Hiow the hell are you supposed to meet Transsexual Women IRL??

[Dkg]

Without going to craigslist (or somewhere else) and paying for it? I don't believe in paying for it (though I did it once just to clear my curiosities). I'm in the DC/MD/VA area and the only thing I can think of is going to a GLBT club/bar but I honestly don't think I would feel comfortable in that type of environment. I'm not gay and I don't feel like getting hit on by men so that's kind of out of the question.

I know there are thousands in the area but I have no idea where to look and yes, I realize that most of them are just like regular women and go to regular places but I can honestly never spot them (though my friends always do) and in a way I think that's a great thing. Honestly I feel weird even asking this since it makes me feel like a creepy chaser which I' assure you I'm totally not.

Any help?

[dan_drade]

The rules are pretty simple. You lust go to where the girls go. If that means going to a GLBT bar, then that's where you need to go. It's not like every gay man is going to come over to you and ask you to suck his cock, it just doesn't work that way. There are a lot of str8 people that go to gay bars, so it's not like you will be the only one.

You can also go to TG clubs. Most of the men that go there are prtty much like all of us here. They won't want to fuck you unless you put on a dress. ;)

[ARMANIXXX]

Without going to craigslist (or somewhere else) and paying for it? I don't believe in paying for it (though I did it once just to clear my curiosities). I'm in the DC/MD/VA area and the only thing I can think of is going to a GLBT club/bar but I honestly don't think I would feel comfortable in that type of environment. I'm not gay and I don't feel like getting hit on by men so that's kind of out of the question.

I know there are thousands in the area but I have no idea where to look and yes, I realize that most of them are just like regular women and go to regular places but I can honestly never spot them (though my friends always do) and in a way I think that's a great thing. Honestly I feel weird even asking this since it makes me feel like a creepy chaser which I' assure you I'm totally not.

Any help?

What's wrong with CRAIGSLIST?

I'm not talking about the pro section either.

[bte]

I don't know. I know that clubs would be the best choice in finding a transsexual woman. You could try to legitimate dating sites that is geared toward finding LTR. I always been lucky because I either have met transsexual women in clubs or became friends with them through my sister and her friends.

[ARMANIXXX]

You know what?

I kinda wanna take back my question, because it would seem the DC community is basically a shithole......basically.


Still I think you can still find a few serious people on DC-area Craigslist















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[Dkg]

I dunno, I never really looked into Craigslist because it seems most people on their are either pervs or just err "pros", as you put it. I'll try looking again but I'm not expecting much. Thanks

And as far as DC goes I have no idea which clubs to go to or what kind of community is around here, but I'll do some google searching.

[TsVanessa69]

I dunno, I never really looked into Craigslist because it seems most people on their are either pervs or just err "pros", as you put it. I'll try looking again but I'm not expecting much. Thanks

And as far as DC goes I have no idea which clubs to go to or what kind of community is around here, but I'll do some google searching.
Its just as bad for us. the dudes on cl are triks who dont wanna pay, like this nugget I juest got:


hello.. not a bot... but i read ur post and do agree. now i am a married guy and dont need anymore pics those are fine but i am not looking for a relationship or anything i am not from chicago but do travel for work. i would love for u to stop by my hotel when i get in but if u are looking for money i dont get escorts. if u are interested in more feel free and send me a message back i hope to hear from u and if i offended u i am sorry but u are very sexy in the pics and had to say something


or:

I'm a young sexy Latino looking to host this morning . Let me satisfy your needs I can host as soon as my girlfriend leaves to work..I'm five ft ten weight 150 nice athletic body uncut light skin can come multiple times and can fuck faster than a rabbit..

[TheToon]

Its just as bad for us. the dudes on cl are triks who dont wanna pay, like this nugget I juest got:


hello.. not a bot... but i read ur post and do agree. now i am a married guy and dont need anymore pics those are fine but i am not looking for a relationship or anything i am not from chicago but do travel for work. i would love for u to stop by my hotel when i get in but if u are looking for money i dont get escorts. if u are interested in more feel free and send me a message back i hope to hear from u and if i offended u i am sorry but u are very sexy in the pics and had to say something
hello.. not a bot... but i read ur post and do agree. now i am a married guy and dont need anymore pics those are fine but i am not looking for a relationship or anything i am not from chicago but do travel for work. i would love for u to stop by my hotel when i get in but if u are looking for money i dont get escorts. if u are interested in more feel free and send me a message back i hope to hear from u and if i offended u i am sorry but u are very sexy in the pics and had to say somethinghello.. not a bot... but i read ur post and do agree. now i am a married guy and dont need anymore pics those are fine but i am not looking for a relationship or anything i am not from chicago but do travel for work. i would love for u to stop by my hotel when i get in but if u are looking for money i dont get escorts. if u are interested in more feel free and send me a message back i hope to hear from u and if i offended u i am sorry but u are very sexy in the pics and had to say something

I'm a young sexy Latino looking to host this morning . Let me satisfy your needs I can host as soon as my girlfriend leaves to work..I'm five ft ten weight 150 nice athletic body uncut light skin can come multiple times and can fuck faster than a rabbit..

The OP pretty clearly said he doesn't want an escort, so I'm struggling to see your point.

[bte]

The OP pretty clearly said he doesn't want an escort, so I'm struggling to see your point.

I think what Vanessa is trying to say that even though its hard for guys to find a transsexual woman for a relationship. Its even harder for a transwoman to find a man who is not interested in just sex.

[ARMANIXXX]

Its just as bad for us. the dudes on cl are triks who dont wanna pay, like this nugget I juest got:


hello.. not a bot... but i read ur post and do agree. now i am a married guy and dont need anymore pics those are fine but i am not looking for a relationship or anything i am not from chicago but do travel for work. i would love for u to stop by my hotel when i get in but if u are looking for money i dont get escorts. if u are interested in more feel free and send me a message back i hope to hear from u and if i offended u i am sorry but u are very sexy in the pics and had to say something


or:

I'm a young sexy Latino looking to host this morning . Let me satisfy your needs I can host as soon as my girlfriend leaves to work..I'm five ft ten weight 150 nice athletic body uncut light skin can come multiple times and can fuck faster than a rabbit..


Are you posting in the Casual section?

[TsVanessa69]

I think what Vanessa is trying to say that even though its hard for guys to find a transsexual woman for a relationship. Its even harder for a transwoman to find a man who is not interested in just sex.
No jus sayin men cheat and think they can fuck for free.
So to avoid that, girls should charge dudes.
How the fuck you gonna creep and think we ok with that?
I re-edited my post so you can see both dudes from "casual" encounters were triks trying not to pay!

[bte]

No jus sayin men cheat and think they can fuck for free.
So to avoid that, girls should charge dudes.
How the fuck you gonna creep and think we ok with that?
I re-edited my post so you can see both dudes from "casual" encounters were triks trying not to pay!

Oh I thought you were posting on Craiglist trying to find a relationship or something like that. IMO, I don't know why guys would even put in an ad that they are married or have a girlfriend. I am not saying its right, but its stupid to put relationship status in an ad when you are trying to creep on your spouse or partner.

[TsVanessa69]

Are you posting in the Casual section?
yep. i did post there and almost every response began with im married, OR they would text to meet, then not show cuz the girlfriend came over or the wife came home. shit one of the dudes who was my fuck buddy/photographer was married and i met him off HIS ad on casual encounters about 3 years ago.
Dude STILL has not told me he was married yet!

[TsVanessa69]

Oh I thought you were posting on Craiglist trying to find a relationship or something like that. IMO, I don't know why guys would even put in an ad that they are married or have a girlfriend. I am not saying its right, but its stupid to put relationship status in an ad when you are trying to creep on your spouse or partner.
Who would go on craigslist for a relationship???
Guys should not be trusted, plain and simple.
Ts should charge, I mean you can't have your cake and eat it to!
You have a wife, you pay her bills and cuddle with her, yet wanna creep and fuck me and go back to her, not on my watch.
NOBODY fucks me for free. Empty hands at my door get turned away!

[bte]

Who would go on craigslist for a relationship???
Guys should not be trusted, plain and simple.
Ts should charge, I mean you can't have your cake and eat it to!
You have a wife, you pay her bills and cuddle with her, yet wanna creep and fuck me and go back to her, not on my watch.
NOBODY fucks me for free. Empty hands at my door get turned away!

Well...yeah that's true. I can't even deny that. I knew this one guy who had been married for awhile and even has a kid. He cheats on his wife regular and his daughter knows about it too. She has even helped her dad cheat by hooking him up with some of her male friends. Tis is life, I suppose.

Although what do you do when you actually meet a guy or do you not trust guys in general?

[TheToon]

The OP is specifically asking where in the real world, not Craiglist or anyhting like it he would meet a transwoman, seems like he's intersted in more than just a quick fuck session. And your posting some generalisation bullshit about all men being creeps to justify (to whom I don't know) why you escort.

I'm just not getting it at all, why can't you just drop the attitude and just discuss the subject he brought up ?

[TsVanessa69]

The OP is specifically asking where in the real world, not Craiglist or anyhting like it he would meet a transwoman, seems like he's intersted in more than just a quick fuck session. And your posting some generalisation bullshit about all men being creeps to justify (to whom I don't know) why you escort.

I'm just not getting it at all, why can't you just drop the attitude and just discuss the subject he brought up ?
I was
Guys don't want an escort,
BUT girls don't want married men,
So i wasn't or don't need to justify why I do shit to anybody.
I was just showing that its just as hard for us if not harder cuz MOST men that hit us up are married or have girlfriends.

[ARMANIXXX]

The OP is specifically asking where in the real world, not Craiglist or anyhting like it he would meet a transwoman, seems like he's intersted in more than just a quick fuck session. And your posting some generalisation bullshit about all men being creeps to justify (to whom I don't know) why you escort.

I'm just not getting it at all, why can't you just drop the attitude and just discuss the subject he brought up ?


The OP does not indicate he does or doesn't want a one night stand....he simply says he wants to meet TS's on a non pro basis....So I assume, like most guys, he'll take the sex and he'll take the "dinner-dance-romance" route too.


Either way, I've found Craigslist quite acceptable.

Genetic Women and men use Craigslist for dating everyday....
Why would it be any different for TS's?

[TsVanessa69]

Well...yeah that's true. I can't even deny that. I knew this one guy who had been married for awhile and even has a kid. He cheats on his wife regular and his daughter knows about it too. She has even helped her dad cheat by hooking him up with some of her male friends. Tis is life, I suppose.

Although what do you do when you actually meet a guy or do you not trust guys in general?
This day in age, why do guys even get married?

[TsVanessa69]

The OP does not indicate he does or doesn't want a one night stand....he simply says he wants to meet TS's on a non pro basis....So I assume, like most guys, he'll take the sex and he'll take the "dinner-dance-romance" route too.


Either way, I've found Craigslist quite acceptable.

Genetic Women and men use Craigslist for dating everyday....
Why would it be any different for TS's?
I find craigslist very entertaining!
I have met photographers, decent dudes visiting that have become friends, but you get ALOT of bs, and some weird stuff too!
You guys should see my inbox!

[ARMANIXXX]

Who would go on craigslist for a relationship???
Guys should not be trusted, plain and simple.
Ts should charge, I mean you can't have your cake and eat it to!
You have a wife, you pay her bills and cuddle with her, yet wanna creep and fuck me and go back to her, not on my watch.
NOBODY fucks me for free. Empty hands at my door get turned away!

Hey,
If you are posting on the Casual section, and you get hit with guys that wanna fuck.....

I mean....what's wrong with that? That's what it's for.

As far as some of them being married...that's always a risk even if you meet someone at the club or grocery store.

[TsVanessa69]

Rember after we log off here, we go back to living as WOMAN.
We grocery shop, go to Starbucks, just like any other normal female.
Just there is no parade or bells or cocks haning out for you guys approval.

TS are WOMAN, when you guys realize that, then you will find us.
In real life, men stop me in public, ask for my number and I always make shure they know I am ts and they are cool.
I know DC has alot of ts who live as woman and are out and about, jus pay closer attention to your surroundings is all I as a ts woman could tell you

[TsVanessa69]

Hey,
If you are posting on the Casual section, and you get hit with guys that wanna fuck.....

I mean....what's wrong with that? That's what it's for.

As far as some of them being married...that's always a risk even if you meet someone at the club or grocery store.
My ad was clear that i did not see married men for fun.
If i was a female i would feel the same way.

Why get married, then use me only to go back to her.
The other woman role is a paid role in my book, gg or ts!
Dudes try to be slick, but they always get caught up!!!:dancing::dancing::dancing:

[Jericho]

My ad was clear that i did not see married men for fun.
If i was a female i would feel the same way.

Why get married, then use me only to go back to her.
The other woman role is a paid role in my book, gg or ts!
Dudes try to be slick, but they always get caught up!!!:dancing::dancing::dancing:

Gotta agree with that.
(Can't go there, the misses would find out)
why should you be a bit on the side for free! :shrug

[mikey_stl]

I've met and picked up t-girls (non-pros) in a variety of places. One was in an adult video arcade. We fooled around and then went to her place. Another was in a grocery store -- she was kinda drunk late at night. Of course, I used to live in San Francisco, where the t-girl population is pretty large. I was in a Taco Bell the other day, and saw a t-girl working there. She had a deeper voice, larger bones, and an Adam's apple, but very attractive. Wasn't sure quite how to approach her ... and she was a good deal younger than me, so I'm probably not her type. I've also met or corresponded with a few. There are some dating web sites (e.g. tggirlfriend). I've looked at those, but never really tried them. Every once in awhile I'll see an ad on CL. Despite all this, I've never found what I really wanted -- a passable t-girl, living in stealth, who is non-op and likes to top.

[mikey_stl]

A lot of the t-girl bars I've been to around the country are 99%
hookers -- not really my thing, although I do like to go to them to
look. There's a bar in St. Louis that has drag shows, and a lot of
t-girl types hang out there. It's not a hooker scene, but most of
the girls are drag queens or TVs -- not true transexuals, which is
what I'm interested in.

The problem is that many of the bars that t-girls hang out in are
gay bars, and I don't like to go to gay bars. I'm not interested in
meeting guys -- I'm interested in girls.

[scubaman]

Without going to craigslist (or somewhere else) and paying for it? I don't believe in paying for it (though I did it once just to clear my curiosities). I'm in the DC/MD/VA area and the only thing I can think of is going to a GLBT club/bar but I honestly don't think I would feel comfortable in that type of environment. I'm not gay and I don't feel like getting hit on by men so that's kind of out of the question.

I know there are thousands in the area but I have no idea where to look and yes, I realize that most of them are just like regular women and go to regular places but I can honestly never spot them (though my friends always do) and in a way I think that's a great thing. Honestly I feel weird even asking this since it makes me feel like a creepy chaser which I' assure you I'm totally not.

Any help?

Are you sure you haven't met one already? Most don't advertise that they a T. They'll tell you after you get to know them.

[Silcc69]

Vanessa you should post all that garbage that you get in your inbox.

[Nicole Dupre]

Perhaps hang out on the 5th floor of Callen-Lorde. You will see every type of tranny on HRT you can imagine. lol

[TsJizelle]

I always see trannies at the mall...sounds silly but it`s just like a breeding ground of them.
Usually you`ll find me with my tgirlfriends, holding hands and giggling at all the hot boys hahaha

[LAKidd]

some Big City's have big TG population outside the obvious gay community
you might have a local Thai Town or little brazil in your Area

[alyssaluxor]

me too almost everyday I could see a TS girl or TS girls shopping, eating at restaurants, malling, clubbing, at the airport... everywhere ;)

[Dkg]

Who would go on craigslist for a relationship???
Guys should not be trusted, plain and simple.
Ts should charge, I mean you can't have your cake and eat it to!
You have a wife, you pay her bills and cuddle with her, yet wanna creep and fuck me and go back to her, not on my watch.
NOBODY fucks me for free. Empty hands at my door get turned away!


Yeah, you've got a point, and I've honestly never looked at it from you girls' perspective. Yeah I don't think ANYONE goes to craigslist to look for a relationship....(who does that??) but I do want to meet someone and no, not necessarily just for sex. I guess a lot of guys are able to cheat on the wives/gfs with other gg girls for free and with no intention of leaving their spouse and assume it's the same for ts girls.

That's pretty much why I don't even consider looking on craigslist, cause I'm not a trick and yet I still would like to know a ts woman without her looking at my wallet just to spend time together.

[tsdvdman]

Almost every time I go to New York and walk around I'll see at least one tgirl out and about, and who seems approachable just like you would any GG. New York is the place to meet them outside of the normal cash-for-play.

[ARMANIXXX]

Yeah, you've got a point, and I've honestly never looked at it from you girls' perspective. Yeah I don't think ANYONE goes to craigslist to look for a relationship....(who does that??) but I do want to meet someone and no, not necessarily just for sex. I guess a lot of guys are able to cheat on the wives/gfs with other gg girls for free and with no intention of leaving their spouse and assume it's the same for ts girls.

That's pretty much why I don't even consider looking on craigslist, cause I'm not a trick and yet I still would like to know a ts woman without her looking at my wallet just to spend time together.


Wrong....Nothing but wrong.



I don't know where or what the hell Columbia is in relation to DC...but here's another example that I just pulled right now....and quite frankly, based on what you say, you'd be lame to not at least try for this.

by the way, this is the first time that I've ever noticed the miscellaneous section.




































Anyone up for a lil drink and dancing - t4m (Columbia )




Date: 2010-08-28, 6:51PM EDT


Hope to find a someone to go out dancing with tonight. I love latin music and Im a great dancer. Wanna dance.. so pleaser be somewhat familiar with spanish dances ( bachata, merengue....)



A.

[Dkg]

Alright but you have to admit, finding a post like this is like finding a needle in a haystack. Columbia is actually in Maryland not far from DC. Thanks for the heads up though, I'll check out the miscellaneous section out a bit more.

[ARMANIXXX]

Alright but you have to admit, finding a post like this is like finding a needle in a haystack. Columbia is actually in Maryland not far from DC. Thanks for the heads up though, I'll check out the miscellaneous section out a bit more.


No it's not.

Thousands of people use Craigslist for regular dating.

Genetic Women use it. Genetic Men use it.


So, then....why wouldn't or couldn't a TS use it...Seriously.

That's a "revelational" question if you think about it.

[gaga99]

I'm not one who pays for sex, I don't think I'd get off knowing I had to pay someone to hang out with me. Good thing for me, Craigslist works very well in Los Angeles & Vegas and I've met some very beautiful girls. Girls want to have a good time outside of the escort thing which is evident by the ones who responded to my casual encounters ad while running escort ads at the same time.

[LittleGuy]

Yeah, you've got a point, and I've honestly never looked at it from you girls' perspective. Yeah I don't think ANYONE goes to craigslist to look for a relationship....(who does that??) but I do want to meet someone and no, not necessarily just for sex. I guess a lot of guys are able to cheat on the wives/gfs with other gg girls for free and with no intention of leaving their spouse and assume it's the same for ts girls.

That's pretty much why I don't even consider looking on craigslist, cause I'm not a trick and yet I still would like to know a ts woman without her looking at my wallet just to spend time together.

Good luck on finding a passive ts that dont want money for sex.

[Nicole Dupre]

Awwwww. Poor you. :(

lol

[tsparisangelline]

i never understood why anyone would want to date a guy that was exclusively looking for trans-women

in my eyes they have a fetish and that fetish is whats between ur legs

[TsVanessa69]

i never understood why anyone would want to date a guy that was exclusively looking for trans-women

in my eyes they have a fetish and that fetish is whats between ur legs
I totally agree with you, and I don't date them either. I date men who are not cock focused but men who date pretyy exotic woman. Seanchi told me I was fooling myself.
In latino culture, men have always dated dime piece trannys and treat us as woman. Not all men who date transexuals date her for her cock. Some date us because we are woman, who just happened to have a dick. I wonder how many guys on here would comprehend this concept.

[TsVanessa69]

Not all men who date ts, date her for her cock or even want cock. Some men date ts because we are woman.

[TsVanessa69]

Most of the guys I date, I meet in real time, daylight, in public with no make up on.

Case in point, there is a McDonalds around the corner from my house. I go there in drag, club make up, no make up.
There is this really cute guy that works there and I kinda of avoid his line sometimes becuase he is sexy and makes me nervous. plus he and I are the same height and he talks close to my face and I start laughing and he gets embarrassed. So anyhow I guess after all this time, he gave in and he gave me his number, in front of his co-workers, in case i wanted to give him a call to hang out.

[LittleGuy]

check eros or craigslist. make sure you have at least 300 roses min.

[tsparisangelline]

I totally agree with you, and I don't date them either. I date men who are not cock focused but men who date pretyy exotic woman. Seanchi told me I was fooling myself.
In latino culture, men have always dated dime piece trannys and treat us as woman. Not all men who date transexuals date her for her cock. Some date us because we are woman, who just happened to have a dick. I wonder how many guys on here would comprehend this concept.

seanchi is a loser and a fag

THE END

[ARMANIXXX]

i never understood why anyone would want to date a guy that was exclusively looking for trans-women

in my eyes they have a fetish and that fetish is whats between ur legs

Because then that would typically limit your options to guys that have never been with a TS and/or don't really know about them.

Most of the TS's I've met don't run around trying to pass themselves off as something they are not when dating.....that includes the passable ones....that actually might get them killed...seriously.


Secondly, who likes always having to start from scratch educating each and every potential dating guy about TS matters? That would suck. That would make it doubly worse if you were just looking for sex.