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tsadmirer83
11-04-2009, 01:16 AM
First of all, this is not a sexual thread, so please be serious with your answers:)

I work at a school with kids who is 6 years old, and there is this boy who I really wonder about wanting to be a girl.

He is only friends with girls, and only want to be with them. That's okay by me, but I reacted to something he did today. He took a curtain and threw around himself, and said: "I have a dress", and soon he wanted to use it as a skirt.

So what do people here think: Is he a transsexual, or at least going to be a CD when he's older. And should I tell his parents about my thougts? If he wants to be a girl, I think it is better to start now when he is a kid, because of the abuse many transsexual teenagers get?

I don't know his parents so well, just by saying "hello" when they pick up their son after school, so to tell them that their son maybe wants to be a girl is not exactly a thing i want to do...

dgs925
11-04-2009, 01:18 AM
That definitely goes under the heading of "none of my business", so you ought to just keep it to yourself.

BeardedOne
11-04-2009, 01:37 AM
That definitely goes under the heading of "none of my business", so you ought to just keep it to yourself.

I concur, unless his parents come asking about such things. Young kids do all sorts of things that we, as adults, don't see as quite 'normal', but as we here can attest, 'normal' is relative and subjective.

Remember all the hot water that Walmart rightfully fell into when one of their photo booth people deemed a couple of shots of a baby in bathwater 'child pornography'.

Unless you're asked for an opinion by either the parent or a superior, or if the kid starts hackin' at his weenie with scissors (Not unheard of), you need to distance yourself from this a bit.

Coroner
11-04-2009, 01:37 AM
That definitely goes under the heading of "none of my business", so you ought to just keep it to yourself.

Yeah, I agree. You canīt foresee his parentsī reaction.

Teydyn
11-04-2009, 01:41 AM
kid who is 6 years old, and there is this boy who I really wonder about wanting to be a girl.
It happens once, it happens twice and it doesnt matter. Look at it for a year or two...


Is he a transsexual
Maybe, but probably not.

[/quote]at least going to be a CD[/quote]
Are you an astronaut? I guess 1) not and 2) you wanted to be one when you were young


If he wants to be a girl, I think it is better to start now when he is a kid
At age 6? Are you serious? There is this thing called puberty, THATs when the changed start and could be stopped. But not at age 6...


so to tell them that their son maybe wants to be a girl is not exactly a thing i want to do...
1) Kids play and experiment. Its nothing serious.
2) Dont do it. If he behaves the same way in some years, maybe there is something.. (a BIG maybe)

speedstick112
11-04-2009, 02:28 AM
Is it causing problems with other kids or stuff? Just look out for their well being.

2009AD
11-04-2009, 02:33 AM
So what do people here think: Is he a transsexual, or at least going to be a CD when he's older. And should I tell his parents about my thougts? If he wants to be a girl, I think it is better to start now when he is a kid, because of the abuse many transsexual teenagers get?

Yes he is a baby tg and you should inform his parents next time you see them. Let us know how things turn out.

GroobySteven
11-04-2009, 02:39 AM
What do you do at the school? Fill the soda machines?

Legend
11-04-2009, 02:42 AM
The thought of you thinking about that kind of stuff around kids is disturbing.Does this school even know you think about that kind of stuff around their kids?

TsJANIRA
11-04-2009, 02:48 AM
Reminds me of when i was 6 yrs old, I used to get Sheets and make gowns and shred t-shirts and i used it as hair, Dont underestimate a child of 6 yrs old, My family knew that i was not going to be your "AVERAGE" boy,,,, But they chose to keep it on the hush and , ignore it and the older I got the more Obsessed I got with the Idea of wanting to be a girl, They knew from the Geq.


If you are a Teacher or a authority figure in school, i would observe and depending on how it progressed i would then have a talk with the parents.

2009AD
11-04-2009, 03:14 AM
What do you do at the school? Fill the soda machines?

Please show this guy some respect. He's probably the director of custodial services and lawn care.

phobun
11-04-2009, 03:35 AM
First of all, this is not a sexual thread, so please be serious with your answers:)

I work at a school with kids who is 6 years old, and there is this boy who I really wonder about wanting to be a girl.

He is only friends with girls, and only want to be with them. That's okay by me, but I reacted to something he did today. He took a curtain and threw around himself, and said: "I have a dress", and soon he wanted to use it as a skirt.

So what do people here think: Is he a transsexual, or at least going to be a CD when he's older. And should I tell his parents about my thougts? If he wants to be a girl, I think it is better to start now when he is a kid, because of the abuse many transsexual teenagers get?

I don't know his parents so well, just by saying "hello" when they pick up their son after school, so to tell them that their son maybe wants to be a girl is not exactly a thing i want to do...
tsadmirer83... Probably a 26 year old single male and trannychaser who now has a special interest in the transgender thoughts of a 6 year old boy.

You need to distance yourself from this immediately, creep. It is none of your business and you are not qualified to weigh in on it anyway.

What are you supposed to say when the parents ask you about the basis of your concerns? That he is friends with girls? That he pretended a curtain was a skirt? That you masturbate every night to pictures of chicks-with-dicks on a porn forum?

Fuck off you nosy weirdo and let a kid be a kid. No one needs the school janitor to help turn their son into the next Kim Petras.

gr4phic4rtist08
11-04-2009, 04:13 AM
Is he six and you just wish he wanted to be a little boy who wants to be a ts because you are a sick pedophile?

Silcc69
11-04-2009, 04:26 AM
And there goes all the care....

dannyboyz
11-04-2009, 05:18 AM
i think we have a newspaper story here.

5-7 yrs i predict you will be put away for!!

scubaman
11-04-2009, 05:37 AM
:popcorn

SarahG
11-04-2009, 07:36 AM
Wow- let's give the guy the benefit of the doubt and assume he's got good intentions at heart & isn't a pedophile.



I work at a school with kids who is 6 years old, and there is this boy who I really wonder about wanting to be a girl.

Unfortunately there is no good diagnostic scheme for transsexualism, and making a diagnosis is even harder when you're dealing with little kids. The way this is usually explained is, most (if not all) trans people showed signs when they were little, but not everyone who shows what could be construed as a "warning sign" at that age ends up being trans. Some little kids just like playing dress up, or playing with girls toys, or whatever else that might confuse people.

My brother when he was that age loved playing with girls toys, but it was just a 1-2 year phase, he out grew it- and that was all there ever were of "warning signs." Today he's just a typical guy, and IDK if he even remembers what he played with at ~5 years old. And for all I know he was only interested in what he playing with during that short time period because of what he saw me playing with.

So what do you do about it? The short & easy answer is nothing. If it is just a phase, the kid will stop it on its own after a while, so coercing the child to assimilate to gender roles would just unnecessarily cause the kid grief.

I'll use an example; when I was in kindergarten my teacher was so horrified at what toys I played with, and which classmates I was friends with, that she refused to let me have "play time" (which, as we all know- makes up most of the school day for kindergarteners). So what did she do? She made me sit alone, at a desk, doing additional school work. Eventually my mom found out about it, and the teacher was so militantly defensive in her idea of how she should be teaching that I ended up having to be bused to another district just to get the hell away from the crazy bitch. I ended up spending that grade in three different schools, the last of which was over an hour away which meant I had to wake up at 5am just to get on the bus the first district was paying to drive me, just me- to another district. Don't be that teacher! Stuff like that just makes kids targets for bullies, its rough on the kids, and it accomplishes nothing.

There's really not much that could be done, if the other kids start bullying him. The school should intervene as it should with any other bullying scenario. But, imho those types of anti-bullying measures are rarely successful, once bullies have labeled a kid as a target there is no way to completely stop it- kids are smart enough to know when to hurt another kid without getting caught, when to say something mean when no one can hear it, etc.


And should I tell his parents about my thougts?

Telling the parents would be an emergency intervention measure- this should only be done if the situation merits it.

One of the "textbook" symptoms of transsexualism in kids is self injury, especially genital self injury. If the kid tries to give itself a smoothy using sharp objects- then that would be more then enough reason to set up a parent-teacher meeting to talk about it before the kid inflicts self harm. But this should really be a no brainer, if any kid comes out of a bathroom dripping blood everywhere they should be sent to the nurses office.

Prematurely running to the parents could be dangerous. If they're close minded religious zealouts you could be putting the kid in danger. The last thing you want is some bigoted parent going "Omg not my son!" and start thinking violence would "beat it out of him."


I think it is better to start now when he is a kid, because of the abuse many transsexual teenagers get?

As far as medical treatments go the big issue is puberty which won't be for at least another ~6 years.

Even then, the medical establishments in the US really loathe the idea of doing anything to treat trans patients younger than 16. At most they'll put the kid in therapy, but it would be unrealistic to expect anything tangible beyond that. This isn't northern Europe where they'd be willing to try delaying puberty until the kid is in its late teens.

Even at 16, unless the case is 1- very severe, 2- has full support of the parents, nothing will be done about it in the United States using the medical establishments. The SoC allows treating patients starting at 16, but they just don't like to do it. And if the parents aren't 100% on board? Expect the kid to have to wait until 18 if doing things the SoC way.

barefootjoe69
11-04-2009, 07:44 AM
The thought of you thinking about that kind of stuff around kids is disturbing.Does this school even know you think about that kind of stuff around their kids?

My thoughts exactly considering his screen name!

gotchagood
11-04-2009, 08:12 AM
I knew plenty of guys who hung around all girls as a "teenager" and they weren't gay or are gay. Mike Tyson had the same experience as a child hence his voice, because he tried emulating the way they talked. I doubt many people would call him gay either. Many kids especially boys, experiment with nail polish, dress up, dolls, etc. and they grow up straight as an arrow. It's normal and doesn't mean a thing. Would you be this alarmed if it were a girl who put on a pair of boots and a fake mustache and said, "I'm a boy"?? You're not the child's parent let "them" parent. Funny, some people think male cheerleaders are "gay" LOL! What a great job for a guy; looking up girl's skirts all day.


Have a great day

muhmuh
11-04-2009, 09:16 AM
anybody wanna guess how many of the critics are projecting?

barefootjoe69
11-04-2009, 09:56 AM
anybody wanna guess how many of the critics are projecting?

R U Fucking Serious?
Read this pedophiles post.
He just said he works at the school. He is not the child's parent,or relative or even a friend of the parents but yet he zeros in on watching this one child. He even says he is ok with the child just being friends with girls.(Who is he that he has to give his approval for the child s friends)
According to his own screen name he has an attraction for transsexuals and now he is wondering about this 1 child that he has been watching so closely. Is he going to be a Transsexual?
Guess what? ITS NONE OF HIS FUCKING BUSINESS!!!!!!
Sounds to me like your trying to defend this Pedophiles obsession!!! Maybe you have the same thoughts!!!
You both need HELP!!!!!!!!
Or JAIL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Stoked
11-04-2009, 10:05 AM
First of all, this is not a sexual thread, so please be serious with your answers:)

I work at a school with kids who is 6 years old, and there is this boy who I really wonder about wanting to be a girl.

He is only friends with girls, and only want to be with them. That's okay by me, but I reacted to something he did today. He took a curtain and threw around himself, and said: "I have a dress", and soon he wanted to use it as a skirt.

So what do people here think: Is he a transsexual, or at least going to be a CD when he's older. And should I tell his parents about my thougts? If he wants to be a girl, I think it is better to start now when he is a kid, because of the abuse many transsexual teenagers get?

I don't know his parents so well, just by saying "hello" when they pick up their son after school, so to tell them that their son maybe wants to be a girl is not exactly a thing i want to do...

"That's okay by me, but I reacted to something he did today."

You reacted?.... what, you got a boner and jerked off in the closet?

farang
11-04-2009, 10:21 AM
Paedo.

Teydyn
11-04-2009, 11:57 AM
yet he zeros in on watching this one child.
That is your conclusion, and probably not even a true one...


He even says he is ok with the child just being friends with girls.(Who is he that he has to give his approval for the child s friends)
Who are you to NOT give it?


According to his own screen name he has an attraction for transsexuals
Right, and you have no attraction to TS and just stumbled onto this forum and made 377 posts by accident. Then there is your avatar... at least not a cock pick.


Sounds to me like your trying to defend this Pedophiles obsession!!! Maybe you have the same thoughts!!!
You are reading something into it that not even there. Maybe its because of your own inner wishes? (Not that i think that, but see how easy it is to spew shit?)

barefootjoe69
11-04-2009, 09:49 PM
yet he zeros in on watching this one child.
That is your conclusion, and probably not even a true one...

Read his post! It's clear he is focused on this child!


He even says he is ok with the child just being friends with girls.(Who is he that he has to give his approval for the child s friends)
Who are you to NOT give it?

R U serious? This doesn't even make sense!
I have no reason to give my approval or disapproval to this child. I don't even know him.


According to his own screen name he has an attraction for transsexuals
Right, and you have no attraction to TS and just stumbled onto this forum and made 377 posts by accident. Then there is your avatar... at least not a cock pick.
Yes, i like transsexuals! But I'm not going around picking out 6 year olds and wondering if they are going to become one!
Thats just weird.
As far as my avatar, Thats who I am , hence my screen name. And I'm sorry I didn't post a cock pic for you to jack off to. Maybe next time!


Sounds to me like your trying to defend this Pedophiles obsession!!! Maybe you have the same thoughts!!!
You are reading something into it that not even there. Maybe its because of your own inner wishes? (Not that i think that, but see how easy it is to spew shit?)
You and the other people that turn a blind eye to obvious tell tale signs like this guy has should be ashamed of yourself for defending him! I bet if that was your child he was writing about you would feel different about it! Or maybe you wouldn't if you think the same way he does!

Coroner
11-04-2009, 09:52 PM
Where do some people draw their conclusions to call him a paedophile?

Teydyn
11-04-2009, 10:27 PM
But I'm not going around picking out 6 year olds and wondering if they are going to become one!
He works at a school, maybe he is a teacher, then it is his JOB to wonder about behaviour differing from the norm.


You and the other people that turn a blind eye to obvious tell tale signs like this guy has should be ashamed of yourself for defending him!
Like Coroner asked, WHAT "obvious" signs are there? And why is HE the "pervert" when he asked a simple question, when the first thing YOU do is associating it with pedophilia?


I bet if that was your child he was writing about you would feel different about it! Or maybe you wouldn't if you think the same way he does!
Please again, WHAT did he wrote that should creep me out? That he DARED to say something about an 6 year old? In a non-sexual matter? Its people like YOU that freak me out, jumping to unfounded conclusions and screaming "burn the witch" on absolutely NO grounds...

barefootjoe69
11-04-2009, 11:27 PM
But I'm not going around picking out 6 year olds and wondering if they are going to become one!
He works at a school, maybe he is a teacher, then it is his JOB to wonder about behaviour differing from the norm.


You and the other people that turn a blind eye to obvious tell tale signs like this guy has should be ashamed of yourself for defending him!
Like Coroner asked, WHAT "obvious" signs are there? And why is HE the "pervert" when he asked a simple question, when the first thing YOU do is associating it with pedophilia?


I bet if that was your child he was writing about you would feel different about it! Or maybe you wouldn't if you think the same way he does!
Please again, WHAT did he wrote that should creep me out? That he DARED to say something about an 6 year old? In a non-sexual matter? Its people like YOU that freak me out, jumping to unfounded conclusions and screaming "burn the witch" on absolutely NO grounds...

How about the simple fact that he is posting on a Transsexual Porn Board about a 6 Year old boy!
To any normal person, that would raise a red flag right there!

farang
11-05-2009, 12:20 AM
His behaviour is not differing from the norm he is a 6 year old child.
Fuck sake you sick bastards. Fucking Paedo sick fuck child molesting defender.

Coroner
11-05-2009, 12:25 AM
But I'm not going around picking out 6 year olds and wondering if they are going to become one!
He works at a school, maybe he is a teacher, then it is his JOB to wonder about behaviour differing from the norm.


You and the other people that turn a blind eye to obvious tell tale signs like this guy has should be ashamed of yourself for defending him!
Like Coroner asked, WHAT "obvious" signs are there? And why is HE the "pervert" when he asked a simple question, when the first thing YOU do is associating it with pedophilia?


I bet if that was your child he was writing about you would feel different about it! Or maybe you wouldn't if you think the same way he does!
Please again, WHAT did he wrote that should creep me out? That he DARED to say something about an 6 year old? In a non-sexual matter? Its people like YOU that freak me out, jumping to unfounded conclusions and screaming "burn the witch" on absolutely NO grounds...

How about the simple fact that he is posting on a Transsexual Porn Board about a 6 Year old boy!
To any normal person, that would raise a red flag right there!

Many threads here are not porn-related. People are discussing almost everything from their personal issues to politics, history, society and more. Itīs porn that probably attracts people to join in but I wouldnīt call HA just a porn board. At least I hope so. As already mentioned, he might be a teacher and itīs a teacherīs job to observe the childrenīs behaviour and perhaps talk about it with their parents. I see no traces in his post that could make me think he might be sexually interested in that kid. And besides that, I doubt heīd be stupid enough to provide hints that could expose him as a pedophile.

farang
11-05-2009, 12:37 AM
Paedo's are stupid. Teachers are not,they are experienced and would see this behaviour as normal for a 6 year old child.
Oh my God, I can not believe how blinkered people can be. I hope this kid is not subject of this Paedoo's sick fantasy and results in harm.

bte
11-05-2009, 12:55 AM
First of all, this is not a sexual thread, so please be serious with your answers:)

I work at a school with kids who is 6 years old, and there is this boy who I really wonder about wanting to be a girl.

He is only friends with girls, and only want to be with them. That's okay by me, but I reacted to something he did today. He took a curtain and threw around himself, and said: "I have a dress", and soon he wanted to use it as a skirt.

So what do people here think: Is he a transsexual, or at least going to be a CD when he's older. And should I tell his parents about my thougts? If he wants to be a girl, I think it is better to start now when he is a kid, because of the abuse many transsexual teenagers get?

I don't know his parents so well, just by saying "hello" when they pick up their son after school, so to tell them that their son maybe wants to be a girl is not exactly a thing i want to do...

If you are not a teacher, then its just creepy. If you are a teacher, then its still not your business. I am sure that his parents probably notice that he is different. Also when did hanging out with girls become a sign of being a transsexual?

Teydyn
11-05-2009, 12:57 AM
How about the simple fact that he is posting on a Transsexual Porn Board about a 6 Year old boy!
And if he had used ANY words like cute, beautiful, "he will make a good girl" you might be right. Besides, you are posting in the same thread about a 6-year-old boy. I guess you are a pedophile then too?


To any normal person, that would raise a red flag right there!
How do you define normal? As a not-normal-person yourself? (I mean, you like TS, dont you?)
"You dont say what i say, you are evil, bad, not normal."



I see no traces in his post that could make me think he might be sexually interested in that kid.
Neither do i. And it seems neither do the others besides having fun screaming "pedo, pedo, pedo". Still waiting for anything besides: "This is a porn forum with nothing besides porn and he want to fuck the boy"



Paedo's are stupid. Teachers are not,they are experienced
Sadly not true for all (maybe even most).

barefootjoe69
11-05-2009, 06:19 AM
How about the simple fact that he is posting on a Transsexual Porn Board about a 6 Year old boy!
And if he had used ANY words like cute, beautiful, "he will make a good girl" you might be right. Besides, you are posting in the same thread about a 6-year-old boy. I guess you are a pedophile then too?


To any normal person, that would raise a red flag right there!
How do you define normal? As a not-normal-person yourself? (I mean, you like TS, dont you?)
"You dont say what i say, you are evil, bad, not normal."



Ok, you finally convinced me!
Your either a pedophile or an idiot!

muhmuh
11-05-2009, 06:34 AM
Where do some people draw their conclusions to call him a paedophile?

america?

alyssats
11-05-2009, 10:11 AM
Where do some people draw their conclusions to call him a paedophile?

america?

for real?

yes i couldnt also get the idea why many of you here think the OP is a paedophile?

tsntx
11-05-2009, 10:40 AM
youre neither a doctor nor a therapist and thus have no formal training for your diagnosis

the ONLY thing you should do is allow the child to play how he wants to play and make sure other children understand that its ok

what hes doing is NORMAL for ANY child.... trans or not

giovanni_hotel
11-05-2009, 10:54 AM
An adult or a parent doesn't necessarily need formal professional training in child behaviour to recognize when a young boy is participating in activities that are unusual for his gender/age group.

I agree the child is too young to know at this point if he will experience gender dysmorphia as an adolescent, as most boys with similar behaviors don't grow up to be transwomen.

BTW, if you aren't an educational professional at the school, watching the children that closely to notice that type of thing is NOT a good idea.

Teydyn
11-05-2009, 12:37 PM
Your either a pedophile or an idiot!
And once more you just screamed "burn the witch!" without anything to show WHY he is a pedophile. Just a top-of-the-lung scream for vengeance. Why need any kind of evidence before you do something like that...

SarahG
11-05-2009, 12:45 PM
Paedo's are stupid. Teachers are not

Not on absolute terms. There is a great deal of truth behind the "you could always teach" stereotypes.

There are plenty of brainless teachers out there.

scroller
11-05-2009, 05:40 PM
So what do people here think: Is he a transsexual, or at least going to be a CD when he's older. And should I tell his parents about my thougts?

I'll keep this brief.

(1) What do you think most parents would do when told their 6-year old is a crossdressing transexual? Hint: It will not be nice for the child.

(2) If the child comes and asks you specifically about it, then you have to be supportive and a good listener. Until such time STFU. Barging in and making an issue out of it is intrusive and creepy.

tjinla2001
11-05-2009, 05:54 PM
A friends' six year old used to dress up and prance around. They used to joke about it but in serious moments they were concerned he was going to become a homosexual. I felt sorry for the kid as the parents took him to therapist and ultimately an ultra conservative church.

He ended up a drag queen on the boulevard. Luckily I've never run into him. It would be awful to proposition to suck the cock of my friends 20 year od

muhmuh
11-05-2009, 10:01 PM
Where do some people draw their conclusions to call him a paedophile?

america?

for real?

yeah allright its a cheap shot but never fails to satisfy

GullyFoyle
11-06-2009, 07:42 AM
Where do some people draw their conclusions to call him a paedophile?

america?

for real?

yeah allright its a cheap shot but never fails to satisfy

Only if you suffer from a severe inferiority complex or try to over compensate for a tiny penis.

tsadmirer83
11-10-2009, 10:48 PM
I am quite shocked and sad about some of the ignorant people on this forum. I thought that people who liked T-girls would not jugde me as a pedophile just because i wrote about a six year old boy at a transsexual forum.

As someone here said, people write about all things here. Things that happens in their life. Because of that I see this as a forum where you can put up transsexual issues, sexual or not. And this is definately not a sexual thread, as I wrote when I started it. I just wanted to bring up my serioius concerns about this boy.

My concerns come out of how i was myself at that age. I am not a TS, but a crossdresser, and I also liked to dress up in girls clothes already at that age. I don't say that this is going to happens with this boy, but I see the signs... But I am going to keep it to myself as a lot of people here told me too...

And I have to say that it is sad that you can't bring up a serious thread about transsexual kids, if you not going to be called a pedophile...

bte
11-11-2009, 08:16 AM
I am quite shocked and sad about some of the ignorant people on this forum. I thought that people who liked T-girls would not jugde me as a pedophile just because i wrote about a six year old boy at a transsexual forum.

As someone here said, people write about all things here. Things that happens in their life. Because of that I see this as a forum where you can put up transsexual issues, sexual or not. And this is definately not a sexual thread, as I wrote when I started it. I just wanted to bring up my serioius concerns about this boy.

My concerns come out of how i was myself at that age. I am not a TS, but a crossdresser, and I also liked to dress up in girls clothes already at that age. I don't say that this is going to happens with this boy, but I see the signs... But I am going to keep it to myself as a lot of people here told me too...

And I have to say that it is sad that you can't bring up a serious thread about transsexual kids, if you not going to be called a pedophile...

Are you the kid's teacher?

alyssats
11-11-2009, 10:19 AM
just to add i do exactly the same thing when i was a kid like around 4 or 5 years old jeje :P

i also wrap around the curtain or bed sheet around my head so that i would feel like i have a long hair and i wear my mothers high heels. also my brother and sister put make up on my face they said i look beautiful ;)

LilWyte
11-11-2009, 10:24 AM
if i had a 6 year old kid and u said any word containing the world "sex" in the same sentence as my kids name i'd kill u lol

2009AD
11-11-2009, 11:21 AM
if i had a 6 year old kid and u said any word containing the world "sex" in the same sentence as my kids name i'd kill u lol

"Tough" guy. :roll:

farang
11-12-2009, 12:37 AM
Looks like Gary Glitter is in town !!

ruby6000
11-12-2009, 02:49 AM
If this is happening in school odds are his parents already know.I was like that even at a year so my fam. says.My family knew what i as going to be and let me figure it out for myself. Maybe this is what's going on at home. My teachers knew and support me to this day!e

speedstick112
11-12-2009, 06:26 AM
I don't think it's necessary to tell the kid's parents. If it's a consistent behaviour then they probably already know. It might mean something, it might not. My head was just spinning when my mom told me that her little brother (my uncle) used to crossdress. And then my uncle's wife showed me pictures of their son (6 years old) also wearing a wig and dress and stuff. Eventually they're gonna have to find out that I transitioned. It figures eh?

tsadmirer83
11-12-2009, 08:43 PM
No, I am not his teacher, I work at one of the other classes at this school, and also at some place where the kids stay after school. (Norwegian mothers often work fulltime)

archineer
11-12-2009, 08:59 PM
If you're in Norway then parental bigotry shouldn't be too much of a problem. Do you know what his parents are like? Have his teachers noticed it as a recurring thing?

Legend
11-12-2009, 09:03 PM
No, I am not his teacher, I work at one of the other classes at this school, and also at some place where the kids stay after school. (Norwegian mothers often work fulltime)

archineer
11-12-2009, 09:22 PM
Americans can be so irrational sometimes, its quite funny.

SarahG
11-13-2009, 12:13 AM
Geeze, give the guy a chance here. I haven't seen him say anything sexual about the kid in this thread.

muhmuh
11-13-2009, 02:07 AM
Americans can be so irrational sometimes, its quite funny.

and rather sad at the same time
its a weird kind of humour that makes you feel more uneasy than amused

archineer
11-13-2009, 03:32 AM
Definately- particuarly with evolution/socialism

footlong
11-26-2009, 10:51 PM
If you really want to help the boy, then leave him alone to find his own path. There's been enough cases where the so-called "experts" have messed around with the sexuality of prepubescent kids with tragic results.

No matter what he turns out to be, if his parents are intelligent and understanding he'll be fine.

Teydyn
11-26-2009, 11:21 PM
No matter what he turns out to be, if his parents are intelligent and understanding he'll be fine.
So he most probably already has lost... :twisted:

SemperFiGuy
11-27-2009, 01:57 AM
Personally at 6 I don't think a child can be anything. They say were all sexual from the day were born, but not like that, we are just aware that parts of our body feel good. I dunno, it is weird this guy zero'd in on this the way he did. Struck me as creepy also. But he could be simply clueless

liisawinklergirl
11-27-2009, 07:39 AM
yeah i think i would also advocate leaving it alone...as there are many processes that a 6 year old child has to experience before he will eventually come to a intellectual and mental conclusion that he really wants to be a woman....