Question For The Ladies

[brandonnsdiego]

I was recently chatting with lady online. We were just getting to know each other on a social network. During one of our chats, I said that I dont get the opportunity to meet special ladies like her everyday. She really got offended and asked that I do not contact her anymore. I want to know what I said wrong and if I was offensive? I just want to know for future reference. Thanks!

[TSLexiWade]

I think we all have a preference when it comes to what sort of ladies we are... Some of which don't care to express their orientation, while others do. It's just who we are as people; sorry to hear that...

[brandonnsdiego]

I think we all have a preference when it comes to what sort of ladies we are... Some of which don't care to express their orientation, while others do. It's just who we are as people; sorry to hear that...

Thank you for the reply. I did not mean to offend her or any of you ladies. I guess I am just trying to learn.

[SunshyneMonroe]

well how did u really say it?

[TSLexiWade]

Thank you for the reply. I did not mean to offend her or any of you ladies. I guess I am just trying to learn.

You didn't offend me sweetheart... =) I don't know you well enough to get my panties in a bunch. Lol.

Live & learn.. It's what we do. xoxo

[brandonnsdiego]

well how did u really say it?

It was just that simple. We were chatting about the network. I said that a friend suggested it. I said that they suggested it because I told them that I do not meet special ladies like her everyday. The next ting she said was that she wanted me to not contact her anymore and to take her off my friends list.

[SunshyneMonroe]

i dunno hun what site was it?

[lisaparadise]

I was recently chatting with lady online. We were just getting to know each other on a social network. During one of our chats, I said that I dont get the opportunity to meet special ladies like her everyday. She really got offended and asked that I do not contact her anymore. I want to know what I said wrong and if I was offensive? I just want to know for future reference. Thanks!did ya send a picture of your dick? lol

[brandonnsdiego]

i dunno hun what site was it?

It was on BGC Live

[brandonnsdiego]

did ya send a picture of your dick? lol
,
LOl, no I know better , I don't even have one of those on my profile ;-)

[rockabilly]

Maybe she wanted to be seen as just a lady and not a "special" lady.
idk

[bte]

Yeah she is a lady regardless if she has a penis or a vaggie. She's not some mythical unicorn.

[SunshyneMonroe]

eww bgc guys r the fool i would have done the same thing

[phobun]

I was recently chatting with lady online. We were just getting to know each other on a social network. During one of our chats, I said that I dont get the opportunity to meet special ladies like her everyday. She really got offended and asked that I do not contact her anymore. I want to know what I said wrong and if I was offensive? I just want to know for future reference. Thanks!


Yes I know he wrote question for the ladies but I'm going to respond.

You betrayed your own cockbanditry. By barely knowing her, except as a transsexual, then referring to her as "special", you indicated that you think she is special because of her anatomy. Right then she probably knew who she was dealing with. You think she is special because of a body organ (one that she might not even like), but anyone who knows women knows that they don't like to be objectified on the basis of a something superficial, or thought special based on a body part that doesn't define them as individuals.

It would be like trying to befriend a big breasted woman who you don't know on a social network, then, when asked why, responding that a friend suggested it because you don't have the opportunity to meet special ladies (you know, the ones with big tits!).

[brandonnsdiego]

eww bgc guys r the fool i would have done the same thing
I did not know that was the deal with that site. A friend suggested I join. It has not been so great , LOL.

[SunshyneMonroe]

Maybe she wanted to be seen as just a lady and not a "special" lady.
idkthank you u got it and the guys on that site are just dick loven messes they talk to every girl on there just a mess

[SunshyneMonroe]

[QUOTE=brandonnsdiego;801242]i mean there are alot of cds u can fuck and thats what u want is to fuck so0o.... u prob went to a girl who was on a different leval tho there are very few real t on there most are cds or fake profiles with females pics

[giovanni_hotel]

Casually, when you're first getting to know a random female, IMO, initially they don't like to imagine your thinking about their bodyparts.

WHen you said 'special lady', that's code for a transgendered female. We ALL know what you said without you stating it explicitly.

It would be like telling a GG at a bar, 'I bet you have a really wet pussy!', or 'you really look like you suck a mean dick.'

I would never give a TG a compliment I wouldn't give to ANY female. Unless a girl brings up being T at first, you should follow her lead.
If you're not dealing with a girl who's working as a provider, it's a bad idea to be that forward about what's between a girl's legs, because all girls don't have the same mindset about being T.

Some are cool with it. Some tolerate. Others hate it.

You would think a girl on chat would be more understanding, but maybe she's used to hearing someone go on to making cock comments after calling her a 'special lady'.

[peggygee]

Maybe she wanted to be seen as just a lady and not a "special" lady.
idk




Yes I know he wrote question for the ladies but I'm going to respond.

You betrayed your own cockbanditry. By barely knowing her, except as a transsexual, then referring to her as "special", you indicated that you think she is special because of her anatomy. Right then she probably knew who she was dealing with. You think she is special because of a body organ (one that she might not even like), but anyone who knows women knows that they don't like to be objectified on the basis of a something superficial, or thought special based on a body part that doesn't define them as individuals.

It would be like trying to befriend a big breasted woman who you don't know on a social network, then, when asked why, responding that a friend suggested it because you don't have the opportunity to meet special ladies (you know, the ones with big tits!).



Yeah she is a lady regardless if she has a penis or a vaggie. She's not some mythical unicorn.

I concur.

Referring to me as a "special lady" in that context would shut the
conversation down, as it tells me that the indiivdual doesn't have a
true understanding of women.

[Jericho]

I just want to know for future reference.

HA...Good luck with that!
Yer a guy...Accept the fact that no matter what you do, you're going to be wrong!

Heed these words young grasshopper, and you'll be a much happier bunny! :shrug

[Nautica]

Yes I know he wrote question for the ladies but I'm going to respond.

You betrayed your own cockbanditry. By barely knowing her, except as a transsexual, then referring to her as "special", you indicated that you think she is special because of her anatomy. Right then she probably knew who she was dealing with. You think she is special because of a body organ (one that she might not even like), but anyone who knows women knows that they don't like to be objectified on the basis of a something superficial, or thought special based on a body part that doesn't define them as individuals.

It would be like trying to befriend a big breasted woman who you don't know on a social network, then, when asked why, responding that a friend suggested it because you don't have the opportunity to meet special ladies (you know, the ones with big tits!).

^^PERFECT. PERFECT.

A "REAL" TS would put you on insta-iggy for that. Unless it's for business, that's not a way to approach a transgendered woman. The first thing it makes a girl think is.... he's looking to suck a cock, he wants to f*ck it, or he's going to ask how big it is, etc. Even if she's a working girl, sucking and f*cking is FANTASTIC, but there's a time and a place for everything. And, if her profile wasn't reeking of 'do me', your approach(whether you like it or not) was a bad one. Hell, even if it was, it was a bad approach. "REAL" Transgendered women are like the GG minds we were born with....CONFUSING.

Good luck, you have a lot to figure out, lmfao! :)

[blckhaze]

She overreacted
if you made it to bgc, she should have already known why you were there...
but yeah "special" needs to exit ur vocab from now on

take it as a blessing and happy hunting.

[brandonnsdiego]

thank you u got it and the guys on that site are just dick loven messes they talk to every girl on there just a mess

I understand that and do look at her like any other lady. She asked me why I had joined and I gave her an honest answer. And I am not one of those guys who talks to every girl on there.

[dgs925]

I'm gonna say the girl you were talking with was just a bitch, and that is just the end of it. Consider yourself lucky that you didn't waste more time with her. If she was SO offended that you in any way even hinted that she may be "different" than other ladies, then she is just too sensitive and shouldn't be on a site that purports to cater to the gay/bi community.

[dgs925]

i mean there are alot of cds u can fuck and thats what u want is to fuck so0o.... u prob went to a girl who was on a different leval tho there are very few real t on there most are cds or fake profiles with females pics

God damn girl, the shit you do to the English language is crazy. I have to sit here staring at your text for ages to try and figure out what you are saying. Then after I am done, I usually wish I had just skipped it.

[brandonnsdiego]

Thanks to all of the replies so far. I understand completely about looking at and treating her like any other woman. I know that trans women have a lot to deal with on a daily basis and that many people have no understanding and prejudge based on their ignorance. We had not mentioned anything sexually and I was not about to go there. She was on a site that really has only men and TSs. She list on her profile that she is a TS and I know that she is also a provider. I have no issue with that and know that it is very hard for some ladies out here especially in todays economic climate. I just thought that it was a lil abrupt since our other communication had gone so well. We had communicated via mail many times. And initially I did not approach her, she approached me. I will not make the same mistake and take it as lesson learned. I just wanted to clarify that I would have not have mentioned it at all if not for answering the question she asked. I would never want to offend anyone especially because of my ignorance.

[giovanni_hotel]

Thanks to all of the replies so far. I understand completely about looking at and treating her like any other woman. I know that trans women have a lot to deal with on a daily basis and that many people have no understanding and prejudge based on their ignorance. We had not mentioned anything sexually and I was not about to go there. She was on a site that really has only men and TSs. She list on her profile that she is a TS and I know that she is also a provider. I have no issue with that and know that it is very hard for some ladies out here especially in todays economic climate. I just thought that it was a lil abrupt since our other communication had gone so well. We had communicated via mail many times. And initially I did not approach her, she approached me. I will not make the same mistake and take it as lesson learned. I just wanted to clarify that I would have not have mentioned it at all if not for answering the question she asked. I would never want to offend anyone especially because of my ignorance.


Some Ts are flakey/mental.

If the girl listed in her profile that she was a provider and she got bent because you called her a 'special lady', that's some bullshit.

You sound like a civil, good dude, just trying to make contact with a girl.

In retrospect, I don't think she handled that situation right at all.

[SunshyneMonroe]

God damn girl, the shit you do to the English language is crazy. I have to sit here staring at your text for ages to try and figure out what you are saying. Then after I am done, I usually wish I had just skipped it.

ok..do u want a cookie...press the igg on move along...:) then youll never have 2 c wut i type k

[dgs925]

ok..do u want a cookie...press the igg on move along...:) then youll never have 2 c wut i type k
What??? I have no clue what you just wrote. Good thing for you that you are cute.

[renoned]

cockbanditry I love that:dancing:

[keepingitreal470]

MOST Ts are flakey/mental.

If the girl listed in her profile that she was a provider and she got bent because you called her a 'special lady', that's some bullshit.

You sound like a civil, good dude, just trying to make contact with a girl.

In retrospect, I don't think she handled that situation right at all.Fixed if for ya.

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[BeardedOne]

Akin to this thread, I just pinged a gurl on my chat friends list that I haven't talked to in a while.

In about ten words or less she left me with the need for some major dental work.

There are reasons that I'm a hermit, and people like her are at the top of the list.

[TsGiaX]

I dont like the term "special lady" etc because thats just like reminding us that we're not a real woman

[Nautica]

Thanks to all of the replies so far. I understand completely about looking at and treating her like any other woman. I know that trans women have a lot to deal with on a daily basis and that many people have no understanding and prejudge based on their ignorance. We had not mentioned anything sexually and I was not about to go there. She was on a site that really has only men and TSs. She list on her profile that she is a TS and I know that she is also a provider. I have no issue with that and know that it is very hard for some ladies out here especially in todays economic climate. I just thought that it was a lil abrupt since our other communication had gone so well. We had communicated via mail many times. And initially I did not approach her, she approached me. I will not make the same mistake and take it as lesson learned. I just wanted to clarify that I would have not have mentioned it at all if not for answering the question she asked. I would never want to offend anyone especially because of my ignorance.


Maybe I missed the part where you mentioned she approached you, then asked you a question? If the question was 'why are you on here'(that site), I don't see anything you did wrong. But, if you were the one who started messaging her about not meeting many girls w/extra, then......

[BeardedOne]

I dont like the term "special lady" etc because thats just like reminding us that we're not a real woman

Yah, get it right guys: 'Real' women aren't special.

Glad that we got that ironed out.

[TsVanessa69]

Yeah she is a lady regardless if she has a penis or a vaggie. She's not some mythical unicorn.
Guys fail to realize that!

[Evil Jay]

Really,If the chick is that sensitive,I know she can't take any pipe,lol

[alyssaluxor]

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