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RubyTS
11-11-2010, 04:57 AM
ok, so it happens all too often that us working girls sit around and complain about how awful guys are and how unfair life is for ts and bla bla bla. Time to shine a little light on the very attractive, sexy, fun, generous and sweet guys that, once in a blue, make this business just a little more bearable.

So this is thank u to the very few young, sexy, big dicked, hot bodied, modest, down to earth, normal, fun guys who dont try to negotiate our rates simply because they're above average attractive, or hung, or "don't need to pay for sex" The guys who dont give us a hard time, who dont feel it on our clock, who we sometimes feel genuine chemistry with, and tip us an extra hundred on top of the great nut we just busted and the 250 nthey already shelled out, and leave us with a smile. Thank you =)

SunshyneMonroe
11-11-2010, 05:04 AM
i love those guys :)

Mari_Mar
11-11-2010, 05:06 AM
I'm glad that you all have some of those guys to dedicate this thread to! :)

AsiaMei
11-11-2010, 05:16 AM
i love those guys :)

+1 :iagree:

sdman
11-11-2010, 06:06 AM
+1 :iagree:

That pic would be much better if you moved your hand and showed us those tits.

BLKGSXR
11-11-2010, 06:21 AM
smh^ at sdman

princevince89
11-11-2010, 02:50 PM
who tip an extra hundred? wait do you have to tip? The whole fucking thing is a tip.

ELSAPO
11-11-2010, 03:52 PM
Your Welcome. In fact the few times I have seen a TS, we have hit it off pretty cool even grabbing a bite afterward. I would never negotiate the price, kinda scared I would have the door slammed on my face. Props top all great providers who go the extra mile for us to keep coming, back and back.

joeym75ld
11-11-2010, 04:28 PM
ok, so it happens all too often that us working girls sit around and complain about how awful guys are and how unfair life is for ts and bla bla bla. Time to shine a little light on the very attractive, sexy, fun, generous and sweet guys that, once in a blue, make this business just a little more bearable.

So this is thank u to the very few young, sexy, big dicked, hot bodied, modest, down to earth, normal, fun guys who dont try to negotiate our rates simply because they're above average attractive, or hung, or "don't need to pay for sex" The guys who dont give us a hard time, who dont feel it on our clock, who we sometimes feel genuine chemistry with, and tip us an extra hundred on top of the great nut we just busted and the 250 nthey already shelled out, and leave us with a smile. Thank you =)
Shouldn't it actually be extra for the hung guys!?! (At least if they wanna put it in your ass)

Bobzz
11-11-2010, 04:31 PM
Ruby,

I think you'll agree that it's also a two way street. There's nothing more inviting to a client when there's some physical chemistry, and mutual respect and attraction. Sure we know we're paying for the pleasure of your company but the best experiences are when it doesn't feel that way. That's when we're delighted to peel off an extra hundred or spring for a nice dinner. I may not be young (I was once) and I'm not hung (never was) but I've had some great times and that's what keep me coming back for more.

giovanni_hotel
11-11-2010, 05:11 PM
What a pleasantly odd thread!lol

BeardedOne
11-11-2010, 05:15 PM
I don't qualify for any of those attributes, but it's nice to see a lady give some of a guys a nod. ;)

giovanni_hotel
11-11-2010, 05:20 PM
I'm sure you qualify for at least one of Ruby's props, BeardedOne.

She's not just talking about looks or endowment, IMO how she's treated by clients, their demeanor and personality count big points with her too.
Nice to see a girl flip the script and not talk over and over about how much they hate how men treat them.

Bobzz
11-11-2010, 07:06 PM
I'm sure you qualify for at least one of Ruby's props, BeardedOne.

She's not just talking about looks or endowment, IMO how she's treated by clients, their demeanor and personality count big points with her too.
Nice to see a girl flip the script and not talk over and over about how much they hate how men treat them.

Big BUMP Giovanni

dskreet2
11-11-2010, 07:19 PM
I'm sure you qualify for at least one of Ruby's props, BeardedOne.

She's not just talking about looks or endowment, IMO how she's treated by clients, their demeanor and personality count big points with her too.
Nice to see a girl flip the script and not talk over and over about how much they hate how men treat them.

The higher emphasis seems to be placed on those attributes mentioned after "few" since it is bolded. So IMO of her statement, the "young, sexy, big dicked, hot bodied, modest, down to earth, normal, fun guys" are the ones being touted! But I have NO problem with her shared thoughts and I don't want to be considered hijacking this thread. Ruby is absolutely gorgeous and deserves what she wants and/or appreciates!

LAGent4ts
11-11-2010, 10:53 PM
I agree with Giovanni. The fact that you took the time to express your thoughts says something about you and I suspect is one of the reasons you have some of the positive experiences you describe.

Silcc69
11-11-2010, 11:13 PM
Well during this recession i'm sure the rates are negotiable lol.

fred41
11-11-2010, 11:21 PM
Well during this recession i'm sure the rates are negotiable lol.


LOL...people that ask if rates are negotiable due to the recession...were negotiating rates before the recession too...using a different excuse.

...some people will negotiate no matter what the rates are..."hmmmm...fifty dollars huh...is that a firm price..?"..:)

Helvis2012
11-14-2010, 08:24 AM
who tip an extra hundred? wait do you have to tip? The whole fucking thing is a tip.


You must be quite a high roller.

CaptainPlanet
11-14-2010, 02:04 PM
You must be quite a high roller.

I dont mind paying advertised prices, but a tip? come on thats like tipping, at a fast food joint.

sucka4chix
11-14-2010, 02:35 PM
I don't think I've ever tipped a girl, I'm past that young stage, but I was told I "have a beautiful dick" lol. Many of the girls seem to enjoy their time with me and my best friend now is a provider I hit it off with. Escorting takes a terrible toll on people that many, even girls themselves, don't realize early on. If you just treat them like a normal human being that will go a long way. The only girls who don't appreciate me are the ones who had fucked up attitudes to begin with. I know some people are just genuine jerks but sometimes the jerk is brought out by the other party. Like said before, it goes both ways, but yes it's refreshing to hear a girl celebrating even a couple of guys!

AllanahStarrNYC
11-14-2010, 02:53 PM
I love my job.
I have met some wonderful people, travelled the word, have recieved fabulous, fabulous gifts, and made great friends a long the way. Like any work, sometimes things are difficult- but it took years to learn that a smile on your face and a some effort makes it all worth while. I must admit when I started I was pretty bad and had a different attitude towards it all because that is what I learned. Becoming Allanah Starr has allowed me to be selective.I treat everyone with respect and as id they want to be wanted, because thats all everyone ones. If you hate men, are jaded, think of clients as 'tricks', it's exactly the same as someone thinking of you as a worthless whore. If so, you should do something else because you will most likely end up on drugs trying to escape it, or utterly miserable.
And Yes Miss Ruby, what you are talking about is what we used to call in the old days
A BONUS. And hunny they fall through!
XOXO

sucka4chix
11-14-2010, 03:08 PM
I love my job.
I have met some wonderful people, travelled the word, have recieved fabulous, fabulous gifts, and made great friends a long the way. Like any work, sometimes things are difficult- but it took years to learn that a smile on your face and a some effort makes it all worth while. I must admit when I started I was pretty bad and had a different attitude towards it all because that is what I learned. Becoming Allanah Starr has allowed me to be selective.I treat everyone with respect and as id they want to be wanted, because thats all everyone ones. If you hate men, are jaded, think of clients as 'tricks', it's exactly the same as someone thinking of you as a worthless whore. If so, you should do something else because you will most likely end up on drugs trying to escape it, or utterly miserable.
And Yes Miss Ruby, what you are talking about is what we used to call in the old days
A BONUS. And hunny they fall through!
XOXO
Allanah, I remember you as extremely sweet and a pleasure to talk to waaay before you added the Starr! You helped usher me into this exotic world. Thanks, I think lol.

BeardedOne
11-15-2010, 02:57 AM
I'm sure you qualify for at least one of Ruby's props, BeardedOne.

She's not just talking about looks or endowment, IMO how she's treated by clients, their demeanor and personality count big points with her too.
Nice to see a girl flip the script and not talk over and over about how much they hate how men treat them.

Thanx :) I was speaking in jest. Maybe I should have used more smileys. :) :)

I too, appreciate her firing up a venue with a more positive lean that might show the heroes for a change instead of the great legion of villains that we hear about so often (And I'm not belittling the many threads on the latter as those legions are surely out there and the ladies really need a place to vent).

I know Ruby and found her to be very positive, sincere, and observant with those around her and if she's experienced one of those villains then it was because they hauled their own baggage to the party.


I dont mind paying advertised prices, but a tip? come on thats like tipping, at a fast food joint.

Tipping/gratuities, though expected in some professions/industries such as restaurant wait staff, taxi drivers, bellmen, etc., can apply to any profession or industry if the client/customer feels that they have received exemplary service. In the case of restaurant staff, it's common knowledge that they generally bust ass for the most meager of minimum wage and therefore depend on gratuities to make any kind of reasonable living. If the service is good, I tip well, if exceptional, I tip generously. At the opposite end of the spectrum, if the service is shoddy or non-existent, I will be brutal and have left 'tips' of a single coin, peanut shells, and nasty messages scrawled on the table in ketchup. Note: Never punish the wait staff for the quality (Or lack thereof) of the food (Unless it comes to you stone cold after a long wait), there are other ways to stab at the heart of the kitchen staff.

Having been in several service industries in my life (We all have to cut our teeth on =something= after high school), I've seen the other side and know how to farm gratuities with good service and how appreciative the server is when rewarded for same. In retrospect, those experiences have made me more cogent of sincere effort and more generous in my rewards.

When staying at a hotel I will usually leave $2 a day for the housekeeping staff, more if it's a higher end venue in a larger city and still more if I camp in the room for several daze without allowing them access (Save for towel replenishment, for which they all must be commended in their discretion). If I really pig up or wreck a room...The highest, overall, was $100 at the Denver Hilton in 1981 (In addition to cleaning and damages and some hush money slipped to the manager). The latter is extremely rare, but in one form or another, I do tend to clean up after myself in a way.

I give the occasional tip to the trash guys, the fuel guy, an extra bit on the bills to the Mexicans (For just showing up), and once told the concession kid at the googleplex to keep the change (About two bux) after I dropped what felt like a week's pay on a tub of popcorn, large soda, and box of JuJuBes (The poor kid was at first confused, then stunned, then almost bowing to me in the middle of the lobby shrieking "I am not worthy!")

Oddly enough, and getting back to the above comment, I've not yet 'tipped' a provider. Partly, it is due to the sheer immensity of the principal 'donation'. To be fair, a basic gratuity is in the neighborhood of 10% (And 10% is stingy/cheap). Needless to say, those numbers can get pretty interesting on a date. Then you get into income vs. economy bullshit and only the likes of Gates, Trump, and Raymond could afford the date, let alone a 'tip'.

So...My first basic 'gratuity' is to show up clean, respectful, and sans assholiness. A gift, or card is also a plus. Don't dick around with numbers. I've only 'negotiated' on a date twice: First was when the girl gave me one set of numbers before the date and a different set of numbers when I arrived. Oddly enough, I only brought enough roses to cover the first set of numbers. The second scenario was a hybrid date where the intimacy part was in question and neither of us had a set idea on the numbers. I believe that it was the first and only time in my life where pillow talk involved an auction.

Yet, they have (In my history) been friendly, affectionate, intelligent, witty, sexy, attentive...Oy! The list goes on. And so, I buy them gifts, get them cards, take them to dinner/lunch/breakfast and, in my own bizarre way, entertain =THEM= for a change. OK, so it isn't 'tipping', per se, but it is some small reward that I give them for truly exemplary service, kindness, and patience.

So, you have an issue with 'tipping' an escort?

Did she treat you with respect? Was she friendly? Did you get on well? Did you pop? Did =she= pop (Always important for some of us)? Was your every whim, fantasy, kink, and unreasonable request granted?

Did she treat you like a king?

Then, for fuck's sake, try treating her like a queen as well.

Cutieapol
11-15-2010, 03:48 AM
i love those guys :)

:iagree: :iagree:

95racer
11-15-2010, 04:19 AM
I have had my first three experiences with TS escorts this year. I treat it like seeing a friend and ask them if they need anything. I'll usually bring some beverages (Arnold Palmers, green teas, flavored waters) and the items they may have told me. It makes it feel more like a casual fun time instead of a business transaction.

Having some conversation and learning about where they are from etc. makes for a enjoyable time. We still send occasional emails back and forth.

Ryz
11-15-2010, 04:21 AM
:iagree: :iagree:

Ashley????

DarylWashington
11-15-2010, 04:35 AM
ok, so it happens all too often that us working girls sit around and complain about how awful guys are and how unfair life is for ts and bla bla bla. Time to shine a little light on the very attractive, sexy, fun, generous and sweet guys that, once in a blue, make this business just a little more bearable.

So this is thank u to the very few young, sexy, big dicked, hot bodied, modest, down to earth, normal, fun guys who dont try to negotiate our rates simply because they're above average attractive, or hung, or "don't need to pay for sex" The guys who dont give us a hard time, who dont feel it on our clock, who we sometimes feel genuine chemistry with, and tip us an extra hundred on top of the great nut we just busted and the 250 nthey already shelled out, and leave us with a smile. Thank you =)

You're welcome! I fit in the "young, sexy, big dicked, hot bodied, modest, down to earth, normal, fun, above average attractive, hung, and don't need to pay for sex" guy category!

FreddieGomez
11-15-2010, 04:42 AM
Ashley????

good lookin out bwaahaha

Cutieapol
11-15-2010, 05:33 AM
ashley????

how u doin??????

Odelay
11-15-2010, 07:58 AM
...............

BeardedOne
11-16-2010, 12:05 AM
I have had my first three experiences with TS escorts this year. I treat it like seeing a friend and ask them if they need anything. I'll usually bring some beverages (Arnold Palmers, green teas, flavored waters) and the items they may have told me. It makes it feel more like a casual fun time instead of a business transaction.

Having some conversation and learning about where they are from etc. makes for a enjoyable time. We still send occasional emails back and forth.

Though you may not realize it, to some, if not all of these gurls, you are a god.

Some of them will actually tell you that.

slammer
11-16-2010, 12:47 AM
thanks is great and dandy but how about when you see the same girl like 10 times at what point does she give you something for nothing.............. I havent been with ruby yet and I will be very soon when she arrives at my location and I will give her everything ive got just a thought its always take take take a thank you is nice i guess

BeardedOne
11-16-2010, 03:35 AM
thanks is great and dandy but how about when you see the same girl like 10 times at what point does she give you something for nothing.............. I havent been with ruby yet and I will be very soon when she arrives at my location and I will give her everything ive got just a thought its always take take take a thank you is nice i guess

Well, how often do you shop at your favorite store before they give you something for nothing? The DMV? Your favorite restaurant? No, really, how often do you go to a favorite venue before they say "Oh, it's you! Tonight is free!".

It's great that you see the same girl ten times. It proves that, in your eyes, she is giving you her best and that you keep going back for more. But, jeez!

I've been with a fair number of girls in my time and sometimes there might be that little extra of a free visit or a nice dinner out, but to expect it is just way too ballsy. Be your best, as many of these girls are for you, and you may get rewarded as you should be rewarding them.

<Shaking head> :rolleyes: I can't believe that I, of all people, am giving relationship advice.

RubyTS
11-17-2010, 01:00 AM
wow i totally forgot about this thread lol. thanks to those of u who complimented =) i think its fine for everyone to have their own opinion, like on the tipping thing. i'm playing around with trying not to take ignorance personally anymore. Whether people know it or not, not using proper english when trying to express your views can sometimes completely take away from the point you're trying to make and seem more like a personal attack, so i strongly suggest some posters to choose their words more wisely. As much as we chat on here i think there is a lot of miscommunication that leads to all the bickerring.

Anyway, i wont lie and say that i havent become slightly jaded by this business. Im not always as pleasant as i once was. But i still treat each person as an individual. When a guy walks through my door im always looking for a good quality, whether it be a nice body, a big dick, a sweet personality, intelligence, there's USUALLY something i like about every one of my clients, but thats only because of all the bullshit i've been through, im better at judging character. You can tell so much from SECONDS of a phone conversation, and i wont date anyone that i get a wierd vibe from. I lean towards the more enthusiastic callers, and people that know who i am and what level of service i provide.They're less likely to ask for discounts and such.

Someone mentioned earlier about people using the recession as an excuse.... so true!!! Im real quick to hang up on someone and save their # as DO NOT ANSWER,and the best way to get a dialtone is asking "can you do better than that?" i consider myself the quicker fixer upper lol, and i generally get the guys who have had bad experiences before with either fake pics, or subhuman robot trannies, or "papi ur time is up" etc... Most of them come to me because they've read my reviews and understand that i provide a higher level of service. I think my rate is already a bargain, there are girls doing a lot less and getting $250 for it.So when a guy tries to negotiate, its almost like a slap in the face to the effort i put into showing my customers a quality experience. I do get my "Bonuses" pretty often, sometimes $20, $40, $50, $100 sometimes more. I dont expect it from anyone so its a nice surprise when it happens =) and lets be real, things like that are what seperate the quality clients from the the rest, same as u guys review the escorts. I'd be more likely, next time around, to put him before any other callers, come to a city if he requests it, even do dinner after a session or just hang out without watching the clock, and guys like that are the ones i tend to develop more personal relationships with. Sometimes its not what u do, but the reasons behind WHY u do them. For me its not the extra cash tip, its the fact that they went the extra mile to make ME smile =) Doing things to show me they really like me, makes me open up more to them

i think its retarted for any person to think that after visiting with an escort a certain # of times that she should give u a freebie. it is still a business, whether she likes u or not, and she can always choose NOT to see you. I mean, should we really charge less because we might enjoy ourselves more with one guy than another? I dont think its fair to say that we should base our rates that way.Not everyone hates their job, and id rather get paid AND enjoy my work, then to absolutely hate what i do which is why im so picky, and how ive managed to retain some of my innocence and sweetness, while other girls who just take anyone that comes tend to be very cold and distant and bitter bitches. Those are the ones the guys complain anbout but as you can see from this board we have our opinions as well. And i stronly feel that behind every bitch is a man or men who made her that way lol. It's a 2 way street. She must be pretty special if u keep going back, maybeif u treat her nice, she might return the favor =) But my suggestion is that it should come from a genuine place, cuz the girls cantell when a guy is trying to work her. We're not all stupid u know =) the truth is even if she gives u an extra half hour of her time, you should be grateful. And its people who have that mentality that ruin the girls like me who are natural born sweethearts but were forced to develop thick skin because of guys like you. Im not a cocky person, im very down to earth and i expect the people i see to be the same. if theres one thing that rivals my hate for ignorance, its cocky arrogant people.

anyway im rambling... Because the people in the original post i was talking about are SO far and few, that is why they get a special thank you and what seperates them from the rest. But if everyone were like that, it wouldn't be as special i guess. Makes it a lot easier to spot the winners though =) btw if i were single i would totally have dated that last guy =P

RubyTS
11-17-2010, 01:47 AM
and ps... i the original post wasnt talking about hot, hung, sweet etc. as individuals, but as a total package. it's so rare to find a guy who is both physically and mentally on point. There are plenty of you all who have lots of those qualities, but finding them all in one person is just as hard for us as it is for ya'll. Modestly goes a long way these days when everyone thinks theyre celebrity. And theres nothing hotter to me than a guy who is a 10 but doesnt know it =) and there nothing more of a turn off than a guy who's a 7 and thinks he's a 10

FreddieGomez
11-17-2010, 01:59 AM
rubi si ha llegado la multa, como amigas de Puerto Rico transexual puede presentarme a?

RubyTS
11-17-2010, 02:39 AM
dont be fooled im a newyorican... i cant speak spanish to save my life lol

tsdvdman
11-25-2010, 08:31 AM
This happened to me recently with this beautiful HA. Went to see her and we hit it off so well talking, laughing, popped a bottle of wine, just good old fashion chemistry. She said I was not like any of the type (of brothas) she sees and insisted on me keeping the roses. She actually said, "it's my pleasure, not gonna make or break me". We chilled and did our thing off and on for a few hours,,OMG!! Afterwards, she still wouldn't take a small tip,,but she did ask me to get her a few things from the store, needless to say I went over the top and got her more than just the few things she needed.

goliath_91710
11-25-2010, 09:12 AM
And theres nothing hotter to me than a [girl] who is a 10 but doesnt know it =)

I couldn't agree more. (FYI, you're one of 'em)!

blckhaze
11-26-2010, 03:29 AM
You're welcome
8)