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Willie Escalade
10-21-2010, 06:05 AM
http://www.bobstgirlsblog.com/2010/10/21/jezebel-yum-r-i-p/

Sparky Snakeden
10-21-2010, 06:09 AM
i heard but don't want to be the messenger of that info

bat1
10-21-2010, 06:13 AM
:shock: not again:(

MrsKellyPierce
10-21-2010, 06:14 AM
Oh my, who?

SmithXXX
10-21-2010, 06:23 AM
I too received the info, but it's not definite yet. If I find anything I will post it (if it deems appropriate)

south ov da border
10-21-2010, 06:27 AM
who now, already shed a tear tonight watching that Drazen Petrovic movie...

MrsKellyPierce
10-21-2010, 06:31 AM
Well either way my thoughts and love go out to her family and friends. You guys are scaring me though with Olivia's tweet on twitter. I hope it's not one of the porn girls. Poor darlings. I know her and Morgan are close. I couldn't see Morgan doing something like that though. EVER.

Willie Escalade
10-21-2010, 06:35 AM
.............

Mari_Mar
10-21-2010, 06:36 AM
Oof! Oh no... :(

TheGuard
10-21-2010, 06:40 AM
ah man.......

Willie Escalade
10-21-2010, 06:45 AM
I've got an early start to work tomorrow (try 5:13am)...so I'm gonna hit the sack. If any of you in the know find the news link, by all means post it...I'm still searching for it right now...

south ov da border
10-21-2010, 06:49 AM
only know sketchy details...

Willie Escalade
10-21-2010, 06:53 AM
I'm just going to reveal who it is...as more info comes up, trust me it WILL be here...

Felicia Katt
10-21-2010, 06:56 AM
This just happened and her family is just starting to deal with this tragedy so if people could keep them in their thoughts and prayers and keep this discussion respectful and keep the speculation to themselves, I'm sure it would be appreciated.

FK

south ov da border
10-21-2010, 06:56 AM
sad indeed...

notdrunk
10-21-2010, 06:57 AM
wow...damn

BellaBellucci
10-21-2010, 06:57 AM
Are you fucking kidding me?! Wow. This is the first time I've actually, personally known someone TS who's died. It's making me a little dizzy.

RIP Ruby/Jezebel

~BB~

MrsKellyPierce
10-21-2010, 07:16 AM
Oh wow how sad I met her once briefly a sweet girl.

drock
10-21-2010, 07:32 AM
Lifes's short she was a beautiful girl even though I don't really know anything about her may she RIP..

AsiaMei
10-21-2010, 07:53 AM
R.I.P. any other details?...

ugh its like every other day one of the girls are being killed or dying "/

Felicia Katt
10-21-2010, 08:02 AM
from happier times

Realgirls4me
10-21-2010, 08:09 AM
Don't know her;have never met her,and yet I'm so very heartbroken to read of such news. So young. RIP,beautiful young woman...woman.

Buddy Wood
10-21-2010, 08:50 AM
very sad...

princevince89
10-21-2010, 09:51 AM
when I first scrolled down and saw who it was my heart did that thing when it beats really hard. That's so sad.

LAGent4ts
10-21-2010, 10:07 AM
My thoughts go out to her family and friends. Parents are not supposed to be burying their children. So very very sad. May she Rest in Peace.

ILuvGurls
10-21-2010, 11:43 AM
very sorry to hear this.....sure it will come out but does anyone know what happened?

RIP Jezebel

GroobySteven
10-21-2010, 11:47 AM
Fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck.
First thing I read this morning.
RIP.

iluvshemales
10-21-2010, 03:33 PM
Rest in Peace Jez :(

smithken
10-21-2010, 03:49 PM
WoW. how sad. she was in my top 5. what a beautiful girl. she just looked like a nice fun person.

lisaparadise
10-21-2010, 04:12 PM
Don't know her;have never met her,and yet I'm so very heartbroken to read of such news. So young. RIP,beautiful young woman...woman.co-sign rip angel

Coroner
10-21-2010, 04:35 PM
Very sad news, even if I didnīt know her. My sincerest condolences to her family and friends.

sucka4chix
10-21-2010, 05:15 PM
Wow, I just saw her a few weeks ago shopping in NYC, now she's gone. RIP!

rockabilly
10-21-2010, 05:25 PM
I'm sorry for your loss , my condolences to her loved ones.

hwbs
10-21-2010, 05:58 PM
Very sad to hear and ohhh so young... RIP

bat1
10-21-2010, 06:44 PM
she seems very bubbly and happy in her photo shoots

this sucks ass:(

CORVETTEDUDE
10-21-2010, 06:52 PM
I know next to nothing about her but, a beautiful lady such as her should not go so soon in life. I hope she is at peace. My sincere sympathy goes out to all that grieve her loss.

Castor_Troy05
10-21-2010, 06:53 PM
RIP.

Too many girls have gone this year alone.

Anubis1779
10-21-2010, 07:49 PM
Fuck, she was one of my favorites, such a pretty lady and seemed really nice, she will be missed.

RIP

Star Angel 86
10-21-2010, 07:59 PM
R.I.P. I don't know all that much about her,I do know she was recently in a video with Danielle Foxxx.She will truly be missed and this is very sad news.

joey1980
10-21-2010, 08:34 PM
xxxxxxxxx

FREEFALLL666
10-21-2010, 09:00 PM
R.I.P..

I just hope it was natural causes and not anything violent..

CaptainPlanet
10-21-2010, 09:42 PM
R.I.P..

I just hope it was natural causes and not anything violent..

Don't be to naive, Natural causes?

Silcc69
10-21-2010, 11:23 PM
Good lord another one dead and gone! RIP Jezebel im really shocked at this info.

ILoveGG&TS
10-22-2010, 12:00 AM
Wow, this is very sad. She was way too young to die this soon. R.I.P.

LibertyHarkness
10-22-2010, 12:48 AM
sad news indeed ...

APD2
10-22-2010, 12:54 AM
Don't be to naive, Natural causes?
Alright,health complications. It's one possibility.

south ov da border
10-22-2010, 01:06 AM
Won't post what I know, but far from natural...

Gthoma2a
10-22-2010, 01:07 AM
Oh my god, I feel so bad about this. She seemed extremely pleasant. I hate that this has happened and I wish the best to those close to her in their time of need.

dderek123
10-22-2010, 01:10 AM
What a shame. My condolences to her family and loved ones.

seamonkey
10-22-2010, 01:25 AM
Can someone PLEASE put up a link to a news report so we can get the details? Or give us the details here, whatever is known so far. All I can tell is that Jezebel Yum has died--very sad news. Thanks.

BeardedOne
10-22-2010, 01:28 AM
To be less morbid in this request:

We are genuinely saddened, but would like to know how she passed. I recall mention of a news article.

JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel
10-22-2010, 02:01 AM
I've been very [very] lax on moderating posts as of late, giving alot of folks freedom of speech as deserved on this forum but when an individual dies and you reply to a thread pertaining to them have some fucking respect and think about what you're about to type as a reply before you click "post".......

Personally I never met Jezebel but I wish her family & loved ones the best, this is a shock but know that she's in a better place......

-JWBL

betts
10-22-2010, 02:28 AM
best wishes and prayers to the family and friends.

Pirate
10-22-2010, 03:18 AM
My TS friend staying with me this week got the call yesterday. Details are shocking and ugly, no need to relay. She is gone and what a shame,rest in peace dear Ruby aka Jezabel.

nevada64
10-22-2010, 05:51 AM
So very sad...
I knew her as Ruby, just briefly, for only a few weeks... I'm in shock.
She was very sweet, nice, and real. No drama, just a cool girl.
Fuck!!!
R.I.P. Beautiful Lady...

NYCe
10-22-2010, 06:26 AM
Met her in NYC. Really cool chick. RIP.

Hostile
10-22-2010, 06:34 AM
From Bob's site.. Rest in Peace!

Jezebel Yum and Carmen R.I.P. Gosh, I hate reporting these things. I never know what to say, which I guess is why I did not announce the passing of Carmen about a month ago.

Jezebel apparently committed suicide on Tuesday evening. I have not spoken to her in several months so I don't know what's been going on in her life, so I won't make any speculations as to what drove her to this.

Carmen was shot to death at a relative's home in New Jersey about a month ago. I don't have the details of that either. The news article in the New Jersey paper was vague at best.

Add to that, there has been an unconfirmed rumor of Ming Tiger's death. However I have been told this week by our photographer Mel that she is alive and working in a bar in Phuket. But that is unconfirmed also. DJ Asia is trying to run that down.

There is too much of this going on. Some of the models and other girls who have passed were friends of mine as well. To say the least, life is not easy for these girls. Here are photos of Jezebel and Carmen to remember them by.

phobun
10-22-2010, 07:14 AM
This is so sad.


From Bob's site.. Rest in Peace!

Jezebel Yum and Carmen R.I.P. Gosh, I hate reporting these things. I never know what to say, which I guess is why I did not announce the passing of Carmen about a month ago.

Jezebel apparently committed suicide on Tuesday evening. I have not spoken to her in several months so I don't know what's been going on in her life, so I won't make any speculations as to what drove her to this.

Carmen was shot to death at a relative's home in New Jersey about a month ago. I don't have the details of that either. The news article in the New Jersey paper was vague at best.

Add to that, there has been an unconfirmed rumor of Ming Tiger's death. However I have been told this week by our photographer Mel that she is alive and working in a bar in Phuket. But that is unconfirmed also. DJ Asia is trying to run that down.

There is too much of this going on. Some of the models and other girls who have passed were friends of mine as well. To say the least, life is not easy for these girls. Here are photos of Jezebel and Carmen to remember them by.

Caramel
10-22-2010, 07:26 AM
Horrible news, but thank you for letting us know. She was a true treasure, a trailblazer, a friend to many and such a sweet girl. Crushing news. R.I.P.

pasta2000
10-22-2010, 07:30 AM
She seemed to come across so pleasant and sincere, good people seem to die younger and younger, she has to be in a better place now.
R I P, and my condolences to her family

luv4Tgirls
10-22-2010, 07:43 AM
Deeply sadding news, her family and friends will be in my prays and thoughts. She will be missed.

ELSAPO
10-22-2010, 03:11 PM
May she rest in peace. What a great actress and t girl all around. I hope t girls consider mental counseling now and live life to its fullest. RIP Jezebel. You were one of the greatest.

BrendaQG
10-22-2010, 04:03 PM
May she rest in peace. What a great actress and t girl all around. I hope t girls consider mental counseling now and live life to its fullest. RIP Jezebel. You were one of the greatest.

Practically all of us get counseling at some point, sometimes it's just not enough. When a person commits suicide it's just that they feel so depressed and isolated. What can a therapist say?

It's so sad to think of someone suffering for so long, and no one noticing, or caring to act. No one. My prayers this Friday go out to her family.

FiremanforTS
10-22-2010, 05:35 PM
Terrible. Such a shame when someone is so sick they have to turn to this.

Prospero
10-22-2010, 05:38 PM
A very beautiful young woman. A sad tragedy. God rest her soul now.

DeliaTS
10-22-2010, 06:26 PM
Sad news indeed. May she rest in peace.

bte
10-22-2010, 06:34 PM
Sad news. I wondered if those close to her noticed the signs of her contemplating suicide.

BellaBellucci
10-22-2010, 06:42 PM
Sad news. I wondered if those close to her noticed the signs of her contemplating suicide.

From what I know about her, she wasn't particularly open about her feelings. I met her a few times and she barely said anything to anyone. I also remember her from back in the day when certain morons were posting her boy pics on CL (and she was cute then too). I suspect that, like many of us, she wasn't treated well enough or given enough consideration for anyone to notice the signs.

~BB~

kyoJecours
10-22-2010, 08:17 PM
probably not the time to point fingers... rest in peace.

alyssaluxor
10-22-2010, 09:38 PM
Rest in Peace

TsJennifer
10-22-2010, 09:50 PM
Wow this is the fist time iv'e known a girl that died. I met her a few time in LA. I wish there was some kind of outreach for more transgender people to take a part of to prevent things like this.

Rest in Peace

netbum
10-22-2010, 10:41 PM
That's so sad to hear, R.I.P.

willid46
10-23-2010, 12:51 AM
Oh God how sad...

DL_NL
10-23-2010, 12:53 AM
Sorry to hear that. All the best to her family and friends.

AllanahStarrNYC
10-23-2010, 02:36 AM
Very sad news.
Suicide is a terrible thing.
When my friend Susan Shah killed herlself a few years ago it was a particularly hard experience.
My sympathy to her friends and family.

fab
10-23-2010, 03:26 AM
Poor Ruby :(

RIP

Clone 0101
10-23-2010, 05:37 AM
Completely horrible that things such as this occur hopefully she left this world feeling some sort of peace.

uchetal
10-23-2010, 12:44 PM
I extend my thoughts and prayers to all the family and friends of Jezebel(Ruby). May she be remembered for the good times and smiles she brought to this world. God grant her enternal peace and rest.

Caff_Racer
10-23-2010, 08:38 PM
My condolences to her family and friends...

hwbs
10-24-2010, 07:53 AM
Its a very tough experience....I had a ex gf and longtime friend try to kill herself....and the news I got was that it was sucessful ....cause all they saw was the ambulance take her....she actually survived and was entered into rehab but didn't find out till months later cause her roomate is a bad drunk and forgot to call me ...is a very painful thing to go through .....my thoughts and prayers go to her friends and family...

BellaBellucci
10-24-2010, 07:59 AM
I'll always remember her for that massive dong

she shot hot loads with a smile

Wow. Really? :roll: :yayo:

Apparently, after her death she's still just a massive cock.

~BB~

Felicia Katt
10-24-2010, 09:37 AM
For those of you in Southern California who knew Jenna and want to participate in services for her there is a visitation scheduled for Wednesday October 27th from 4-8pm with a vigil/rosary service at 6:30pm at the Douglas Family Mortuary at 3363 E -Imperial highway in Lynwood.

There will be a Funeral mass Thursday October 28th 2010 at 9am at St Matthias Catholic church located at 3095 E Florence ave, in Huntington Park

There will be another service, with the internment of her ashes most likely on Monday November 1, but the date is not set yet and there is no word yet as to a time or location. I will update this information as soon as I know more.

Jenna's family, in addition to struggling to deal with this loss are also struggling to deal financially with the sudden painful expense for her funeral. A fund is being set up to permit donations or contributions to assist them with this. I will provide more information as soon as its finalized and certain. Everyone has been considerate towards her memory and generous with their sympathy and condolences in this thread. Any consideration or generosity that anyone can offer will be gratefully accepted and greatly appreciated.

A memorial service/fund raiser is also being organized to take place at one of the LA clubs, I will post details for it as soon as I have them.

Buddy Wood has very generously offered the door money for this Thursday's T Party at the Blue Moon to help the family, and dancers there, including Domino Presley and Britney Markham are donating their dancing money to help as well. If anyone ever needed any additional motivation to come out and join in there, this would be it.

If anyone has any pictures they may have taken of or with Jenna, at events or in public, please send them to me and I will see that they get to her family.

Thanks to everyone for anything or every thing they can do to help.


FK

bulge
10-24-2010, 09:38 AM
Damn this is very sad news..My condolences to her loved ones and friends..
RIP girl ..no more pain

Yeah
10-24-2010, 12:45 PM
Wow; That's sad to hear about Ruby. I've been gone too long. Bob also stated in his blog that "Carmen" passed on. Which Carmen?

Yeah
10-24-2010, 12:52 PM
Wow; That's sad to hear about Ruby. I've been gone too long. Bob also stated in his blog that "Carmen" passed on. Which Carmen?

Don't tell me it was Carmen Cruz; She was so awesome.

Willie Escalade
10-24-2010, 05:55 PM
Wow. Really? :roll: :yayo:

Apparently, after her death she's still just a massive cock.

~BB~
It was bound to happen eventually...:(

Anubis1779
10-24-2010, 06:21 PM
It was bound to happen eventually...:(

It's still fucked up though, I'm guessing JWBL hasn't seen this yet...

lovesall
10-24-2010, 06:24 PM
Been away from the board and hearing this sad news is terrible. RIP, she will be missed!

pantybulge69
10-24-2010, 06:40 PM
oooh, noo! Damn.
unbelievable, incredibly sad, heartbreaking news to hear.
She was so young and beautiful.
my thoughts and prayers go out to her family and loved ones.

Norma
10-25-2010, 12:04 AM
wait am I mistaking her with someone else who was a pornstar for a living ?

or are you trying to imply being a pornstar isn't a noble profession ?

which is it ?

also, before you answer, take note of the fact that this is a shemale porn forum.

Shemale Porn Forum? Duh!

Everyone here is still a human being, regardless if they are porn stars/escorts/clients/admirers/chasers/trolls/etc.

What she is trying to imply, is to get out of the tranny porn world long enough, to just say R.I.P Ruby, my heart goes out to her family, etc. , instead of sounding like you're going to miss her cock dearly.

Grow up dude.

BellaBellucci
10-25-2010, 12:09 AM
wait am I mistaking her with someone else who was a pornstar for a living ?

or are you trying to imply being a pornstar isn't a noble profession ?

which is it ?

also, before you answer, take note of the fact that this is a shemale porn forum.

Sure, I think it's noble profession, but lots of other people don't including some of the girls who do it. As I've said, a whole person died, not a porn star, and that should be memorialized accordingly. Otherwise, I've said what I have to say on this topic on both this thread and this one:

http://www.hungangels.com/vboard/showthread.php?t=50909

I didn't know Jezebel that well, but I did know that she suffered just as much as any transwoman, sometimes at the hands of other transsexuals. I just don't want that to be in vain.

~BB~

bourbonheaven
10-25-2010, 12:37 AM
My thoughts and prayers go out to Jezebel and her family. Always very tough to see anyone pass but even tougher when they are so young.

R.I.P.

BeardedOne
10-25-2010, 01:36 AM
Don't tell me it was Carmen Cruz; She was so awesome.

Victoria Carmen White, from NJ. There are a couple of threads about her passing and there have been some updates on the case (The police are now seeking two men in conjunction with her shooting).

BeardedOne
10-25-2010, 01:45 AM
It was bound to happen eventually...:(

Remember the yard we're playin' in. :/

I confess to having some obsession with the work of some of the ladies we've lost (Camilla de Castro and Lisa Cage come to mind), but whenever posting to a memorial thread I try to find an image that shows the whole person and not just the porn persona, because that one job/profession was not their whole life and even in this venue shouldn't define who they were.

After Lisa's passing I went through the scary-huge archives that I have and found a particular favorite image of her that I posted to her memorial thread. In a white dress, showing off that infectious smile of hers. Because that's how I remember her, an upbeat and happy person. People don't need to see her nekkid, or waving the she-cock, to see that.

nevada64
10-25-2010, 01:49 AM
Remember the yard we're playin' in. :/

I confess to having some obsession with the work of some of the ladies we've lost (Camilla de Castro and Lisa Cage come to mind), but whenever posting to a memorial thread I try to find an image that shows the whole person and not just the porn persona, because that one job/profession was not their whole life and even in this venue shouldn't define who they were.

After Lisa's passing I went through the scary-huge archives that I have and found a particular favorite image of her that I posted to her memorial thread. In a white dress, showing off that infectious smile of hers. Because that's how I remember her, an upbeat and happy person. People don't need to see her nekkid, or waving the she-cock, to see that.

Well said.

Malik4Tgirls
10-25-2010, 10:38 AM
http://www.bobs-tgirls.com/forum/showthread.php?t=4361

irvin66
10-25-2010, 06:10 PM
Oh no, it was sad to hear! Rest in peace! :sadcry

YasminLee
10-25-2010, 09:58 PM
This is very sad. I was fortuned enough to hang out with her many times, mainly after cobra all drunk and hanging in buddy wood's pool making out. lol Great kisser...she just always playful and fun like that and carefree...She was a fun, sweet kind hearted girl from what I picked up so it's particularly sad to hear that it was suicide. We really need more outreach in our community. R.I.P. beautiful girl :) and thank you for what you given this world.

JoePitt
10-25-2010, 10:22 PM
Very sad news indeed. My condolences go out to all her friends and family.

elo
10-26-2010, 01:35 AM
Havent been a couple of months on HA and first thing i read that Jezebel Yum died and short after that i read that Carmen died.Just sad.

angelfan
10-26-2010, 04:02 AM
R.I.P. Jezebel.
http://ist1-4.filesor.com/pimpandhost.com/3/8/6/0/38601/m/6/Z/R/m6ZR/casket.jpg (http://www.pimpandhost.com/image/5270115-original.html)

Felicia Katt
10-26-2010, 04:26 AM
A close friend of Jenna, who is in contact with her family, has relayed their request to me that they be provided with any pictures people have of or with Jenna out in the scene. Please help me help him honor their request by sending any such pictures to me, at felicia_kattt@yahoo.com. I will get them to the family and am helping them to get some kind of Facebook/Myspace type page up so they can share them and read comments, like many of the ones in these threads here, from people who actually knew Jenna or were her fans or shared good experiences with her. The suitable comments from here will be included, with the board information and people's screen names removed.

I hope to have full account information later tonite for those wishing to make contributions to her family to help with her funeral expenses. I've already heard privately from several people looking to make donations and hope to hear more once more concrete details are in place.

Karina, who runs the pageants here in LA and who is also vitally active in the community will be doing a fundraiser tonight at Goddess, at MJ's on Hyperion in Silverlake. She will be seeking donations after the show, so please come out and help out this way if you can.

Buddy Wood has generously offered to give the door proceeds from this Thursdays T Party at Blue Moon Nights on Lankershim in North Hollywood to the family and the dancers for this week, including Domino Presley and Britney Markham are donating their dance money as well. If people want to make a donation to a good cause as part of a good time, come out to the club this week!

thanks to all for all their positive contributions. Jenna's family knows how she is remembered and missed and appreciates it all.

FK

YasminLee
10-26-2010, 04:30 AM
ill see everyone tonight at the MJs...:)

Sparky Snakeden
10-26-2010, 08:45 PM
Proceeds from this Thursdays event will be going toward this cause so come by and support! We will have someone going around collecting this money in a proper way, Jar or envelope! we are also having a costume contest with a $100 cash prize so come dressed to win!

Felicia Katt
10-27-2010, 07:50 AM
RIP Jenna our lost sister

the jesse
10-27-2010, 08:08 AM
i worked with her once in a movie. she was very nice . such sad news. r.i.p. prayers to her family and loved ones. xoxoxo

SoCaliDude
10-30-2010, 09:09 PM
WOW. Has anyone found out the reason behind the suicide? She seems like a happy well rounded young lady. This is so sad. RIP.

ELSAPO
10-31-2010, 01:32 AM
man, she was so pretty. I regret not seeing her in NYC in the past.

LAGent4ts
10-31-2010, 01:40 AM
Here is a link to a blog where people have been posting comments about her passing. I've linked to the second page of the blog as the first few posts on the first page are pretty rude, but once past that there are many thoughtful comments from a number of individuals, including some family members.

http://www.topix.com/forum/source/pasadena-star-news/TNV914RMUAK7UBENB/p3#lastPost

pupper
11-02-2010, 06:08 PM
Poor girl - RIP

Youngmc
11-02-2010, 06:32 PM
I would have liked to know u, but ur candle burned out before your legend ever did

DarylWashington
11-02-2010, 06:38 PM
Another suicide, all too common!

bat1
11-02-2010, 10:08 PM
Why?.......

petro g
11-02-2010, 11:58 PM
Very sad to hear. RIP

rebeccacd17
11-07-2010, 05:30 AM
My sympathies to her family and friends. I wish she could have found the happiness she sought during her life.

Azanti
11-07-2010, 05:43 AM
RIP Hun x

Go in peace and look down on us all with love. xxxx