When professional turns personal: Have you ever fallen for a client?

[www.tglovers.com]

I know a lot of girls have "regulars". I was wondering have you ever been in a situation where a regular wanted to make it into something more?

If so...how do you handle that?

It seems like it would be a "tricky" (no pun intended), road to navigate.

Guys have you ever fallen for an escort?

[TsVanessa69]

tricks are tricks.
they try to make it personal to stop paying, but the wanna keep the wife too

[rockabilly]

lol It's cheaper to keep the wife , If he divorces her then she takes half (unless she signed a pre-nup) then you end up w/ a "trick" who's value got cut in half.

edit - Someone once said "Never mix business w/ Pleasure" , some people should heed that advice.

[TsVanessa69]

lol It's cheaper to keep the wife , If he divorces her then she takes half (unless she signed a pre-nup) then you end up w/ a "trick" who's value got cut in half.

edit - Someone once said "Never mix business w/ Pleasure" , some people should heed that advice.
no man is gonna leave the woman
they just do her dirty till they get caught.
Thats why I get my money up front

[bat1]

money for cock! lol..

[rockabilly]

no man is gonna leave the woman
they just do her dirty till they get caught.
Thats why I get my money up front

IMO a man would honor his vows to his wife , you deal w/ wishy washy punks.

If you want to fool around w/ escorts or any girl at all then do not get married or be in a relationship period.

Just be single and do who you want when you want.

[TSMichelleAustin]

I know a girl who started dating a client... he eventually started treating her bad and basically stop seeing her but still strung her along on his chain. He was never married and was single but the catch of the game was over. He would only see her in private and stopped having sex after they were together a while. So I would never mix business with pleasure. And why would any girl want to date a guy who cheats on his wife or gf? If he does it with her, he will eventually do it with you!

Get Money up front like Vanessa said and don't go any less!!!

[DL_NL]

That would make for an odd relationship, to say the least.

I've never seen an escort, have no intentions of doing so. I don't look down on escorts but I prefer getting my kicks together with some emotions. I'd guess the experience would be even less involving than a ONS, and that's not what I'm looking for.

[MissBStar]

lol It's cheaper to keep the wife , If he divorces her then she takes half (unless she signed a pre-nup) then you end up w/ a "trick" who's value got cut in half.

edit - Someone once said "Never mix business w/ Pleasure" , some people should heed that advice.

If the wife is providing income then it's lucrative to keep a wife. Especially if she takes care of the kids =P that's a bonus! AND MAKES DINNER! SCORE SCORE SCORE. If the bitch is a money hole then ditch her.. You'll prolly save money seeing escorts twice a month then paying for your ex's expensive habits.

I was taught not to mix business with pleasure. That was for a different industry though lol I have a friend who is a Male Escort for gay men and that's how he met his bf that he loves. They've been together for 2 years now and live together. So it's certainly a possibility.

I can understand various intrepetations of this topic. One that I can think of.. is.. How are you suppose to meet a TS? We don't really put ourselves out there in public. On the flipside of it, we are treated as a Fetish. Which objectifies us and makes us defensive. Why would I date a man when all he wants is free wiener?

Any other interpretations of possibilities for both positive and negative outcomes of dating a "client"?

[DL_NL]

How are you suppose to meet a TS?
I met one having a glass of wine in an ordinary bar and one at a very boring party. We started talking.
Just like you meet any girl, really.

[rockabilly]

Only if the free weiner comes w/ the buns. lol

[Jericho]

I met one having a glass of wine in an ordinary bar and one at a very boring party. We started talking.
Just like you meet any girl, really.

I've got to start drinking wine and going to boring parties? :hide-1::yayo:

[fred41]

I met one having a glass of wine in an ordinary bar and one at a very boring party. We started talking.
Just like you meet any girl, really.


..was it a cock tail party ?


:)...sorry, couldn't resist(don't groan)...think I'll just go back to doing...whatever the hell I was doing...

[BeardedOne]

It would be nice if one of the escorts I saw were to fall madly in love with me, but it would be disastrous as I make for lousy mate material. I'm seeing someone now on a sort of hybrid relationship arrangement (Started as social, moved to negotiations, then commercial) that would be nice as a long-term partner, but I wouldn't wish me on anyone. Right now, things are fine as they are.

While it's certainly possible for an escort to connect emotionally with a client (And it has happened a lot, I'm sure), I can imagine that it's hard to break the client/provider mindset. Especially if the escort continues to work, which becomes a tolerance issue for their mate.

[kensterling]

I can confirm what MissBStar said about her male escort friend. I have escorted for many years, men, women and couples and regulars both men and women have tried to make it something more. You are giving them something more then they usually get at home, so that is desirable to them. I def have had some real chemistry with some clients and look forward to the sex I have with them, but I always get my money. That is what we are there for.
This business does change you, so Like Vanessa says, get your money up front!!!!

[alyssaluxor]

If my client is hot, young and yummy i instantly fall in love, id FUCK him so good! uhmmm!

[DL_NL]

I've got to start drinking wine and going to boring parties? :hide-1::yayo:
It was either wine or Heineken- easy choice. :) And the party wasn't supposed to be boring, and after I met said girl it wasn't (and we left shortly afterwards, which made it even better... but I digress).

[MissBStar]

If my client is hot, young and yummy i instantly fall in love, id FUCK him so good! uhmmm!

why are you discriminating against fat stinky people? =P

[pasta2000]

If you can't escort forever, and at some point you may become less desirable, would escorts ever seek a real relationship and when would that point be ?