"why most hungangels (in general) don't find brothas attract

[Porndog]

dj4monie touched on this in his last post, it's something a lot of people have mentioned. I know I've seen it. There's certain girls (read: ESCORTS) who will tell you right away on the phone "I don't date black guys".
Once when a couple of us guys here at HungAngels were out at a club, a girl actually asked if another staff member "was Dominican or Cuban because Black Guys are a No-No".
Maybe someone can chime in on this (and for the record 1) I'm not Black and 2) I lied and told her that he was Dominican. He had the most priceless look on his face when she kept asking him to speak spanish)

[dj4monie]

LOL! That's one of the funniest things I have heard. I do find that kinda strange that most white and asian T's just don't dig brothas. The more I think about, this came to mind -

Maybe they feel an interacial relationship attracts too much attention and they feel people will look at them "closer". Esp if the lady in question doesn't feel 100% "passable" in public, even thou in most cases she wouldn't be "detected" by the avg joe/jane.

But another thing I see is more than a few brothas down at 7669 (Peanuts) and gurls talking to them. So I dunno, the only T I have dated was white and she didn't have an issue with it one bit. I also know of another T that likes black men, but what both of these girls have in common is that they are NOT in the "industry".

I would really like to see some ladies comment on this.

* I will add some white, asian and latina T's do find me attractive, but I will admit they are less than stellar in most cases. My standards are not too high, I would just like to be seen in public every once in awhile. If I wanted to keep it behind closed doors, I would just continue f**kin BiTV's (which I really hate doing) to get my TG fix.

Im starting to wonder if I should in fact "pay for it". Funny that I would get turned down by most escorts too. Just doesn't pay to be a brotha I suppose...

[thanos]

Each person is entitled to their own opinion and there is no accounting for taste. It seems like the actions of a few fuck things up for the majority of you.

I asked a couple of "tgirl-friends" of mine about Black Men. A few flat out said "No way", and listed a couple of reasons that seem racist IMO.

I'm probably not the best to answer this question, but maybe an article about this would be good......

[dj4monie]

I story would be great, if gurls were willing to sit down, give a name (fake works also) and just break it down for us.

I was wondering around Queen Mary tonight. More than a few gurls on "duty". I always thought that the management looked down on that. Dj was BAD, playing the same shhh, he played last week, when I came by. I asked about djin there over a year ago. I'm going to talk to him this Friday.

Anyway, I was TRYING to make eye contact with "Paige" aka "Payton" this month (lol). She's a beautiful woman. I tried to my best and I know she saw me, guess just wasn't interested.

Too man "guys" in QM now days. Guess the gurls can afford to be "picky" like other women.

Somebody should really do a story on interracial dating in the TG world. So some of us brothas can get some 411.

I have seen this type of discussion elsewhere and always said why should tgirls be any different than the general populace. It does not surprise me, but you would think that the discrimination that most tgirls receieve would make them more empathetic to Af/AM. That being said, I am black and have visited several tgirls and have had only one say something but we did do the deed. It's like anything else in life if that one doesn't work there is always another right around the corner, so I don't let that stuff bother me too much. Their loss not mine. Now some of us brothers have given many the bad rap by trying not to pay, bargin the girls down, being abusive, and stuff like that, so some of the girls probably have had a bad experience. To me they should just screen each guy individually and not blanketly reject some of us hot, hung and true admirers and lovers of tgirls. "Can't we all just get along"........

[dj4monie]

Good Post...

Couldn't agree with you more.

It's tempting to "pay" for it now. Just to make sure I get what I want instead of another closet CD/TV just to get my TG fix once in awhile.

Been looking at the review sites and settled on a few ladies. Any suggestions? I'm tired of going to QM alone and don't want to wade through the "working girls" at Peanuts. Not much choice now.

I just stick to the fine as sista and latina tranzs. That's where I spend my money and time with. I avoid a lot of hassle this way. I am a black man pretty new to the game but I am no fool. If a white tranz stepped to me at a club or something, I will holla back, see what see is like. But as far as escorts, no way. Time is money. I think an escort should put in ther add if they don't do 'certain' people. That way 'certain' people can look elsewhere.

word, I have a bad case of yellow fever meaning I love the Asian women. Its really fucked up when I'm trying to hookup with one and they tell you straight out that they don't "date Black men". I'm not a cheap ass, I got doe and have no problem spending to get what I want. But it seems that a few bad experiences have fucked it up for the rest of us.

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

moderator's note

this thread is WAYYYYYYYYYYYYY before my tenure on HA but I gotta say that I used to think this was true. Now in '05 you'd be amazed how these broads throw themselves at a man regardless of his nationality at the parties.......................

[ANIYAH]

This Subject has been ouch on on several occasions ...

I Think alot of girls are scared of black men for a Number of streotypes

1.All black men are well in doubt ....Too much work for some
2.If a black man Pays u 200 for that sessions is gonna make sure u work for that money !!When a white man will pay you 200 for the hour and stay for 15 minutes ..
3.Black men will Rob or rape you

All of these streotypes are ridiculous ....And its because of the Badseeds that most have to suffer ...Little do they know they missing out on good money ,and sometimes some good dick

Hung angel who loves black men ^^^^^^^^^^^

[flabbybody]

yes, I've noticed the way the ladies seem to congregate around JWBL. I think the title of this thread is out of touch with the real world.

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

3.Black men will Rob or rape you


that shit has always made me laugh, 90% of these guys ain't in condition to rape or rob anyone after they get bottomed, LMAO

props to Aniyah for making me laugh with the "YES TYPICAL and IGNORANT" stereotypes some simpletons have in their heads

[Brideshead]

<<<<<HUNG ANGELS WHO LOVES BLACK MEN

This Subject has been ouch on on several occasions ...

I Think alot of girls are scared of black men for a Number of streotypes

1.All black men are well in doubt ....Too much work for some
2.If a black man Pays u 200 for that sessions is gonna make sure u work for that money !!When a white man will pay you 200 for the hour and stay for 15 minutes ..
3.Black men will Rob or rape you

All of these streotypes are ridiculous ....And its because of the Badseeds that most have to suffer ...Little do they know they missing out on good money ,and sometimes some good dick

That picture of you is so damn sexy.

[slinky]

This isn't a TS issue, it's an escort issue.

Lot's of escorts refuse to see black men.

Even a lot of black girls.

[Brideshead]

This isn't a TS issue, it's an escort issue.

Lot's of escorts refuse to see black men.

Even a lot of black girls.

There are many who will so who cares about the ones who don't.

[ANIYAH]

That picture of you is so damn sexy.

ISNT IT ITS ONE OF MY FAVESSSS 8)

[Brideshead]

Well I only date blk guys

Good girl.

[ANIYAH]

LOL

[Legend]

<<<<<HUNG ANGELS WHO LOVES BLACK MEN

This Subject has been ouch on on several occasions ...

I Think alot of girls are scared of black men for a Number of streotypes

1.All black men are well in doubt ....Too much work for some
2.If a black man Pays u 200 for that sessions is gonna make sure u work for that money !!When a white man will pay you 200 for the hour and stay for 15 minutes ..
3.Black men will Rob or rape you

All of these streotypes are ridiculous ....And its because of the Badseeds that most have to suffer ...Little do they know they missing out on good money ,and sometimes some good dick


LOL, ROB OR RAPE AND THIS IS COMING FROM A BLACKGIRL, ITS A DAMN SHAME WHEN BLACK PEOPLE STEREOTYPE THERE OWN COLOR!!!!

[ANIYAH]

LOL, ROB OR RAPE AND THIS IS COMING FROM A BLACKGIRL, ITS A DAMN SHAME WHEN BLACK PEOPLE STEREOTYPE THERE OWN COLOR!!!!

Im hoping that ur not under the impression that i am sterotyping my own people ...???I am stating how others feel .....And Yes Internalized Opression is a big issue in society ? But i don believe in those sterotypes so please dont come at me like that hun

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

man read the whole post before you try to crack jokes

damn!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

she used it as an example of what dumb muhfuckas say about Black men

[ANIYAH]

Thanks johnny i was gonna say it like that ..But I was being nice Lol

[slinky]

Well I only date blk guys

Good girl.

I guess racism is only wrong if you're the one being discriminated against.

[Legend]

Im sorry aniyah i misread your post,your right those stereotypes are ridiciouls when did girls start thinking like that?

[ANIYAH]

Im sorry aniyah i misread your post,your right those stereotypes are ridiciouls when did girls start thinking like that?

Im mad at you now you hurt my feelings :(

But i feel these sterotypes are influenced by the media ...And how u typically seeing black people on Tv taking part in violent crimes ..

And also the "Badseeds" who make it bad for he other dudes ..The ghetto ones that call you and try to negoitate .or the guy who wants to argue his money back cause u suck his dick for and hour and he didnt cum, Or the Black guy or always calling and offering 50 bucks ..Its those dudes who make it bad for other black men cause all of the above is what these girls are expecting ...so they rather not deal with that ...and indefense the racially profile black men

[Legend]

Im sorry aniyah i misread your post,your right those stereotypes are ridiciouls when did girls start thinking like that?

Im mad at you now you hurt my feelings :(

Im really sorry, i have too stop scanning through posts and really read them, i know you would never say crap like that!

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

I Think alot of girls are scared of black men for a Number of streotypes

1.All black men are well in doubt ....Too much work for some.

I disagree. There are white, hispanic, asian, middle eastern men etc. who requires too much work as much as black men. Its case to case basis.


2.If a black man Pays u 200 for that sessions is gonna make sure u work for that money !!When a white man will pay you 200 for the hour and stay for 15 minutes ..

Thats not so true. There are other folks of different ethnicities who are also of that mentality. Not just prevalent to African American men. The thing is a meeting should NOT be built on "pressure" to "BUST" as many nuts one can within a given session..but should be about having a nice time "TOGETHER". If that is the "Mentality" of most brotha's or any men in general.. I wouldnt be surprised why some trannies or women wouldnt wanna kick it with a brother or said type of guys. Women and tgirls can vibe them right off the bat.


3.Black men will Rob or rape you

Again, Not true. The probability of that happening is the same as with any other ethnicities. Races/ethnicities cant be drawn in generalization. Maybe alot of people do "THINK" that way..but thats too much assumption on their part. It should always be on "a case to case basis".


All of these streotypes are ridiculous ....And its because of the Badseeds that most have to suffer ...Little do they know they missing out on good money ,and sometimes some good dick

The last statement I agree however because that is true. ANIYAH made very good strong points.

~Kisses.

HTG

[Brideshead]

I Think alot of girls are scared of black men for a Number of streotypes

1.All black men are well in doubt ....Too much work for some.

I disagree. There are white, hispanic, asian, middle eastern men etc. who requires too much work as much as black men. Its case to case basis.


2.If a black man Pays u 200 for that sessions is gonna make sure u work for that money !!When a white man will pay you 200 for the hour and stay for 15 minutes ..

Thats not so true. There are other folks of different ethnicities who are also of that mentality. Not just prevalent to African American men. The thing is a meeting should NOT be built on "pressure" to "BUST" as many nuts one can within a given session..but should be about having a nice time "TOGETHER". If that is the "Mentality" of most brotha's or any men in general.. I wouldnt be surprised why some trannies or women wouldnt wanna kick it with a brother or said type of guys. Women and tgirls can vibe them right off the bat.


3.Black men will Rob or rape you

Again, Not true. The probability of that happening is the same as with any other ethnicities. Races/ethnicities cant be drawn in generalization. Maybe alot of people do "THINK" that way..but thats too much assumption on their part. It should always be on "a case to case basis".


All of these streotypes are ridiculous ....And its because of the Badseeds that most have to suffer ...Little do they know they missing out on good money ,and sometimes some good dick

The last statement I agree however because that is true.

~Kisses.

HTG

I read on another board you prefer white guys.

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

I read on another board you prefer white guys.

Thats true..OPERATIVE WORD "Prefer" tho I didnt say "Exclusive" did I? LOL.

~Kisses.

HTG

[ANIYAH]

ANIYAH wrote:
I Think alot of girls are scared of black men for a Number of streotypes

1.All black men are well in doubt ....Too much work for some.


I disagree. There are white, hispanic, asian, middle eastern men etc. who requires too much work as much as black men. Its case to case basis.

ANIYAH wrote:
2.If a black man Pays u 200 for that sessions is gonna make sure u work for that money !!When a white man will pay you 200 for the hour and stay for 15 minutes ..


Thats not so true. There are other folks of different ethnicities who are also of that mentality. Not just prevalent to African American men. The thing is a meeting should NOT be built on "pressure" to "BUST" as many nuts one can within a given session..but should be about having a nice time "TOGETHER". If that is the "Mentality" of most brotha's or any men in general.. I wouldnt be surprised why some trannies or women wouldnt wanna kick it with a brother or said type of guys. Women and tgirls can vibe them right off the bat.

ANIYAH wrote:
3.Black men will Rob or rape you


Again, Not true. The probability of that happening is the same as with any other ethnicities. Races/ethnicities cant be drawn in generalization. Maybe alot of people do "THINK" that way..but thats too much assumption on their part. It should always be on "a case to case basis".

ANIYAH wrote:
All of these streotypes are ridiculous ....And its because of the Badseeds that most have to suffer ...Little do they know they missing out on good money ,and sometimes some good dick

Umm sis all you did was explain what i said over and more indepth ...That comment wasnt to diagree or agree with anything i said ...Like i said these are sterotypes that are ridulous !!!!

[Brideshead]

I read on another board you prefer white guys.

Thats true..OPERATIVE WORD "Prefer" tho I didnt say "Exclusive" did I? LOL.

~Kisses.

HTG

Prefer or exclusive if you had a choice it would be....?

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

ANIYAH sis..Yes..Thats what I did. LOL. And I agree how you see it or your point of views.;)

~Kisses.

HTG

[ANIYAH]

ANIYAH sis..Yes..Thats what I did. LOL. And I agree how you see it or your point of views.

~Kisses.

Thanks 8)

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

Prefer or exclusive if you had a choice it would be....?

I prefer 1st and foremost that I am into him. If that makes sense? Makes the end result rather pleasurable for both. I cant say "Exclusive" as my taste varies by my daily moods.

Race is non issue. The reason why I said I "Prefer" is because Im being realistic. We all have our preferences in everything from our food, clothes etc. We all got good and bad experiences to affect our decision making. Like some guys "prefer" hispanic, black and or white transexuals over asians. Im not offended by it at all. Ive actually "dated" a brotha before (5 years ago)..Though I didnt like his attitude..That didnt deter me to see any brotha's I find attractive. Again, Attractiveness/beauty is in the eye of a beholder. Sometimes, what others find hot and or attractive I dont find attractive or vice versa.

~Kisses.

HTG

[Ecstatic]

1.All black men are well in doubt ....Too much work for some
Aniyah, I don't know if this was a typo or intentional, but LOL @ "well in doubt" instead of "well endowed"!

Anyway, excellent points. I think everyone is entitled to his/her own preferences, which isn't the same thing as discrimination: Shalaya is entitled to date only black men (sigh for the rest of us, but hey, it's cool) just as HTG is entitled to prefer white guys (though she clearly states "not exclusive"). Personally, I prefer beautiful sexy tgirls who like to have a good time with their partners, whether a client or a boyfriend. ;)

[Brideshead]

Prefer or exclusive if you had a choice it would be....?

I prefer 1st and foremost that I am into him. If that makes sense? Makes the end result rather pleasurable for both. I cant say "Exclusive" as my taste varies by my daily moods.

Race is non issue. The reason why I said I "Prefer" is because Im being realistic. We all have our preferences in everything from our food, clothes etc. We all got good and bad experiences to affect our decision making. Like some guys "prefer" hispanic, black and or white transexuals over asians. Im not offended by it at all. Ive actually "dated" a brotha before (5 years ago)..Though I didnt like his attitude..That didnt deter me to see any brotha's I find attractive. Again, Attractiveness/beauty is in the eye of a beholder. Sometimes, what others find hot and or attractive I dont find attractive or vice versa.

~Kisses.

HTG

It wasn't meant to be a shade. I

[hillbilly]

the girls most definitely try to weed out the black guys. its pretty hard to get a straight answer as to why (as it can be hard to get straight answers from many escorts).

JWB you're a fixture now. They trust you. I think that that is the deal there.

so what's the deal? ignorance i guess.

[ANIYAH]

ANIYAH wrote:
1.All black men are well in doubt ....Too much work for some

Aniyah, I don't know if this was a typo or intentional, but LOL @ "well in doubt" instead of "well endowed"!

Thats was a typo that is what i meant im sorry

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

I know Bridashead. I didnt think of your Q as a SHADE. I think Ive answered your question in an HONEST manner. I dont think preference is a bad thing. Like I prefer my burgers "Well done" or prefer not to eat "Raw" food like sushi. Its like asking me.."Do you prefer a cock to be cut or uncut?" Id say I prefer cut. But will a guy with a cute face a nice bod and an uncut cock stop me? Ofcourse the answer will be NO! LOL. Im sure you dont go for balding, 300lbs trannies? Now would you? LOL.

So lemme ask you this then Brideshead..

Would you do a transvestite/crossdresser who works during the day as a man and who dresses up on at night? Or would you prefer a transexual (TS..been on hormones, got nice hips, round ass, smooth legs, little tits, real long hair etc) who lives 24/7 in and out of the house as a woman?

Which would you prefer?

:D :wink:

~Kisses.

HTG

[Brideshead]

I know Bridashead. I didnt think of your Q as a SHADE. I think Ive answered your question in an HONEST manner. I dont think preference is a bad thing. Like I prefer my burgers "Well done" or prefer not to eat "Raw" food like sushi. Its like asking me.."Do you prefer a cock to be cut or uncut?" Id say I prefer cut. But will a guy with a cute face a nice bod and an uncut cock stop me? Ofcourse the answer will be NO! LOL. Im sure you dont go for balding, 300lbs trannies? Now would you? LOL.

So lemme ask you this then Brideshead..

Would you do a transvestite/crossdresser who works during the day as a man and who dresses up on at night? Or would you prefer a transexual (TS..been on hormones, got nice hips, round ass, smooth legs, little tits, real long hair etc) who lives 24/7 in and out of the house as a woman?

Which would you prefer?

:D :wink:

~Kisses.

HTG

The TS hands down.

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

Okey then Brideshead! I rest my case. :)

~Kisses.

HTG

[Brideshead]

Baby we all have preferences. I wasn't calling you a racist or anything. Ok.

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

Oh I know silly. :lol: I honestly didnt even think that youre implying that. LOL. Its all good hun. You put me on the spot by asking me what youve read somewhere that I said "I prefer" and asked me. To which Ive answered. No offense taken. 8)

~Kisses.

HTG

[BlackAdder]

Your certainly NOT racist because you have a preference...Maybe a littel shortsighted or ignorant if you flat out wont deal with a species but certainly not racist.....

I love how fast people cry racist lol...

[Legend]

Your certainly NOT racist because you have a preference...Maybe a littel shortsighted or ignorant if you flat out wont deal with a species but certainly not racist.....

I love how fast people cry racist lol...

Good point look at r.kelly,he needs too stop peeing on girls!

[BlackAdder]

If I had R.Kelly's money, Id be tempted to pee on girls too lol, Fuck it.....Look how many of the dumb bitches are throwing themselves at his cock, heh..

[tsluva]

have seen this type of discussion elsewhere and always said why should tgirls be any different than the general populace. It does not surprise me, but you would think that the discrimination that most tgirls receieve would make them more empathetic to Af/AM. That being said, I am black and have visited several tgirls and have had only one say something but we did do the deed.

It's like anything else in life if that one doesn't work there is always another right around the corner, so I don't let that stuff bother me too much. Their loss not mine. Now some of us brothers have given many the bad rap by trying not to pay, bargin the girls down, being abusive, and stuff like that, so some of the girls probably have had a bad experience. To me they should just screen each guy individually and not blanketly reject some of us hot, hung and true admirers and lovers of tgirls. "Can't we all just get along"........


i've also heard this discussions and experiences a lot now .
sometimes i often wonder if it depends on the geographical places
( new york, miami , california ) more than other locations
of course discrimination is all over , but could it be that
some local areas
in cities experience it a great deal more than others.


i've exchanged emails from various trannies in London ,
who tell me very little
discrimination goes on as compared to as much as it goes
on here in the States.


i do know that many of the local tgirls i have so far encountered
personally here in Dallas , tell me that they have no problem with
seeing black clients in Dallas.


who knows what reasons these girls might have expressed for
declining to see black men as previously mentioned
( fear of physical abusive, games, money -pinching , etc. )

yet i, too continue to be shocked that transexuals , who
are widely and relentlessly discriminated against
in the everyday world , feel so compelled
to be equally prejudice against other minorities.


what i find of irony that tends to make matters worse is
having to responsed
to thread discussions after exposing these type
of prejudice actions as i've heard arguments
from other posters on other message boards
that try to condone their actions and feelings
as " protective " as
they exclusively declined to see black men.

IMO, it only spells the insecurity and self- esteem problems
many of these type of girls continue to have.

they have to try to target, single out and lower
another group of people to make
themselves " feel " secure and superior.
oh well, as long as ' those types ' are low enough in numbers
and there are still a plenty of interesting , quality tgirls who
don't mind racial/cultural differences .

[tsbrenda]

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A bigot is a prejudiced person who is intolerant of any opinions differing from their own.

Bigot is often used as pejorative term against a person who is obstinately devoted to their prejudices even when these prejudices are challenged, often engaging these prejudices in a rude and intolerant manner. Forms of bigotry may have a related ideology, like racism, religion, and nationalism.

Bigotry is not "intolerance," but "unreasonable intolerance". For example, some Jews may be intolerant of Nazi Anti-Semitism; that doesn't necessarily make them anti-Nazi bigots.

A bigot will continue to hold these opinions even when confronted with evidence that challenges such stereotypes. To protect his views, he may either dismiss the challenges he encounters as an aberration to the norm and ignore the fact that they threaten to undercut his prejudices. On a more extreme level, he may deny the evidence altogether. Both reactions can be classified as forms of cognitive dissonance.

BIGOT was also a D-Day codeword, defining ultra top-secret clearance required to know details of the landing plans. Those with this knowledge were called "BIGOTed".


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fanaticism
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religiocentrism
zealotry
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[*Kiely_Marie*]

This is interesting! ... Is this why alot of blk men hit me up and say ... You dont date blk men right!?

Im like I love blk men ...

They always ask me this question!

[jamans]

Put a little different twist into this thread....I am a white guy who just is not interested in black girls (GG or TS) with a few notable exceptions. Am I racist for thiking that black women just don't get me excited? Big Butts, for me, just don't seem to be the holy grail that some people present them to be. Ok, I know not all blacks have huge asses, some of them have GIGANTC dongs...... More than I can realistically deal with. The big dick arguement really kicks in whe the girls face is show...no appeal what-so-ever,,,,

Yet I have been with asian girls & would do that again. Their features turn me on. I am also dating a member of the Tribe of Israel...just showing some of my ethnic diveristy.

[jamans]

I just dont see myself dating anyone thats not black.Is that why I have so many relationship problems? To be honest im like really scared of white men.They just think they can control you cuz they got money.I think thats the problem.I dont think Escorts dont like black men, I just think they like green men more.LOL

could be a interesting point there for the escorts....

What race group tends to tip the best??

[seanj]

its funny how everytime i look up in this board this girl is makin the same dumb ass ignorant comments...talkin bout anything interacial is nasty, repulsive, ect....give me a fuckin break....i think a 18 year old dude in a wig is nasty and repulsive but i'm not up here postin bout it every day.

[BlackAdder]

"To be honest im like really scared of white men.They just think they can control you cuz they got money."


Wtf are you talking about???? LOL....How would you know if youve never dated one? Or an Asian or a Spaniard???. Hell, I dated a black girl for 3 years and I would STILL say I dont know much about your typical black woman.

Let me clue you in dear, ANYONE you date seriously is going to want a little control over the relationship; That doesnt mean you have to be a sub for him 24/7. Unless your looking for a Sugar Daddy, then yes, your ass better come a-runnin when he wants it to. But I dont *think* thats the type of situation your looking for.

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

I don't know if this was a typo or intentional, but LOL @ "well in doubt" instead of "well endowed"!

LOL :lol:


Anyway, excellent points. I think everyone is entitled to his/her own preferences, which isn't the same thing as discrimination: Shalaya is entitled to date only black men (sigh for the rest of us, but hey, it's cool) just as HTG is entitled to prefer white guys (though she clearly states "not exclusive").

Thankyou Ecstatic. :wink:


Your certainly NOT racist because you have a preference...Maybe a littel shortsighted or ignorant if you flat out wont deal with a species but certainly not racist.....

I love how fast people cry racist lol...

Yeah I know. LOL. Which I am NOT! Far from being shortsighted or ignorant. 8) Thanks BlackAdder.

~Kisses.

HTG

[Perverted Monk]

[quote="ANIYAH"]
All of these streotypes are ridiculous ....And its because of the Badseeds that most have to suffer ...Little do they know they missing out on good money ,and sometimes some good dick
[quote]


Quoted for empahsis :)

[willib]

Is it true that TS Prue in LA refuses to date Black men?

[TomSelis]

I'd said this before. If a chick doesn't like you because of whatever, it's better to get it out of the way early than have her string you along.

If they don't like or "prefer" black men, to hell with them. There's plenty of girls that do.

[thugsation]

Is it true that TS Prue in LA refuses to date Black men?

She got a manly face anyway.

[thugsation]

mug

[tsbrenda]

I HEAR GG'S AND TS/TV WANTING AND REQUESTING BLACK MALES ALL the time and some black men have money some don't as well some white males have money and some don't.


FADE THE STEREOTYPES>>>>>>..........

[thugsation]

Brothas are mad cause this beast don't see black men? Please. There be hundreds of other chicks hotter than this.

[thugsation]

EWWWWWWWWWWW I think its the dick cuz he mug is shot

Some brothas just got no taste.
I can't help but laugh at niggas payin for ass.

[drock]

I don't think it's so much as them not finding black men attractive so much as being a ts prostitute is just a business like any other thing. Many White, Asian, and even some Black GG hookers and transsexuals have been conditioned to stay the far away from black men because it's harder to get paid dating them, and two because most white men are really generous or should I say bigger suckers, so it's just easier to get over on them.

[AllanahStarrNYC]

:roll:

these are the types of posters that usually respond to these kind of post-

The Angry Poster
ex. transsexuals hate black men- and i am mad about it

The Philisophical Posterex.
ex. no transsexuals, don't hate black men, they just won't see most of them as clients

The Expert Poster
ex. no, i am a transsexual, and i see all kinds of people

The "I know nothing-I'm just babbling" Poster
Ex. it has nothing to do with being black, white men are just "dumbmer" and will pay for an escort- while a lot of black men are smarter and won't

The Peace Seeking Poster
Ex. Everyone has their own prefferences and likes.

It basically is the same shit said a million times in these stupid types of posts over and over again.

[drock]

:roll:

I hope you're not rolling them eyes at me baby.. 8)

[Sinister]

i've been seeing opinions on the board for awhile that give inisght into both arguments. I'm black and I know that some girls (especially on eros) will either hang up the minute they hear your voice or just say "I don't date black men" in rude manner, hang up and refuse to pick up the phone. Like someone mentioned earlier with as much discrimination as there is out there you would figure that people (not just ts) would be more open minded PERIOD. But I guess it doesn't always work like that. :roll:

I just don't believe it's fair to sterotype a whole race and one (or maybe a few) bad experiences. I've had a bad experience with a ts once but that doesn't mean that all ts of that race or a whole are like that. So i think respect should be shown on both ends. But one thing that I have noticed is that the tgirls that I have come in contact with who say they don't date black men, are black themselves. Its ok to have your own taste and I feel there is nothing wrong with that, but I think people should actually have a valid reason to back themselves up instead just going by what they hear, word of mouth. idk thas just my opinion.

[drock]

I just stick to the fine as sista and latina tranzs. That's where I spend my money and time with. I avoid a lot of hassle this way. I am a black man pretty new to the game but I am no fool. If a white tranz stepped to me at a club or something, I will holla back, see what see is like. But as far as escorts, no way. Time is money. I think an escort should put in ther add if they don't do 'certain' people. That way 'certain' people can look elsewhere.

Good idea and that way they're not wasting a potential clients time or theirs. I think common sense is something that a lot of people just dont have.

[BlackAdder]

Well stated Sinister....

Unfortunetly from the girls I used to drive, the problems with species start after the 2nd or 3rd bad experience and then they start listing things on there "Rap sheet" as we liked to call it....The list of things the girl wouldnt do on a call or what type of guy they would see. A few bad apples really do ruin it for everyone...sucks real bad, and i remember how angry ive gotten at the guilt by association thing when ive been the victim of it (All the men on this board are Scumbags-Shalaya) but thems the brakes my friend.

[speck]

Well those talking about just a general negative view of black guys seeking escorts are correct. Even lots of black pimps tell their girls not to get with black guys.

But one thing everyone is forgetting is that most of the girls you see on eros were born in Mexico or elsewhere in South America and lived there a good portion of their lives. Racial views are quite different than in the United States and open racism and discrimination, particularly against blacks, is very common. I'm not going to go into what those views are...they are wrong and to write about them would be unecessary for the purposes of this post. But the views do exist and are so much more common than in the United States.

So it does not surprise me at all that many of the latina ts will not see black guys.

[dj4monie]

Forget US based Escorts, take your arse down to South America...

Forget US based Women, take your arse anywhere but HERE...

Get out, see the world.

Only the Euro is worth more than the US Dollar and that means your money goes further, especially in South America and Eastern Europe.

You want T's, go down to Brazil and don't forget the GG's down there too.

I"ll be going down myself after Carvinval (best and most expensive time to go) and I fully expect this to be the best decision I have made concerning my social life.

I have been shown the path and its everything they have said it was.

Brothas get out of the US, trust me. You can live here if you want and I will always live here, but finding p*ssy here is OUT OF THE QUESTION. Your appreacated more elsewhere.

Argentinan T*

http://i2.photobucket.com/albums/y20/djfourmoney/Milli.jpg

Rio based T*

http://www.chantily.com.br/riodejaneiro/bonecas.htm

In Sao Paulo they come in -

Lemon (Asian/Mesticas), Carmel (Morenas), Blonde (Vanilla) and even Cherry (Redhead)

http://www.chantily.com.br/saopaulo/bonecas/bonecasaopaulo.htm

They use to say go WEST young man, now its GO SOUTH or EAST Young man.

The information is out there....

[Daebo]

When is the racism ever going to end.

[WendyWilliams]

interesting!

[tsluva]

:roll:

these are the types of posters that usually respond to these kind of post-

The Angry Poster
ex. transsexuals hate black men- and i am mad about it

The Philisophical Posterex.
ex. no transsexuals, don't hate black men, they just won't see most of them as clients

The Expert Poster
ex. no, i am a transsexual, and i see all kinds of people

The "I know nothing-I'm just babbling" Poster
Ex. it has nothing to do with being black, white men are just "dumbmer" and will pay for an escort- while a lot of black men are smarter and won't

The Peace Seeking Poster
Ex. Everyone has their own prefferences and likes.

It basically is the same shit said a million times in these stupid types of posts over and over again.



i actually hope this type of topic keeps coming up the
more i think about it.

one of the problems is that our society just isn't cultural diversed
and there's a failure to understand differences.

is there a personal preference,.. or is a personal agenda?

you may see it as pure repeated bitching, but there could be
helpful to these type of discussions
this could help bring a better understanding from the view of
a client as well the provider.

[Daebo]

A wise black man told me this:

White man corrupted we the wrong race to fuck with.

[a994]

Is it true that TS Prue in LA refuses to date Black men?

From what I've read on this board she's not that client-friendly with white men either.

But of course some men will still insist on seeing her (and a few other certain escorts with similar personality quirks) because of certain physical endowments.

To each his own but sometimes you really do get what you pay for.

[RangeHova]

I have been all over the US and have never had this problem. Still, I know of the problem all to well from the girls that I personally know that either don't date Black guys or prefer to date white guys.

Sure, it is based in generalities. When you work a job like escorting you need to go on instincts and generalities, some which may sound silly. This ain't retail sales. Hey, from what the girls tell me white guys (in most cases) make the best tricks, old white guys make even better tricks. I even hear that from girls that do date Black men. On some levels, girls like men that they can control a bit more.

A lot of girls that escort who will shun a Black trick are the same girls that only date Black men in thier personal lives, girls that would not dream of dating a white guy outside of a sex for money situation.

Bruthas, stop going places where you aren't wanted. There are plenty of Black clubs and hang out spots where you will be more than welcome. Living in Atlanta, living in the south, it is almost unheard of to hear a brutha with these kinds of complaints.

My west doast friends say that a single Black man that is openly willing to date a TS is a prized possesion. You have some of the most beautiful tgirls fighting over these guys. The problem is, a lot of times once theses guys get on the scene and it gets known that they are open to openly date TS women they go running for the Latinas and Asian girls that throw themselves at the bruthas.

[BrendaQG]

Actually to be honest. In my personal experience transsexuals here in Chicago can rely on black men being interested in them and the interest is generally returned. In terms of either a real relationship or just a date. Irregardless of the race of the girl that is so.

(Yes I am the so called "expert" so sue me.)

As far as real relationships are concerned.... interracial relationships are always more complicated.

[suzannaTV]

Personally I don`t get why some TS/TV girls, don`t want to be with black males..I mean, what`s not to like?? I am a white TV(transitioning) who thinks there is NOTHING hotter than a black man with a hard body and a huge cock! And yes, those I have been with, knew just how to treat a lady...

[tsfarrah]

well I like guys of all races and my bf of 7years is black

so no hating here

I guess every one is entitled to their own view but personally I cant see whats so wrong about anyone from any race

all races have people that let their race down

so people shouldent be put into one catagory

xx