Fall in love to a client?

[alyssats]

How to avoid this? I think i fall in love to a client ive been thinking of him all night and cant get to sleep. Until now im thinking of him and like him so much. I just want him to be with me now and all day and in bed huggling each other sleeping. Goshhh his just so sweetie and yummy im so missing him now :sadcry

Nooooo im so fucked!!!

[Donkey]

handsome guy...does he know you are posting his pic for the world to see?

[alyssats]

handsome guy...does he know you are posting his pic for the world to see?

owww those pics are not him, those are my previouss boy toys lol :jerkoff

yes they are proud to be with me all over forever ;)

[SofiaBellez]

you are kinda breaking the rules to the game.

[alyssats]

No Laws. No Limits. One Rule. Never Fall In Love.

[Jericho]

Tell him you never know what can happen

A better than average guess......

http://joelygolightly.files.wordpress.com/2009/06/road-runner-1.jpg

[kensterling]

That happened to me with one of my female clients several years back. It was cool at first but then she went psycho. It is hard for people out of the biz to deal with out business. I recommend against it, but burnt hand teaches best! Good Luck, A.

[Wordzy]

Tell him(in a none desperate/psycho sounding way) how you feel.

Whoever he is, he's a very lucky man.:)

[LibertyHarkness]

simple dont see him again .. problem solved .. i know i know i am heartless :) cruel to be kind as they say

[raiku9909]

I'd say for it Alyssa--he's a lucky guy, and you really don't have anything to lose.

[giovanni_hotel]

It's too bad that you fell in love and didn't want to, but I would never TRY not to fall in love(!)

Be thankful you're still familiar with that emotion!! IMO you probably are crushing on him/infatuated, not really 'in love', but hey, I don't really know the details of the situation.

[DL_NL]

Tough call... I'd advise against it, but what do you do about love? I've had to rationalize love away myself a couple of times when it wasn't a good idea and it won't make you happy.

You sound like a lovely girl and you're beautiful, so the guy gets a good deal. Whatever you do, choose what'll make you happy long term, not for a short while.

[Richctdude]

lucky guy:)

[daltx_m]

Just tell him you're going to quit charging him and I bet he will want to sleep with you all you want.

[scroller]

One way or another, you probably need to stop seeing him as a client. But, no one ever takes my advice.

[bulldog]

Well let me ask you this? Do you want to stop seeing him as a client? If you get into a relationship with him would he be understanding that you would still want to escort (do you?)? If he is not wanting you to be an escort, are you willing to give that up? And finally last but not least, what does your heart tell you?

No one can really tell you what to do in these things, everyone's situation is a unique one, only you really have all the facts, even if you don't think you do, so my only *advice* is, sit on it for a little while before deciding, do what feels right to you not to anyone else, but give it time, there is no rushing life :)

If you need anyone to talk to, or just an ear to listen, hit me up on skype or yahoo darlin.

Hope this helps hun,
Ben

[MrF]

"Once a trick always a trick", as they say. Best to avoid getting tangled with a client.

It's funny you should mention this problem, because it "halfway" happened to me with a TG escort, but I wouldn't say we were in love -- more like a combination of mutual lust, friendship, and empathy. Love is something much deeper in my opinion. Anyway, I still know her after 6 years and we see each other occasionally but not as often as before. And, yes, I still give her money. Well, she needs the money. Interesting girl, somewhat under the radar, and with very mixed feelings about the biz.

[BeardedOne]

Now you know how we feel when we fall for a 'working girl'. :/ Good luck, however you decide to follow your heart. Just be careful, as broken hearts don't patch well.

[britneymarkham]

i think ive mett him before he looks familiar

[tsdvdman]

If you are still charging him then it probably isn't love but a deep lust and you really like him a lot, and he just does it for you in many ways. You are very beautiful and it seems successful at what you are doing. So, if there was one guy who was the exception to the rule, who was special to you in ways that are outside the normall client/provider relationship,,you would not charge him but rather take that time to feel special and get your needs met. It woudln't take away from the many other clients you have but it might open up the door for other possibilities that you are obviously thinking and fantasing about.

[tao1kiku]

If you do love hom (or are falling in love) then have a long talk with him. See if the feeling is mutual. Try real dating, dinner, drinks, movies, meet his friends and no sex on the first few dates to see how he really is and if he's cool being with you in public.

But be prepared to think about giving up the profession, many guys would ahve a problejm dating someone knowing that a good number of phone calls you're getting are clients wanting to see you.

And be HONEST! (Having been on the other side of the coin and falling in love with a provider who knew it was happening, she wasn't 100% honest and it really messed things up)

[BLKGSXR]

i think ive mett him before he looks familiar
you were just high lol

my .02 cents is that don't do it because firstly they Paid for the time and companionship blah blah all they want is sex so they treat you like a piece of meat.
Secondly, you havent met yogi2002 lol- you did say you jerked four times to his picture lol.:twisted::soapbox

[alyssats]

Just tell him you're going to quit charging him and I bet he will want to sleep with you all you want.

best sex i had are no money involved fukcsss

i love it! pure heaven uhmmm :jerkoff

[alyssats]

thanks for the advise sweeties i got dumped again :sadcry

life is so unfair! why cant i have a boyfriend!

FUKC me now!!! lol :jerkoff

[DL_NL]

If you were a little closer... :)

[AlwaysAda]

hmm i dont see it.. that first boy is cuuuuute

[CaptainPlanet]

how hard is it to block the emotional connection, escpecially when you and a john click and the sex was amazing! I couldnt imagine the feeling, i know good sex is prob 1-10 in this business but when it does happen, it must be hard, to resist lust.