap! He is one of 3 online personalities who all respond to the chaser label of which Deniro is the egomaniac of the crew.
"Indy" (me) is a little more introverted by nature...not by much though. The other personality prefers to remain nameless

GrimFusion
12-14-2010, 09:40 PM
ANS:Only "Deniro" does that rediculous crap! He is one of 3 online personalities who all respond to the chaser label of which Deniro is the egomaniac of the crew.
"Indy" (me) is a little more introverted by nature...not by much though. The other personality prefers to remain nameless

Are you fuckin' nuts? Seriously, internet personas? I think you need to see a therapist.

IndyCloset
12-14-2010, 10:19 PM
Are you fuckin' nuts? Seriously, internet personas? I think you need to see a therapist.

Why what have we even done to you?!

GrimFusion
12-14-2010, 10:27 PM
Why what have we even done to you?!


I didn't threaten to punch you in the eye or anything. I just think using an internet persona is a little lame and immature, especially when you end up having to "play into character", but that's just my opinion.

I'm not trying to start some sort of 'tardy e-battle with you. I just think it's over-the-top, and I'm a loud mouth.

IndyCloset
12-14-2010, 11:46 PM
I didn't threaten to punch you in the eye or anything. I just think using an internet persona is a little lame and immature, especially when you end up having to "play into character", but that's just my opinion.

I'm not trying to start some sort of 'tardy e-battle with you. I just think it's over-the-top, and I'm a loud mouth.

Good.

Hope you have a sense of humor as well.

slinky
12-15-2010, 12:03 AM
Are you surprised at the number of "non-op" women you see? What percentage do you think are in that category? You think it lends any credence to Blanchard's unpopular autogyeyphilia hypotheses?

Jericho
12-15-2010, 12:16 AM
Are you related to Darryl, kinda like, the Super Tranny Chaser?

IndyCloset
12-15-2010, 01:06 AM
Hey Indy,

Thanks for putting up your views on the forum. Hope you get some good questions.

My questions are...

1. Can you explain why you label yourself a "tranny chaser" when in your OP you imply you're indifferent between girls with pussies and girls with penises? Surely that's a description of a "skirt chaser" in a target-rich environment?

2. What's your view on the issue that those girls who consider themselves "pre-op" (as compared to "non-op") will likely regard their "she-male" form as a transitional phase - so they don't want a guy who's attracted to that form when their goal is to ditch it asap? So they just want a straight guy to love them as a woman; but a truly "straight" guy wouldn't love them in their "she-male" phase so they're in a catch-22 until after full SRS?

Thanks,

audifan

ANS:1)HMM...maybe I need to revisit that post since I don't feel any lack of interest with either party as long as the woman in question has a good head on her shoulders. So when I say that I don't live up to the name "tranny Chaser" I say that because most would believe that these types will f*ck any manly looking thing in a wig they see. Which is personally not my style at all. So since everyone seems to have their own interpretation of the term. Make way for mine.

2)This one is easy "TO HELL WITH THEM!"
Classic case of how can they love you if they can't love themselves much less look at themselves in the mirror?

The irony is, is that my "view" on the issue wouldn't matter since these types have their own agenda anyway.

So a better question would be "Why complicate your life with a person like this in the first place, especailly when you know how it will ultimately end?

audifan
12-15-2010, 01:51 AM
ANS:1)HMM...maybe I need to revisit that post since I don't feel any lack of interest with either party as long as the woman in question has a good head on her shoulders. So when I say that I don't live up to the name "tranny Chaser" I say that because most would believe that these types will f*ck any manly looking thing in a wig they see. Which is personally not my style at all. So since everyone seems to have their own interpretation of the term. Make way for mine.

2)This one is easy "TO HELL WITH THEM!"
Classic case of how can they love you if they can't love themselves much less look at themselves in the mirror?

The irony is, is that my "view" on the issue wouldn't matter since these types have their own agenda anyway.

So a better question would be "Why complicate your life with a person like this in the first place, especailly when you know how it will ultimately end?

Thanks for your reply;

1. OK.

2. Dunno about damning pre-ops to hell. They're just people with issues pursuing their own transitions which can't be easy. And yes they'll complicate your life to hell and back but ALL women are expert at that. However, I do agree with you that its likely to end badly if you're not what she really wants.

Thanks again for your answers.

Ryz
12-15-2010, 01:53 AM
Are you related to Darryl, kinda like, the Super Tranny Chaser?

Theres a justice league of tranny chasers all over the internet. Only when there is a challenge to big for one of them to take on alone; that's when they all assemble!

Jericho
12-15-2010, 02:35 AM
Theres a justice league of tranny chasers all over the internet. Only when there is a challenge to big for one of them to take on alone; that's when they all assemble!
:dead:

How does one join, do you have to be bit by a radioactive tranny?
Is there a badge, a clubhouse?
How do they know when one's in trouble...Trannileaks?

IndyCloset
12-15-2010, 02:36 AM
Are you related to Darryl, kinda like, the Super Tranny Chaser?

ANS:No relation. Same complection but I'm a little taller. Plus Darryl goes by the name "Super Tranny F*cker" where as I simply go by "The Chaser™", so the best way to sum things up would be that he's more main stream where as I'm underground.

He likes 100% bottom TS where as I go for everything tranny oriented except for blood sacrifice and Watch Tower subscriptions.

Darryl has an affinity for Asian TS but with me it's the darker the berry....

Though we rearly see eye to eye on other sites he has inspired me to take my ass to gym more often.

But don't tell'em I said that.

pointblack
12-15-2010, 02:41 AM
Can you provide me with a list of all states including cities where I can find sexy girls?

Follow up question... Can I have it now?

Oh wait A to Z please!

IndyCloset
12-15-2010, 02:48 AM
Thanks for your reply;

1. OK.

2. Dunno about damning pre-ops to hell. They're just people with issues pursuing their own transitions which can't be easy. And yes they'll complicate your life to hell and back but ALL women are expert at that. However, I do agree with you that its likely to end badly if you're not what she really wants.

Thanks again for your answers.

No you missunderstood my ans. I wasn't referring to all Pre-ops. Just the indecisive turn coats you asked my opinion on.

So just for the record, pre-op = GOOD
Self hating Pre-op who hold trans-attracted men in contempt = BAD, 666, ☢,☠

IndyCloset
12-15-2010, 02:55 AM
Can you provide me with a list of all states including cities where I can find sexy girls?

Follow up question... Can I have it now?

Oh wait A to Z please!


ANS:EROS.com

pointblack
12-15-2010, 03:49 AM
ANS:EROS.com
Good one.

Can you force yourself to give me money for this?

IndyCloset
12-15-2010, 03:57 AM
Are you surprised at the number of "non-op" women you see? What percentage do you think are in that category? You think it lends any credence to Blanchard's unpopular autogyeyphilia hypotheses?



ANS:No I'm not surprised. But I do welcome the company of a "stealth" Pre and/or Non-op transsexual since for me it's part of what makes them unique from traditional females.

And since many TS denounce being classified as a homosexual man who wishes to be female in order to be aroused by his own body. That rules out autogyeyphilia being that his theories are flaud.

Haven't done a lot of research on the % of non-op so you'll have to take a rain check on that one.

IndyCloset
12-15-2010, 04:01 AM
Good one.

Can you force yourself to give me money for this?

Ans:Unlikely but I could share some tips on how to get some of the local women posting ads on that site in your area for free!

pointblack
12-15-2010, 04:03 AM
Ans:Unlikely but I could share some tips on how to get some of the local women posting ads on that site in your area for free!
Free is good! Hook a nig up like shit on your shoe.

Miss Fagina
12-15-2010, 04:27 AM
And since many TS denounce being classified as a homosexual man who wishes to be female in order to be aroused by his own body. That rules out autogyeyphilia being that his theories are flaud.

Blanchard and his supporters states that transsexuals comes by the decision to transition either by being efeminate gay boys, OR adult heterosexual (sometimes bisexual) tv's (or being aroused by the thought of being female). One transitions early, and the other later in life (although I don't think that part holds true anymore). It is simply at matter of etiology, and as such it's not flawed. HSTS are asumed to partly share etiology with gay men. And AGP's are usually identical with tv's in their sexual and social development, until they take it a step further.

nonnonnon
12-15-2010, 06:08 AM
do you see yourself settling down?

IndyCloset
12-15-2010, 07:56 AM
do you see yourself settling down?


Ans:Well you can't chase for ever. But my worst fear is hooking up with an annoying ass broad. The kind that was perfect when we first met but then flips and does a 180 3 years into the marriage...

Drowzee Snorlax
12-15-2010, 08:01 AM
Great thread. My question:

How do you protect yourself from HIV and other diseases when chasing trannies? Transsexual sex workers, especilaly blacks, are a very high risk category for HIV. Are you concerned about catching something?

IndyCloset
12-15-2010, 08:37 AM
Great thread. My question:

How do you protect yourself from HIV and other diseases when chasing trannies? Transsexual sex workers, especilaly blacks, are a very high risk category for HIV. Are you concerned about catching something?

Ans:Let me start by saying that in some instances getting free sex from a quality escort TS isn't always easy. It takes times and patients. And once you get there you still have to ask yourself is this one worth it!

So while chasing I may occationally get to know a woman LOL. Observing her habbits is also important. I don't normally date girls who smoke since Cancer is actually more deadly then HIV is. So if you're foolish enough to put a Newport in your mouth chances are you've had unprotected sex more than once and even if you haven't, do you think I'm willing to go out with you from second hand smoke?!

Fact:80% of all adults have herpes1 or 2... this is why I'm keen on taking showers together, foreplay and lighting a few candles. I'm not only pleasuring I'm looking over a womans body in places where most infections linger, checking lymph nodes and everything since condom use is only one defense and don't always protect from HPV, HSV and crabs.

So by following these techniques I've spotted things on or around the private areas of trannies and Genetic females alike that have made me run home and talk to Jesus!

Safe to say I just stay home and jerk off more...

audifan
12-15-2010, 10:36 AM
No you missunderstood my ans. I wasn't referring to all Pre-ops. Just the indecisive turn coats you asked my opinion on.

So just for the record, pre-op = GOOD
Self hating Pre-op who hold trans-attracted men in contempt = BAD, 666, ☢,☠


Thanks for responding. Sorry I didn't make myself clear. I didn't mean that you damned all pre-ops, just those you term self-hating indecisive turncoats. I was a little more forgiving. They've got issues and agendas, but so have we all.

I think you really just said that where our agendas don't overlap that's a bad starting point for any relationship so don't go there. So now all I need to do is figure out her agenda; how hard can that be with a female! :hide-1:

Agree with you about Blanchard's autogynephilia theories. They always looked like self-serving sensationalist homophobic BS to me. But then I never bothered to read them properly after I decided they were BS. So maybe I missed something.

GrimFusion
12-15-2010, 08:23 PM
Ans:Well you can't chase for ever. But my worst fear is hooking up with an annoying ass broad. The kind that was perfect when we first met but then flips and does a 180 3 years into the marriage...

Fuckin' ditto, man. That's the reason why I've never gotten married. The past two meaningful relationships I've been in, everything was awesome for the first two years, but when the relationship winds down to monotony, most bitches go ape-shit crazy and try to purposely sabotage everything out of boredom.

IndyCloset
12-16-2010, 12:15 AM
Free is good! Hook a nig up like shit on your shoe.


.........okay.

My next thread will feature a few tips on chasing Trannies.
Look out for it!

MrF
12-16-2010, 11:52 PM
What qualities about you make you a successful chaser ? I guess being handsome, athletic, smooth-talking, intelligent but not wierd-genius-level intelligent (lol). Guys who are too smart die as virgins, e.g. Isaac Newton (who wasn't all that ugly).

pointblack
12-17-2010, 01:50 AM
.........okay.

My next thread will feature a few tips on chasing Trannies.
Look out for it!
Yes! U D Mon

IndyCloset
12-17-2010, 02:25 AM
What qualities about you make you a successful chaser ? I guess being handsome, athletic, smooth-talking, intelligent but not wierd-genius-level intelligent (lol). Guys who are too smart die as virgins, e.g. Isaac Newton (who wasn't all that ugly).


Confidence, confidence and last but not least confidence!

What you look like doesn't matter. But how you
present yourself does. Women can be vain and Trannies are no exception so instead
of seeking her approval, just give her yours. Then pull it away. Then give it to her again. This, as a wise man once said is called flirting.

Now I'm no broke, hachette faced dude so I have pulled a few girls just by "looking cute" at the right place and at the right time. And to be fair I've also paid for sex once or twice in the past (6 years ago)
but as of now there is no rush quite like having a woman who fucks for a living call me up for body maintainance when she's off the clock so I doubt I could ever pay for sex again.

And because of this I graduated from Strip clubs with honors and got my scholarship to h0e stroll USA LOL!

TsVanessa69
12-17-2010, 08:23 PM
Are you related to Darryl, kinda like, the Super Tranny Chaser?
Nah.
deniro is wayyy better than daryl on so many levels!

ed_jaxon
12-17-2010, 08:28 PM
Confidence, confidence and last but not least confidence!

What you look like doesn't matter. But how you
present yourself does. Women can be vain and Trannies are no exception so instead
of seeking her approval, just give her yours. Then pull it away. Then give it to her again. This, as a wise man once said is called flirting.

Now I'm no broke, hachette faced dude so I have pulled a few girls just by "looking cute" at the right place and at the right time. And to be fair I've also paid for sex once or twice in the past (6 years ago)
but as of now there is no rush quite like having a woman who fucks for a living call me up for body maintainance when she's off the clock so I doubt I could ever pay for sex again.


And because of this I graduated from Strip clubs with honors and got my scholarship to h0e stroll USA LOL!





Raises a glass of Jack in acknowledgment.:cheers:

GrimFusion
12-17-2010, 09:29 PM
What qualities about you make you a successful chaser ? I guess being handsome, athletic, smooth-talking, intelligent but not wierd-genius-level intelligent (lol). Guys who are too smart die as virgins, e.g. Isaac Newton (who wasn't all that ugly).

Weird and intelligent aren't really synonymous, and I think it's some very sad shit when smart dudes end up ostracizing themselves by playing prude and innocent. The way I see it, HA gives me a reason to pronounce my intelligence because I can't in real life. I don't have to worry about going home alone because I bored the hell out somebody on here. There's a time and a place, I guess.

amberskyi
12-17-2010, 10:46 PM
Weird and intelligent aren't really synonymous, and I think it's some very sad shit when smart dudes end up ostracizing themselves by playing prude and innocent. The way I see it, HA gives me a reason to pronounce my intelligence because I can't in real life. I don't have to worry about going home alone because I bored the hell out somebody on here. There's a time and a place, I guess.

i love weird and intelligent guys.i love dates where the convo is great and i learn something new.plus im pretty weird my damn self lol

MrF
12-18-2010, 02:36 AM
i love weird and intelligent guys.i love dates where the convo is great and i learn something new.plus im pretty weird my damn self lol

Great ! And a weird and intelligent guy is more likely to undertand and appreciate those who are likewise weird or otherwise "different".

But back to the thread ...

My next question: Indy, you say that confidence is very important. In your case, what is the basis of your confidence ? It may come back to the qualities you possess, or perhaps you are blessed with an unthinking aggressiveness ?

I've noticed that some guys are arrogant and aggressive with no reason to be, but they manage to attract attention. Meanwhile others may be shy and withdrawn even though they are great in some way. I'm not saying any of that applies to you, I'm only asking since you invited questions. I guess everyone alive must have some advantage; after all, we are all products of 4 Billion years of evolution.

IndyCloset
12-18-2010, 04:25 AM
Great ! And a weird and intelligent guy is more likely to undertand and appreciate those who are likewise weird or otherwise "different".

But back to the thread ...

My next question: Indy, you say that confidence is very important. In your case, what is the basis of your confidence ? It may come back to the qualities you possess, or perhaps you are blessed with an unthinking aggressiveness ?

I've noticed that some guys are arrogant and aggressive with no reason to be, but they manage to attract attention. Meanwhile others may be shy and withdrawn even though they are great in some way. I'm not saying any of that applies to you, I'm only asking since you invited questions. I guess everyone alive must have some advantage; after all, we are all products of 4 Billion years of evolution.

I probably should've mentioned this earlier on but you might wanna pick up a book called "The Art of Seduction" by Robert Greene. This book breaks down the many types of personalities in history that have successfully stolen the hearts kings and queens alike. Trust me, you don't have to be someone you're not.

This book helps you find out what type of seducer you are and helps you understand and the type of women you prefer. And if reading isn't your thing then go log onto youtube and do a search on Mystery the pick up artist!

I'm the type of person who likes to make sense of things so when your receptive to the diverse opinions, perceptions and beliefs of others you give yours the permission to grown and change and you become a better person.

So whether I'm reading up on the love hormone Oxytocin or looking up at the stars after thumbing through a book on signs called "Sexual Astrology" I add it all to my arsenal when I go out for the hunt....oh I mean go out to socialize LOL!

IndyCloset
12-18-2010, 04:32 AM
Nah.
deniro is wayyy better than daryl on so many levels!

Thank you!

MrF
12-19-2010, 03:20 AM
... you might wanna pick up a book called "The Art of Seduction" by Robert Greene.

And if reading isn't your thing then go log onto youtube and do a search on Mystery the pick up artist!


So you can get better at this by reading a book or by watching youtube ? I would have thought it was more of a talent than a skill.

The book you mentioned looks amusing. Only $13.50 on Amazon.com with generally good reviews. The youtube p/u artist dude said the 4 important ingredients one must show for attracting women are:

1. you are pre-selected by women
2. you are a leader of men
3. a protector of loved ones (friends / family)
4. can show emotion

That makes sense in a way but there's a lot of variation in women's value sets and it depends on the woman's maturity and experience too.

In regard to #1, I have noticed that if I was in a club with a date, sometimes women would come up to me and ask me to dance (I guess there was a 5% probability). But if I was alone, striking the "thinking man pose", that almost never happened -- less than 1% for me, though no doubt more often for some guys. I used to think it was because when I had a date I was "glowing with happiness" and hence more attractive, but maybe it had more to do with point #1, i.e. the women feel jealous.

Oh well, fun stuff.

IndyCloset
12-19-2010, 08:38 AM
So you can get better at this by reading a book or by watching youtube ? I would have thought it was more of a talent than a skill.

The book you mentioned looks amusing. Only $13.50 on Amazon.com with generally good reviews. The youtube p/u artist dude said the 4 important ingredients one must show for attracting women are:

1. you are pre-selected by women
2. you are a leader of men
3. a protector of loved ones (friends / family)
4. can show emotion

That makes sense in a way but there's a lot of variation in women's value sets and it depends on the woman's maturity and experience too.

In regard to #1, I have noticed that if I was in a club with a date, sometimes women would come up to me and ask me to dance (I guess there was a 5% probability). But if I was alone, striking the "thinking man pose", that almost never happened -- less than 1% for me, though no doubt more often for some guys. I used to think it was because when I had a date I was "glowing with happiness" and hence more attractive, but maybe it had more to do with point #1, i.e. the women feel jealous.

Oh well, fun stuff.

With some people it comes naturally and with others it takes practice.
But it wouldn't hurt either party to do a lil research on the topic.

I just see it as another hobby.

nonnonnon
12-19-2010, 08:50 AM
With some people it comes naturally and with others it takes practice.
But it wouldn't hurt either party to do a lil research on the topic.

I just see it as another hobby.
I think you're spot on. There's very much some truth in the pickup artist stuff but it shouldn't be an act and you shouldn't need to distract a girl during a date to quickly read the next chapter. It should be natural

IndyCloset
12-20-2010, 12:32 AM
I think you're spot on. There's very much some truth in the pickup artist stuff but it shouldn't be an act and you shouldn't need to distract a girl during a date to quickly read the next chapter. It should be natural


SMH @ anybody bringing cliff notes to a date at a 5 star restaurant.
In this is the case you might wanna save that money and take a browse through backpages LOL!