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Hara_Juku Tgirl
11-25-2009, 12:43 AM
Um ok so we have guys who don't like to suck dicks..

then we have girls who hate their dicks..

QUESTION: How would you convince a guy to suck your dick and or how would you convince a tgirl to let you suck hers?

lol

Any bright ideas? or techniques you used?

~Kisses.

HTG

tsHillary
11-25-2009, 12:44 AM
meh, pretty horrible to force unwanted intimacy. mutual enjoyment is the only way to go.

LibertyHarkness
11-25-2009, 12:47 AM
horse tranqulisers would work well i guess :)

rockabilly
11-25-2009, 12:48 AM
I hear money is a good incentive. :shrug:

Odelay
11-25-2009, 12:48 AM
I like thai peanut sauce on just about anything. You might try that first.

Hara_Juku Tgirl
11-25-2009, 12:49 AM
meh, pretty horrible to force unwanted intimacy. mutual enjoyment is the only way to go.

I agree. Mutual consent is far better than coerced. Though this situations does exist for both men and tgirls.

;)

~Kisses.

HTG

Hara_Juku Tgirl
11-25-2009, 12:51 AM
I hear money is a good incentive. :shrug:

No take that out and any drugs even pot out of the equation..so what do you do?

lol

~Kisses.

HTG

yodajazz
11-25-2009, 12:52 AM
Say, please. You'd be surprised how many people like a polite request.

rockabilly
11-25-2009, 12:57 AM
Yoda is wise "Please must you say"

If she really doesn't want it , then i'll respect her enough to not push the subject.

sugdaddie69
11-25-2009, 01:25 AM
Sometimes please won't work and the Dom side has to cum out,get her hot and bothered and at the peak,take her dick....gobble..gobble

flabbybody
11-25-2009, 01:33 AM
if you let on to a t that you're interested in her thang, you're a cooked goose. she's got u labeled as a trick, chaser, fag.. substitute whatever word u wish.
she won't say that but that's what she's thinking imho

rockabilly
11-25-2009, 01:37 AM
But if you're interested in her than it is a part of her , so it's gotta come up in the relationship.

tsHillary
11-25-2009, 01:39 AM
if you let on to a t that you're interested in her thang, you're a cooked goose. she's got u labeled as a trick, chaser, fag.. substitute whatever word u wish.
she won't say that but that's what she's thinking imho

Personally, if a guy comes to me claiming that they aren't interested in my thing, I see that as much more of a red flag.

An authentic, maybe slightly gay guy is better than a liar.

flabbybody
11-25-2009, 01:52 AM
But if you're interested in her than it is a part of her , so it's gotta come up in the relationship.

you have to go very slowly and then make believe you can take it or leave it. it's all a big game

fred41
11-25-2009, 01:52 AM
Um ok so we have guys who don't like to suck dicks..

then we have girls who hate their dicks..

QUESTION: How would you convince a guy to suck your dick and or how would you convince a tgirl to let you suck hers?

lol

Any bright ideas? or techniques you used?

~Kisses.

HTG

Hmmmm..are you talking quick hook-up..or relationship ?

CaptainGeech
11-25-2009, 01:56 AM
Well if she cant accept me for who I am or what I like about her than its probably not meant to be.

dc_guy_75
11-25-2009, 01:58 AM
When girls have an erection in the morning, its fun to surprise them with a gentle blowjob (as they wake up).

giovanni_hotel
11-25-2009, 02:12 AM
Um ok so we have guys who don't like to suck dicks..

then we have girls who hate their dicks..

QUESTION: How would you convince a guy to suck your dick and or how would you convince a tgirl to let you suck hers?

lol

Any bright ideas? or techniques you used?

~Kisses.

HTG

I don't think I would need much convincing from an eager girl to go down on her, if she asked nicely, or maybe not so nice! :twisted:

Hara_Juku Tgirl
11-25-2009, 02:43 AM
Um ok so we have guys who don't like to suck dicks..

then we have girls who hate their dicks..

QUESTION: How would you convince a guy to suck your dick and or how would you convince a tgirl to let you suck hers?

lol

Any bright ideas? or techniques you used?

~Kisses.

HTG

Hmmmm..are you talking quick hook-up..or relationship ?

Um, lets say both. Would you have two different answers? lol

~Kisses.

HTG

fred41
11-25-2009, 03:24 AM
Um ok so we have guys who don't like to suck dicks..

then we have girls who hate their dicks..

QUESTION: How would you convince a guy to suck your dick and or how would you convince a tgirl to let you suck hers?

lol

Any bright ideas? or techniques you used?

~Kisses.

HTG

Hmmmm..are you talking quick hook-up..or relationship ?

Um, lets say both. Would you have two different answers? lol

~Kisses.

HTG

..well the answer might be similar ..but the waiting period would differ..lol.

The oral part wouldn't be an issue so much at first..the issue would be if I couldn't touch it at all.(since she hates it so much).

If that were the case in a hook-up..I would probably never see her again after we were done.
..but relationships are different. When you have strong feelings for someone, the rules change- you become more patient. I would convince her over time that it is O.K. to be touched on her genitals ...that it doesn't matter that she doesn't want them- they are still a part of her and since I love her ..I love all of her.Little by little..I would touch them more and more..being patient and caressing her and seeing where that would , over time, eventually take us. At some point..she might eventually open up enough to let me kiss it and put it in my mouth. Once she felt comfortable enough..perhaps she'd enjoy it and it wouldn't be a problem (some people do things with people they love that they wouldn't admit to the rest of the world)..or she might have me do it sometimes because she knew that I'd enjoy it...hell, I've let partners in the past do stuff that I didn't really get any kick out of ..but they enjoyed it ..so that was good enough for me.

..in the long run..if she never let me suck it..that would be O.K. cause there are soooo many other things you can do in the bedroom..as long as she doesn't have too many other hang-ups (I'm an oral type guy..she's gonna have to let me kiss and suck everything else though..lol)....but if she never let me touch it and I had to act like it wasn't there..then that's a deal breaker...cause I can't be with someone that insecure forever...it would be annoying.

fred41
11-25-2009, 03:28 AM
..this problem has never really come up before though ..so I guess I'm lucky.

rockabilly
11-25-2009, 03:31 AM
I'm taking notes.

blacktgirls
11-25-2009, 03:51 AM
Um ok so we have guys who don't like to suck dicks..

then we have girls who hate their dicks..

QUESTION: How would you convince a guy to suck your dick and or how would you convince a tgirl to let you suck hers?

lol

Any bright ideas? or techniques you used?

~Kisses.

HTGfor movie night , you put in this dvd and introduce her to the pleasures of TS's receiving blowjobs :D

sugdaddie69
11-25-2009, 04:02 AM
Trade her in....

hiwatt1000
11-25-2009, 04:08 AM
...been back out dating-and this very topic came up. I was told to come nowhere near it...don't touch me there. I gave up on fuckin' around with folks that aren't reality based...[damn, I think I just left myself wide open here]

Hara_Juku Tgirl
11-25-2009, 04:11 AM
Trade her in....

Hahaha..good one! :lol:

~Kisses.

HTG

LAGent4ts
11-25-2009, 05:16 AM
Might make sense to have discussed what each other likes and does not like before heading to the Ooooo Zone or it could be a short ride. Bottom line, one must respect the likes and dislikes of the people they are with. Being more receptive to that which one does not really enjoy sometimes becomes a bit more flexible with people who care about one another over time.

Odelay
11-25-2009, 05:20 AM
Conversation can be a really hot part of the build up toward sex. Talking about likes or even dislikes can be a turn on. Knowing what fetishes your partner or future partner might have can make the sex more fun and longer lasting. I've had gf's in the past who didn't exactly thrill to the idea of performing oral on me. But once we talked it through and she knew I wasn't going to blow in her mouth, she became a lot more relaxed about it and learned to enjoy it. Hara, the situation you describe precludes 69, and for me... that would be a damn shame. If you take away the stigma of one person performing oral on the other, and instead see it as two people giving to one another equally, it becomes a lot more intimate.

Hara_Juku Tgirl
11-25-2009, 06:30 AM
Um ok so we have guys who don't like to suck dicks..

then we have girls who hate their dicks..

QUESTION: How would you convince a guy to suck your dick and or how would you convince a tgirl to let you suck hers?

lol

Any bright ideas? or techniques you used?

~Kisses.

HTGfor movie night , you put in this dvd and introduce her to the pleasures of TS's receiving blowjobs :D

Very romantic! lol ;)

~Kisses.

HTG

RoosterCogburn
12-15-2009, 03:41 AM
I hear money is a good incentive. :shrug:

No take that out and any drugs even pot out of the equation..so what do you do?

lol

~Kisses.

HTG

Take money, drugs, and alcohol out of the equation and my balls stay very dry.

bellamy
12-15-2009, 04:46 AM
Um ok so we have guys who don't like to suck dicks..

then we have girls who hate their dicks..

QUESTION: How would you convince a guy to suck your dick and or how would you convince a tgirl to let you suck hers?

lol

Any bright ideas? or techniques you used?

~Kisses.

HTG


OK OK I'll suck your dick!! Geez Don't beg :wink:

youshouldtrythislol
12-15-2009, 05:21 AM
never been in this situation. never been with a 't'girl.

though what a young lady has between her legs is the least of my worries. she has to have a great personality.

-suo
12-15-2009, 05:57 AM
Slip her a Viagra. When she cant figure out why she has a raging hard on tell you have a way of getting rid of it.

sheyum
12-15-2009, 08:23 PM
fuck the whole thing and go back to GGs

they wont complain about you going down on them


too fucking complicated!!!

Hara_Juku Tgirl
12-15-2009, 09:43 PM
Slip her a Viagra. When she cant figure out why she has a raging hard on tell you have a way of getting rid of it.

You would really do that? That's very wicked! :lol:

~Kisses.

HTG

NjTranceAddict
12-15-2009, 11:43 PM
This thread is hysterical. :)

slingblade
05-17-2011, 01:43 PM
as long as they giving up the ass i dont care

slingblade
05-17-2011, 01:46 PM
Personally, if a guy comes to me claiming that they aren't interested in my thing, I see that as much more of a red flag.

An authentic, maybe slightly gay guy is better than a liar.

no some of us just want that tight ass you have

Birgitta
05-18-2011, 12:41 AM
Wellll im a girl that does not like sexual play with her dick, but i have noticed that i become flexible when a guy treats me good and is a good masculine lover, treat her like a woman and turn her on, she might in the end feel comfy and free enough to experiment ...or perhaps not...lol

There are girls out there that really cannot stand it...
I used to be that way but since my looks changed and the hormones i feel different about it now, it does not bother me as it used too

theone1982
05-18-2011, 12:44 AM
Well, I heard that every time a guy sucks a t-girl's dick an angel gets it's wings, or something like that!:)

Stoked
05-18-2011, 12:49 AM
HaraJT... how 'bout we pull each others cocks out and see what happens?

Birgitta
05-18-2011, 12:55 AM
..well the answer might be similar ..but the waiting period would differ..lol.

The oral part wouldn't be an issue so much at first..the issue would be if I couldn't touch it at all.(since she hates it so much).

If that were the case in a hook-up..I would probably never see her again after we were done.
..but relationships are different. When you have strong feelings for someone, the rules change- you become more patient. I would convince her over time that it is O.K. to be touched on her genitals ...that it doesn't matter that she doesn't want them- they are still a part of her and since I love her ..I love all of her.Little by little..I would touch them more and more..being patient and caressing her and seeing where that would , over time, eventually take us. At some point..she might eventually open up enough to let me kiss it and put it in my mouth. Once she felt comfortable enough..perhaps she'd enjoy it and it wouldn't be a problem (some people do things with people they love that they wouldn't admit to the rest of the world)..or she might have me do it sometimes because she knew that I'd enjoy it...hell, I've let partners in the past do stuff that I didn't really get any kick out of ..but they enjoyed it ..so that was good enough for me.

..in the long run..if she never let me suck it..that would be O.K. cause there are soooo many other things you can do in the bedroom..as long as she doesn't have too many other hang-ups (I'm an oral type guy..she's gonna have to let me kiss and suck everything else though..lol)....but if she never let me touch it and I had to act like it wasn't there..then that's a deal breaker...cause I can't be with someone that insecure forever...it would be annoying.

I think you are right, its the best way to persuade a girl an she might even start to enjoy it...thing is, guys diectly heading towards my private parts, and lusting over them do not make me feel like a woman, so its a major turn off then, but once i know a lover respects me as a woman, and my feelings, there is more room to play...

Helvis2012
05-18-2011, 06:27 AM
Retarded.

robertlouis
05-18-2011, 06:33 AM
I think you are right, its the best way to persuade a girl an she might even start to enjoy it...thing is, guys diectly heading towards my private parts, and lusting over them do not make me feel like a woman, so its a major turn off then, but once i know a lover respects me as a woman, and my feelings, there is more room to play...

:iagree: I agree entirely, Birgitta. If you can't start by understanding and empathising with your partner's needs, you may as well get dressed and go home. That said, it's a two way street - you also need to make very clear from the beginning what you regard as acceptable and what you won't tolerate.

And even then, it all depends on whether it's business, pleasure, or, best of all, romance!

moonman
05-18-2011, 07:22 AM
horse tranqulisers would work well i guess :)
lmaooo:shock::):)

nsagent
05-18-2011, 02:02 PM
I really dont understand the concept of a guy liking ts girls but wanting nothing to do with their penis. It just doesnt compute

Birgitta
05-18-2011, 02:12 PM
I really dont understand the concept of a guy liking ts girls but wanting nothing to do with their penis. It just doesnt compute

Well if you would be a normal guy, you would find it important that she is a nice girl, that she matches with your character etc, makes u feel good etc etc,
And btw, its not like i have DICK written over my forehead...

There are more things atractive to a tgirl then just her cock, if you cant understand this you should not bother to try and meet up with them at all....just pay cash and visit a prostitute and be so nice to keep these ignorant thoughts to yourself....

Btw, i dont see why i should date a black guy coz chances are they will turn out to be unfaithfull criminals....just out to take advantage of me

If you dont see my point:
I bet you dont want to be judged by the color of your skin,
Same goes for tgirls, they dont want to be judged by their genitals,
What on earth makes you think a girl would want to date a guy that says, im dating you for your private parts only, if you did not have them i would be dating a gg...

And you guys expect me to go with that,
That means you really lost it !

Birgitta
05-18-2011, 03:08 PM
I really dont understand the concept of a guy liking ts girls but wanting nothing to do with their penis. It just doesnt compute

Cmon you guys, get a reality check, get real!

What is written above in translation says:

"i cannot imagine anyone to be interested in you if it werent for your cock"

lets be reasonable for a moment here...

Why do you act suprised if girls call you gay for treating them like that, if anything it makes perfect sense!

Its funny that guys go on telling us girls we are homophobic, looool, i was considered to be a gay guy for half of my life and have gay friends...

I just see no reason to stay polite to guys with this attitude, its totally offensive actually,

And some take it so far, that they start to behave like feeders to the obese when it comes to tgirls....

Just think for a minute, you might realise how you are treating the girls and that this might be the reason they dont like you, instead of accusing them to be mentally unbalancrd, self hating, homophobic or anything else you have the creativity tocome up with

Birgitta
05-18-2011, 03:17 PM
It really makes you think, do most tgirllovers understand woman at all?

I know a few and they are great, but a lot of stuff thats written here can really make your skin crawl...

Birgitta
05-18-2011, 03:18 PM
Retarded.

Thank you for warning us about your mental state lol

socalrick
05-18-2011, 05:33 PM
What ever happened to Harajuku t-girl? She was one of my favorite posters.

for-ward
05-18-2011, 05:47 PM
Well if you would be a normal guy, you would find it important that she is a nice girl, that she matches with your character etc, makes u feel good etc etc,
And btw, its not like i have DICK written over my forehead...

There are more things atractive to a tgirl then just her cock, if you cant understand this you should not bother to try and meet up with them at all....just pay cash and visit a prostitute and be so nice to keep these ignorant thoughts to yourself....

Btw, i dont see why i should date a black guy coz chances are they will turn out to be unfaithfull criminals....just out to take advantage of me

If you dont see my point:
I bet you dont want to be judged by the color of your skin,
Same goes for tgirls, they dont want to be judged by their genitals,
What on earth makes you think a girl would want to date a guy that says, im dating you for your private parts only, if you did not have them i would be dating a gg...

And you guys expect me to go with that,
That means you really lost it !

well written.
here's my take on this and some of what you wrote.
Tgirl admirers obviously have a sexual attraction to what you have to offer. Most of the ladies on here are not post op, so it's obvious that you would expect them to have male parts below. Whether they are bi or gay, who cares. It's how they treat you that really matters. Imo, I find a great number of ladies on here to be very attractive and definitely prettier than most gg I've seen or meet in my lifespan. I am not attracted to males or bottoming but if I meet a really nice lady who turned out to be Tgirl and I had to perform oral on her to giver her some type of release then I don't see why you should be calling me gay. Obviously I would be with you because you do look female, act female, live a female life. Whether you keep your male parts shouldn't be an issue but nor should it be if the guy likes your male parts.

Birgitta
05-18-2011, 06:14 PM
well written.
here's my take on this and some of what you wrote.
Tgirl admirers obviously have a sexual attraction to what you have to offer. Most of the ladies on here are not post op, so it's obvious that you would expect them to have male parts below. Whether they are bi or gay, who cares. It's how they treat you that really matters. Imo, I find a great number of ladies on here to be very attractive and definitely prettier than most gg I've seen or meet in my lifespan. I am not attracted to males or bottoming but if I meet a really nice lady who turned out to be Tgirl and I had to perform oral on her to giver her some type of release then I don't see why you should be calling me gay. Obviously I would be with you because you do look female, act female, live a female life. Whether you keep your male parts shouldn't be an issue but nor should it be if the guy likes your male parts.


True, it really does not matter what sexual orientation a man has though...its how he treats you thats important, though topping i will never in this lifetime be able to do it, its a bridge too far, but i certainly would not call a man gay for giving me head, im not really interested in his orientation though, he can be gay but like and want me for my feminity, as long as it does not feel we are sisters, its ok lol, i have 0% bisexuality in me, anything that reeks of femininety instantly turns me into ice lol....but thats just preference so they saaay,....

I can btw totally understand guys that are into tgirls though, i have to admit i like lookin at them better then looking at gg, its a mix that i find intrigueing and beautifull

I also perfectly understand that we attract men that like strong woman and want to bttm for us, unfortunately though they are the majority lol

for-ward
05-18-2011, 06:28 PM
True, it really does not matter what sexual orientation a man has though...its how he treats you thats important, though topping i will never in this lifetime be able to do it, its a bridge too far, but i certainly would not call a man gay for giving me head, im not really interested in his orientation though, he can be gay but like and want me for my feminity, as long as it does not feel we are sisters, its ok lol, i have 0% bisexuality in me, anything that reeks of femininety instantly turns me into ice lol....but thats just preference so they saaay,....

I can btw totally understand guys that are into tgirls though, i have to admit i like lookin at them better then looking at gg, its a mix that i find intrigueing and beautifull

I also perfectly understand that we attract men that like strong woman and want to bttm for us, unfortunately though they are the majority lol

Again, I have to say that I agree with most of your post and it was well written. Seems to me that you know what you want in a partner and I hope you find them. If only others knew what they want out of life :praying:

I think everyone should take the time to try and figure out what's really important in life and their partners and then go for it. Life is too short to waste time with losers. Learn to love and respect yourself, that'll make it easier to find better people.

Stoked
05-18-2011, 08:34 PM
Well if you would be a normal guy, you would find it important that she is a nice girl, that she matches with your character etc, makes u feel good etc etc,
And btw, its not like i have DICK written over my forehead...

There are more things atractive to a tgirl then just her cock, if you cant understand this you should not bother to try and meet up with them at all....just pay cash and visit a prostitute and be so nice to keep these ignorant thoughts to yourself....

Btw, i dont see why i should date a black guy coz chances are they will turn out to be unfaithfull criminals....just out to take advantage of me

If you dont see my point:
I bet you dont want to be judged by the color of your skin,
Same goes for tgirls, they dont want to be judged by their genitals,
What on earth makes you think a girl would want to date a guy that says, im dating you for your private parts only, if you did not have them i would be dating a gg...

And you guys expect me to go with that,
That means you really lost it !

I think you are a bit unfair to nsagent. I think he meant his point to be respectful to TS... not as you interpreted it.

He referenced a penis, not a "dick" as you wrote. There is a difference and it changes the tone. I interpreted his post as saying anyone who likes another should be accepting of any physical attribute they might and in this case most likely have. To do otherwise does boggle the mind.

And he has a point with which you agree.

Stoked
05-18-2011, 08:45 PM
What ever happened to Harajuku t-girl? She was one of my favorite posters.

One of my favorites too.

I believe her and Nicole made up and are now in a long term relationship. :salad

Birgitta
05-18-2011, 09:52 PM
I think you are a bit unfair to nsagent. I think he meant his point to be respectful to TS... not as you interpreted it.

He referenced a penis, not a "dick" as you wrote. There is a difference and it changes the tone. I interpreted his post as saying anyone who likes another should be accepting of any physical attribute they might and in this case most likely have. To do otherwise does boggle the mind.

And he has a point with which you agree.

No i dont agree, guys that dont want to suck me are more then welcome with a girl like me, there is nothing wrong with them, you are turning the world upside down guys!!!

I know if a gentlemen is a lady then the world is upside down but dont get confused and dizzy,
Its not necessarily respectfull to a girl to be willing to give her head, it certainly does not make you the knight in shining armour, especially if its about what you want...

Lot of you guys think that with respecting your wishes you are respecting tswoman, you are wrong...
most likely thats only the case for a minority among us

And its the first time that i heard dick is disrespectfull to penis lol how about cock? Pecker?

fred41
05-19-2011, 02:22 AM
I think shlong might be a bit inappropriate...:)

moonman
05-19-2011, 07:47 AM
Well if you would be a normal guy, you would find it important that she is a nice girl, that she matches with your character etc, makes u feel good etc etc,
And btw, its not like i have DICK written over my forehead...

There are more things atractive to a tgirl then just her cock, if you cant understand this you should not bother to try and meet up with them at all....just pay cash and visit a prostitute and be so nice to keep these ignorant thoughts to yourself....

Btw, i dont see why i should date a black guy coz chances are they will turn out to be unfaithfull criminals....just out to take advantage of me

If you dont see my point:
I bet you dont want to be judged by the color of your skin,
Same goes for tgirls, they dont want to be judged by their genitals,
What on earth makes you think a girl would want to date a guy that says, im dating you for your private parts only, if you did not have them i would be dating a gg...

And you guys expect me to go with that,
That means you really lost it !
she has a point, to me only in the world of porn and escorts tg and gg are separate, but in the real world a woman is a woman no matter what they have between their legs, but their mind state, actions and personality determines gender (once again this my opinion), with that being said all women have their minor insecurities or things they like about their body, ive never encountered a problem such as this one but i would address it the same way id handle a woman that say she hates her feet, stretch marks, etc. just try and make them feel good about it at least to the point where she is comfortable around you with her insecurities.

robertlouis
05-19-2011, 08:11 AM
Tgirl or ggirl, it's femininity I look for first, and I'm just not into girls who adopt the male role. My fascination with tgirls isn't about cock/penis/pecker/dong/pork sword/beef bayonet, (that enough for you, Birgitta? ;) ) strangely enough, which may sound weird to some, but that's just me.

Oh well. :dancing:

Birgitta
05-19-2011, 09:09 AM
she has a point, to me only in the world of porn and escorts tg and gg are separate, but in the real world a woman is a woman no matter what they have between their legs, but their mind state, actions and personality determines gender (once again this my opinion), with that being said all women have their minor insecurities or things they like about their body, ive never encountered a problem such as this one but i would address it the same way id handle a woman that say she hates her feet, stretch marks, etc. just try and make them feel good about it at least to the point where she is comfortable around you with her insecurities.

Smooch,
you understand it!!

Birgitta
05-19-2011, 09:12 AM
Tgirl or ggirl, it's femininity I look for first, and I'm just not into girls who adopt the male role. My fascination with tgirls isn't about cock/penis/pecker/dong/pork sword/beef bayonet, (that enough for you, Birgitta? ;) ) strangely enough, which may sound weird to some, but that's just me.

Oh well. :dancing:


Hihihi beef bayonet lol!!!

DL_NL
05-20-2011, 03:15 PM
she has a point, to me only in the world of porn and escorts tg and gg are separate, but in the real world a woman is a woman no matter what they have between their legs, but their mind state, actions and personality determines gender (once again this my opinion), with that being said all women have their minor insecurities or things they like about their body, ive never encountered a problem such as this one but i would address it the same way id handle a woman that say she hates her feet, stretch marks, etc. just try and make them feel good about it at least to the point where she is comfortable around you with her insecurities.

My opinion exactly. Well said.

slingblade
11-11-2011, 03:39 PM
I really dont understand the concept of a guy liking ts girls but wanting nothing to do with their penis. It just doesnt compute


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smalldickbubblebuttbottom
11-30-2012, 11:36 PM
for me.... its an attraction to the female form and the beauty that femininity brings to the world and my want need and desire to bottom that attracts me to trans women.

so personally im not able to understand this post.

danthepoetman
12-01-2012, 09:13 AM
2009-2011 thread. A whole lot of good sense in it, in my humble opinion. I know Robert Louis is still around, of course, but where are those bright Brigitta and Moonman?


No i dont agree, guys that dont want to suck me are more then welcome with a girl like me, there is nothing wrong with them, you are turning the world upside down guys!!!
I know if a gentlemen is a lady then the world is upside down but dont get confused and dizzy,
Its not necessarily respectfull to a girl to be willing to give her head, it certainly does not make you the knight in shining armour, especially if its about what you want...
Lot of you guys think that with respecting your wishes you are respecting tswoman, you are wrong...
most likely thats only the case for a minority among us
And its the first time that i heard dick is disrespectfull to penis lol how about cock? Pecker?

she has a point, to me only in the world of porn and escorts tg and gg are separate, but in the real world a woman is a woman no matter what they have between their legs, but their mind state, actions and personality determines gender (once again this my opinion), with that being said all women have their minor insecurities or things they like about their body, ive never encountered a problem such as this one but i would address it the same way id handle a woman that say she hates her feet, stretch marks, etc. just try and make them feel good about it at least to the point where she is comfortable around you with her insecurities.

Tgirl or ggirl, it's femininity I look for first, and I'm just not into girls who adopt the male role. My fascination with tgirls isn't about cock/penis/pecker/dong/pork sword/beef bayonet, (that enough for you, Birgitta? ;) ) strangely enough, which may sound weird to some, but that's just me.
Oh well. :dancing:
Yes!

Amoore
01-20-2013, 01:25 PM
i cant be convinced to do that, hell i cant even touch it, freaks me out

canihavu
01-20-2013, 08:34 PM
Um ok so we have guys who don't like to suck dicks..

then we have girls who hate their dicks..

QUESTION: How would you convince a guy to suck your dick and or how would you convince a tgirl to let you suck hers?

lol

Any bright ideas? or techniques you used?

~Kisses.

HTG

When I first started dealing with tgirls, I wouldn't even touch their dicks. None of them seemed to have an issue with it. I would just tell them that I wasn't ready to try that.

WHen I finally did start fgoing down on them, I have really only encountered two ladies who didn't want me to do it. The first time I literally begged the girl until she let let me. The other lady sucked my dick so well that it wasn't an issue.

wiltthestilt
01-20-2013, 09:20 PM
I have only been with a TS once, but we did a 69 where we were both sucking each other at the same time. That felt real nice. Wish I didnt cum so fast.

I cant imagine why anyone would be here if they were skittish about even touching a cock. Its not like there is any shortage of gg's. I guess if you fall for a chic and she just happens to have a dick; you may not be interested in that particular organ. But those of us who go out of their way to fond feminine ts should at least not mind their cocks brushing against ours. Its like choosing Red Lobster and hating seafood.

MsDazzler
01-21-2013, 02:16 AM
Yes... I notice guys who explicitly seek me out because I am trans tend to be obsessed with trying to give me a BJ compared to guys who happened to meet me and found out.

gilly1112
01-21-2013, 03:06 AM
Yes... I notice guys who explicitly seek me out because I am trans tend to be obsessed with trying to give me a BJ compared to guys who happened to meet me and found out.

Do the guys who happen to just meet you still suck your cock sometimes?

MsDazzler
01-21-2013, 08:25 PM
Nope, they don't.

LovinThaTSLadiez
01-21-2013, 08:48 PM
I suck dick! YAY!!!!

NoahNomad
01-21-2013, 09:08 PM
I knew my tg girlfriend before she transitioned. We were good friends when I asked her to be my girlfriend, and early on in her transition --- two years later we are engaged. Bottom line is, we were friends, we dated, and she will be my wife soon SO to me, it would be crazy to have a part of her body that I was unwilling to touch, to lick, to kiss.

It takes time to gain trust and comfort with some tg women, especially if they are more dysphoric about their penis. For me, I use all female terminology with my girlfriend (and any other woman, ts or gg) and I do what feels right in the moment. I don't go down often but when I do it's simply because I want to please her in the most complete way and I want her to be able to completely let go and not feel any kind of insecurity about it. I think for a straight guy it can be difficult to find yourself comfortable enough to go down without any weird feelings, but when you are in a relationship it is much different and much more natural. :geek:

With that being said, I have only dated one tg woman (my girlfriend), and I was not searching for tg women to date at the time that we got together. If I happened to hook up with a tg woman outside of a relationship, I wouldn't be going down on her...because I wouldn't care enough to want to please her orally, if we could just fuck. I think TG women looking for straight men have to examine if a man is going down to please himself, or to please her.

wiltthestilt
01-21-2013, 09:32 PM
I suck dick! YAY!!!!

:cheers:

garypeters123
01-22-2013, 12:52 AM
If a pro advertises herself as a bottom, does that mean she doesn't like having her dick sucked?

NoahNomad
01-22-2013, 07:11 AM
No, it means that she does not top. Plenty of girls only bottom but enjoy oral, or at least tolerate it from a paying client.

fivekatz
01-22-2013, 07:25 AM
Bring a sex partner to orgasm to me is key part of having sex, other masterbation would be fine, after all I know just what touch, when and how really gets me off.

So mutual enjoyment is the key to having sex with another, if either or both partners aren't into pleasuring each other they should have a less physical relationship. OTOH if one of the two sucks at sucking maybe the partner should spend the time coaching the other because a good partner does want to bring joy to other after all, even in casual sex.

Rusty Eldora
01-22-2013, 07:37 AM
OK for sex I am very oral and really love giving and receiving oral from my partner. Intimacy is giving your partner the most enjoyment possible and they to you. If as a couple there are things that are enjoyed and things that are not, they can be worked out. However, if there is an imbalance in what is sexually desired that is the start of the abyss that can break the couple apart.

Nearly all people, but particularly women, are self conscious about things with their body. Our media drives into women daily that a Size 4 dress is big, breasts should be D's, faces perfect, nice clothes, the correct purse, and so on. Much less of this happens to guys. We can all improve, but nearly all women are beautiful, in particular if they have inner beauty.

I can see TS women having a dilemma with their stick. SRS is expensive, and the results are not certain. Having an intimate partner make the best of what she has is probably the best course.

flabbybody
01-22-2013, 07:40 AM
Yes... I notice guys who explicitly seek me out because I am trans tend to be obsessed with trying to give me a BJ compared to guys who happened to meet me and found out.
Ok so lets say a guy seeks you out specifically cuz you're trans and he wants to blow you and you let him. and lets say his technique is flawless, (wet deep throat fucking, no teeth)..... would you let yourself enjoy it and get into it or basically be creeped out and want him to just finish ?

Amoore
01-22-2013, 07:57 AM
I have only been with a TS once, but we did a 69 where we were both sucking each other at the same time. That felt real nice. Wish I didnt cum so fast.

I cant imagine why anyone would be here if they were skittish about even touching a cock. Its not like there is any shortage of gg's. I guess if you fall for a chic and she just happens to have a dick; you may not be interested in that particular organ. But those of us who go out of their way to fond feminine ts should at least not mind their cocks brushing against ours. Its like choosing Red Lobster and hating seafood.

why? i love to fuck pussy too but i never eat it and never will