Just a regular date?

[tslvr]

Why does it seem that many of the girls really don't want to go out for a regular date, you know, pizza and a movie type date? Seems like a date has to include a 'donation'.

[bte]

Where are the girls that you are trying to meet? On this site, at a party, or an actual dating site? Believe it or not, there are transwomen who do not escort and ask for donations. Just got to find them, depending on where you live.

[LibertyHarkness]

i would go out on a date, problem is most men that have asked me on a date expect to be able to hold hands, kiss etc and have a night cap etc .. that is not what i call a date as such..

I would love a date as in a date to goto say a mueseum look at stuff, do stuff socially, have some dinner , catch a film then go home separately and speak again in a few days and see if want to repeat another date etc ..and build up gradually ...

[PomonaCA]

I'd never "catch a film", that sounds faggy. I will watch a movie though. I'd watch a movie and then go get something to eat. But I would not "grab a bite", which also sounds faggish.

[DL_NL]

I would love a date as in a date to goto say a mueseum look at stuff, do stuff socially, have some dinner , catch a film then go home separately and speak again in a few days and see if want to repeat another date etc ..and build up gradually ...
That's what I always do. GG or TG, I don't see the difference when it comes to a nice day out if we have similar interests.

I guess you've found the wrong girls or go at it the wrong way...

[Castor_Troy05]

In that regard I've had 2 regular dates with a TG friend. Both times we went to the movies had dinner then went out for drinks. Nothing more happened

[LibertyHarkness]

i dont do anything the wrong way DL in that regard, the issue is muppets expecting more from me than what i want to give .. be it male or female ..

[PomonaCA]

It is amazing how the teeny-tiny nuances gets reinterpreted into something being gay. To me, it only sounds British.


You're splitting hairs. Sounding British is faggy too. Falls under the same umbrella.

[LibertyHarkness]

yeah but you are a fag yourself Pormona so its just abit pot calling the kettle black . just embrace your fagness its really not that bad you know ...

xxx

[PomonaCA]

yeah but you are a fag yourself Pormona so its just abit pot calling the kettle black . just embrace your fagness its really not that bad you know ...

xxx


You just did it again. Saying "a bit" is faggy. It's even more faggy when you say it with a british accent.

[phobun]

Why does it seem that many of the girls really don't want to go out for a regular date, you know, pizza and a movie type date?



Cheap Charlie

[phobun]

You just did it again. Saying "a bit" is faggy. It's even more faggy when you say it with a british accent.


What a prissy thing to write.

[Ryz]

Why does it seem that many of the girls really don't want to go out for a regular date, you know, pizza and a movie type date? Seems like a date has to include a 'donation'.

I dunno what you're saying. Many girls would love to be taken out on a date.
Do you happen to be a trick by any chance? That may play a part

[loren]

i would go out on a date, problem is most men that have asked me on a date expect to be able to hold hands, kiss etc and have a night cap etc .. that is not what i call a date as such..

I would love a date as in a date to goto say a mueseum look at stuff, do stuff socially, have some dinner , catch a film then go home separately and speak again in a few days and see if want to repeat another date etc ..and build up gradually ...
I know exactly what you mean. A lot of guys think that they automatically have a right to my ass, just because they bought me dinner.

[blonde_sweetheart]

I dunno what you're saying. Many girls would love to be taken out on a date.
Do you happen to be a trick by any chance? That may play a part

:iagree: hahahahahhaaa

[hwbs]

i don't think its expecting anything but no one is going to offer to go out every couple weeks , pay everything and be in the friend zone either ( that is some fantasy world shit )....i had a date last night and i can tell by her body language that she does not like me that way...so am i going to ask her out again ...absolutely not even though i know she would love to go out again on my dime...i was not expecting anything but i also see it is not going to go any further...the number gets deleted and move on ...no real big deal..

[LibertyHarkness]

i am not saying anything about having all date paid for, please i pay my own way, i dont need no man to cover my costs .. what I do expect is common curtisey and manners ... i want to date as in get to know a man, i want to see if i am compatible with him in all aspects before i give up an ass...

Hell Sure its a nice to be taken out once paid for, but then i return the favour by taking them out for dinner and paying etc ... that is not a fantasy world is it now ....

It all depends what your looking for i guess, if you just want a quick casual fling sure, if your looking for romance/love a real partner then holding out is key ...

[sdman]

because they are prostitues duh

[amberskyi]

i hate when guys call me from my ad asking to take me out.backpages or eros are NOT dating sites

[FreddieGomez]

Why does it seem that many of the girls really don't want to go out for a regular date, you know, pizza and a movie type date? Seems like a date has to include a 'donation'.

you gotta be hot and their type for that kinda special treatment.

[hwbs]

i just mean if a girl not into u she will still lead u on if u are naive and stuff...i was well behaved cause after wards went to this bday party where i knew a lot of other girls ...girls love that shit cause it is like competition to see if they could peel u away...would of been real easy to get it in last night but i was well behaved (when she would go talk to someone else they would sneak on in and ask whats up and if that's my girl) ...said have a great night and headed to my train cause it was such a long day....a girl don't have to give up ass to see if she is really into u ...body language will give u all the signs u need ....its all very instinctual....i still had a lot of fun just will be with someone else next time ...

the best advice i can say is avoid others advice and trust your instincts, lmao

[Paladin]

I'd never "catch a film", that sounds faggy. I will watch a movie though. I'd watch a movie and then go get something to eat. But I would not "grab a bite", which also sounds faggish.

You do realize that Libby is from the UK or are you to dense to figure that out...

Save the term faggy , faggity, etc., for the cockhounds.

[Paladin]

That's what I always do. GG or TG, I don't see the difference when it comes to a nice day out if we have similar interests.

I guess you've found the wrong girls or go at it the wrong way...

Oh ferchrissake - Libby is one of the girls here...

[Paladin]

yeah but you are a fag yourself Pormona so its just abit pot calling the kettle black . just embrace your fagness its really not that bad you know ...

xxx

Way to go Libby!

You too phobun, but what was that cheap charlie about - i take my lady friends to refined places... damn - last one was over $100 just for dinner.

oh, and sdman is just an ah troll...

[BeardedOne]

Why does it seem that many of the girls really don't want to go out for a regular date, you know, pizza and a movie type date? Seems like a date has to include a 'donation'.

This isn't a personal poke, but maybe that particular girl just doesn't want to go out with =you=. Also, you have to figure that if you're shopping at a florist, you're probably going to find nothing but flowers. Assuming that you're gettin' sweet on girls at a club or other usual T-venue, it's likely they are 'working girls' and may be on the clock as it is. It's tough for them to step outside of that role in such a situation.

I've been on a couple of dinner dates and day-trips with girls who have posted or been mentioned here where 'donations' were neither offered nor requested (And in all cases the girls were in some form of the 'biz' at the time), so it's not impossible. I also had a recent date that was a sort of hybrid, part social/part commercial that went rather well. We even went to a museum. :) Though there was a monetary aspect, the nature of it was more of a gift than a donation or fee. Future dates are planned, one commercial, one not.

A fair number of the women here have an SO in their life. They must have met them somewhere. Who knows? You may be the next lucky winner. :)

[TsVanessa69]

Why does it seem that many of the girls really don't want to go out for a regular date, you know, pizza and a movie type date? Seems like a date has to include a 'donation'.
No its just hard to find a man secure enough in his manhood to even go there because you are "Ts". So I see it like this. If I am the dirty secret, I get paid. rare far and few are men man enough to be seen in public with a ts. I go on date like that with thugs, seems like they are the only men real enough to handle a dime piece ts on their arms.

[RubyTS]

not gonna happen if ur old fat or ugly, or client type ish, UNLESS the girl is bored and feeling adventurous. it also doesnt help if ur calling escort ads. A lot of girls actually get paid just for companionship, dinner dates etc.

i remember meeting up with a guy in vegas and he showed me around, he wasnt a lot of fun, like, he didnt make any arrangements, just kinda asked me where i wanted to go. The whole night was really spontaneous, and i had tons of guys on the strip hitting on me, he got irritated i guess and started speed walking. i was a little tipsy so i did entertain guys on the strip and stopped to take pictures etc. when we got back to my hotel, he was trying to invite himself upstairs and i gave him the "im really tiredd" line. He said "i bet if i were younger and slimmer you would invite me up" Thats when i said, "u saw how many young hot guys were asking me for my # on the strip? and how many of them are coming back to my room?" He was so busy feeling sorry for himself he ruined what could have been an awesome night. Its always such a turn off when a guy expects physical attention, or is too pushy. Id rather just hang out, then im more likely to give them a call next time around.

I did have an awesome time meeting with a guy in LA who drove me around, took me to lunch at this awesome mexican restaurant and to the grove. The next night i met him again and we had an amazing steak dinner. I also had a great time in Florida at disney and universal.

i love to date but its so rare that anyone asks me, all i ever hear is "u wanna hang out?" which is code for "can i come to ur hotel and fuck you for free?" as a woman aware of her beauty, i would only take time out of my schedule based purely on convenience and benefit. i do expect a guy to go out of his way to impress me and show me why he deserves my time. i love when a guy offers to take me shopping for something to wear to dinner with him. it's not so much the $ he spends, but the effort that he puts into showing me that he really wants to meet/get to know me

[DL_NL]

Oh ferchrissake - Libby is one of the girls here...
Was she the one asking the question here, or does everyone have to quote the OP so that you'd understand they're referring to him?

Guess I've overestimated at least one reader...

[TsVanessa69]

you gotta be hot and their type for that kinda special treatment.
Exactly. You guys expect transexuals to be perfect yet you guys cannot give perfection in return. So yea. The game is gonna go the way you guys made the rules.
You want the perfect t girl, we want the perfect dude. But we know that doesn't exsist. So your money makes up for you lack.

[TsVanessa69]

not gonna happen if ur old fat or ugly, or client type ish, UNLESS the girl is bored and feeling adventurous. it also doesnt help if ur calling escort ads. A lot of girls actually get paid just for companionship, dinner dates etc.

i remember meeting up with a guy in vegas and he showed me around, he wasnt a lot of fun, like, he didnt make any arrangements, just kinda asked me where i wanted to go. The whole night was really spontaneous, and i had tons of guys on the strip hitting on me, he got irritated i guess and started speed walking. i was a little tipsy so i did entertain guys on the strip and stopped to take pictures etc. when we got back to my hotel, he was trying to invite himself upstairs and i gave him the "im really tiredd" line. He said "i bet if i were younger and slimmer you would invite me up" Thats when i said, "u saw how many young hot guys were asking me for my # on the strip? and how many of them are coming back to my room?" He was so busy feeling sorry for himself he ruined what could have been an awesome night. Its always such a turn off when a guy expects physical attention, or is too pushy. Id rather just hang out, then im more likely to give them a call next time around.

I did have an awesome time meeting with a guy in LA who drove me around, took me to lunch at this awesome mexican restaurant and to the grove. The next night i met him again and we had an amazing steak dinner. I also had a great time in Florida at disney and universal.

i love to date but its so rare that anyone asks me, all i ever hear is "u wanna hang out?" which is code for "can i come to ur hotel and fuck you for free?" as a woman aware of her beauty, i would only take time out of my schedule based purely on convenience and benefit. i do expect a guy to go out of his way to impress me and show me why he deserves my time. i love when a guy offers to take me shopping for something to wear to dinner with him. it's not so much the $ he spends, but the effort that he puts into showing me that he really wants to meet/get to know me
AMEN! I totally agree with everything you just posted. Its not us thats the problem. Guys need to stop seeing us as ts and start seeing and appreciating the fact we are WOMAN. Putting effort into that gets you far with us. Flowers, perfume, walks in the park and a good game of bowling or a day of eating and drinking at Dave and Busters is good with me.
I think we get deprived of alot because of the ts label. I've taken mine off and only deal with men who can treat me like a woman.
TS is a label and a job description to me.
In my real life I am a woman, and my quest is to ONLY deal with men who can treat me as such.

[BeardedOne]

not gonna happen if ur old fat or ugly, or client type ish, UNLESS the girl is bored and feeling adventurous. it also doesnt help if ur calling escort ads. A lot of girls actually get paid just for companionship, dinner dates etc.

OK, now I am truly hurt. *Sob* *Cry* Being old, fat, and fugly...*Kaff*...I mean 'ugly', I resemble that remark. :P But I understand the undercurrent.


i remember meeting up with a guy in vegas and he showed me around, he wasnt a lot of fun, like, he didnt make any arrangements, just kinda asked me where i wanted to go. The whole night was really spontaneous, and i had tons of guys on the strip hitting on me, he got irritated i guess and started speed walking. i was a little tipsy so i did entertain guys on the strip and stopped to take pictures etc. when we got back to my hotel, he was trying to invite himself upstairs and i gave him the "im really tiredd" line. He said "i bet if i were younger and slimmer you would invite me up" Thats when i said, "u saw how many young hot guys were asking me for my # on the strip? and how many of them are coming back to my room?" He was so busy feeling sorry for himself he ruined what could have been an awesome night. Its always such a turn off when a guy expects physical attention, or is too pushy. Id rather just hang out, then im more likely to give them a call next time around.

Yah, that seemed awkward from both sides, but it's clear that he imagined/expected too much. Speaking as a veteran FOG (Fat Old Guy) I recognize that I am no Adonis, but neither am I a Trump. While much of my social life has become commercial in recent years, I do try to economize where the social aspect is involved (And tread lightly with the people I know who are in the escort biz).

A personal experience (And I know the lady involved will most likely be reading these words): I had a most wondrous date with a lady via Eros a while back. Though I had no delusions that I'd get free booty if I wined and dined her, I met and treated her with respect and as a friend. We got on famously and talked about many things.

After the down-n-dirty commercial part was over I thoroughly expected to collect my shorts and head home. As a most pleasant surprise, an invite to join me for dinner was happily accepted (Accompanied with the comment "This place has a bangin' cheesecake!") and we stepped out to a lovely dinner (Wherein we were the focal point of all eyes in the restaurant and, to this day, I regret not asking the restaurant manager - who came by to greet us personally - to take our picture. I have to fix that. ;) ). She was radiant in black evening wear and at one point leaned across the table and delivered the fiest d' resistance: "My nipples are hard!". *Sigh* Such sweet memories.

So, even FOGs like me can end up having awesome nights with hot ladies if we just play close to the vest and don't act like victims or assholes.


i love to date but its so rare that anyone asks me, all i ever hear is "u wanna hang out?" which is code for "can i come to ur hotel and fuck you for free?" as a woman aware of her beauty, i would only take time out of my schedule based purely on convenience and benefit. i do expect a guy to go out of his way to impress me and show me why he deserves my time. i love when a guy offers to take me shopping for something to wear to dinner with him. it's not so much the $ he spends, but the effort that he puts into showing me that he really wants to meet/get to know me

It's rare that I use the term 'Hang out' as I am very hermitic and distrustful of other people in general. Yet, recently I was in frequent IM and email communication with a gurl I'd met via the forums (HA and others) and who had appeared on a couple of the TS websites. Being local (Which is frightfully rare, as I live in the boonies) I asked if she'd like to meet sometime, just for S & Gs. As we talked online and got to know each other (I tried, =REAL HARD=, not to be a stalker), she eventually agreed to a meet-up.

We met and spent a fair amount of time together. We talked, 'hung out', had a couple of beers, and so on. We'd had discussions about her having done some escorting and eventually there was some commercial exchange, but after breakfast and a short tour of the city we parted as friends (I think) and are due to meet up again for just a breakfast.

In the end, our Queens and Princesses are merely human. Treat them as such, with basic manners and respect, and you may indeed become their King. Even if only for a day, kingship ain't too bad, and you can always hope for more.

[BeardedOne]

Flowers, perfume, walks in the park and a good game of bowling or a day of eating and drinking at Dave and Busters is good with me.

Heh @ Dave and Busters. We have one in Philly, I think (I don't do clubs/bars too much). I like their ad campaign: "Oh! You brought your Fun with you!"

And...bowling??? OK, that's a Chicago thing. ;)

Seriously, a nice dinner, a museum, a movie, shit - Just having take-out burgers at the park.

As stated above, they are human beings and like the things that human beings like.

Jay-Zus! I can't believe that my sorry ass is giving dating advice.

[RubyTS]

lol i dont remember the black evening wear, i specifically remember a guess tank top and a pun made about it lol, but u were cool and easy to talk to, and are one of the guys i wouldnt mind actually just hanging out with. Its wonderful to hang out with a guy who feels that he is lucky to be with me. it makes for a much more enjoyable experience than a guy expecting to get lucky. Ive hung out with guys that make little retarted sexual comments towards everything i say,and constantly look for a reason to touch me and it really makes me uncomfortable. Any man's best bet with a woman is to be respectful, fun, funny, dont ask stupid questions, dont be too forward or pushy, and just treat her like u would a friend. if theres more there it will develop on its own, but trying to force it is only gonna get u on the "dont answer" list

[BeardedOne]

lol i dont remember the black evening wear, i specifically remember a guess tank top and a pun made about it lol, but u were cool and easy to talk to, and are one of the guys i wouldnt mind actually just hanging out with. Its wonderful to hang out with a guy who feels that he is lucky to be with me. it makes for a much more enjoyable experience than a guy expecting to get lucky. Ive hung out with guys that make little retarted sexual comments towards everything i say,and constantly look for a reason to touch me and it really makes me uncomfortable. Any man's best bet with a woman is to be respectful, fun, funny, dont ask stupid questions, dont be too forward or pushy, and just treat her like u would a friend. if theres more there it will develop on its own, but trying to force it is only gonna get u on the "dont answer" list

Heh. Gawblessya, lady. :) Thanks for rememberin'.

Yah, you had the Guess tank on when I got there and I froze and said "Guess what?". :)

I did, truly, consider myself lucky to be with you. Especially after the clumsiness that is my life (No cell phone - Damn! Even the public phones are gone now!) and you are a treasure, no lie. Though I was admittedly nervous when I met you it wasn't =YOU= that fueled that.

People (Men, women, Ts, whatever) are basically the same. Don't piss them off, don't piss on their cornflakes, and don't be pissy when you're with them. How hard is that, eh?

I must confess to having been the kind of guy that fishes for excuses and 'ins' to poke at and touch a partner, but as Ruby stated above, it's bad form and gets you nowhere.

I reserve the right to ask stoopid questions.

What are you wearing now? :)

[RubyTS]

pajama pants and believe it or not, a guess tank top lol

[dan_drade]

Why does it seem that many of the girls really don't want to go out for a regular date, you know, pizza and a movie type date? Seems like a date has to include a 'donation'.

If that's the case, then you have picked the wrong girl.

[Silcc69]

i hate when guys call me from my ad asking to take me out.backpages or eros are NOT dating sites

But if I hit u up from here, Hello Ms Amber would you liek to go on a date with me? How would you answer it? (Hypothetically speaking of course.)

[amberskyi]

But if I hit u up from here, Hello Ms Amber would you liek to go on a date with me? How would you answer it? (Hypothetically speaking of course.)

i would say send me a pic lol

[ILoveGG&TS]

Lets see how this turns out. You don't seem like an easy person to please.


i would say send me a pic lol

[amberskyi]

Lets see how this turns out. You don't seem like an easy person to please.

what makes you say that??

[MissBStar]

Lets see how this turns out. You don't seem like an easy person to please.

Did you just say she's High Maintenance? Smooooooooooth

lol

[Ryz]

what makes you say that??

Would you like to go for coffee sometimez? :p

[PapiBear]

i dont do anything the wrong way DL in that regard, the issue is muppets expecting more from me than what i want to give .. be it male or female ..

No. Liberty wrong. Muppets no expect anything. Just be friends.

[AlwaysAda]

Usually a guy who takes you on a date is expecting more then a date at the end of a date... Personally if you want to date me.. I'm going to make you work for it =)

[flabbybody]

but the question is. .. if you meet a guy "working" isn't it very unlikely you'd ever consider him as a potential bf, even if you really liked him ?

[RubyTS]

ive dated guys i met from business, it always ends with them being either super posessive, overly-clingy, or hornballs that cant control themselves around a beautiful woman. I wouldnt consider making anyone from this site a boyfriend but i would hang out as friends

[pnwguy24]

From what I can tell the guys and the girls here have it all wrong.

Let me first say this, just because you are out on a date, does not mean that it should lead to sex. Even if you like the person you are out with, sex should not be expected.

The way I see it you have to let the sexual stuff develop on its own naturally, by pushing it and making artificial guidelines as to when it should and should not happen is completely ridiculous.

Why then do I think the girls here are wrong as well? Simple really.

It is all about affection.

If I am on date with you and I like you, and you like me I am going to want to be affectionate with you and have you be affectionate with me. That does not mean that we get down the first date or anything. It is little things that matter the most, holding hands, caressing a persons arm or head or something. Sure it can start slowly, maybe on the first date we only hold hands. That is perfectly acceptable to me.

Every date with a GG or TS that I have ever been on has gone this way except for the cases where one of us just isn't vibing the other one. If I don't see some sort of body language or even the smallest bit of affection, chances are we won't end up going out again.

I am not trying to be a dick here, I have plenty of GG and TS friends that I do not get any affection from, but that is different. You ask someone out on a date because you are interested in dating them, simple as that. If they aren't into, that is totally cool but I am not going to hang around and keep taking you out for shits and giggles.

[iamdrgonzo]

Usually a guy who takes you on a date is expecting more then a date at the end of a date... Personally if you want to date me.. I'm going to make you work for it =)

Wouldn't that be fun.

[PapiBear]

At the end of the day, attraction is not a choice. If the girl is attracted to me (and I'm into her) then we'll end up doing more. If she isn't attracted, no matter how much I "work for it" nothing will happen.

So the question is really "what is attractive?"

What do you find compelling in a guy?

[tsparisangelline]

Money or NO PLAY

[rockabilly]

No play??

What if i take you to Red Lobster? lol

[AlwaysAda]

At the end of the day, attraction is not a choice. If the girl is attracted to me (and I'm into her) then we'll end up doing more. If she isn't attracted, no matter how much I "work for it" nothing will happen.

So the question is really "what is attractive?"

What do you find compelling in a guy?

the better question is.. do you think I or even you would be going on a date with someone we are not attracted to? I know I wouldn't

[amberskyi]

Would you like to go for coffee sometimez? :p

coffee makes me crazzyy anxious.i love booze though lol

[amberskyi]

Did you just say she's High Maintenance? Smooooooooooth

lol

i know right.especially when im everything but.if im really into a guy we could chill on the steps of my building and ill be mad happy.lol

[MrsKellyPierce]

I don't care how hot you are - I am not sleeping with you on the first, second, or third date..................

Men will say they are totally into getting in a relationship and more just to get you into bed......

You have to make them see you as a person!

[rockabilly]

I don't care how hot you are - I am not sleeping with you on the first, second, or third date..................

Men will say they are totally into getting in a relationship and more just to get you into bed......

You have to make them see you as a person!

Well aint you a southern belle , sweeter than a Georgia peach and pure as mountain snow. :)

I respect that.

[Ryz]

Money or NO PLAY

This doesn't apply for everyone.

[IndyCloset]

Exactly. You guys expect transexuals to be perfect yet you guys cannot give perfection in return. So yea. The game is gonna go the way you guys made the rules.
You want the perfect t girl, we want the perfect dude. But we know that doesn't exsist. So your money makes up for you lack.

WRONG!!!

The perfect woman isn't a perfect woman. For me it's a person who's looks and personality meet my standards to a great degree...

Know what your problem is...?
The guys who pay you do it with a smile on their faces yet for some reason you're still bitter....

Your beef seems to be with the guys who wouldn't spit on you if you were on fire.

See there's two types of guys in this scenerio. The guys who think you're hot and will pay for your time and then there's the guys you actually made this comment for.

Thing is some of us don't have to play by the game rule you speak of. Granted if the thread starter in question lacks character, charisma or any attractiveness then paying up may be the only alternative.

However if all he needs is a little guidence then your words don't mean sh*t.

Long story short this guy doesn't seem to be interested in a wh0re. So you need to focus more on the the guys who are...

[IndyCloset]

I don't care how hot you are - I am not sleeping with you on the first, second, or third date..................

Men will say they are totally into getting in a relationship and more just to get you into bed......

You have to make them see you as a person!


In my experience the women who make you wait forever either arent feeling you, have some sh*t that can't return or aren't that sexual to begin with.

Sure they may look beautiful and wear tight revealing clothes but that's where it stops! So I have to agree with Miss Shore here in that regard because paying close attention to detail is important.

Finding a woman of substance is the ultamate goal but lets face it! Guys who have a strong sex drive should leave the cold fish types alone!

There's 6.5 billion people on the planet and more than half of that are female. So there's no need to get discouraged by trannies on websites with half naked defaults preaching wholesomeness!

[RubyTS]

if his thread were about dating a female he wouldnt be here. his interest obviously lie in some of those half naked trannies who shoot him down. maybe hes not attractive? maybe he has no personality? maybe the girls are just cold and bitter bitches or maybe they just genuinely have no interest in dating outside of business. Whatever the case is, its not working for him. and this could be for MANYYY reasons

[TSMichelleAustin]

I have been on dates without money in return... And as someone said above that a lot of the girls have SOs. But I agree with Ruby on Hang Out term, I get guys calling my ad all the time trying to hang out for free. Dont call my ad if you wanna hang out and if you see me out dont say you wanna hang out. That means you want sex, I dont mind dinner and movie or something but I dont need sex up front.

[loren]

No play??

What if i take you to Red Lobster? lol
Well, maybe, butt only for you.;-):kiss:

[ILoveGG&TS]

I saw the way you rejected Freddie's advances and I figured if a good looking guy like him can't score, the average looking Joe doesn't stand a chance.


what makes you say that??

[dlbi22]

i'm a regular good looking 23 year old in NY. but i still have no idea how to find a girl to go on a date with, because i don't know how to find ts girls besides on here...

[Silcc69]

i would say send me a pic lol

Well pm ur email address and I will send you 1 or 2

[RubyTS]

i'm a regular good looking 23 year old in NY. but i still have no idea how to find a girl to go on a date with, because i don't know how to find ts girls besides on here...

facebook, myspace, tsdating,

[dlbi22]

i actually just recently joined tsdating...seems pretty good so far. whats your profile name on there?

[RubyTS]

ummm i think its HzlGrnBeutyQueen but im rarely on there, the lag is soooo slowwww and most the guys on there are client types that act like young hoodlums with their "so when can we hang out?"

[dlbi22]

i'm checkin it out right now...trying to figure it out. you think it's the best place for me to meet ts?

[dlbi22]

and how do i look at the top points girls?

[RubyTS]

yeah a lot of the girls hook up off there.

[dlbi22]

nevermind i figured it out. whats your name? ill check you out on there...

[RubyTS]

after u log in, scroll down on the home page and youll see links to top points girls and top points guys

[RubyTS]

oh dont worry about me theres plenty of other girls for u to pick from lol

[dlbi22]

haha whoaaa fine then. but omg latinas everywhere...im in heaven

[RubyTS]

ok im gonna delete the posts now we ddont need a bunch of old Ha fuglies up on there harassing the girls

[dlbi22]

haha go for it

[dlbi22]

but i PMed you my username incase u wanna check me out haha

[alyssaluxor]

ive dated guys with no money involve but it seems 100% of them just want to SUCK COCK lol

[amberskyi]

I saw the way you rejected Freddie's advances and I figured if a good looking guy like him can't score, the average looking Joe doesn't stand a chance.

uhh..freddie never really hit on me and whats your definition of a good guy?? lMAO

[amberskyi]

ok im gonna delete the posts now we ddont need a bunch of old Ha fuglies up on there harassing the girls

girl as if there not enough losers on there.smh

[phobun]

uhh..freddie never really hit on me and whats your definition of a good guy?? lMAO


The diminutive Freddie would look like Gary Coleman standing next to this statuesque beauty.

[ILoveGG&TS]

I think you misunderstood my comments or maybe I am not understanding you. I was saying that a good looking guy like Freddie didn't impress you so an average looking guy wouldn't even get your attention.


uhh..freddie never really hit on me and whats your definition of a good guy?? lMAO

[ILoveGG&TS]

Amberskyi has beautiful long legs that short guys are more likely to notice.


The diminutive Freddie would look like Gary Coleman standing next to this statuesque beauty.

[Ryz]

i actually just recently joined tsdating...seems pretty good so far. whats your profile name on there?

Don't you have to pay for that?

[DarylWashington]

Don't you have to pay for that?

Sneak your phone number in your profile heading like I do :)

[YasminLee]

are you really that stupid and ignorant? Please tell me that u're just bored and posting this for some attention and entertainment.

[DarylWashington]

Who me????

[YasminLee]

Yes Daryl...it's a rhetorical post. You go to a club where almost everyone are working and you wonder why they are charging...why don't you go to a bar where they sell drinks and ask the bartender why you have to pay for them...if u're asking in general why not a regular date with ts woman..here it is...they do go on regular dates with men they are attracted to when they are not working...so if they only see u as a client, it means u're not the type. if u're asking why 9/10 ts girls are in the sex industry, then research the complexity of our community and our struggles to overcome them. I have and it's too long for me to explain via HA...u look familiar and seem like a nice kid..next time you see me please pull me aside..I'll be more than happy to sit with you through a beer and talk to you...

[iamdrgonzo]

ive dated guys with no money involve but it seems 100% of them just want to SUCK COCK lol

Among other things :jerkoff

[goldensamba]

i would go out on a date, problem is most men that have asked me on a date expect to be able to hold hands, kiss etc and have a night cap etc .. that is not what i call a date as such..

I would love a date as in a date to goto say a mueseum look at stuff, do stuff socially, have some dinner , catch a film then go home separately and speak again in a few days and see if want to repeat another date etc ..and build up gradually ...


Unfortunately you are the exception. If it's not "gaining anything for them" then they want no part of it.

[amberskyi]

I think you misunderstood my comments or maybe I am not understanding you. I was saying that a good looking guy like Freddie didn't impress you so an average looking guy wouldn't even get your attention.

maybe because i into more than just looks? but i guess cause im a transsexual that couldnt be possible,smh

[FreddieGomez]

Wow my name bein brought up in this thread smh

[FreddieGomez]

uhh..freddie never really hit on me and whats your definition of a good guy?? Lmao

on the real i dont hit on chicks. I'm shy

[dlbi22]

so who wants to go on a date? haha

[rockabilly]

amber so how about goin to an usher concert if i paid? would u consider that a normal date?

A concert is like 3rd or 4th date material bro , start simple ... take her to Famous Rays for a pizza or something like a movie.

[amberskyi]

A concert is like 3rd or 4th date material bro , start simple ... take her to Famous Rays for a pizza or something like a movie.

id be much more impressed by a rock show

[FreddieGomez]

id be much more impressed by a rock show

im not into rock shows :(

[amberskyi]

im not into rock shows :(
im a simple girl.one of my fav things to do with my ex was just chill on the steps of my building drinking cookie monsters (frozen alcohol drinks they sell in my hood).

[rockabilly]

id be much more impressed by a rock show

How bout Weezer or My Chemical Romance ?
http://smileys.on-my-web.com/repository/Music/music-096.gif

Or A7X maybe?

[FreddieGomez]

im a simple girl.one of my fav things to do with my ex was just chill on the steps of my building drinking cookie monsters (frozen alcohol drinks they sell in my hood).

oh word? u like nutcrackers?

[amberskyi]

How bout Weezer or My Chemical Romance ?
http://smileys.on-my-web.com/repository/Music/music-096.gif

Or A7X maybe?

my chemical romance is cool.i also like nine inch nail,a perfect circle or more local bands like galaxy of tar,or 19o5

[RubyTS]

omg i spilled a nutcracker all over myself @ the gay parade it was NOt FUn

[amberskyi]

oh word? u like nutcrackers?

they're kinda like that but frozen

[FreddieGomez]

omg i spilled a nutcracker all over myself @ the gay parade it was NOt FUn

i love nutcrackers! my moms is puerto rican and that's all her fam drinks when i be over there bwahaha

[dlbi22]

my chemical romance is cool.i also like nine inch nail,a perfect circle or more local bands like galaxy of tar,or 19o5

APC is going on tour...haha

[rockabilly]

im a simple girl.one of my fav things to do with my ex was just chill on the steps of my building drinking cookie monsters (frozen alcohol drinks they sell in my hood).

lol

"I got 99 problems but a cookie not one."

[amberskyi]

APC is going on tour...haha

i would kill people to go...im not joking..there will be blood...

[DarylWashington]

Yes Daryl...it's a rhetorical post. You go to a club where almost everyone are working and you wonder why they are charging...why don't you go to a bar where they sell drinks and ask the bartender why you have to pay for them...if u're asking in general why not a regular date with ts woman..here it is...they do go on regular dates with men they are attracted to when they are not working...so if they only see u as a client, it means u're not the type. if u're asking why 9/10 ts girls are in the sex industry, then research the complexity of our community and our struggles to overcome them. I have and it's too long for me to explain via HA...u look familiar and seem like a nice kid..next time you see me please pull me aside..I'll be more than happy to sit with you through a beer and talk to you...

Ok, but y'all mainly see me as husband material, and I be like nah can't go there again lol.

[dlbi22]

i'd rather kill to see TOOL haha


i would kill people to go...im not joking..there will be blood...

[amberskyi]

i'd rather kill to see TOOL haha

i would fuck the shit out of maynard

[fred41]

Seen both Tool and Perfect Circle several times...two different kinds of sound. Tool is heavier and more intense...APC a bit mellower...both excellent (though I would try harder to get Tool tickets)

[hwbs]

love me some deftones...but no way i was paying a hundred dollars for them to open up for alice in chains...

[baronsamedi]

i would say send me a pic lol

Umm... Does that offer apply to anyone willing to send a pic or just the poster above? haha

[JoePitt]

I'm a triple threat. What I lack in looks and personality, I make up for in destitution.

[amberskyi]

love me some deftones...but no way i was paying a hundred dollars for them to open up for alice in chains...

deftones are pretty ill

[bte]

love me some deftones...but no way i was paying a hundred dollars for them to open up for alice in chains...

Deftones are pretty sweet