Think I have a chance?

[Aaliyah]

i'm new to all of this i really want to be a girl and have since i was a small boi i'm getting older now and kinda scared because i want to be as beautiful as i can but i'm afraid of how people will judge me just tell me what you think maybe someone will say something that helps me out and here is a pic for you all too

[bte]

I say go for it. I got a friend right now that is contemplating on transitioning or not. He has a kid and a wife that he doesn't like. You should transition if it makes you happy, before you get stuck like he is at the moment.

[LilWyte]

I say go for it. I got a friend right now that is contemplating on transitioning or not. He has a kid and a wife that he doesn't like. You should transition if it makes you happy, before you get stuck like he is at the moment.doesnt like the kid or the wife :shock:

[bte]

I say go for it. I got a friend right now that is contemplating on transitioning or not. He has a kid and a wife that he doesn't like. You should transition if it makes you happy, before you get stuck like he is at the moment.doesnt like the kid or the wife :shock:

He doesn't like the wife. He loves his son, which is why he doesn't want to transition.

[Aaliyah]

well thanks i mean i think i'm kinda pretty and i'm not that big of a person i guess i'm a little cute

[bte]

You're cute. People will judge you regardless, you just gotta say "fuck em" and do what makes you happy. Good luck!

[Aaliyah]

well thanks a lot i appreciate it i'm gonna be something special

[Ts CinthyaNY]

Good !! go for it just get the professional assistance for it and put a lot of effort but first of all just make sure to find your own self and if you feel you the woman you want to be . About other people judging you, well that it is hard but when you believe in yourself and you project the real woman you are people tend to be more tolerant and to perceive you as well, although I do not know how people are around your area.

If you have the support of your beloved ones or at least they understand you then you go for it honey and if you even have to relocate so be it .

Love...

Cinthya.

[bte]

No prob

[Aaliyah]

thanks cinthya i dont really have any support in this at all from anyone but one friend of mine who is a girl i don't have many people to talk to my family is very judgemental about the subject and people in kentucky are just mean in general but yes i know what i want and who i want to be

[Dino Velvet]

thanks cinthya i dont really have any support in this at all from anyone but one friend of mine who is a girl i don't have many people to talk to my family is very judgemental about the subject and people in kentucky are just mean in general but yes i know what i want and who i want to be

Would you be able to leave Kentucky?

[ManOfSteel]

wow is this a genuine reply from faggot ass Dino Velvet??? nah, Dino... tell Machine "i love his work"

[Mr Dazzle]

Sometimes I wonder if only the most narcissistic fags become TS

[praetor]

Yeah Aaliyah, sure you have a chance, and you'll be a pretty girl. Saludos from Rio.

[SarahG]

You transition because you have to, if it's what you need to be happy then the "how will I look" part becomes irrelevant. Looks don't last anyway, people grow old with time.

It's also one of those things that can't be predicted well. Stuff like passability takes far more into account then how people look in photographs- stuff like your voice, mannerisms, all are important. Someone could pass in pictures but not IRL or vice versa.

The other thing is, HA isn't very good as a support site. I don't say this to try to scare you away, but I do say this because it should be kept in mind. If you get offended easily, if you have thin skin, HA could come off as an abrasive place. Finding good trans support sites would be an invaluable resource (another reason why we should have a sticky with links to places where people can go for stuff like that).

The big thing I would say, based on stuff like this:

i dont really have any support in this at all from anyone but one friend of mine who is a girl i don't have many people to talk to my family is very judgemental

Is this: do not "jump the gun" in outting yourself in people. This early on in the process going around telling everyone in your life will set you up for all kinds of drama & trouble that can be avoided for the time being.

Discrimination is pretty much legal in the United States, and transitioning is expensive. If you tell people before you need to, you have to worry about whether or not your boss would fire you for it, whether or not your family would leave you (which would be a problem if you're dependent on them). It's also one of those things where once the cat is out of the bag, it stays out of the bag.

[phobun]

Sometimes I wonder if only the most narcissistic fags become TS
Sometimes I wonder if only the most petulant fags hound them.

[longhorn]

be like nike and just do it.

[Mr Dazzle]

Sometimes I wonder if only the most narcissistic fags become TS
Sometimes I wonder if only the most petulant fags hound them.


I don't care about that because I don't hound anyone.

[rockabilly]

Life is to short to live w/ regret. Do what makes you truly happy and let everything else just happen.

To thine own self be true. Hope this helps some.

[Silcc69]

Oh you from KY yeah it's somewhat harder to do all this down south but good luck with transistioning.

[speedstick112]

We all have a chance. Think about it enough and you'll know exactly what you have to do. Then do what you gotta do.

[Aaliyah]

thanks everyone! i appreciate everything and it has given me a lot of hope! i'm new to this but i have some pictures in my gallery check them out