DATing a tgirl. help!

[IsuckTgirlCock]

what do you guys think about this. i met a hot tgirl of the net for a car dare type of thing. we kinda became friends after that... and i take her shopping n spend money on her. buti get no action in return. nothing. i told her i am gette ahouse inthe next few weeks to live in. she is being kicked out of her pad soi said she can live with me for free as my girlfriend. she agreed. w the condition no one can know...were roommates. as far as anyone knowd. im not sure if im being played or what? she wont let me have sex w her even if i pay her....she says she has to w hold that until she gets to move in else i could be playing het. but how can i be playing her when if all i wanted was sex i woulda just kept paying her for it,,i like this tgirl so so so fuking much and i get nothing but holding hands and a promise. we have a big age difference. so i can't hang w her n her friends much. i don't even know her last name. i also know she still seez guys for cardates n let's them screw her. makes me so fking jealous. that some moron can fuck her for the same amount i give het to go out n party with n i get nothing. ...help! please ladies or guys that date tgirls...tell me. thanx

[Jericho]

what do you guys think about this.

Sounds like you're being used. May be time to grow a spine.
Hey...You asked :shrug

[Jeffrey_L]

I understand and feel your pain. The best advice I can give you is that you should stop sweating her.

I know it might be easier said than done, but trust me it's well worth it.

Sometimes when one feels like you can't live without them they tend to take advantage of the situation. They get the idea that you " need " them.

We don't realize that we are leaving that kinda of impression, so don't worry. It's just part of being human.

um, I guess that's just my 2 cent's.

[reg]

tell her to fuck off, there are countless other hotties...


and remember, its always pay for play...

[russtafa]

dont let her leach onto you.then you wont be able to get rid of her

[JoePitt]

Been there, done that and all I got out of it was this lousy t-shirt. Disengage now!

[NatashaLover]

what do you guys think about this. i met a hot tgirl of the net for a car dare type of thing. we kinda became friends after that... and i take her shopping n spend money on her. buti get no action in return. nothing. i told her i am gette ahouse inthe next few weeks to live in. she is being kicked out of her pad soi said she can live with me for free as my girlfriend. she agreed. w the condition no one can know...were roommates. as far as anyone knowd. im not sure if im being played or what? she wont let me have sex w her even if i pay her....she says she has to w hold that until she gets to move in else i could be playing het. but how can i be playing her when if all i wanted was sex i woulda just kept paying her for it,,i like this tgirl so so so fuking much and i get nothing but holding hands and a promise. we have a big age difference. so i can't hang w her n her friends much. i don't even know her last name. i also know she still seez guys for cardates n let's them screw her. makes me so fking jealous. that some moron can fuck her for the same amount i give het to go out n party with n i get nothing. ...help! please ladies or guys that date tgirls...tell me. thanx


Dude sometimes money doesn't do it! At least for me is that way! Unless they pay me biggggg. LOL Try other things not giving her money or shopping. Use your imagination.
Believe me it works! if not just look for someone else that take cares.

Good Luck!

[IsuckTgirlCock]

thanks for the replies....yea. i know the best thing would be to break the whole thing off...but that ain't gunna happen yet....the whole kicker is she's saying shell have all sorts of sex when i let her move in. if she doesn't she has to know she's out the door,...and natasha thanks for the reply too...i know money isn't always the key but its nice to have it to set up those other ways of winning herover too,well she has no car either and wants to borrowed. my xar tonight,and like an idiot i said yes

[bladex76]

i think you already know what is going on but some times we find it hard to see it even if we know the true... we like it we love it we ask for more even if mean we are being play and some times you just fall in love with the wrong girl

[kyoJecours]

if you ever decide to ask her to marry you i would recommend a prenup.

[IsuckTgirlCock]

does it make sense for her to say she wont have sex with me b4 moving in the housebecause she wants to have 'something to hold onto'? she wont let me pay her either...ladies would u hold out on a guy if he was promising to let u live with him?i can't be using her...like she suggests....to get sex cuz i can pay her....im confused and losing my head.the problem. is also she's fucking. my dream tgirl. i've met many n this one is what i've alwts wanted,loooks wise and personality.just xold sexually

[Helvis2012]

Yeah, I don't know....once she's in your house you're going to have a hell of a time getting her out. Maybe you're not a tranny chaser but rather a masochist instead.
Better be careful.

[IsuckTgirlCock]

right helvis,.,think ur right on all counts

[NYBURBS]

When I first read this I thought you must be full of shit. However, I read all of your replies, so I'm going to assume you're being serious. My two cents is that you're out of your mind if you let her move in. If she was that into you then she would want you to call her your g/f and not "roommate." Getting someone evicted once they establish residency in your apt is a nightmare process.

You're getting played dude, so just go look elsewhere.

[Richctdude]

she is using you tell her to take a hike

[dderek123]

i also know she still seez guys for cardates n let's them screw her. makes me so fking jealous. that some moron can fuck her for the same amount i give het to go out n party with n i get nothing. ...help! please ladies or guys that date tgirls...tell me. thanx

Time to move on man. There are plenty of fish in the sea. You just gotta know where to look.

[IsuckTgirlCock]

right on brothers... knew you guys would help. can't talkto anyone in my daily. life about it...stay tuned!

[Ryz]

She's clearly using you. She's probably having sex with other people.

[Stoked]

you are a turd. you met her on a dare? you are dishonest. you tell her she can live with you as your girlfriend yet no-one can know? nice going asshole. repress the girl even further.
so here is what is really happening. you met the girl n a dare but only because YOU wanted to meet her and suck her dick. you dont want anyone to know because you cant openly admit you like to suck dick.

you are pissed off because she wont allow you to use her. you have been dishonest from the start. she should take you for more.

[alyssaluxor]

no offense but just for me why would you take someone for shopping and give her gifts then you expect something in return? i think thats not the true value of giving a gift to someone lol

and honestly from your post I think you just want sex from that TS girl lol. you reminded me of guys ive dated saying they are looking for LTR/marriage...etc. but honestly they just want free sex and once they were able to SUCK cock and get FUCK in the ass they will just leave you and will broken all their promises lol

just for me if you want action and sex better be honest with the girl and stop the games and BS lol

just my two cents worth

kisses
Alyssa Luxor

[Jericho]

you are a turd. you met her on a dare? you are dishonest. you tell her she can live with you as your girlfriend yet no-one can know? nice going asshole. repress the girl even further.
so here is what is really happening. you met the girl n a dare but only because YOU wanted to meet her and suck her dick. you dont want anyone to know because you cant openly admit you like to suck dick.

you are pissed off because she wont allow you to use her. you have been dishonest from the start. she should take you for more.

Is it reading or comprehension you have trouble with?

[Stoked]

i am not sure... what in my post are you referencing?

[alyssaluxor]

you are a turd. you met her on a dare? you are dishonest. you tell her she can live with you as your girlfriend yet no-one can know? nice going asshole. repress the girl even further.
so here is what is really happening. you met the girl n a dare but only because YOU wanted to meet her and suck her dick. you dont want anyone to know because you cant openly admit you like to suck dick.

you are pissed off because she wont allow you to use her. you have been dishonest from the start. she should take you for more.

many good points honestly ive met many guys like this lol

always remember TS girls are not dumb if you want play games with them they would feel it so in return most would also play your games lol

my body and attitude will only respond with the way you treat me ;)

respect begets respect!

kisses
Alyssa Luxor

[LittleGuy]

drop the bitch

[Stoked]

many good points honestly ive met many guys like this lol

always remember TS girls are not dumb if you want play games with them they would feel it so in return most would also play your games lol

my body and attitude will only respond with the way you treat me ;)

respect begets respect!

kisses
Alyssa Luxor
why is it so hard for people to comprehend the basic concepts you just stated?

jeeze

[Jericho]

i am not sure... what in my post are you referencing?

Try re-reading the op.
For starters, it aint the guy saying she can't tell anyone.

[Stoked]

Try re-reading the op.
For starters, it aint the guy saying she can't tell anyone.
yes, you are correct. And i had both reading AND comprehension problems on the re-read too. I admit I am not well versed in the reading and comprehension of bastardized english language and grammar.

Nevertheless, I retract my statement he is an asshole for repressing her, and change it to he's an asshole because first he says he's not getting any, then later he says he would have kept paying her.

The more i read it the less I understand. Thanks for the heads up.

oh wait... it wasnt a "car dare", it was a car date!!!!!! holy fucking crap.

and what exactly is "a car dare type of thing" if it isnt exactly that?

[Amsterdamage]

she is definately playing u man. i guess if she was at least even remotely interested, she would at least show u some physical affection when you're paying, right? now she's just taknig advantage of the fact that she can get ur cash without having to work for it..and as long she sees it as 'work', she's not interested in you. sorry.

[bladex76]

what would you do for a ts ass lol

[SunshyneMonroe]

what do you guys think about this. i met a hot tgirl of the net for a car dare type of thing. we kinda became friends after that... and i take her shopping n spend money on her. buti get no action in return. nothing. i told her i am gette ahouse inthe next few weeks to live in. she is being kicked out of her pad soi said she can live with me for free as my girlfriend. she agreed. w the condition no one can know...were roommates. as far as anyone knowd. im not sure if im being played or what? she wont let me have sex w her even if i pay her....she says she has to w hold that until she gets to move in else i could be playing het. but how can i be playing her when if all i wanted was sex i woulda just kept paying her for it,,i like this tgirl so so so fuking much and i get nothing but holding hands and a promise. we have a big age difference. so i can't hang w her n her friends much. i don't even know her last name. i also know she still seez guys for cardates n let's them screw her. makes me so fking jealous. that some moron can fuck her for the same amount i give het to go out n party with n i get nothing. ...help! please ladies or guys that date tgirls...tell me. thanx
ill be ur girl firend...i need a break ne ways.......

[IsuckTgirlCock]

sunshine....you got a deal!
as far as that pedantic automaton called 'stoked' or something,he's the typical jealous loser that trolls the boards

[Ryz]

Are you by chance old and unattractive?

[arnie666]

So she's taking money and witholding sex? sounds like the silly bitch thinks she's married to you. Why the fuck are you giving her money if you are dating and she is fucking other men? Is she working or is her job selling her arse and thats what the dogging with strange men is about? And why do you want to stick your willy in her without a hazmat suit?

What a mug! And what kind of relationship is it ,when you want to hide her away as some kind of live in sex toy?Sounds like she is rightly taking all she can get while it lasts.

If you want to fuck her, pay her,what her hourly rate is like everyone else. You tried to mug her off, and she mugged you off. You can't take the whore out of the whore in 9o percent of cases, and you sound like a user that got played. You deserve each other!

[FIRSTTIMER]

I see some good points being said here.

Something that I get out of this is that you seem a little too excited to get with this girl in the "sack" and I think that taking a moment and breath to just take your time you may get her.And if you do things in a more timely manner you just may get her for a good long term.
Also,another thing to look at is how this girls "way" is.How is she around you.Does she know that if you go to the mall and she knows that if she asks for something that you will buy it for her because she knows you are just too happy to be around her.

Some girls take advantage and some don't.Does she seem like the one who does?

Another thing is why if you asked her to move in with you but if she doesn't give up that ass that she needs to pack up and get the fuck out?

I mean if you are her friend,than be her friend.Right now it doesn't look like either one of you are friends with each other.

[leckery5]

String a long

[muhmuh]

Are you by chance old and unattractive?

im gonna hazard a guess and say yes
also he doesnt seem like hes exactly the sharpest knife in the drawer

[killa69]

Never heard of such insanity. How do you pay an escort anything & get nothing in return. Dude man up. Hate to sound mean but you gotta step your game up. If you feel like you're getting played it's usually because you are. I just never understood how a dude can spend money on chick, not get what he wants & then complain bout it. You're allowing the situation to play out like it is. Instead of coming on here & asking ppl you don't know from a can of paint for advice, why wouldn't you just talk to her & let her know what you want & expect out of your situation & if she's not willing to comply then just move on. If she really does have ANY feelings for you then shell understand & want to make you happy, especially given all you're willing to do for her. Hell the minute you offered to let her stay with you she should've felt compelled to gratify you in some way. The fact that she didn't & won't until some magical moment, should tell you everything. Quite simply man she's playing you & you're just allowing it to happen.

[gelgoog2]

if you are going to be sponsoring her, then you better be blowjobs in the morning and ass at night.

[SunshyneMonroe]

sunshine....you got a deal!
as far as that pedantic automaton called 'stoked' or something,he's the typical jealous loser that trolls the boards

omg did he say something mean to me lol i dont even see....lmao

[SunshyneMonroe]

Are you by chance old and unattractive?

thats the best way to have them that way no other women is tryin to take ur man lol and there alot less to cheat

[Ryz]

thats the best way to have them that way no other women is tryin to take ur man lol and there alot less to cheat
lmao if he can spend money on her in the first place. Why can't he just spend it on another girl :P

[SunshyneMonroe]

lmao if he can spend money on her in the first place. Why can't he just spend it on another girl :P


Cuz he likes her meany...........lol

[russtafa]

theres a few using sluts in this world =avoid them like the plague or it will fuck you up for a very long time

[Stoked]

omg did he say something mean to me lol i dont even see....lmao

You are correct Sunshyne, I didnt reference anything towards you...

I believe IsuckTgirlCock is trying to make himself appear better by putting someone else down. Maybe his name should read IsuckUPtoTgirlCock.

[IsuckTgirlCock]

Sunshyne, no, I said Id take u up on the offer to be your bf..........didnt put u down anywhere , I was referring to that moron, whos now on ignore, named "stoked".........Im actually disgusted your name and his are actually mentioned in the same post, it dirtys yours in a way.
The tgirl in question....and my whole dilema with her is the fact that she promises to be my girlfriend when we get the place. So shes holding out the sex because she thinks...1) that ill lose interest or 2) that im just saying ill let her live w me to use her for sex then get rid of her, but again thats insane because id just pay her for sex and be done w that, if that was the case.....is she gunna give it up when we move in is the biggest question? as time passes its looking that way, shes really starting to open up more . When we go shopping she doesnt look to spend money for the sake of it, and doesnt get upset if i say no, and the biggest plus is she doesnt have high class tastes that my former gfs have had.
as far as me being old and ugly, thats not the case...im not that old, 41...though shes 22. and i dont look that old so its not a strange scene when were in public. im clean cut 6'3 235lbs and dress nice. no problems with regular girls...only Tgirls !

[IsuckTgirlCock]

I see some good points being said here.

Something that I get out of this is that you seem a little too excited to get with this girl in the "sack" and I think that taking a moment and breath to just take your time you may get her.And if you do things in a more timely manner you just may get her for a good long term.(100% the plan, yes!)
Also,another thing to look at is how this girls "way" is.How is she around you.Does she know that if you go to the mall and she knows that if she asks for something that you will buy it for her because she knows you are just too happy to be around her.

Some girls take advantage and some don't.Does she seem like the one who does?(no she really doesnt take advantage, Id be done w her if she did)

Another thing is why if you asked her to move in with you but if she doesn't give up that ass that she needs to pack up and get the fuck out?(right, shes out the door if she doesnt, with my foot in her ass! Id be so fuming pissed off and hurt)

I mean if you are her friend,than be her friend.Right now it doesn't look like either one of you are friends with each other.(Im def her friend, shes mine too, but how deep that goes only time will tell)

thanks for the responses

[kyoJecours]

dude i'm reading your posts and i'm not even surprised you're getting played. man up and grow a pair. your 'gf' has bigger balls than you... probably in more ways than one. i'd say she's withholding sex to gain your trust and make you believe she wants something long term. then she'll be living at your place rent free and you'll be buying her shit and paying for her to do whatever she wants... and she'll probably still fuck other guys. 'gold digger' and 'sugar daddy' spring to mind. i'm sorry if that's brutal but she's taking you for a ride and you're a mug if you sit there and let her do it just because you want to get your dick wet.

[Amoore]

I'm in a similar situation at the moment, yet different.
Met a wonderful girl some months ago as she was working in my area, I met her for a date, meaning I didnt see her as a client or anything. We had great fun and began dating, she was very clear she didnt want me to pay for her and that she was independant, wich I really liked about her.
The whole thing wasnt even about sex for me, she was even the one to make the first move in that direction. Now she left this area, we kept talking and everything was ok, I was even planning to move to a place close to where she's at.
But just a couple of days ago she tells me she needs "time" and is now ignoring me completely. Can anyone tell me what thats about?

And for the record, I'm straight, top or whatever you want to call it. I never did her anything wrong and she wont even explain the situation.

sorry for stealing your thread btw

[Jericho]

thats the best way to have them that way no other women is tryin to take ur man lol and there alot less to cheat

Kewl..Sounds like i'm in!:dancing:

[talon]

I'm not sure if you're actually "dating a tgirl" at this point, sounds more like you're listening to a bunch of promises from someone who is not at all into you or she'd be screwing you, but she does need a place to stay so she's keeping her options open...

[wolfticketer761]

what do you guys think about this. i met a hot tgirl of the net for a car dare type of thing. we kinda became friends after that... and i take her shopping n spend money on her. buti get no action in return. nothing. i told her i am gette ahouse inthe next few weeks to live in. she is being kicked out of her pad soi said she can live with me for free as my girlfriend. she agreed. w the condition no one can know...were roommates. as far as anyone knowd. im not sure if im being played or what? she wont let me have sex w her even if i pay her....she says she has to w hold that until she gets to move in else i could be playing het. but how can i be playing her when if all i wanted was sex i woulda just kept paying her for it,,i like this tgirl so so so fuking much and i get nothing but holding hands and a promise. we have a big age difference. so i can't hang w her n her friends much. i don't even know her last name. i also know she still seez guys for cardates n let's them screw her. makes me so fking jealous. that some moron can fuck her for the same amount i give het to go out n party with n i get nothing. ...help! please ladies or guys that date tgirls...tell me. thanx

You're her sugar daddy. She will string you along to try to get as much out of you as she can. The moment you wise up and stop spening your cash is the moment she will leave you

[pasta2000]

You said you didn't even know her last name, how about any history on her? What if she moves in and has some of those other a-holes over to fuck throughout your house while you're at work, or better yet just get one of those guys to help clean you out while you're not there.....I know it's hard to let go of the one you really want, but there are so many fine fish in this big beautiful sea!

[tenn2008]

http://www.jontanis.com/gallery/d/3559-2/funny-pictures-disregard-females-acquire-currency.jpg

[IsuckTgirlCock]

I haven't been on the site for years..but she did move it, and soon as I found her on backpage.com whoring herself out I called her out on it. Anyway...soon as I found out she doing that behind my back, I came home from work and she had moved out..everything was gone. She left my shit and didn't steal anything and left me a note . I should post jt I have it still somewhere lol. Anyway...IT was a bad deal, I got some good tgirl sex out of it...I ended up moving out and traveling around w some tgirl hookers , LA san diego n vegas. They'd give me free sex and feed me and let me stay w them, I'd just have to leave the hotel room when they had guys over ( sometimes they would let me stay and have sex on the other bed next to me I didbt care). Anyway...met a regular girl and moved In w her 4 years ago. Miss the tgirls though...big time. Gotta see one soon..haha