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www.tglovers.com
11-14-2010, 05:04 PM
Kids can completely change the dynamic of a relationship and create a whole new set of challenges.

Have you ever dealt with this situation?
YouTube - Dating a trans-attracted man with kids or who wants kids? (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4XVsGxWNkB4)

Silcc69
11-14-2010, 05:13 PM
I can't concentrate on the video when I keep staring at your boobies.

www.tglovers.com
11-14-2010, 05:42 PM
I can't concentrate on the video when I keep staring at your boobies.
I made a conscious effort to cover them up! They are not even visible in this video!

tsdvdman
11-14-2010, 08:27 PM
I made a conscious effort to cover them up! They are not even visible in this video!
They look delicious even covered up

TsVanessa69
11-14-2010, 08:42 PM
I dated a man with a young daughter. She lived with her mother, but we took her out to the park and McNuggets at McDonalds and stuff like that, and it wasnt an issue to us or her.

phobun
11-14-2010, 09:12 PM
I dated a man with a young daughter. She lived with her mother, but we took her out to the park and McNuggets at McDonalds and stuff like that, and it wasnt an issue to us or her.


Most transgenders don't have any motherly instincts or disposition unlike GGs.

Bobzz
11-14-2010, 09:19 PM
Most transgenders don't have any motherly instincts or disposition unlike GGs.

Do you practice being an asshole or does it all come quite naturally to you?

Why are you even here? And I don't mean on the website, I mean on earth.:fu:

traLika
11-14-2010, 09:23 PM
Most transgenders don't have any motherly instincts or disposition unlike GGs.


Funny how you seem to know everything, phobun...

dan_drade
11-14-2010, 09:26 PM
Its really not much different than having a gg for a girlfriend. My son lives with me and my TG girlfriend and it has been working out pretty well for us.

FreddieGomez
11-14-2010, 09:31 PM
i already have a son and he's gonna be 3 soon. i wanna have another one some day but a trannie cant give me one so.....

phobun
11-14-2010, 09:32 PM
Funny how you seem to know everything, phobun...


With the exception of the Nikki Araguz case, you don't even hear in the media much about transwomen adopting kids or being moms. And most transsexuals here or anywhere else don't exactly pine for a family man and kids.

Although a big factor in that might be that so many of the guys are just insincere chasers. A lot of guys are on the DL, and the rest don't contemplate the idea of kids with a transwoman because most guys are looking to drop their load and seek their next conquest.

phobun
11-14-2010, 09:33 PM
Do you practice being an asshole or does it all come quite naturally to you?

Why are you even here? And I don't mean on the website, I mean on earth.:fu:

Lighten up man. It's just one person's observation. No need to be so prickly about it.

dan_drade
11-14-2010, 09:38 PM
i already have a son and he's gonna be 3 soon. i wanna have another one some day but a trannie cant give me one so.....

Belive me, one is enough. Once yours gets older, you will understand.

dan_drade
11-14-2010, 09:39 PM
Most transgenders don't have any motherly instincts or disposition unlike GGs.
Thats so untrue. My gf is a great step mom to my son. She talks with him, helps him out with problems, she even washes his stank underwear. A mom does not get any better than that.

phobun
11-14-2010, 09:40 PM
i already have a son and he's gonna be 3 soon. i wanna have another one some day but a trannie cant give me one so.....


You could adopt.

Silcc69
11-14-2010, 09:40 PM
With the exception of the Nikki Araguz case, you don't even hear in the media much about transwomen adopting kids or being moms. And most transsexuals here or anywhere else don't exactly pine for a family man and kids.

Although a big factor in that might be that so many of the guys are just insincere chasers. A lot of guys are on the DL, and the rest don't contemplate the idea of kids with a transwoman because most guys are looking to drop their load and seek their next conquest.

:fuckin::fuckin::fuckin::fuckin::fuckin:

That comment was to much for me.

phobun
11-14-2010, 09:41 PM
Thats so untrue. My gf is a great step mom to my son. She talks with him, helps him out with problems, she even washes his stank underwear. A mom does not get any better than that.



She sounds like a lovely woman. I said most, not every...

dan_drade
11-14-2010, 09:42 PM
She sounds like a lovely woman. I said most, not every...

I suppose it just depends on the girl. There are lots of ts's that are great at being moms. probably just as many as there are gg's that suck at being moms.

FreddieGomez
11-14-2010, 09:45 PM
You could adopt.

it aint the same. i want my own seed...

www.tglovers.com
11-14-2010, 10:21 PM
I think the problem is most of the guys here have only seen transsexual in a sexual capacity. Speaking only for myself....I believe I am very maternal. My friends, family and people in general often come to me when they need to be consoled or need guidance.

I often think about being a mother but worry about the repercussions the child would suffer as a result. That being said, I still one day look forward to being able to shape a young mind and create a positive and productive citizen that will be able to make a difference in the world.

FreddieGomez
11-14-2010, 10:24 PM
I think the problem is most of the guys here have only seen transsexual in a sexual capacity. .


but then why are ya'll trickin and doin porn? ya'll feed into that stereotype by doin it....and if u aint one who does, the others are givin ya'll a bad name....how do u think most dudes stumble across trannies in the first place? thru porn....if ya'll dont want to be seen as a sex object then change your ways...if u gonna sell ass or do porn, like anybody is gonna take u seriously otherwise? shit...i'd never take a female porn star seriously what makes u think ima do the same about ya'll? and i know ya'll gonna gang up on me because i speak the truth but wt fuck ever yo

www.tglovers.com
11-14-2010, 10:34 PM
but then why are ya'll trickin and doin porn? ya'll feed into that stereotype by doin it....and if u aint one who does, the others are givin ya'll a bad name....how do u think most dudes stumble across trannies in the first place? thru porn....if ya'll dont want to be seen as a sex object then change your ways...if u gonna sell ass or do porn, like anybody is gonna take u seriously otherwise? shit...i'd never take a female porn star seriously what makes u think ima do the same about ya'll? and i know ya'll gonna gang up on me because i speak the truth but wt fuck ever yo
Freddie, I really hate when you say "yall". I don't trick....I own a business. I don't have a problem with the girls who do it but not all of us work as escorts. Furthermore.....why do you not take the same tone with the guys who patronize escorts? Its hard to turn a date....if there are not dates to turn.

How a discussion about parenting turned into a debate on sex-workers is beyond me. If you don't want to date a sex-worker...don't date a sex worker. I don't date guys who drink excessively, use drugs, cannot speak in complete sentences, live at home with their mothers, carry guns, lack empathy, or ride motorcycles. So we all have our preferences.

www.tglovers.com
11-14-2010, 10:34 PM
but then why are ya'll trickin and doin porn? ya'll feed into that stereotype by doin it....and if u aint one who does, the others are givin ya'll a bad name....how do u think most dudes stumble across trannies in the first place? thru porn....if ya'll dont want to be seen as a sex object then change your ways...if u gonna sell ass or do porn, like anybody is gonna take u seriously otherwise? shit...i'd never take a female porn star seriously what makes u think ima do the same about ya'll? and i know ya'll gonna gang up on me because i speak the truth but wt fuck ever yo
Freddie, I really hate when you say "yall". I don't trick....I own a business. I don't have a problem with the girls who do it but not all of us work as escorts. Furthermore.....why do you not take the same tone with the guys who patronize escorts? Its hard to turn a date....if there are not dates to turn.

How a discussion about parenting turned into a debate on sex-workers is beyond me. If you don't want to date a sex-worker...don't date a sex worker. I don't date guys who drink excessively, use drugs, cannot speak in complete sentences, live at home with their mothers, carry guns, lack empathy or ride motorcycles. So we all have our preferences.

MrsKellyPierce
11-14-2010, 10:36 PM
I love my step-daughter..we get on very well.

FreddieGomez
11-14-2010, 10:38 PM
Freddie, I really hate when you say "yall". I don't trick....I own a business. I don't have a problem with the girls who do it but not all of us work as escorts. Furthermore.....why do you not take the same tone with the guys who patronize escorts? Its hard to turn a date....if there are not dates to turn.

How a discussion about parenting turned into a debate on sex-workers is beyond me. If you don't want to date a sex-worker...don't date a sex worker. I don't date guys who drink excessively, use drugs, cannot speak in complete sentences, live at home with their mothers, carry guns, lack empathy, or ride motorcycles. So we all have our preferences.

IT STARTED BECAUSE U SAID "I think the problem is most of the guys here have only seen transsexual in a sexual capacity." AND I SAID BECAUSE MOST TRANNIES FEED INTO THAT STEREOTYPE. And again i said if u aint like that then the ones who do are givin u a bad name! and my beef is almost every trannie chick i've tried kickin it to is trickin...i dunno about other dudes but even if they offerin the ass for free i jus aint comfortable havin a chick who's been run up in by tom , dick and harry. maybe when i was 18 or 19 i wouldnt give a fuck but i'm older now and got morals....and easy ass dont impress me much any more.

MrsKellyPierce
11-14-2010, 10:38 PM
Freddie there are plenty of females out there who do porn that are mothers, and great mothers and wives mind you. You are so ignorant in so many ways.

FreddieGomez
11-14-2010, 10:41 PM
Freddie there are plenty of females out there who do porn that are mothers, and great mothers and wives mind you. You are so ignorant in so many ways.

yeah but again i wouldnt take any chick who does porn seriously, i'd only see them as a sex object because that's my impression of her... i'd never want a chick knowin her ass is all over the net naked....

MrsKellyPierce
11-14-2010, 10:43 PM
How one acts in films and one acts in life and relationships are two different things.

I find most girls (outside of porn) are the slutty, cheating, despicable ones. The ones who claim to be good and all that jazz. Are usually the worst. I can name dozen of bar hos I know. Where as the porn girls I know would never do a one night stand and are ladies.

MrsKellyPierce
11-14-2010, 10:44 PM
And any respectable girl would help you differentiate your perception...it's just not reality. It's a job.

www.tglovers.com
11-14-2010, 10:45 PM
IT STARTED BECAUSE U SAID "I think the problem is most of the guys here have only seen transsexual in a sexual capacity." AND I SAID BECAUSE MOST TRANNIES FEED INTO THAT STEREOTYPE. And again i said if u aint like that then the ones who do are givin u a bad name! and my beef is almost every trannie chick i've tried kickin it to is trickin...i dunno about other dudes but even if they offerin the ass for free i jus aint comfortable havin a chick who's been run up in by tom , dick and harry. maybe when i was 18 or 19 i wouldnt give a fuck but i'm older now and got morals....and easy ass dont impress me much any more.
I don't think sex-workers are giving transsexuals a bad name....I think the fact that some guys are very narrow minded and don't take the time to see the entire TG community gives transsexuals a bad name. You can't hang out at a police station and complain about running into police officers. If you want to know transsexuals who are not sex-workers you have to expose yourself to the community as at large.

I could easily point the finger back at you in terms of how many men objectify transsexuals but I won't go there...in stead, I will simply say: you have a lot to learn. Its like when people say all black men are criminals or have tons of illegitimate children. Stereotypes can be very dangerous.

DL_NL
11-14-2010, 11:13 PM
Great, let's all do like Freddie and think in cliches.

peggygee
11-14-2010, 11:32 PM
I have no doubt that a transwoman who is mature, and stable could
provide a loving, nurturing environment for a chilld.

www.tglovers.com
11-15-2010, 01:00 AM
I have no doubt that a transwoman who is mature, and stable could
provide a loving, nurturing environment for a chilld.
I couldn't agree more!