Shemale porn and its effects

[papprikka]

Been a lurker all this while but decided to post this weird query I had. Not looking for a label-fight or a big serious debate, just trying to see if any guys here have felt the same way.

I got hooked onto shemale porn sometime in 2002-03. Danny Evangelista was the one :lol: Such a feminine petite tgirl, she made the transition from regular porn to shemale porn as smooth as a hot knife running through butter! Obviously my tastes evolved and went through all the normal phases of of t-girl admirer; had a big ladyboy phase thrown in the mix for variety. I've always had a preference for the usual tgirl scene where the guy tops and the girl bottoms.

So for almost 7 years now I've been into that kind of shemale porn, have shared my tastes with my close friends and even converted a couple of them over onto this side.

All was well until a few months back when I noticed I had started relating more to the tgurl on screen than the dude :? :oops:
How many have shared this feeling even if it has been a passing thought? I've almost stopped watching tgirl porn these days as I just switch and start relating to what the girl in the movie would be feeling; be it going down on a guy or bottoming :( It's certainly weird and is creeping me out!! HELP!

[texastanite]

I met this guy that told me that same thing, he always picture himself as the girl. I think its because you guys like to be Dominated because you prob. play a very dominate role in your everyday life. That are you just Crave hard dick like a high school slut

[giovanni_hotel]

Naw, I can't really relate to the role reversal.

But clearly there are others who feel just like you do on this board.

However and whatever you feel while watching tranny porn, it's a safe bet you aren't the ONLY one.

[evilernie]

I know that I had fantasies about being topped by a tgirl. My only suggestion is to fight it. If you start accepting it, then it's already too late.

[tomvan20000]

I've yet to relate to the tgirl, but after dating a transsexual for a year now, i think i'm almost to the point of sucking her dick

[whatsupwithat]

There's nothing wrong with what you're feeling. Probably most men have had similar thoughts cross their minds. Just like most women have had the reverse thoughts go through their minds. Some choose to follow through on those thoughts, others don't. And, even then, many that do follow through find out that the fantasy they've had in their minds is not the reality.

I don't know if I'm making sense, but, uhm, yeah...that's all I have. :)

[hippifried]

What's the difference? Either way, you're still focusing on a dick.

[giovanni_hotel]

I've yet to relate to the tgirl, but after dating a transsexual for a year now, i think i'm almost to the point of sucking her dick

YOU are a selfish mother fucker.
Just saying. :wink:

[Odelay]

There's nothing wrong with what you're feeling. Probably most men have had similar thoughts cross their minds. Just like most women have had the reverse thoughts go through their minds. Some choose to follow through on those thoughts, others don't. And, even then, many that do follow through find out that the fantasy they've had in their minds is not the reality.

I don't know if I'm making sense, but, uhm, yeah...that's all I have. :)

Hey, welcome back, E.

As to the topic, I think porn is just naturally confusing. You start off looking at just solo girlie pics and that's stimulative enough. But as you graduate to watching a guy fuck a girl, you're sort of forced to contend with the fact that you're looking at another guy's cock. Eventually you start getting off on closeups of that other guy's cock throat fucking or ass fucking the girl, or spurting cum all over her face, where the cock is 50% of the screen. Then you realize that you don't have a problem with the cock on screen, nor do you really have a problem if the girl has a cock. Eventually you wonder what that girl's cock would feel like in your mouth. And, finally, you begin to wonder what it would feel like in your butt.

I wouldn't worry about it. And just because you're getting off on thoughts about the t-girl (and what she's feeling) doesn't make you a stark raving cockhound. You can draw a line at thinking about being a bottom while you're watching porn, but avoid bottoming in your real life.

[BrassVillanueva]

I'd have to agree with Odelay, but I'll also add this: don't confuse the idea of considering what the girl is feeling with the idea that you'd want to BE the girl herself, feeling the same thing. For example, no matter what kind of porn I'm watching, I'm always more interested in the woman's pleasure than the man's. Even if I'm reading an erotic story, I'm more concerned with the girl's satisfaction. That's simply because of my personality: I put others before myself, and both in and out of the realm of sex, it genuinely gives me joy to bring joy to other people.

I identify with the man in the scene, but I want to see him making sure the woman is being satisfied instead of being used as just some living, breathing fuck toy. That's probably why I just don't enjoy porn as much as I used to, because that's the prevalent attitude in just about any scene you watch today.

I can easily see how one might confuse a genuine concern for the girl's pleasure with wanting to BE the girl in question, but it's not the same thing. Just a point of clarification. And if it IS the case that you've been confusing the two, don't worry, there's nothing wrong with empathizing with the girl. In fact, I've found most women find that to be a very, very admirable and desirable trait!

[alpha2117]

There are dudes in them?

Sorry I never noticed. Str8 porn or Tg porn I truly barely notice any guy in it. I just kind of blank that out.

[papprikka]

First off glad to know I am not the only one... and good points raised by brass, odelay and whatsup!

I've tried many things, but the only way I can 'feel' straight now while enjoying some porn is to watch just normal guy on girl videos. So much as even a hint of a chick-with-dick and I start imagining things :( Need a break from this I guess

[archineer]

God talk about issues.......... why do you guys get hung up on such things?

[GullyFoyle]

Oy. The only reason why this thread wasn't a complete waste of time was BrassVillanueva's avatar. It made me LOL.

[cantos03]

The tgirl, and it worries me a little (probably because of how I think of myself/"identify" my sexuality).

[Merkurie]

Why do guys worry so much about their sexuality? Sex is fun and if someone turns you on thats a good thing.

Being attracted to other girls dosnt bother girls, why should it be any different with guys? As for Tgirls well who knows you might have some latent gender issues yourself and the thought that you could be or have been a tgirl is arousing.

Having a man's dick (or a womans') inside you is OK. Dont beat yourself up over it.

[TSLoverUK999]

Why do guys worry so much about their sexuality? Sex is fun and if someone turns you on thats a good thing.

Being attracted to other girls dosnt bother girls, why should it be any different with guys? As for Tgirls well who knows you might have some latent gender issues yourself and the thought that you could be or have been a tgirl is arousing.

Having a man's dick (or a womans') inside you is OK. Dont beat yourself up over it.

EXACTLY :P

[papprikka]

Why do guys worry so much about their sexuality? Sex is fun and if someone turns you on thats a good thing.

Being attracted to other girls dosnt bother girls, why should it be any different with guys? As for Tgirls well who knows you might have some latent gender issues yourself and the thought that you could be or have been a tgirl is arousing.

Having a man's dick (or a womans') inside you is OK. Dont beat yourself up over it.

Wish it were that casual an occurrence. The poll says most people here relate to the tgirl, that was an eye opener 8)

Glad to know I am in the majority at least :D

[farang]

You are all a bunch of shirt lifters.

[Aqua_Drexel]

i prefer transsexual porn over any porn just like i prefer tgirls over all, i have no shame in admitting i love sucking cock and getting fucked, but that doesn't effect my love for anal and getting my cock sucked.

[Olivialove]

Why do guys worry so much about their sexuality? Sex is fun and if someone turns you on thats a good thing.

Being attracted to other girls dosnt bother girls, why should it be any different with guys? As for Tgirls well who knows you might have some latent gender issues yourself and the thought that you could be or have been a tgirl is arousing.

Having a man's dick (or a womans') inside you is OK. Dont beat yourselfup over it. its the stupid "Labeling" issue that they re paranoid about.. they freak out when they really like it and behave like a bunch of coward til they build up the guts to approach the subject in approiate manner

[terry60_82]

Not just TG porn from the time I discovered porn I identified with the girls even GG.

[boris58]

I don't give any thought to it. I like when the girl looks good and feminine. (Doll, Vanity and Nomi X) The thrill is seeing how they are enjoying themselves and the fact that some of them looks better than the real GGs.

[gotchagood]

Fantasies are called that for a reason.

[archineer]

It's no wonder why so many tgirls are perpetualy single......

[SinthiaTV]

I myself went from guy + gg porn --> guy + tgirl porn (identifying with guy) --> guy + tgirl porn (identifying with girl) --> dressing up in real life.

And you know what? It's been very liberating. The hardest thing was getting over the male stigma of doing anything remotely ghey.

When I started telling my guy friends that I liked to dress up, *every single one* admitted to trying on lingerie in the past or liking t-girl porn on occasion.

So lighten up. Human sexuality is like a dimmer switch, not a light switch. And if you're not putting things in your butt to tickle your prostate on occasion, you're missing out on the best orgasms ever!