So, where do TS's go to find a partner?

[peterblack]

Seriously, I can get as many regular girls as I want. Internet Dating, Bars, pubs there really is an unlimited supply of real girls (In London) ... but where should I go to start a relationship with a TS lady? or is this just a completely unnatainable fantasy on my part?

sigh!

[Alicia Leveaux]

As long as you think of us as unreal girls.. then yeah, I would say that a relationship is a completely unnatainable fantasy for you.

[peterblack]

ooh, not what I meant to say, but I see my posting is poorly written... sorry!

[hotnphx]

Thailand would be a good start,but it will cost you money ..

[rodinuk]

You could probably try a night at the Wayout club http://thewayoutclub.com/
or use a site like http://birchplace.com/ (http://profiles.birchplace.com/) or one of the myriad dating sites for T-girls.

There are also sites which give you some insight and advice on how a T-girl might like to be treated rather than how you think your fantasy should appear ;-)

[youshouldtrythislol]

Maybe try going out in public and just meet people. Don't go at is as looking for a 't' girl, just look for a girl. Meet a girl and talk to her for her personality, not what is between her legs.

[alyssaluxor]

As long as you think of us as unreal girls.. then yeah, I would say that a relationship is a completely unnatainable fantasy for you.





There are also sites which give you some insight and advice on how a T-girl might like to be treated rather than how you think your fantasy should appear ;-)


Maybe try going out in public and just meet people. Don't go at is as looking for a 't' girl, just look for a girl. Meet a girl and talk to her for her personality, not what is between her legs.

:iagree: to all of these

[amberskyi]

*sighs at these post*

[tsparisangelline]

smh @ tranny chasers

[Ryz]

I just go downtown, and if I suspect that anyone is a tranny I just grab her crotch to make sure. :)

[scubaman]

Seriously, I can get as many regular girls as I want. Internet Dating, Bars, pubs there really is an unlimited supply of real girls (In London) ... but where should I go to start a relationship with a TS lady? or is this just a completely unnatainable fantasy on my part?

sigh!

It's completely unattainable fantasy of your part.

[tsparisangelline]

I just go downtown, and if I suspect that anyone is a tranny I just grab her crotch to make sure. :)

so thirsty omg

[DL_NL]

Crocodile Dundee? :)

[Ryz]

so thirsty omg
lmAO .

[SXFX]

The last TS girl I dated for about two month, we bumped into each other on a normal dating sight.
It was fun I really liked going out with her and enjoyed our time together but....my life got in the way.

[flabbybody]

As long as you think of us as unreal girls.. then yeah, I would say that a relationship is a completely unnatainable fantasy for you.

for a first post that's remarkably dead on

[SXFX]

As of today....looking around...I would say a little north of Wall Street. From the hours of 5pm to about 8pm.
Dress to impress. None of this $5k suits or $1k watches.
Bring out the big guns!
Even in the rain!

[jamiecoxxdotcom]

This is what happens when you fall for a manufactured, online fetish as if we were some kind of real thing. The kind of girls you are interested in are all performers and/or escorts 100% of the time. The whole shemale thing is just a job. A real transsexual person would never advertise themselves as such... they want to live normal, anonymous lives as women, (or men) They are not glamorous, highly sexualized boner fairies. They're just normal people like you or me, (on my day off...) You'd have much better luck at a Denny's or a library. The catch is, if you find one and point out that you looking for a transsexual they will drop you like a bad habit. After 5 years of this stuff I just feel really bad about guys and how they think all this stuff works. It's just entertainment bro.

[ed_jaxon]

Boner Fairies??? http://www.hungangels.com/vboard/Oi8vd3d3Lmh1bmdhbmdlbHMuY29tL3Zib2FyZC9pbWFnZXMvc2 1pbGllcy9pY29uX2NvbmZ1c2VkLmdpZg%3D%3D

[giovanni_hotel]

Yes, it's hard to meet a tgirl that you find attractive, ( and she you) IRL. It's just the reality of supply and demand, and there aren't that many TGs out there, in relation to the general population. We're talking about fractions of a percent, IMO.

In some cities there are transgendered support groups/meetings, which is a place one could start to look, I guess, but it's still a crapshoot.

You'd have better luck meeting an escort and hoping that you and she 'clicked' on a personal level, IMO.

If there was a realistic social networking alternative to HA that had hot, beautiful, witty TGs, I'd be there.

Fact is some of the sexiest tgirls you ever will see drop in and out HA. Try some of these hosted parties advertised on HA, where many TGs go to see and be seen.

EVERY guy on HA to some degree experiences the same problem that you do.


And Jamie, do you consider yourself transgendered, or...other?? Or none of the above??

[jamiecoxxdotcom]

Boner fairies.


Boner Fairies??? http://www.hungangels.com/vboard/Oi8vd3d3Lmh1bmdhbmdlbHMuY29tL3Zib2FyZC9pbWFnZXMvc2 1pbGllcy9pY29uX2NvbmZ1c2VkLmdpZg%3D%3D

[jamiecoxxdotcom]

I'd never be so bold as to label myself. I've left all that up to the prerogative of each of the individuals who make up the bulk of my client base.

[QUOTE=And Jamie, do you consider yourself transgendered, or...other?? Or none of the above??[/QUOTE]

[ed_jaxon]

Boner fairies.


So I know the tooth fairy comes when you put a tooth under your pillow.

Do I wanna know how to summon a boner fairy?

[giovanni_hotel]

I don't know how answering that question on a message board hurts your bottomline.

But okay.

[jamiecoxxdotcom]

That has been my answer to such questions since day one.
I join no clubs, no matter what I do for a living, how I have sex from one day to another, what type of music I write... I just don't do it. I stick up for nothing save for a few basic human rights and the scientific method. I hold no convictions, I know no boundaries and am free to be nothing.


I don't know how answering that question on a message board hurts your bottomline.

But okay.

[jamiecoxxdotcom]

Google "tranny", pick a web site, fork over 20 some odd dollars, double click the big shiny button and low & behold - Boner Fairies!

Also, BackPage Ads.



So I know the tooth fairy comes when you put a tooth under your pillow.

Do I wanna know how to summon a boner fairy?

[francisfkudrow]

Well, since hardly anybody else gave a legitimate answer, let me say this. I've had one TS friend-with-benefits--not a serious relationship, but it went on for a couple months, and I met her on adultfriendfinder.com.

As some here did indicate, there's a problem where the fact that you're interested in T-girls essentially disqualifies you from dating a large number of them, so imho, online is the best way to go. You put out there what you're looking for, and if by some chance the right girl is cool with that, there you go.

The idea that you're going to randomly run into these girls "in public" isn't going to work unless you live somewhere with a very high concentration of t-girls. I don't know where you live, but where I live certainly does not qualify.

[peterblack]

Thanks to everyone who commented; I think I understand now. Essentially, the point that many people made is that T-Girls are just women who need to be treated as ladies, and I must remember to treat as such.

[scroller]

Well, since hardly anybody else gave a legitimate answer, let me say this...

Kudos to you for a helpful answer.

[LibertyHarkness]

if i was to look for a partner, or person to maybe date, i would just look at places that interst me ...

mueseums/galleries, hobby places etc, maybe a bar ....

[TsVanessa69]

I hop on a plane, get off in NYC and walk down the street.
very effective in my tight jeans and turtle necks