A logical question from a humble perspective

[tsdvdman]

I've seen so many threads with girls saying things like there are many guys out there who treat them like real women and who don't care what's between their legs. These girls also express a hatred and say they have no respect for guys who seem to "hide" or need to be discreet about their appreciation/lust for transexual women. I don't understand the hate because you are also the first to say that "society" as a whole isn't ready for you,,or doesn't fully understand what TS lifestyle is all about,,or that people have no idea of the complex issues TS go through on a daily basis,or that we still have a long way to go for transexual transgendered people to be fully accepted,,etc. I happen to agree.
But with all of that. If you really are being treated and seen as a woman by so many men and going about your daily routine as if,,,then why aren't you in a regular man/woman girl/girl relationship? If you are escorting (and I'm not knocking your hustle because I'll be the first to admit that if you are my type of girl then I am more than willing to pay), you are selling a product,,a service, a fantasy, an erotic and unique experience, etc. Why would you hate and despise the majority of your consumers who pay you specifically for your uniqueness and eroticism? And again, if you value more being treated and looked at as a woman and being in a so-called regular relationship,(which I don't blame you), then why not just find a good man (as rare as they may be) who sees you for the beauty you are and settle down with him and stop escorting. The majority of GG's are not escorts. Escorting is a totally different level. I'm not saying stop getting your grind on, but if you are saying you want to be treated just like a regular woman, yet you still continue to escort (even while meeting all of these guys),,as if that is the "norm",,in my opinion,,there lies the contradiction. Why not "hustle" like many beautiful women do,,find one or two guys who have the "loot" neccessary for your lifestyle and take care of him well. You are already the Masteress of mutual exchange by nature of what you've been doing,,so it would seem to be a win-win IMHO.

[Jericho]

Hehe, i hope you've bought a tin hat! :Bowdown:

[Gthoma2a]

Yikes! This is going to get weird quick IMO. Good luck man!

Just to be brave, I will state my guess. I think it is like any girl who gets into hooking. She enjoys the constant self-esteem boost of men hitting on her and paying for her when she is young. She doesn't see the long-term effects that this lifestyle will have on her emotionally for the money and confirmation of her place as a beautiful woman. They look at a relationship as a normal life, but they want something more grand to add an element of vanity to their lives that a relationship wouldn't in their eyes fully provide. Having one man love them is not as grandiose as having men everywhere lust for them and getting paid for it. Ultimately, they don't see that in the long term, gravity will win over all of their assets and their careers will die down leaving their high current earnings replaced with what they can get. They likely don't see an end anywhere in the near future, but hopefully for their sake that they are not too jaded and broken to find someone to love them then. It boils down to self-esteem, though. Their self-esteem is a mirror of society towards them rather than a mirror of who they would naturally be. I am not meaning this in a negative way towards anyone and I can't say that I am right, but this is the usual mindset of girls in prostitution.

[tsdvdman]

Wow, no responses from any other the women at all. Hummn..I guess you have to be a part of the drama or be known to offend someone and be a part of the chaos to solicit a decent conversation. Or better yet,,should I have just used the words cock, balls, bulges, implants in every sentence for a signifying identification?,,lol

[rockabilly]

A pic of a naked woman would also help.

[tsdvdman]

A pic of a naked woman would also help.
LMAO but you're right

[alyssaluxor]

isnt this self explanatory already for you guys? lol just joking

im so lazy now will try later to answer if got time ;)

kisses
Alyssa Luxor

[goku]

IMO, the escorting is so they can get where they want, as quickly as possible. If the girls were millionaires, they wouldn't be escorting. It costs tons of money to transition, and there is no more lucrative way to achieve that. From my understanding(listening to a good friend of mine), most feel they have a small window to transition.

That being said, they do the job, but like any of us with our shitty ass jobs, they probably don't like quite a bit about it. This forum offers a venue to vent their frustrations directly to the people who utilize their services, something I wish existed for my job. So we get the brunt of the load(no pun intended).

I mean can you imagine? You are a woman, that wants nothing to do with her male past, and every day some guy wants you to fuck him in the ass. While he moans like a little girl under you, you are probably thinking of how much you don't like this. Do that enough, and you would probably get bitter pretty quick about it.

Most of these girls, outside of escorting, want little to do with their dicks, if you actually listen to them. Some, if they weren't escorting, maybe might fuck ass on a 10/90 split. So when we roll up bending over in front of them, it's a constant reminder of what they have so desperately been trying to get away from their whole lives. As far as I am concerned, I want a girl to be sexually satisfied in a relationship, so I would try to do what I can to make her happy, but I wanna treat her and keep her feeling like the lady she is.

We just need to realize escorting is a tough grind, just like any of our jobs. Most days you wanna be anywhere BUT fucking working! In our jobs, we at least get to bullshit with co-workers most of the day. Talking to a friend of mine, I realize she just sits there, alone, waiting for clients to call. All to get where she wants to be in life. After speaking privately to her on almost a daily basis, I have respect for them, and what they do.

[correa]

Goku so why don't you take her in, support her, and pay for her transition since you're always on her jock

[scroller]

A common (but not universal) response seems to be something like this: The girl doesn't like her T, and she's escorting on a temporary basis to make the big/fast money required for SRS. Thus you get a lot of what we might call "cognitive dissonance" where guys who like the T provide the means to get rid of the T. A lot of the time when the girl gets SRS she's done with escorting and otherwise does as you suggest.

[goku]

Goku so why don't you take her in, support her, and pay for her transition since you're always on her jock


The friend I am speaking of ain't Paris.....clown!

I told you before, I don't really speak with Paris like that. She is cool by me, but we ain't close.

Another thing, quit following my ass around and commenting on my posts. I post on the issues I see fit. Nothing more nothing less. You seem to take issue with Paris, keep it with her. Quit dragging me into YOUR bullshit. You do you, and I will do me.

[rockabilly]

"You do you , and I'll do me."

If done in the same room and at close proximity ...



wait for it ...



that's gay.

jk lol

[Nicole Dupre]

We're rare creatures, and yet we give you the opportunity to pay us for our time. Maybe you should stop trying to understand us, and just enjoy us while you can. That's pretty easy to do if you're a nice guy and you have the funds, right? Why make it complicated.

[kukm4]

......bump