Why do some TS feel it's ok to Escort but not to do Porn ?

[blacktgirls]

Some of you girls on HA seem to feel that it's ok for you to escort but you feel doing porn is demeaning . Why is this ? To me it would seem that escorting would be more likely to damage your feelings of self worth than doing porn . I see some girls on here insulting each other for doing porn but you never insult one another for escorting.

[BellaBellucci]

Some of you girls on HA seem to feel that it's ok for you to escort but you feel doing porn is demeaning . Why is this ? To me it would seem that escorting would be more likely to damage your feelings of self worth than doing porn . I see some girls on here insulting each other for doing porn but you never insult one another for escorting.

One word: privacy. Nobody films you when you escort. Well, maybe the cops do. :twisted:

~BB~

[blacktgirls]

the reason i asked this question is because of this video posted yesterday . this girl in it Nadia Styles who quit porn seemed noticeably more upset and more ashamed that she prostituted than that she did porn . and no need for the $70 jokes there have been other porn girls too like , Mary Carey , who always brings up the fact that she never went as far as escorting . there does seem to be that line into being an escort that most female porn actresses have. why do TS girls see escorting different ? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ReXkySP9ZZc

[BellaBellucci]

the reason i asked this question is because of this video posted yesterday . this girl in it Nadia Styles who quit porn seemed noticeably more upset and more ashamed that she prostituted than that she did porn . and no need for the $70 jokes there have been other porn girls too like , Mary Carey , who always brings up the fact that she never went as far as escorting . there does seem to be that line into being an escort that most female porn actresses have. why do TS girls see escorting different ? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ReXkySP9ZZc

Well that's the opposite question. I think the stigma attached to escorting is the number and anonymity of the clients a girls sees. Both business can be good or bad depending on the people and situations involved. I don't see the point in the moral relativism personally.

~BB~

[TsGiaX]

I guess you can say Privacy- But how private is it really when everyone see's your eros , Craigs, Back ads

I personally feel more comfortable escorting then doing porn
And If I ever did do porn it would just be to help the escorting!

[BellaBellucci]

I guess you can say Privacy- But how private is it really when everyone see's your eros , Craigs, Back ads

I personally feel more comfortable escorting then doing porn
And If I ever did do porn it would just be to help the escorting!

<pimp> You're hot enough. Why not try it? ;) </pimp>

Oh and by privacy I'm talking about the actual act, not the advertisement of it.

~BB~

[blacktgirls]

it' just odd that GG look at prostitution different than TS . maybe female prostitutes look at the act of intercourse as a more personally intimate act than a TS prostitute does at having their dick sucked . even Dennis Rodman told Howard Stern that a guy started sucking his dick during a sex party and that it didn't feel that bad .

[BellaBellucci]

it' just odd that GG look at prostitution different than TS . maybe female prostitutes look at the act of intercourse as a more personally intimate act than a TS prostitute does at having their dick sucked . even Dennis Rodman told Howard Stern that a guy started sucking his dick during a sex party and that it didn't feel that bad .

I think it's more of a necessity for a lot of TS girls. Since ours is such a niche industry and there are fewer opportunities for us in others, it seems like a waste not to get involved in it somehow. I mean GG's may have more guilt about prostituting and porn, but it certainly doesn't stop them from doing either.

~BB~

[LibertyHarkness]

to me i see no difference in escorting and porn.. your getting paid to fuck at the end of the day ...or perform a sexual act ... only difference on one hand your doing it for a mass audience the other is a 1 on 1 ...

But you still escape the reality that its a sexual act for money not for fun :)

Its all good in my book ... Many girls in porn escort simply as the porn work is not sustainable enough to provide a good lifestyle ..where as escorting is :) Go find enough shoots as a model each week that pay you £1500-£1700 a week...

my 2pence :)

Libb x

[blacktgirls]

it' just odd that GG look at prostitution different than TS . maybe female prostitutes look at the act of intercourse as a more personally intimate act than a TS prostitute does at having their dick sucked . even Dennis Rodman told Howard Stern that a guy started sucking his dick during a sex party and that it didn't feel that bad .

I think it's more of a necessity for a lot of TS girls. Since ours is such a niche industry and there are fewer opportunities for us in others, it seems like a waste not to get involved in it somehow. I mean GG's may have more guilt about prostituting and porn, but it certainly doesn't stop them from doing either.

~BB~ are you saying that TS girls have more of a male way of thinking when it comes to dealing with guilt ?

[BellaBellucci]

it' just odd that GG look at prostitution different than TS . maybe female prostitutes look at the act of intercourse as a more personally intimate act than a TS prostitute does at having their dick sucked . even Dennis Rodman told Howard Stern that a guy started sucking his dick during a sex party and that it didn't feel that bad .

I think it's more of a necessity for a lot of TS girls. Since ours is such a niche industry and there are fewer opportunities for us in others, it seems like a waste not to get involved in it somehow. I mean GG's may have more guilt about prostituting and porn, but it certainly doesn't stop them from doing either.

~BB~ are you saying that TS girls have more of a male way of thinking when it comes to dealing with guilt ?

No, I'm saying that they feel they have fewer options that GG's. You seem to be fishing for a certain answer here with all of the follow-up questions. Is there something in particular you're waiting to have someone say?

~BB~

[blacktgirls]

it' just odd that GG look at prostitution different than TS . maybe female prostitutes look at the act of intercourse as a more personally intimate act than a TS prostitute does at having their dick sucked . even Dennis Rodman told Howard Stern that a guy started sucking his dick during a sex party and that it didn't feel that bad .

I think it's more of a necessity for a lot of TS girls. Since ours is such a niche industry and there are fewer opportunities for us in others, it seems like a waste not to get involved in it somehow. I mean GG's may have more guilt about prostituting and porn, but it certainly doesn't stop them from doing either.

~BB~ are you saying that TS girls have more of a male way of thinking when it comes to dealing with guilt ?

No, I'm saying that they feel they have fewer options that GG's. You seem to be fishing for a certain particular answer here with all of the follow-up questions. Is there something in particular you're waiting to have someone say?

~BB~no . it's just that you wrote , " I mean GG's may have more guilt about prostituting and porn , but it certainly doesn't stop them from doing either . " , and i thought that you were implying that GGs have more guilt about doing porn and escorting .

[BellaBellucci]

it' just odd that GG look at prostitution different than TS . maybe female prostitutes look at the act of intercourse as a more personally intimate act than a TS prostitute does at having their dick sucked . even Dennis Rodman told Howard Stern that a guy started sucking his dick during a sex party and that it didn't feel that bad .

I think it's more of a necessity for a lot of TS girls. Since ours is such a niche industry and there are fewer opportunities for us in others, it seems like a waste not to get involved in it somehow. I mean GG's may have more guilt about prostituting and porn, but it certainly doesn't stop them from doing either.

~BB~ are you saying that TS girls have more of a male way of thinking when it comes to dealing with guilt ?

No, I'm saying that they feel they have fewer options that GG's. You seem to be fishing for a certain particular answer here with all of the follow-up questions. Is there something in particular you're waiting to have someone say?

~BB~no . it's just that you wrote , " I mean GG's may have more guilt about prostituting and porn , but it certainly doesn't stop them from doing either . " , and i thought that you were implying that GGs have more guilt about doing porn and escorting .

Well yeah, I think they do, but to the extent that they need the work they choose to ignore it. A lot of TS girls do the same thing, not because of a male mentality necessarily but more so because with all of the social complications of being trans, some purchasing power is a great equalizer.

~BB~

[arnie666]

I used to know a GG who did a bit of porn for some cash, it was just amateur stuff really like most porn in the UK is. She was a student and a single mum with debts, and at the time was desperate. Anyway, she told me she considered escorting but felt that it was more demeaning, she just saw porn as just like a job kind of like acting least thats what she told herself to do it.

But to her escorting was more personal , and she wouldn't know what the guy looked like ,if he was a weirdo etc, She said if he was really gross looking she would find it hard to put on an act. I got the impression too she would feel like she was kind of lower than the man, selling her body and stuff, whereas in porn the male actor is treated the same in fact he was just a walking prop .

[Dino Velvet]

When I want to see a TS, I go see this girl in the valley. She has an amazing apartment and works out of her place. I always found it strange how she could invite total strangers there. I've seen her several times but I was a total stranger once. She doesn't have a guy hiding in a closet with a shotgun or anything like that. I always wonder if she's had any bad stuff go down over there. She's joked to me about drunks passing out on her bed after not being able to get it up but that's the worst thing she mentioned. I'm there for a hot time and don't want to kill the mood encouraging her to tell me a horrible story. She's really hot but told me she has no interest in doing movies or modeling shoots.

[Bob's Tgirls]

Some of you girls on HA seem to feel that it's ok for you to escort but you feel doing porn is demeaning . Why is this ? To me it would seem that escorting would be more likely to damage your feelings of self worth than doing porn . I see some girls on here insulting each other for doing porn but you never insult one another for escorting.

I couldn't have asked the question better myself.

My thinking is that escorting is more demeaning overall and is far more risky. Escorts are sometimes beaten, robbed and even murdered. Those things don't happen on a porn shoot.

I've had girls tell me they don't want to model because a relative (father, brother) might see them. Yet they have photo ads on eros, craigslist, the papers, etc. as prostitutes. If a relative is looking for TS porn, he really has nothing to say to her about being in it. And if that relative is looking for that, he is more likely to find an ad than her photos in a pay site.

[alyssats]

When I want to see a TS, I go see this girl in the valley. She has an amazing apartment and works out of her place. I always found it strange how she could invite total strangers there. I've seen her several times but I was a total stranger once. She doesn't have a guy hiding in a closet with a shotgun or anything like that. I always wonder if she's had any bad stuff go down over there. She's joked to me about drunks passing out on her bed after not being able to get it up but that's the worst thing she mentioned. I'm there for a hot time and don't want to kill the mood encouraging her to tell me a horrible story. She's really hot but told me she has no interest in doing movies or modeling shoots.

yes thats the hard thing being an escort you wouldnt know what type of guy youll gonna meet some of them might even robbed, hit you physically and the worst kill you. scary!

[Dino Velvet]

When I want to see a TS, I go see this girl in the valley. She has an amazing apartment and works out of her place. I always found it strange how she could invite total strangers there. I've seen her several times but I was a total stranger once. She doesn't have a guy hiding in a closet with a shotgun or anything like that. I always wonder if she's had any bad stuff go down over there. She's joked to me about drunks passing out on her bed after not being able to get it up but that's the worst thing she mentioned. I'm there for a hot time and don't want to kill the mood encouraging her to tell me a horrible story. She's really hot but told me she has no interest in doing movies or modeling shoots.

yes thats the hard thing being an escort you wouldnt know what type of guy youll gonna meet some of them might even robbed, hit you physically and the worst kill you. scary!

I don't know how you girls do it. Inviting them into your own home with zero protection seems crazy to me. I hope most of you ladies have guns hidden somewhere. The girl I see is 5'6'' and the only big thing on her is her pretty tits.

[BellaBellucci]

When I want to see a TS, I go see this girl in the valley. She has an amazing apartment and works out of her place. I always found it strange how she could invite total strangers there. I've seen her several times but I was a total stranger once. She doesn't have a guy hiding in a closet with a shotgun or anything like that. I always wonder if she's had any bad stuff go down over there. She's joked to me about drunks passing out on her bed after not being able to get it up but that's the worst thing she mentioned. I'm there for a hot time and don't want to kill the mood encouraging her to tell me a horrible story. She's really hot but told me she has no interest in doing movies or modeling shoots.

yes thats the hard thing being an escort you wouldnt know what type of guy youll gonna meet some of them might even robbed, hit you physically and the worst kill you. scary!

I don't know how you girls do it. Inviting them into your own home with zero protection seems crazy to me. I hope most of you ladies have guns hidden somewhere. The girl I see is 5'6'' and the only big thing on her is her pretty tits.

Transwomen with guns? Have you gone MAD?! ;)

~BB~

[liisawinklergirl]

I guess you can say Privacy- But how private is it really when everyone see's your eros , Craigs, Back ads

I personally feel more comfortable escorting then doing porn
And If I ever did do porn it would just be to help the escorting!

i think there is a permanence in porn which I dont like...in porn you show everything but in escorting ads you don't have to necessarily show everything...I try to set a certain guideline when im posting erotic photos of myself on the net...and they're not even that erotic compared to most here!!

by saying so I am not condemning porn though...I guess in the end it all boils down to the fact that I am just more comfortable with escorting than doing porn...

[jcinva]

i think there is a permanence in porn which I dont like...

Nothing compared to the permanence of hepatitis, herpes, papilloma, or the big workplace hazard, AIDS.

By definition, your clientele are not the most circumspect or discreet of fuckers. And broken condoms are simply a matter of probability. Lay your asshole on the line and spin the wheel.

Add a little booze and indiscretion into the mix...

Hmm....

[Silcc69]

At least when u shoot porn u dont have to worry abou LE.

[Nikka]

it's because of the drugs

[blacktgirls]

I guess you can say Privacy- But how private is it really when everyone see's your eros , Craigs, Back ads

I personally feel more comfortable escorting then doing porn
And If I ever did do porn it would just be to help the escorting!do you think that successful TS porn stars make more money escorting ?

[TsGiaX]

I guess you can say Privacy- But how private is it really when everyone see's your eros , Craigs, Back ads

I personally feel more comfortable escorting then doing porn
And If I ever did do porn it would just be to help the escorting!do you think that successful TS porn stars make more money escorting ?

A well known girl can always charge more, so if shes a succesful porn star obviously her rates are going to be alot higher then another girl whose not, and she might make more money for 1 session, BUT how many sessions could she really book at that price?
Theres no right or wrong answer, theres no facts, Every 1 has valid opinions when it comes to this, Like I said I personally feel alot more comfortable
escorting, I like to have control of the situation, thank god I've never been
in a dangerous situation but I do know its possible to happen , I try to be as cautious as possible, Porn is great, I watch it everynight, I wouldnt mind being a part of it maybe in production or w/e But not actually in it.

[BeardedOne]

I'm lazy and tired, so I'm not going to read past the first post on this one.

Escorting is a night on your back.

Porn is a lifetime on the internet.

Do the math.

[TsGiaX]

I'm lazy and tired, so I'm not going to read past the first post on this one.

Escorting is a night on your back.

Porn is a lifetime on the internet.

Do the math.

Exactly , If you ever stop escorting then thats part of your pass and no one outside of the Ts scene would know (unless if u have a record) or if you decide to tell any 1 , But porn, Is something that'll never go away, and another thing that really bothers me about alot of people on here is that
theres girls SELLING their private pictures and videos on their websites
or on niteflirt and these dickheads buy them and then blast them on here
so everyone can view them for free.

[timxxx]

I'm lazy and tired, so I'm not going to read past the first post on this one.

Escorting is a night on your back.

Porn is a lifetime on the internet.

Do the math.
Checkmate

If Heather McCartney had done hardcore porn on film,instead of just escorting,she would still be Heather Mills & 20millon poorer.

[Silcc69]

I'm lazy and tired, so I'm not going to read past the first post on this one.

Escorting is a night on your back.

Porn is a lifetime on the internet.

Do the math.

Exactly , If you ever stop escorting then thats part of your pass and no one outside of the Ts scene would know (unless if u have a record) or if you decide to tell any 1 , But porn, Is something that'll never go away, and another thing that really bothers me about alot of people on here is that
theres girls SELLING their private pictures and videos on their websites
or on niteflirt and these dickheads buy them and then blast them on here
so everyone can view them for free.

This...........

[blacktgirls]

I'm lazy and tired, so I'm not going to read past the first post on this one.

Escorting is a night on your back.

Porn is a lifetime on the internet.

Do the math.

Exactly , If you ever stop escorting then thats part of your pass and no one outside of the Ts scene would know (unless if u have a record) or if you decide to tell any 1 , But porn, Is something that'll never go away, and another thing that really bothers me about alot of people on here is that
theres girls SELLING their private pictures and videos on their websites
or on niteflirt and these dickheads buy them and then blast them on here
so everyone can view them for free.there's always someone somewhere with a big nose who knows . a lot of guys print copies or save escort adds to their hard drive that they think they'll use sometime in the future . just look at all the threads of guys here wondering if some girl still escorts . as far as sharing the girls Niteflirt stuff , the guys on HA share free pics and links to free videos of the commercial websites' material and the porn producers don't bitch .... HA is a porn forum for guys to share their interest in and pics and videos of their favorite girls in TS porn. you said that you don't do porn so why be the porn police

[TsGiaX]

I'm lazy and tired, so I'm not going to read past the first post on this one.

Escorting is a night on your back.

Porn is a lifetime on the internet.

Do the math.

Exactly , If you ever stop escorting then thats part of your pass and no one outside of the Ts scene would know (unless if u have a record) or if you decide to tell any 1 , But porn, Is something that'll never go away, and another thing that really bothers me about alot of people on here is that
theres girls SELLING their private pictures and videos on their websites
or on niteflirt and these dickheads buy them and then blast them on here
so everyone can view them for free.there's always someone somewhere with a big nose who knows . a lot of guys print copies or save escort adds to their hard drive that they think they'll use sometime in the future . just look at all the threads of guys here wondering if some girl still escorts . as far as sharing the girls Niteflirt stuff , the guys on HA share free pics and links to free videos of the commercial websites' material and the porn producers don't bitch .... HA is a porn forum for guys to share their interest in and pics and videos of their favorite girls in TS porn. you said that you don't do porn so why be the porn police

Its alot more rare for someone to bring out a copy of an escort ad a few years after she retired then it is for someone to find a copy of a porn that some one did.
Im not talking talking about porn producers who are making lots of money
off of the porn they make, Im talking about the independent girls who are
selling these images of themself to make a living, and im not the porn police, although if u have an issue with my opinion simply DONT read what i write. the end.!

[fred41]

Actually I haven't seen too many girls look down on other girls for doing porn. Most of the answers given were non-judgemental....maybe I missed something.

[trish]

For my money, there’s a world of difference between escorting, modeling and acting. A person may have a talent for one and not the other. A person may simply enjoy doing one but not the other. If a girl escorts but refuses to do porn, it doesn’t follow that she finds escorting less “demeaning” than acting in porn. She probably doesn’t find either option “demeaning”; that may be more a guy thing.

[Ts CinthyaNY]

I think it s more about how comfortable you are with your job either porn or escorting... It more about exposure and how you feel about been seen by the masses, I think about my future ( even tho I have a rap sheet already ) the fact is that those images of you will be there forever and when it is in the we most likely someone who is a friend of your friend and who happen to know you will see you and well, I am myself want to have a "normal" woman life and may be in the future to be able to raise a family....

It is very personal how we all perceive this and how people around us do too, I am more for privacy and whatever happen in the intimacy of a room with one person at time ( ok may be a few ) and keep it between those walls than be exposed then on screen and everyone knows what I have there, my clients always comeback because my discretion and that if they take me out it is not like people will recognize me and tell my "T" and that make them feel more comfortable.

But my way of living it doesn't mean I should hate or be a critic of how my others TS sister make a living or manage their career on screen or not. If there is success in the porn for that gurl than great if not well that will be there hanging in someone's hard drive...

Love...

Cinthya

[drock]

I think because they can go undercover as prostitues and cant do that in porn